Thai girls vs. farang girls
Here's an interesting take on American Women , especially when compared to their Thai counter·parts
[ "Farang" is Thai for a Foreigner , especially a White Foreigner ]
Farang men often fall madly in love with the first Thai girl they meet – even if she’s a rough street prostitute who doesn’t speak English. Love-sick farang men are queuing up at the altar to tie the knot with their dubious Thai mail-order brides but why don’t farang girls stir their passions in the same way?
Thai girls and farang girls could hardly be more different. Put simply, Thai girls are family-orientated and farang girls are increasingly career-orientated. In America, 44% of women aged 15 to 44 have chosen to remain childless and the trend is gathering pace. It’s easy to understand their point of view because, as men, we’ve always pursued our ambitions.
Farang girls enjoy opportunities that their Thai sisters can only dream about. In many ways, life in the West has never been better but it doesn’t seem to have translated into greater human happiness. We are witnessing an epidemic of relationship breakdown. Western men and women seem increasingly ill-matched and unhappy. Statistics reveal that dissatisfied western wives are divorcing their husbands in ever-increasing numbers and they can’t seem to find suitable replacements either. Does this mean that we farang fellas are all useless?
No, of course it doesn’t and I’m going to explain why. Despite the far-reaching changes in western society, the underlying attitudes of men and women remain broadly the same. Men still have a provider mentality and women still have an entitlement mentality. Men have always been attracted by youth and beauty and women have always been attracted by wealth and status. Inevitably, the mismatch between our utopian aspirations and the situation on the ground has created problems.
For the sake of his self-esteem, a man needs to be the breadwinner. Taking on the domestic role makes him feel like a failure. Women, on the other hand, feel uncomfortable in the role of provider. A woman would quickly lose respect for any man who appeared to be living off her. Women still feel entitled to a partner more successful than themselves. Consequently, the more successful a woman becomes, the harder it is to find someone suitable.
On the face of it, men are more easily satisfied. All a man needs is a girl who is cute and kind-hearted. Career status is unimportant – it’s her personal qualities that count. He needs to be her protector and hero. A brash career-orientated woman will never excite a man’s passion. If she’s pretty, he might humour her for long enough to get into her pants but a long-term relationship is unlikely to succeed.
Women who don’t touch a guy’s heart but who have soaring expectations are never going to find husbands. Men seeking unconditional love and respect from aggressive ladettes are never going to find wives. As a result, more people than ever are living lonely single lives between brief affairs. Throughout the western world, we are seeing explosive growth in the number of single person households. In the US, for example, census data reveals that the number of single person households grew by 14% between 1991 and 2001. An unhappy world of selfish people living alone is now becoming reality.
Returning to the original question, I think that many farang men fall madly in love with a random Thai bar girl because they’ve never met a truly feminine woman before. Men feel a deep need to care for these needy fallen angels and to receive affection in return. Even when the affection is insincere, the compulsion is so great that few farang guys can resist. Thai girls play the role perfectly. They wield a power over men that their farang sisters have forgotten how to use.
The real name for Gringas....
Simply said, and of course generally speaking. Gringas, (American women), are really: FWOVT, which means: Fucking Waste Of Vaginal Tissue. Yes, not all, but enough for this Latina Addict to systematically write off them all off as a group. Period.
Latina Addict
Role playing? Are we just getting old?
[b]S-Sled[/b] [quote]Ok what do you think when a American "white girl" on the street is speaking all Ghettho,gangster and what not?[/quote] I got my "hip hop wake up call" about ten years ago when I ran into a young lad from Texas, who was affecting the rapper talk and enjoying his urban hip hop.
I guess my generation expects Texans to like country music or possibly ZZTop, not Ice Cube.
I think hip hip has become pretty mainstream in the last decade, and really do not see anything out of the ordinary that youth adopt this style. It is no more strange than the late 70's punk rockers in Indiana.
What I get a kick out of is the lily-white Europeans who also adopt the attitude of oppressed urban black youth. Nothing like a Danish homey!
Before I go and put down what they are doing today, I only have to look back in the photo album to how silly I looked with serious bell-bottom jeans and a tie-dyed t-shirt. ;)
Cheers,
Sporadic
Some more comments on the "Black thing".
Hey guys,
I have been reading these forums and I think that many of the posts are right on point. I do have to comment on the "Black thing" because its something thats been bothering me. First let me say that I am a professional African male, lawyer, and live here in NYC. I make a decent living and am reasonably good looking. Until I started reading this board, I dated exculsively professional black women, all of who made just as much or more money than me. I am telling you that you have not seen a more fucked up woman than a professinal black woman. I will bet anyone on this. You hear much about the paucity of eligible black men in America. That is misleading. There may be a disproportionate number of black men institutiionalized, but that does not expian why most black women are single. They are single becaue the men that they were previousl with, can't take it anymore. Halle Berry is a good example.Why would anyone chest on someone as beautiful as her? I will tell you why. Because somewhere along the line, her husband came to the conclusion that despite all her good looks, that she was not worth it. He could not take it so he went out and found someone else. its what we all do. Imagine the situation being so bad, that you have to give up pussy like that. And yet, thas exactly what happend and what is happeneing to all of us. I now have my dominican girl in the DR and now just fly back and forth. With respect to the white girl thing, when a white woman speaks ebonics, it is the stupidist thing I have ever heard. Does she not realize that we find this offensive and that she looks like an ass? Why the hell cant she just epak english? This facination with hop hop culture among non African Americans is so inauthentic so as to be a joke in my opinion. While I am venting here, you hip hop knuckle heads who are starting to invade Sosua, please go back home. Before you know it, the place will start to look like 125th St on a Saturday afternoon. Enough said.