I agree that it is not a one-way street.
There are lots of fabulous looking AW and lots of fat & ugly AM.
And there seems to be a lot of bitterness and woman-hating guys in here.
But I think there are two fundamental problems with American culture that guys here are trying to deal with (or avoid).
Problem #1 is that many women have been socialized to believe that being sexy is the opposite of being smart or good, rather than a healthy complement to those qualities. Thus a woman can let her looks go, justifying it as unimportant, since "she is not THAT kind of girl" and believing that her other qualities should more than compensate for this superficial shortcoming. Of course the irony of this is that a woman who has "let herself go" probably lacks some important internal qualities like discipline, healthy habits and self-perception.
The other insidious part of this is that western women then downplay the importance of sexiness and sex in their relationships. Once hooked, it is okay to turn off the taps. Sexiness is just for cheap girls anyway. Whereas women in other markets understand fully the importance of keeping their men satisfied at home - knowing there are women out there who will please their men if they don't.
Problem #2 is that couple's attributes can diverge over time. Yes lots of women lose their looks after child birth or years of hard work, while many men gain stature and prestige through professional success - and physical good looks were always defined differently for men in the first place and not so susceptible to the ravages of time. (Of course the reverse also happens, just not so much).
So we end up with a middle-aged couple - the woman well past her glory and the man in his prime. The man still wants sex and excitement, but probably has to go outside his marriage to obtain it. This is common to many cultures and countries. But many cultures have created coping mechanisms - often a mistress culture or at least a greater difference in age from the beginning. In other countries the wife knows that as she ages her husband will probably want to take a younger mistress and more or less accepts this reality, whether consciously or not. Couples live and let live. The man just wants to have fun and the woman just wants a contented home and security.
But in America an extra-marital affairis almost always a marriage-buster (regardless of how commonplace they are), leading to an expensive and acrimonious divorce. Even prostitution is illegal, which is not the norm in the rest of the world. And both these actions still carry a certain social stigma. This is not the case in many/most European countries and certainly not in the third world.
So a guy is trapped with no easy outlet for sexual gratification, unless goes outside the societal norm and blows up his marriage.
[QUOTE=Thatguy865]I think a lot of this is just generalizations. There are fat and ugly women in every country who are married.
There is no country where the majority of women are beautiful. If that was the case, it would be known all around the world.
Also AM have to also look at them selves. A lot of AM are just as fat if not fatter than AW. So if anything they match, its not a one way street.
If you are good looking then you will attract and can get good looking AW, unless you lack confidence, or are impatient and think a woman is suppose to fuck you just cause you ask. Otherwise there are plenty of fine AW.
Let face there is every race on earth in America, so if you like japanese women. America has them.
You like Brazilian. America has them.
You name it. They are in America. So obviously there has to be plenty of beautiful slim AW.
A lot of mongers are just salty on AW because they have had bad relationships or been turned down by the beautiful women, so their only recourse is to put them down to justify having to go where there are easier pickings.
Most of the time its easier not because the women are different. They are just poorer and looking for the best provider like AW.[/QUOTE]