Judging by appearances, etc...
I bash American Women because they deserve some of the same medicine they feed US. American Women can get away with MUCH MORE than American Men can.
Examples: Mary Kay Letourneau, the teacher who engaged in sex with a SIXTH GRADER and only got seven(?) years in prison. If the situation were REVERSED and she were a MAN, and the sixth grader were a GIRL, the guy would have been buried so far UNDERNEATH the god-damn jail that his very existence would have been forgotten save for his family and prison officials.
Scott Petersen; guy murders wife (and in the process, his unborn child) and gets a free lethal injection, courtesy of the State. Abominable? Damn straight! Fair treatment for a convicted murderer? Hm... Susan Smith DROWNS ALL OF HER CHILDREN (not ADULTS, DEFENSELESS CHILDREN) and gets what, LIFE? That and some counseling?
These are but TWO shining examples of how we have all been hoodwinked and continue to do so. Give American Women a fair chance? They RUNNING THE GOD-DAMN SHOW!
If you wanted something from someone (very badly) and the only way you could get it on a regular basis was to jump through hoops and in the process, make a fool of yourself and eventually have an eroded sense of self-worth, would you continue to go through with it, or would you wise up and get it from someone who acted as if they had common sense and decency instead of constantly engaging in a power play to metaphorically SUBJUGATE you? To those of you who are of the masochistic way of thinking, so be it. It takes all kinds to make a world. I simply REFUSE to waste my time and effort on such insanity. I (grudgingly) admire DH and CBGB, 'cos they got fed up and too the step that I have yet to take. When the time comes, my path will be different from theirs (only slightly) but I will have made my declaration of rebellion.
Outside the confines of sex prison
I live in Southern California, two hours away from Tijuana, Mexico where a lot of mongering takes place and what have you. I've been going down there frequently and not only to take care of business (if you know what I mean?? he.he.he.) but also to do some shopping and looking for alternatives to the tourist trap section of town while visiting there. I also buy a lot of health and natural foods-related products there for a fraction of the cost here in the U.S.
Anyway, I headed down there during this Memorial Day weekend, being careful to return on Sunday night in order to avoid the crazy traffic on holidays. After visiting the ZONA, I took a cab to the shopping center/mall called Plaza Rio Tijuana (I believe) and went about my shopping mission. Walking through the aisles of this one huge supermarket, I was able to talk to many of the young ladies who stand there giving information and answering questions if you had any. My first question to them (there were 4 in one spot) was if they earned commission, to which they replied in unison "NO". So this meant there was no intention on their part to sustain a conversation with you given that it made no difference to them whether you bought anything or not. So we engaged in small talk about the products I was buying but quickly and with no trouble moved into other, more interesting topics. I was able to get their phone numbers and emails without a problem. Given that it was Sunday afternoon and they had to work on Monday (no holiday in Mexico) they recommended I give them a call to go out on the following weekend instead.
Try doing that in sex prison. Nice, young, pretty and smart girls too. Just the conversation itself was worth feeling good about, the rest, let’s see what happens. The point I'm trying to make is that it is not the end of the world meeting a suitable lady oversees. This happened only a couple of miles (if that) from the border. It’s really amazing to run into a situation like this because, not being used to it or remotely even thinking about it ever occurring in sex prison, it gives one a sense of hope and opportunity: life exists outside of such confines.
The pendulum swings back?
Perhaps all hope is not lost guys. Earlier today I was watching MTV Hits at the higher end of the digital spectrum (a good way to stay current and vastly superior to regular MTV or even MTV2 in that only music videos are played 24-7, no reality TV crap or real world soap operas)
The beautiful Beyonce Knowles and her back-up singers Destiny's Child came on with their new music video, "Cater 2 U." I about fell out of my chair when I heard the lyrics. "I'm here to serve you?" What the fuck? How on earth did that lyric get through the NOW censors?
Could this be a new trend? Millions of American women respect and admire Beyonce. In the second verse, she makes the promise:
"When you come home late
Tap me on my shoulder, I’ll roll over"
My God, maybe there is hope for the future!
Sing it, Beyonce!
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Let me help you
Take off your shoes
Untie your shoe strings
Take off your cuff links
What you wanna eat boo?
Let me feed you
Let me run your bath water
Whatever you desire
I'll supply ya
Sing you a song
Turn the game on
I’ll brush your hair
Help you put your do-rag on
Want a foot rub
Want a manicure
Baby I’m yours
I wanna cater 2 u boy
Baby I’m happy your home
Let me hold you in my arms
I just want to take the stress away from you
Makin’ sure that I’m doing my part
Boy is there something you need me to do
If you want it, (I got it)
Say the word and (I will try it)
I know whatever I’m not full fillin’
another woman is willing
I’m gone fullfill you my body and spirit
I promise ya
I'll keep myself up
remain the same chick
you fell in love with
I'll keep it tight
I'll keep my figure right
I’ll keep my hair fixed
be rockin the hottest outfits
When you come home late
Tap me on my shoulder, I’ll roll over
Baby I heard you,
I’m here to serve you
this love you need
to give it is my joy
All I wanna do is cater to you boy
She's trying to make money off of you, its just words..
Besides probably there is other songs on her album boasting of how she dont need a man or about kicking em to the curb if they dont kiss her big booty. She seems to be pretty much a diva and doesnt seem to humble now. Maybe she'll do that stuff for Jay-Z or another mega rap star but for us mortals? Forget it!