Overseas Not Answer....Sex Site... Not Eternal Love Site
[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney]Big Daddy, I just can't quite see it like you do.
I have always been in a position of power in a relationship, somewhere in the area of 70-30. I take it as far as I wanna take it. I could have been married at least twice.
What stopped me was the feeling I could improve my situation. [/QUOTE]
What do you mean by a position of power? Relationships especially with an American woman are supposed to be 50/50. Unless you found some American women who were blind, deaf and dumb. I see guys in Asia all time in a position of "power" only because their spouse is economically dependent on them...an independent woman is not going to put up with bullshit. If you don't fly right she will deep six your ass.
You said that you left your last girl because you felt you could find something more attractive... and now you want something damn near 10 years younger then you. Too each his own but all women youth/beauty will wane and so will yours. I guess to you it matters not what’s in her head and in her heart.
[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney] Its been just about 10 years since my last long term relationship and since then its been filled mainly with disappointment after disappointment. [/QUOTE]
So going overseas you think will solve this? I have told you the common denominator with women overseas is either money or a visa. Especially dealing with the second and the third world. I have had more exposure to Filipinas more then any other ethic group when it comes to dating and the ones that have money they are no different then their American counterparts. I really don't have experience with a lot of European women but I have worked around a lot of Bosnians and central Europeans and they are more the same as what I describe. The ones without money will fuck just about anything. The ones with are just as bitchy and dismissive. Like I keep yelling. WOMEN ARE THE SAME
[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney] I've traveled up and down the state, out of state and now out of the country just to be let down or take the wrong direction
When I should have taken a risk, I keep the sure thing and wasn't happy.
When I should have taken the sure thing, decided on "risky" it blew up in my face.
The conclusion I have come too is that at my age (late 30's), is a hindrance to my ultimate goal to date in America. The shit just doesn't work! Sure I can find childless women over 30, but the risk outweighs the reward in my book. [/QUOTE]
Man what is it that you are looking for? A EE women even educated would have to jump through hoops to get credentials accredited in America. In the mean time you would have to take care of her. Are you ready for that?
[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney].... etc long term it keeps relationships fresh and doesn't get dragged down with day to day stuff that you seem to dread.
For me, I can't afford to travel that often nor do I want to put money into the weakening American P4P market or make frequent trips to Canada or Mexico, it just doesn't make much sense to me.
So what are my options? [/QUOTE]
Bruh I like having my freedom. I like being able to go where I want and do what I want to do. If you in LTR this is difficult. My ole lady if she was an American no way would I be able to live the life I live...
P4P is not the answer long term. I have been mongering 3 1/2 years straight and I getting tired of it. Not tired of women just tired of the P4P scene. As men we are hunters what good is the hunt if you pay your prey to lay down and die?
[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney]While Marriage might not be ideal for you and you've been sold some "Wolf Tickets" you're calling might be the incurable bachelor and honestly who has a problem with that these days?
Maybe your mother???[/QUOTE]
Marriage is not ideal for anyone. Most of the guys on here talking how much they love their wife but you catch them at massage parlors in Thailand and other shit. Some the most hardcore mongers on this site are married. I don't think mongering was anywhere in those marriage vows.
Also DJ what are you doing on this website if you are looking for marriage?
This is a site for guys looking to find women for sex.