I'd like to request a moment of jubilation
....to celebrate the prick in the White House achieving a 29% approval rating. Unless he catches Osama bin laden, or gets gas back down to $1.40, he stands a fighting chance of having the lowest rating of all time.....and that people take it out on his party come the November elections. I console myself while pumping $3.00 a gallon gas that this is just paying a fee to kick the sanctimonious bible thumping, binary brained right wing pricks out of congress and the senate
Being a stepfather is, as I believe Sin put it, the most thankless job on earth, and I absolutely believe the stat's George is citing about them being 15 times more likely to kill a step child. Family life is at times, a pressure cooker, even when you share a bed (with wife), or genetics and biological ties (kids).....In many cases, men are sacrificing their own financial well being to provide a home environment for children who will not be passing his genetics into the future, and often disrespect, hate, barely tolerate....him. It's a bad deal also regarding the molestation thing....with a stepfather, it is almost a cliche. You marry a mother, with an adorable little 9 year old moppet...6 short years later, you have a little big titted sexpot (with again, no biological ties to you) living under the same roof....it happens,
Changing gears, I came to realize something...had heard this previously, but only recently came to REALLY understand it. It is well known that girls from masculine-centric cultures will marry men who are much older, and less physically attractive than they are. It has been generally presumed that this is entirely a money thing. Here is something else however. In Russia, for example, it is a woman's worst nightmare for that sweet boy of 22 she married 20 years ago to drop her cold and throw her to the wolves, so he can take up with a 25 year old. Girls in this type of culture are very aware of this behavior, and in hopes of getting a lifetime committment from her husband, go ahead and marry a guy that she will still be a little dish to in 20 years....a hot MILF of 40 to his 58
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GOOD, GOOD, Young Padawans!
Women (girls) mature faster than young males and are more intuitive about the opposite sex wanting them in (in droves) their formative years. As a result of this headstart on boys, they wield power that few young men can resist. As they mature into young (and VERY HOT) women, they wield that power without restraint. Paraphrasing what Charles Xavier once said: "What good is Power without restraint?". What they fail to realise is that they must FOCUS that power to pair with a mate that will ensure the best circumstances (marriage, family, etc). However, many of them fail to heed "The CLOCK" and when the clock strikes midnight (or very near to it), they realise that they have wasted the best years of their lives to achieve their goal. Now they are attracting less attention from males than in their peak years and they lament the fact that it has come to this, when they had the power to avoid their present situation. For the prowling tiger (my bretheren on this board and many like us) this is like when the great cat spies the herd from a grassy blind and seeks out the less swift prey (the recently turned MILF). The younger and more swift of the herd will alight in an instant and head to "safety' while the now-abandoned MILF makes for a meal.
Another thing I have realised is that straight out physical beauty and sexual experience are inversely related in most cases. I was reading a post by Hanavaman that solidified my understanding on this. The post itself is unimportant, so I won't lead my bretheren on a chase to seek it out, but the idea behind it IS.
GOOD, Young Padawans! Embrace the Force, and Wisdom will seek you out...