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Very good points about incall. Believe it or not being filmed actually crossed my mind once. If the room has a closet in it, when the girl leaves to let me get undressed, sometimes I check!
I don't have to worry about someone taking down my plate number since I don't have car but that's a very good point to keep in mind.
It's true that you don't know who is going to show up or if someone else has a key to the apartment etc... I guess that's the major risk factor here.
This takes me back to the point about only patronizing foreign women. Most of those antics are usually associated with American or "Americanized" establishments. Many of the women I've patronized can barely speak english never mind conjure up some sophisticated scheme. They're usually new to this country, as I usually find out in conversation, and just don't want any trouble. It's possible someone could be behind them doing it so you still have to play it safe.
Very good points DH & GW... thanks I'll keep my eye on those closets...lol
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Hi,
I shall admit it, I am one of those crazy guys who like having sex with addict girls. Hey, let me take cover before flaming away! I like them for reasons of my own, but I only get blowjobs with condom, so I feel pretty safe... at least as far as AIDS is concerned. Also, I carefully wash my intimate parts as soon as I get back home.
What do the experts out there think about the safety issue in this case? Are there widely spread sexual diseases that can be transmitted by mere spittle? Is kissing their breasts and caressing their asses safe? Should I go to a doctor and check for sexual deseases on a regular basis?
All tips appreciated -- please excuse my stuttering English.
Viator
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i like to have the rush of sex without a condom. i don't know what it is.
i always have conversation with the girl first, then if she sounds alright i'll let her give me head without a condom.
if i am horny enough for a piece of her ass i ask her questions like do you use drugs and how many guys do you have sex with on any given night, also i check her **** for any scrapes or scars.
if they act fishy i fuck them but with a condom.
if they say they use drugs, i ask what type most are weed and crack if any.
if it is not a needle drug i fuck them without a condom.
if they say they only sleep with a couple guys a night then i fuck them without a condom, aslong as i believe them.
i say play by your own rules.
be safe and as long as you like it do it.
happy hunting
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-- also i check her **** for any scrapes or scars.
cumhoner,
i wonder what a street ***** would say if i asked her to let me inspect her pussy for scrapes... :-] are you a gynecologist, or what?
besides, it only happened once that a heroin addict admitted to me of being such -- and i asked lots of them. with time i have learned that what they say is totally worthless; they're accustumed to lying to themselves and to others.
but maybe you're better than i am at talking with women... ;-)
viator
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shit, don't tell me you've found scrapes!
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For those of you who don't use a condom, have you tried applying Derma Shield for protection? Their Derma Plus and Derma Med products are supposed to have an anti-microbial agent that resists viruses and bacteria. It is a foam in an aerosol can that you rub on and let dry, and is intended to be used on your hands. If you have tried it for this unusual purpose, have you caught anything while using it? I'm sure it's not as good as a condom, but for those who don't use one, it might be better than nothing.
Is it just me, or are condoms a little on the short side? It seems they leave a small area at the base uncovered. It would be nice if they made one that flared at the bottom, and was long enough and wide enough to cover the testicles. I was thinking about getting some large sized ones, and see if I can stretch them this way. Has anybody tried this? Did it work? Bell bottoms are back in fashion!
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Viator..I wanted to respond because you asked a few questions........I don't claim to be an expert, but I can answer. You are pretty safe if your useing a condom for a bj,,,,,,,it is possible to get herpes because the condom does not cover the bottom of your penis though...I doubt she would deep throat you enough to make contact with your skin,,but its possible.....Kissing nipples is harmless......NEVER fuck without a condom . You probably wont get AIDS, but there are a dozen other sexually transmitted diseases that are much more common.
Dont bother asking these girls anything,,they lie about anything and everything........If you assume they are druggies you will be right most of the time,,even the ones who look fresh and clean are mostly drug users. I am always respectfull to sex workers...but never trust them about anything. Most will rip you off if they think your an easy mark.
I have always felt that incall is the safest (when you go to her place) because they don't want trouble there. When they come to your hotel there is usually a driver who waits outside. I don't often hear of customers getting mugged,, but it is very common to get the guys money then not perform the expected services. Many of these women will pick your pockets if given half a chance.......The bottom line is make a clear face to face agreement about exactly what she will do,,for how long and for what price. (not over the phone, it must be face to face)...Never give her any money until you are getting undressed and ready to do it. If you suspect she is trying to scam you,,9 out of 10 times,,she is.
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Well, again, I want to recommend AGAINST in-call (you going to her place) in unfamiliar situations. While maybe it is true in some places in some times that she will not "want any trouble" in this environment, I believe it to be far more likely that the in-call environment will be where trouble lurks, AKA "set up." Then the problem will occur on her turf, in her hood. I don't like that, especially in Mexico.
So when I say out-call, I don't mean her place and I don't mean your place. I mean a hotel ("your" hotel). And, (again especially in Mexico) why give your own name? Pay cash, don't tell her, the motel, or anyone else your last name, don't have anything with your name on it lying around the room, and don't let her see your own car/license plate. Don't park your car anywhere near your room. Don't even mention having a car. Shit, if you can possibly avoid it, don't even HAVE a car when practicing this hobby. Too traceable and too risky.
SAFE SEX: Blend in, use public transportation, remain anonymous, keep moving, be respectful and don't burn the locals, get laid and get out safely.
Dickhead
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At least in U.S., I strongly recommend INCALL, going to her place. She doesn't want trouble at her place and will be less likely to rip you off.
If she comes to your place, she will add $$ for her travelling time and she might even take off without giving you any service or ask for more $$ as your agreed price only includes a massage or strip show!
If you go to another country then hotels might be safer then incalls.
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In the United States, I recommend jacking off over either incall or outcall as the vast majority of American prostitutes are worthless. Thus, my advice pertains mainly to other countries, and primarily when travelling. Somewhere else I posted some other advice as far as how not to get ripped off in your hotel room.
Dickhead
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Guys,,the idea is safe sex,,,,,,,not paranoid sex.. exactly what is she going to do with your plate number,,,,,(even Bill Clinton couldn't get busted just for having a car).....I know a few guys here will claim to be international billionares that have blackmailers waiting around evry corner, but for most of us thats not a likely problem......... I have had hookers in my car more than 200 times,,I have had trouble with several, but my car was never an issue. I have had several at my apartment, no trouble there except they have a scary habit of leaving things behind that could be found by the wife or girlfriend......This might surprise a few people, but most girls will charge more for incall, because she is taking more risk at her place.......The one common scam for incall services is to claim the woman will be beutiful, with a great body etc,,then after you have paid, she somehow is not available and a very ordinary woman takes her place..........If you go to an outcall service where she comes to your hotel there are two common scams,,,one is to get your money then claim it is just for a backrub..........The other is that a few minutes after she gets to your room, her driver bangs on the door saying there is some emerrgency,,she then leaves with your money without providing service.......Very few guys get mugged or blackmailed,,also few get arrested,, but many get scammed........The name of the game for hookers is to seperate you from your money. Some do it with sex,,others with scams... Many will pick your pockets too..........There are very few hookers that can think long term enough to plan a blackmail. Their world is fast cash.......................If you want to get an escort the safest bet is the lower cost independent incalls. No false claims of 19 year olds with D cups. Just sex with a regular lady . The higher price places cost more and promise more,,but they do not deliver more.
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What she can do with your plate number is find out where you live (public record, at least in my state), which happened to a married friend of mine. Then she looked up his phone number and tried to blackmail him.
So let's be careful, but not paranoid, out there.
Dickhead
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> Dont bother asking these girls anything,,they lie about anything and everything........If you assume they are druggies you will be right most of the time,,even the ones who look fresh and clean are mostly drug users. I am always respectfull to sex workers...but never trust them about anything. Most will rip you off if they think your an easy mark. I have always felt that incall is the safest
Hi Brett,
I am no expert either, but that's probably a difference between prostitution in Europe and the States: it's unlikely here to get robbed by *****s, especially non-Black ones. Blacks can be a bit more dangerous. I have lots of experience in Germany and Italy, and I have always felt pretty safe. Also, I read newspapers on a regular basis, and I only read once of a trick being robbed by a hooker. Either things are a bit more friendly, or robbery is considered a deterrent to the business... :-)
A problem I noticed with addicts is that, especially as they are at the beginning of their carrier (and still looking decently fresh) they are at times pretty clumsy at blowing your dick, so that you get spittle trickling on your loins...a plastic sheet would be sufficient to deal with the problem, but I always felt it to be too ridicolous an arrangement to be proposed :-(
Any idea on this subject?
Viator
PS: a funny note - one of these desperado girls last Friday told me that she and her boyfriend needed the money I was handling her to buy their engagement rings... when they're under effect of some substance you can expect the craziest lies! Anyway, I decided to play the role, asking her if she planned to bear lots of children, and wishing her and her boyfriend long life and a happy marriage. Boy! Anyway, everything was said in a kind and relaxed fashion, and we separated in good terms.
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Hey, Viator and Cumonher, I have a question for you.
Since you like to have sex without a condom (I do this with girlfriends after a few weeks), did you get any STDs, even "harmless" ones like herpes? Or did you have it already? After all, 15% have the big H.
I used to be paranoid around gfs, but after all, as long as you don't get AIDS or hep B, it's not really that big a deal.
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will i get any sex diseases by finger-fucking a prosititue ?
someone told me i will catch the disease thru the sweat
on my fingers if I put it inside the girl's vagina, is this true ???
will i catch AIDS even with the condoms ? i am worried 'cus
normally condom doesnt cover the penis all the way to my
balls.l