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[i]"Just set your GPS to these coordinates, jump in the open-top and start driving, when the GPS start bleeping you just arrived…[/i]
...unless of course, you don't live in America. :) If that's the case, just make sure you have an echo sounder as well as a GPS, and then you can throw a line over the side of your open-top and do a spot of deep-sea fishing while you drive....errr ...sail. *cheeky grin*
PS. BadMan, On a more serious note, I have read that many people have had severe allergic reactions to Spanish Fly, and that people with certain medical conditions should never touch it. You might want to do a bit of research if you're considering taking it, just in case. And like with any drug, giving it to someone without their knowledge/consent could be extremely dangerous. (As someone who has been on the receiving end of a dose of Rohypnol, I just felt compelled to mention that).
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Actually I need to Thank RN. I put her advise to use with a wonderful gal in Windsor Ontario (Canada)- yes, an escort...
but I thought I'd leave you a link to what she had to say about our encounter:
http://www.adultmb.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?threadid=1773
Havanaman, our little lady from OZ is right, a little rommance is a great lubricant regardless of whether the encounter is a sure thing or not. :) It was one of the more memorable ones I've had.
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Continuing the serious note: anyone interested in taking "sexual substances" should read:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/ot_aphro.shtml
This is a well balanced short essay on the subject. Let me tell you in brief, there is no KNOWN substance that will really make your desire "go" (or should I say cum!).
There are however thousands of products that will give you a psychological / placebo boost... Unless you absolutely have to (...and I really can't see why you would...) I'd urge anyone to stay clear of the fraudulent love potion industry.
I have treated 8 priapisms, well in excess of 45 physically traumatised penises, and at least half a dozen penises with serious urticaria (penis skin reactions to nasty substances placed on the “member”). Sometimes it beggars belief….
Why not try something new, something really radical? Try the natural / unassisted methods… (appropriately covered, as necessary off course!)
Regards,
Havanaman
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Woohoo Warpig! That's fantastic!! Wow, you really went all out...I don't suppose you're free tomorrow night, are you? *wink, wink* lol
See...even us bad-assed working girls enjoy being treated like a princess every now and then! (Maybe even more so than regular girls, actually). Sounds like she had an incredible time. I think you can safely assume that you made that woman's day. And hopefully she showed you how much she appreciated it...over and over and over again... ;)
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From what I've read about you RN I could only wish I was free tommorow night. LOL Perth ain't exactly right next door to Detroit Michigan. But Detroit is next door to Canada (Windsor) so the commonwealth is in my back yard. God Save the Queen and all her lovely little ladies of the evening :D
Trust me that the lady treated me very well, Carah is an absolute sweetheart. And RN, you are more than welcome to backchannel her for my email adress (tell her who you are more or less), then backchannel me ;-) @----;--
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aphrodisiacs and such things
the popular statement that there is no known substance that will artificially increase people's willingness to have sex needs to be qualified. illicit drugs often do, and i suspect this is the real reason why governments cling to repressive policies in spite of the incredible social cost.
much has been written about avoiding addict prostitutes on the grounds that they are more likely than the regular ones to be unreliable and diseased. there may be some wisdom in this, but many a monger, including myself, repeatedly have had the best sex of their life with girls who happened to be high on one stuff or another. this type of experience has been underreported in whoring discussions, for reasons not difficult to grasp.
this doesn't entail that all illicit drugs are ideal aphrodisiacs. for one, being horny and being a good lover are two different things. c*caine and speed, to name two of the stuffs that will have girls climb up a wall pleading for cock, will make you horny as hell, while at the same time diminishing your capacity to sustain an erection. "enhanced willingness but failing ability to perform" is a phrase i've seen used to describe this predicament.
interestingly, this may give a clue as to why viagra was banned in japan for a while: it effectively enables men to have great sex while high on stimulants. not astonishingly, drug dealers have a sideline selling viagra.
had the fda been able to anticipate this perverse side-effect, viagra probably would never have made it to chemist's shelves.
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I for one believe "aphrodesiacs" do exist. Booze of just about any kind can do the job if taken in sufficient quantities, but too much as we all know will knock the girl out cold, and make her thus no fun.
There's the drugs, Xstacy for instance, as well as various other street drugs that have sexual side-effects of atleast a minor level.
As for the rumored "spanish fly" like substances that are rumored to make a woman jump you almost instantly for no reason, I doubt they exist.
Almost all of the ones that I know of either "enhance" an already occurring activity, or weaken one's judgement. So if you want to
spice things up with your girlfriend, something can be done along this line, but you probably won't find an instant "fuck me" drug.
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Spanish fly
Spanish fly is cantharide, an extract from an insect that causes severe itching of the urethra, possibly with accompanying erection. It has a very high toxicity and is more of a popular myth than a real illicit drug. See :
http://locus1.com/fdr/aph/ingcantharides.htm
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Hi all,
Here's my dilemma. I'm 31, only been with one woman, still with her and plan to marry next year...after over 10 years of courtship. yep high school sweethearts. For the last three years or so I've had this one nagging thought.
What are other women like?
It's gotten to a point where the sight of a woman sets me off imagining the things I'd do to her and the way I'd like for her to reciprocate. These urges are quieted after some internet porn and masterbation, but that's becoming less and less of a long term solution. This leads me to think that being with someone else is also not the answer, but I can't think that far now.
I've never wanted to find another girl to have discreet sex with because I don't want or can't emotionally divorce myself from the act. For a long time I didn't want to use the services of a hooker because I imagine her hating me as a person and would rather grind my wallet for the amount of time it takes me to cum.
Now, I'm still hopelessly torn and getting a little desperate, to the point where I'm looking at going overseas to satiate this curiosity/lust, or whatever. I figure I'd go and do the deed before I get married. Reasoning that at least I didn't commit "adultery". I know I"m reaching here but I'm hanging onto whatever I can.
For you guys who may have experienced similar angst, what happened? how did you resolve it? One option is to talk to my sweetie, but not sure how to start.
Do you guys wish you never went down this road?
If so, did it stop at one incident?
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by jadegatelover
[i]... One option is to talk to my sweetie, but not sure how to start. [/i][/QUOTE]bad answer. this is not an option if you wish to keep your girl. if you do the deed - never ever confess to her. go to a priest or a shrink if you must satisfy your urge to blab.
... do you also suspect that she has similar thoughts?
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Honesty is important, regardless of what someone may have said about it destroying your relationship.
You haven't ACTUALLY done anything, so there's nothing to be guilty about. Ever picked up a women's magazine? Many of them fantasize that their lovers are famous celebrities or other attractive persons they've seen during their workday/worknight.
It's best to share your feelings with your fiancee.
Once you start down the "sneaking alittle action on the side" road, you'll find it harder and harder to be honest with your wife later on. Check out the SAFE SEX section for an example. This man may have infected his wife with something that has no cure, but is reluctant to come clean with her even now.
Ultimately, it is up to you. Do you think it's better to be "open" with your partner about what excites you, or do you think it's better to bottle it up inside, thinking it might be too much?
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Jade,
Here's my 2 cents for what they are worth coming from an old TrashMan like myself.
When I first got married, I was 25 and my wife was 19. Now I had done my fair share of fucking with a variety pack of women prior to meeting her, but I will tell you that once I met her, we had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date ( she was no virgin either ) and right after that she moved into my place. She was a real little hottie that I thoroughly enjoyed on a more than daily basis for years. I never really had much desire to do other girls for many years. In fact, I had never even been in so much as a strip club until I was about 45 or so and then I'll admit a whole new world was opened up. It took little time for things to progress to trying an escort finally when out of town on business like a million other guys and then it was really off to the races.
The point is, that A) if I had never started with internet porn perusal and then strip clubs, and so on, I would never have both had so much fun as well as been so regretful at the same time and B)my wife totally sexually satisfied me for many many years and is still pretty damned hot, although a bit heavier than I like.
If you're not even married and you're cattin' around, she just isn't the one. When the one comes along brother you won't be able to get enough of it, at least for a lot of years
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Trashman, is she an American? Perhaps you can enlighten the folks at the American Women section. Or is she Asian or Latina?
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Dick,
She meaning my wife? She is American of Irish descent.
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by jadegatelover
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For you guys who may have experienced similar angst, what happened? how did you resolve it? One option is to talk to my sweetie, but not sure how to start.
Do you guys wish you never went down this road? [/i][/QUOTE]
I agree 100% with RN. Don't EVER, EVER talk about your lust for anything approaching another female with your woman. Never. EVER.
I don't care how much she SWEARS that she wants to hear about it. I don't care if she gets down on her knees and begs. I don't care if she throws in a BJ for good measure.
MUTE is the word, my friend!
Think of it this way. One of these days should you ever decide to marry, the once little wifey is BOUND to ask you ... (CLEAR out of the blue, and almost ALWAYS at the TOP of the NINTH of WORLD SERIES with the bases loaded and the Babe's GHOST on the line, pointing to the bleachers) ....
"Honey," she ask, "AM I fat?"
When you’ve figured out how to answer that question (or not answer it, as the case may be) then you'll understand why you NEVER, EVER .. EVER talk to the little lady about your lust wanderings.
Mind you, if you have a taste for PRAIRIE OYSTERS (YOURS, of course) with her POT ROAST .. BE my guest, and COMMUNICATE! … But that’s YOUR call!, DUDE! LOL!