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"dating" is the better option!
This, is why marriage in North America is not the best alternative. $12K PER MONTH! For many women in FSU, that would be enough for the entire year! She could take care of your children and have as much sex with you as you want. You could support 12 such women for the price it takes to support ONE in North America. Not only that, she would look deliciously beautiful, sexy and feminine at least until she is 40. Actually, the two factors are related. They HAVE to keep themselves looking good to make sure you keep them around and not trade them for someone younger so easily. It is the gravy train of marriage and the equal division of assets that ruined the women in North America.
So, yes, as long as you can resist the urge of a family (and yes, men have a biological clock too) , it is better to just date, or better yet, just hook-up as the kids say.
[QUOTE=Cherchezfemme; 1374262]I think more and more guys are waking up to how messed up the dating situation is here in the US. So they're only a few years behind most members of this forum LOL.
Spending money on women is weak and ineffective, it places men into a provider / beta role instead of guy she will bang role.
The trend today, especially among young people, is that there are fewer and fewer traditional dates. It's hooking up at a bar / club or approaching girls online through Facebook, and inviting them over to your place to "watch a movie". I think it's a carryover from college dating (and I'm sure the economy influences this as well).
The better-looking the guy is, the more this holds true.
With older guys. 30+, like me, they are learning that a traditional dinner date is useless and a waste of money. Either meet for coffee and go from there or take 'them to a dive bar and try to get them drunk asap.
My FB I met on POF didn't even have a date, she came over and we banged right away.[/QUOTE]
American women are great unless you are married. Then anywhere
[QUOTE=Goga Fung; 1382371]What happened to this thread?
I have gone through 8 pages to find only few posts on the subject.
Can be Lugz's posts be moved to a separate blog about dates?[/QUOTE]American women are great unless you are married. Then anywhere over the border is the safest choice. I'm meeting a Medellin paisa in Cartagena this week. Haha. Leave tomorrow!
An Exercise in Inherent Female Greed via Briffault's law and Feminism
[url]https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=CYb5xSd4PRs[/url]
From the comments to the video:
" I'm a female, and seeing this done to my father by my mother, have seen first hand how this messes with a man. My father wanted to marry my mother, but she wanted his child support check. She said "no thank you." My mother used those checks to buy drugs. I was neglected and abused by my mother, taken from her and became a ward of the state. I was in the care of the state for 3 years. My father was paying child support, to my mother for three years while I was not even in her care."