My .002 cents and what's it worth!
Online dateing: sorry guy's most of the girls, like the previous poster has stated " Most of the good ones are taken. This means the ones you're running into are likely to be desperate, unattractive, picky or loaded down with "baggage".
That statement is 100% correct, its simple I tried things out on a girl, call me sleezy call me cold, But hey its a dog eat dog world! The truth of the matter is Most girls want a bastard of a man, a a$$hole, a guy whom will Tie em up and beat them! (I've never did that, but thats what they want) sorry its the truth! I tried the the mean over bearing part.
The total shmuck of a man. Then went soft and lost most of my contacts even had a first in my life, was told after you I'm done with men, if it doesnt work out! Then to find she is crusieing the net hard on every single chat rooms, dateing services out on the web its was crazy, she was my crazziest one so far! see a good wise freind once told me, Hey all girls are sluts you have to Treat them with low class, and use mind games and they love you That last one, threw a phone and started crying and was turning things around so much, it was incredible. All cause I layed it on her, the truth! I learned girls wnat liars, cheaters, scandals, and drama They live for the drama In there life, so they can tell there freinds, he does this, he does that and well. NO girl wants to hear "your like a job, there is more applications in human resoures" Take that approach and You will see your stock rise 50% rember these are the girls your not ever gonna marry! NEVER BE A NICE GUY TO A SQUARE GIRL! A square girl is useing tickery to the highest amount, funny how we look down on what were hear for on this board. But yet squares play more of a game, then what we look for, at least we know what were getting up front. Wine, dine, flowers, cards, gifts, plays and movies will not ensure a bbj(maybe poor) at that best! maybe a squirt, squirt hear, I don't do this! hahahah and your left frustrated, and instincts take over and say I gotta try harder! thats the problem, we try harder for girls, whom are man haters!
If she says she doesnt do that sorta stuff Hahahha multiply that by 75% she does it! If she says I'm the best at that she is mentally messed up and needs assureance by daddy! she will do it the greatest at first or lose all interrest! Most "squares" are mind players and use men! withh SW's and dancers, you know upfront your getting something for something! plus you can get them too. Thats another mental warfare!
Women aren't Evil, they're just holding out on us
Mystic Pimp, et al;
I wouldn't go so far as to say women are evil (though it is tempting)- after all, we're still trying to sleep with them!
Actually, the problem is that this whole dating thing is pretty much a game, and it always was; the "scam" happens because (1) no one ever bothered to tell the men any of the rules of this game we didn't even know we were playing, though they still expect us to play along; and (2) by not letting men know what's [b]REALLY[/b] going on, the women maintain an "edge" over us- we react like bumbling idiots, and the girls let us naturally weed ourselves out (while taking advantage of the less fortunate guys along the way). By the time us men even [u]realize[/u] that we have been collectively getting played this whole time, the women have [i]already been running this scam for several years.[/i]
The "game" doesn't stop once you get married, either- instead, it turns into some sort of sneaky, surrepititious power grab. She'll eventually end up "wearing the pants" in your house by [u]using her pussy as a weapon[/u] (for that matter she was probably doing that while you were dating her). This could be the very reason why you see guys turning to P4P or (like myself) committing to staying single; either they just want a "time out" (P4P) or they don't want to play the stupid games anymore (and therefore stay single).
I don't know if this explains your motivation, but it surely explains mine.
New topic just off base for a second please :-)
Hi all,
Just off Topic.To all mongers liveing far and near in the states. Young old
it doesnt matter your input is paramount to this question and will greatly be apricated. Okay on your mongering feats I would assume most guys have came across a white girl whom spoke street,down right nasty ghettho, hard core! Maybe more Younger male's have encounted not to say old didn't.
But whats your feelings when a white girl is ghettho?
Ah the so justified rants.
I did online dating for a while. It is part of the reason I decided to become an expat. If I was honest I received no replies. I did some studies to find out what actually worked. It was always the same. You either had to be really good looking or say you are very wealthy. (Which you have to prove because they don't want cheap dates if you say you have money.)
My methods were to post a profile and a personal. Wait for a week to see how many replies it received. I tried all types, the bad biker boy to preppy, from poor to rich, fat to skinny, and good looking to ugly. I then used photo's of old friends from other parts of the country or from clip art / web sites.
The only sets that received any replies were the profiles with a really good looking guy or some mention of significant wealth. IE I own a high end jewelry store. Or I have 5 bars. Or retired independantly wealthy 30 year old.
By far the good looking jewelry store owner had the most replies. I never finished reading them. There were hundreds from all over the world. The wealthy profiles received more than good looking poor guys who were better than well off average guys. The average looking guy with witty post and above average income would receive a few replies maybe one to five per week.
If you want a good laugh and some ideas post a profile/personal as a attractive girl. You have a picture of a cousin or friend that is old and doesn't look like them any more. Wow it makes the wealthy jewelry store profile seem pathetic. Hundreds or even thousands of replies.
What was really amazing about those replies was how many one line replies there were. "Hi I'm Joe 'Lame ass' Shmuck send me a reply if interested." I mean I'm not a casanova but even I realize a reply like that will be round filed before a hare can finish screwing a rabbit. (Which for those of you who don't know is *Very Fast*)
The scary thing is how many men reply to womans post. The ratio is all screwed up. If a woman receives hundreds of replies every week and she only picks maybe five or ten to meet a week until she lands the wealth attractive guy. It ends up the normal guys get ignored because women don't look at the big picture. The reality is the guys who are good looking or wealthy take full advantage of these stupid girls. The girls usually don't think wow I received hundreds of replies most of these wealth/good looking guys have to be messing around with many women. They think "I'm a princess and everyone can see it." Their narcicism can't allow them to see they are no better than prositutes. They focused on wealth/looks instead of looking for a person who is compatible to spend life with.
After trying online dating / meeting through normal routes for awhile I gave up on American Women. They are mostly the w**** word we can't use on this site. They value wealth over beauty and the dream world over reality.