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This problem has probably been discussed in here somewhere, but I haven't found it. My problem is pre-mature ejaculation. It has damn near ruined my sex life lately and seems to be getting worse. I'm 51 yrs old and in good health. Will Viagra help me with this problem? Any advice is greatly appreciated!
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Stroker -- no, Viagra will not really help you keep from popping prematurely, (though some guys do report some degree of decreased ability to cum) as premature ejaculation is considered to be primarily psychologically based. You might want instead to look into some of the desensitizing creams to reduce sensation somewhat, or wearing a double condom, which does the same. Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles, which can tend to get weaker with age unless tended to, is also supposed to help since those muscles improve your general control of the nether regions.
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Hey Stroker,
Check out this web page:
http://www.orgasmdelay.com/
The guy who runs this, Serge Kreutz, is a straight shooter, as far as my personal experience, with other sites of his, is concerned.
Hope this helps.
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there are some exercises you can do to help with premature ejaculation. you can masturbate almost to the point of coming and then squeeze the upper part of your rod hard so that it cannot escape until the feeling subsides, repeat this several times and this is supposed to strengthen your ability to "hold" it.
practise this daily for a couple of weeks and you should strengthen your love muscles much as if you were strengthening any other muscles of your body.
as for what viagra might help you with is the rebound....viagra should bring you up to full speed erection again quickly after ejaculation (5 minutes?) and i would think that your 2nd or 3rd ejaculations would take more time to generate. of course if you're with a girl for hire you will probably need to negotiate a "package" deal for this.
another thing is just masturbate to climax before you go out mongering so that you have less ejaculate in your tank, the viagra will bring you around but yet you will have already alleviated any excess pressure and therfore last longer once you get to it. (or into it as it were)
another thing to remember is that the frequency of sex will reduce your ejaculate for some of the same reasons, if you have sex daily your reserves will always be on the lower side witht the additional benefits of strengthening your love muscles and probably improving your sexual techniques.
so to paraphrase from a famous philosopher "if you like something do it, if you like it a lot do it a lot."
good luck
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stroker,
first and foremost, you must exercise your pc (pubococcygeus) muscle. it's located a point between your scrocum (spelling?) and anus. try [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112][CodeWord112][/url] and try very hard to stop it and hold it until you feel the urge desipitate, release slowly and continue [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112][CodeWord112][/url]. that's the muscle. it needs exercise. believe me i know. i'm 56 and started late.
it's going to take 2-6 weeks to train yourself to hold it back. start with simple squeezes for 5 seconds 20 times. do not hold your breath. important to continue breathing. do this 3 times a day. release the muscle slowly. do not use your stomach muscles in combination with the pc muscle. it's easy and it works if you do your share.
in addition, consider the book "how to make love all night and drive a woman wild". all the necessary exercises are explained in the book with full details how you start, intermediate and advance exercises. it works. i don't think you will regret buying the book. author is barbara keesling, ph.d. yes, a woman, but she knows what she's talking about. try a book sellers website. isbn no.0060171227. ok, who's laughing on the other side of the monitor.
as a last resort, masturbate 1-2 hrs. prior to anticipated intercourse. you will have to squeeze this muscle during intercourse more than once and your partner will know it and realize what you are doing, but she probably will be impressed eventually with your control. women also have this muscle. ask her to squeeze hers while you're inside. it feels great.
with a strong pc muscle, you can orgasm more than once without ejaculating. perhaps if necessary, you might find generic v called silagra helpful with this problem in combination using your muscle. see earlier posts.
with all due respect to rico, its not very convenient squeezing your penis to hold it back. the root of your problem and with all men regardless of age is a strong pc muscle which will stop [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url] and sperm. how else do porno stars and men claiming to make love for hrs. do it without using this muscle.
i repeat, you will find this book helpful. ok. i did.
go ahead and laugh but you can train your muscle while reading this post, standing in line at the bank or supermarket, movie theatre etc.
there's the other phrase:
"use it, or loose it".
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Hi stroker ace, I am 49 years old and does not have a pre-mature ejaculation problem however I have been using Viagra for a couple of years and have found that sometimes I have a hard time coming when I am using Viagra. I have talked to a couple of my friends who also have the same problem when using Viagra. So I think using Viagra might help with your pre-mature ejaculation problem. It wouldn't hurt. Just my 2 cents.
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Remember the movie. "There is something about Mary". Well, just donīt go out with a loaded gun! And whatch out for that hair gel!
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I agree with NYC expat, I have read some of the same exercises in some books dating back to the 70's.
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Hey Stroker Ace,
I agree with NYC Expat about the PC muscle as being most important in helping and the frequency of ejaculation will be just as much so, but theres more you can do. This may sound obvious but stay on top initially so you can control all movement and slow down to a stop when you need to. Get a feel of your body and timing until your right on the verge of bursting then pull out and not only hold your PC muscle back, but tightly grip the base of your cock at the same time until the feeling subsides. This is not so much to hold back semen but more to control contractions and momentarily distract feeling from the stimulation going on in the your head of your penis.
With perfect timing you will be able to begin but not fully complete an orgasm and even dribble some, which will be good because the partial release will both relieve pressure and deminish sensitivity. Dont forget to switch it up and give her oral for a while in between if you feel you cant last, until you recover. Repeat as nessisary (she wont mind). Also this may be a good time to tightly pinch or squeeze the head of your erection as the slight discomfort is not sexually gratifying and will help desensitise you quicker for the next penitration.
If all else fails, try a desensitising product. Probably something with "caine" on the end of the name like a docter might use as a numbing agent, but available in a sex shop or catalog. Just be confident you can naturally establish a rhythem with a regular partner and build up to lasting longer. If its a provider, who cares what she thinks of your performance, she's being paid! Either way, take the pressure off yourself, its likely a big part of the problem.
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Now I have a question: I've always been curios about trying Viagra or similiar products but have no erectile problems and function fine sexually. So...
Is it bad to take these products on either a sampling or long term basis if you dont nessisarily need them?
Also, can your erections become dependant apon them?
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My personal experience has been that the use of Viagra, Levitra or Cialis has not affected my ability to get an erection without them. (so far)
I have integrated them into my mongering rouitine since Viagra came out and have tried the rest as they became available.
If the wife decides she wants some my little buddy always springs to action to take care of business without the meds.
I do find that if I'm cruising the strip joints and expecting to do some marathon mongering they sure come in handy for the multiple erections and ejaculations.
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How does viagra affect the heart and heart rate. I have heard it increases the heart rate in some people to a very fast rate, even while resting.
I don't have a heart condition, but i don't want one either!
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Anyone with a heart condition or a family history of such or any unhealthy physical condition should be checked by a Doctor before using Viagra or anything else.
I'm not an expert in these matters but it seems logical to include smokers, excessive drinkers, and people with a disporportionate weight to height ratio as people who should have a Doctror's recommendation. It's not worth the risk.
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GT, you might want to check out Trashman's story earlier in this thread at 01-04-03 23:07. It's definitely a cautionary tale.