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[QUOTE=Rubber Nursey]Actually, it was my deep love of sex and variety and the touch of a stranger that allowed me to fuck countless men day in, day out. I don't personally know any sex workers who hate men. Even the lesbian girls I've worked with don't dislike men. Personally, I think that's a myth the feminazis tell you so you won't see us as anything more than a blow-up sex toy, devoid of emotion. (And then maybe you'll hate us as much as we supposedly hate you. Score 1 for the soccer mums).
[/QUOTE] Hear! Hear!
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[QUOTE=Rubber Nursey]That makes absolutely no sense to me, AB. These women hate men, so they choose to have sex with them all day for a living? I don't get it. Where on earth does this man-hating wh*re myth come from?[/QUOTE]
It makes perfect sense to me. These wh*res are not sleeping with men because they love 'em. It's all for money. This hatred helps them get through the daily chore of sleeping with all these men. You might call it twisted thinking, but a lady friend who owned a brothel told me........hmmmmm who on earth has ever been able to figure out women.
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[QUOTE=Rubber Nursey]I don't personally know any sex workers who hate men. Even the lesbian girls I've worked with don't dislike men. [/QUOTE]Hate is probably too strong of a word, but I do imagine there is a lot of burnout in terms of losing respect for your clientel, just as a public defendant might start hating the people he has to defend in court or a waitress starts hating her patrons as a group.
But I have to agree with you... I haven't felt very much hate in dealing with prostitutes. The occasional one that doesn't like her job much or is having a bad day, but no hate. Mostly just a friendly customer relationship and surprisingly often a really fantastic rapport and a great time.
Women are women at the end of the day and I for one am very happy they make up 51% of the population.
Prostitutes who hate men are most likely those forced into the trade or those who somehow were damaged (disease, violence etc.) working. Their hate has less to do with the trade itself and more to do with the circumstances they are forced to work under. Nobody likes to be forced to do something.
Girls working on their own free will are more likely to view everything in a healthier manner. These are the kind of girls I seek out.
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It’s dangerous to marry any woman, prosty or not. Marriage is a business and you’ll always have to turn something over to the other party without ever being 100% sure of their intentions once the contract has been signed. The perceived danger with marrying a prostitute is that she may be more skilled than the average woman at making one feel good without having any genuine interest beyond the financial rewards. However, the real danger comes from the man. Can he separate business and pleasure? Will he always be suspicious of his former prosty? Is he jealous and capable of acting violently on those feelings of jealousy? Is he obsessed with the physical beauty or supposed submissiveness of his prostitute? He might be falling in love with the service rather than the person providing the service. His prosty might turn out to be completely different when not on the job. She might be providing certain things to clients that she is not crazy about but which she does anyway for increased customer satisfaction or greater financial rewards. She might not want to do those things in a non-paid capacity. Then there are her motivations for being a prostitute. Is she a prosty because she needs to finance a drug habit or shopping addiction? Maybe she is just not into monogamy and since you’re mongering you’re probably not either which raises serious questions for the both of you. Can she trust you not to be out fucking other prosties while you’re expecting her to stay at home playing the faithful little wife?
A lot of these issues apply just as well to “normal” women but it is a lot easier to ignore them and fool yourself into thinking that they’re not applicable. Marriage doesn’t change people’s habits or proclivities. In my life I’ve met women who were ruthless, deceitful and greedy, being a prostitute wasn’t a pre-requisite for any of those qualities. I’d say marry all the prostitutes you want as long as you’re being realistic and taking the necessary steps to protect self and wallet. In any case, you’re going to pay for the pussy.
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I think the danger is two-fold just as you see it.
Will the guy be able to handle the fact that his loving missus has sucked a gazillion cocks or had sex with guys better-equipped and skilled than he is?
Will she still consider turning some tricks to get some mad cash? (assuming he wants her to quit the business)
What if her old job (assuming kept secret) comes out and the neighbors start talking?
Lots of issues that could come up. Would take a strong relationship and some very level-headed people to come to terms with it.
Not sure I could, even despite best intentions.
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[QUOTE=Doctor_Skank]Hate is probably too strong of a word, but I do imagine there is a lot of burnout in terms of losing respect for your clientele...
But I have to agree with you... I haven't felt very much hate in dealing with prostitutes. The occasional one that doesn't like her job much or is having a bad day, but no hate.[/QUOTE]
Thanks, Doc. :) I agree with everything you said. (Except women make up 54% of the population in Oz! There's a man drought!!!) I absolutely DO NOT believe that 'most' hookers hate men. It's all part of the fantasy.
Actually, we probably like you guys more than the average woman does! We know what you want and where you're at. We understand you. I've heard several thousand mens' life stories over the years and it wasn't in polite conversation. They were naked. Raw. Emotional. They trusted me to never repeat their story (and I never would) so I've heard it all. I think so much like a man, it does my head in.
Anyway, this is going a bit off topic (although the Morality thread would love to hear from you if you have more to add!) What I originally wanted to say, before I saw AB's post and went off on a tangent, was that I think a 'regular' girl is more dangerous than a wh*re when it comes to seeing you as a wallet.
I would think that 'foreign' women who do not work in the sex industry (and therefore, do not earn two or three times the average weekly wage) would be more likely to see you as a meal ticket than a hooker, who generally needs more than money (ie. love) to walk away from sex work and settle down with one man.
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Chocha/Doc - well said. Your posts made me cry (see the Morality thread for more information). You're totally right. Men need to be sure that THEY can handle a relationship with a wh*re/ex-wh*re before they talk about marriage.
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[QUOTE=Punter 127]Hear! Hear![/QUOTE]
PS. Thanks, Punter 127! :)
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[QUOTE=Tarius Shinobi]Strippers hate it when a guy enters the club, has money & doesn't spend it on them! The power is ours & always will be![/QUOTE]
You walked into the club in the first place, mate. You sit there and watch because no 'regular' woman is willing to shake their arse in your face. The power is theirs. Get over yourself.
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[QUOTE=Rubber Nursey]You walked into the club in the first place, mate. You sit there and watch because no 'regular' woman is willing to shake their arse in your face. The power is theirs. Get over yourself.[/QUOTE]You have no idea what 'regular' women do for me! And I am free to enter any strip club that I please! If I want to hold onto my money, I can do that too.
You don't know what you are talking about!
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Can we stop the ad hominem shit and get back on topic PLEASE?
I dunno why you guys would pooh-pooh what RN says, she's in a MUCH better position than ANY of us to know what she's talking about. Most of us can only ASSUME what those girls REALLY think about us because they are going to be real nice to us no matter what, for business reasons. When she comes in with INSIDE INFO we should be eating it up!
Anyways I also agree that you're more likely to get a gold digger by marrying some Latin American barrio girl than by marrying a professional sex worker, by FAR. Sex workers already HAVE their own money first off.
I also find it supremely ironic; here we are, a site dedicated to PAYING FOR SEX and we have all these dudes in THIS section complaining about AW's supposed lack of monogamous tendencies? Monogamy? WTF does ANYONE on this board have to do with that? I strongly STRONGLY suspect none of you motherfuckers on here really WANT monogamy. I know I for one sure as fuck do not!!
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[QUOTE=Bango Cheito]? Monogamy? WTF does ANYONE on this board have to do with that? I strongly STRONGLY suspect none of you motherfuckers on here really WANT monogamy. I know I for one sure as fuck do not!![/QUOTE]
Yeah I smell what you are cooking and I am ordering seconds....
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[QUOTE=Bango Cheito]Can we stop the ad hominem shit and get back on topic PLEASE?
I dunno why you guys would pooh-pooh what RN says, she's in a MUCH better position than ANY of us to know what she's talking about. Most of us can only ASSUME what those girls REALLY think about us because they are going to be real nice to us no matter what, for business reasons. When she comes in with INSIDE INFO we should be eating it up!
Anyways I also agree that you're more likely to get a gold digger by marrying some Latin American barrio girl than by marrying a professional sex worker, by FAR. Sex workers already HAVE their own money first off.
I also find it supremely ironic; here we are, a site dedicated to PAYING FOR SEX and we have all these dudes in THIS section complaining about AW's supposed lack of monogamous tendencies? Monogamy? WTF does ANYONE on this board have to do with that? I strongly STRONGLY suspect none of you motherfuckers on here really WANT monogamy. I know I for one sure as fuck do not!![/QUOTE]
Hey I do!
But I see both sides of the coin.
Prostition is a Service Industry... In that sense, it provides me with a service I don't mind paying for but deep down wish I didn't have too, which is why I haven't explored it further locally thus far (trip to TJ in the very near future).
There is a certain amount of risk in any relationship, nothing is fool-proof.
I ain't the one complaining about AW's lack of "monogamous tendencies". I'm complaining about the qualifying list that is lengthy and unessassary because it doesn't guarantee lasting happiness or martial bliss.
It usually set you up for failure, hence all the divorced women in America....
I can dabbled in erotic services it doesn't mean I rather not be married, quite the Contrary....
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[QUOTE=Rubber Nursey]Thanks, Doc. :) I agree with everything you said. (Except women make up 54% of the population in Oz! There's a man drought!!!)[/QUOTE]Interesting, always wanted to visit, thought I would go home disappointed though. Its on the "To Do List" however.
I think there's a "man" shortage everywhere but America, where we are outnumbered but not nearly as in-demand. In fact those of us on the "Road Show" barely put a "dent" into "Missing" or "Where are all the good men" argument that's out there.
These women could care less and only complain about a lost or missing man when we come back with a foreign born gf or bride.
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[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney]Interesting, always wanted to visit, thought I would go home disappointed though... Its on the "To Do List" however.[/QUOTE]
Don't bother, DJ. Most of those women are over 50. :)