[QUOTE=TheCane;1663546]One time I had a date overseas with a woman I had met through an online dating site (not a P4 P thing). [/QUOTE]She didn't even offer any extra activity? What country Cane?
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[QUOTE=TheCane;1663546]One time I had a date overseas with a woman I had met through an online dating site (not a P4 P thing). [/QUOTE]She didn't even offer any extra activity? What country Cane?
[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1663630]She didn't even offer any extra activity? What country Cane?[/QUOTE]Hell no she didn't offer any "extra activity". But, I wasn't looking for that either on a first date as I am not one of those who, either consciously or subconsciously, starts treating "normal" girls as P4 P girls. I remain very aware of who and what I'm dealing with at all times (although I agree with the assertion that at some basic level all women are tutes). For some personal reasons, I prefer not to say exactly which country. I'll just say a country in eastern Europe. But just what kind of simp did she think I was anyway LOL? I showed her what kind. Gets to stepping right out of my life chick! LOL!
[QUOTE=TheCane;1663666]Hell no she didn't offer any "extra activity". But, I wasn't looking for that either on a first date as I am not one of those who, either consciously or subconsciously, starts treating "normal" girls as P4 P girls. I remain very aware of who and what I'm dealing with at all times (although I agree with the assertion that at some basic level all women are tutes). For some personal reasons, I prefer not to say exactly which country. I'll just say a country in eastern Europe. But just what kind of simp did she think I was anyway LOL? I showed her what kind. Gets to stepping right out of my life chick! LOL![/QUOTE]Hmmm unidentified country probably Ubek. Too many broads everywhere must think that men are just their ATMs. It's ok though. Us guys know better. Too many fat and ugly ones with too many issues and baggage, too. Wait until Hillary Clinton gets elected. She will take the ruin that Obama has done to the next level.
I read two articles this weekend that I think are VERY interesting regarding relationships with American / Western women.
One is about finding a feminist boyfriend / husband. It is so ridiculous that I now suspect it was satire. The author instructs women on how to identify men who support feminist goals and ideology and instructs men on how to better project feminist sympathies so as to attract more women. It came across to me as encouraging men to take on the traditional feminine role in relationships with women.
The other is about developing an alternative to traditional marriage. Academics are noting the decline in marriage rates and rise in divorce rates, especially among the poor and non-college educated. They further note that the main losers in this are the children who are born in such failed unions and are now being raised in single parent households and in poverty. One academic in particular, a woman named Belle Sawhill, is suggesting an arrangement in which a couple contract to live together for a certain number of years, agree to have a certain number of children, and then separate at the end of that time period and / or when the children are adults.
Some readers left interesting comments.
[QUOTE=George90;1664908]The other is about developing an alternative to traditional marriage. Academics are noting the decline in marriage rates and rise in divorce rates, especially among the poor and non-college educated. They further note that the main losers in this are the children who are born in such failed unions and are now being raised in single parent households and in poverty. One academic in particular, a woman named Belle Sawhill, is suggesting an arrangement in which a couple contract to live together for a certain number of years, agree to have a certain number of children, and then separate at the end of that time period and / or when the children are adults.[/QUOTE]I remember having a discussion with a college roomie many years ago who advocated this very same approach. Hey, if we went to this written contract approach to marriage, then we could write in ThatGuy's language about who stays home and who goes to work LOL! Get it all in writing and deal with any failures to act according to the deal as a "breach of contract". On second thought, we're already far too litigious a society here in the States!
[QUOTE=TheCane;1664917] Get it all in writing and deal with any failures to act according to the deal as a "breach of contract". [/QUOTE]Yeah, get it in writing. Too much trust will only lead to horrible bitterness.
Good article for those of you still playing the North American internet dating scene. Sure wish I had this guide back in the early days of internet dating. I've been tricked by my fair share of fatties, LOL.
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Like it or not, online dating is gradually taking over. As the American woman becomes more socially retarded by the minute, liable to blow her r@pe whistle if a man who isn't already among her 10,000 Facebook "friends" should so much as say Hello, to herit behooves men to adapt to the shifting dating landscape. An online-dating profile has been a part of my repertoire for some time, and it's supplied me with a healthy dose of fornications, stories to tell, and above all, wisdom.
I needn't tell you that online dating is jam packed with a host of nuisances and perils. There's the over-confident 6 whose ego has been artificially inflated by the fawning online attention of thirsty guys to the degree that she delusionally carries on like a 9 whenever she cracks open her MacBook. There's the girl with the manifesto-like profile, itemizing unreasonable demands like a hostage-taker in a movie bank robbery. Then there are the brutally repetitive jokes, clichs, and "witty" remarks that women merely copycat from one anotherand television. She's preparing for the zombie apocalypse. You should message her if you know the difference between to / too / two and there / they're / their. She took a skydiving picture. She did a novelty race where they spray you with colored powder at the end.
All of those pale in comparison to the mother of all of online-dating dangers: the Notorious S. I. F. the Secret Internet Fatty. Talk to any man who has shown up to an online date with a cute girl, only to meet 30 pounds more of that girl than he expected, and you'll know that it's among the worst sinking feelings you can have on a first date. You've been tricked and on purpose.
Girls today are masters at photographing themselves in the most flattering way possible. And, all you need to do is shadow a few of them for one night to understand how they acquired that skill: girls today spend a better part of their day taking pictures of themselves, and each other. Not only do they have thousands of pictures from which to cherry-pick the best ones, they have countless hours of practice in posing, emphasizing, and concealing. Moreover, girls receive constant input from other girls as well as their desperate online male admirers about when they look their best. A college-aged girl has an advanced knowledge of her physique and photography far beyond the average guy, even 10 years her elder. The undiscerning male online-dater is simply no match for this training.
So, what can the average man do to avoid being Secret Internet Fattied in today's online-dating world? Learn to look for the tell-tale signs of the SIF:
1. [B]Has no body shots, only tightly cropped face shots, or very few pictures in the profile.[/B]
No matter how much feminists and fatties kick and scream otherwise, girls are hardwired to know that their body is their number-one asset in attracting a mate. If a girl conceals this information from you, you can rest assured there's a (good) reason. It will never be an accident. An all-headshots profile will mean a dumpy, fat body.
2. [B]Apparent wild swings in body weight in her photographs.[/B]
You can be certain that if she has pictures of her as both thin and as fat, she's currently in the fat stage.
3. [B]Pictured with food or talks about loving food.[/B]
Fat girls take a lot of pictures of themselves with food because, quite simply, they spend a lot of their time eating, and eating out is the only social activity they know. A girl who talks about how much she loves food or how much of a "foodie" she is lives to eat rather than eats to live. That almost always means fat.
4. [B]Has fat friends.[/B]
There's good science that shows that female friend-groups gain weight together. If she associates with fatties, according to her pictures, there's a good chance she's fat herself by now.
5. [B]Uses Myspace angles, or similar forms of photographic subterfuge.[/B]
Myspace Angles, that is, taking picture from above to reduce her visible size, may be an old trick, but it sticks around because it works.
6. [B]You cant see her collar bone.[/B]
One thing Myspace Angles and similar tricks can't hide is the absence of a collar bone. If you can't see it, she's overweight.
7. [B]Has sausage fingers.[/B]
Even if she succeeds in hiding everything else, her hands are a reliable tell-tale physical sign.
8. [B]Overemphasis of one feature, to the exclusion of others.[/B]
Since girls are keenly aware of their bodies, they know what looks good and what doesn't. If they're only showing you one thing repeatedly, it's because there's something wrong with the rest.
9. [B]Describes herself as average or curvy.[/B]
"Average" and "curvy" have become, almost exclusively, euphemisms for fatness. Even "athletic" isn't a reliable predictor of a fit physique, since a lot of fat girls will do zumba one day a week, only to drink Starbucks milkshakes on the other six.
10. [B]No new-looking pictures.[/B]
One of the most effective tricks is to simply use pictures from when you were skinny. While there's no reliable way to inoculate yourself against this move, you should look out for signs that her pictures aren't new. How's the image quality? What's happening in the background? What do the captions say?
[URL]http://www.returnofkings.com/19383/10-tell-tale-signs-shes-a-secret-internet-fatty[/URL]
[QUOTE=SavePros321;1666516]7. [B]Has sausage fingers.[/B][/QUOTE]I look at the arms also. Dead give away.
[QUOTE=SavePros321;1666516]Even if she succeeds in hiding everything else, her hands are a reliable tell-tale physical sign.[/QUOTE]Sexy hands are my turn on.
She does seem to want to grow a cock and emasculate her man. Notice how AW criticized her for having a successful marriage. And she's hot. Good for them.
[URL]https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/candace-cameron-bure-i-want-my-husband-to-lead-107638431337.html[/URL]
[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1667667]She does seem to want to grow a cock and emasculate her man. Notice how AW criticized her for having a successful marriage. And she's hot. Good for them.
[URL]https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/candace-cameron-bure-i-want-my-husband-to-lead-107638431337.html[/URL][/QUOTE]Nice. She's one in a million. I was reading in the Santo Domingo thread (DR) about some guy bringing a dominicana back to USA and, as others know, not a good idea. The term he used was "bitchinized". I think this applies to any foreign woman who spends any length of time here in USA, especially East coast or California (besides maybe a short visit). Keep them in their home country where they are not tainted by the fat ass, mouthy see*s that characterize AWs (and from what I've heard many Europeans, Canadians and Australian feminists). Thank God for foreign women!
[QUOTE=DCups;1667696]Nice. She's one in a million. I was reading in the Santo Domingo thread (DR) about some guy bringing a dominicana back to USA and, as others know, not a good idea. The term he used was "bitchinized". I think this applies to any foreign woman who spends any length of time here in USA, especially East coast or California (besides maybe a short visit). Keep them in their home country where they are not tainted by the fat ass, mouthy see*s that characterize AWs (and from what I've heard many Europeans, Canadians and Australian feminists). Thank God for foreign women![/QUOTE]That alone show what most know. The women are not different. Its their environment. If the woman were naturally different and that's how she wanted to be. You could take her anywhere and she should remain the same.
But what this show and as you even stated. If they are in an environment where they can have the choice and ability. They don't want to be the docile women they must be in their countries.
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[QUOTE=DCups;1667696] Santo Domingo thread (DR) about some guy bringing a dominicana back to USA and, as others know, not a good idea. The term he used was "bitchinized". I think this applies to any foreign woman who spends any length of time here in USA, Thank God for foreign women![/QUOTE]He should have known better. I witnessed Dominicans being biatches in their own country. That can be a tough place. Pinays, in my opinion, have the best temperament and are reasonably safe to bring back to the 1st world. I have seen many, many successful unions of AM / Pinay, and relatively few examples of them turning against the man.
[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1668179]He should have known better. I witnessed Dominicans being biatches in their own country. That can be a tough place. Pinays, in my opinion, have the best temperament and are reasonably safe to bring back to the 1st world. I have seen many, many successful unions of AM / Pinay, and relatively few examples of them turning against the man.[/QUOTE]You obviously don't live in or been to Southern California. San Diego and L. A. Are full of "Green card" pinays who left their "Old" husbands for green pastures. Especially military.
That's how I found out about Angeles city. We used to got to Chula Vista and National city (one of the biggest cities w / filipinos) where the filipina's hang out to score. The after party was T. J. It's there a Navy guy schooled us about AC and Subic (showing pics of his escapades). The rest is history.
[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1668179]He should have known better. I witnessed Dominicans being biatches in their own country. That can be a tough place. Pinays, in my opinion, have the best temperament and are reasonably safe to bring back to the 1st world. I have seen many, many successful unions of AM / Pinay, and relatively few examples of them turning against the man.[/QUOTE]I agree. One of my best friends is married to a pinay and through them I know many pinay married here. Most live in happy marriages.
[QUOTE=AskeAske;1668191]I agree. One of my best friends is married to a pinay and through them I know many pinay married here. Most live in happy marriages.[/QUOTE]No, no, no, this threads purpose is to bemoan and vilify. Your perfidious vile will earn you no points here despite being a fresh breath of reason.