[quote=chocha monger]warbucks,
maybe chocha monger is a bit jaded but after reading that stickman article “you’re the problem, not the girls” by tdunda, i got the feeling that the tdunda fellow was biased towards the little thai prostitutes. admittedly, as many can attest, it is hard to give a neutral opinion on some little darling who keeps the nut sack well drained thereby staving off pressure on the brain and other such maladies. true, lots of aged mongers behave quite silly when they bust nuts up in some sweet young foreigner but i think tdunda missed the point entirely. the buying and selling of sex is a business just like selling cars. i wonder if tdunda walks onto a car lot expecting the salesman to tell him the fair price of the cars on sale? perhaps, tdunda tells the salesman upfront the maximum amount he is willing to pay for a particular car. maybe he does all these things and gets a great deal. in that case i’m buying my next car using his tactics.
anyway, for the rest of us we know that when it comes to prostitution it is not unlike the used car market. if you volunteer too much information you are liable to be vigorously screwed but not kissed. the mongers and the prostitutes are just playing the games that come naturally to the business. the prostitute plays girlfriend to get what she wants while the monger plays boyfriend to get what he wants. both sides know what the other is up to but they will never admit it because that would be like guessing out aloud the other players’ cards in a poker match. it’s just not cool and people are likely to come away with more bad feelings than necessary. they know they’re going to lose their money but they don’t want the added aggravation.
tdunda is one of those guys who assumes that women are “good” by nature and that it is because of men they become evil. chocha monger’s school of thought is a bit different to the tdunda philosophy. why? i’m not sure. maybe it because a thai stunner at my facility is cheating on her husband with some other guy with four kids to maintain, or the white mexican spinner is fucking around on her in shape hardworking husband with a guy who is 5 ft 4 in and 275 lbs working a minimum wage job. these women aren’t trading up as commonly assumed, not financially or socially in any case. can it be that they’re doing what they do simply because they can sort of like a dog licking his balls?
of course, they are guys who have flaws or perversions as the main drivers for going abroad to seek women. however, if one looks around or even better dates around at home it is not too hard to see why men prefer going abroad. the reasons are no longer limited to the social but are now strongly economic especially if one has some money to lose. tdunda really needs to lay off the pontificating as he is no better than the cry-baby mongers. he still travels for sex in the third world because it offers him an advantage that he does not have at home. if tdunda was sexing it up back home with hot young women he wouldn’t be spending money to go to thailand.
as for married mongers, i think one would be better off choosing to follow one path or the other. there is simply too much that can go wrong when trying to travel in both lanes. sometimes there is a crash and innocent people can get hurt. i’m not making any judgments on those who enjoy dual status. only the people in that situation can really know why they choose to do it and whether it is justified or not.[/quote]
i loathe and can't comprehend some aspects of the hooking game.
i can't understand how some dude who knows that the chick he is talking to wants to offer him money for sex can sit around and interact with the chick like it's a normal relationship.
with me, if i like a hooker, i introduce myslf and i steer the discussion to her costs within 45 seconds. i then take her home and try to poke her for the agreed allotment of time.
i can't see how italians in moldova and arabs in bkk buy these hookers presents, take them to dinner, and other shit.
it's fucking absurd.
go to grace hotel and every chick there refers to some trick named farid as her boyfriend. if he's your boyfriend why are you asking me me for 1500 short time?
i once saw a spaghetti eater in moldova take a $25 sauna girl to the arab restaurant (amazon, a real fucking dive) and sip wine with the hoe as if he was sitting on the riveria with a respectable lady. he was kisisng her hand and caressing her hair througout the ordeal. this is the same chick that four of my mates and i had run a train on in a banja a few months before.
maybe a bit of conversation is necessary so the girl can establish that the trick is not going to pull a charlie manson on her but can one really tell if she will be a good performer or the man won't try to beat her from a brief conversation?
if this were the case, no people would ever be raped or dismembered by serial killers.
i used to think eye contact from a chick in the line up was key but all this proves is that she needs to work...not that she neccessarlily wants to work for you.
perhaps the man thinks he will get beter service if he is nice...maybe...but flowers to a hooker? me thinks this promptly labels one as a grade a sucka by the girl.
hookers are mostly of weak mind and morals and they will take advantage of you in a second if you let them. it's to their advantage to preserve the pussy.
machaivelli's advice is germaine to getting good service in p4p too. you can only get it if you are loved (liked) or feared. i don't mean beating a chick...although i can guarauntee you it wont be the first time a man has smacked her... i mean giving off the impression that if she doesn't do what she says she would and/or provide good service her time with you will be uncomfortable.
when i am with a hooker and am successful in imparting this i get the best service. ***however, some of these girls are a lot tougher than i am and can tell that i won't do shit to them and when i try to pull the tough guy act on them they laugh at me and roll me like a punk.***
conversely, when i try to be niceto them they take advantage of me and do shit like yap away on their cell phone as i fuck them, promise me all night and leave after one shot or, worse, staying in my place and acting like its theirs...one krygz hooker had the neve to ask me to make her a sandwhich after she told me that she didn't feel like blowing me.
i hate the games that both hookers and punters play sometime.