Expats get no respect from AW or FW
[QUOTE=Bango Cheito;1101677]I'd have a hard time finding any girl in the US beauty queen or no as attractive smart and put together as the AVERAGE Colombian woman.[/QUOTE]Another problem that you have, and I also suffer from this too is that expats get very little respect; people just don't understand the deal. Women value stability above all else and they don't think that an expat will provide this. Remember, the first thing that a woman sees in a man is: does he have a job, does he have a a good job, and will he be around long enough for me to take advantage of a job. In essence, women want the power to control, trap, and exploit your resources.
Also in the 2nd an 3rd world people who go aborad to work do so because they can't get a job in their own country-or at least that's what they think. Americans are the most unworldy 1st world people in existance and don't understand why someone would want to live anywhere outside of a few miles from there they were born. I read somewhere that over 70% of Americans live and die within 60 miles of their birthplace. I worked domesticaly for six montths for my firm in the healthcare division and it was fucking boring. Living in hotels in places like Mankato, MN for six weeks where the highlight of their week is Friday nght at Applebees. Good people, but not my gig. Fuck it, send me to Falllujah where I can get some action.
This is short-sighted, because if one can has money you can reallly live luxurious and get whatever you want in most everywhere, although getting shit done in the second and thrid world is horribly ineffecient and time consuming. Try standing in line for four hours to pay a phone bill.
Women want to see a house, a car, and job. The better each of the aforementioned are the more attractive you will be.
For an unaffilaited expat people don't really take you seriously. In either the host country or your native country. You are like an interesting gourmet food. Fun to taste from time to time but not a serious part of the diet.
I am an affiliated expat, but I am still messed up and obviously insecure with a chip on my shoulder at times because my classmates think I am just fucking around and have gone off the deep end and my mum keeps imploring me to get a "real job in NYC." Most people just can't understand what people like me do. American and most all foriegn women can't comprehend why I spent years in Iraq and Afghanistan unless I am an unemployable fuck up. They don't get that I made between 800 and 1000 USD per day largely tax free with no expenses and vacation every six weeks to go whereever I want. Not to mention getting to do really cool shit to boot. Even my own mother doesn't believe that budget, level of authority, and newsworthy shit that I did at 25.
People pigeon hole and stereotype and if they are unfamilair with something they shun it and ostracize it. AW are the worst of the 1st world people in this regard while Western Europeans understand what institutions like the World Bank and Asian Development Bank do.
A 30 yo old dude with an Ivy League degree making around a quarter million a year and I am forced to screw hookers, endure 2nd world party bitches and gold diggers by flauting money like a jack ass, and go on various sugardaddy sites to fuck hot women. It's embarrasing and demeaning.
That's my problem with AW: they are too stupid and cowardly to embrace the unfamilair.