Re: Another woman who thinks......
That took awhile to read through the whole thing! But, I think I've got the essence of what this particular woman is saying.
Basically it's your standard female whining. Blah blah blah, I'm so unhappy, blah blah blah, it's all the guys' fault and the ONLY solution to the problem is for the guy to change his behavior TO THE SATISFACTION OF THE WOMAN.
I see this crap all the time. It's never the woman's fault (they're perfect... dontcha know?) It's always the guys fault and therefore, always up to the guy to somehow make things right.
I'm not at all surprised that a lot of men are choosing to remain in an extended adolescent state. After all, we live in a culture that glorifies youth and being young. We admire those who can maintain a youthful vibe even as they get older. Where's the motivation to grow up and "be responsible" when there are so many drawbacks in doing so.
To Kay Hymnowitz...... You hate "the man-child" ? Well you better get used to hating them, they're gonna be around for a loooong time.
Rock Dog