In defense of Oase parties
Yes, it can be crowded at Oase during parties. But ...
1. The food used to be special at parties and actually not hidden behind the counter of the bar
2. The long wait for rooms allowed for some great extended foreplay, which was an extra bonus.
3. Yes, there are often many more men, but a lot of them actually seem to only be interested in the food and drink. So it is not a sausage fest, and one can still grab a big enough selection of girls to make the evening special.
I had some of my best sessions during parties at Oase, perhaps because once I grab a girl and develop chemistry with her, she is often just as eager to get away form the crowd as I am.
As with every experience at any of the clubs ... YMMV