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I too at times am accused of being gay. I don't care.
I spend all my money on travel and longterm investments and look it. I drive an old Honda Civic. So I don't get the third degree too often. But when I do see an aggressive AW starting to get her claws into me or acquaintances wish to fix me up with their friend I simply shut down in a polite manner. This is effective in all aspects of my life including my professional world. I am quite adept at deflecting the nosy questions. I learned years ago to never mention my frequent trips to Japan or within the US to meet my Japanese internet friends. I used to tell people and be more open about that aspect of my life, but got sick of being labeled "desparate" for not accepting some fat manly AW who is out for my family's money and social status.
Funny how male sex tourists are considered criminal sexual predators at worst and skeevy perverts at best, while female sex tourists going to the Caribbean are glorified in Hollywood movies!
Thanks for the article Ezinho. Classic AW attitude and delusions. Disgust at the idea of sex honestly bought and sold as opposed to the typical AW tease/extortion/unfulfilled promise approach to sex, disbelief that an attractive well-adjusted young man would do it, retarded childish images of how it really goes down in TJ or any such place, and refusal to accept that these TJ workers are probably more STD-free than young drunken AW bar skanks. I'm sure the closing vignette is pure fiction. Her query resulted in deathly silence in the bar? Latino guy abruptly halts his pool game out of disgust? Uh huh.
Another issue. Latest analysis of census data shows that women age 21-30 in NY and several other major cities (I recall Minneapolis/Boston/SF perhaps) are making 18% MORE than their male counterparts! So much for the feminists ranting about being in a society "dominated" by the "patriarchy".
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[QUOTE=George90]I would have kept the ball in her court with questions as to why she dated a Honduran, why she couldn't find a US man, if she wasn't interested in US men any more, etc.[/QUOTE]
Good questions, but I did not really care why she dated the people she dated. I just wanted the evening to end. I was really unhappy it did not come crashing to an end at the mere hint of South American women.
The fact that it did not crash, well, I think that would have been an encouraging sign if I had been interested in an ongoing conversation or even a relationship with her. I figure we may have shared some ideas about how the world works.
Also, I'm not clear on why finding a person who is "passive, compliant" is a bad thing, regardless. I'm not even sure I know what those words intend - seven months ago I took a young woman from behind, across a dining room table. She basically passively accepted everything I did to her. After, she seemed very happy that I was happy.
Such a tight little dress.
I can't stop thinking about it. I can't stop thinking about her. Personally, I feel like she has a lot of power over me, which she gained largely through being "passive". Relationships are complicated little machines, ya know.
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Cocha Monga
MILF
Oh help I am MILF. Please let me defend my breed just a bit. All MILF are not self obsessed man haters.
I love men. I don't expect them to pay for my dinner. I don't expect them to do all the chasing and I certainly don't expect all the men I got to bed with to be under 30. I also don't have any female health problems.
Yes I am proud to say I am nearing the end of child bearing age. I don't think this is a problem. In fact I think its a plus. There are many men out there who have been trapped into child support by a young girl looking for an easy road. I am past that game or the urge to breed to trap any young man. If a man finds me attractive no matter what his age I will take him on his merits not his wallet.
Maybe this is something that us girls from Down Under in Australia and New Zealand do and your northern hemisphere girls have forgotten or maybe they are just far to money orientated. That is why the Eastern European the South American and Asian girls are still so attractive. Like us girls from Down Under they still respect men.
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Milf?
I am very sorry...but WHAT the heck is a MILF???
anyone?
sounds pretty scary to me.....LOL
(I am Dutch)
Johan
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MILF = Mother I'd Like to F***. Refers to a woman over 35, possibly a mom but not necessarily, who is still desirable.
In the US if they're still hot at that age, there's nearly always a lot of BS, gold-digging, bitterness, and psychological baggage to go along with it. On the other hand I've encountered many hot doable EE, SA, and Asian women of that age who are healthy and ripe for action.
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I agree with the whole not showing the wealth thing and have been playing that card down here quite successfully. "Toro, why don't you buy a car?" "I can't afford a car. I am a school teacher and I only have work half the year." That is true as far as it goes. I wear jeans, running shoes, and a T-shirt ("croto") almost everywhere although I will upgrade to Dockers and Hush Puppies with a collared shirt if I invite a woman out somewhere. You don't want your apartment to be too nice, either. I have quite a reputation down here for being cheap ("tacaño") and the joke is "Toro speaks good Spanish but there are still some words he doesn't understand, like "regalo" (gift), "propina" (tip), and "shopping" (shopping!)." They fuck me anyway.
AWs blew me off even though I had a house, a nice truck, an advanced degree, and a white collar job. Here I have no house, no car, and they couldn't give less of a shit about my three degrees, and they are just glad I have A job. Most of them don't even understand what I do. Last night I had what I believe to be a MILF although she is only 33. She does have six kids. If you saw her in the boliche you would not say, "Man, I gotta have some of that." But she comes over once every couple of weeks, fucks me, I make a nice dinner, she does the dishes and cleans the kitchen, we chat for a while, she fucks me again, I give her about forty dollars, and she leaves. So for ten dollars an hour I am renting a wife who will do absolutely anything in bed at any time, is horny as hell, never flips me any shit, and we genuinely like each other. She can cook too if it ever becomes necessary, which it probably won't. She is very clean, uses the bidet, hangs up her towel, puts the cap back on the shampoo and toothpaste, etc. The last thing she does before she leaves is wash the beer glasses.
So why doesn't this Jennifer Cooke write about THAT?
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Germans have it much better than Americans, you Germans have a strong Euro that enables you to travel to Eastern Europe for cheap, and former Eastern Bloc is a gold mine when it comes to finding women. In the USA you lose interest in females because of the high maintenance attitudes and BS that you have to put up with. Despite having a woman head of state, I don't think German women are as assertive as American females, but still there is a big influx of EE women in Germany so you have an alternative.
In family court in the USA, the male is always guilty no matter what, they are always biased towards the female. Men are automatically criminals, even many laws are heavily skewed towards making men the criminal. The media is even worse, NBC did some special about male sexual predators and it failed to even mention that its just as common for women to sexually exploit younger men.
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I think it's time for me to kinda repeat myself on here. A lot of AM are *****ing about AW when they need to take a look at the bigger picture, at the moribund culture they themselves are helping perpetuate. The fact is in America it is JUST as fucked up as a woman looking for a man as it is for a man looking for a woman. I'm sure you could find parallel rants on other boards by women saying just about the same thing all the angry guys on here are saying.
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Well, a lot of us, like me and CBGB just to name two, have left the country so we ain't perfuckingpetuating things any more, che.
But I don't agree with you that it is "just as fucked for woman looking for a man" in the US. In fact, I find that statement completely ridiculous. Ludicrous, in fact. Asinine.
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As for American women, when I am gone. She works her work, I mine. Blameless, all the way round.
The way Dickhead spells out his life, it just sounds dreamy. I'm sure there are some downsides, but it sounds like he's crafted out a great way of living. That's where I want to be. Straight Shooter's FAQ on retirement in Bogotá, Colombia was a watershed post along these lines:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=465517&postcount=456[/url]
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german women OT
OOO boy...you realy (obviously) never stayed in germany to see how german women "interact" with men.....
jeeezzzzzz...these critters are in to "sex and the city"and Ally Macbeal crap big time....
cheaper????less bad attitude????
LOL
NFW
EEW cheap??? I kindda doubt that. You ever been in Moscow or any other large eastern european capital??? Let me tell you something: THEY ARE FAR FROM CHEAP!!
strong euro??? OOO man did you know we pay USD 7.30 for a gallon of gas???? Housing is very very expensive...for a normal small house (not a new one)you pay 130.000 euros..!!!! hows that? Many married collegues ENVY me...becoz I can go 1-2 times a year on a fuck trip...wereas they only can go to Turkey for 2 weks in an all in resort with their BUTT ugly wifes.....!!
if you go to a *****house( a club) you pay at least 100 Euros for an hour of FS.....and if you don't give her at least 2 drinks.....well you will see how a "dead fish"is like!!!! been there done that.....
thats why idecided to spend my cash in south america.....there i can fuck a 22 yo MILF.....that looks tasty and yummy.....;-) less money...and way better attitude....tell you that!
LOL
Johan
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[QUOTE=George90]I have noticed that increasing numbers of US women are dating or married to Asian men (Chinese, Indian). Based on the behavior of the men, I strongly suspect it is because AWs are able to find passive, compliant men among the immigrants from these countries.[/QUOTE]
I've noticed the same thing here in Canada. Lot's of local women going and getting hitched to some guy from wherever.
What's the common thread? Most of these guys appear to be the educated, hard-working type. Just the kind of docile, non-threatening type of man that these women would feel safe with. Th kind of guy who likes slaving away to pay for all the things the woman wants to have.
Not just that, but I'd bet good money a lot of these guys are doing this as a way of staying in the cuntry (oops, I meant country!) The really funny part is.... a lot of guys from these countries are true world-class mongers. Skillful, sly and daring..... they could screw a hundred girls on the side and their wife will never know. :D
Rock
ps. I'm with Johan007 on the topic of German women. You might do OK with them in certain isolated circumstances. But, if all GWs are that great, why does one see so many German guys in Thailand, Phillipines, DR, Cuba, Brazil etc. looking for local talent?
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Johan, 130k euros for a house sounds CHEAP to me... here even in the South Bronx you'd be hard pressed to find anything for less than $400k US.
Dickhead, well unless one of us comes across some compelling evidence, we'll just have to agree to disagree. But IMNSHO it's a case of BOTH sexes setting having way too high standards compared to what they are bringing to the table. Quid pro quo, baby.
That's why there is such a high rate of guys getting burned by those dating agencies too. Unrealistically high expectations, combined with SEVERE culture shock on the part of the girl. Often these girls believe the stupidity that the middle class lifestyle in the USA is one lived in the lap of luxury, and they are in for a rude-ass shock when they get here. Not to mention, even in NYC and Miami, immigrants are usually further down the social ladder here than they were in their home countries, and that stings, as well as the discrimination they may well face here.
Now add to that the fact that the woman is often 10000x more sexually attractive to the opposite sex than her mate and often these relationships have an age gap of a generation or more, it's a long shot at best. These guys would do a fuck of a lot better off procuring the services of a pro and forgetting about the idea of a long term relationship completely!
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It goes without saying that any guy who uses a "dating agency" is a douche bag and a loser who lacks the balls to do any kind of face to face. That has zero to do with what I am talking about.
Unfortunately many American men are so pussy whipped they would consider a mail order bride or some hag they met on Craig's List. All I can do about that is apologize on behalf of my native country. Many American men are also downloading porno and whipping the skippy and they find this an acceptable alternative to flesh and blood interactions. Many are married to women who are fat, ugly, and sexually disinterested.
So, they could grow some balls, and divorce their fat wives, and get in the game. That, of course, assumes they are not fat, bald, out of shape, impotent losers themselves. Many, of course, are. It is difficult to grow balls in middle age when your nuts have been squeezed dry by years and years of ball busting, ball draining women. I understand all of that.
But if you got some game and some cash and are smart enough to pour [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] out of a boot without somebody having to write the directions on the mother fucking heel, Latin America might be a destination. Why? Because the women love cock, like men, are ingrained to want to have a man, and will not bust your balls IF (very important!) you take control from the start. Latina women live at home until and unless they get married so they are really most comfortable taking directions and letting daddy, older brother, or YOU make all the decisions. Ask them if they want to eat at restaurant X or restaurant Y, listen to their opinion, and then say, "Well, let's go to Y." And so forth.
Then when (not "if") you get them in bed, don't be all like um um um could you maybe um ... (like you would do with an American woman).
'Cuz they don't like that!
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[QUOTE=Johan007]OOO boy...you realy (obviously) never stayed in germany to see how german women "interact" with men.....
jeeezzzzzz...these critters are in to "sex and the city"and Ally Macbeal crap big time....
cheaper????less bad attitude????
LOL
NFW
EEW cheap??? I kindda doubt that. You ever been in Moscow or any other large eastern european capital??? Let me tell you something: THEY ARE FAR FROM CHEAP!!
strong euro??? OOO man did you know we pay USD 7.30 for a gallon of gas???? Housing is very very expensive...for a normal small house (not a new one)you pay 130.000 euros..!!!! hows that? Many married collegues ENVY me...becoz I can go 1-2 times a year on a fuck trip...wereas they only can go to Turkey for 2 weks in an all in resort with their BUTT ugly wifes.....!!
if you go to a *****house( a club) you pay at least 100 Euros for an hour of FS.....and if you don't give her at least 2 drinks.....well you will see how a "dead fish"is like!!!! been there done that.....
thats why idecided to spend my cash in south america.....there i can fuck a 22 yo MILF.....that looks tasty and yummy.....;-) less money...and way better attitude....tell you that!
LOL
Johan[/QUOTE]
180,000US for a house in Germany??!!! Wow, in NYC, I can't get an apartment even in Brooklyn or Queens for that little. Oh I have been to Germany, I was in Dusseldorf, there are a lot of good FKK clubs in that part of the country, many of the women were Eastern European and the service was excellent, it was as little as 40US dollars for a good time. I also went to the Ukraine and Poland and good quality was cheap too.
I agree Moscow is super expensive but there are dozens of other places in the former Eastern bloc.
I also agree South America has excellent p4p.
I honestly have not seen too many white women with Asian guys, its a lot more common the other way around, maybe 20 to 1.
I was quite impressed with the quality of public transportation in Dusseldorf, it was easy to get to almost all the brothels there by bus or train, and that should say a lot because I from NYC, even NY's public transport is shit, and I do know gas costs $7 plus a gallon in Europe, but there is no parking there anyway, and more people use diesel over there and smaller cars.
I would say though that Latin America or the former Eastern bloc would be better for pussy than Germany, but still there are good options in Germany compared to other Western countries. Everything in the US is illegal, up north in Canada, there is Montreal but Germany is better for a Western country.