Paying for somebody else's kids
Same thing here in Texas, I read an article in Texas monthly about a bunch of guys that are still under court orders to pay child support for children they didn't Fater. The rational being "undue hardship on the single mother (fucker)" because in most of the cases the biological Father (sperm doner) couldn't be found. I wonder how long this situation would last if it were possible for the gender issue to be turned. Can you see a judge saying "Yes Ma'am the court knows you didn't bear this child however you must support it regardless." When pigs fucking fly!
Personally if I had found out that my son was not my biological child after a number of years I would have continued to pay regardless of the legal issues. Mine is an unusuall case, his mom was a a ***** before I married her (please don't ask me why I did, I was much younger and stupider) and a bigger ***** during the marriage but after the fact not so much. Probably because I didn't hesitate to tell her to shut up during a rant, hang up on her as needed and told her when she was being a ***** after we divorced.
Perhaps a lesson there.
We get along well, she never played access games and we never used my son as a weapon against the other. (If I would have gotten periodic blow jobs she probably would have been the perfect ex wife) So him neing my son is much more a relationship issue than a biological one.
The guys I feel for are those poor fucks that just thought they were getting some pussy and ended up paying WAY more than 150 pesos.
My 02
Contraception is a two way street
The male bears 100% of the responsibility for contraception, as does the female. Yes, I know that adds up to 200% but if you are going to fuck someone you don't know very well, why would you believe her if she says she is on the pill, not at the fertile time of her cycle, surgically sterile, or whatever? I [b]am[/b] surgically sterile but constantly surprised at the number of women who are willing to believe me when I tell them this. Down here in BA, after about the fifth time you are with a woman she will usually suggest doing it without a condom and will tell you that you are the only one she is doing with that way. Yeah, right. Then in the US a lot of women, especially older ones, are insulted if you want to use a rubber, like you are implying they have some disease (which of course you are).
The bottom line is that if you fuck them and do so with no contraception, then you should pay to support the little bastard for 18 years. However laws saying that you are responsible for whatever kids are born during your marriage regardless of whether they are yours, are just another obvious argument against marriage.
Always Assume ALL Women are Con·Artists
Joe Zop writes =
[quote][i]The issue in child support is not the guy or the woman, it's the kids, and if you're not gonna pay for who you produce then either wear a condom, get snipped, or keep it zipped up.[/i][/quote]
Your 'get snipped' comment leads me to tell the following Cautionary Tale
The Wise Monger always assumes that the P4P gals we deal with are thieves , liars and con artists
[ except for [b]RN[/b] , natch = she's a saint ]
But most amateur women will also take you for a ride if they can
Yours Truly 'got snipped' about 17 years ago ; and ~ 15 yrs ago I met this hot little blond through a business contact ; and we [i]really[/i] got along well and soon found our·selves drunk and in bed 'making the beast with two backs'
The subject of Contra·ception never came up = obviously I wasn't worried about it , and she didn't mention it either
[ Usually , when a woman freebie doesn't mention contra·ception , that means they're on The Pill .
Just *pray* that 'The Pill' isn't AZT !! ]
Well , Lo and Behold! About six weeks later , she calls me in a very distressed state and wants to meet me 'to talk'
At the meeting , she is tearful and upset , because she's [b]Pregnant[/b] !!!
I congratulate her , but just delivering that News wasn't the Real Reason she wanted to see me
The Real Reason , it turns out , is that she wants $$$$ to pay for an Abortion , which she insists she can't afford
My turn =
"Uhhhhh... I'm very sorry you feel that way about your Baby , but I had a vasectomy three years and so can't possibly be the Father and so I hope you'll forgive me for not contributing to your Abortion Fund . I'd recommend you talk to the Real Father and hit [i]him[/i] up for some Cash "
Man , the look on her face at that point was [i]price·less[/i] !!
Even though 'that Look' made me suspect that I had just narrowly dodged a Scam , I ultimately chalked that one up as a Real Dilemma for the gal . But then two years later the Exact Same Scenario happened !!
It was only then that I realized for sure that there is a sub·set of women con·artists who seduce guys and then extort money from them using this 'Preggers Scam'
A woman doing this only a few times a year can easily afford a Jaguar instead of a Chevy Escargot ; not to mention the mental satisfaction a good Con Artist always feels when they've successfully fleeced yet another Sucker