Fell of the Monger Wagon Confessional
[QUOTE=ForceSteeler;1656006]Legalizing Prostitution will give men to much control. America is ran by Corporations, and these Corporations want pussy whipped men, A Pussy Whipped man is very good for capitalism. Think of all the garbage men buy and do to gain a women's attention.
If men had easy access to sex like running water. Pussy will not be valued anymore and women will lose control.[/QUOTE]ForceSteeler forced me out of my posting hiatus with this post. Mostly because it currently hit home with what is currently going on in my life at this very moment.
I'm fresh off of an 8 day mongering vacation in Medellin over the Thanksgiving holiday in where I banged 20 different chicas with a handful of repeat sessions; and admittedly fellas, I was actually somewhat bored with this trip. The fb method I use while in Medellin can be tiring. You schedule for chicas to come over at a certain time and they are always late. Be it traffic or just them, if you ask a chica to be at your place at 2 pm, expect her to show up at 3 or 3:30, regardless of if you reminded her a day, hell, even two hours early about the 2 pm appointment. When chicas get there late it causes me to have to reshuffle a 4 pm appointment, which in turn causes me to have to reshuffle a 6 pm appointment. It just causes a ripple-effect cluster fuck and I was finding myself working rather than relaxing this trip. All of that was fucking exhausting!
I remember being in the shower after a session and saying to myself: "Man, I am going to chill on mongering for a bit and just give the home / local scene a chance. " Meaning, getting back into the dating game here at home. I am in my early 30's, in good shape, healthy, and never have any problems getting dates either online or offline. I was seriously going to hang up my mongering hat for a while, knowing I could always come back to it at a moments notice.
Fast forward to a week or so after my trip. I was pumped about really giving this home turf stuff a chance. I bought a sexy-ass new car anticipating all of the fine asses I would be riding around in it, and was evening going to have a kickin sound system installed. I reactivated my OK Cupid and POF profiles, started hanging with coworkers at happy hour and networking events more, and even going out to bars and night clubs.
I hit the online dating scene running. I was receiving more messages and "such and such wants to meet you" alerts than I could respond to (especially when I posted a photo of my sexy-ass new car).
So far I have been on 3 dates, and have at least 2 more lined up. Going to save all of you guys some time and get right to the heart of why I made this post:
In Sex Prison (USA), the average male (such as myself) is fucked when it comes to dating. Period. I'll go even further: The average successful middle class male is fucked when it comes to dating. Period.
It's a pure numbers game that is stacked in the AW's favor. Her options are limitless. Period. The same chick you are trying to talk to has 10+ guys trying to get at her at the exact same time. I recently went on a date in where I spent $80 bucks on dinner and drinks for the two of us, and everything went phenomenal. Great conversation, great body, she even had a great career. After the date we spent most of the night texting back and forth like a pair of high school teenagers.
The next day she was pretty much AWOL. When I finally caught up with her again, she told me she was getting dressed to go out for the night (as in, going out to the club or a bar). Again, her options are limitless. I was just one guy out of many that she could choose to spend her time with. Swipe left; swipe right. Just like with the Tinder dating app, for her there is always a hotter, wealthier guy just a swipe away.
The only disappointment for me in all of this is the time, money, and gas spent on this effort. Spending a ton of money on alcohol at bars, time spent sending and replying to messages on dating sites, going on dates and going home with blue balls; it all amounted to nothing. It was a good kick in the pants to remind me that nothing beats the old tried and true paying for pussy route. I mean, that's what we are all after to begin with (pussy). Everything else is just window dressing.
If you have never experienced life outside of the US, then I would highly encourage you to do it sooner rather than later. It will open your eyes to what ForceSteeler referenced above. If paying for sex was legal in the US, then women would lose the stranglehold they have over us overnight. Corporations need pussy whipped US Males to buy the nice car to impress AW's like I did (but hey, I love that car, with or without the AW, hahaha), take out large mortgages to finance that home with the well-manicured lawn, spend your entire paycheck on diamonds and other trinkets that your chick will be bored with by the end of the next day, etc.
If you have the financial means to get the hell out of Sex Prison, then I admire you and you SHOULD run for the nearest exit. The rest of us are just here bumbling around until we are able to be paroled for a short period of time (mongering trips).
So yeah, putting up with late chicas in Medellin beats trying to play the dating game in the US hands down. That $80 I spent on my dinner date here in the US could have been a memorable hour+ long session with a hot 9 or 10 anywhere else in the world. Lesson learned.