Dealing with American courtesans
Lots of good posts here, funny, informative, and right to the point. Makes for good reading and learning all around.
On the subject of games, come on now, most women love them. They play games, act like drama queens, and throw invisible gauntlets down for the man to surpass in their mind. Why do you think women love soap operas, Housewives, Sex and the City, and gossip magazines. They can include this drama in their lives by manifesting it in Games. Create drama to feel like they are a character out of Sex and the city. I was a participant in "The Life and Times of a NYC Courtesan" starring ..... ..... until I wised up before my wallet went bust. When I was straight up with no games and just a gentleman it got me nowhere. Now that I can dish out the business, things are more on an equal level. It's a shame though. When traveling to other countries I get by on my own merits with no games for the most part.
Have a friend that pulls lots of chicks. The way he does it is by maintaining the big willie rap star image. He's got the fur coat, bling bling, Prada shirt, luxury cars, etc etc. Pulled one aspiring model type by telling her "you might have seen me in a 50cent video". Another one by flashing cash, and still more by alluding to big money connects and entertainment hookups. Hey, Who can resist a non-threatening, cool, rapper type anyway? Most of these chicks are barracudas though, so it hard for him to keep their company. They have real ambitious goals like copping E, emulating Brittany, meeting rapstars, partying hard, driving Lexuses, and being shallow. I dealt with one dancer chick one time and her behaviour was such a turnoff I didn't even bang her when the chance came. He's a great guy, good looking, and real personable, but this is what he has to do to get with these girls.
A Woman's Take On Why Men Monger
the following is from an advice column in the most recent edition of a tabloid called the [b] new york press[/b] =
how many hookers have the horndogs hired?
by judy mcguire
[email]dategirl@nypress.com[/email]
i've had girlfriends, and now a wife, but i've never been with a
pro. drawing on your extensive research, can you tell me how those
experiences differ from dating or marital sex? is it the attraction
of the illicit, or just the desire of a professional to please a
client, or is there something more to it?
—name withheld
there are about a million different reasons one decides to go the
pay-for-play route. a girlfriend of mine hired a variety of male
escorts in order to get back at her philandering husband. another
pal is very specific about his physical specifications—he likes big
butts and he cannot lie! he can't always find these qualities in
the women he dates, so he occasionally leases.
the rent-girl/boy's appeal is obvious; an attractive someone comes
over to your apartment (or, even better, a hotel), you give him/her
an agreed-upon fee, he/she gives you an orgasm. there's no need to
sit through his band's cd or feign interest in her extensive
collection of troll figurines. you both know what you're there for,
so you don't have to engage in that sometimes exciting, but
all-too-often-exhausting, mating dance.
we womenfolk like to think it's just the grotesquely disfigured
fella who's hiring all those hookers. you know, the man so
physically repulsive it renders him completely unfuckable by all
but the most strong-stomached and well-paid professionals. but
contrary to what we ladies might want to think, these poor souls
are the minority. lots of guys—lots of perfectly good looking,
normal guys—either have paid or will pay for sex at some point in
their life.
it's not like you can tell a potential hooker-hirer just by looking
at him. sure, some guys are easy—the leghumping douchebag you
caught peeking through the crack in the ladies room door, the
asshole misogynist who works in sales, the cripplingly shy nerd who
walks your dog—these guys are all likely candidates. but what about
that sweet elderly gentleman who's dating your aunt sarah? he may
be ponying up sawbucks to have an **** tranny take a crap in
his mouth.
then there's the dude who wants what he wants when he wants it.
when he decides he'd like a little oral action and he's either
temporarily single, or out of town or in the mood for a redhead
instead of a blonde, he dials 1-800-blowjob, much in the way he
orders a new pair of pants. for him everything boils down to
commerce, and he gives getting laid about as much thought as he
does getting a boil lanced.
of course there are the scamps who get off on the thrill of doing
something naughty. much like so many young girls think themselves
all scandalous by playing lesbian 'til graduation, these guys will
eventually grow up and realize that there's really very little that
will shock anyone anymore.
then again, there are the women-haters who feel that at base all
dames are *****s anyway, but i like to think that there aren't too
many of them.
some johns are just bored and horny, still others have a kink
that's not easily negotiated in "mainstream" society. i mean, there
are women who won't put a dick in their mouths. imagine what
happens to a guy who is really out there in terms of what gets him
hot? can you understand how frightening it is for the average guy
to tell his new girlfriend he can only get off if he's dressed in
full stinky [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord131][CodeWord131][/url], with a ball gag in his mouth, the soundtrack
from diva on volume 11, all the lights on and the curtains open? at
best, your average woman would think him a freak; at worst, she's
laughing at him, then running out the door while screaming. but
with a hired helping hand, he doesn't have this worry because
anything that he could possibly cook up, there's no doubt she's
seen weirder.
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The World's Women versus American Women
A good way to get an idea of American women versus foreign women is to visit Canada. In Montreal, for example, a good escort costs about $100 US, a similar quality girl in a medium sized US city will charge at least $300 and in bigger cities it will get even more expensive. In Montreal prostitution is legal, and the more European culture tends to look at sex as less of a big deal. A woman isn't a sort of prize that she is in the States. In fact, walking down a street in Montreal during the summer one will be amazed at the sheer quantity and quality of women.
If you go to Europe or Latin America it gets even better as there are gorgeous ladies everywhere. I vacationed recently in Austria(not to be confused with Australia where I currently reside as an expat) and the houselady was this rather attractive Bulgarian 20 something. She was a very stunning women, yet was amazed me was how approachable and friendly she was, she even offered to personally take me on a tour of the city where I was visiting, Vienna. Most of women of her caliber in the States are often arrogant and condescending yet this girl was nothing like that. I was walking down the street in Vienna and I saw a lot of elegant looking European women who were completely approachable. Similar women in the States(if you could find them) would not be so friendly. If I walked up to a total stranger and played stupid, I would get a friendly smile. In some instances, I would be able to get their phone number for a date, and this was in a middle of a large European city!! Some mild diplomacy went a long way. Something like this would never happen with women in Boston or some other big city in the States.
Sound familiar? Very sad....
No sex thanks - I'm Australian
March 09, 2005
From: AAP
AUSTRALIAN women are fatter and less interested in sex than a decade ago with many more single and childless, according to a government report released to mark International Women's Day today.
The Women in Australia 2004 report also shows that almost three quarters of the nation's women do little or no exercise and continue to earn less than males, receiving on average 84 per cent of the amounts earned by the opposite sex.
But more women than men are studying and women's labour force participation has hit its highest level with 66 per cent of all women working.
"Today is about celebrating those achievements and inspiring a commitment to sustaining and improving the position of women in Australia," Family and Community Services Minister Kay Patterson said.
The report shows the median age of Australian women has increased to 36.9 years in 2003 from 30.8 years in 1983, more than half are not interested in sex and about a quarter will not have children.
The number of women living alone rose to 13 per cent in 2003 from 11 per cent a decade earlier, while about 43.2 per cent of women were now likely to be overweight and 17.4 per cent were likely to be obese.
The report was compiled using a variety of studies from the Australian Bureau of Statistics and health organisations.