Needing some advice, guys...
I had a girl from another town 45 minutes away, that I met thru the internet on one of these dating sites, seekingarrangement.com, and had sex with her about 4 times. The first time was with a condom. The other times we used spermacide. I only knew her first name and did not have an address for her. I had a cell phone number for her, and she had mine, because she called me a couple of times, wanting to get together for sex and some spending cash.
2 weeks ago I received an email, thru the website, from her that she was one month pregnant and I was the father, despite use of our spermicide. She said we must not have waited the 10 minutes like it required. (though I think we did). She asked me to pay for an abortion or else, if the kid was born it would be my responsibility to pay child support.
I called her and told her I would pay for an abortion. She said she had checked out the prices, wanted to get it quickly, and it would cost $350 because she needed anesthesia. I said I would pay the clinic directly so I could put it on a credit card, not her directly. I said we should keep in touch.
Now, a couple of weeks later, no calls from her. Her cell phone number is out of service. I tried to call her back to see if she had an appointment at the clinic.
I called my local abortion clinic and they said it would cost $440 with them.
I am wondering how to read into this correctly. I think it may have been a scam and when I did not say I would pay her the $350 directly, but pay it to the clinic, she prolly gave up on me. Wondering if I read her correctly. I guess I have no other way of doing anything else, since her phone is no longer in service and I did not know her address, work number etc.
I hope she was scamming me and not really pregnant, or else paid for the abortion herself.
Any thoughts?