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My update on the topic.
I havent posted for over a year but after the last few weeks of being beat up i thought i would share some of the latest here from the EV of Manhattan USA.
I have a rommate here from Australia, a 33 yr old Chinese Australian woman. She is, to me, a sort of average looking woman, not terribly interesting although she does have an unusually large upper body. =-)
This woman, even as average as she is, has been propositioned at least a dozen times in just a few weeks. She seems to just expect to be fawned over and last night at the bar was a great example.
She had at least 3 men hanging on her more or less begging for some lovin. She again turned them all down.
I, on the other hand, sat there with my dick in my hand for about a 1/2 hour looking around for someone to talk to. Nada.
What would it be like to have so many options? I mean, i am a successful entrepreneur, with decent looks, great health, freedom, great family etc, etc, and i cant catch a fucking cold in this city.
I keep hearing that women outnumber men here? I have to be looking in the wrong places. Even the female dogs here have multiple multiple options for relationships.
WTF is going on?
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That's why I left New York Fucking City, I now actually live in Australia, the women down under are alright by me, have treated me good. New York is a shitty place, its dirty, the people are aggressive and nasty, and you get ripped off for everything. Things aren't going well for you, then leave, who gives a shit if things didn't go well for you in NYC, visit other places, you won't even remember New York after you do.
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I wish it were that easy CBGB, but when youve got your business set up here, family and friends its not easy to pick up and move to a place like CR. Although over the coming years I may do just that.
Another trend and characteristic of the AW that is a sure tip-off is their ability to cook. This woman here does not know how to cook. How is that possible? Think about it, it means she was raised in a home where things must have been chaotic. How would a mother not teach her own daughter how to cook?
When I meet a woman and she says her ability to prepare a meal does not go past ordering from a local place it is an immediate X in the negative column.
I think it has to do with the total rejection of the concept of the housewife that these women strive toward. The whole idea of Susy Homemaker is all but evil and with that the beautiful art of preparing a wonderful meal for someone else gets removed from the equation.
This manipulative "c-word" that is my roommate doesnt know how to cook at all. She wont do her laundry but yet shes got about 10 hopelessly fawning NYC losers just hoping for attention from her. Its sickening.
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[url]http://www.wjla.com/news/stories/0705/242170.html[/url]
[QUOTE=mister_smooth] Another trend and characteristic of the AW that is a sure tip-off is their ability to cook. This woman here does not know how to cook. How is that possible? Think about it, it means she was raised in a home where things must have been chaotic. How would a mother not teach her own daughter how to cook?,,, The whole idea of Susy Homemaker is all but evil and with that the beautiful art of preparing a wonderful meal for someone else gets removed from the equation.[/QUOTE]
Hey, I'm a good cook and so is Dickhead. Sorry but the idea of making you food does not enthrall me. Maybe sign up for a cookery 101 class and pick up a nice AW there. Or do you prefer your women pre packaged and pre loved?
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Boy, out of all the Australian women that you could have ran into, you ran into a bad orange. I personally avoid the majority of Asian women in Australia. The only ones I have found to be decent come from Malaysia, Thailand, and Singapore. You can't collectively label all Asian women as one entity, there are different cultures in the region, and some Asian women are ultra materialistic and as superficial as an upper class American woman, especially those from Japan, S. Korea, and HK. As far as getting laid, regular European Australian girls serve my purpose just fine, they don't seem to be as motivated to get into gold digging since these long time Australian women live in one of the most comfortable societies in the world . The theory of East vs. West is bullshit, I have met a lot of white women from Eastern Europe, Western Europe, South America, and Australia/NZ that are quite honest and don't bullshit with me and were the most honest and true women I have known. I never go for some broad from some ultra desperate country, those issues cloud her true reasons for her interest in me.
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Mister_Smooth
Did your roommate tell you why she left Australia in the first place & did she ever comment on her treatment while she lived down under? Just curious.
As far as cooking, Domino’s article in post #2589 is a good one. I think the article is dead on about all of the pressures pulling people out of the home.
Part of the reason is family life is not valued anymore. Remember when schools taught home economics? Not anymore, I guess the school board feels that home-ec is no longer important (however, passing out condoms, informing kids of their abortion rights & teaching kids about alternative lifestyles/alternative families – now that’s important). Throw in television, pop music, feminism & government, and the traditional family is being attacked from all angles, so it is inevitable that traditional activities would begin to suffer.
Another reason is people are too busy to do anything but work. People say they are too busy to exercise, too busy to sleep more than 5 hours a night, & so busy that they are too tired for sex. Now I don’t know if people truly are too busy, or if people have become spoiled & are just too impatient, but time wasting activities like cooking are no longer high on the list of priorities.
Anyway, thanks for posting Mr. Smooth.
Here are some articles about the busy lifestyles of modern people.
[url]http://abcnews.go.com/WNT/Health/story?id=868775[/url]
[url]http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/wales/3053186.stm[/url]
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[QUOTE=CBGBConnisur]you ran into some slant eyed reject.[/QUOTE]
Gee, and in a post such as this you come off as such a charming racist and so full of overall good will it's hard to imagine that all women, including those in NYC, don't simply flock to you!
I understand that this is the unofficial "trash women and get your overall bile out" thread, but even here the limits and guidelines of the forum should be observed. Your attack on Domino was also over the line -- whether you care for his posts or not, personal attacks of that ilk are really inappropriate.
I've spent time yakking in this thread in the past because at times there's very interesting discussion, but other times this ends up simply being a pool of catty whiners who simply relentlessly attack anyone with a divergent point of view. I recall a post a while back discussing the horrifying conversation someone overheard from a group of women at a table -- this discussion of late could make that one seem downright friendly. Lighten up, guys!
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Joe, a friend of mine who visits Thailand three times a year, uses that term quite liberally. Anyway I'm trying to make a point on the East vs. West dichotomy. This thread was originally trashing American women, as they deserve it more than any other identifiable group of women. Some people have made additional insinuations about "Western" women, referring to European, Canadian, and Australian women. They use the term "western" as a pc way of mentioning white women. Some have used the collective label of Western women to include all American, Canadian, European, and Australian women as being in the same boat. This is highly inaccurate, as I have found some beneath the surface differences between all these groups. Some have tried to compared Asian ladies to Western women, I have actually met many caucasian women who are perfectly fine and turned out to be some of the best experiences I have had. I have met Asian ladies who turned out to be the biggest dragon ladies I have met, thinking they would use me as a bank account and a ticket to a visa to a more comfortable western country. I think the real problem women are American women, other than that only British women are almost as bad but less obnoxious than their US counterparts.
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I've spent plenty of time in Thailand, and I've never used the term, so what the heck does your comment mean? Liberally used racist remarks are still racist remarks, and the use of them undermines rather than strengthens your point. [i]My[/i] point is that there are standards for discussion on the board, including not using racist terms and not engaging in personal attacks on other members, and I'm calling on folks here to keep them in mind.
As far as your point about Asian women -- if you think money and potential economic status isn't an important factor in basically all economically depressed areas you're fooling yourself. The fact that it's seen as a normal and understood thing in many Asian cultures simply makes it more apparent, as there's no reason for subterfuge. Keep in mind that in many cases daughters are sent into prostitution because it's seen as a viable way for them fulfill their obligation to support their family -- why would a foreign male be looked at as some sort of special case where economics is not a factor? Social climbing is world-wide -- I remember reading newspapers in New Delhi where families were hawking their "rich, handsome merchant-class" kids to "poor and plain" Brahmins for marriage as a way of moving future generations up the caste ladder.
I agree that there is a difference between Eastern and Western women, and I agree that there is variation between "all Western women" and American women, in the same way that there are differences between, say, Italian and Russian women, as cultural differences obviously come into play. This is hardly a deep point.
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I changed the phrase "slant eyed reject" to " bad orange " to make it more pc. However the Asian women I was mentioning come from rich countries, Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Hong Kong, and Singapore, these places are hardly economically depressed and match the big four EU countries in terms output. I have met nice women from the former Soviet bloc and they weren't so aggressive about money as their Asiatic counterparts. A Bulgarian woman I met in Germany, earned my trust so much, that I kept the doors of my apartment open and never had one thing of mine missing. She wasn't as materialistic as some Asian women I have met in the States.
One of the reasons I am iffy about Asian women is the way an African American friend of mine was treated by a Japanese waitress, its absolutely unacceptable, if the waitress was a waiter, I would have punched his lights out. The same friend of mine went everywhere else in Sydney and was treated good by the local ladies, a lot of women stopped him and tried to get his number, some wanted his autograph or to take a picture with him. If the same guy gets treated like a superstar by blonde hair blue eyed Australian women, I don't know what some slant eyed twat has against him. I have noticed on quite a few occasions that East Asian people are very racist towards darker skinned folks. This is the same friend of mine who was stationed with me in Germany in the early 90's, who also got plenty of good attention from German chics. I ain't racist, I got friends of many ethnic backgrounds.
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Karla
Karla Homolka is not a French-speaking Canadian. She is from Ontario and is an English-speaking Canadian.
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French Canadian women are okay by me, I thought they were among the best in the world.
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The more I read CBGB's posts, the more I come to the conclusion that he just doesn't like women. I don't think its the case with most of the guys on this thread, but a lot of men who patronize hookers actually hate women despite loving sex. CBGB seems to fit that profile.
Travis Bickle.,,aka Civ2000
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[QUOTE=Domino]If you want to know what the problem with many AW is, maybe look in a mirror. I went through some of CBCG's very many posts:almost all of them were on AW, the morality of skanking or German clubs. If Aussie women are so great, go out and fuck them, if you can, and quit complaining about women an ocean away from you. Get over the fact that AW rejected [/QUOTE]
Domino, Exactly! I've always noticed with me and all my friends that we quit complaining about the ex as soon as we're with a new woman and getting laid. If I am living in Australia and getting laid by beautiful women, the chances are almost nil that I'll post a hundred reports bashing AW. I'd get over it pretty quickly I'm sure.
These guys sound like a bunch of nerds who still haven't gotten over that Jr. High cheerleader that wouldn't go to the dance with them. They are middle-aged men with balding heads and beer bellies who are whining because some twenty-year-old won't date them here in the states. On the other hand, they refuse to date forty-year-old women that would probably treat them great. Hmmm...how strange a man complaining about American women, when they are the exact mirror image.
Of course the only reason a hot young American woman would date a guy like you is for your money. If they want to get laid they would pick a young hot guy. Its even that way in every country. Maybe in Australia there is less competetion for good-looking women. Anyway, none of the semi-good looking, and semi-successful guys I know in this country have any problem finding good women, and they certainly don't have to travel 8000 miles to get laid.
I can see maybe 1-5 posts complaining about American women: but when you do it everyday for months, a single word comes to mind: LOSER!!!
Travis Bickle
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[QUOTE=CBGBConnisur]I changed the phrase "slant eyed reject" to " bad orange " to make it more pc...
One of the reasons I am iffy about Asian women is the way an African American friend of mine was treated by a Japanese waitress, its absolutely unacceptable... If the same guy gets treated like a superstar by blonde hair blue eyed Australian women, I don't know what some [b]slant eyed twat[/b] (yeah, this is Mister PC all right --JM) has against him. I have noticed on quite a few occasions that East Asian people are very racist towards darker skinned folks. This is the same friend of mine who was stationed with me in Germany in the early 90's, who also got plenty of good attention from German chics. I ain't racist, I got friends of many ethnic backgrounds.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, you ain't racist, except agin dem dam Asians, what make up more'en haff the world. Puhleeze! This has nothing to do with being PC, it has to do with following forum rules. Being "iffy" would be a major improvement.
And again, you show that you have little understanding of Asians and their perspectives regarding social mores. A dislike of dark skin is not at all uncommon in Asian countries, but it's not about race, it's about class -- many Asians are leery of getting out in the sun lest they get darker, and thereby look like farmers, that is, poor folk. And no one wants to look poor, even if they are, because that means you're from the lower class and are treated accordingly. There's no question that there is a strain of xenophobia among the Japanese and Thais, among others, but you could also take a look at the posts of Meatman, who's reported what a benefit it's been to him to be African-American in Thailand, as hip-hop culture, the NBA, etc., has put him into the class of rich, hip, and culturally significant, and he is treated accordingly. As an American, you are used to a largely classless (or at least transparently, based on money, classless) society, so judgements on how other places deal with issues of class and social status require stepping outside of your natural perspective.
Extrapolating from one Japanese waitress to an entire region is one of the reasons your perspective comes off as being suspect. If you want to just date blonde and blue-eyed Aussies, great, and if you want to have cogent discussions on things, even better, but enough already of the racist crap.