If you get married in the US, and have hidden bank accounts, you will end up committing perjury in the divorce process. That's a serious felony. Just something to think about.
But fuck the US. I'll never go back.
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If you get married in the US, and have hidden bank accounts, you will end up committing perjury in the divorce process. That's a serious felony. Just something to think about.
But fuck the US. I'll never go back.
[QUOTE=Dickhead]If you get married in the US, and have hidden bank accounts, you will end up committing perjury in the divorce process. That's a serious felony. Just something to think about.
But fuck the US. I'll never go back.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I've thought about that, BUT I would NEVER have a personal account in my own name that was meant for emergency situations such as my escape. In that respect, if she wanted to come after my PERSONAL account, she could HAVE the pennies it contains. As a "show" of relinquishing to her "what's hers" (what she feels she DESERVES) I'd gladly give up some token assets that would appear to leave me destitute so she can do her victory dance. After she celebrates and the party tent is wrapped up, I go on about my life FAR AWAY from her and enjoy a new life while she never hears from me EVER AGAIN. The idea is to erase my existence as best I can. "Out of sight, out of mind".....
It just goes to show you how much the system is stacked against us.
Women want equality.... as long as it doesn't cost them any of the unfair advantages they currently have over us.
In principle, I don't mind the idea of paying alimony/support payments. However, it's this whole open-ended thing that pisses me off. Where did this whole idea come from that we have to keep on paying forever?
If men were to get together and become politically activist in the same way that women have been for the last few decades, we could probably undo a great deal of the damage.
A few good ideas....
Arbitrated divorces. ie. No more laywers goading separated couples into long and costly legal battles.
Pre nups that hold up.
Time limits on alimony based on time married, who initiated the divorce etc.
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(aside from the years of rejection after being heartlessly exploited) was actually in a strip club (don't ask me why I thought of this at 3:30 in the morning). There is a gigantic one in Chicago which I used to frequent before I discovered p4p. After spending way too much time and money there, I came to discover something. While the Latina's, and EE's, (there was only one Asian girl and I wasn't into her big fake tits) were almost a sure bet for some very mild extra fun (copped feels, sucked nipples, being fingered etc) in the back room, MOST of the homegrown AW's had a policy of putting on a big show to sell a dance, and then once they got you hooked, doing in some cases the absolute minimum possible (in a grindy club, some were even like "I'm just eye candy for you". ) I remember telling one beautiful Polish girl "some of the other girls tolerate having their nipples sucked on....you actually encourage it!!!!" It was very telling.
[quote=Bart9000](aside from the years of rejection after being heartlessly exploited) was actually in a strip club (don't ask me why I thought of this at 3:30 in the morning). There is a gigantic one in Chicago which I used to frequent before I discovered p4p. After spending way too much time and money there, I came to discover something. While the Latina's, and EE's, (there was only one Asian girl and I wasn't into her big fake tits) were almost a sure bet for some very mild extra fun (copped feels, sucked nipples, being fingered etc) in the back room, MOST of the homegrown AW's had a policy of putting on a big show to sell a dance, and then once they got you hooked, doing in some cases the absolute minimum possible (in a grindy club, some were even like "I'm just eye candy for you". ) I remember telling one beautiful Polish girl "some of the other girls tolerate having their nipples sucked on....you actually encourage it!!!!" It was very telling.[/quote]
Heh, I know what you mean, Bart. I found out by serving in the Navy for a number of years. With the homegrown AW's I could never get the time of day, and this was the case ever since I was born. On my first overseas deployment, however, it was a completely different story; I must have had a different girlfriend every month. I never changed anything about myself, yet I was suddenly appreciated by the fairer sex. This was true in every country regardless of socio-economic level with the exception of one (the U.S., of course). In fact, it seemed that I was not the only one to notice, because nearly every servicemember I knew had a similar experience.
Smut Villain,
What countries were you deployed to? Are there any that you remember, excluding ChingChongLand, being above/below average for picking up good short term girlfriends? Although Ive travelled alot, I usually only spend a few days in a country, which is usually not enough time. Besides, living in Argentina, everyplace seems like a step down in terms of women. But I would like to broaden my horizons and take some longer trips next year.
joined the Army Reserve-just missed going into Gulf War I by a split training arangement, and spent two glorious summers training at Fort Dix,NJ, and Fort Benjamin Harrison, IN (It was paradise I tell you). To think, that I could have known 13-14 years ago what I know now!!!! Dad was Navy too. He tried to tell me but......
[QUOTE=Moore]Smut Villain,
What countries were you deployed to? Are there any that you remember, excluding ChingChongLand, being above/below average for picking up good short term girlfriends? Although Ive travelled alot, I usually only spend a few days in a country, which is usually not enough time. Besides, living in Argentina, everyplace seems like a step down in terms of women. But I would like to broaden my horizons and take some longer trips next year.[/QUOTE]
After 10 years of deployments the list runs a bit long, so I'll just get right to the point.
I've had success in [u]Norway[/u] (of all places!) If you are into blonde Scandanavian "goddesses" then you can't go wrong there, plus I found them to be quite approachable (an "average joe" couldn't get within 10 feet of these babes in the U.S.) [u]Denmark[/u] also rocks in this regard.
[u]Mexico[/u] is one of my all-time favorites, but not just for mongering. If you stay away from the tourist traps and venture a little outside of the red-light districts you can find some surprisingly nice women (of course, the further away from the border the better the quality IMHO)
Despite what some of the nay-sayers tell you about CBGB's claims, [u]Australia[/u] is top-notch when it comes to meeting women; very nice females, and very aproachable. CBGB is not out of his mind - I've seen first-hand evidence of a lot of his claims.
I know you didn't want me to mention any Asian locales, but I must include [u]Hong Kong[/u] in this list. The [i]fastest[/i] pick-up I've ever had in my life occurred there; I met a girl in a club (Neptune's? I forget the name) and went to bed with her [b]30[/b] minutes later! :D
[u]Fiji[/u] was also good for some fast pick-ups, but I had to look [i]hard[/i] for anything I'd consider getting naked with.
I also recommend [u]Nova Scotia[/u] for some action. Halifax was [i]very[/i] good to me (someone said it was because there were too many homosexual men there, but I'm not so sure that's true - don't believe everything you hear)
I almost forgot - [u]Spain[/u] deserves a toast. I had a wonderful time in Rota (wink wink).
As you can imagine, every return trip to the U.S. was a disappointment to me after visiting ports-of-calls like these. At times I wished I could stay on deployment forever. I did notice that in most of the "good" ports where prostitution was legal, the non-pros exhibited a slightly better attitude. I still wonder if there was a connection?
I have seen quite a few Asian women in this region of the world but for some reason I just don't find them interesting. Smut Villain's rundown of places is pretty accurate, I don't think anyone can go wrong in places like Spain and Norway, although Norway is kind of expensive for tourism. The reason why pros and nonpros might be better in these areas are complicated, usually I think its more due to the fact that feminism and women's liberation is weaker in these places, there is also less economic activity and opportunity so women might be more eager to enter sex work than in the States.
I met an Argentinian woman in Spain, and Dickhead is one lucky Joe to be surrounded by these types of women. Dickhead, when you were mentioning machine gun toting police, are you sure you were talking about Argentina, or was it Brazil? I have been to Rio a couple of years ago, its pretty dangerous but the chicas make up for it.
[QUOTE=Sun Devil]Darkseid:
Interesting observation between prices and the attitudes of girls in certain countries. By the way, I take it that you are Asian due to the comments you made about German providers being fair regardless of whether one is old, fat or Asian, otherwise you just pretty much insulted this group of people.
Well, I hope that they remain fair by not increasing prices next June due to the World Cup championship.[/QUOTE]
Yes, I am an American born Asian guy and proud of it but life as one has been made harder by negative stereotypes accepted mostly in the East coast such as us being barbaric and eating dogs and cats, us having small peckers, and us rushing people for seats on the subway. I experience these stereotypes less in the west coast or midwest. In fact I did an experiment in Match.com or Yahoo Dating.com where signed in as an Asian guy in the territories of New York and Las Vegas and I got more hits in Las Vegas than in New York. This goes to show how nasty big city East coast AWs are versus Midwest.
Also statistically there is a much greater divorce rate in the big cities such as LA, Boston, and NYC than in the sprawling communities and this has a lot to do with the city's economy. In NYC, you need more money to even exist or breathe than you do in the Midwest. Finances has a lot to do with AW's greed and divorce rate. AWs in the big cities expect to meet a guy who will pamper them because they think by moving into the big city, they can meet a Donald Trump but 90% of the people are struggling average Joes like myself trying to make a dime to "Survive- paying rent, eating and paying tickets earned from these ridiculously strict New City Major Bloomberg laws while not being able to afford entertainment". They marry people like us disappointed and end up divorcing us and try to squeeze what's left of our wallets and then some because they are angry that we are not Donald Trump. Notice that there are less AWs that stay in the Midwest than ones that move into the city. The ones that move into the city are brainwashed into a more glamorous life of the big city. Once they move there, they find themselves struggling and desperate to make ends meet so some end up becoming escorts for the Girl next door type brothels that charge $200 an hour until they can find some sucker to marry.
The ones that stay in the Midwest are the ones that are satisfied with the simple country life (except for Las Vegas where you have the best of both worlds- a big house in a sprawling community and the wild LV Strip life). They don't need to find a guy who is loaded because in the Midwest you can live on half the salary you need for the big city where everything costs double. My older brother is happily married to a girl from Ohio who moved in with him in Philly while I am still stuck here with greedy scavengers of AWs that have alterior motives.
Also I noticed that the better priced independent women are the ones from Europe, Canada and Asia and even ones from the Midwest. The European and Asian ones charge $150 to $200 an hour. The ones born in small towns work in agencies charging $200 to $300 and hour while the New Yorkers and assimilated New Yorkers charge $500 and up. How greedy can New York women be!! The best source for looking up these independents are the New York City Escort Magazines found in newsstand. You'll see what I am talking about with the prices. Also the women change almost every month because they are in the business for the short term so it is imposible to review each one of them. I had done a woman name Liz who was a great lay with BBBJ but no longer works in the business. She worked from her apartment and said that she wants to make enough money to go home to her parents in Wisconsin because she just lost her job and spent all her savings on rent, food, and other living expenses. She no longer is listed in the sex guide. My old sex guides are no good and have to keep buying new ones each time I feel like doing it.
I spent most of my time in New York since early childhood, people in the Northeast tend to be arrogant and nasty no matter what you do. I can tell you that it really doesn't matter what you are in New York because no one gives a shit regardless of what your race or ethnicity is, I experienced some reverse discrimination for being white in a primarily non-white part of the city. I remember an elderly schoolteacher neighbor of mine was taunted by a large group of black schoolchildren, who called her an old fart and all sorts of nasty things, she happened to be born in Scotland. I spent a lot of time in the South, around Atlanta, and the people there are a lot friendlier than Northerners, the Midwest, Rocky Mountain region, and the West Coast is better too, the company I worked for transferred me to Australia, and I have been here ever since, decided to remain permanently.
I lived in Philadelphia for a while, I thought it was a dump, but unlike New York people would give you the time of day, but still it was a cold place not easy to meet people. Of course if you wore a NY Giants sweatshirt around the now demolished Veterans Stadium, you would get your ass handed to you. Tried to look for work in San Diego and Denver, my two favorite places in the States, but no dice.
[quote=darkseid]Yes, I am an American born Asian guy and proud of it but life as one has been made harder by negative stereotypes accepted mostly in the East coast such as us being barbaric and eating dogs and cats, us having small peckers, and us rushing people for seats on the subway.[/quote]
People still believe this shit? Damn, people are fucking ignorant!
[quote]lso statistically there is a much greater divorce rate in the big cities such as LA, Boston, and NYC than in the sprawling communities and this has a lot to do with the city's economy. In NYC, you need more money to even exist or breathe than you do in the Midwest. Finances has a lot to do with AW's greed and divorce rate. AWs in the big cities expect to meet a guy who will pamper them because they think by moving into the big city, they can meet a Donald Trump but 90% of the people are struggling average Joes like myself trying to make a dime to "Survive- paying rent, eating and paying tickets earned from these ridiculously strict New City Major Bloomberg laws while not being able to afford entertainment". They marry people like us disappointed and end up divorcing us and try to squeeze what's left of our wallets and then some because they are angry that we are not Donald Trump.[/quote]
Too damn true. I guess it's all those "Sex in the City" reruns...
[quote=CBGBConnisur]The reason why pros and nonpros might be better in these areas are complicated, usually I think its more due to the fact that feminism and women's liberation is weaker in these places, there is also less economic activity and opportunity so women might be more eager to enter sex work than in the States.[/quote]
CBGB, I'd never thought of that angle but maybe you have a point. Personally I always thought it was due to the laws of supply and demand: here in the States a man has to jump through a million hoops just to get a chance at some pussy (unless he pays for it), and for various reasons the "price" for a piece is always subject to ever-increasing inflation. In these other countries, however, a man can always get some on the side with no hassles if his lady isn't treating him right, and the women darn well know it. "Devalued" pussy does not make for an effective weapon/lure so the women usually have no choice but to step their game up a bit and drop the attitude.
BTW, the West Coast absolutely [b]rocked[/b] for me (esp. San Diego). I can't wait to return one day.
[QUOTE=Smut Villain]People still believe this shit? Damn, people are fucking ignorant!
Hey, that's NOTHING compared to what I heard from a buddy who went to basic training at the same military installation I did (Ft. Dix). He told me a guy in his platoon asked a drill sergeant with a honest, STRAIGHT FACE: "Drill sergeant, is it true that black people can run between raindrops"? When I heard that shit, I laffed so hard I almost pulled an abdominal muscle! Now THAT is ignorant!
I happened across a porn site featuring amature Aussie girls-since a couple people brought them up. PM me for it.
can someone tell me more about these scandinavian babes? how tall are they really? what type of guys do they prefer? would you marry one?
it's funny cause if any of you keep up with the reports from norway and sweden, you can see that those two countries are a hell of alot more feminist than america. for example, laws mandating that 40% of all top level executive positions be filled by women, calling for the elimination of marriage because it is "men enforcing slavery upon women", requesting that men sit down while they [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord111][CodeWord111][/url], taxing the entire male sex because 1% of men are [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord127][CodeWord127][/url]. the list goes on.
i think american women were taught to hate men. it is so ingrained into their collective psyche that they dont even realize they blame men for all of their problems. so i wonder how super-feminist countries like norway and sweden escape this.
or maybe it goes back to the whole victorian attitudes that still havent dwindled away in anglo societies: that women's sexuality is virtually priceless, while men's sexuality is worthless. thus giving women power simply because they have vaginas.
also wanted to note that when i was about 19, i met a swedish girl in one of my classes. she was about 5'9'', thin, and blonde. she was the most kind girl i had ever met (in the us). she would go out of her way to help me. the only time she ever refused to assist me with anything was when she had a previous obligation, namely class.
i honestly didnt realize how special she was while she was still around. she had to go back to sweden because she was a "study abroad" student. she wrote me twice once she got home, but i didnt think much of it cause i figured i'd never be going to sweden anyway.
now i wish i had her back. she's probably got 3 kids by now though. oh well.
come to think of it, all of the foreign women i've met in the states have been good to me. from the fulbright scholar from belgium, to this swedish girl, to polish, russian and ukrainian women. it is a good thing living in an area with many immigrants.