Marry an AW here's what you can expect.
Sad but unfortunately true.
[QUOTE]Any wife that imposes celibacy on her husband should be prepared for the consequences.
Amen, my brothers! In less than 10 years my wife and I have gone from having sex every 2-3 days, to once a week, to once a month, to once a year, to not at all last year. While it used to really [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] me off, I've been with 5 different providers in the past year, and I have no intentions of stopping. While I don't care for the sneaking about, hobby phones, and computer encryption software, she can't possibly think for a second that I'm doing without. She doesn't ask, and I don't tell. Funny thing is, she costs me much more than the providers, regularly rolling up bills of almost a thousand dollars a week shopping, dining out with her friends, travel, and continually denting up her cars. She's the most expensive piece of ass on the planet that I'm not getting. [/QUOTE]
Great article and Plenty of fish
I've been back on plentyoffish.com doing the online dating thing. It hasn't gone well, even though it claims to be the largest dating site in the world. I've spent a good amount of time writing and rewriting my profile, adding and deleting pics, having friendgirls critique my profile and pics, racking my brain for cute / witty things to say in emails, and so far : nada. A couple of girls wrote back, and then after the 2nd or 3rd email it ended. I didn't even get a dang phone number. My theory : I think that because its free, women put up a profile just for the hell of it but don't actually follow through. They get some emails, have a laugh, but soon forget about it since it's not costing them money. Its a fact that once you commit to pay for something, you become more vested in it.
So its back to pay sites for me, probably match. Com, italian singles (though it hasn't worked that great in the past) and possibly a 3rd site.
So, because I'm quite mature, I :
a) deleted all my pics, put up one of Rocco Siffredi
b) changed my title to "Why you're not married"
c) copied and pasted the following article entitled "Why you're not married" into my profile.
[url]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tracy-mcmillan/why-youre-not-married_b_822088.html[/url]
In 12 hours 3 women have already written to me- that's one more than in the past 2 months ! I haven't read the messages, I doubt I will. I'm sure they're full of man-hating and how I'm an asshole, etc :)
Being without companionship is tough
I could imagine it even tougher if you didn't have many friends to socialize with or didn't see your family much or all your family was either far away or even dead which becomes a reality once you hit about 50 or so.
That said, I've been saying it for months POF is the ultimate trash heap. Because its free as Cherchezfemme said there's no incentive to invest time / energy / effort into it by the women. The women who actually pay might be seriously looking for somebody but man you don't want them, they look like. Have kids usually or have some type of lifestyle that has prevented them from finding a man in the first place.
Any really good looking woman that is single and is on POF should automatically raise a red flag and good luck getting in contact with her.
Her inbox is overflowing I'm sure.
So what are you left with? You poor SOB (all of us) using Match or any other web site is not going to solve the problem.
I'll give you an example. In Los Angeles, there more Men than Women. In New York its the exact opposite, but the results are basically the same, why is that?
Its all the woman's fault! There is no other reason or excuse I can come up with.
On one hand they desire financial security but also demand that from men as well. That could mean almost anything. But if you work some manufacturing job, drive a truck, work at Walmart / Target, then you can kiss your chances of hooking up with a smart, attractive woman good bye.
Once you hit about 40, the younger women don't want anything to do with you. Which is interesting and I wonder about the sincerity of AW in general. Most women by 30 want to get married and have a family. Problem is, most men around 30 want that too, but from women younger than them. A man of 30 doesn't want a woman of 30-32, he wants a woman about 25-28, DUH.
Too me that means women should be open to most options by 25, but they aren't. Especially the ones that flock to major cities like LA, NYC, Chicago, Miami because they are seeking success, the kind they can't get back at home. That means being career minded and career focus. Dam Mother Nature and Dam Your Best Reproductive years. This is why IVF has shot through the roof the last decade or so.. [url]http://www.advancedfertility.com/ivf-age.htm[/url]
This allows women to delay child birth and delay serious relationships until their careers stabilize and mature, usually late 20's, early 30's.
But as you see by that stat, successful natural pregnancies goes down starting at 28 and really starts to take a nose dive after 32.
Not to mention is much harder to have your first child later in life than it is if you had children before.
All this Bullshit makes no fucking sense and while not everybody will get married and not everybody will have children, the vast majority of us will or you'll have low birth rates like you do in much of Europe. I'd say massive illegal immigration as staved off any discussion of low birth rates in America, but if you look inside the numbers the truth is birth rates for White Women and Black Women have declined since 1980, we now average 2. 1 children instead of 2. 2.
I find stuff like this very frustrating on all levels and now you can understand that even without this information, most people "settle" earlier which contributes to the high divorce rate.
Then you have various outlets trying to sell you on this career focused women who NOW want to find that man to have a family with. [url]http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-case-for-an-older-woman/[/url]
Or women pleading with other women to "settle" for Mr Good Enough which is what guys have been doing forever, we've seldom get exactly what we want, we "settle" for Ms Good Enough in many cases if not slightly less than that.
So why is it that Men are told to "take what you can get" and Women are allowed to have exactly what they want without compromise no matter what her circumstances are?
I think American Men are finally starting to wake up and see the deck is stacked against them. Low return rates on dating sites, older women past ideal pregnancy age, women with children from previous relationships, women so career focused that have no time for you even if they wanted to make time for you.
I've been saying for awhile on here but it seem everybody is focused on just finding random women to fuck. That's okay, but I think at the end of the day a vast majority of us that have no been burned by marriage or divorce would like to at least get married or find a girlfriend that doesn't drive them up a fricken wall.
At least much of Europe (and South America) is Family Friendly and I don't think anybody would dispute that. America is not even child friendly, relationship friendly, let alone family friendly, think about it.