Not sure I agree with your comments.
As a single male who is now 42, I still have no problem getting laid; particularly with Asian women and do so without promising any relationship. For years, I hooked up with a flight attendant from a SE Asian airline when shy had an long haul run to LA. I still have a couple very attractive friends with benefits where I live and other cities I work in. Hell, I am going out Friday night with a 25 year old (American) woman who is in school (not looking for a sugar daddy), just a companion. Women like mature, working men that are in reasonable shape. However, that does not mean I do not pay for pussy. When I think about it, I am going to take a woman to a fine dinner, relax, and maybe see a show here in Vegas while working. All that will cost me more than 1 hour with a professional. But, in return I get a night of amazing sex. She just has high expectation for oral satisfaction, which is why she probably keeps me around.
Personally, I like the saying "we don't pay for sex, we pay them to go away". One time while traveling in Vietnam I met a very smart, well educated woman engaged in International Trade. She had an MBA from a European University and was very cute, late 30's. I didn't make the move, she did after we spent our free time on the weekend together and next thing I know we are having sex all day Sunday afternoon. However, that went from friends to she was "in love" with me. Frankly, I felt a little bad as I didn't want to ruin a professional relationship. But, small head did the thinking. Not every women is open to FWB arrangement.
So, when I was younger, my goal was never to make a career out of paying for sex. But did I on occasion, of course how could I not when working in Singapore and Thailand. Sex in a relationship is great, in fact it is the best when you have a good partner. However, I like to be pampered sometimes. A nice massage, then more intimate contact to relax me. My point is, when I pay, it means I don't have to worry about pleasing her and I can focus on my sexual desires. But, that is probably consistent with your view. Just don't forget that there are some men with physical disabilities or maybe just are unattractive leaving them with little confidence. At least they can obtain some physical pleasure. In Hong Kong if you look up sites like 141,168 or some others, women specifically state they service the physically disabled. Hell, in some countries I am sure it is covered by insurance.
And furthermore, now being over 40, I have no intention to pay for anything on a regular basis when I am still in good shape and find the older I get the easier it has been to hook up with women in the 30's and 40's for nothing but a little attention. Women at this age have raging hormones and some I cannot even keep up with; but than God for Cialis.
[QUOTE=ThatGuy865;1625524]There is no reason or necessity for any man under 40 to pay for pussy. It is not cheaper. By no means. And its only lame guys under 40 who need to resort to P4P as their only means of getting laid. Most are socially awkward in one manner or another. Its not the women. Its them.
P4P for a man under 40 is definitely a minority view. Actually to make P4P a lifetime goal as the sole method for getting laid is a minority view no matter what age you are. But especially for anyone under 40. Its one thing to do it as a sideline hobby, vacations, get a little strange on the side. But as a lifestyle for life as the sole and only method for getting laid. Then they have an issue. Whether it be self esteem, rejection issues, self absorbed, but an issue non the less. Of course IMHO.[/QUOTE]
My two cents on P4 P before 40
I think almost all of us when we first think of women at a young age we're not thinking about paying for sex but just getting it. Nevertheless we all develop at a different pace for almost
everything including social skills with the opposite sex. I mean for whatever reason I could never play tennis as well as Roger Federer no matter how many lessons I've had. But I love
the sport. But going on I believe most of us have gone through several devastating relationships (or maybe just one) before we figure out what we really want from the opposite sex.
This happened to one prior co worker of mine at 17 and caused him to look at women differently. Consequently, some guys of course not all, who go for p4 p before 40 its because they
have been hurt already and maybe more than once. They figured out what they want and they can control it better with p4 p. I myself had a 21 year old girlfriend at 48 but she was
maybe a 7. 5 to 8. 0 but it cost me $400 for gifts, dinners, etc. before I got sex. Nevertheless she did not have the type of body I truly want petite, slim body with a huge rack. I'm well
north of 40 and love to pay for that body type. For myself physical attractiveness is extremely important which caused me to marry the woman I did and needless to say she was the
worse American wife who left me broke in my mid 40's.
Now we can line ourselves up and for a variety of reasons some of which are unclear to men there will be young guys whom
women will write their cell phone numbers on a piece of paper and place it in the guys front pocket while others for no apparent reason have the most difficult time. Guys who fall in the
back of the line maybe can't get the girls they really want. Life is most unfair in almost everything. Thank god I was not born a girl in Afghanistan.