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[QUOTE=HornyGeorge]RobAF: How do you do the screen capture on YM? I have actually taken digital pictures of the monitor which came out almost as clear as the actual screen captures but would like to learn how you do that. Thanks.
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HG
Am sure Robaf will reply but I do it by using the PrtSc (Print Screen) function, paste it to Word and then use the MS Paint function to make it JPG. Cumbersome but works
Am told Hypersnap is good - I have yet to download and try but friends say this is a good software
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[QUOTE=HornyGeorge]RobAF: How do you do the screen capture on YM? I have actually taken digital pictures of the monitor which came out almost as clear as the actual screen captures but would like to learn how you do that.[/QUOTE]
WR, you are correct, I use the PrtSc (print screen) and then I paste in Powerpoint, open in MS Paint, cut the part I want and save as a Jpeg. I used to use Word, but I found Powerpoint works better for me, as I just add a new slide, after every paste:D
Robb
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Screen Capture
[QUOTE=HornyGeorge]RobAF: How do you do the screen capture on YM? I have actually taken digital pictures of the monitor which came out almost as clear as the actual screen captures but would like to learn how you do that. Thanks.[/QUOTE]
I use a program called Bulents Screen Recorder. Not only can you take snaps from the yahoo window you can take video as well.
The version I have is farly old but i see the new version has ecven greater bells and whistles.
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gay friends
hello,
I also meet or will meet up girls from sites.If l have time.l dont mind they bring a friend for the first meeting,but l allways tell them to bring a girl and not a bakla.l have enough of those dramaqueens at work.so when meeting them on my offhours l like them to be girls only.
blink157
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Screen Capture
I use a nifty little programme called SnagIt. Very simple to use it has a useful crop tool to copy whichever area of your screen you wish to capture and then holds them until you are ready to import them into whatever graphics device you are using (paint, photoshop etc). It also exports its images into word or powerpoint. I also find this latter tool useful for cutting and pasting useful reports from ISG into a word document for use when I'm travelling.
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I use screenprint32. Just went to the web site and it still seems to be free. No video with this one.
[url]http://www.provtech.co.uk/software/screenprint32.asp[/url]
A followup question is how in hell do you organize things when you get a few hundred shots? I eventually filed things away by location (Manila / Cebu / North Mindanao, etc). But if get an unfamiliar mail from someone, it's much harder to search by name.
Sometimes online gals tell me they are from some place I am unfamiliar with. Searching the location often brings up a Wikipedia listing, which includes a map-like location. I then take a screen shot of the map and file it away under ...um.. maps. I found this to be a great way to learn the geography and also make my questions more specific regarding travel destinations.
My YMessenger is also divided up by location. I got that idea from a Filipina in a net cafe. I glanced over her shoulder and saw she had several European countries listed. I can't imagine why she'd want anything to do with a European, but I was inspired to sort things the same way.
But it's surprising how many addresses I have in the "unknown location" folder. In most cases these ladies encouraged me to "add" them, but when I follow up with a some questions, which include, "what city are you in?", they don't reply. Hmmm.
I can only guess that the really good golddiggers know that when a sucker is hooked, he'll remember everything about the earlier chats. If a guy has to ask "where are you", he's obviously stringing along other gals -- the golddiggers move on to greener pastures.
Damn, how many analogies are in that previous paragraph?
Have fun,
X
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No gays allowed!
[QUOTE=Blink157]hello,
I also meet or will meet up girls from sites.If l have time.l dont mind they bring a friend for the first meeting,but l allways tell them to bring a girl and not a bakla.l have enough of those dramaqueens at work.so when meeting them on my offhours l like them to be girls only.
blink157[/QUOTE]
I would have to agree with B on this one. After chatting with many Filipinas, and visiting PI a few times, I reallized that gays are very easily accepted in their culture. It's just something we have to get used to, no matter how distateful it is to us. I have to admit that it made my skin crawl everytime one of the ladyboys would be looking me over. (I'm not anywhere close to a sex symbol, so it must have been just the white guy thing!) :)
One encounter that I had with a DIA contact, resulted in her bringing along 2 gay "cousins". She even went to the extreme of asking if they could stay in my hotel room while we had our fun. At the risk of her walking away, I said no! If her mom and sisters, female cousins or female friends wanted to be there for the show (or even join in), I would have no problem with it...maybe. As it turned out, I managed to take her, alone, to the room for some fun. I later found out that a much hotter babe, also from DIA had come there to meet me. Because she saw me with, as she stated, "another girl and her 2 gay cousins," (makes me wonder if it was a setup) she decided to not meet me after all. I had waited 2 days for that one to show up!
Anyhow, no gays are allowed at my meetings anymore. I try to keep from allowing any other parties because of the problems they might cause. I had one girl that brought a baby along, and would not put it down the entire time I was with her. IMHO, one on one meetings are the best way to go! If a girl declines to meet with you without a tag-along, there are plenty of others available.
Happy Mongering!
HW
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gays lmao
Hahaha,
Just reading the comments here and lm laughing,maybe coz lm sitting at Matrix and having one smlight after another.Dildodan,if ever a chick comes along with her baby or any male/gay cousins l would murmble an excuse and head out very very fast. Xmen make me laugh about Europeans,maybe he met a mean german kid once who destroyed his sandcastle,hehe. Ok its the chatroom thread lm getting really stalked by a diagirl who wanted to desperately meet me since l joined dia a few month ago.lm not sure if l should met her up.My brain says No!My dick say.Why not!
Blink
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If something strikes you as incongruous, maybe you should stop and consider if it is just simple sarcasm.
[QUOTE=Dildo Danny]This has got to be one of the most dumbass comments I've read in a while, even coming from X Man.[/QUOTE]
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Oh man, missed opportunity. You get the gay to take the pictures! Then when you finish you encourage him to have a go. You take more pictures. :-)
I don't think my skin crawls, but I do feel uncomfortable with the very fem ones -- the ones who overact a bit. Yuck.
Gay guys know a lot of chicks and they know which chicks are ready for a boink. I treat them fairly (while keeping my distance) and this has allowed me to explore some women I wouldn't have explored otherwise.
Thanks for the ancedote HW.
X
[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]I would have to agree with B on this one. After chatting with many Filipinas, and visiting PI a few times, I reallized that gays are very easily accepted in their culture. It's just something we have to get used to, no matter how distateful it is to us. I have to admit that it made my skin crawl everytime one of the ladyboys would be looking me over. (I'm not anywhere close to a sex symbol, so it must have been just the white guy thing!) :)
One encounter that I had with a DIA contact, resulted in her bringing along 2 gay "cousins". She even went to the extreme of asking if they could stay in my hotel room while we had our fun. At the risk of her walking away, I said no! If her mom and sisters, female cousins or female friends wanted to be there for the show (or even join in), I would have no problem with it...maybe. As it turned out, I managed to take her, alone, to the room for some fun. I later found out that a much hotter babe, also from DIA had come there to meet me. Because she saw me with, as she stated, "another girl and her 2 gay cousins," (makes me wonder if it was a setup) she decided to not meet me after all. I had waited 2 days for that one to show up!
Anyhow, no gays are allowed at my meetings anymore. I try to keep from allowing any other parties because of the problems they might cause. I had one girl that brought a baby along, and would not put it down the entire time I was with her. IMHO, one on one meetings are the best way to go! If a girl declines to meet with you without a tag-along, there are plenty of others available.
Happy Mongering!
HW[/QUOTE]
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2 photos
anyone know these two DIA ladies?
I've been hitting DIA hard in preparation for my arrival in Makati on Sept 23. I'll be there for a week with a focus in DIA leads. Then Boracay for 3 nights and back to Ermita for 3 nights of the clasic p4p alternate venues. I started the DIA research about 8 weeks prior to travel, which in retrospect was way too early. Following the lead of another poster, I recently created a "naughty boy" profile to contrast with my nice guy original. I'll report over the next three weeks as things play out. However, I'm wondering about two DIA ladies in particular. Has anyone here met either one of them...both around Manila. Please pm me if you can share info on them. thanks. See their pics attached:
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[QUOTE=Xdentx]I've been hitting DIA hard in preparation for my arrival in Makati on Sept 23. I'll be there for a week with a focus in DIA leads. Then Boracay for 3 nights and back to Ermita for 3 nights of the clasic p4p alternate venues. I started the DIA research about 8 weeks prior to travel, which in retrospect was way too early. Following the lead of another poster, I recently created a "naughty boy" profile to contrast with my nice guy original. I'll report over the next three weeks as things play out. However, I'm wondering about two DIA ladies in particular. Has anyone here met either one of them...both around Manila. Please pm me if you can share info on them. thanks. See their pics attached:[/QUOTE]
I don't recognize them, I hope you used the same pic as the one they have in their profile.
When I was alone in Manila for a few days, I sent a lot of emails to decent looking girls that had been online with in the last 24 hours. Had a few responses.
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DIA chat
I'm quite new at this chat thing with DIA. I'd recommend starting the process about 3 weeks before you arrive...if you enjoy the process. You could wait until one week before, but multiple chats over a period of time usually give you a better feeling for the girls personality. The results of a nice guy looking for ltr profile, versus a naughty boy profile are interesting. I set up my favorites from the nice guy profile and sent them a message using the alternate naughty boy profile. I resolved the good girl status of several of them quite quickly. Some nice girls replied affirmately to the naughty profile and other girls passed. So it clarified who was p4p and who was more interested in a real relationship. I also discovered that you can get caught up...consumed..by this chat thing. Will frankly be happy when the philippine trip is over and i can shelve the dia chat stuff.
If anyone is interested in comparing notes on the Manila area gals, don't hesitate to pm me. It's rather difficult to figure out who's likely to be a star performer and who's gonna be the starfish. I arrive on Sept 23 and stay at city garden makati, if anyone wants to get together for a drink.
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I assume you are using the same pic they have in there profile. If you post a few it would be easy to scan thru them to see if anyone has chatted with them. The good thing about DIA is if you click on a girls picture, it will show all of your past emails with her, so you can easily see what you have said to her in the past.
I also used the " genourous, business man in town for a couple of days looking for a fun girl" profile also to check on some of the girls I met. I was surprised how many will respond to the bad boy profiles.
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Dia
The main problem with DIA is that a lot of the girls post an old picture. After meeting a few in person and almost asking, "are you her mom???", I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam. One girl was 29, picture looked 25, she looked 40 in person.
I met one on line and her picture was 10 of 10, of course no cam, so alarm bells go off "Ladyboy". I told it that I would be in town Saturday and to give me her cell so I can text. I arrived Friday and called, instead of text and Hello, a man trying to be a woman answered and I just asked for it's girl name and it changed it's voice...too late.
Robb
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[QUOTE=Robbaf] I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam.
Robb[/QUOTE]
Point well taken!
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2 photos
THE PHOTO and the for REAL
[QUOTE=Robbaf]The main problem with DIA is that a lot of the girls post an old picture. After meeting a few in person and almost asking, "are you her mom???", I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam. One girl was 29, picture looked 25, she looked 40 in person.
I met one on line and her picture was 10 of 10, of course no cam, so alarm bells go off "Ladyboy". I told it that I would be in town Saturday and to give me her cell so I can text. I arrived Friday and called, instead of text and Hello, a man trying to be a woman answered and I just asked for it's girl name and it changed it's voice...too late.
Robb[/QUOTE]
You are so right about the posting of old (young) photos. Even some of us men mongers may be tempted to do that!
But it is a well made point.
Three extra comments from me: First, the problem is not limited to DateInAsia, it can apply to all pen-friend sites with the posting of pics.
Second, it is not limited to the Philippines. In fact the Phils is one of the better countries for truth in accuracy of the pic. Most girls cannot afford a professionally done photo. they simply capture a photo off an internet cam and sometimes update it from time to time when they get tired at looking at themselves. The worst country I have experienced is China. Professional photos are taken, against artificial backgrounds, and airbrush and smudge tools are often used to take out the cracks, sags, moles and imperfections.
Always, wherever you can, see the girl on cam, in the flesh as it were. And if need be do a screen capture.
Here are a couple of photos of a Chinese lass (I presume it is the same one!): the DIA photo, and the screen capture one.
KongKing
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[QUOTE=KongKing]You are so right about the posting of old (young) photos. Even some of us men mongers may be tempted to do that!
But it is a well made point.
Three extra comments from me: First, the problem is not limited to DateInAsia, it can apply to all pen-friend sites with the postaing of pics.
Second, it is not limited to the Philippines. In fact the Phils is one of the better countries for truth in accuracy of the pic. Most girls cannot afford a professionally done photo. they simply capture a photo off an internet cam and sometimes update it from time to time when they get tired at looking at themselves. The worst country I have experienced is China. Professional photos are taken, against artificial backgrounds, and airbrush and smudge tools are often used to take out the cracks, sags, moles and imperfections.
Always, wherever you can, see the girl on cam, in the flesh as it were. And if need be do a screen capture.
Here are a couple of photos of a Chinese lass (I presume it is the same one!): the DIA photo, and the screen capture one.
KongKing[/QUOTE]
Good grief, what was she thinking?
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[QUOTE=Robbaf]I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam. One girl was 29, picture looked 25, she looked 40 in person.
I met one on line and her picture was 10 of 10, of course no cam, so alarm bells go off "Ladyboy". I told it that I would be in town Saturday and to give me her cell so I can text. I arrived Friday and called, instead of text and Hello, a man trying to be a woman answered and I just asked for it's girl name and it changed it's voice...too late.
Robb[/QUOTE]
Good advice Robb
I also only meet after c2c and normally after I have pesuaded them to show me some goodies first :) That way I know and she knows what to expect.
LBs are a problem.I have also done the same trick as I am suspicious. If they come with another cutie thats is fine (as Gina did earlier this year). But c2c always sorts out the girls from the LBs etc
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what was she thinking?
Ha, ha, I suspect KK was wondering, "What was I thinking?"
What was SHE thinking? Well, that is her picture! Don't we all use the photo that we think is most appealing.
I once worked for an asshole who put his name on books that company employees wrote. On the author page he has his picture from some other decade...and not the most recent one. Somehow many egomaniacs do well in life.
I digress...
When I used Cherry Blossom I was just amazed at the Chinese older women who had hot photos. In the end, the only one I was interested in was the bus driver. Her picture looked great, but also looked normal. She was 30ish and had pretty good English for a bus driver. (maybe too good?) Said she had a kid. Lost touch for a while, but never replied when I tried to renew contact.
X, at the moment in Japanese accomodation, listening to Brit music, chatting on the PI thread of the the ISG, commenting about Chinese bus drivers --- wow, thank you for globalization.
Oh, wait, half my life savings are in US stocks. Damn.
Taking one day at a time.
X
[QUOTE=Dino Jay]Good grief, what was she thinking?[/QUOTE]
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DIA Gone Wild
[QUOTE=Xdentx]I also discovered that you can get caught up...consumed..by this chat thing.[/QUOTE]
Yes I know what you mean! Was on DIA the other night and suddenly I'm chatting with over eight women, typing quite feverishly. After a few minutes, I get a message saying that I have to enter a code that is given to me each time I send a message. Maybe this is an override system to prevent spam. Has anybody experienced this?
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[QUOTE=Mattrick]Yes I know what you mean! Was on DIA the other night and suddenly I'm chatting with over eight women, typing quite feverishly. After a few minutes, I get a message saying that I have to enter a code that is given to me each time I send a message. Maybe this is an override system to prevent spam. Has anybody experienced this?[/QUOTE]
Never, are you sure it wasn't a spam message? I have never had any type of issue like that while using DIA. Be careful of a STD on your computer:D
Robb
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[QUOTE=Mattrick]Yes I know what you mean! Was on DIA the other night and suddenly I'm chatting with over eight women, typing quite feverishly. After a few minutes, I get a message saying that I have to enter a code that is given to me each time I send a message. Maybe this is an override system to prevent spam. Has anybody experienced this?[/QUOTE]
I had to put the code in because I kept sending the same message "hi, would you like to chat, blah blah..."
It is just to help stop people from spamming all the members.
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DIA Scammer
Be careful with this person:
DIA id: reizl 29, 28, Asian, davao, Philippines
[quote]Simple lady wants honest guy
attractive and very sincere.......................love to meet guy who is serious[/quote]The person wanted a cam show from me after sending some pics in your underwear
I refused. After that she got me blocked in dia which is nasty.
I m now in a country where I cannot sign up again.
If you have time, please block and report her to get her off DIA as she is a nut case.
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DIA scammer
My 2n try to post this.
I was banned in DIA after a person reported me. Here is the story
DIA id reizl29, 28, asian, davao sent me some pics and wanted me to give her a cam show. Sounded very ladyboy to me and I refused. 10 min later I got a nasty email. The important part of the trick was to have me confirm my dia id in the chat in yahoo. THe irony is that I had refused to give a show.
If you have time, block her and report her to get her removed. I m not at all sure this is a woman. I asked Filipino friends about the id name. It is not Filipino. Maybe Indian?
Her/his chat id in ym is: rhiwasa1979
Here the latest:
[quote]rhiwasa1979: cos u are very bad
me: nope
me: i have my friends reporting u now
me: with the photos
rhiwasa1979: why?what blocked?s
me: u got me blocked in DIA
me: thx
rhiwasa1979: cos ur very behaving bad
me: u will be banned in 1-2 days
me: dont worry
rhiwasa1979: r u sure u may do that cos ur very bad
rhiwasa1979: ok
rhiwasa1979: bye[/quote]
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Still there
She is still there:
Gender: Female
Age: 28
Country: Philippines
State / Region: davao city
City: davao
Ethnicity: Asian
Appearance: Very Attractive
Height: 165 cm (5'5")
Weight: 54 kg (119 lbs)
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Black
Education: University - Some
Occupation: student
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: Libra
Born in the year of: I'll tell you later
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: Non smoker
Drinking: Non drinker
simple lady wants honest guy
attractive and very sincere.......................love to meet guy who is serious
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I want to meet a Male
with age from 30 to 60
and I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.
i want to meet gy who is serious and have sense of humor and vewry good iwqhen it comes of relationship and very responsible...............
[QUOTE=Thaifun]My 2n try to post this.
I was banned in DIA after a person reported me. Here is the story
DIA id reizl29, 28, asian, davao sent me some pics and wanted me to give her a cam show. Sounded very ladyboy to me and I refused. 10 min later I got a nasty email. The important part of the trick was to have me confirm my dia id in the chat in yahoo. THe irony is that I had refused to give a show.
If you have time, block her and report her to get her removed. I m not at all sure this is a woman. I asked Filipino friends about the id name. It is not Filipino. Maybe Indian?
Her/his chat id in ym is: rhiwasa1979
Here the latest:[/QUOTE]
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Yahoo Messenger Archive of chats
I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks
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[QUOTE=Xdentx]I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks[/QUOTE]
Isn't that just a little bit anal retentive?
Yikes!!!!!
I'd hate see how you would memorialize getting one of them in the sack.
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IM Conversations
[QUOTE=Xdentx]I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks[/QUOTE]
Well I think thats a good idea especially if you are working with numerous contacts.
Very easy to save and copy to a text file as follows:
1. Open message archive window, then select the conversation.
2. Click the save icon in the toolbar. The 'save conversation history' window opens.
3. Locate the folder you want to save the selected conversation, type the name of the file and click the save button.
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Another YM Archive Alternative
[QUOTE=Xdentx]I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks[/QUOTE]
Xdentx,
I think the suggestion from Mattrick makes sense. Besides being easily transportable, you can continue chatting while reviewing past chat sessions in the text file. If you have the archive window open, you can't do any chatting without closing it first.
Another suggestion, is to use the web version of YM. It appears to be a little more limited than the downloaded version. But it does save an archive of chat sessions that can be opened and reviewed from any computer with web access.
As for the comment from PLC, there is nothing anal retentive about it. After chatting with more than a few cuties, it's easy to get confused, or forget what you have said to any one of them in the past. Using the archive is a good way to keep track of things in order to keep from screwing up the work put in to having a successful meeting with one of these LBFM's.
Happy Mongering!
HW
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[QUOTE=X Man]X, at the moment in Japanese accomodation, listening to Brit music, chatting on the PI thread of the the ISG, commenting about Chinese bus drivers --- wow, thank you for globalization.
Oh, wait, half my life savings are in US stocks. Damn.
Taking one day at a time.
X[/QUOTE]
Love the humor X! I'll have to meet up with you the next time I have a chance to run amuck in paradise! I'd like to buy you a beer and have you give me some pointers on finding the cuties outside the bars. Enjoy your time in Japan! And don't worry about your US stocks. Just like the Phils government, our's loves the income from outside sources also! :D
HW
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[QUOTE=Xdentx]I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks[/QUOTE]Not really sure if you want to add the archived files from the desktop to the archive of the laptop or just temporarily copy them there until you clear out your desktop.
But here is another way to transfer the YM archives (I have Windows XP):
1) Open the Program Files folder (usually C:\Program Files)
2) Open the Yahoo! folder
3) Open the Messenger folder
4) Open the Profiles folder
5) Open your YM ID folder (like Xdentx or something)
6) Open the Archives folder
7) Open the Messages folder
8) Note the folder named for each of your YM buddies
Here is the complete path:
C:\Program Files\Yahoo!\Messenger\Profiles\YourYahooID\Archive\Messages\NameOfYourYahooBuddy
9) Each buddy folder will contain archived, date-coded messages.
10) The messages are encrypted, but the files can be copied to another machine and placed in the corresponding YM folder. Then they can be read in YM like any other stored messages.
NOTE: Do NOT copy the folders to another PC with archive folders of the same name or your existing messages will be overwritten. Same for the individual chat files. Since the files are named by their chat dates, you may not want to simply dump them to the folder on another machine if you already have chat files of the same name.
I would suggest copying the YM buddy folders to a thumb drive and renaming them. Thus, if you have an archived YM buddy folder called Sexy_pinay on both the Desktop and Laptop, rename the copied folder to Sexy_pinay-from_desktop or something like that. Then you can copy the folder to your laptop archive area, both Sexy_Pinay and Sexy_pinay-from_desktop folders will show up in the archived messages window.
Now, having gone through all that, here is a a quick and easy. If your individual chat files on your laptop do not have the same name as the ones on your laptop, just dump them to the corresponding laptop folder. All the messages will show up in the archives for their respective chat dates.
That's just my 2 cents, unless someone has a better way.
DISCLAIMER
I am not responsible for any screw-ups, so I'd suggest you also make a back-up copy of your laptop archives, just in case you do overwrite your files.
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Scammer
Yes, but pic removed. If some guys click on "stop" to get the person removed, it would be good. The maniac is likely to continue. My pinay friends chatted with her, pretending to be male. They say definitely not a woman and likely not in the Philippines. Some Indian scum they said.
[QUOTE=Robbaf]She is still there:
Gender: Female
Age: 28
Country: Philippines
State / Region: davao city
City: davao
Ethnicity: Asian
Appearance: Very Attractive
Height: 165 cm (5'5")
Weight: 54 kg (119 lbs)
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Black
Education: University - Some
Occupation: student
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: Libra
Born in the year of: I'll tell you later
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: Non smoker
Drinking: Non drinker
simple lady wants honest guy
attractive and very sincere.......................love to meet guy who is serious
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I want to meet a Male
with age from 30 to 60
and I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.
i want to meet gy who is serious and have sense of humor and vewry good iwqhen it comes of relationship and very responsible...............[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]Xdentx,
Another suggestion, is to use the web version of YM. It appears to be a little more limited than the downloaded version. But it does save an archive of chat sessions that can be opened and reviewed from any computer with web access.
Happy Mongering!
HW[/QUOTE]
I have a couple hundred names on my different yahoo msg. I wish I would have kept some notes on the different ones. I must have been attracted to them at one time, or I would not have them on my msg list.
I have started using yahoo msg Internet version for most of my chats. Now if a girl pops ups on my screen to chat, I just click the history button, and I can tell instantly if she is someone I want to chat with. Also most of the girls have a small picture in there yahoo msg profile that will help you remember them.
The only time I use the Download version of msg is when I want to see them on cam. After I confirm on cam that they are the female/cute I change back to the web version.
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Thanks Chocolate Chip for the archive info
Thanks for your comprehensive review. Appreciate it. I had already found the ym folder via windows explorer. Your warning about overwriting saved my ass because I hadn't had time enough to mess up on my own. And thanks to all who don't feel this is anal retentive.
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OIP (Only in the Philippines)
I use DIA for meeting ladies and what happen yesterday was a first for me and I have to post it.
Two weeks ago a lady messaged me and we messaged back and forth and finally I got to webcam with her last week. She looks good, so I took a chance and arranged to meet with her yesterday. When she showed up at the hotel, I went down to the lobby to pick her up. I didn't see her and the guard pointed her out under the staircase. I looked at her, but she looked different. She saw me and started walking to me and I just led her to the room. When we got to the room, I said, WOW you look different on the cam and she replied, "No, I am sorry, that is my sister. She was using my cell and I read your text to her and I told her that you didn't text her and I came instead".
Her sister found out and she messaged me today:
DIA wrote:
-=sorry if we not meet yesterday-=
-=because my daughter have a sick-=
-=but next Sunday i want to meet you -=
-=you seen my sister already yesterday?-=
-=how she look?-=
-=you know im angry with here-=
-=she dint tell me that she meet you-=
-=you want to see me in person?-=
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Of course I asked her sister if she told her that we got real friendly and she said no, she wouldn't tell her that. So, the original sister is coming in the morning next week and then her sister will come in the afternoon.
I am working on a threesome and some nude pis:D
The pictures are included. DIA is the original girl.
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Don't like yahoo messenger very much. Theyre full of bots offering webcam services. Any other alternatives?
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Camfrog
Try Camfrog. The full version cost but then again the person you are trying to view can't deny you viewing them. The only draw back to the free version is you can only see one cam at a time.
[QUOTE=otap]Don't like yahoo messenger very much. Theyre full of bots offering webcam services. Any other alternatives?[/QUOTE]
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Camfrog makes you depressed :(
Research: Cybersex users show high depression rates.
"... Most concerning was the high rate of poor mental health among the sample group. We found that 27 per cent of them were moderate to severely depressed on the standard depression scales. Thirty per cent had high levels of anxiety and 35 per cent were moderately to severely stressed, which is of course extremely high. The more heavily they engaged in online sexual activity the higher their level of depression and anxiety was, he said.
It was possible these rates were high because the men were spending so much time online and not engaging with people socially."
[url]http://www.news.com.au/technology/story/0,25642,24401593-5014239,00.html[/url]
So guys, throw away those webcams and the baby-oil, and get out of the house for some real-life shagging! ;)
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What rooms in Camfrog?
I've tried camfrog. I downloaded the free version, installed it, and signed up. But after that, I failed to find anything any more interesting than the Yahoo chat rooms. They are also filled with bots, from what I have seen. I know that some on these boards report seeing some action on both Camfrog and Yahoo, but I don't seem to find it anywhere I've been looking. Can anyone that has experience on those chat rooms give a little more information?
I will have to say that Piper1 has a good point though. The real thing is always more fun! :D
Happy Mongering!
HW
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Camfrog can also be hit or miss
Just look around and add the showgirls or guys what ever trips your trigger to the friend list. That way you know where they are also the rooms are kept open by bots, you will always see one in the room usually it has the same name of the room.
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Quicky
So, against my better judgement, I am back on FH again. If any of you read my reports from the Cebu thread you will know that all the FH girls I met were just plain horrible expirences. I should have listened to my little inner voice as it told me to skip meeting them and get out for freebies. So many girls out there and you get to meet/see them up front.
As for the question to the board, I have seen much of this post in the seeking portion of FH profiles. It is as follows:
"im looking for someone who cares and to understand for what i am ,and looking guy who will complete my lifetime partner"
OK, so the lifetime partner I get, but what about the "for what I am" part. Does this mean that they are pros, BG, etc?
Looking forward to your thoughts.
Carmex
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"for what I am"
[QUOTE=Carmex]As for the question to the board, I have seen much of this post in the seeking portion of FH profiles. It is as follows:
"im looking for someone who cares and to understand for what i am ,and looking guy who will complete my lifetime partner"
OK, so the lifetime partner I get, but what about the "for what I am" part. Does this mean that they are pros, BG, etc?
Carmex[/QUOTE]
A lot of time they just copy and paste anothers profile as they have no idea what to say.
"for what I am" is normally in reference to either
1. having a baby to a local boy who then left her
2. being a poor uneducated girl from the province
3. she is FAT
4. she is a "lady boy"
5. any combination of the above.
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Few random thoughts on dating sites
[QUOTE=Carmex]So, against my better judgement, I am back on FH again. If any of you read my reports from the Cebu thread you will know that all the FH girls I met were just plain horrible expirences. I should have listened to my little inner voice as it told me to skip meeting them and get out for freebies. So many girls out there and you get to meet/see them up front.
As for the question to the board, I have seen much of this post in the seeking portion of FH profiles. It is as follows:
"im looking for someone who cares and to understand for what i am ,and looking guy who will complete my lifetime partner"
OK, so the lifetime partner I get, but what about the "for what I am" part. Does this mean that they are pros, BG, etc?
Looking forward to your thoughts.
Carmex[/QUOTE]
I know I'm a cynical old sod, but I cannot help but be amazed by the way many Pinay webdating girls delude themselves with fanciful and unrealistic expectations of the sort of guys they are likely to meet through these sites. As if they had OD'd on Mills and Boone. You get so many looking for 'eternal soulmates', 'everlasting love' and other vomit inducing nonsense. Not a lot looking for 'casual love', 'lechorous old farts' or 'quick and financially advantageous fucks', which is much more likely to elicit a positive response. Guess there must be some sincere prince charming types, seriously looking for romance, that use these sites but they must be pretty rare and get quickly snapped up.
Some words and phrases that frequently appear, put the fear of God into me. One of these is oddly enough 'Godfearing' to describe the girl or her anticipated match. Another I often see is 'don't like playing games'. So a round of strip poker is out of the question then, and I can leave the 'nursey' uniform at home, shall I?
There are quite a few nutters out there too, but these can usually by filtered out by careful screening. One 35 year old who had been pestering me for a while, even though I politely but firmly made it clear that I was not interested, took the unusual step of reworking her profile into vituperative, personal attack. And I hadn't even met the crazy b****!
Anyone else had unusual experiences? GH
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Reading Habits
i've never used any of these sites, and i've only seen one or two so i'm hardly an expert, but i think the content of the girls' profiles is easily explained by looking at the reading material consumed by an average filipina. has anyone ever seen a filipina reading (for pleasure) anything but a movie magazine or a closely-allied summary of pap? anyone ever see a filipina reading an actual book? all the reading materials i've ever seen are sort of down market philippine versions of cosmos. what's the typical content of the crap they read. scintillating and in-depth stuff on: "how to find mr. right." or: "loving you for who and what you are." i'm sure the profile stuff is paraphrased from this sort of material.
this is, i guess what happens, when your leisure-time reading consists mainly of photo captions and you have the intellectual curiosity of a grape..
ge
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Be careful of the dating site leeches
I have used DIA primarily for the past couple of years. I have seen all of the same lines mentioned in previous posts so many times, that I just look at the pictures now. If I do read the profile, I watch for keywords that are in the description of the guy they are looking for. If I see "generous," "one-woman-man," "willing to help me in my situation," or any variation on these phrases, I move on. If one of them contacts me after seeing that I was looking at her profile, I will carry on a polite chat with them. If that turns into a "Can you send me money?" thing, I block them. I decided that I will not be their sugar daddy (with no benefits), or ATM. If I meet with a girl, and I am pleased with the results of our meeting, I will gladly give her money to cover the cost of the bus, taxi, or other means of transportation. I might even take her out to eat, have some drinks, or buy her a gift. But I make it very clear that she should not expect to be on some paymet plan beyond that one time.
I did have one girl latch onto me as soon as I first started using DIA. Once she had my e-mail address, she would not leave me alone. She wanted to chat with me every day, and would send me nasty-grams if I was not online when she was. I told her that I had other things to do, and she said that she understood. But then she would get nasty again. Finally, I marked her e-mail address as SPAM on YM, and stopped responding to her. Then she used DIA to send me a tear-jerking message about how I broke her heart, and all she wanted was a "loyal friend." I blocked her there as well, and haven't heard from her since.
The problems I have now, is that my gf knows about my DIA account (and this one). She is very jealous if she sees that I have been corresponing with the girls on there, even though I try to keep my messages to the "Hi! How are you?" type. She is back at home now in PI, so I don't know if she is checking my accounts or not. I have considered canceling the accounts, and starting new ones. But there are many girls I don't want to have to loose in the process. The other problem is that many of the gays have been hitting me up with messages. I block them as soon as I see what they are. My profile starts off with "NO GAYS, LADYBOYS, OR SHEMALES!!!" But they still bother me.
Happy Mongering!
HW
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Incomplete list
[QUOTE=AussieOverboard]A lot of time they just copy and paste anothers profile as they have no idea what to say.
"for what I am" is normally in reference to either
1. Having a baby to a local boy who then left her
2. Being a poor uneducated girl from the province
3. She is FAT
4. She is a "lady boy"
5. Any combination of the above.[/QUOTE]ADD:
6. Camgirl
7. Hooker
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No shows
I collected 5 cell phone numbers in August from dateinasia before I left UAE to Manila. To my disappointment, there were 4 no shows when I attempted to meet the girls! The one who showed up was not ready to go to bed right away, she just said "next time". I find it easier just to get the girls from the club, rather than wasting time trying to meet them and screw up my other plans. Just so you guys who plan to meet the girls online, be sure have backup plans if the girls do not show up.
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Finding Married Filipinas
I am interested in meeting up with a few marrried filipinas for exploration.
Are there any dating sites that include a search option for married women in th ePhilippines?
I use Thailovelinks which has that option for Thais, but there are no filipinas on it.
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Do you mean your efforts resulted in only five phone numbers or that after a bit of searching, interviewing, chatting, you had five good prospects? What cities?
I'm not trying to diss you, but your pre-visit efforts make a world of difference.
I've had great luck with Cherry blossom pay site, and have trouble understanding the guys who suggest that Net prospects are a "waste of time". (Still waiting for Igoforasia to explain himself).
Side note: when a lady tells me "next time", I assume I went to far in the first place. I convey a message something like this..."I'm sorry...it's just that I like you so much. I don't want any promises for next time.".
Tell her what she wants to hear! If you've done some touch testing and had positive results, that second date may be a pleasant surprise.
Sidenote: If you are visiting SEAsia for a once in a lifetime visit, and want to a whirlwind of sex and fake romance...stick to the bars. You won't be disappointed.
X
[QUOTE=Candelaria]I collected 5 cell phone numbers in August from dateinasia before I left UAE to Manila. To my disappointment, there were 4 no shows when I attempted to meet the girls! The one who showed up was not ready to go to bed right away, she just said "next time". I find it easier just to get the girls from the club, rather than wasting time trying to meet them and screw up my other plans. Just so you guys who plan to meet the girls online, be sure have backup plans if the girls do not show up.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Gangles]I am interested in meeting up with a few marrried filipinas for exploration.
Are there any dating sites that include a search option for married women in th ePhilippines?
I use Thailovelinks which has that option for Thais, but there are no filipinas on it.[/QUOTE]
I suggest you go to local malls and see anything you like just go up and play dumb tourist and strike up conversation.
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What lines work?
[QUOTE=Pimpster]I suggest you go to local malls and see anything you like just go up and play dumb tourist and strike up conversation.[/QUOTE]
I'm just curious (some might say ignorant) as to what lines work with these mall encounters. I'm sure that nobody would walk up to a total stranger and tell her "I'd like to take you back to my hotel and fuck you all night." So I'm posing the question(s) to you more experienced mongerers, what lines work to get the average hottie out of shopping mode, and into fucking me mode? Also, what lines should be avoided?
Happy Mongering!! :D
HW
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Meetin Filipinas In Malls
[QUOTE=Pimpster]I suggest you go to local malls and see anything you like just go up and play dumb tourist and strike up conversation.[/QUOTE]
Hello Pimpster, thanks fro the advice, but I must say that I am too shy to just walk up to a stranger and strike up a conversatin. And I tend to get tongue tied when I try to talk to an attractive woman.
hence back to my original question.
Gangles
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DIA and fresh off the farm
As a first time visitor to the Philippines, I've found it pretty incredible how agressively the caucasion man is pursued. I worked the DIA system pretty heavily prior to the trip. Early in my visit here I also checked out LA CAfe...and Burgos St. because I wanted to take in multiple venues. But now I want to write about my enounter last night with a DIA gal.
I had read the forum and decided in advance to avoid meeting family/friends of the DIA ladies. I had saved about a dozen pics/profiles of my favorite chatmates and had had several nice encounters already. So yesterday morning, when I found myself with nothing on the evening's schedule, I messaged a gal who had an incredible pic on dia and who I had chatted with only about 8 times. No cam...which I know is not ideal. She looked so great in her pic, that for some reason a month earlier I had actually asked her if she was a ladyboy. Her
English was not good in chat and her response was vague...so I still had some questions in my mind about her.
I left her an offline message to come to City Garden Hotel for dinner at 7 and planned to check my messages later in the day. Backup was to be LA Cafe. My open cell phone from the US was/is not working here and the internet in City Garden Makati was the pits. Communication was a challange because you have to give out your real name and room number for someone to call you in your room. And who wants to hang out in their room waiting for a call? Anyway, I digress. So I returned late from sightseeing with a very pleasant DIA gal (no sex...no problem) late in the day and checked messages. Ruth had messaged she'd meet me in the lobby at 7. It was already 8 so i called her from my hotel room. She and her friend had been in the lobby since 7 and would come up...no thanks...I'd go down..but who was the friend? Auntie!
Not what I wanted to hear! Went down and was greeted by a beautiful slim dark woman with exceptionally long black shiny hair...Ruth. She came across immediately as very friendly, fun, and personable. She kissed me on greeting, took my hand and introduced "Auntie" who smiled on with happiness. They'd been on time at 7 so we agreed to walk over to Shakeys Pizza and have dinner. Now being a reasonabely cautious guy, I am wondering about their program. Ruth spoke less english than Auntie and they would speak in tag occasionally. We ordered pizza and beer and all 40 kilos of Ruth quickly got a little high from one beer. At one point Ruth belched loudly and neither Auntie nor I flinched. Ruth, age 28, but looking 20, sells fish and vegetables somewhere in Manila. Auntie soon hinted that Ruth and I could drink beer in my room...and she'd go home. Auntie accompanied us back to the room and we all chated nicely for awhile. Auntie inquired jokingly "No Chocolate?" and I immediately presented her with a box. Ruth wanted Auntie to say the night with us...and Auntie wisely declined...but Auntie would return in the am to collect Ruth. Auntie left joking about boom boom and making babies.
Long story short, Ruth and I had a very nice time. Pics allowed with clothes only. Verbal communication was not the best...but she was a very responsive woman...very flat chested with nice nipples and dark smooth skin. Quite exotic for me. She told me upfront no condom necessary, but I insisted. We woke up at 6am and I explained I had an 11 am meeting. I decided to get breakfast out of the way before Auntie showed up and it became a 3 way thing. Breakfast over by 7:30 and Auntie called from the lobby. Now the night before, someone had suggested that shopping might be in order and Auntie was waiting outside my room's door when we returned from breakfast. I semi descretely sliped 1500 into Ruths pocket for shopping and the taxi home and we all happily parted company. (I had given Auntie 300 the night before for round trip up and home.)
Final impression: exotic dark beauty, beautiful teeth, spunky personality, simple, very unsophisticated, not much english, remarkable memorable experience regarding my unanticipated first 3 way meeting. DIA profile: ruth_sienes, 28, Manila. If you want her phone number and more details pm me.
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What was the original Q?
1) talk to the mall staff. She may be bored stiff anyway and she's paid to talk to customers. Shy? Start with clothes, work your way to men's underwear. If you survive that go up to ladies lingerie. (I stiill blush in both situations, but i keep practicing)
sidenote: i once had a real stunner deposit herself in the next changing room-- mens section.
2) name card....you dont have to say a word. Print plenty, give generously, quickly learn how to set to silent mode...
About 99 years ago i felt just like G. I was taking pic (as i do) at an old church in Cebu. I saw a cute lady, so asked her the question i had in my head. What is the name of the church? She said she was from out of town and didnt know. Smile, "thanks anyway" I went on taking pics...five min later she runsup to me, apologizes, and tells me the name of the church. I thank her, and that is the end of that. But the seed was planted...
You can practice your game anywhere, anytime -- joking with the alteration staff (oldish women) at one mall, i got great service (my clothes), and the old bat remembered me 18 months later.
Tongue tied, just practice/prepare a few things -- "Where can i buy a load?" "Is there a money changer in this mall?
X
Don't make the mistake of foolin with attached women.
[QUOTE=Gangles]Hello Pimpster, thanks fro the advice, but I must say that I am too shy to just walk up to a stranger and strike up a conversatin. And I tend to get tongue tied when I try to talk to an attractive woman.
hence back to my original question.
Gangles[/QUOTE]
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Hairy Wonder and Gangles on how to pick up non pros
Hairy Wonder and Gangles
I have a different perceptive on how to pick up non pros more sophisticated types.
Yeah its true you can be white and there will be lots of filipina all over you, but sometimes those types of girls aren't always the best some they can be crude, not always the best looking, or the the type that just going to use you for money, there always exception to the rule though. If that's your type than by all means just show up to PI walk around the food court and smile a lot and look lost someone will come up to you. MY perspective about catching non pro good girl that will fuck your brains out is a bit different than most mongers on here, it actually requires work. You will have a better chance with super hot girls from good families or you will likely get the hottest girls in the bar PI girls aren't always as dumb as we think they are, many are dumb as dirt though when it comes to common sense like girls on DIA who will hit you up for money after 20 minute into the chat
My strategy is quite simply do you want to be like James Bond or poor dirty frat boy without manners. Many if not most mongers go to PI looking like old drunks or old frat boys if it wasn't the fact it was PI, these guys wouldn't get any action and would be looked down upon by native people.
Your goal to pick up regular hot girls who will give you the royal treatment whether she be old or young and they won't try to even hit you up for money.
You should be like james bond in every single way " think sophistication there a reason why James Bond is an icon in the world.
Get a nice flattering haircut, unless you are really young long hair should be avoided. remember you are an international player that's worldly. While you are in PI make sure you get regular hair cuts and shave that fuzz from your neck and keep your side burns trimmed, and shave. " very few PI women like kissing someone with stubble Pi men tend not to have lots of hair." If you have a beard or whatever facial hair make sure its looks the best it can be none of this long nasty out of control thing. Put gel, wax or whatever hair product you use to make sure you look extremely well groomed. That bed head doesn't look right when your face isn't a teenager anymore. I suggest you spray your hair with your comb favorite cologne before combing your hair that way your hair will always smell fresh and clean, especially in PI where its freaking hot and often things smell bad. A few months before your trip start to try and lose weight, work out a bit get back into shape so you can party hard and f*ck harder. It will do you mentally and physically good. Start using moisturizer everyday on your face, yeah i know it sounds gay but it can make you look less tired and more youthful its cheap too only cost like 5 dollars for walmart face moisturizer. Keep your nails clean and short, and if you have any foot issue resolve that. So now you look physically good. You don't need to spend a ton of money on clothes, but make sure your clothes look clean nice fit well non loud color neutral is always good. If you don't have anything like that go get cheap khakis at old navy and white polo shirt or oxford white shirt , classic combo that never goes out of style and you will stick out in PI in a good way. Most locals wear jeans t shirt . You want to look polish and clean. Pick up some of your favorite cologne while you are at it, PI women tend to like sweeter scent from my experience. Most PI men go all natural , so you will just stand out the moment you come near her " she thinking gosh he smells nice not in like old english grandpa way. " Oh I forgot to mention if you are totally gray its not a bad thing, I don't think any PI girl is going to kick anderson cooper out of bed" but if you must dye pick a color that is on the lighter side nothing says fake hair dye than raven black hair when your face looks like a prune. " Get yourself non flassy tennis shoes like chuck taylors. I know flip flops are the in things, but set yourself different from everyone else. Now that you are looking cary grant like, here where I'm a snake in the grass I go into the mall walk around and people obviously know that I'm not from there by my appearance girls look and smile etc... when I see the sales girl i like or whatever.. I go up to her and ask for help in whatever item etc.. and direction on how to get back to such and such a street. All the time holding a victoria secret bag, " All PI girls love VS stuff and they grave it in fact" I always bring along with me a VS nightie that I purchase online from the u.s., do not buy underwear because nightie are basically one size fits for the average PI girl. I you are really cheap you can even PI slightly used nightie from ebay at like 5 dollars 7 including shipping. I go on to explain I just came to PI and my friend online apparently flaked out on me or whatever and after I bought her a gift from the u.s. showing them the v.s. bag. Watch their eyes get really big by this time. "If they ask you the reason for your stay, I tell them that I m here on a medical mission to help PI poor. I'm in the medical field so i can get away with it. You have to come up with your own, whatever business it is enhance it. At which point I always ask if i can take a picture of them because I'm making a scrapbook about my trip. I show them a picture which allows me to get really close to them so they can get sniff about that cologne. If she hasn't really warmed up to you yet, ask her since the girl stood you up and you don't anyone here and what not does she have any suggestions, if she gives you suggestions ask for details or how to get there sort of thing. If you are really brave ask her if you care to show her around. If not give her a business card with your name on it and cell phone number, telling her if she has any other ideas feel free to give you a call. The business cards as are really just cards with my name on it, its what people use to do in the olden days if they came to see someone and they weren't home leave their card. I have a very high success rate with this technique, you will of course strike out with some girls because they are truly in love with their husbands.
Even in the bar if you can stand out from everyone else.. and look like you going to treat the girl well. You have a better shot with the hot ones, most girls in the bars aren't like sex addicts or anything they work there because of the money and some are hoping to find American bf. Do the same thing on DIA if you plan to go to angeles city play the same snake and the grass deal. I came to here to meet someone i thought was going to be very special I don't know a soul came to meet this girl and she was a no show sort of deal. So you can hit the bars and have something on the side. I've notice that many girls from angeles city and paganga are bar girls trying to find by. When you talk to girls from angeles city and Pampanga . Make it seem you don't know anything about those city. Only want to meet her etc.. since she a bar girl you won't have to wait but a few hours to get her in bed. Non pro girls you may have to work at it for a few days, but keep in mind this is a long term investment for future trips. Don't ever think about giving money for these women. Make it a point to state that you were online and met many young filpinas if you are talking to an older gal say the young ones are are immature, and kept on asking for money and it wasn't about love with them it was about money. Buy the non pro girl you are dating some flowers, sack of rice, etc.. don't give money reason being she shouldn't hit you up for money because you providing food etc.. which she would have had to pay at other times anyways. There always family sickness etc... if you are in the mood to pay for that ask for the bill and call up the hospital and pay directly to the hospital side note call a few times to make sure its truly a hospital and call at odd hours as well. Ive had girls try to scam me but thanks to the board I expected them to say this and that.
good luck
Pimp
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Hey, Xdentx, great story. I just love that country.
Enjoyed your story. I've had several mothers consign their virgin daughters to me overnight with only the slightest trepidation. And I'm an old fart of 60.
But I'm nice as hell. Actually I treated the girls very well. They were virgins in the morning, but there was some serious dining out. The girl is very charming and has beautiful hair. Best of luck to you and her.
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New scam
I got contacted on DIA by a better than real person. She was nice and we chatted for about 1 week without cam.
Today she confessed her love to me (I was not surprised, given that I'm the object of her desires). She is a student at a nursing school near Manila. etc etc
As a proof of our unending love to her classmates we were to sign up at:
Online Dating Club, a rather new or inactive site.
You wanted a love acc. (Anything would be inacceptable) and show it to her friends.
I signed up and saw that this is a dead spot. 40K members worldwide with 7K females.
The lady signed up with a nice name like: scammer loves idiot.
Then she suggested that we should upgrade the account to a lovers' account. That would be the hit with the classmates and she would really be popular.
Well, 1 month 19 US, plus 2 higher levels at 29 and 39 US. Really shit.
The true trick is of course that you register your cc info in an account she has access to.
I politely declined and she kept bugging. In the end I simply told the person to fuck off.
Pretty crude trick but it was a new one to me. Maybe this little anecdote is helpful to someone.
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Guiltyfeet, I'm older than you
And I've never taken a virgin. But this thing with Ruth was just a one time thing. Simply a fresh and unexpected experience for this old guy. I'm polite, curteous, and well traveled and am discovering that the women don't care about your age. It's the money!
Last night I was in Boracay in Coccomungas and a young lady appologized for being 28. I had just told her my true age and she was appologizing to me for being 28! Yee Gods! I love the Philippines.
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Webcam girls VS bar girls
Awhile back someone posted a comment asking why the webcam girls think they are worth more than the bar girl/working girls. I think it is all in perception of the work environment. The webcam girls feel that they are not selling themselves like the bar girls or working girls, even though some will meet regulars for one on one sessions and yes they do get paid for their time. As far as I'm concerned marriage is the oldest sanctioned prostitution scam ever. Look at this this way, you marry a woman you buy her a house, car and purchase presents for her for no reason at all and all she has to do is spread her legs once in awhile. The only difference is that in most cases the husband is her only customer (that can also not be the way it is).
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[QUOTE=Azmodeus Fl]Awhile back someone posted a comment asking why the webcam girls think they are worth more than the bar girl/working girls. I think it is all in perception of the work environment. The webcam girls feel that they are not selling themselves like the bar girls or working girls, even though some will meet regulars for one on one sessions and yes they do get paid for their time. As far as I'm concerned marriage is the oldest sanctioned prostitution scam ever. Look at this this way, you marry a woman you buy her a house, car and purchase presents for her for no reason at all and all she has to do is spread her legs once in awhile. The only difference is that in most cases the husband is her only customer (that can also not be the way it is).[/QUOTE]
If we are talking about webcam girls from PI on DIA, I ve had a few girls say its only a dollars etc. Its almost a classic scam by some pimp in my opinion. You have to deposit money into a website to see these girls, so they have some sort of pimp pimping them out. Obviously most if not all these girls cannot afford to set up a website that allows them to accept credit cards. It may not be that they view themselves better than bar girls, but they view us as suckers. I know that filipina who work in hostess bars view themselves as better than bar girls, at least the ones I've been one. Its like street walker, vs escort.
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[QUOTE=Azmodeus Fl]As far as I'm concerned marriage is the oldest sanctioned prostitution scam ever. Look at this this way, you marry a woman you buy her a house, car and purchase presents for her for no reason at all and all she has to do is spread her legs once in awhile. The only difference is that in most cases the husband is her only customer (that can also not be the way it is).[/QUOTE]
So true Azmodeus! The only big difference between a wife and a prostitute, is the wife keeps asking for more money after you have tried to get rid of her!
HW
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Marriage Vs Prostitution
Oh come on guys! Don't you think that is a rather hackneyed and trite approach to the fine old institution of Marriage? LOL Now, I always thought that Marriage was a bond between a man, looking to possess something that no other man could ever have, and a woman, looking for lifelong security and willing to give it up for just that reason!
Now, that being said, I must state that I am not absolutely sure you are not correct! I mean, how would I know? I'm on my third marriage, and haven't disproved your theory as of yet! However, I guess I must be a Romantic, as I still find your idea to be a bit cynical.
I must also state that, now on my third marriage, it does seem to be getting a little easier for me to accept that Marriage can and does work, if you are willing to work at it. Now, I do, in all honesty believe that to a man, sex with a woman he loves is a spiritual-like experience, whereas a woman most probably finds it all just another means to an end; that "end" being shopping and devoting her quality time to her kids! And yes, I will admit I might be being a bit cynical here also!
And now do you see? Re-reading what I have just written, I find that even to me, it seems to have come directly from a man who has been a life-long mongerer, and not one who has known a great, passionate and abiding love for only one woman! Ah well, I must accept my fate, keep the faith, and love as many as I can!
Cheers!
H
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More scams
For your entertainment (if your bored). The person operates on tagged. I had been hit up 2-3 days earlier with the same result. It seems they have different operators, so they tried again.
[quote]ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so do you exp in cyber sex
me: sure
me: y not?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i wish i could
me: y?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: coz to tell you the truth i work as a cam girl but im fere to talk not to work
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: here
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: we can talk and share somethin
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you know i prefer to have a older guy to be my husband than a young with dont know how to satisfy a woman
me: thx
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: older man know how to respect and know how to treat a woman
me: thx
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so what are youre proffessions
me: business
me: online
15 min later
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so what do you want to do now?
me: chat
me: and u?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: anythin you prefer
me: up to u
me: put on ur cam
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i already told you
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i want
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but i cant
me: ok
me: bad luck
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: hahahaha
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but if you have a trust on me we can cooperate to open my cam for free
me: dunno who that works?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: listen
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: thres a secret in our job
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can open my cam for free in 3 days free trial
me: how does that work?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i can tell you how to do that
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: follow my lead ok
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: lnk.nu/wow.CHANGED TO FUCK OFF gateway.dick
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: click first
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: step by step
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: listen
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: in email part there
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: put free bfore youre email add like this freeglamourous att sick **** online
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: then complete the form
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can have a free 3 days trial to see me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can do that
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: every time we chat
me: ok
me: but what is so special about it?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: tell me if you are done
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so you can see me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: chattin
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: anythin
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: it depends on the situation
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: lol
me: i dont get it
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so you can see me my friend
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
me: same like chathostess?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: after you done it dont do anythin just follow my instruction ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: what chatostess?
me: webcam site
me: really good
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ahhh ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but in that site you can open my cam only
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: no charge
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: if you follow my instruction
me: there is always a charge for such services
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: yea
me: how much is the minute?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: thats why i told you how to get a free 3 days trial
me: ic
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its depend on you if you will send me a money
me: dunno if u can do all i like
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its ok to me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but for now
me: chathostess is good
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: talk
me: cos they show what they offer
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: and seee me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its ok to me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ah ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: sweetie if you want to pay its ok
me: but how much?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but i told you can have a free trial
me: 99 or 1.99?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: for real in a month the charged
me: monthly??
me: u r sure?
me: how is per month?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its like 39.39 dollars per month if you are regular there
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but if you will try the trila you can decide
me: and what do i get for it?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but i will sure you will be happy and satisfy on what you pay for
me: just 1 gal?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: yes
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can choose
me: that's little
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: everytime you want
me: no couples, preggy etc?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: no
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: sample
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: yeah....
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: just you can do what you want
me: same gal every day?
me:
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: no
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can change gal in everyday
me: ic
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: same charge
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
me: and 2 or 3 gals?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: 4 to 7
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: like that
me: ok
me: all done and now?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so come on try it
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: send me the url?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: wait
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: did you put a free in the email part?
me: wait
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: aiden po
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so sorry
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: wait sweetie
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so whta do you see?
me: ok
me: the page
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: do you have a username?
me: yes
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: sweetie
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: in the data base
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you are not inside
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: submit and complete it
me: check under : [url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum[/url] and go the chatrooms, heading is scams[/quote]
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I got a good chuckle from this. I wonder if the James Bond angle keeps working when she sees your Walmart moisturizer sitting there on the counter.
X
[QUOTE=Pimpster]Hairy Wonder and Gangles
I have a different perceptive on how to pick up non pros more sophisticated types.
Yeah its true you can be white and there will be lots of filipina all over you, but sometimes those types of girls aren't always the best some they can be crude, not always the best looking, or the the type that just going to use you for money, there always exception to the rule though. If that's your type than by all means just show up to PI walk around the food court and smile a lot and look lost someone will come up to you. MY perspective about catching non pro good girl that will fuck your brains out is a bit different than most mongers on here, it actually requires work. You will have a better chance with super hot girls from good families or you will likely get the hottest girls in the bar PI girls aren't always as dumb as we think they are, many are dumb as dirt though when it comes to common sense like girls on DIA who will hit you up for money after 20 minute into the chat
My strategy is quite simply do you want to be like James Bond or poor dirty frat boy without manners. Many if not most mongers go to PI looking like old drunks or old frat boys if it wasn't the fact it was PI, these guys wouldn't get any action and would be looked down upon by native people.
Your goal to pick up regular hot girls who will give you the royal treatment whether she be old or young and they won't try to even hit you up for money.
You should be like james bond in every single way " think sophistication there a reason why James Bond is an icon in the world.
Get a nice flattering haircut, unless you are really young long hair should be avoided. remember you are an international player that's worldly. While you are in PI make sure you get regular hair cuts and shave that fuzz from your neck and keep your side burns trimmed, and shave. " very few PI women like kissing someone with stubble Pi men tend not to have lots of hair." If you have a beard or whatever facial hair make sure its looks the best it can be none of this long nasty out of control thing. Put gel, wax or whatever hair product you use to make sure you look extremely well groomed. That bed head doesn't look right when your face isn't a teenager anymore. I suggest you spray your hair with your comb favorite cologne before combing your hair that way your hair will always smell fresh and clean, especially in PI where its freaking hot and often things smell bad. A few months before your trip start to try and lose weight, work out a bit get back into shape so you can party hard and f*ck harder. It will do you mentally and physically good. Start using moisturizer everyday on your face, yeah i know it sounds gay but it can make you look less tired and more youthful its cheap too only cost like 5 dollars for walmart face moisturizer. Keep your nails clean and short, and if you have any foot issue resolve that. So now you look physically good. You don't need to spend a ton of money on clothes, but make sure your clothes look clean nice fit well non loud color neutral is always good. If you don't have anything like that go get cheap khakis at old navy and white polo shirt or oxford white shirt , classic combo that never goes out of style and you will stick out in PI in a good way. Most locals wear jeans t shirt . You want to look polish and clean. Pick up some of your favorite cologne while you are at it, PI women tend to like sweeter scent from my experience. Most PI men go all natural , so you will just stand out the moment you come near her " she thinking gosh he smells nice not in like old english grandpa way. " Oh I forgot to mention if you are totally gray its not a bad thing, I don't think any PI girl is going to kick anderson cooper out of bed" but if you must dye pick a color that is on the lighter side nothing says fake hair dye than raven black hair when your face looks like a prune. " Get yourself non flassy tennis shoes like chuck taylors. I know flip flops are the in things, but set yourself different from everyone else. Now that you are looking cary grant like, here where I'm a snake in the grass I go into the mall walk around and people obviously know that I'm not from there by my appearance girls look and smile etc... when I see the sales girl i like or whatever.. I go up to her and ask for help in whatever item etc.. and direction on how to get back to such and such a street. All the time holding a victoria secret bag, " All PI girls love VS stuff and they grave it in fact" I always bring along with me a VS nightie that I purchase online from the u.s., do not buy underwear because nightie are basically one size fits for the average PI girl. I you are really cheap you can even PI slightly used nightie from ebay at like 5 dollars 7 including shipping. I go on to explain I just came to PI and my friend online apparently flaked out on me or whatever and after I bought her a gift from the u.s. showing them the v.s. bag. Watch their eyes get really big by this time. "If they ask you the reason for your stay, I tell them that I m here on a medical mission to help PI poor. I'm in the medical field so i can get away with it. You have to come up with your own, whatever business it is enhance it. At which point I always ask if i can take a picture of them because I'm making a scrapbook about my trip. I show them a picture which allows me to get really close to them so they can get sniff about that cologne. If she hasn't really warmed up to you yet, ask her since the girl stood you up and you don't anyone here and what not does she have any suggestions, if she gives you suggestions ask for details or how to get there sort of thing. If you are really brave ask her if you care to show her around. If not give her a business card with your name on it and cell phone number, telling her if she has any other ideas feel free to give you a call. The business cards as are really just cards with my name on it, its what people use to do in the olden days if they came to see someone and they weren't home leave their card. I have a very high success rate with this technique, you will of course strike out with some girls because they are truly in love with their husbands.
Even in the bar if you can stand out from everyone else.. and look like you going to treat the girl well. You have a better shot with the hot ones, most girls in the bars aren't like sex addicts or anything they work there because of the money and some are hoping to find American bf. Do the same thing on DIA if you plan to go to angeles city play the same snake and the grass deal. I came to here to meet someone i thought was going to be very special I don't know a soul came to meet this girl and she was a no show sort of deal. So you can hit the bars and have something on the side. I've notice that many girls from angeles city and paganga are bar girls trying to find by. When you talk to girls from angeles city and Pampanga . Make it seem you don't know anything about those city. Only want to meet her etc.. since she a bar girl you won't have to wait but a few hours to get her in bed. Non pro girls you may have to work at it for a few days, but keep in mind this is a long term investment for future trips. Don't ever think about giving money for these women. Make it a point to state that you were online and met many young filpinas if you are talking to an older gal say the young ones are are immature, and kept on asking for money and it wasn't about love with them it was about money. Buy the non pro girl you are dating some flowers, sack of rice, etc.. don't give money reason being she shouldn't hit you up for money because you providing food etc.. which she would have had to pay at other times anyways. There always family sickness etc... if you are in the mood to pay for that ask for the bill and call up the hospital and pay directly to the hospital side note call a few times to make sure its truly a hospital and call at odd hours as well. Ive had girls try to scam me but thanks to the board I expected them to say this and that.
good luck
Pimp[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man]I got a good chuckle from this. I wonder if the James Bond angle keeps working when she sees your Walmart moisturizer sitting there on the counter.
X[/QUOTE]
Actually, from my experience most filipina just go wow over anything that is smells nice or looks expensive whether they have ever heard of it or not. I I personally don't use wal-mart brand "nothing wrong with generic stuff Ijust very sensitive skin" but, for those of you that are more budget minded. I have a mate who recycles some of my empty shampoo bottles etc.. and fills them with generic brand or stuff from herbal essence etc, he says the girls go wild over them, its all a game of perception. The bastard goes one step further, and gets manufacture website say Paul Mitchell to point out how much the damn product cost. Thats tacky if you ask me, but he says that he been able to trade shampoo and conditioner for sex, with a working pro type of girl. I cannot verify this, because i have not attempted it. I suppose it could work if you find the right girl, either she can get 1500 php in cash or 3000 php in goods. "To each his own" I came up this idea years ago when I was in college doing a research paper, there use to be a website called the admiral club it was an essentially how to be james bond dossier guide. It seems to have worked well for me in PI and Thailand , it has not worked well for me in Vietnam though where people tend want to be your friend, but don't want their daughters dating you.
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how to beat a scammer at their own game
Yesterday while on DIA this one girl who I have been chatting to for abotu a week, supposedly we are bf and gf and she was going to give me her cherry. She lives in the province Ozamiz, she speaks broken english studying midwife or something like that. Anyways she starts telling me I have a problem my tooth ache and I need extraction. I said uh huh, and she said I wish you could help! Oh boy here it comes, so i play along, and I told her how can I help? She needs money please send via western union. I said oh my love that will take time go tell the dentist take care of it and i will deposit money directly into her account. One hour later she comes back and says it done, dentist says its going to cost 4000 php, and says here the number please call her and deposit money. I told her no problem my love, but i can't call her with my cell phone right now. I forget I did not sign up for international calling, can you have the dentist call me I will pay her an extra 1000 php. She says no problem. Within minutes the suppose dentist calls. I says hi greet her etc... be polite and nice ask her what she did, Dentist said I pulled out her tooth. I asked which one, obviously not a real dentist because she didn't now which one she said the back one. So by this time I was just asking stupid questions showing how much I cared for my gf and stringing them along. I finally asked how much she said 4000 php and I said oh thats it no problem i will give you 5000 php for calling me and told her thank you so much for helping my girlfriend I don't know how I can pay you back. I told her wait here I have to get my wallet from my car and get all your information so i can put the money into your account right now . You will have the money within the hour. So, I put her on hold for a good 5 minutes. I come back on the line and says ok I'm back let me turn on my computer to send you the money right now ok. So, I'm making small talk thanking her for her service etc.. and saying sorry my computer is kinda of slow etc... than I proceed to pretend to get all her information and typing it into the computer. At this point I told her oh you need to write down the confirmation number and my information or you will have a hard time getting money. I proceeded to give her a bunch of bs information, and told her that if she didn't get the money to give me a call back within 2 hours and I will track it down or resend it told her sometimes problem with the distant and computers. Sure, enough 2 hours later she calls back and says no money, I string her along again and tell her this time it should be done I'm calling my bank to confirm. I ask her if she can tell my gf to get online in 5 minutes so I can tell her whether my bank has confirmed the transaction or not.
When my so call gf comes online I laugh in her face and says why you try to scam me for 4000 php she cuss me out and everything. This is supposedly lady like catholic virgin type girl here . So in the end I'm out 0 dollars they are out for how much that calling card cost them.
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Pi girls less honest on DIA than from other countries?
No offense, to those of you that are a fan of PI girls, which I'm one of them. From my limited experience with DIA PI girls are less honest than girls from other countries. I've had more girls try to scam me from PI than from other coutries.
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Could someone explain what this is referring to?
Originally Posted by Blink157
hi guys,
guess you all have fun here on ISG, well, so do I, ehhehehe..
My friend just emailed me this
[url]http://www.timandrona.com/[/url]
check it out.. and to all newbies...take this as a warning from this poor guy..
Tim, if you read this, lets hear ur story here..man you must be pissed as hell.
Blink out
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Who in their right mind would pay that??? Crazy
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Yes
[QUOTE=Pimpster]No offense, to those of you that are a fan of PI girls, which I'm one of them. From my limited experience with DIA PI girls are less honest than girls from other countries. I've had more girls try to scam me from PI than from other coutries.[/QUOTE]I was sitting in DVO in a cafe opposite Gaisano South. Evening time. An old woman, with a face looking like an archeological dig, was online next to my terminal and working some guy who was naked on cam. she had nice japanese or korean pics on. So keep that in mind.
In Thailand I never had even remotely the same trouble with scammers like the Philippines. it is an industry. I would say 50% on DIA is surely in it. Taken the ladyboys out of the equation. In Thailand you would be hard pressed to find 10%.
Surely, some Thai ladies are fake and play games. But it is not like an industry plus hardly any webcam ladies or people who try to cheat you out of your cc details.
The perhaps only and most basic protection is cam. If you never see the person on cam send the id to the waste bin. comparison of pics on different websites takes too much time.
I m down to 3 good contacts now. Deleting and blocking 5 per day as they come and go.
I m really apprehensive when I see Bislig, Butuan, Iligan or Manila in the details. Those Mindanao towns look to me like scam centrals.
Care for some pics of scammers from DIA? we could open a nice photo collection
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[QUOTE=Looking For Eden]Who in their right mind would pay that??? Crazy[/QUOTE]
same person who would send money to girls online sucker born every minute
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Pimpster - no offence but you come across a quite embittered individual. Why do you always seek to put down Filipina's? Have you been badly 'fucked over' by one in the past? Do you live in the Philippines or are you only an occasional visitor (or have you never been here)? If you knew Pinays you would know that they are no better, nor worse than girls elsewhere (but cuter) and are not all out to bleed you dry. Perhaps it is YOUR attitude to them that encourages them to try and play you for a sucker?
I certainly think that your behaviour towards the 'toothache' girl was boorish and unfair and certainly paints you in as bad a light as her. Although, saying that, have you any proof that she was not telling the truth? There was certainly no need to string her along as you did.
Maybe I am wrong, but you do appear to be a rather unsavoury character. Feel free to correct me if I am wrong. GH
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Pimpster - no offence but you come across a quite embittered individual. Why do you always seek to put down Filipina's? Have you been badly 'fucked over' by one in the past? Do you live in the Philippines or are you only an occasional visitor (or have you never been here)? If you knew Pinays you would know that they are no better, nor worse than girls elsewhere (but cuter) and are not all out to bleed you dry. Perhaps it is YOUR attitude to them that encourages them to try and play you for a sucker?
I certainly think that your behaviour towards the 'toothache' girl was boorish and unfair and certainly paints you in as bad a light as her. Although, saying that, have you any proof that she was not telling the truth? There was certainly no need to string her along as you did.
Maybe I am wrong, but you do appear to be a rather unsavoury character. Feel free to correct me if I am wrong. GH[/QUOTE]
I've got nothing against filipina and infact enjoy the company of filipina in Pi quite a bit some of the nicest gals around, and the fact that they can speak english is makes for some great companionship inside the bedroom ad outside versus many women from many other countries. As far as the toothache girl is concerned, so you telling me some young gangster try to take advantage of your mom you would be ok with it? If thats what you call boorish than so be I'm unmannered I would gladly take up that title. It has nothing to do with filipina or anyone else, I would gladly protect filipina which I have done so in the past if I felt someone was trying to treat her ill whether it be a bargirl or working girl. I have a sense of fair play, school yard style win if i can lose if you must but play fair and square. As far as proof was concerned I didn't go into details because it would take up too much time and space. But I made sure it wasn't the truth by asking medical question the so call dentist couldn't answer the question, I also verified the doctor credentials which didn't exist. Asked them to fax over documentation, they couldn't at th moment, asked for clinic name and number they said will get back to me. FYI the girl today contacted me and admitted she was trying to get money out of me. If you haven't been on DIA of late, they even warn people about sending money to girls. I don't think any of us hear haven't been hit up for money, whether it be from filipina, thai or american girls.
You said PI cuter, thats all a matter of taste, I find them cute but others may find thai girls better looking etc.. I won't argue with you about it, it's all relative. As I mentioned I've contacted girls from thai, vietnam, japan, and china. I have found that as far as DIA is concerned more filipina will hit you up for money. I have never been screwed over by any filipina nor do any of my regular girls try to milk me for money i treat them quite well and they understand that I appreciate gals with a sense of honor and class regardless of profession. If you go the other message boards, there certainly less of milking mongers for money its pretty much business for most of the girls. I do agree with you that filipina are more gfe than thai girls or chinese girls. So, what it boils down to its has nothing to do with filipina or any other ethnic race. I just believe you should treat people fairly in life thats all. If you my friend were being bullied, by some hoodlum I would have no problem backing you up. So if you still find me ill mannered, so be it. No problem here and I do understand where you are coming from.
I really don't take your comment as a bad thing, in fact it allows me to re evaluate my thought process. I fail to see how its unfair to the gal who apparently tried to milk me for money and probably others as well, I look forward to hearing how you feel about this subject just pm me so it doesn't take up space on the board. "This is not a challenge thing, but really I just want to see your rationale is because for the life of me I can't understand it."
For the record I would do the same thing again regardless if it was a filipina or a thai girl or a girl from mars.
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Pimpster - I just got the impression that you had pre-judged the girl and decided she was scamming you on minimal evidence (can only go on what information you give in your post) and had decided to take your revenge. Just wondered on what you based your assumption as you had not met her. You say you questioned the so-called dentist and found her answers wanting. Are you medically/dentally qualified and thus able to ask the right questions? I do not doubt your account but misunderstandings can occur particularly over a phone connection with potential language issues and could you be 100% certain that this girl and her 'dentist' buddy were out to scam you. Is there not the slightest possibility that the girl’s story was true in which case you are the one who is scamming her, by encouraging her to have treatment that you had no intention of paying for.
Many guys here look on DIA as a cheap way to lay a non p4p girl (I know because I have been guilty of this myself) without stopping to consider things from the girls perspective. She often has unrealistic aspirations from an encounter (financial support for herself and her family, romance and marriage) and why not – life is tough in the Philippines if you don’t have dosh. This is why, in my DIA profile, I make in abundantly clear that I am only looking for ‘casual’ friends. I still get many hits but at least my conscience is clear that if I meet a girl, then she had received adequate prior warning that my intentions were not entirely honourable. But even though I’m after getting into her knickers, I will still treat her like a lady. That is my style.
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Pimpster - I just got the impression that you had pre-judged the girl and decided she was scamming you on minimal evidence (can only go on what information you give in your post) and had decided to take your revenge. .[/QUOTE]
This lady tries to use the Ï love you, my boyfreind" scam to steal a months salary from him. She uses all kind of tricks ( I am in so much pain, love you, give my virginity to you)
He confirmed with her "dentist"that she was a total fraud.
I have most of my dental work done when I am in the Philippines, and if she really did have a tooth pulled it would have been under 1000 peso.
He caught a thief red handed and still it only cost her the cost of a phone call, Pimpster let her off easy.
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[QUOTE=Pimpster]Yesterday while on DIA this one girl who I have been chatting to for abotu a week, supposedly we are bf and gf and she was going to give me her cherry. She lives in the province Ozamiz, she speaks broken english studying midwife or something like that. Anyways she starts telling me I have a problem my tooth ache and I need extraction. I said uh huh, and she said I wish you could help! Oh boy here it comes, so I play along, and I told her how can I help? She needs money please send via western union. I said oh my love that will take time go tell the dentist take care of it and I will deposit money directly into her account. One hour later she comes back and says it done, dentist says its going to cost 4000 php, and says here the number please call her and deposit money. I told her no problem my love, but I can't call her with my cell phone right now. I forget I did not sign up for international calling, can you have the dentist call me I will pay her an extra 1000 php. She says no problem. Within minutes the suppose dentist calls. I says Hi greet her etc. Be polite and nice ask her what she did, Dentist said I pulled out her tooth. I asked which one, obviously not a real dentist because she didn't now which one she said the back one. So by this time I was just asking stupid questions showing how much I cared for my gf and stringing them along. I finally asked how much she said 4000 php and I said oh thats it no problem I will give you 5000 php for calling me and told her thank you so much for helping my girlfriend I don't know how I can pay you back. I told her wait here I have to get my wallet from my car and get all your information so I can put the money into your account right now. You will have the money within the hour. So, I put her on hold for a good 5 minutes. I come back on the line and says ok I'm back let me turn on my computer to send you the money right now ok. So, I'm making small talk thanking her for her service etc. And saying sorry my computer is kinda of slow etc. Than I proceed to pretend to get all her information and typing it into the computer. At this point I told her oh you need to write down the confirmation number and my information or you will have a hard time getting money. I proceeded to give her a bunch of bs information, and told her that if she didn't get the money to give me a call back within 2 hours and I will track it down or resend it told her sometimes problem with the distant and computers. Sure, enough 2 hours later she calls back and says no money, I string her along again and tell her this time it should be done I'm calling my bank to confirm. I ask her if she can tell my gf to get online in 5 minutes so I can tell her whether my bank has confirmed the transaction or not.
When my so call gf comes online I laugh in her face and says why you try to scam me for 4000 php she cuss me out and everything. This is supposedly lady like catholic virgin type girl here. So in the end I'm out 0 dollars they are out for how much that calling card cost them. [/QUOTE]Pimpster, that's pretty awesome! I am impressed! I get many hits from girls in Osamis or Misamis, asking for money. I will just do that. Anyway, a tooth extraction is PHP100 is the province, or PHP300-400 in Manila.
Cande Laria
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Pimpster - I just got the impression that you had pre-judged the girl and decided she was scamming you on minimal evidence (can only go on what information you give in your post) and had decided to take your revenge. Just wondered on what you based your assumption as you had not met her. You say you questioned the so-called dentist and found her answers wanting. Are you medically/dentally qualified and thus able to ask the right questions? I do not doubt your account but misunderstandings can occur particularly over a phone connection with potential language issues and could you be 100% certain that this girl and her 'dentist' buddy were out to scam you. Is there not the slightest possibilitythat the girl’s story was true in which case you are the one who is scamming her, by encouraging her to have treatment that you had no intention of paying for.
Many guys here look on DIA as a cheap way to lay a non p4p girl (I know because I have been guilty of this myself) without stopping to consider things from the girls perspective. She often has unrealistic aspirations from an encounter (financial support for herself and her family, romance and marriage) and why not – life is tough in the Philippines if you don’t have dosh. This is why, in my DIA profile, I make in abundantly clear that I am only looking for ‘casual’ friends. I still get many hits but at least my conscience is clear that if I meet a girl, then she had received adequate prior warning that my intentions were not entirely honourable. But even though I’m after getting into her knickers, I will still treat her like a lady. That is my style.[/QUOTE]
I think we have all been guilty of the above, but as far as prejudging. I think any girl whose promising to give me her virginity after 2 days of chat and says I love you without meeting first is out in third base. OUr conversation on chat were always a bit of slow, in the sense that she was chatting with other DIA guys, much like what we do when we talk to multiple women. She was still checking her DIA account 3 times a day. So I would assume that if you found your lover etc.. you wouldn't be hitting your DIA account every other minute. As I mentioned before I had asked the doctors detailed questions to verify. I've learned that many filipina will ask you for money, not all, but many. These girls will come up with some tear jerker excuses, some are straight up honest that they miss their payment because they went on vacation instead of paying cable bill. Always verify if you pay. I 've paid for medical expenses in the past when one of my regular needed it. " There lots of scammers on DIA will hit you up for everything money for webcam so you can see how sexy they are on webcam. Which toothache girl hinted to before, but I brushed it off by stating I will buy her one and bring it over there. As your statement about DIA girls and casual fun? I don't know about the rest of you gents, because too each his own. We have to live with our actions. I always treat my non pro girls very well and make sure that I give them a present upon leaving "and we are not talking about bar of chocolate here" I won't give them cash unless they are one of my regulars that I've seen for years reason being, don't want her to think she a hooker.
I suggest all members here who have experience this type of scam teach these girls a lesson regardless of whatever country they are from.
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Pimp has a great post, and i cant undedrstad why anyone wants to disparage Pimp reputation on such flimsy ancedote. The original post was pretty clear.
My contribution is to say that pimp protocol seems to be teachig the scammers how to do a better job.
The gal learned her lesson and is now researchig dental websites -- she might not make the same mistake twice.
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]This lady tries to use the Ï love you, my boyfreind" scam to steal a months salary from him. She uses all kind of tricks ( I am in so much pain, love you, give my virginity to you)
He confirmed with her "dentist"that she was a total fraud.
I have most of my dental work done when I am in the Philippines, and if she really did have a tooth pulled it would have been under 1000 peso.
He caught a thief red handed and still it only cost her the cost of a phone call, Pimpster let her off easy.[/QUOTE]
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Boring xxxx's don't empty the garbage
[QUOTE=X Man]Let's ignore Gamadufus for the moment,
Pimp has a great p@ost, and i cant undedrstad .. [/QUOTE]
Yes we all know you don't undedrstad much ... and that your dyslexic as well but why the fuck don't you empty the garbage in your PM box now and then so that other members can contact you. I had some interesting information for you earlier but now I've lost interest and cannot be arsed to impart it to you :).
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She almost had me going there for awhile....
I got pinged over the weekend by a hot looking gal on FH who says she’s looking for a boyfriend. Her profile says she lives in my hometown here in U.S. I give her my phone number and she says she’s dying to meet me. Then she asks if I’d be willing to first attend a timeshare presentation here in town just so she can make a little money for having me attend. She said after that we can go out to dinner and then to my house for fun. I say fine, let’s meet in the parking lot prior to me going into the presentation. She says she can’t do that but will meet me as soon as I’m done with the presentation. I won’t be there but I wonder how many other swinging cocks are falling for this and will be in the parking lot wondering where this beauty is. I gotta hand it to her, this is original.
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observation about dia ads
Ok I mentioned filipina, because I can overlook girls from other countries because often their very very limited english skills. In PI most people can speak english and write it fairly well. While they may not be fluent, its not like broken english where you can't even make heads or tails of it like girls from thailand, china and vietnam. These ladies here are looking for true love, but how come they put about zero effort into their ads. I' not talking about having to write a novel here, but most of these girls often write about one sentence and sometimes just a few words down of what they are looking for or what they are about. I just don't get that, wouldn't you want to weed out non potentials, and get as much interest as possible. I often don't even bother reading the ad because its just a one liner which is like standard intro for dia girls. I just look at the pic and says ok she cute cut and paste and send.
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phone cards?
Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys
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Phone card for Phil.
[QUOTE=Pimpster]Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys[/QUOTE]
I have been using Tipid Pinoy phone card for almost 9 months now. Its reliable. You can pick up this (and many other) card at any Asian grocery store. If you ask they will even give you a discount of 50 cents. $5 card costs $4.50.
Good luck.
[url]http://www.e-pinoypinay.com/[/url]
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[QUOTE=Pimpster]Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys[/QUOTE]
I noticed the ones that put too much b.s. in their profiles tend to be ladyboys.
If I see a long description and the ysay they are over 5'4, I assume they are a boy.
That is only for DIA. On CB I do not see that trend.
Also, check the "recent online"section on DAI after 10 pm P.I. time vs. the afternoon time. So many ladyboys or scammers on later using fake pictures and such. It is rare to find a good girl online at the cafe after 10:00pm
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I noticed the ones that put too much b.s. in their profiles tend to be ladyboys.
If I see a long description and the ysay they are over 5'4, I assume they are a boy.
That is only for DIA. On CB I do not see that trend.
Also, check the "recent online"section on DAI after 10 pm P.I. time vs. the afternoon time. So many ladyboys or scammers on later using fake pictures and such. It is rare to find a good girl online at the cafe after 10:00pm[/QUOTE]
Their photo's offer the biggest clue. If they are professional looking and appear posed (or offer a revealing glimpse of cleavage, or more), watch out. These are often the pro scammers, dangling a worm to catch big fish. Even if they are genuine, the actual girl often look much different (worse) in the flesh. I prefer those profiles that have simple, usually webcam, often blurry photo's like that you would expect a normal, economically challenged Pinay to post.
Your point about late online presence is well made as you would expect a good, clean living, Filipina to be home and tucked up in bed after 10 ;). Unfortunately you don't find too many of that ilk posting on DIA. GH
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As much as it pains me, i have to agree with Mr G. - in general.
There are exceptions and i encourage you to explore those possibilites - - you never know.
Via Internet, I met an older (30+) woman, with nice pics, who turned out to be a very successful woman. Saved a few nights on hotel fee staying at her place, lusting after the very hot maid, her driver at my service - - bruises on the back of my thighs thanks to her exuberance. (She forced harder penetration by digging her heels in - bless her heart).
She could afford nice pics. In all fairness her pics didn't misrepresrnt her. Only embellishd her.
On another note,
11pm/12pm chat sessions... hotel receptionist / net cafe owner met these gals after work, on first date, and they were ready and willing. Both had odd hours.
Both still doing the same biz, both still active in the wee hours.
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Their photo's offer the biggest clue. If they are professional looking and appear posed (or offer a revealing glimpse of cleavage, or more), watch out. These are often the pro scammers, dangling a worm to catch big fish. Even if they are genuine, the actual girl often look much different (worse) in the flesh. I prefer those profiles that have simple, usually webcam, often blurry photo's like that you would expect a normal, economically challenged Pinay to post.
Your point about late online presence is well made as you would expect a good, clean living, Filipina to be home and tucked up in bed after 10 ;). Unfortunately you don't find too many of that ilk posting on DIA. GH[/QUOTE]
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I joined the date in Asia website about two months ago, right before my first trip to the Philippines. I have to admit that I was pretty impressed. I had dabbled a little bit with two websites that cater to Latin America and I had had some good experiences with them. But it was nothing like date in Asia. Whereas on amigos.com or cypercupido I have to be careful to compose reasonably well-thought-out messages in order to get some responses, on dates in Asia it made virtually no difference. no matter what I wrote, I got lots of responses, many of them from really pretty girls.
I asked for their phone numbers I went to the Philippines with a whole bunch of telephone numbers. As you may have guessed, I didn't end up calling any of them I met so many girls so quickly that there just wasn't time there wasn't really any reason.
Since I came back a couple weeks ago, I've been corresponding with women from the website just to keep busy. I don't really care if I ever meet them while I'm in the United States give you something to do to keep me thinking about the Philippines. It's completely free and it doesn't take much effort.
one problem I noticed is that after two or three exchanges, the conversation falls apart. They all want chat on Yahoo but when you actually chat with them they have virtually nothing interesting to say. There are various solutions to this, in particular insisting they have to have a WebCam if they want to chat. If they are as hot as they seem to be in their pictures, then it won't matter if I have anything to say.
They're located all over the country but mostly in three or four specific locations. I find this a little bit strange. So many of them are from Cebu, Davoa, and two or three other places. Relatively very few from Manila and almost none from tons of different cities and towns.
I'll try to have some interesting exchanges so that I can report to you about them. I chatted with one a couple of days ago and she is 20 years old and looking for a husband, or least that's what she says. it would certainly be interesting to correspond with a few hundred lives in several different places and then go visit them.
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How to identify Scammers?
Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?
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[QUOTE=Guiltyfeet]Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?[/QUOTE]
Would you like to borrow my specs? We all discussed this (including the pained X) on this very page, not 3-4 posts ago.
To reiterate, watch out for the professional looking pen picture, talks money ...blah,blah. Sorry much as I hate to say it and no offence, but you must RTFF. GH
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Follow your gut.
Some are obvious, and others are very skillfull. There is no easy answer.
Have you been to the Phillipines before?
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[QUOTE=Guiltyfeet]Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?[/QUOTE]
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DIA question
I have a profile on DIA that clearly says I am interested in sex. I have the phone numbers of several DIA girls who want to meet me.
In the experience of the experts, when the girls show up, how common is it for them to back out on sex? In most cultures I have been to (and I have never been to the Phillipines), the girls have to have a first date without sex to save face. Will this be true of the DIA girls?
By the way, I have always, before asking for their phone numbers, told them that I want to make love to them. So even if they haven't read my profile (which I think some have not), they know what I am asking.
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DIA ladyboy question
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
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[QUOTE=Forest]Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).[/QUOTE]
I like to think I have a good ladyboy-radar, and I would say she isn't one on this one, but it's definately not one of those 100% certainties... but still my two pence is she's not.
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[QUOTE=Guiltyfeet]Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?[/QUOTE]
If you don't mind spending around $20 for a month, I would sign up for Cherry Blossoms They do a good job of getting rid of scammers. On CB it states on the profile when they
first sighed up, so if they have been there a few months, that is a good sign others have not complained about them. I rarely bother with a girl who signed up in the last day or so, I let the other members screen her and besides that is when you will have the most competition.
Also with CB, you can go to "who viewed me", it keeps a count of how many times a girl has returned to your profile. So if you see a girl hitting your profile more then just once or twice, you know she is into you. Also you know if she looks only once and does not respond, that she is not into you.
They also allow many pictures, so you can see the girl in different scenarios. Some times their first pick a few years old/ lighter, but you see the pics to get a better idea of her looks.
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[QUOTE=Forest]Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).[/QUOTE]
Ask her for her Friendster address, it will have more pics of her also, you can see pictures of her friends (if she is with a lot of gays, that gives you a good hint). If she says she does not have friendster, she is most likely lying.
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[QUOTE=Forest]Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).[/QUOTE]
I'd say its 50/50. As in Thailand, some of the LB's can look quite convincing, particularly on a posed picture, as this one is. I would get her on webcam and have a closer look. Or ask her to send you some more photo's preferably scantily dressed. Since she has already agreed to sex, that should be no problem. Or call her - the voice should give you a few clues. After all you don't want any nasty surprises affter she turns up at your hotel.
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Jean
I chatted up with her and even spoke to her, also saw her friendster photos. She's not a lady boy, she's a singer in a band, and am quite surprised that she agreed to have sex with you. She seemed quite normal to me other than being somewhat jaded by and American ex-BF who didn't treat her right.
How much did she ask for?
[QUOTE=Forest]Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Forest]Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).[/QUOTE]
I've contacted this girl also, I don't think its a ladyboy. Reason being that I she asked for a picture, I provided a fake picture of an older fairly attractive gent,never heard from her again. She has also agreed to have sex with me also, when i asked her about webcam she said she did not have one. Thats a big no no for me, you also have to look at the pictures they maybe of someone else and there a high chance that she looks very little like the picture in question, its a studio picture.
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[QUOTE=Forest]I have a profile on DIA that clearly says I am interested in sex. I have the phone numbers of several DIA girls who want to meet me.
In the experience of the experts, when the girls show up, how common is it for them to back out on sex? In most cultures I have been to (and I have never been to the Phillipines), the girls have to have a first date without sex to save face. Will this be true of the DIA girls?
By the way, I have always, before asking for their phone numbers, told them that I want to make love to them. So even if they haven't read my profile (which I think some have not), they know what I am asking.[/QUOTE]
If you do a search, on board I think many members find that even regular girls will flake out on you, not to mention that they want to have sex. With any regular girl you got to work it for at least a couple of days or you pin her down saying i will only be with you deal, and be prepared to change hotels after you meet. This has worked for me in the past with girls from other dating sites as well as friendster. The promise of a non pinoy bf is like having a trophy bf on their arms. But, since you indicated you want to have sex with them and if they said yes, it's probably pay for play. Why not go out to bar and pick one up or la cafe its essentially the same things. Non working girls do not reply to ads that says I'm only looking for sex.
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[QUOTE=Pimpster]Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys[/QUOTE]
If you use yahoo messenger you can chat for free. If they aren't interested in you saving money that is your tip.
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[QUOTE=Forest]Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).[/QUOTE]
I always ask a DIA girl to send several pics before spending alot of time with her online. Ladyboy are easier to pick out is several pics are available. Also, I do not ask them for sex but ask if they meet in some other location, or can travel to a resort or something. Get her off on her own for an easier time.
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[QUOTE=Forest]Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).[/QUOTE]
When I first tried using DIA I went to Cebu and was going to meet a hottie. I felt something wasn't right and after a couple of "how are you?" texts back and forth I went to the mall, called the number from a payphone and BAM, a man answered and then I asked for "Marlyn" and he tried to change his voice. BUSTED:D
I now will only meet after a couple of web cam sessions.
Robb
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[QUOTE=Forest]In the experience of the experts, when the girls show up, how common is it for them to back out on sex? In most cultures I have been to (and I have never been to the Phillipines), the girls have to have a first date without sex to save face. Will this be true of the DIA girls?[/QUOTE]First, I am not an expert on this subject, this is my experience using DIA.
Second, I have found that MOST girls will have sex with you on the first date if you don't make it seem that you are just trying to bed her. I am not talking about a relationship, I am talking about respecting them. Meet them for lunch, that way if you do need to bail, you can get out easier then dinner. A lot of girls tell me that they are shy to go to my room, because they think that the people in the hotel will think that they are a working girl.
I always buy T-shirts and chocolate for gifts and after spending some time together, I say that I have a present for you in my room and 9 out 10 times, they will go to your room. Even if you are just looking for fun, treat they like a lady and they will enjoy your company and want to be with you.
One lady I met on line and chatted and web cammed for a few weeks told me that she would have dinner with me, but no sex. I told her "Thanks, but no thanks". She asked me why I am like that and I told her that I am not looking for sex, but I want the option to be open if we do like each other. She was gone, but the next day she YM'ed and said "Okay, I understand and I will stay with you in your hotel". I am always honest and I tell them that they are 1 in 10 million.
Lastly, this is my experience and as always YMMV.
Robb
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Bed on the first date....
Yes I agree with Robbaf's writings. Its all about respect and all about how you treat them. If you listen to these ladies you will know that most guys always mention sex in first few words, make comments on their physical features.. when what they want is to be appreciated.. ( note.. a few your my baby /honey whatever works great in the build up chat..but not too much)
Second.. you can tell ALWAYS tell at the first meeting if theres going to bed later.. HOW??.... see what happens if you stand close to the girl.. if your walking close and each others arms are touching with no resistance.. your in. Ive tested this method hundreds of times and always infallible.
If girl keeps her distance and no accidental touching of any kind.. she wont.
I always stay in my own condo when Im there but dont want to take anyone there so always use a motel. If, after a Starbucks or lunch or dinner, the girl asks where we are going I often say for a nice car ride.. and as were entering motel, say somewhere we can watch a movie privately. This usually works fine too. Most of my conquests have never seen a motel room ( they say)..so are often fascinated by the mirrrors on the celing.
Only once in past 20 years did I have a girl start crying when we entered the motel so we did a 180 degree U turn and drove out. But otherwise its been excellent score rate.( and a week later I took her back there and she was fine)
So its all about how you treat them. Market yourself and sell your product!
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[QUOTE=Khun Larry]If you use yahoo messenger you can chat for free. If they aren't interested in you saving money that is your tip.[/QUOTE]
I chat with her on yahoo, but looking forward to give her a ring. I have discovered that if you call on the phone chit chat awhile before your trip it helps to break the ice and it gives you away into her knickers.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Yes I agree with Robbaf's writings. Its all about respect and all about how you treat them. If you listen to these ladies you will know that most guys always mention sex in first few words, make comments on their physical features.. when what they want is to be appreciated.. ( note.. a few your my baby /honey whatever works great in the build up chat..but not too much)
Second.. you can tell ALWAYS tell at the first meeting if theres going to bed later.. HOW??.... see what happens if you stand close to the girl.. if your walking close and each others arms are touching with no resistance.. your in. Ive tested this method hundreds of times and always infallible.
If girl keeps her distance and no accidental touching of any kind.. she wont.
I always stay in my own condo when Im there but dont want to take anyone there so always use a motel. If, after a Starbucks or lunch or dinner, the girl asks where we are going I often say for a nice car ride.. and as were entering motel, say somewhere we can watch a movie privately. This usually works fine too. Most of my conquests have never seen a motel room ( they say)..so are often fascinated by the mirrrors on the celing.
Only once in past 20 years did I have a girl start crying when we entered the motel so we did a 180 degree U turn and drove out. But otherwise its been excellent score rate.( and a week later I took her back there and she was fine)
So its all about how you treat them. Market yourself and sell your product!
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I don't know about what you guys are doing to get girls to bed you on the first night. In my experience that non pro girls that are cute and from good family aren't going to bed you on the first night, most will meet you for the first time with friends, unless they are really old or they have a handful of kids are desperate. All the other girls I've met it was first day was meet and greet, with friend or cousin in hand. Keep in mind that I treat them exceptionally well. It has almost always taken me at least 2 dates before getting into their knickers, if they are hot and no kids.
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Knicker fetish
[QUOTE=Pimpster] It has almost always taken me at least 2 dates before getting into their knickers...[/QUOTE]
You get into their knickers ...wow, kinky? Does she get into your Y-fronts? Joking :D :D. G
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First date first bed
I don't know what I do. But just seems to work. But theres another golden rule. And that is that we meet ALONE. No cousins, no mothers, no friend no nobody. I understand the young shy ones might want that. But I always tell them thats a no-no. I only ever have 4 days per trip to Manila so have to maximise my time and maximise the "scoring" and can't do that with some nosy cousin hanging around. The serious gals will always understand and will always say. Ok. We meet alone. The shy virgin types will always insist on a friend. So they get deleted.
I always ask: "why do you want to bring a friend" I'm only interested in you and want to be able to talk to you privately as I like you etc. That type of line usually works.
Last trip I was hitting on a cute gal in a store in Market Market (Global city mall). She was free for lunch so thought we'd have a quick bite then go for a car ride. See what I could get. She came out with a friend who had lunch break at same time. She asked if friend could have lunch too. Hmm. Ok. Yeah she can have lunch. Gave her P150. She went off very happy.
Me and gal had quick lunch an some pleasant touchy touchy in my car. Before dropping her back at work.
Ah the fun of the Philippines.
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Great post freebie. I do something similar -touch test. You've already explained the basics. Taxi ride is another hint. If she sits in the middle (good sign), joke, laugh, light touch during the laugh. If I find any resistance, I back off and try later. Enjoy the game. Don't ever give a whiff of desperation. (If you have a short holiday, P4P might be a better use of your time.)
I tend to be a food-court man on a first date -- they feel comfortable and several chaperones can be fed at low cost. Only the lightest of touch testing should occur here.
Be very nice to chaperones, you are being vetted. Food court and offer of transportation costs on departure are much appreciated and i offer regardless of how bad the date might have been. If you played things right, you'll be paying for departue of the chaperones, not the target.
If the target leaves, but think there is possibility, give her a bit extra for taxi the next day.
On the other hand, I've had chaperones pretend to be asleep in the next bed. - bless her heart.
I've also spent two hours meeting the entire extended family, including the muscular uncle who used to be a boxer, granny, the cousin who ran the guts of an Internety provider (thanks for the free net service).
After that whirlwind of Phil family overload I told the gal i needed to pick up my laundry before closing time. I needed to escape!!!
She insisted on helping me. About four hours from meeting at V mall until taking my laundry to Casa Leticia, I had her pink panties off and was thrashig about in her love box.
X
btw, pink panties had me hooked -- hook, line and sinker as they say. Then she started asking for money. Last i heard shes happily married.
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Yes I agree with Robbaf's writings. Its all about respect and all about how you treat them. If you listen to these ladies you will know that most guys always mention sex in first few words, make comments on their physical features.. when what they want is to be appreciated.. ( note.. a few your my baby /honey whatever works great in the build up chat..but not too much)
Second.. you can tell ALWAYS tell at the first meeting if theres going to bed later.. HOW??.... see what happens if you stand close to the girl.. if your walking close and each others arms are touching with no resistance.. your in. Ive tested this method hundreds of times and always infallible.
If girl keeps her distance and no accidental touching of any kind.. she wont.
I always stay in my own condo when Im there but dont want to take anyone there so always use a motel. If, after a Starbucks or lunch or dinner, the girl asks where we are going I often say for a nice car ride.. and as were entering motel, say somewhere we can watch a movie privately. This usually works fine too. Most of my conquests have never seen a motel room ( they say)..so are often fascinated by the mirrrors on the celing.
Only once in past 20 years did I have a girl start crying when we entered the motel so we did a 180 degree U turn and drove out. But otherwise its been excellent score rate.( and a week later I took her back there and she was fine)
So its all about how you treat them. Market yourself and sell your product!
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[QUOTE=X Man]Great post freebie. I do something similar -touch test. You've already explained the basics. Taxi ride is another hint. If she sits in the middle (good sign), joke, laugh, light touch during the laugh. If I find any resistance, I back off and try later. Enjoy the game. Don't ever give a whiff of desperation. (If you have a short holiday, P4P might be a better use of your time.)
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Looking back at my last trip, how close she sits next to you in the taxi is a great indicator. If she is next to you in the middle area, that is great sign. If she is sitting next to the other door, you are out of luck.
I wish I would have know that before my last trip.
I will have to check out the "walking close to you"test, on the next trip.
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]You get into their knickers ...wow, kinky? Does she get into your Y-fronts? Joking :D :D. G[/QUOTE]
I lived a large portion of my life in the UK before crossing the ponds. Some of your yanks expression I find quite amusing too
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Omg!!!
[QUOTE=Pimpster]I lived a large portion of my life in the UK before crossing the ponds. Some of your yanks expression I find quite amusing too[/QUOTE]
Yanks :( - yikes, you think I'm an American? Cannot you tell from the subtle, understated sense of humour (:D), that I come from the sceptered isles. G
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Gman
Your spelling gives it away.
Its humor.
Not humour.
Daaaaahhhhhh
Damm Brits
Color
Not colour
Theater not theatre
Plus you waste space on this site by putting the extra "u" in your words!!
Hope to run into you next time in town.
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English....
Obviously theres a colection of Brits. And a collection of Americans here. So let me throw my 5 shillings into the argument. (we don't have cents. But we do got sense. Hahah). Theres a reason that the language is called English. Because its our language.
These strange spellings and strange words "sidewalk" "pocketbook""pantywaist" pantyhose" are all non English words. And should be defined in a new language that needs a name. Because it really isn't English.
Ok all this is said tongue firmly in cheek (English idiom meaning without a shred of seriousness). Also know as English humor.
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[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]Your spelling gives it away.
Its humor.
Not humour.
Daaaaahhhhhh
Damm Brits
Color
Not colour
Theater not theatre
Plus you waste space on this site by putting the extra "u" in your words!!
Hope to run into you next time in town.[/QUOTE]
Yeah PLC - but only as long as your not driving at the time!!
BTW - who invented this fucking language that we all abuse and what have u got against u's:D
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English
I believe it was Sir Winston Churchill who said "The U. S. and the U. K. are two great countries separated by a common language".
English......Smenglish or what ever, we can communicate right??
Life is good
ES
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[QUOTE=Eaglestar]I believe it was Sir Winston Churchill who said "The U. S. and the U. K. are two great countries separated by a common language".
English......Smenglish or what ever, we can communicate right??
Life is good
ES[/QUOTE]
Yes and he had right to as he was Ameriglish, or Englican - how the fuck do you describe somebody who is 50/50, apart from blessed:).
My favourite (why does my spell checker advise me that is spelled wrong) Churchillian saying is when he was being berated by a rather unattractive woman for being drunk. "Madam, I may be drunk and you are ugly. But I will be sober tomorrow". What a wit - only old Oscar the shirt lifter was cleverer with a put down. G
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Winnie
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Yes and he had right to as he was Ameriglish, or Englican - how the fuck do you describe somebody who is 50/50, apart from blessed:).
My favourite (why does my spell checker advise me that is spelled wrong) Churchillian saying is when he was being berated by a rather unattractive woman for being drunk. "Madam, I may be drunk and you are ugly. But I will be sober tomorrow". What a wit - only old Oscar the shirt lifter was cleverer with a put down. G[/QUOTE]
Yes that was Lady Nancy Astor. She also told Winnie, "If you were my husband I would poison your tea". To which Winnie said, "If I were your husband I would drink it"...... Go Winnie Go
ES
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Moving the subject
Moving it back to the " how do you bed them on the first date". Which is way more interesting than how we spell Humour etc.
The taxi test as Xman pointed out is a great "will she or won't she " barometer. If she sits in the middle theres only two places to put your arm/hand. One is behind her. As in arm around her shoulders. Or hand. Discreetly placed on her thigh. First for a moment. Then a longer linger.
I have a car there so don't use taxis, so I do the "excuse me, I have to get something out the glove compantment, Baby". That allows me to paw her totally innocently.
Damn. The things we guys do to ensure that pussy is coming our way.
I can only imagine what the girsl think of our sad antics. (or for the Americans is that spelt antiks?) Biro Lang!
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[QUOTE=Eaglestar]Yes that was Lady Nancy Astor. She also told Winnie, "If you were my husband I would poison your tea". To which Winnie said, "If I were your husband I would drink it"...... Go Winnie Go
ES[/QUOTE]
Yes - great man. Guess you know that his dad was a monger who died fairly young because of it (syph). G
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how do you bed them on the first date
Based on my little bit of experience here, the DIA girls get very nervous when the conversation turns to sex. In fact, if I intended to return to the Philippines and try this again, I would avoid mentioning sex completely. As it turns out, two women in Manila were very enthusiastic about meeting me. However, I did not want to waste my time, so I made it clear in our chats that I was looking "for a lover". Neither girl actually showed up to meet me!
On the other hand, I met a girl from the provinces whom I invited to Manila to join me for 48 hours. Obviously, since we would be in the same room, avoiding sex with me would be impossible. I paid for the journey (4200 round trip by bus/boat). I just met my lovely, and I am happy to report that the first interview was everything I would have hoped for. I had another girl offer to fly up from Cebu, and I don't doubt I could have lined up a few more using this tactic. There was no need to resort to the old High School habits of accidentally touching hands, etc to determine if sex was in the offing.
I like the P4P scene here, but having a girl actually come hard while fucking her was worth my 4200 pesos (and then some, I am sure).
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Fun With DIA
I have been reading this forum for over 3 years now. And have found it very useful for advice for good mongering activities. My thanks to it for introducing me to DIA. As it has worked excellently for me.
Thus I thought I would share abck on how to use DIA effectively because it has given some top quality mongering at little cost.
Since I travel a lot to Singapore, Philippines and Hong Kong. I used to do the barhopping scenario. But it became very pricey as you end up dealing with pros a lot.
Thus I gave DIA a try.
One thing I have worked. Be upfront on what you are looking for. If you are lovey dovey and seek relationships on your profile you will get what you don't want: love sick girls looking for a long term sugar daddy and love.
Be direct and fun. And thats what you will get.
Also take a fun approach to your chats. Make sure they have cam and always flirt with them to the extent they reveal all. Worked wonders for me.
I was flirting with one girl in Singapore and before long she was showing me her body without my prompting. My next trip there we met at my hotel and after dinner and drinks she was in my room giving me an all night experience that I won't forget in a hurry.
For Philippines the choices are even more amazing. I target a few and some target me. Without prompting. They liked my 'fun' profile and wanted to know more and chat.
This has led to quite amazing chats where I have an amazing amount of sexy pictures being emailed to me and incredible show via webcam (at no cost). Those who demand a fee. I immediately shut off and never chat again.
This has led to some incredible fun in Manila. I am upfront that I am looking for a fun night. And those who come across via webcam that way. I arrange to meet near my hotel for dinner and drinks. I have one regular girl who travels up from Cebu now and again who has an instatiable appetite that I can't handle as I am literally shagged out.
Another lady in her 30s who has her own business has given me some great fun with her maginificent tits and experience.
I will go in more detail as I am due in Manila again soon. And have 3 DIA girls I ahve arranged to meet on consecutive nights.
All I can add. Is DIA is great but be wise and be blunt. Never promise commitment and never pormise some long term relationship.
Never give your real name and always use a prepaid phone.
Treat the girls well and have fun. And you will get loads back in return.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]I can only imagine what the girsl think of our sad antics. (or for the Americans is that spelt antiks?)[/QUOTE]
I think we Yankees would actually spell that antix, or possibly ant ticks.
:D
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Good and Bad (but never ugly) with DIA
I have had, as the report title states, good and bad experiences with DIA.
When I first started using it, I did write my profile stating that I was separated and trying to get a divorce. I said I wanted to get to know women online, that I could later meet, if I was ever able to visit their home country. In my mind, that did not indicate that I was interested in a long term relationship.
The first contact was from a 35(?) year old woman, that wanted to give me a nick name right away. I didn't look at DIA everyday, so when I did check it about a week after the first comments, I had several comments from her about how I was breaking her heart by not being there for her. I blocked her immediately! She has changed her pic and user name a few times and returned to my profile. But I blocked her everytime.
Another, from Thailand, tried to run a scam on me, by promising to travel to Korea to fuck me. She wanted me to send her some outrageous amount of money for her passport, visa, and ticket. I checked the scam sites, and found her listed with multiple names.
I traveled to GenSan to meet a DIA girl, who said she would be waiting at the airport. When I got there, she was nowhere to be found. I called her number, and she responded with "You really came here?" She then directed me to an expensive hotel, which I was to check into, and wait for her. She never showed up.
Because of the first GenSan girl, I chatted (including web cam) with another that agreed to meet me. The girl that showed up was not the same girl I saw on the cam. She told me it was her friend, and she told her what to type in the chat to me. She said she was afraid that I would not want to meet with her if I actually saw her on cam. She was right! But I shagged her anyhow! What can I say? I was starting to feel desperate.
I did meet one good DIA girl. Her problems were that she had 2 kids from an abusive boyfriend that had run away. (And, of course, she had no money.) Because of the abuse (she said he beat her), she was reluctant to be touched. After spending a few days with her (and her whole family) I decided I was getting nothing from her, and moved on to Makati. I had no bad feelings for the girl. I just realized she didn't want to fuck me. After I returned to Korea, she chatted with me, and promised to turn my world upside down the next time I visited the PI. But I had to cut her off before that could happen, because she started asking for money.
I guess I should chalk it all up to experience, and write a new DIA profile. I think I will delete my current profile and put up a new one that states that all I am looking for is some fun in the bedroom!
BTW, do you guys put your pic up on your DIA profile? I have mine on the current profile. I think it would be a bad thing to post it on the "looking for fun" profile as well.
HW
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I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
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Get them to Puerto Galera
Obvious thing would be get them to buy the ticket. Show you they got the ticket. And then send them the money via Western Union etc. But obviously as we all know. There are no guarantees at all.
However if a girl is only interested in money. As opposed to our brilliant physiques and minds the promise of more money can be a mighty big motivating factor. The additional money not being for their cute lithe young bodies but obviously made so they can buy a vacuum cleaner or a cute new dress etc.
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Re: getting them to puerto galera
Here's my suggestion. Meet Manila girls in Manila. Conduct vertical and horizontal interviews, then just take your favorite with you. If a girl likes you she will kill to go along. If you like several you could rotate them in and out. I'll be there in early November with one of my favorites.
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Reimbursement upon meeting
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?[/QUOTE]
CT,
I think I would tell her that I will give her the money for the ticket when she meets me at the appointed place and time. Ask to see the ticket also. She could be sitting in the same Internet cafe with you and telling you that she needs money to come from Davao to Puerto Galera. You never know. This way, you should also be able to verify the ticket price, if it is printed on the ticket.
HW
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?[/QUOTE]
Or just send her the ticket. But that's still no guarantee that she will show up.
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Fotos on DIA
My advice. Don't put your foto on DIA but just have a very good profile explanation that stresses the fun part.
The one who are really into fun will respond the the honest approach and has paid off very well for me.
Once they reply. Start the flirting and when ready open your cam to them but ensure they have a cam. So you know who you are dealing with. I have had plenty of attempted scams by ladyboys and those who want you to pay for their cam time. Don't be tempted. Shut them off
Start innocent and lead them on the flirting. The horny ones will be to show you their bodies in no time. I have 8 women (range from 21 to 35. All fit and sexy) who are constantly showing me their nakedness goodness in no time.
Also try to pick girls who don't need to travel far to where you want to meet. Only go down that route when you have really got to know them and maybe even spoken to them.
I have sent money to one from Cebu to fly up to see me for a couple of days in manila when I was there. Ticket price was on USD 100. This only after 2 months chat and grew to know her.
She did turn up. And when we were in the cab from the aiport to my hotel downtown she had a hand down my jeans; so I knew I had scored well.
She was DFK me in the hotel lift and barely closed my room door before she was straddling me. This followed an amazing shower where she sucked me and swallowed without prompting.
The next 2 days were an amazing. As she was a student nurse so her understanding of the male anatomy left me completely drained. This one I will definietly fly up again when I am in Manila if the others don't work out.
But so far my other contacts have been excellent. I keep myself mysterious but always treat them nice when I am in town; but always make sure they know I am not someone who is ready to make a commitment.
So far so good. But again I just am very clear in what I want and what I am not.
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?[/QUOTE]
CT,
Unless you have a lot of time that you enjoy wasting, don't mess with the DIA girls! I use to line up girls from FF, FH, and DIA during my trips over in 2005/2006 but found that it was too exhausting to keep up with, and mostly hit or miss when you actually met them. Your better off scouring the malls, making eye contact and smiling at as many women as you can during the day. Give your digits ( a cell phone is a must) to as many women as you can everyday. Before long you'll have them scheduled two hours apart from visiting you at your hotel room. But still, there's nothing guaranteed like a good ole bar girl when your short on time.
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?[/QUOTE]
For transportation, I always tell the girl to borrow the money from anyone they can for a one way ticket And that I will buy the return ticket at the dock/port/ airport when she arrives so that she will have her ticket home in case we don't get along.
I tell her I will reimburse her for the cost of the ticket, plus a little extra for interest. If The girl says that she can not find one person to loan her bus money, even with the extra interest, then she just is not trying hard enough. Someone will loan her 1000 peso for a ferry ride if they will get 1200 in return a few days later.
If it is an expensive ticket, for a plane ride, I normal use PAL airlines. You can buy her a one way ticket and email her the e-ticket. All she needs is her government ID. The most you are out is the ticket cost and the girl is not tempted by the cash. This has always worked for me, the girl has shown up each time.
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?[/QUOTE]
Kiss your money good bye! Not to be so harsh , but quite honestly its mongers like you that make us all look like marks. There so many girls on DIA, is there a reason for you to hit this one girl in the province? Ok so you really dig this girl in the province, why not just do a search for all the girls in that one province and go meet your honey and the other ones as well. Its not much more than what you would have to pay for her to come see you and a high degree that you will get laid.
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]For transportation, I always tell the girl to borrow the money from anyone they can for a one way ticket And that I will buy the return ticket at the dock/port/ airport when she arrives so that she will have her ticket home in case we don't get along.
I tell her I will reimburse her for the cost of the ticket, plus a little extra for interest. If The girl says that she can not find one person to loan her bus money, even with the extra interest, then she just is not trying hard enough. Someone will loan her 1000 peso for a ferry ride if they will get 1200 in return a few days later.
If it is an expensive ticket, for a plane ride, I normal use PAL airlines. You can buy her a one way ticket and email her the e-ticket. All she needs is her government ID. The most you are out is the ticket cost and the girl is not tempted by the cash. This has always worked for me, the girl has shown up each time.[/QUOTE]
This is an excellent idea! The e-ticket can she cash that in or do you get a voucher if you don''t use it?
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[QUOTE=Pimpster]This is an excellent idea! The e-ticket can she cash that in or do you get a voucher if you don''t use it?[/QUOTE]
I am not sure, I have never had a girl not show up. It is not that much money when you consider the cost of going to visit her for a couple of days.
You will be paying for all her family and friends, and then she will be scared to stay the night with you because others will think she is a ****. Most girls will tell their family and friends that you had 2 hotel rooms on her trip, and they believe it. (or pretend to believe, to save face)
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"webscam" girl in DIA
I was just search Filipina girls online and i came across many posts about filipina " webscam" girls from dateinasia.com. try to google "filipina webcam scammer", you will see too many scams in dateinasia.
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I am not sure, I have never had a girl not show up. It is not that much money when you consider the cost of going to visit her for a couple of days.
You will be paying for all her family and friends, and then she will be scared to stay the night with you because others will think she is a ****. Most girls will tell their family and friends that you had 2 hotel rooms on her trip, and they believe it. (or pretend to believe, to save face)[/QUOTE]
Yeah I agree with you its not about the money, but I hate to look like a sucker who small head is doing all the thinking. Hmmm, I'm going to have to try this one a girl that asked me for 150 dollars for food for a week, but she still wants to chat with me and meet me.
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[QUOTE=Pimpster]Yeah I agree with you its not about the money, but I hate to look like a sucker who small head is doing all the thinking. Hmmm, I'm going to have to try this one a girl that asked me for 150 dollars for food for a week, but she still wants to chat with me and meet me.[/QUOTE]
Hahahahahahahaha. $150.00 a week for food? You gotta be shiit'n me. When I was married with two kids we didn't even approach that. Is she feeding her family and boyfriend too? Thank God my ex g/f contacted me today. Gorgeous woman, cheap date and only 90 minutes from here. Knock out brown beauty from CDO.
When I was married with two kids, we didn't even approach a buck and a half a week for food. What family is she planning on supporting?
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[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]Hahahahahahahaha. $150.00 a week for food? You gotta be shiit'n me. When I was married with two kids we didn't even approach that. Is she feeding her family and boyfriend too? Thank God my ex g/f contacted me today. Gorgeous woman, cheap date and only 90 minutes from here. Knock out brown beauty from CDO.
When I was married with two kids, we didn't even approach a buck and a half a week for food. What family is she planning on supporting?[/QUOTE]
The DIA girls always hit you up for like 100 dollars min, they always think its not a lot etc...Of course I assume there are fools out there who will send that sort of money to them, "you get people like that on this board to which is just down right stupid if you ask me". People should realize the average filipino makes less than 100 dollars a month. I know a waitress in angles city that makes 136 php a day 15 hour shift. So the next time you guys think of sending money to chicks think about that.
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Webscams on DIA
I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.[/QUOTE]
Either you haven't talked to one particular girl enough or you haven't talked to enough of them. Also maybe they don't think you are sweet on them, the moment that they think you are an easy mark. Watch out, I can provide you with some DIA names of chicks who will hit you up for money if you like, so you can experience it first hand :))
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Ha ha. Thanks for the chuckle.
Sometimes I wonder if guys are getting asked for money after they've asked for a webcam sex show.
I've found it rare myself but I usually say my goodbyes as soon as a lady starts bringing up topics about problems or hard life.
X
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.[/QUOTE]
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Requests for money are common
Guys,
It may not happen all the time, and maybe not from all the girls. But there are several girls on DIA that are not the least bit ashamed to ask a guy to send them money. Some even elude to it in what they write in their profiles. I have had quite a few ask me to do that. Unless it is someone that I know, I block them and never try to contact them again. I have a very long "blocked user" list on DIA. Some because they are ladyboys or gays. But many are on that list because they are looking for money.
I'm not saying that all the girls on DIA are like this. But there are quite a few there that are.
HW
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davao hooker on DIA
Just got hit up for money, condition to meet in DVO
DIA ID: jen_08
I'm a simple girl, 5'4 hieght. And relationship I'm serious I want to meet a real guy. And I want to be a happy with my relationship. Hope I meet my true love soon.
Gender: Female
Age: 21
Country: Philippines
State / Region: dvao city
City: davao city
Ethnicity: Asian
Appearance: Average
Height: 162 cm (5'4")
Weight: 42 kg (93 lbs)
Eye color: Black
Hair color: Black
Education: College - Some
Occupation: student
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: Scorpio
Born in the year of: Dragon
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: I'll tell you later
Drinking: Light / social drinker
The lady is all business. I skipped the offer.
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Webscam girls in DIA - Youtube
If you try to search in YOUtube, "webcam Filipina" you will see so many posts of these webcam girls trying to scam foreigners.
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Send me Some
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]
I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.
[/QUOTE]
I can always use a few bucks. My wife thinks I am cute and sexy.
Slim
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Hit and Miss on DIA
Just some advice on avoidning scammers on DIA:
1. Your profile should stress fun.
2. Once you suspect a DIA girl of being a scammer - follow ur instincts - block her.
3. Any mention of her financial situation - warning bells should ring.
Thats why I only pick on girls who are employed, or are real students.
4. If she asks you to link to some other site - thats a no no.
5. Avoid single moms.... no matter how damn sexy she is!
6. Make sure you use some intel in your chats to get info on her...avoids problems later.
7. No matter what - always be nice - but when she does ask for money - just be firm no matter how horny you are.
8. Only chat with girls with cams... again helps in finding out more info on her.
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[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]Guys,
It may not happen all the time, and maybe not from all the girls. But there are several girls on DIA that are not the least bit ashamed to ask a guy to send them money.
HW[/QUOTE]
I have only had one ask so far, and that was for bus fare. This is even on my "JUST WANT FUN'" profile. I think it is because I can normaly see the patern that leads up to the money request and I ditch them before then.
Example
Me: Hi, how are you?
Girl: Not so good?
Me: Have to go, bye.
then I buzz the next girl on my list.
I keep my Yahoo on invisible. If a girl try's to chat with me, I run a quick conversation history log to refresh my memory on her.
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DIA Manila
I live in Mindanao and I took 5 days off and went to Manila last week. I have a lot of friends already in Manila, but I still like to find new:D
One week before I left for Manila, I went on DIA and searched only for Manila girls. I met 10 possibles and I only met one (picture attached). Her profile states, "Not looking, taking a break", so I didn't send any message. The next day she sent me a message and asked the normal questions. From her picture she looks okay and I broke my rule (little head in charge) about web camming prior to meeting.
We made a date to meet in Makati, Greenbelt 3, for lunch. Of course she wanted to bring her friend. We met at 12:30 Sunday for late lunch and she shows up with a 6 foot ladyboy and the ladyboy was VERY ugly. I almost walked out, but DIA was cute and I said to myself "lunch and run".
Long story short, we had lunch and joked around the whole time. At 1:30 I said that I needed to go take a nap and I paid the check. As we are walking out of the mall I asked her why she was so short (4'11") and she laughed and said she lied on DIA and put 5'2". I laughed and said "did you lie about being a virgin too?" and she said let's go to your room and you can see. I gave her 200P for her friend to leave and we went to the hotel. I have met a few:D DIA ladies and I have to say that this girl wanted to fuck. She is a screamer and being 43, I am not as good as I once was, but I am good once as I ever was. This girl was so into it, talking dirty and the whole nine yards, that we went twice in 30 minutes.
So, from meeting to bed was about 1 hour and 30 minutes. I told her at lunch that I didn't want a GF or need a wife and she was cool. I didn't have time to see her again:( as I had a full dance card. She has texted me five times and just ask me when we can meet again.
Robb
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Girl from Puerta Galera
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?[/QUOTE]
My girl borrowed the money from her friends and I re paid her. I would have sent her Western Union, since 4200 isn't that much money. If they fly, buy them an eticket.
If I had had the time, I would have gone to Puerta Galera. Its sounds nice, although the water is 22°C.
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DIA Loser
I don't know who this guy is in DIA, but he is a loser. He messaged the girl that I met from Manila and told her about my post and how he wanted the same thing. WTF. Can you not get your own women?? You are a Fucking loser. I hope that we never get to meet in person. This site is for men to help others meet ladies, not to tell ladies that you saw them here and want the same.
Triple X:
Gender: Male
Age: 38
Country: Canada
State / Region: British colombia
City: Vancouver
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White)
Appearance: Attractive
Height: 179 cm (5'10")
Weight: 38 kg (84 lbs)
Eye color: Green
Hair color: Brown
Education: University - Graduated
Occupation: Import/export.
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: I'll tell you later
Born in the year of: I'll tell you later
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Not willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: Non smoker
Drinking: Non drinker
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DIA Loser
This loser copied my whole post and emailed it to her. WTF?? If you are such a big man, show me who you are here?
Robb
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That's some real lame shit Robbaf. That guy is a loooooser! There are too many women in the Philippines to even consider doing that to another ISG member.
Yella
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[QUOTE=Robbaf]I don't know who this guy is in DIA, but he is a loser. He messaged the girl that I met from Manila and told her about my post and how he wanted the same thing. WTF. Can you not get your own women??
Willing to relocate: Not willing to relocate to another country
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Not only a loser but a stupid one as he cant have what you had as he does not want to relocate :D.
Likely one of the one handed brigade that lurk the board. Only contribution he makes is probably some stain somewhere:)
If he does raise his head and shows he is a man not a wimp best let us all know his handle...
Enjoy Robbaf, I will be there soon must get a beer and swap stories
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Height and Weight
Five feet ten inches and 84 pounds? Sure its a guy?
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Sad sorry fucks
Yeah. All boards have got them. And the DIA " please can I have what the other guy had" story is proof that theres an army of folks who assume they have a divine right to the goodies after our investment of time and money.
These guys are truly sad. And live in la la land if they assume that if one gal puts out for one she will put out for millions.
Have had no end of fights with idiots on the KL board. When I would report a great night out and the fun me and a new find had. Next day an army of posters would all post messages asking for her phone number, assuming they had an equal right to paly with the same gal. And getting huffy when I would explian why I wouldn't share. DIA, Frindfinder, FH, CB, Tagged, Friendster, CL, . Damn. Theres millions of sites to find gals and snare them with creativity and charm.
I love the thought I found the gal and charmed her into bed (I realise that maybe I didn't but its a nice noble thought none the less.)
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Will be there in a couple of weeks!
[QUOTE=Wicked Roger]I will be there soon must get a beer and swap stories[/QUOTE]I will be returning there as well Wicked Roger. Hopefully we can finally meet up for some San Miguels or drinks. :) :D I will buy, but I do not want you stealing the receipt off the table to put on your expense account. ;) Arriving in Manila on approximately November 14th. Also will make a tour to other areas of the P.I, so hopefully our paths will cross. Hope to also have the opportunity to meet in person your good close personal friends, good enough and Baby Slayer! :) :D Sent them a invitation through a p.m.
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Sad Sorry Fucks part 2
I would agree with your points.
I just followed some advice on this board and then experimented on my own online. Within a few weeks I had a good collection of possible freebies. And then getting the real deal when I got to Manila, HKG and Singapore.
It just takes a little bit of effort on your part to get the girl you want.
I really went to a lot of effort to get these girls. And the freebies really don't appreciate us hadning out their details to a whole bunch of horny buggers.
They have their own preferences.
So to those nitwits wanting free info. Please RTFF. It works!
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I just got this email today on DIA from a 19 year old from Cebu. I had sent her 2 emails and we had not really had even a simple conversation. It starts off like you see without even my name at the top (or a capital letter). It ends as you see it without a name at the bottom. What is she thinking?????
every month i pay the house and all things.this coming february all house will gone coz this house s not mine the owner of the s the mayor of her toledo.
hon i hav so much big problem im not lie to u i need ur help plz help me my son addmit in the hospital and anywher i go for credit the money they always said they hav no money to borrow with me sorry.hon plz help me i neeed ur help to day i know its only erasy said but it s true i hav no idea wer i go all i know to going with u.plz help meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
for my son not me not my family my son help us plz
dont inside ur mine that i after ur money but i hav no choice only u that i go for health of my son
thnk u god blesss
thanksu very very much
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Are you surprised by what you get on DIA? Don't worry about pre-booking girls from DIA and those other sites. Just do it in person when you get here. Although you can find some pearls on those websites, it's hugely a waste of time. There are too many available women in the Philippines to waste time traveling to meet women you think might be your type. Just be gregarious with every women you meet in the pi during the day/night while you're traveling and much pussy will follow!
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
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No Need to Look Far
Maybe it's because I've lived here now for five years, or maybe it's just that I'm getting too old to understand, but why go to all the trouble of "pre-arranging" anything at all prior to your visits here. This has got to be the easiest place in the world to meet women; they're everywhere.
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]Maybe it's because I've lived here now for five years, or maybe it's just that I'm getting too old to understand, but why go to all the trouble of "pre-arranging" anything at all prior to your visits here. This has got to be the easiest place in the world to meet women; they're everywhere.[/QUOTE]
GE is right. Don't waste your time on those websites. Just come and ye shall find...very easily the girl of your dreams...many times over!
Yella Man
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"Don't worry about pre-booking girls from DIA and those other sites. Just do it in person when you get here. Although you can find some pearls on those websites, it's hugely a waste of time. There are too many available women in the Philippines to waste time traveling to meet women you think might be your type."
I completely agree. It is just that I have months between trips and would like to do something productive in that time. But I find DIA frustrating. The girls answer in 3 words or 3 letters or totally incoherently. I now have cut back from 3 paragraphs to hey there baby! and they seem to like that better! Hopeless.
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Oh please...
Coming to the "chat rooms pen pals" section and saying it is a waste of time, is like going to the photo section and complaining about the nudity.
It's like going to AC section and complaining about the overabundance of clubs that offer poontang as a side dish.
If you have something negative to add, you should at least describe your unfortunate experience.
As for GE, we know he lives in the Philippines and his point of view makes perfect sense. Not all the readers at ISG live in the Philippines.
When I asked Jackson to add this thread, i meant it to be a way for ISG people to share notes about online women. This has happened a bit, but mostly negative stuff. We perhaps underestimated the reach of ISG, since CB changed their access privileges after people started sharing the profile numbers here at ISG.
Bottom line is, if I stray too far from AC/MNL/Cebu, I want those online gals as an alternative. And if I may be so daring as to contradict the naysayers, I've had online gals in my bed in AC, Manila, Subic, Cebu, Davao, CDO, Dumaguete.
Oh, and one city i managed four online gals (over two different visits) in the sack on the first date. Maybe GE can guess which city that is.
X
disclaimer: I don't disagree with GE, YM, Cuba about their suggestion that you can do well with a bit of charm and panache.
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To each their own
I would agree with X man.
I have tried both using Chat Rooms and pick ups when I get to Manila. Among the latter - I have posted my experiences of Manila's Expos in the Manila thread.
Both ways work.
I find the chat room way of 'pre-booking' a freebie in Manila quite fun because I always make sure there is a cam - so I know what she looks like. Also the chat has a way of finding out what her turn ons are.
Thus for me it is just a way of getting a freebie when I arrive without the effort of actually going out and trawling the malls or clubs like green belt (Call me lazy). In all cases I meet her at my hotel or somewhere nearby.
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[QUOTE=X Man]Coming to the "chat rooms pen pals" section and saying it is a waste of time, is like going to the photo section and complaining about the nudity.
It's like going to AC section and complaining about the overabundance of clubs that offer poontang as a side dish.
If you have something negative to add, you should at least describe your unfortunate experience.
As for GE, we know he lives in the Philippines and his point of view makes perfect sense. Not all the readers at ISG live in the Philippines.
Oh, and one city i managed four online gals (over two different visits) in the sack on the first date. Maybe GE can guess which city that is.
X
disclaimer: I don't disagree with GE, YM, Cuba about their suggestion that you can do well with a bit of charm and panache.[/QUOTE]
X Man is right in a sense, but wrong in essence! I have used chat websites several times to hookup on my visits to the Philipines, but the travel time, the waiting, and the planning of the meeting in whole, takes time and effort. When your on a two-week vacation, do you want to plan your day around girls that may be hit or miss? Not when there are plenty of women to be had where-ever you find yourself. I'll grant X that it's a wonderful tool for meeting women off the beaten path like those towns/cities not often mentioned on this forum, but most mongers want quick and easy access to poon immediately upon entering the country. If I seemed negative about the whole process, then I apologize. It's just another unneccessary process to deal with given all the ready and willing ass running around the Philippines. I'm not busting balls! Just uttering my two cents.
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
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So explain to me the best way to deal with them. As I described a week back in a long posting, I have found the interaction to be frustrating. They seem to want a lot of meaningless, contentless interactions. I am busy and don't want to be constantly responding to stupid buzzing.
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Depends on what you want
Yes there are lots of wasted chats on DIA. They get deleted after a few useless interactions but the good chats. There are some great funny ones, and the slow movement to a discussion about sex. Thats the fun of it.
Thats the hunt. If you got no patience for it, thats fine, but for me, I love the hunt part.
Lost count of my yahoo/tagged/friendster/DIA/Hi5 friends who I have bedded and obviously lost count of the number of hours on internet chatting. But its a great way to find freebies. But again, its not for everyone. But then you can't find that needle everywhere you look in the bar haystyack either.
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I wrote one and this is what she wrote back. At least it was more than 2 words!
hi
thanks for leaving a message on my account...
by the way im melamie from philippines im only 18 years old... to be honest with you im looking for someone who could help me to support my study.. i know that u already know how difficult to be a self supporting student...its so hard to reach out my goal... and if u want we can be friends too....
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number.......
...godbless...
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Hit n Miss
With Chat rooms - I go for volume.
Any chat that goes off in a tangent I dont want - I just apologize that I am moving jobs and then delete her.
Like I said if she starts talking crap and gives some sob story - use the delete button.
Also both ways work - so if you want to go out and about and chase the pootang - it works but not neccessarily you will always get a freebie. My issues is that I only get to Manila for a couple of days at a time so dont have much time to go out and do the chasing. Thats why I started using the chat room to make pre-bookings, so to speak. So far I have been lucky and got extremely good GFE each time.
I am sure when I hit a brick wall I will revert back to trawiling Manila.
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Dia :d
Hi to all,
just have been a bit busy lately during my boring business trip in Europe and cant wait to get back home to the Phils again.
While bored I went to DIA lately and offline some ladys there.
Im in touch now with a 24 year old teacher from Cebu. She send me some fotos and she looks like superstar model. To good to be true? SHe dont have a cam now, its destroyed she told me..hehehehe..well who knows. She talks perfect english so maybe her proffession is true. I hope she aint a ladyboy and her pictures are real.
When we talk, she sometimes excuses herself and promised me to talk to her next time. Then she went offline on ym. However when I access DIA I see her profile as online, so she might be online and talking to somebody else, right?
On my return next month I have allready my girlfriends lined up and looking forward to meet some new ladies. Im on Dia cause Im bored and maybe I will get my lazy ass up and really meeting somebody up from this site. As of now , I never did. To busy with work, to rainy, to much bum2..
I will keep in touch with this gourgeous girl, hope she is one and let you guys know about this. If she is a scammer, I will let you also know.
Have a good one
Blink
PS I read some stuff about dental bills and scams, tooth extracting is 150p in Angeles city, so whoever ask 4k pesos for this kind of work is a scammer
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[QUOTE=Blink157]Then she went offline on ym. However when I access DIA I see her profile as online, so she might be online and talking to somebody else, right? Blink[/QUOTE]
This used to happen to me all the time. Girls would say "hello, where are you??? it says that you are online". I finally figured it out. If you do not sign out, you stay shown as on line for up to a hour. If you sign out of DIA, it takes as long as 15 minutes to show you offline. I figured this out by signing out and searching for my profile and refreshing until it went off line.
Blink, I had a model in Cebu, sounds like same story, no cam and only pictures. When I got there and called it's cell from pay phone...LADYBOY Busted:D
Good luck all,
Robb
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Here is her response.
Her------hi
thanks for leaving a message on my account...
by the way im melamie from philippines im only 18 years old... to be honest with you im looking for someone who could help me to support my study.. i know that u already know how difficult to be a self supporting student...its so hard to reach out my goal... and if u want we can be friends too....
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number ..........
Me------So you want support? How much do you need monthly and what do you give in exchange?
Her---
my tuition cost 23,000php monthly per sem...we cant afford that much...
i dont want to stop but wat should i do if we dont have money..
for the things that i can give as exchange let me think about that
....thanks...
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]Here is her response.
Her------hi
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number ..........
Me------So you want support? How much do you need monthly and what do you give in exchange?
Her---
my tuition cost 23,000php monthly per sem...we cant afford that much...
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LOL, sounds like a 23,000php monthly bear trap with "born again" panties for bait. :D Watch your step!!!
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ladyboyalert in dia
[QUOTE=Robbaf]This used to happen to me all the time. Girls would say "hello, where are you??? it says that you are online". I finally figured it out. If you do not sign out, you stay shown as on line for up to a hour. If you sign out of DIA, it takes as long as 15 minutes to show you offline. I figured this out by signing out and searching for my profile and refreshing until it went off line.
Blink, I had a model in Cebu, sounds like same story, no cam and only pictures. When I got there and called it's cell from pay phone...LADYBOY Busted:D
Good luck all,
Robb[/QUOTE]
Hi,
I put a picture of her that she sent me recently. Gourgeous right?
I dont think thats a ladyboy, but as indicated in my previous post I havent seen her on cam yet.
Lets see what will happen. At least I get entertained until Im back.
Blink
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hmmm...
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]Here is her response.
Her------hi
thanks for leaving a message on my account...
by the way im melamie from philippines im only 18 years old... to be honest with you im looking for someone who could help me to support my study.. i know that u already know how difficult to be a self supporting student...its so hard to reach out my goal... and if u want we can be friends too....
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number ..........
Me------So you want support? How much do you need monthly and what do you give in exchange?
Her---
my tuition cost 23,000php monthly per sem...we cant afford that much...
i dont want to stop but wat should i do if we dont have money..
for the things that i can give as exchange let me think about that
....thanks...[/QUOTE]
Hi,
as of my knowledge La Salle University is the most expensive University in the Philippines. DOwnpayment is about 100 000 pesos for each semestre. Additional charges are "pocketmoney" like money for cardgames, food, cars, clothes, etc.etc.
All in all only IMHO only well off kids can afford this. Sounds like a tourist trap.
BTW , if somebody you never met ask you about money you can be sure that he/she only wants the money and nothing else.
Sending money doesnt garantee that your honeyko will allways stick to you, never cheat on you, etc. etc.
Living in the Philippines taught me one thing. Seeing is believing!!
Blink
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She ignores my question about what I will get from her in exchange.
Her---
hi....
mmmm i can ask for ur help???.. i know its too early to ask this... but idont know wer i can ask a help except on u...
i need to pay my tuition tomorrow if icant pay that the school will not allowed me to enter... can u help me... as a friend.. plz... plz....
I now ask her to send me photos via email. She seems to think I am going to send lots of dollars every month to a girl I have never even met. I doubt she will send the photos but we will see.
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DIA and cam
I chatted on cam several times with two DIA Manila ladies prior to my recent visit. I met both of them in Makati and had a great time. Both were looking for financial help and that was no problem...I had figured out in advance they would not be free. However, even though we had chatted on cam multiple times, I failed to notice in both cases that each one was missing several upper front teeth. Yup I was surprised when I met them in person...but we still had a good time and I'd do it again. So the cam chat may not reveal all that you'd like to know upfront. And we've all probably had the experience of talking with a ladyboy in person and not immediately realizing she was a he. So while the cam may help, it's not foolproof.
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[QUOTE=Blink157]Hi,
I put a picture of her that she sent me recently. Gourgeous right?
I dont think thats a ladyboy, but as indicated in my previous post I havent seen her on cam yet.
Lets see what will happen. At least I get entertained until Im back.
Blink[/QUOTE]
Maganda sure, but are you sure it is her picture? The one that I called also had a maganda picture, just wasn't her:(
Have fun,
Robb
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[QUOTE=Xdentx]I chatted on cam several times with two DIA Manila ladies prior to my recent visit. I met both of them in Makati and had a great time. Both were looking for financial help and that was no problem...I had figured out in advance they would not be free. However, even though we had chatted on cam multiple times, I failed to notice in both cases that each one was missing several upper front teeth. Yup I was surprised when I met them in person...but we still had a good time and I'd do it again. So the cam chat may not reveal all that you'd like to know upfront. And we've all probably had the experience of talking with a ladyboy in person and not immediately realizing she was a he. So while the cam may help, it's not foolproof.[/QUOTE]
Unless the gal had thin lips and laugh out loud a lot on webcam I don't think you going to see the lost of a couple of front teeth. Just to clarify you paid money to girls with lost front teeth " filipina yellow neck LOL" Personally if i was going to pay bar girl price or free lance prices i might as well go pick one up without having to spend all the time chatting getting to know each other crap.
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]She ignores my question about what I will get from her in exchange.
Her---
hi....
mmmm i can ask for ur help???.. i know its too early to ask this... but idont know wer i can ask a help except on u...
i need to pay my tuition tomorrow if icant pay that the school will not allowed me to enter... can u help me... as a friend.. plz... plz....
I now ask her to send me photos via email. She seems to think I am going to send lots of dollars every month to a girl I have never even met. I doubt she will send the photos but we will see.[/QUOTE]
I had that scam more times than I would like to remember, one of the other things that you should consider is that even if she send you the picture it could be someone elses picture, always insist for webcam. I had a ladyboy pull out model picture off the net, and i insisted webcam, and stupid ladyboy actually put himself on webcam. " He wasn't even one of the hot ladyboys it was ugly guy in girls clothing lol"
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Pimpster, I don't know if you could classify it as a scam. She has not promised to do anything for me -- not even meet me for coffee. I could send her $6000 a year for the next four years and she would have zero obligation to me. So I don't think that it fits into the category of scam. If she can get a guy to do this, it would be pretty impressive.
Now if she lied and said I had gotten her pregnant when I hadn't -- assuming that we knew each other and had sex -- then that would be a scam. And yet there is something really bizarre about asking a guy that you just met on a dating site to send you thousands of dollars to pay for an expense that American parents save years to pay for.
I have read about guys who sponsor women-- pay their expenses so they can study in University and get a good job or learned a trade so they can work their way out of abject poverty. If everyone's happy, so much the better. But there's something that feels manipulative about being asked in such an abrupt manner by such a complete stranger.
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DIA update
Hi to all,
I got now several ladies lined up for my glorious comeback. But I must say this 24 year young fashionmodel looking teacher rocks me..and Im living in the Philippines as mentioned before.
She signed up at friendster and add me as her friend. SO long only two pinoys guys add, but I dont have any problems with that. ALso another hot chick is on her friendster list. She has some more fotos there. All in all pretty normal with other normal girls, no baklas.
Lets see how this end. At least Im entertained while IM here freezing my feet off and dreaming to be back in two weeks or so.
Cuba tourist, read your posting here and I hope you wont send her any money. If you have her on yahoo, she will propably use the "multisending option", which means she send the same txt to any other sucker out there.That will answer why sometimes their messages doesnt make any sense, because its for multiple guys on her yahoolist.
Happy viewing
Blink
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]Pimpster, I don't know if you could classify it as a scam. She has not promised to do anything for me -- not even meet me for coffee. I could send her $6000 a year for the next four years and she would have zero obligation to me. So I don't think that it fits into the category of scam. If she can get a guy to do this, it would be pretty impressive.
Now if she lied and said I had gotten her pregnant when I hadn't -- assuming that we knew each other and had sex -- then that would be a scam. And yet there is something really bizarre about asking a guy that you just met on a dating site to send you thousands of dollars to pay for an expense that American parents save years to pay for.
I have read about guys who sponsor women-- pay their expenses so they can study in University and get a good job or learned a trade so they can work their way out of abject poverty. If everyone's happy, so much the better. But there's something that feels manipulative about being asked in such an abrupt manner by such a complete stranger.[/QUOTE]
Guys who pay for a girls tuition are stupid to begin with, girls from good families usually won't hit you up for money. Its PI for god sakes there are tons of cute good girls from decent families to have to pick some poor girl who can't afford to pay for her schooling. Of course things are tough in PI for a lot of people, but there are still lots of people that can afford to send their children to school. If you are helping a 30 something with two kids who pinoy father left them and you been tagging the mother on a regular basis for free, that's a different story, even than I wouldn't be someone sugar daddy. I would buy a few things here and there but not give a freaking allowance. You should also keep in mind there are also plenty of people in the states as well, I don't see many mongers go up to some redneck trailer handing out tons of free cash for free.
With regards to your girl, well do you think you think you are the first guy she asked for money? Do you think you are the only guy she hitting up for money right now? The chances of that happening is as likely as she the only girl you have on your chat list, the only girl you contacted on dia, the only girl you cut and paste the same greeting to on dia. Of course she not going to promise anything yet, its a game of escalation, filipina all want to be looked at as good girls. If you say something like oh I'm sorry I would love to help but really I only help girls who are my gf and that I've slept with. See how long it takes her to become your gf, "like a minute". This is how it works when you see money in sight, you will say anything to get paid, much like people who run for president.
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DIA newbie thoughts and experiences
Well, I swore to myself that I wouldn’t do this online dating stuff again after my previous experience. But. I tried it again. At least I waited until about 10 days prior to my next trip. The reason I swore not to do it again was not because of a bad experience but because girls are so easy to get once there.
Now, I am concentrating on girls in Cebu only, where I will spend 5-8 days.
Here is a rundown of what happened thus far. Last Friday I posted my profile. Not much action until my picture is approved and posted late Saturday early Sunday. In 3 days of trawling I have chatted with about 30 girls. I have spent a ridiculous amount of time doing this, say, 20-25 hours. Time flies when doing this. I asked for and got 14 cell #’s and about 5 gave #'s without any prompting.
1 bakla tried chatting but my gaydar alerted me. Looked too beautiful. Haha I don’t think, based on the photos in their profiles, that there were any other baklas. I avoided profiles that had obvious "glamour shots" photos. About 4 girls outright asked for financial help. They were promptly blocked. Another 2 may try later based on subtle hints. We’ll see.
2 girls want to go to Boracay with me (because I mentioned that I was going). I don’t know if I want to try this before meeting them. If I do this I will not send money or buy the air ticket. I will do as another forum member suggested, tell her to borrow the money and I will gladly reimburse her. If she shows up then that means she probably really wants to be there with me.
I had a nice dirty sex chat with a girl from another city that outright wants to fuck me to death. Not the most attractive girl but would probably be a great fuck. I’ll keep her number just in case.
I have about 12 girls that want to go to lunch or dinner with me when I get there. Based on RTFF I guess that half won’t show and a portion of those that do show will flake out. I hope that I can get about 4 of them in bed. I think that is very doable.
I figured that I would try something different for a portion of my trip this time. I will, of course report my results here upon my return.
Southbound69
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hmmm I wanted to try out some older ladies
I don't know about you guys but i wanted to try out some milf, so I've been doing searches for some older gals. Kinda of got tired with the young girls hitting up for money and all that crap. I also figured older girls would be easy to score with because their choices are few since competition with young girls leave them out in the cold. All the older ladies 35 and older are just down right unattractive for the most part imo. You maybe able to fine one that you would really want to bang out of a 500. Filipino age pretty badly, much like mexican women living in they u.s., its probably that high fat diet both of these cultures have :(. Anyways any of you been with older ladies i like to hear the details.
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Looking to upload short video under 10 megs for you guys about online chat mate any suggestion where to do it?
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DateInAsia.com - DIA Showing Email ID
I am going to have to close my DIA account. It seems some girls are smart enough to copy and past the ID into Yahoo IM to find my address. I am getting random IMs from girls in Ghana and such.
I don't know why so many here talk up DIA, the search features are not nearly as good as on Filipina Heart. I suppose DIA seems to have more members.
In FH in can do searches for things like, girls in Davao that "love anal" or such. lol
I have some problems with FH also. The Australian owner has stated last year he will comply with the US IMBRA law and provide data on US membership. Don't know where this stands now though. Australian banks and credit card companies are forbidden under national law from providing customer data to 3rd parties.
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I think the biggest advantage of DIA is it's free. F. Heart and Cherry Blossom cost money. The old cliche - you get what you pay for.
My modus operanda is to buy a subscription to CB for one month (about three weeks before my trip) and make the best use of that month. One problem with CB is they don't allow you to give your contact info on the first message. Oh, you can join up at CB anytime and let your inbox start to fill up. Then as soon as you pay you can follow up on those.
Regarding some of the earlier posts, do you guys find that picking up regular women cold (streets, coffee shops, malls) is faster than setting up contacts on the net ahead of time? I've had some great luck using both methods, so still find it hard to understand those of you who call "chat" a waste of time.
Exchange rates are looking very good at the moment. Hope it last thru December.
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[QUOTE=Jambo]I am going to have to close my DIA account. It seems some girls are smart enough to copy and past the ID into Yahoo IM to find my address. I am getting random IMs from girls in Ghana and such.
I don't know why so many here talk up DIA, the search features are not nearly as good as on Filipina Heart. I suppose DIA seems to have more members.
In FH in can do searches for things like, girls in Davao that "love anal" or such. lol
I have some problems with FH also. The Australian owner has stated last year he will comply with the US IMBRA law and provide data on US membership. Don't know where this stands now though. Australian banks and credit card companies are forbidden under national law from providing customer data to 3rd parties.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Jambo]I am going to have to close my DIA account. It seems some girls are smart enough to copy and past the ID into Yahoo IM to find my address.
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I don't understand how they would get your Yahoo id from DIA unless you give to them or post it in your profile. If it is in your profile just delete it and update the profile. If you used your Yahoo id as your name in DIA, just delete the account and start another. It is fast and free.
CB used to be great, but now you have to buy a membership to view the most basic information. I think it is still a great deal, I also buy a month membership before each trip and copy and paste the same introduction to 100 girls that I find attractive. CB also filters more of the ladyboys and scammers out of their site.
Last trip I used all 3 big ones- CB, FH, and DAI and was never bored.
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More Expensive Then P4P...
"good morning "warbucks"! just droppin by to greet you a pleasant morning.. hope all is well with you in there.. about me in here, still doing good.. i just hope my medical exam especially my CBC will be all normal.. the result will be tomorrow.. warbucks, we are scheduled to fly to manila on thursday i'd really like to grab that opportunity but how can i fly to manila.. we are still having financial problem.. my parents cant support me.. "
Email from a nurse chat mate...
She is asking for 15000 pesos. To help with all her financial problems. Thats a nice sum of bread. Virgin. Did the good girl thing and stayed in the lobby with me the whole time when we first met. I haven't seen her since April.
I said I was done with the hookers but 15000 Pesos I wonder what type of escort that could get me? :D
Names changed to protect the guilty as OJ....
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dia scammer
Hi,
avoid this one. sirasiega is her name, photo is attached.
Ask me to send her 25 US so that she can go to an internet cafe and get a webcam to chat me. LOL. Wonder how stupid they think we are.
2 weeks for me to go back. Good thing is, I dont need any viagra or cialis when Im there. Four weeks in Germany and I fuck evrything which aint by 1234 on the coconut tree :)
Have fun, play safe
Blink
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Dating Forum Success
I have copied and pasted this from elsewhere, but I think that it contributes to this forum about the effectiveness of making contacts through the dating forums.
For what it is worth, I have spent the last three trips to Phils setting up with regular women as friends and lovers.
It took quit a lot of time and effort through Cherry Blossoms and DIA, but now I have four or five regulars.
One works in a regular office job, independent, intelligent, exactly what I am looking for in shape and attitude. About 30. We were in bed within an hour of meeting at the airport.
One is in real estate, very attractive features, smart, self sufficient, headstrong, body a bit soft, but a raging fucker. Late 30's, lied about her age on CB, but still good value, works out, exercises, pretty good shape. We were fucking in a frenzy within two hours of arival aftr a long bus trip. The intervening time spent checking in and getting something to eat.
One is willowy and tall, unemployed, but seems to have enough money to move around quite a bit. She has had one child, but her body is unmarked. I have give her a little money but not much. Fucking within an hour of us getting settled into our destination.
One is tall, slim, very pretty, perfect figure, was a virgin when we met, but is now asking for money to help her and her family. I have said no, not till we live together. I will see how this one pans out.
One is drop dead gorgeous, very tall, slim, intelligent. I have been communicating with her for a couple of years from another association, and she had said that she was finally ready to get rid of her virginity. Unfortunately, we only had half a night together, but she was intent on deviginising herself, and I did the deed, within an hour of us meeting. She has asked for help in the past to get herself a job, and I have helped with a little money. She is now in regular work, and does not need any more from me. About 24.
One is Thai, from a middle class family, financially independent, very loving. About 30. Body a bit soft from one child, but a very nice woman. But not much English, so communication is hard work while we are together. A fantastic blow job. Needs no money from me. Took a few hours till we figured out where to get started. She had had such limited sexual experience as a married woman that she had no idea of any way to have sex other than starfish. Once e twigged the problem, we were off with a rush.
There are a couple of others in the Phils and Thailand who want to get into a long term relationship, but I am at my limit.
All are very loving and fun and very satisfying to be with and are cheap to maintain. So it can be done. I am 65, and wearing out, so they are not into me for my looks.
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That's an interesting story. It does take a lot of work, at least in the first stage to set things up. And you have no guarantee that the girls are really that much more innocent than the bargirls. I tend to spend more money with girlfriends than bargirls because the bar girl as a specific rate and doesn't expect anything beyond the official amount. the girlfriends start on you their stories and you feel an obligation to share the wealth, as their new president might put it.
One girl on date in Asia just wrote me that she is living now in Malaysia, working as a waitress. It seems fairly unlikely, although apparently some Filipinas to go to other countries in the region to work as waitresses. one girl gave me a buzz on Yahoo messenger. She's a nursing student and writes very little. I told her bluntly that I can't develop a relationship with her if she doesn't communicate said that her English is not very good. I asked her what language she studies in -- I was under the impression that all the universities in the country use English -- and she gave a ambiguous answer three times until I stopped asking.
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[QUOTE=Southbound69]Well, I swore to myself that I wouldn’t do this online dating stuff again after my previous experience. But. I tried it again. At least I waited until about 10 days prior to my next trip. The reason I swore not to do it again was not because of a bad experience but because girls are so easy to get once there.
Now, I am concentrating on girls in Cebu only, where I will spend 5-8 days.
Here is a rundown of what happened thus far. Last Friday I posted my profile. Not much action until my picture is approved and posted late Saturday early Sunday. In 3 days of trawling I have chatted with about 30 girls. I have spent a ridiculous amount of time doing this, say, 20-25 hours. Time flies when doing this. I asked for and got 14 cell #’s and about 5 gave #'s without any prompting.
Southbound69
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I have just registered in DIA. I wonder if I have to trawl through the profiles or have them send me messages.
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I am currently not a member of any dating site but I am a member of a social site called Fanbox, to date any interest in me is with U.S. webcam girls even thou my profile has no pics.
Currently had one too many drinks and decided to chat to a couple of girls in PI, both are using webcams to earn money, one was honest enough to state she was online part time to earn money to pay for her schooling. I pointed out I know a girl in her shoes that doesn't resort to webcams to pay for schooling. She is yet to reply.
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Be careful about Fanbox:
[url]http://www.techcrunch.com/2008/03/04/fanbox-is-the-new-plaxo/[/url]
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[QUOTE=Bob Down]I am currently not a member of any dating site but I am a member of a social site called Fanbox, to date any interest in me is with U.S. webcam girls even thou my profile has no pics.
Currently had one too many drinks and decided to chat to a couple of girls in PI, both are using webcams to earn money, one was honest enough to state she was online part time to earn money to pay for her schooling. I pointed out I know a girl in her shoes that doesn't resort to webcams to pay for schooling. She is yet to reply.[/QUOTE]
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Fanbox
X,
Thanks for the link, yes I am getting spammed from this site. One problem is they send you emails from people you don't know but the trick is to read these emails you have to launch an application. Meaning you have to pay to see what this person wants to send you and the cost $1 is added to your cell account.
As the link says I got an email from a girl I know asking me to sign up, she just ignored all the requests to join. But it went through her contact list, when I opened the email from her I didn't even click on the sign me up button. I went to what I thought was the "x" to close button but it signed me up anyway. So I am just fucking around not taking it too seriously, since I don't have much of a profile and the only hits I get are from webcam girls.
I have had emails from other people some I know others I do not to join other sites like Tagged and Friendster, but resisted to dated.
I am also a member of Hi5, a Thai friend signed me up to. Same again I was getting emails from people wanting to be my friend. Funny thing was I didn't even know how to access my profile or even what was on my profile. I sent Hi5 a email saying I don't want to be a member as I don't know what was on my file or how to view it.
Hi5 send me two emails saying they would cancel my membership, second email said my membership was cancelled for breach of terms and conditions LOL.
Later my Thai friend asked me why she could not access my profile, I said I cancelled my membership. Not sure what she did but I am a member again, but I hardly view it these days.
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[QUOTE=Lustforthrust]I have just registered in DIA. I wonder if I have to trawl through the profiles or have them send me messages.[/QUOTE]
If you have a picture (doesn't matter if it's good or bad) and a slightly interesting profile, you will get plenty of the DIA girls contacting you.
HW
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[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]If you have a picture (doesn't matter if it's good or bad) and a slightly interesting profile, you will get plenty of the DIA girls contacting you.
HW[/QUOTE]
90% of the girls that contact me first, I am not interested in. (age, ugly, gay, ect).
I normaly do a search for a certain age bracket and location, say 22-27 years old, in davao, with picture. You will get hundreds to choose from. Just paste the same introduction "hi, i like ur profile"
As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond.
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"As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond."
This is true, but they will type out a couple of words that don't mean anything. Getting a good conversation going is not so easy. Any tips on how to accomplish that?
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A lot (most) of these women on DIA are from very simple backgrounds. They do not necessarily have a good command of the English language and are very unsophisticated. If you want some real conversation, you will have to weed through a whole lot of women to find just one who can express herself well. Look for the "university graduated" types first. If you get simple one line responses, just move on to someone else right away. You may be able to get a sense of their intellect by just reading their profile carefully. So many are identical.."simple...who will accept me as I am" etc. It's a tedious, time consuming process.
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Dia
One chic claims to have been working in LA Cafe. She jumped right at my invitation. Her messages lead me to believe she's insane or trouble.
Two 19 year olds went silent when I proposed dinner/night-out.
One very cute 19 year old accepted my invitation to dinner but wants to bring her cousin along. I said nothing. 9 hours later she sent me another message with her phone. I want to do her. I don't want to scare her off. How would I proceed?
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]That's an interesting story. It does take a lot of work, at least in the first stage to set things up. And you have no guarantee that the girls are really that much more innocent than the bargirls. I tend to spend more money with girlfriends than bargirls because the bar girl as a specific rate and doesn't expect anything beyond the official amount. the girlfriends start on you their stories and you feel an obligation to share the wealth, as their new president might put it.
One girl on date in Asia just wrote me that she is living now in Malaysia, working as a waitress. It seems fairly unlikely, although apparently some Filipinas to go to other countries in the region to work as waitresses. one girl gave me a buzz on Yahoo messenger. She's a nursing student and writes very little. I told her bluntly that I can't develop a relationship with her if she doesn't communicate said that her English is not very good. I asked her what language she studies in -- I was under the impression that all the universities in the country use English -- and she gave a ambiguous answer three times until I stopped asking.[/QUOTE]
You actually feel obligated because of some sad story? Thats pretty amazing that you spend more money with gf than bargirl, because if you were to spend 3000 peso a day for 5 days thats equates to 15,000 peso for bar girl. So now if you spend 15,000 for your gf in 5 days. Ask yourself how long would it take her to earn that much and why does she need 15000 peso. I hate to see fellow mongers get used, because they are thinking with the wrong head.
With respect to the maylasia thing, many filipina who go to maylasia are promised one thing but most end up as hookers.
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Anybody know this one?
Hi fellow mongerers!
Like others have mentioned on this board, I decided to make a "bad boy" profile on DIA. In the "about me" section, I made it clear that I was not interested in a long term relationship, but only GFE type with possible repeats if we both enjoyed it. I did not post a picture to it, but was honest about my age, height, and weight. Afterward, I proceeded to show interest in many profiles that caught my eye. I have had many responses. But only one looks like it might come through.
This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October. Only on DIA until today. She provided me with her YM ID and I added her to my friends list. Immediately, she wanted to start chatting, invited me to view her web cam, and talked sweet to me. During our conversation, I mentioned how much I spent last year when I went to Manila to have laser eye surgery done. From this, she started talking about how expensive it could be to stay in the hotels. Deciding to see where this would go, I told her that I assumed the hotels in her home town (Dipilog City) were cheaper than in Manila. Her reply was that there are some nice hotels there that only cost P750 a night (which makes me think she has some first hand experience in the rooms.) I suggested that she introduce me to a nice hotel if I visit her. To this, she stated that a better idea would be if I just stayed at her house so she could "take care of" me. I like that idea very much!
I just want to know if anyone else has any experience with her, and if she is a scammer. If not, I will try it sometime in the future, and report on it!
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]"As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond."
This is true, but they will type out a couple of words that don't mean anything. Getting a good conversation going is not so easy. Any tips on how to accomplish that?[/QUOTE]
First thing I learned is get there yahoo messenger address ASAP. Other wise it could be a long time before you get to actual converse in real time. I used to get this a lot.
The separate emails would take a day or two respond to if they don't go on-line a lot, and you don't really want a girl that is on 24/7 anyway.
When I first started on DAI I would interact with girls this way-
me:hi, nice profile
her:thanks
me: would you like to chat sometime?
her: sure, why not.
me: can I have your yahoo messenger id
her: my yahoo is chickondai, but I am not always online.
me: when is a good time to find u online?
her: I borrow my cousins computer on Sundays after church
me:Ok, I will look for you on Sunday
that could take about a week or longer to just to chat with the girl and by that time I am board with her or have forgotten who she was.
Now I cut to the chase, without being too agressive.
I copy and paste a basic introduction.
me:Nice profile, if you like we can chat on yahoo, just leave me a message at bobbowies id.
Ps. don't believe the profile if it says they have a college degree, most just check that box no matter if they spent one day in class or have a masters.
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Hairy W
This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October.
You sure you got that name right?
She looks like a regular girl
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[QUOTE=Khun Larry]This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October.
You sure you got that name right?
She looks like a regular girl[/QUOTE]
KL,
Yes. Her DIA ID is vivsweet. She looks very nice in her profile picture, and on the web cam. Everytime she has sent me a message, it has been just nice chit chat, nothing sexual. She surprised me with the offer to take care of me at her home, especially since I have no photo on DIA and have not opened my web cam for her. Maybe it is desperation on her part, or maybe a scam. I'm not sure. Just thought I would check it out before making a move.
HW
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HW
Did a search for her but no matches. I would not go to her house to sleep initially. Maybe to have a look. Cheaper to get a room and you can escape quicker if need be.
Send a link to her page, will yank her chain for ya
Good luck
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There is no vivsweet on DIA.
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[QUOTE=Khun Larry]HW
Did a search for her but no matches. I would not go to her house to sleep initially. Maybe to have a look. Cheaper to get a room and you can escape quicker if need be.
Send a link to her page, will yank her chain for ya
Good luck[/QUOTE]
KL & CT,
In order to not violate any rules about outside links, I have cut out the beginning DIA url from the link below. Just cut and paste the line into your address bar following the dateinasia.com/ portion. She is there.
UserProfile.aspx?uid=7e3e4f17-f878-4d83-ae21-d2c9cc50af92
Sorry! I made a typo in the spelling of her ID. It is actually vivzsweet.
HW
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Let us know how she performs HW
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[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]KL,
Yes. Her DIA ID is vivsweet. She looks very nice in her profile picture, and on the web cam. Everytime she has sent me a message, it has been just nice chit chat, nothing sexual. She surprised me with the offer to take care of me at her home, especially since I have no photo on DIA and have not opened my web cam for her. Maybe it is desperation on her part, or maybe a scam. I'm not sure. Just thought I would check it out before making a move.
HW[/QUOTE]
I personally think you're better off using your web cam with her...better interaction. I too had a lady suggest that I stay with her...but I didn't do it. I think the potential problems could be huge.
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Staying With Her
I used to see a girl in Costa Rica that insisted that I stay at her place. Alot of money saved and a good place. Plus she had the most perfect tits I have ever seen in my life. She knew she would be well kept for a week or so and never asked for a single penny. She was Dominican in CR though. I would be suspect about a pinay wanting me to stay at her place as "her place" is most likely her family's place. Don't want to support all of them.
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KL, Xd, & PLC,
Thanks to all of you for the advice! However, it will be some time before I can manage to get back to paradise again. If I am still in the good graces of my current gf at that time, I probably won't be going anywhere near vivzsweet's place. I am just trying to line up some backup action, in case there is a falling out with the gf. Mainly, I just wanted to see if anyone else had any experience with this particular girl. I figure I am not the first guy that she has made this type of offer to. Besides, I'm not all that comfortable staying at the homes of my own family when I go to visit with them. I'm sure I would be much more uncomfortable in the home of someone I don't know. Especially if there are other family members living there.
HW
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Dia
Hi to all,
chatting on DIA with a nice girl now, 25, dentist, she told me some intersting things about baklas, ladyboys or TS, shemales, etc. how to spot them. Aside from the adams apple thing, and hips, she told me to take a look at the arms.
A real woman can bend her arms and it shows an angle. If a guy bend his arms, they look straight, not in an angle.
Interesting, right?
Happy hunting
Blink
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[QUOTE=Blink157]Hi to all,
chatting on DIA with a nice girl now, 25, dentist, she told me some intersting things about baklas, ladyboys or TS, shemales, etc. how to spot them. Aside from the adams apple thing, and hips, she told me to take a look at the arms.
A real woman can bend her arms and it shows an angle. If a guy bend his arms, they look straight, not in an angle.
Interesting, right?
Happy hunting
Blink[/QUOTE]I've heard this one before but never tested it out. Is it common for TS or whatever you call them to have sex change like they do in Thailand? I saw one ad on DAI and was shocked to see that the dude was taking hormones to look more like a 'she'.
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A Spectra of A Dating Site
No luck on DIA I had the most success on Yahoo messenger member directory but now that is long gone. Mostly lady-boys and run of the mill girls with no job and no brain….WOW! A lot of them will talk but as soon as they see the photo they out like a thief in the night. Sad part is not even using my photo (not a fan of putting myself on the internet) but that of a considered by many an extremely handsome, young black and rich hip hop star.
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DW1 lot of thai girls chasing the brothas in BKK and Pattaya ... Ladyboys too if thats your fancy ;)
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DIA -- and My Next Trip
I have spent spent a little more than 2 weeks on DIA and than on Yahoo. Now I am ready to travel this weekend. Orignaly I was planning AC and Manila. But after chatting with the Cebu girls. I have now around 15 contacts in Cebu and 5 -6 in Manila.
On of the DIA girl is going to pick me up at airport. and other one want to do that too. But keep her on stand By. One of the Girl said she is a Virgin but have now agreed to Go to my Hotel and spend some time.
No one has mentioned any money yet. except the Virgin Girl she asked yesterday to send some Money. (I have Not ... Not an Option :) )
All these Girls doesn't sound like P4P but One of the Manila Girl is for Sure P4P she has sent me following Pics claims that these are her real pictures.
Will update my report Later
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Discerning Me
[QUOTE=Khun Larry]DW1 lot of thai girls chasing the brothas in BKK and Pattaya ... Ladyboys too if thats your fancy ;)[/QUOTE]
I get "contacts" on DIA but I have been looking at “unimportant” things like are they really attractive, their grasp of the English language, college degree, job, age not necessarily in that order.
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My Cup Runneth Over
I was about give up on DIA….now things are on the up and up…whoever said patience is a virtue wasn’t bullshitting. List is like the Bush's tenure...long.
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A little insight would be appreciated
I have found someone I actually enjoy off FH, but I also am going to enjoy the other side of life in angeles city in february.
I told my "friend" that I have only a week with her and then I leave, I actually have 2 weeks in PI. She's picking me up at the airport and then I am "supposed" to fly out in a week. Anyone know of a good excuse so she doesn't follow me to the airport to see me off. Are people allowed in the departure terminal? or if I have a ticket for a week later is there a way I can get to a place she can't go in the airport?
It's an interesting dilemma. I tried to say I have to get up from hotel too early and I would rather say my goodbye's the night before so it's not rushed, but she's wanting to wake up at 3am to see me off at the airport now!
Please help!
Jay
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who cares..
[QUOTE=Kycuriosity]I have found someone I actually enjoy off FH, but I also am going to enjoy the other side of life in angeles city in february.
I told my "friend" that I have only a week with her and then I leave, I actually have 2 weeks in PI. She's picking me up at the airport and then I am "supposed" to fly out in a week. Anyone know of a good excuse so she doesn't follow me to the airport to see me off. Are people allowed in the departure terminal? or if I have a ticket for a week later is there a way I can get to a place she can't go in the airport?
It's an interesting dilemma. I tried to say I have to get up from hotel too early and I would rather say my goodbye's the night before so it's not rushed, but she's wanting to wake up at 3am to see me off at the airport now!
Please help!
Jay[/QUOTE]
Read your report and l just want to add my two centavos,dont listen to me,l live here.
So, if lm you, l would find a stupid excuse...god thanks lm not the brightest light under the sun, so l suggest one excuse, just tell her you delay your flight plans because of a
a)businessmeeting
b)flightdelay,means they overbook your flight and you on waitinglist
c)your exgf want to meet you and because you been knowing each other a long time,you ow her to meet up.
d)you been totally drunk when setting a date
e)your a member of ISG and you just fly to the Philippines to get laid, fast and cheap.
Nice day to evryone!
Blink
P.S. If you havent been f..ing for some weeks its quite enourmous what comes out.My thoughts are with the girl l got to know two hours ago.God bless her and merry xmas to all.Just thinking in Atlantis now how l get back to work tomorrow.Good that lm not the brightes guy under the sun..
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[QUOTE=Blink157]e)your a member of ISG and you just fly to the Philippines to get laid, fast and cheap...[/QUOTE]Nice blink, I think I may tell her I just wanted to get laid by some hookers and have a 3some with some strange girls, . Do you think she would mind?
I've thought about the argument thing the night before but I didn't want her to see that I'm forcing the issue too much.
Anyways, I might try something different like a flight delay, or something like that, and just tell her to get her ass to work!
Is a flight delay fairly convincing?
I actually want to try something with this girl, but I still want to experience "the life" in angeles city, so wish me luck!
Thanks again blink for the info and the laugh. Kuddos man,
Jay
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[QUOTE=Kycuriosity]I have found someone I actually enjoy off FH, but I also am going to enjoy the other side of life in angeles city in february.
I told my "friend" that I have only a week with her and then I leave, I actually have 2 weeks in PI. She's picking me up at the airport and then I am "supposed" to fly out in a week. Anyone know of a good excuse so she doesn't follow me to the airport to see me off. Are people allowed in the departure terminal? or if I have a ticket for a week later is there a way I can get to a place she can't go in the airport?
It's an interesting dilemma. I tried to say I have to get up from hotel too early and I would rather say my goodbye's the night before so it's not rushed, but she's wanting to wake up at 3am to see me off at the airport now!
Please help!
Jay[/QUOTE]
Or you can fake it by actually going to the airport. She can't go inside without a plane ticket (or some printout with a name) anyway and the taxi can only load and unload passengers. There's usually a line to get in the terminal because security needs to scan your luggage. Sounds like she really wants to protect her meal/rice bowl :D
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[QUOTE=Darth Sushi]Or you can fake it by actually going to the airport. She can't go inside without a plane ticket (or some printout with a name) anyway and the taxi can only load and unload passengers. There's usually a line to get in the terminal because security needs to scan your luggage. Sounds like she really wants to protect her meal/rice bowl :D[/QUOTE]
Last time a girl went to the airport with me she left in the same taxi, so Kycuriosity's problem is simple. Kiss the girl goodbye, get out of the taxi and make sure she leaves in the same taxi she came in. Once gone find another Taxi.
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Airport problems
Kycuriosity,
The problem, as I see it, is that this Filipina, like many others, wants to latch on to you and not give you a chance to find anyone else. I believe the girls do this to make sure you are not going to do what you have planned.
As I understand it (and I could be wrong here) you must have a ticket for a flight departing that day to enter the terminal. If you are using an e-ticket, you could always print out a doctored copy with the date showing the day you want to send her on her way. You could get inside the check-in area this way, as the guards only check to see the date/time on the ticket, and that the name on the ticket matches the passport. Once her taxi pulls away, you should have no problem going back out to catch another taxi.
Just be sure that you have a very good hiding place for the real ticket. My experience has been that these girls have no qualms about going through everything in your bags. It is like a paranoia with them. Most of them know that most foreign men are going to the Philippines for getting laid by multiple young beauties. They want to ensure that the one they are with is not like that.
Another thing to think about. If she really likes you, she will most likely ask for your contact information in whatever country you are residing in. You may want to think of some clever response for this, in order to keep her from wondering what you are doing the second week of your trip. If you plan to use the "going to the airport" thing, you might also want to tell her that you will be traveling (without a phone, of course) for business during the next week, and will not be able to contact her.
Just my 2 centavos worth.
Good luck and Happy Mongering!
HW
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[QUOTE=Bob Down]Last time a girl went to the airport with me she left in the same taxi, so Kycuriosity's problem is simple. Kiss the girl goodbye, get out of the taxi and make sure she leaves in the same taxi she came in. Once gone find another Taxi.[/QUOTE]
Another trick is to save your favorite girl for the last week of your vacation; then you take a taxi to the airport at your "arrival" time, then text her to come and get you there!
About those filipinas who go through your stuff, lay down the law: you catch one doing it, you are kicking her out right away. You can let her return 2 or 3 days later if she is sufficiently remorseful. In the meantime, you can go out and play with others. Make sure your cell phone and laptop are locked whenever you leave them unattended. If you defend your territory and show you mean it, they will respect you for that. And if they don't, you don't want them around because it only gets worse the longer you are with her.
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airport
[QUOTE=Kycuriosity]Nice blink, I think I may tell her I just wanted to get laid by some hookers and have a 3some with some strange girls, . Do you think she would mind?
I've thought about the argument thing the night before but I didn't want her to see that I'm forcing the issue too much.
Anyways, I might try something different like a flight delay, or something like that, and just tell her to get her ass to work!
Is a flight delay fairly convincing?
I actually want to try something with this girl, but I still want to experience "the life" in angeles city, so wish me luck!
Thanks again blink for the info and the laugh. Kuddos man,
Jay[/QUOTE]
hi,
just open a cold bottle of SM light while reading this here. Flight delay, its a good excuse. I encountered something like that once by myself. I was one day earlier at the airport and couldnt belive it.I really should carefully read what it says on my ticket. Security let me pass to make things sure at the Emirates counter. So, you can actualy walk in, even you dont fly. You can also walk in with a valid ticket to ask to see your airline office to make flight changes, etc...So that really helps if your stalker GF will folow you amd wants you to watch you leave.
On the other side, if you here to screw as many girls as possible you need to be tricky. I met 3 girls last night in AC. MY actually usual "partner" a new chick and then went barhop and barfined the "doorgirl".
I made sure my "regular" left around noon, txt her I needed some rest because going back to work early morning. Comment on her was " I know you, you just wanted to meet other girls and go barhop" I txt back Im not married and whatever I txt back to her, who really cares, di ba?
Secound girl arrived with her auntie a bit later the evening. First time we met and I agreed to that. She is a pretty tsinay faced girl. When her auntie went to the CR we secretly kissed each other. I played the gentleman, prmoised to go to bed right after they left me. She txt me back at night and the whole day that she would like to meet me next time alone.
Allready in a quite good party mood I went to Lancelot or camelot. Allways get confused with their names. Went inside, nothing special. Went outside, eyed the pretty doorgirl and invited her for a drink. She asked me from what country I am, told her Im german. She told me, sorry to tell you, germans are all assh....es. I agreed to that :D
We talked first and then we start kissing each other. Life is good :)
Barfined her, went to some other "german place" got drunk with germans and nongermans. Went hotel, bum2. Woke up 11 am. Send her home, got dressed, back to work.
You have to be a man*****. Who knows what the girls doing when Im not around...well, as I said earlier, who cares...you here to screw, not to get married, di ba?
Good night to evrybody
Blink
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Thanks to everyone
Just wanted to say thank you for the insight, especially Blink, and comments made about my situation. I should've told her about the end of my flight, but I was actually concerned about STD's and getting bargirls before her. I will always be protected, but I figured better get the girls afterwards so I don't give her anything if I catch something there. I know it's a little farfetched, but makes me feel better about it.
I think I may keep her up drunk all night, right before my flight, and then when she "can't get up" then just catch a taxi.
One little thing I didn't tell you all, is that she works in a different part of the airport, in a legitimate job, so I asked her about the departure thing. She can go with me to the check-in counter, but not any further. I think getting her drunk the night before is the best chance I get. Anyways, if anyone will be in AC from feb 25 to mar 3, I'll buy a beer for you if we meet up and talk. Blink, I feel I owe you one already. Hairy, you're right with her. She's insecure about "us" right now, and I expect she will be for a long time. I want to go whoring in AC, but I really do want a real thing with this girl, so we will see. Oh yeah, and she knows I don't send money either. She has already sent me a birthday present (which I loved) and has my number and home address. I already have the excuses for me not being back so soon in the US. I will actually be looking forward to getting some pictures of some girls to post on here for you all to enjoy.
Anyways, good luck to everyone, I don't think I have any other questions, and thanks again.
Jay
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Quick Exit Excuses
I can offer a couple of quick exit excuses, but they require some advance prep in a properly formatted email that you leave in your inbox. When the time comes, point out the message to your GF to back up your story.
(I actually used this one as it really happened). OMG! My Ex-wife is filing for full custody of my son! I have to get back to the states immediately. Its such a shame...
OMG! I'm being recalled to active duty! They're sending me back to Iraq! Damn the luck. Isn't it enough that I gave one of my nuts for my country. This could be the last night you see me...
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Quick exit
I'm reading this and laughing as to how we are (too long in Phils. I'm even talking like them. As in " see how you are! ")
Anyways this subject is great, specially when I think of some of the excuses I've made.
The best was one day in Jakarta. Id been with a hottie for a few days. And was happy to bonk her again that night. But I was also flirting with a new one who was a sure thing. She also knew where I was staying
So what did I do. Well I booked a second room in same hotel using points/miles. Threw some old t shirts in this new room to make it look used.
Told the first one that I had a long conf call with Europe and she should go out with friends till 11.
Made sure shed gone out, then invited new one in. We bonked. Threw her out. Met old one and took her to the original room, which was clean, didn't have the "recently bonked in " smell, no stray hairs, bed was pristine and she was clearly satisfied that Id been at work. Yeah right!
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Just a thought
Hypothetical situation: You’re a Londoner, playing on your computer after a long day at work. You’ve opened Yahoo Messenger and there you sit, patiently waiting and waiting for your Pinay sweetie from Manila to come online so you can chat with your special lady before heading off to bed.
9:30 pm rolls around and finally, THERE SHE IS! You’re all happy because your beloved did not forget you. She’s right on time, every day, just like the subway train. She dutifully opens her cam and there she is. 25 years old, long hair, 5’ 2" tall, petite figure, nice smile. Yes, she’s not a model, but she’s pretty enough for you. You know she adores you because she’s there for you, every day. Sometimes she misses a day of chatting, but when you ask her where he was, she replies she had to spend the night with a sick friend. Or maybe she had to run to the province to visit her mother. You think, "Wow, this is one compassionate lady. I am so lucky to have her in my life! "
You can’t wait to hop on a plane and go meet her. You’ve got vacation time booked for 2 months from now and are just about ready to go buy a ticket for the butt-busting flight to MNL. You’re eating Macaroni and cheese every night to save money for gifts and the expense of showing your lovely lady a good time. Optimism is so inspiring!
Of course you’ve thought about time zones, and you realize that it’s 5:30 am in Manila. Hmmmm, it is kind of a strange time for someone to be on the computer. When you ask, she says she get online because she wakes up early each day and likes to get online before she travels on the jeepney and LRT to her mundane job selling loads or working at a small shop or opening up her Sari-Sari store at home.
Soooooooooo why am I writing this? On my latest trip to the Phils, I stayed at a hotel in Malate near to the famed LA Café. This is "Freelancer Central" for those who have never heard of the place. Hundreds of women each night flock to this bar/restaurant in hopes of latching onto a guy who will pay them 1500 to 2000 pesos for the pleasure of their company.
On the morning of my recent departure flight heading back to Bangkok, I realized I had not yet booked a hotel. So I walked to the 24 hour internet café located a couple of buildings away from the LA Café and hoped I could find a decent hotel which had instant confirmation.
As I strolled by the LA Café, I was stunned by all the activity in front of the bar. "Geez, it’s 5:30 am, this place is as crowded as it was at 10 PM last night! ", I thought. But I paid them no mind as I walked down to the internet café.
I figured the internet café would be deserted, but boy was I wrong! There must have been 20 Pinays sitting at their computer terminals. Most of them had web cams visible of their overseas boyfriends. Many had multiple men’s cams displayed, all middle aged white men (and most of you are pretty darned ugly! ), LOL.
I didn’t get too much interest from any of the chatters because they had their webcams turned on and didn’t want to divert attention from their online men. Most of the women were dressed in typical LA Café uniforms: cute tops, jeans, big heels, a fair amount of make up. They didn’t appear dressed for any sort of day job, that’s for sure.
The women were pretty much sitting in groups of three, with one member typing on the computer while her friends were babbling to each other and occasionally distracting the chatter with conversation. Once or twice, I saw the other women in the group stand up so the men on the cams could get a look at them. "Awww how nice", you think as you watch her interact with her friends. It’s great she has friends, it means that she’s a friendly person and it’s nice to see people adore her as much as she adores YOU.
I got plenty of glances and smiles from the non-chatters. Business was probably slow for them at the LA Café last night and having a two hour paid romp with a middle aged balding man like me would have made their night complete before heading to their flop house to sleep away the day.
I stayed about 30 minutes and during that time several of the women headed out the door. Nothing like capping off a rough night of lounging at the LA Café like chatting with their internet sweeties (who may or may not be sponsoring them with Western Union payments). Or maybe they were heading out to another venue in hopes of getting some early morning horny guy to fork over 1000 pesos for some short time entertainment before he heads to the office or airport?
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Adding to "Just a Thought"
Once was in a bar in Orchard Towers in Spore. Chatting to a Thai lady but wasnt so interested in paying to bonk her. Anyways we were talking and joking about pcs and she was saying how the internet cafe was so slow etc.
So like any gentlemen I offered her to come back to my hotel nearby so she could send messages.
I logged in and for next 30 mins sat in amazement as this lady (maybe a 7 but funny girl) sent email after email. All essentially with same content. "Hi honey. My mum/dad/brother/etc all sick. I love you forever etc. "
She must have sent about 30 emails. All to different guys. Cut and pasted contents, ocassionally ask me how to spell " remittance" " urgently" etc.
Theres lots of sad suckers out there, and none of us should (BUT WE ARE! ) fooled by internet expressions of love coupled with Western Union payouts. Anyways I got a free HJ for the use of my pc.
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Chat Girl Confessions......$......zzzzzz
Only two days...already asking for dough....I have no interest in sending her money just wanted to see how far she would go. Wow!
me: i hope u are doing ok today
Daisy : yes i am
me: you sounded a little down yesterday
Daisy : why
me: because you told me something was wrong
Daisy : what about
me: you didn’t go into specifics
Daisy : what do u mean
me: you didn’t tell me what was wrong
me: you only said u had a problem
Daisy: yes i am a problem
me: you are a problem or you have a problem
Daisy : i have problem
Daisy : moneyyy
Daisy : he he he
me: what are you trying to buy?
Daisy : why u send me
Daisy : Christmas is coming u i have no money
BUZZ!!!
me: yeah that is a special time of the year
Daisy : why are u asking what im trying to buy
me: I am just curious
me: because you sound like u really need the money bad
Daisy : and why
Daisy : yesss its trueeeeeee
Daisy : im just a poor girl
me: hey
me: don’t go emotional on me
Daisy : y
Daisy : coz its true
me: you are not poor
me: that is a state of mind
BUZZ!!!
me: you have your health
Daisy : have faith in me
me: and you are beautiful
Daisy : im poorrrrr
Daisy : yes i know and thanks
Daisy : help meeeee plsssssss
BUZZ!!!
me: how can I help u?
Daisy : send me money
Daisy : d:-q
BUZZ!!!
me: how much you need
Daisy : why u ask
Daisy : are u sure u will send me
Daisy : your not cheating me
me: i am trying to see how much
Daisy : IM ASKING U WILL SEND ME OR NOT PLS TELL ME
Daisy : I NEED TO KNOW PLSSSS
me: depending on the amount
Daisy : ONLY 6,000 FOR PHILS MONEY
me: 6000 pesos
me: how soon u need it
me: YES WHY
me: two things
Daisy : TOM PLS
Daisy : WHAT
Daisy : 2 THINGS
me: you need tomorrow
me: i thought u said for Christmas
Daisy : YES
Daisy : TO BUY GIFTS FOR MY FAMILY
Daisy : I LIVE IN A SQUATTER AREA ONLY BSIDE THE PASIG RIVER
Daisy : U WILL SEND IT TOM
Daisy : TELL ME
me: under conditions
me: i need to see you on webcam
me: to that you are not a man
Daisy : YOUR NOT SERIOUS U LIKE OTHER
Daisy : IM A NOT A MAN
me: I am serious
me: how do I know that?
me: because you have a photo
me: in your avatar
Daisy : U LIKE OTHERES U WANT TO SEE ME IN CAM NUDE
me: nooooooo
me: I don’t want to see u nude
Daisy : I HAVE PHOTO IN AVATAR
me: I just want to see your face
me: I didn’t ask to see u nude
me: I just want to see your face
me: to know I am talking to a woman
Me: and not a man trying to get money from me
me: this is a scam going on in the Philippines
me: guy puts a girl’s photo
me: and gets the money
Daisy : BUT IM HERE IN SMALL CAFE AND NO CAM
me: I read about this too many times
Daisy: IF U WANT CALL ME IN MY LANDLINE TO TALK TO ME AND HEAR MY VOICE TOO THAT’S MY NO
Daisy : I TOLD U IM A WOMEN
Daisy : IM NOT LIKE THERE IM TRUE PERSON IM NOT LYING TO U
Daisy : IF U DONT WANT TO HELP ME
Daisy : ITS OK
me: I will gladly give u the money
me: no problem
me: but I need to see u on cam
me: that is a small request
Daisy : I THOUGHT YOUR THE MAN I LOOKING FOR
me: I am sending money to you I only ask to see you on cam
me: just for 10 mins
me: that is small to ask
Daisy : IF U SEE ME IN CAM U WILL SEND ME
me: yes I promise
Daisy: HOW CAN U PROVE IT
Daisy: IM TIRED OF TH
me: just send to zoom
me: u know xoom
Daisy : NO IM NOT
Daisy : I HAVE NO TYM ITS MY TYM LEFT HERE
Daisy : TAKE CARE
Daisy : SEE U SOON
Daisy :
Daisy : BYEEEEEEEEEEE
me: take care
Daisy : U TOOO
Daisy : SEE U TOMMM SAME TYM
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Chat Pal Scams
That story is quite familiar.
When I get that type of story:
1. Mother, granny, family member I'll. Needs medicine money
2. No cam. So can you buy for me.
3. No cam in cafe. Will show nude body for private cam
I then say:
LOL. I am not ATM and you are scamming me. Goodbye
And hit delete
I try make sure those I chat with:
1. Have job
2. PC at home
3. Own cam
Be upfront on what I am about. To an extent
Good luck all
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]I'm reading this and laughing as to how we are (too long in Phils. I'm even talking like them. As in " see how you are! ")
Anyways this subject is great, specially when I think of some of the excuses I've made.
The best was one day in Jakarta. Id been with a hottie for a few days. And was happy to bonk her again that night. But I was also flirting with a new one who was a sure thing. She also knew where I was staying
So what did I do. Well I booked a second room in same hotel using points/miles. Threw some old t shirts in this new room to make it look used.
Told the first one that I had a long conf call with Europe and she should go out with friends till 11.
Made sure shed gone out, then invited new one in. We bonked. Threw her out. Met old one and took her to the original room, which was clean, didn't have the "recently bonked in " smell, no stray hairs, bed was pristine and she was clearly satisfied that Id been at work. Yeah right![/QUOTE]
While I have not done the different room I just ask houskeeping to come in and do a quick clean etc of the room immediately. They know/sense why I am asking and to date it has always worked. They realise us horny mongers need to give the impression we are faithful to our honeykos :D
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]
Daisy : im poorrrrr[/QUOTE]
They ALL talk like that here, PnP, square girls ALL of them.
The trouble with chatting on the net is you don't know what is true & what is not. The vast majority of girls you talk to really are from poor families & really could do with the help.
The new to the scene square girls generally don't hit you up for money usually because they are thinking long term relationship. Plenty of time for the hardship stories to come out after you marry them.
The ones who have been burned too many times or are just lazy hustlers will go for hardship stories fast because they are thinking short term & playing a numbers game.
If they hint about money issues I reassure them in a non specific way 'Im kind to people who are nice to me'. I don't pursue the money issue further. If they continue to refer to money issues I hit delete as you did. There's far too many good ones out there to bother with hustlers.
AV
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[QUOTE=Keen Eye Joe]I figured the internet café would be deserted, but boy was I wrong! There must have been 20 Pinays sitting at their computer terminals. Most of them had web cams visible of their overseas boyfriends. Many had multiple men’s cams displayed, all middle aged white men (and most of you are pretty darned ugly! ), LOL.[/QUOTE]Sometimes I wish I could show the newbies things like this.. It is possible to find a great gal here but my god there are so many hustlers..
AV
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This is the chat forum and I encourage people to provide positive information about chatting and net communicating. Real examples both positive or negative are appreciated.
If you want to rain on the parade, at lease provide a real example.
"...so many hustlers...." ...he doesn't say where. "they all talk like that..."
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Sometimes I wish I could show the newbies things like this.. It is possible to find a great gal here but my god there are so many hustlers..
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Real Examples
[QUOTE=X Man]This is the chat forum and I encourage people to provide positive information about chatting and net communicating. Real examples both positive or negative are appreciated.
If you want to rain on the parade, at lease provide a real example.
"...so many hustlers...." ...he doesn't say where. "they all talk like that..."
X[/QUOTE]
X we are providing real examples...chatting with these girls is as much fun to me as riding through the IED, suicide bomber infested streets of Kabul not as dangerous but just as nerve wrecking.
Why do I keep doing it? Because I am keep hoping beyond hope that I will find a gem.
I am not naïve I know that this is a poor country and a lot of these girls need financial assistance but just like AV said ask me later don’t ask me as soon as we start chatting…. ridiculous.
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Back to the Task at Hand
I think X-Man has a good point. What I would like to see is valid tips on Internet dating.
Someone got scammed (I have). What were the giveaways? How could that have been prevented?
What profiles are successful? I know a problem is that some lazy posters will just copy, so if one guy succeeds with the online name "Take Home Chef," there is likely to be dozens of "Take Home Chef" imitators.
(As an aside, why is it that when one guy posts a picture of his GF or barfine, dozens of losers want to line up for sloppy seconds? The point is to learn from the poster's experience so that you can get YOUR OWN girlfriend or barfines.)
Let me just say that on this last trip I had one girl who was my number one choice. I had my suspicions because she looked very hot in her photo, and wore a low cut blouse revealing a huge set of tits. In the back of my mind I expected the whole thing to blow up --I was preparing myself mentally to show up and find some wench ten years older and thirty pounds heavier than the one in the picture. I had made a dozen or so contacts and was prepared to go right down the list, one after another if necessary.
Well, surprise, surprise, my number one choice paid off. I never got to number two on the list and soon chucked it. We were together all summer. She never asked me for money, and she is absolutely the easiest girl in the world to get along with.
These are my online tips. I welcome your comments.
1) Keep your profile short and intriguing. If you reveal everything about yourself in a 500 word long profile, what is there to talk about? How does that excite her curiosity, when she knows everything from your birthmark to what you did for your tenth birthday?
2) I believe your screen name should offer a benefit. "Just Looking" or "Nice Guy" are not benefits. At the risk of 10,000 imitators, I have used "Deep Blue Eyes" as a screen name. I am leading with an attractive feature.
3) Forget the modesty. "I'm not good looking. I'm just a hardworking middle class schmuck." Please! I don't care if you're from Marked Tree, Arkansas, it's as glamorous as Hollywood to Filipina. I believe that writing a profile is an exercise in building your confidence --If you don't have it, work on it. Lord knows it's been tough for me.
4) Offer a challenge. "Can you handle being pampered?" "Can you accept a compliment?" These are both challenging (In other words, she must measure up to YOUR standards) and imply that you compliment or pamper women.
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I think sergeantray has a good topic started. I would have to respectfully disagree with the length of the profile though. I haven't been to Philippines yet, even though I'm ready to go in feb. I have probably 15 responses a day off my profile because I receive things like "you are so deep in your profile, can we talk", "I love your honesty" and crap like that. If you are one of those mysterious guys that can keep a little spy-like adventure in your life then great, but I've actually turned down offers of cam shows because of my "niceness" in my profile, but do not reveal everything about yourself. Give a few interesting details and keep the extremely good stuff for the chatting.
You do have a very good point in the Headline questions though. Give them something to respond to without sounding stupid like "my favorite movie is. " If a girl's headline says "looking for husband" I don't even click it, so I guess the girls probably do the same thing to us. A catchy title is a strong key.
The biggest thing I've seen in scammers is They always say "looking for good man, willing to help others, generous, to marriage, don't care about looks only what's in your heart". And usually the ones that have ALOT of cleavage showing need to be taken carefully.
People may disagree, but I always put a little hint of sexuality in my profiles without being too direct. It usually weeds out the girls that don't ever want to talk about sex or the "virgins till marriage" girls. Something stupid like "I want someone to make to love all day, and talk to all night" usually does well. Just make it sound less campy.
Or if a girl asks you why you like asians I respond "I like all the dark features: long dark hair, deep dark eyes, dark nipples, dark skin. And just mention it in passing even if she doesn't respond right away. She usually comes back to it herself and starts it off with talking about nipples without you mentioning it again. Just keep going on with a 'normal conversation' and it will come up quickly by her.
Anyways, just my two humble cents. Any comments?
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Sarge and Ky offer some interesting ideas. I have to admit I keep things simple and try to get a phone number as soon as possible. This works for me, but probably because I have the opportunity to visit the Philippines twice a year.
If you find something you really take a liking to, consider getting her address and sending a letter or postcard. You'll immediately go right up to the top (or near the top) of her list of guys who look promising.
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[QUOTE=Kycuriosity]I think sergeantray has a good topic started. I would have to respectfully disagree with the length of the profile though. I haven't been to Philippines yet, even though I'm ready to go in feb. I have probably 15 responses a day off my profile because I receive things like "you are so deep in your profile, can we talk", "I love your honesty" and crap like that. If you are one of those mysterious guys that can keep a little spy-like adventure in your life then great, but I've actually turned down offers of cam shows because of my "niceness" in my profile, but do not reveal everything about yourself. Give a few interesting details and keep the extremely good stuff for the chatting.
You do have a very good point in the Headline questions though. Give them something to respond to without sounding stupid like "my favorite movie is. " If a girl's headline says "looking for husband" I don't even click it, so I guess the girls probably do the same thing to us. A catchy title is a strong key.
The biggest thing I've seen in scammers is They always say "looking for good man, willing to help others, generous, to marriage, don't care about looks only what's in your heart". And usually the ones that have ALOT of cleavage showing need to be taken carefully.
People may disagree, but I always put a little hint of sexuality in my profiles without being too direct. It usually weeds out the girls that don't ever want to talk about sex or the "virgins till marriage" girls. Something stupid like "I want someone to make to love all day, and talk to all night" usually does well. Just make it sound less campy.
Or if a girl asks you why you like asians I respond "I like all the dark features: long dark hair, deep dark eyes, dark nipples, dark skin. And just mention it in passing even if she doesn't respond right away. She usually comes back to it herself and starts it off with talking about nipples without you mentioning it again. Just keep going on with a 'normal conversation' and it will come up quickly by her.
Anyways, just my two humble cents. Any comments?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Kycuriosity]It usually weeds out the girls that don't ever want to talk about sex or the "virgins till marriage" girls. Something stupid like "I want someone to make to love all day, and talk to all night" usually does well. Just make it sound less campy.[/QUOTE] Don't forget that many gals in Asian culture value the "virginity" title, although I know quite a few virgins in public but nympho in private. Remember, this is a country where shotgun weddings still exist to protect family honor and adultery & immorality laws are enforced. Many sees it as an important asset when listing their profiles but that's a tough lie to detect online. It reminds me of the "official" government policy stating that "there is no prostitution in the Philippines" but my purple helmet knows better.
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Managing DIY favorites list
Is there a way to delete from DateInAsia's favorites list?
Even a sort would be nice, but I can't find either.
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scams :)
Hi to all,
just had a weird conversation with a DIA girl. It first starts ok, told me she work for FORD in the Philippines and she continued she likes Ferrari, her dad drives a Volvo in Canada and her mom has a BMW and a Porsche while in Spain.
I asked her about her working hours and cellphone number. Of course she dont have a cp now (alarm sign) and cant chat on ym while in office. So she suggested me to chat in a special website, same like DIA. She send me a link , I signed up and I realized I had to pay for it..which I actually dont like.
Then she told me, she paid for me. Link was 49,-- US and fee was 20,-- US.
I told her ok, fine for me, but you dont need to do that. Followed by some more sarcasm of her, like..Im more rich then you, Im sure when we meet I have to pay all the bills, bla, bla bla....men only want sex (yes thats correct).
Last not least I told her our conversation doesnt make sense at all and I believe either she is a bakla, or some ugly old chick, trying to make some money with scams.
I put her picture in here. If somebody wanted the link to her profile in DIA, just PM me and I will give, but take that as a warning. In my eyes she is a scammer, just wanted to get cc info from you :)
Nice day to all
Blink
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[QUOTE=Further]Is there a way to delete from DateInAsia's favorites list?
Even a sort would be nice, but I can't find either.[/QUOTE]
Easy Further
Go to the Favs page and you will see a small red cross (x) by the side of each name. Click that and you get a box asking if you are sure you want to delete this favourite.
Sorting - I cant sort either
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X What Is Your Secret?
[QUOTE=X Man]Sarge and Ky offer some interesting ideas. I have to admit I keep things simple and try to get a phone number as soon as possible. This works for me, but probably because I have the opportunity to visit the Philippines twice a year.
If you find something you really take a liking to, consider getting her address and sending a letter or postcard. You'll immediately go right up to the top (or near the top) of her list of guys who look promising.
X[/QUOTE]
Do you receive request for money and when you do what do you do? Do you send the money to a complete stranger in hope she will be nice and return the favor in some way or form or do you ignore the girls requesting money altogether? If you take the latter route then can I confidently assume the sheer number of girls you are in contact with who are not hooking is small?
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I have never sent money and usually excuse myself politely when they do ask or even if they start some sob story. Of those who asked for money, I never bothered to meet them later on.
I don't completely understand your last sentence. I indulge in p4p, but I assume you are asking about the chat ladies. Of the thirty or so that I've met, I can think of only two that indicated p4p at the meeting, and only one who asked for money directly after the meeting -- ostensibly for some family emergency.
I use the chat to meet regular women, not p4p. Also, I don't use the sex cam chats at all. I first used the 2matchU site out of AC with mixed results. Then a paid site, cherry blossoms, with good results. I've also found a few thru other means. A free (for men) and relatively unregulated site like DIA is likely to have more problems. I've never met anyone thru DIA -- not yet.
My strategy is to just be friendly and let them know I'll be visiting. Usually that's enough to get a phone number and an invite for a meeting. As others have recommended, its good to go to web cam to double check identity, but the worst surprise I've had was she was much uglier or fatter than pic indicated. I also might ask for photo sharing. That can give you a better idea of what she looks like. Also, if you get pictures of her alone in a resort, you then have the possiblity of a lady who's already walked the walk. This could be good or bad depending on what you want and how you play it.
My experiences have generally been positive using chat. I should add this disclaimer: I'm not overly eager to meet a woman for marriage.
I suppose some guys are using chat to hunt for a wife, while others are out for a quick root, and everywhere in between. Your satisfaction or dissatisfaction with chat is related to your goals.
X
[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Do you receive request for money and when you do what you do? Do you send the money to a complete stranger in hope she will be nice and return the favor in some way or form or do you ignore the girls requesting money altogether? If you take the latter route then can I confidently assume the sheer number of girls you are in contact with who are not hooking is small?[/QUOTE]
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Expounded
[QUOTE=X Man]
I don't completely understand your last sentence. I indulge in p4p, but I assume you are asking about the chat ladies. Of the thirty or so that I've met, I can think of only two that indicated p4p at the meeting, and only one who asked for money directly after the meeting -- ostensibly for some family emergency.
X[/QUOTE]
What I was saying that the number of woman you are in contact with must be miniature in size if you don’t indulge the “money seekers” because I have tried my hand at this chatting stuff for a couple of weeks now and most of the time I don’t even get to a second chat series before the request for money start its really disconcerting.
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Some notes on the chat ladies
After meeting about 20 chat ladies in the last couple of years, I believe 4 of them were actual virgins. The were all between 18-25 years old. The majority had only 1 boyfriend in the past, and he cheated on her. The more educated, the more sex partners. The closer to the big city, the more sex partners.
Most of the girls family and friends believe they are still a virgin, even after they go away with me for a few nights. Only their BFF knows that they are not a virgin.
I have learned not to start chatting with the girls a long time before I am planning to visit. They become attached to quickly and will expect a gift for their birthday/Xmas/Valentines day. In addition, after a few conversations I normally get very bored with them.
They are blatant liars, they tell you what they think you want to hear. Most girls tell me they love me by the 5th conversation.
To see how well they lie, when they are on cam with you in yahoo messenger, watch their eyes dart around between diffident chat partners. When you ask if they are chatting with someone else, 90 percent of the time they will lie and say no or say they are chattting with their cousin.
To become better at spotting the scamers I suggest going to the DAI "last active" screen after midnight in the PI. Notice most of the pictures are dudes, show cleavage, or look too made up for a normal girl.
I rarely get asked for money, because I have gotten better at spotting the scammers. When ever I ask a girl "how are you"and she starts with "not so good" I politley say I have to go and then just ignore her from them on.
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[QUOTE=Blink157]Hi to all,
just had a weird conversation with a DIA girl. It first starts ok, told me she work for FORD in the Philippines and she continued she likes Ferrari, her dad drives a Volvo in Canada and her mom has a BMW and a Porsche while in Spain.
I asked her about her working hours and cellphone number. Of course she dont have a cp now (alarm sign) and cant chat on ym while in office. So she suggested me to chat in a special website, same like DIA. She send me a link , I signed up and I realized I had to pay for it..which I actually dont like.
Then she told me, she paid for me. Link was 49,-- US and fee was 20,-- US.
I told her ok, fine for me, but you dont need to do that. Followed by some more sarcasm of her, like..Im more rich then you, Im sure when we meet I have to pay all the bills, bla, bla bla....men only want sex (yes thats correct).
Last not least I told her our conversation doesnt make sense at all and I believe either she is a bakla, or some ugly old chick, trying to make some money with scams.
I put her picture in here. If somebody wanted the link to her profile in DIA, just PM me and I will give, but take that as a warning. In my eyes she is a scammer, just wanted to get cc info from you :)
Nice day to all
Blink[/QUOTE]Confirmed, same pic different story, no porsch, also that website etc.
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[QUOTE=X Man]I have never sent money and usually excuse myself politely when they do ask or even if they start some sob story. Of those who asked for money, I never bothered to meet them later on.
I don't completely understand your last sentence. I indulge in p4p, but I assume you are asking about the chat ladies. Of the thirty or so that I've met, I can think of only two that indicated p4p at the meeting, and only one who asked for money directly after the meeting -- ostensibly for some family emergency.
I use the chat to meet regular women, not p4p. Also, I don't use the sex cam chats at all. I first used the 2matchU site out of AC with mixed results. Then a paid site, cherry blossoms, with good results. I've also found a few thru other means. A free (for men) and relatively unregulated site like DIA is likely to have more problems. I've never met anyone thru DIA -- not yet.
My strategy is to just be friendly and let them know I'll be visiting. Usually that's enough to get a phone number and an invite for a meeting. As others have recommended, its good to go to web cam to double check identity, but the worst surprise I've had was she was much uglier or fatter than pic indicated. I also might ask for photo sharing. That can give you a better idea of what she looks like. Also, if you get pictures of her alone in a resort, you then have the possiblity of a lady who's already walked the walk. This could be good or bad depending on what you want and how you play it.
My experiences have generally been positive using chat. I should add this disclaimer: I'm not overly eager to meet a woman for marriage.
I suppose some guys are using chat to hunt for a wife, while others are out for a quick root, and everywhere in between. Your satisfaction or dissatisfaction with chat is related to your goals.
X[/QUOTE]That was right on the money X.
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You don't mention on what site you are chatting on. Sexcam site? I really have no idea why you are getting different results than I am.
I've got contacts on several hundred ladies. I don't chat with them so often though. I'm more like BB -- I send messages out just before and during my trip just to see what comes out of the woodwork.
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]What I was saying that the number of woman you are in contact with must be miniature in size if you don’t indulge the “money seekers” because I have tried my hand at this chatting stuff for a couple of weeks now and most of the time I don’t even get to a second chat series before the request for money start its really disconcerting.[/QUOTE]
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Sex-cam Site?.... Warbucks Not The Cyber Pervert
[QUOTE=X Man]You don't mention on what site you are chatting on. Sexcam site? I really have no idea why you are getting different results than I am.
I've got contacts on several hundred ladies. I don't chat with them so often though. I'm more like BB -- I send messages out just before and during my trip just to see what comes out of the woodwork.
X[/QUOTE]
I hope the sex-cam site comment was an attempt at humor. No I am chatting on the infamous Date In Asia and only that site. By the way great response to my older question not this one :D
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Why would I attempt humor with you?
I haven't spent much time on DIA, as I said earlier. I've sent a few messages, but never did chat. Does DIA have a chat function, or do you move over to Yahoo or other vehicle for chat?
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]I hope the sex-cam site comment was an attempt at humor. No I am chatting on the infamous Date In Asia and only that site. By the way great response to my older question not this one :D[/QUOTE]
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oops
Well, in the last few hours, my DIA chats have resulted in one asking for money and one posting "yani watshi firipin jin desu! okama kawaii".
D'etat will understand that....
I still think my DIA results have been mostly positive, but let's see how things pan out. WIsh me luck!
X
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DIA Does Serve A Purpose
[QUOTE=X Man]Well, in the last few hours, my DIA chats have resulted in one asking for money and one posting "yani watshi firipin jin desu! okama kawaii".
D'etat will understand that....
I still think my DIA results have been mostly positive, but let's see how things pan out. WIsh me luck!
X[/QUOTE]I have all but given up on the Filipinas on DIA. Either they soliciting or have the personality of a box of crayons. This is the latest and greatest message I just got from one….
Sweet: 20, Philippines 2 mins, 2 secs ago
hey black guy how are you?
your cute
where do you live?
Did meet a Chinese woman from Northern china though. She is independent, cute, loves hip hop and has a fire about her personality wise so I guess DIA is good for something.
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Who's being hunted?
Hey guy,
I have been to the phills maybe 20 times in the last 6 years. I have had many freebies and a few p4ps. The thing i realize is that these girls learn the hunting skills that we use on them from us. Your prime concern is to get the best GFE from them for the least amount and their prime objective is to get as much monetary benefits from us as possible. There are many wife capable women in the phils, there are many wild party girls in the phils, there are many scammers in the phils. I also have been in the cafes and watched these girls with 5 to 10 guys on the screen telling them all that they love them and that that talk to no one else. We all have to really understand what we really want. If you are hunting for a wife, you go to Match, if you are hunting for a bed warmer then you have a hundred other sites. My point to the whole story is, we have to realize that we are both the hunter and the prey, so watch your backs.
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]I have all but given up on the Filipinas on DIA. Either they soliciting or have the personality of a box of crayons. This is the latest and greatest message I just got from one….
Sweet: 20, Philippines 2 mins, 2 secs ago
hey black guy how are you?
your cute
where do you live?
Did meet a Chinese woman from Northern china though. She is independent, cute, loves hip hop and has a fire about her personality wise so I guess DIA is good for something.[/QUOTE]
I agree there are a LOT of scammers and girls asking for money on DIA. Especially now that Christmas is fast approching. I get SOOO many after 5 min of chat say " wheres my Christmas Gift " I tell them your Christmas gift is in the delete file which is where your heading..lol.. Still there are some good ones on DIA you just have to weed the bad one's out which takes time ,but I'm retired so I have a lot of time to do that. Also have you noticed that when you talk to a Thai or Chinese girl they can barely string enough words together to make a complete readable sentance? Thats another Plus for Filipinas. They have good english skills for the most part which makes communication a lot easier and fun. Going back to Phil in Feb for the 12th time so lining up some sweeties now.
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I didn't understand the point about "wife...go to Match".
But the rest makes sense. Make the hunted believe it is the successful hunter. That would make a good hollywood movie....if it hadn't been done so many times already.
I'm just a cheerful traveler going to the Philippines and need help from some locals. In the last few hours I've got an invitation to some Mindanao mountaintop (she'll meet me at the port) and an offer of a full body massage from someone who teaches other things (form head to toe is the type of massage she suggests).
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[QUOTE=Darcnite14]Hey guy,
I have been to the phills maybe 20 times in the last 6 years. I have had many freebies and a few p4ps. The thing i realize is that these girls learn the hunting skills that we use on them from us. Your prime concern is to get the best GFE from them for the least amount and their prime objective is to get as much monetary benefits from us as possible. There are many wife capable women in the phils, there are many wild party girls in the phils, there are many scammers in the phils. I also have been in the cafes and watched these girls with 5 to 10 guys on the screen telling them all that they love them and that that talk to no one else. We all have to really understand what we really want. If you are hunting for a wife, you go to Match, if you are hunting for a bed warmer then you have a hundred other sites. My point to the whole story is, we have to realize that we are both the hunter and the prey, so watch your backs.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Nightrider1]I agree there are a LOT of scammers and girls asking for money on DIA. Especially now that Christmas is fast approching. I get SOOO many after 5 min of chat say " wheres my Christmas Gift " I tell them your Christmas gift is in the delete file which is where your heading..lol.. [/QUOTE]
Been trying out DIA for a while and I hardly ever get that line (wonder what I do wrong? :D)
No problem finding some cuties there obviously. Downside is that it seems to be a pretty unregulated site though. Watch out for jailbait, ladyboys and the odd real estate agent pitching their wares!
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Match.com international
X,
I was referring to match.com international. The sites that are taylored towards a more adult nature, these girl will open their emails and have several hundred messages a day. They realize what we do, so the wise ones learn to play our own game with our own rules.
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Dia
This is my first post so don't be too harsh. I'm heading to the Philippines later this year for 3 weeks and I went on DIA looking for a translator/sex partner. I noticed most chicks under the age of 21 are only about mooching money, whereas the ones that are slightly older are interested in being F*ck buddies if you're willing to spoil them for a while. I have some pics of a 29 year old, she's not the best that has put on a live sex show for me, but she's promised a lot and if she delivers she'll be well worth it. She's okay with this mainly being a sex relationship and takes off her clothes for me regularly.
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[QUOTE=Nightrider1]
I get SOOO many after 5 min of chat say " wheres my Christmas Gift " I tell them your Christmas gift is in the delete file which is where your heading..lol.. [/QUOTE]
I tell them the 'gift' is in my trousers and they will get when I see them..:D And that they can unwrap it and play with it for as long as I and they want :)
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[QUOTE=X Man]I didn't understand the point about "wife...go to Match".
X[/QUOTE]http://www.match.com/
AV
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Originally Posted by Jrbodinen
I see you mentioned meeting these girls on Friendster. Is it a good place to meet girls for sex. Are there a large percentage of girls on the site that will meet just for sex, food, and not expect money?
The proplem with Friendster is the girl will see all of your other lady friends, once you add her.
She will then send emails to them asking who they are and why they are friends with you.
Best way to use friendster is never add anyone as a friend and only use the mail feature to meet the girls, then change to regular email with them.
edit: moved to correct forum
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X Man beware
X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14
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X Man
We wish no harm on that individual but many of us wish we would never hear from him again.
Shit, I was actually worried that X and I were going to be on the same flight on the 18th. I got lucky. $$$$$ kept me here.
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]Originally Posted by Jrbodinen
I see you mentioned meeting these girls on Friendster. Is it a good place to meet girls for sex. Are there a large percentage of girls on the site that will meet just for sex, food, and not expect money?
The proplem with Friendster is the girl will see all of your other lady friends, once you add her.
She will then send emails to them asking who they are and why they are friends with you.
Best way to use friendster is never add anyone as a friend and only use the mail feature to meet the girls, then change to regular email with them.
edit: moved to correct forum[/QUOTE]
I too have noticed that Friendster is very popular in the Phils. But ... I never liked the friends feature for playing around so I didn't go there. Thanks for the tip.
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[QUOTE=Darcnite14]X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14[/QUOTE]Hey there D14, I have a home & business interests in Mindanao. Its reputation is greatly exaggerated by people who have not been there.
AV
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[QUOTE=Darcnite14]X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14[/QUOTE]I have been all over Mindanao, even Sulu&Jolo, I was there for 8 weeks earlier this year amd have been each and every year without fail since 1992, never had any problems whatsoever, but I always get out of Manila ASAP, its a s*it-hole compared to Cebu or CDO, Davao, Gensan etc.
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Mindanao
Del and AV,
I have never been there. I buy and export shrimp from this area through some associates. I usually stay in Naval in the Leyte province. So my advice was from genuine caution and concern, but from third party information. If you guys are very familiar with this region, I would apprieciate any information you have on shrimp and tilapia farmers.
Now I also have had a fair amount of success in Tacloban, Ormac and Biliran while walking through the markets with freebies, because these areas are really of of the beaten trail. Marvins hotel in Antipolo is where I usually stay and I have met many women when I shop for fish in the mornings at the sreet market. Wow fish and trim in the same place, how can you ask for more?
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Mindanao
I've lived in Davao for the past five years and, because of my job, have traveled all over the region-and I've never had a single problem. Yet, I often get a gasp from Filipinos in Manila when I tell them where I live. The reaction of the average Filipino to Mindanao is based largely on total ignorance and rarely on any knowledge. The fact is,as Delbert says, Manila is a hole, and I feel much safer in Davao, where there's far less crime and violence, than I do in the country's largest city.
As to being a "Black American," I don't think that skin color would have any effect on your security. I know several black guys from the US Embassy who travel here consistently, and I've never heard them express any fears about their safety at all.
The fact is that the armed conflicts here occur and recur in fairly remote areas where tourists would have no reason to even think of going.
GE
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Friendster & similar sites
I saw the discussion about Friendster, and just had to add my 2 pesos worth.
Friendster, and sites like it (Hi5.com, Tagged.com, MySpace.com, and etc.) are great for finding lots of pics of girls from all over the world. Many of the girls on these sites show no inhibitions, and literally bare all that they have to the world. At the same time, many of them will post pictures of celebrities in the hopes that nobody will know that it is not them. As stated earlier by BB, most of these sites allow "friends" to see the activities of the person that has added them to the list. This can be both bad (i.e. all the girls seeing your actions) and good (i.e. you can also see the girls' actions) at the same time. Many will post pics of themselves with their "honey ko" and still add hundreds of obviously horny guys to their friends list. If nothing else, it's fun to look around on these sites, and maybe make some contacts for chatting on YM, MSN, and etc.. And if you happen to strike out on any given night, you might even find some of them online and willing to give you a show.
I recently (less than a month ago) setup a Tagged.com page of my own. I found a pic (from an advertisement I think) show a guy's mid-section, wearing mesh underwear, which clearly revealed his dick and balls. I posted that as my profile pic, and nothing else. It may be considered plagerism, but at least I didn't copy and post any ISG photos, as I had thought about. :D I searched for girls in the age range I like, and started requesting to be added as their friend. I now have about 160 sexy friends, and I'm adding more everyday. I'm not sure if this will help me find anyone to fuck the next time I travel to PI. But I'm having fun with it, and it is one hell of a nice board of photos to look at when I sign on! ;)
HW
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[QUOTE=Darcnite14]Del and AV,
I have never been there. I buy and export shrimp from this area through some associates. I usually stay in Naval in the Leyte province. So my advice was from genuine caution and concern, but from third party information. If you guys are very familiar with this region, I would apprieciate any information you have on shrimp and tilapia farmers.
Now I also have had a fair amount of success in Tacloban, Ormac and Biliran while walking through the markets with freebies, because these areas are really of of the beaten trail. Marvins hotel in Antipolo is where I usually stay and I have met many women when I shop for fish in the mornings at the sreet market. Wow fish and trim in the same place, how can you ask for more?[/QUOTE]Darc, tilapia and shrimp were never high on my list of "Things to see and do", I have seen seaweed farms in Sulu&Jolo, I know they farm Tilapia in lake Sebu, I have friends in the MRDP so I can ask around for general info if you like? Zambo was always a great place to visit for sea-products like dried-fish etc as they badjao earn money from it. But regarding the safety of the area I never once felt under threat while in southern Mindanao, and I have been there countless times, though the same can't be said of Manila, its got to be the worst capital city in south east asia.
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I've been to Davao and CDO in Mindanao and had a wonderful time. As GE says, you'll probably find the cities much more comfortable/safer than Manila -- for a variety of reasons.
X
[QUOTE=Darcnite14]X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14[/QUOTE]
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Bad Intel
It seems as if I have recieved bad intelligence reports from my business associates about Mindinao. I will now consider exploring these areas. I have only stayed in Makati 3 nights and Manila 1 night, so I really have not had any bad experiences. I find that I get a lot more action when I am out in the provinces, and usually end up with freebies. Lots of times I have had girls approach me when I was in the middle of business dealings, just to introduce themselves to me and wanted to talk.
Guys, thanks for setting me staright, with the correct facts.
Happy hunting
D14
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Wrong Impression....
[QUOTE=Darcnite14] I find that I get a lot more action when I am out in the provinces, and usually end up with freebies. Lots of times I have had girls approach me when I was in the middle of business dealings, just to introduce themselves to me and wanted to talk.
D14[/QUOTE]
Lot of guys are under the impression Filipinas are shy and sweet. Back in October I had a girl working at one of the stores in Alabang mall come on to me while my ole lady was with me. My ole lady was pissed but she just ignored the girl…. she is not the confrontational type… broad wasn’t bad looking either…shit I was grinning from ear to ear. :D
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[QUOTE=Darcnite14]It seems as if I have recieved bad intelligence reports from my business associates about Mindinao. I will now consider exploring these areas. I have only stayed in Makati 3 nights and Manila 1 night, so I really have not had any bad experiences. I find that I get a lot more action when I am out in the provinces, and usually end up with freebies. Lots of times I have had girls approach me when I was in the middle of business dealings, just to introduce themselves to me and wanted to talk.
Guys, thanks for setting me staright, with the correct facts.
Happy hunting
D14[/QUOTE]
Just remember, the farther west you go in Mindanao, the more muslims you'll encounter. Remember there are active groups who wants to secede Mindanao into a separate muslim country.
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Who's your Daddy?
[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Lot of guys are under the impression Filipinas are shy and sweet. Back in October I had a girl working at one of the stores in Alabang mall come on to me while my ole lady was with me. My ole lady was pissed but she just ignored the girl…. she is not the confrontational type… broad wasn’t bad looking either…shit I was grinning from ear to ear. :D[/QUOTE]Was you ole lady Filipina also?
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[QUOTE=Darth Sushi]Just remember, the farther west you go in Mindanao, the more muslims you'll encounter. Remember there are active groups who wants to secede Mindanao into a separate muslim country.[/QUOTE]Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AV
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I Will See
Dw1 and AV,
I will explore these areas that have I never considered before. I will do this on a business level only. I have my hunting spots and I am very comfortable with them. A lot of you hunters wonder why I don't put locations and contact information with my post, I really do get 10 times more action freebie then I do P4P. To be totally honest, I have been to the Phills 20 times in 6 years and have engaged in P4P maybe 4 or 5 times.
What I do works for me, so I guess I will not change my game. The country side has more then pretty flowers and fresh air. Forget about the tourists spots, and get out to meet the neighbors.
D14
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AV[/QUOTE]Ha, ha, ha...
TO: Darcnite14, all I'm saying is there is a small scale civil war going on and just be careful. Amavida will never mention that Mindanao (& neighboring islands) is the kidnapping for ransom capitol of the Philippines. Just ask the missionaries kidnapped who were held hostage for more than a year. It's not the wild west but with a global recession now in play, you never know.
TO: Amavida - (If you're clueless with the following, then you haven't lived here as long as I have): Huwag kang masiado maingay. Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas! Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.
Peace.
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[QUOTE=Darth Sushi] Huwag kang masiado maingay. Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas! Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.
Peace.[/QUOTE]My tagalog is not too good, but I think this means loosely translated:
"Don't be flashy or loud, keep your mouth closed because you are not from here in Philippines. Although there are (????) Filipino women, you never know what/who is waiting in the jungle".
Could be very wrong, but generally you get the idea. Keep a low profile is always good advice in a foreign land.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AV[/QUOTE]
History of events disagrees with you Ama. The Abu Sayyaf is a very real threat, based in Mindanao. If you need a refresher course I suggest starting with wiki: [url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abu_Sayyaf[/url] You can also read up on the Fisabillilah.
Sure there are dangerous areas everywhere in the islands. Hell...I wouldnt go within 100 kilometers of Tondo. But there are areas more prone to trouble than others. And Mindanao is far more dangerous overall than anywhere else on the islands. Having lived there I would think you would know your own country's history.
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Translation
Originally Posted by Darth Sushi. My translation.
'Huwag kang masiado maingay.'
Don't be too noisy.
'Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas!'
You don't know what you're saying because you didn't grow up here in the Philippines.
"Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.'
Although you may have a Filipina girlfriend, you don't know what's happening here in the jungle.
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[QUOTE=Darth Sushi]Ha, ha, ha...
TO: Amavida - (If you're clueless with the following, then you haven't lived here as long as I have): Huwag kang masiado maingay. Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas! Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.
Peace.[/QUOTE]Ok Im clueless in your mind...
You dont need to tell me that in Tagalog...
Whatever.
Just because I own a home in Mindanao & run several business's here what would i know eh?
Thanks for the wikipedia links from the armchair experts by the way...
AV
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I love this description.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=550fa644-b39b-4894-81d1-0ce14ebd4762[/url]
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[QUOTE=Delbert]I love this description.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=550fa644-b39b-4894-81d1-0ce14ebd4762[/url][/QUOTE]Already banned:)
We are sorry, but this member has been banned...
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AV[/QUOTE]
Well said Amavida! I also live in Mindanao and I feel safe, but I am always cautious and never let my guard down...wait, I do the same when I am in Cebu or Manila, anywhere in the Philippines:eek:
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Denizen of Mindanao
It always surprises me when guys who do not live or work here, and who may have read a couple of newspaper articles or an embassy warning, often self-righteously warn others of the alleged dangers of living here. Most of these warnings are grounded in firm ignorance of the facts on the ground and/or the geography of Mindanao.
The fact is the Mindanao, the second largest island in the country, accounts for approximately a third of the land area of the entire country. It's enormous, and what happens in one place has little or no effect on what may happen somewhere else, hundreds and hundreds of kilometers removed. That the Abu Sayyaf is "in Mindanao" is a little like saying that there's a kidnapping group on the West Coast, so better avoid the entire area.
The Abu Sayyaf operates primarily in regions so remote that no foreigner--particularly foreigners with our hobby--would ever consider going there even without the Abu Sayyaf presence. Why would anyone want, for example, to go to Sulu or to the jungles around Lamitan, Basilan? There are no hotels, no decent infrastructure and no nightlife, not to mention little in the way of tansportation. I know this because I go to these places (gasp) for business.
The MILF also operates, it's true, in these places, and also in North Cotabato, with occasional appearances in Sharif Kabunsuan and Maguindanao. Anyone rushing to go to these garden spots? I can assure you that with or without the MILF, there's no reason at all to go.
There are only three spots on Mindanao that would normally attract most of the members of this forum: Davao, Cagayan de Oro and (perhaps) Zamboanga. They're all totally safe and, in my opinion, each is safer for the average foreigner, than Manila. There's less street crime, less hustling, less traffic, less pollution and altogether fewer hassles than Manila, and these places are far less expensive. All offer ample opportunity to sample the local lovelies as well.
Someone will doubtless point out that last week, two bombs exploded in Iligan, midway between Cagayan de Oro and Marawi. These is true, but again, what relevance does it have for members of this forum? Iligan is, by my reckoning, an undesirable place with or without bombs, and would normally not attract anyone to visit for any reason.
So the bottom line? If you're into remote jungle areas, with little or no electricity, spartan, even primitive accommodations and zero night life, you may want to reconsider before coming here. For normal people however, who want to be buried in pussy while enjoying the pleasures of being in an area that's secure, pollution free and very laid back, come on down. The weather, the women and the water are all fine.
GE
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Wtf?
[QUOTE=GoodEnough]
The MILF also operates ...
GE[/QUOTE]
To lighten the tone, I have to smile when I see the abbreviation of the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. I cannot help but envisage a bunch of rather attractive mature ladies running around with kalashnikovs.
Well it is ISG and a lot of us do tend to have one track minds :D.
P.S What is an extended discussion about security in Mindanao, doing on the Pen Pal thread anyway?
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Ok Im clueless in your mind...
You dont need to tell me that in Tagalog...
Whatever.
Just because I own a home in Mindanao & run several business's here what would i know eh?
Thanks for the wikipedia links from the armchair experts by the way...
AV[/QUOTE]
Yeah, you're right...it's very safe down south.... :rolleyes:
[url]http://www.iht.com/articles/ap/2008/12/23/asia/AS-Philippines-Food-Convoy.php[/url]
[url]http://www.gmanews.tv/story/139447/Alleged-NPA-rebel-killed-in-Davao-City-clash---Army[/url]
Don't forget the two bombs (one did explode) placed at busy shopping centers last week...BTW, Merry Christmas in Mindanao!
Peace and be safe
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Takes Time To Weed Through The Bullshit
I thought Date In Asia sucked but I have met a hottie in Indonesia, Philippines and Thailand on the site. Surprisingly all have jobs (have not asked for money) and two are educated and one is a working college student.
Only drawback the Thai girl doesn’t speak English that well but if you know Thailand like I do that is a good thing :)
The Filipina is a doll. Spanish looking type. No family issues with her. She was raised in an orphanage.
May the force be with me :D
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DIA field report
I wrote a report a couple of months back about my DIA experiences before my trip to the PI. I had obtained, I guess, about 20 phone numbers of girls that said they would like to meet me before I left. I also booked a ticket from Cebu to Boracay for a sweet little thing that I felt pretty good about. I was to fly from Manila and wait for her flight to arrive in Boracay.
I had lined up a girl (non DIA) to be with in Manila for a few days that I had met on a previous trip before I was to fly to Boracay. That all went well and I came up with a good enough excuse to get rid of her for a week or so while I played before meeting back up with her for the balance of my PI trip.
Well, everything went as planned for our meeting at Caticlan airport. How often does that happen that everything goes right? She thought I was gwapo and I thought she was super cute with a great body. 24 y/o college student with large breasts on a small frame! We proceed to the hotel on Boracay Island. She was not so shy until it was time for bed. She slept with her clothes on the first night! I let it slide the first night because she was truly an inexperienced and innocent girl. Anyway, to make a long story short, she was very sweet, innocent, appreciative of everything I did for her and always told me so. Not very enthusiastic in bed but would probably turn around as she becomes more comfortable with me. I was only the second guy she had ever had sex with. We had a great time and I don’t regret it for a minute. We still have regular contact and I will probably spend some time with her the next trip out. She may be LTR material.
We spent a couple of days in Cebu together and I got rid of her early so I could meet a couple other girls from DIA before I headed back to Manila. I decided to try a couple of "sure bets" first. I texted one that was very aggressive sexually on our YM chats. I offered to meet her at the SM mall in Cebu. She shows up about an hour and a half later. She was so shy I could barely converse with her. I talked her into ice cream at the food court. She only took one lick and just held on to her cone as it dripped on the floor. She was not as attractive as she appeared on the webcam. She had a nice body that was better than her face and she kept covering her mouth when she talked as if to hide some bad teeth. Well, I cut the meeting short at the hour mark knowing that I was wasting my precious time. I took her to the mall exit where the taxis and jeepneys are and tried to give her taxi money, she refused (wow! ) but I finally forced it on her. She leaves and five minutes later she is texting me begging for another meeting and that we can sleep together and won’t be shy next time. I tell her it’s too late now.
I text the next "sure bet". She is anxious to meet me. Says she’ll be right there. She shows up with a friend. Her friend is so ugly that she could stop a Caterpillar D11 in it’s tracks. She is attractive and I would certainly like to show her my meat rocket. I suggest pizza. We go to Greenwich. We eat, have some small talk but I’m not feeling any chemistry. After dinner she asks me what I want to do. I tell her that I am tired and that I have an early flight out the following morning. She escorts me to the taxi stand and we shake hands (that’s right, not even a hug). Again, five minutes later she is texting me and apologizing for the uninspiring time together and she would like to go to Manila with me! I tell her it’s too late now.
When I get back to my room it is around 9pm and I figure that I will take a nap and then hit the bars just down the street and play around with the bargirls. Then the texts start rolling in from both of them at the same time. I am slow at texting so I can’t keep up with both of them. They both want to come to my room now (yeah, right). I tell them it’s too late.
Anyway, I finally get to sleep and when I wake a couple hours later I am so tired I say f&*k it and stay in bed knowing that I will be well taken care of when I get back to Manila the next day.
The bottom line for me is that DIA does consume a LOT of time if you let it. Was it worth it? For me, yes. Will I do it again? Yes, but no more than seven to ten days prior to my trip departure. Also, I will only dedicate a small portion of my trip to DIA girls, preferably all in the same city.
Southbound69
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The scam artist...
Gents, I recently discovered that my pinay fiancee was scamming several other men out of money. The relationship ended badly. What is the correct forum to tell about this?
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]It always surprises me when guys who do not live or work here, and who may have read a couple of newspaper articles or an embassy warning, often self-righteously warn others of the alleged dangers of living here. Most of these warnings are grounded in firm ignorance of the facts on the ground and/or the geography of Mindanao.
The fact is the Mindanao, the second largest island in the country, accounts for approximately a third of the land area of the entire country. It's enormous, and what happens in one place has little or no effect on what may happen somewhere else, hundreds and hundreds of kilometers removed. That the Abu Sayyaf is "in Mindanao" is a little like saying that there's a kidnapping group on the West Coast, so better avoid the entire area.
The Abu Sayyaf operates primarily in regions so remote that no foreigner--particularly foreigners with our hobby--would ever consider going there even without the Abu Sayyaf presence. Why would anyone want, for example, to go to Sulu or to the jungles around Lamitan, Basilan? There are no hotels, no decent infrastructure and no nightlife, not to mention little in the way of tansportation. I know this because I go to these places (gasp) for business.
The MILF also operates, it's true, in these places, and also in North Cotabato, with occasional appearances in Sharif Kabunsuan and Maguindanao. Anyone rushing to go to these garden spots? I can assure you that with or without the MILF, there's no reason at all to go.
There are only three spots on Mindanao that would normally attract most of the members of this forum: Davao, Cagayan de Oro and (perhaps) Zamboanga. They're all totally safe and, in my opinion, each is safer for the average foreigner, than Manila. There's less street crime, less hustling, less traffic, less pollution and altogether fewer hassles than Manila, and these places are far less expensive. All offer ample opportunity to sample the local lovelies as well.
Someone will doubtless point out that last week, two bombs exploded in Iligan, midway between Cagayan de Oro and Marawi. These is true, but again, what relevance does it have for members of this forum? Iligan is, by my reckoning, an undesirable place with or without bombs, and would normally not attract anyone to visit for any reason.
So the bottom line? If you're into remote jungle areas, with little or no electricity, spartan, even primitive accommodations and zero night life, you may want to reconsider before coming here. For normal people however, who want to be buried in pussy while enjoying the pleasures of being in an area that's secure, pollution free and very laid back, come on down. The weather, the women and the water are all fine.
GE[/QUOTE]
Thanks for your insight GE. My post was in no way meant to be alarmist or naive either. Like many of us Ive travelled quite a bit (13 countries in my passport). Im not like most I guess. Sure I like to play, but I also like to stray out of the city to experience the REAL personality of the country. Sure, areas in the big cities (CDO, Butuan, Davao, Santos, Zamboanga, Dipolog, etc) are perfectly safe. But the farther south I get, the less I want to stray much. I think the risk outside the cities in higher in Mindanao than Visayas or Luzon.
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Here...
[QUOTE=Rgbburn]Gents, I recently discovered that my pinay fiancee was scamming several other men out of money. The relationship ended badly. What is the correct forum to tell about this?[/QUOTE]
Follow this link....
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?t=1511[/url]
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Follow this link....
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.in...read.php?t=1511[/url][/QUOTE]
Actually, I think either location on the boards would be appropriate, as it applies to both forums. Rgbburn, maybe you should post your report in either this forum or the "Filipinas - Opinions and Advice" as DW1 suggested, then post a link to it in the other (cuts down on your typing that way!) ;)
Please let us know the DIA ID for her, so she can't try to scam any of your ISG brothers!
Thanks!
HW
[QUOTE=Rgbburn]Gents, I recently discovered that my pinay fiancee was scamming several other men out of money. The relationship ended badly. What is the correct forum to tell about this?[/QUOTE]
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DIA/YM Scammer
I just had an interesting chat with a cute little scammer from DIA. As you can see, if you read the attached text file, she claims her name is nicole on DIA. I'm searching DIA using that and other info from the chat session to see if I can find her profile. If I do find it, I will put an updated post on here to protect all of my ISG brothers! I tried to get a screen print of her showing me her tits, but it didn't turn out so good. (Anybody know of a good screen capture program that can do continuous capture, and better quality?) Oh, and you can see in the text file, that she used 2 different YM ID's also.
Beware!
HW
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Screen capture
HW: for screen capture on the cam, I just click on the cam window to make it active, then hold ALT + PRT SCR (print screen button). That copies it to the clipboard. Then I open my .jpg or pic viewing software, or MS Word, and paste it. See the attached screen caps of my former fiancee. You can see date/time on bottom. First one is her happy as a clam, talking about getting married, Dec. 14, 7:35AM. She is unaware at this moment that I received email confirmation the day before that she was cheating on me and scamming other guys. In the next pic, same date, 11:30PM, she's balling like a baby, several of the men she's been scamming have discovered it and phoned her angrily. I'll tell more of the scamming in the next report.
To capture clearly, you have to wait until the person on cam is sitting still, staring at the screen or cam.
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Thanks for the field report. Earlier this year I had a shy one (from CBlossom) that I quickly got rid of, but for some reason we stayed in touch. ....who am I kidding, she had a nice body.
Anyway, last week I sent her a text and she seemed eager to set up a meeting. She pulled pretty much the same shit as last time, but we went to Juliana's disco (cebu) so her inability to hold a conversation didn't matter so much. Anyway, as the night waned I tried to get rid of her so that I could make my way to the Mango bars but she insisted on going back to my room. I gave her a good root and was happy when she said she had to leave.
I guess the moral of the story is....if they are quiet and shy, invite them to your room for some body language.
X Man
[QUOTE=Southbound69]I wrote a report a couple of months back about my DIA experiences before my trip to the PI. I had obtained, I guess, about 20 phone numbers of girls that said they would like to meet me before I left. I also booked a ticket from Cebu to Boracay for a sweet little thing that I felt pretty good about. I was to fly from Manila and wait for her flight to arrive in Boracay.
I had lined up a girl (non DIA) to be with in Manila for a few days that I had met on a previous trip before I was to fly to Boracay. That all went well and I came up with a good enough excuse to get rid of her for a week or so while I played before meeting back up with her for the balance of my PI trip.
Well, everything went as planned for our meeting at Caticlan airport. How often does that happen that everything goes right? She thought I was gwapo and I thought she was super cute with a great body. 24 y/o college student with large breasts on a small frame! We proceed to the hotel on Boracay Island. She was not so shy until it was time for bed. She slept with her clothes on the first night! I let it slide the first night because she was truly an inexperienced and innocent girl. Anyway, to make a long story short, she was very sweet, innocent, appreciative of everything I did for her and always told me so. Not very enthusiastic in bed but would probably turn around as she becomes more comfortable with me. I was only the second guy she had ever had sex with. We had a great time and I don’t regret it for a minute. We still have regular contact and I will probably spend some time with her the next trip out. She may be LTR material.
We spent a couple of days in Cebu together and I got rid of her early so I could meet a couple other girls from DIA before I headed back to Manila. I decided to try a couple of "sure bets" first. I texted one that was very aggressive sexually on our YM chats. I offered to meet her at the SM mall in Cebu. She shows up about an hour and a half later. She was so shy I could barely converse with her. I talked her into ice cream at the food court. She only took one lick and just held on to her cone as it dripped on the floor. She was not as attractive as she appeared on the webcam. She had a nice body that was better than her face and she kept covering her mouth when she talked as if to hide some bad teeth. Well, I cut the meeting short at the hour mark knowing that I was wasting my precious time. I took her to the mall exit where the taxis and jeepneys are and tried to give her taxi money, she refused (wow! ) but I finally forced it on her. She leaves and five minutes later she is texting me begging for another meeting and that we can sleep together and won’t be shy next time. I tell her it’s too late now.
I text the next "sure bet". She is anxious to meet me. Says she’ll be right there. She shows up with a friend. Her friend is so ugly that she could stop a Caterpillar D11 in it’s tracks. She is attractive and I would certainly like to show her my meat rocket. I suggest pizza. We go to Greenwich. We eat, have some small talk but I’m not feeling any chemistry. After dinner she asks me what I want to do. I tell her that I am tired and that I have an early flight out the following morning. She escorts me to the taxi stand and we shake hands (that’s right, not even a hug). Again, five minutes later she is texting me and apologizing for the uninspiring time together and she would like to go to Manila with me! I tell her it’s too late now.
When I get back to my room it is around 9pm and I figure that I will take a nap and then hit the bars just down the street and play around with the bargirls. Then the texts start rolling in from both of them at the same time. I am slow at texting so I can’t keep up with both of them. They both want to come to my room now (yeah, right). I tell them it’s too late.
Anyway, I finally get to sleep and when I wake a couple hours later I am so tired I say f&*k it and stay in bed knowing that I will be well taken care of when I get back to Manila the next day.
The bottom line for me is that DIA does consume a LOT of time if you let it. Was it worth it? For me, yes. Will I do it again? Yes, but no more than seven to ten days prior to my trip departure. Also, I will only dedicate a small portion of my trip to DIA girls, preferably all in the same city.
Southbound69
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Scamming fiancee
I had known my gf for over a year online. We both had relationships that broke up around March, and she wanted to hook up. She's from Surigao City, which I've been to before. We met in Cebu in late June, and spent a week there and in Bohol. Lovely time. About early October she started talking odd, like she suddenly had money (she's dirt poor). One day she asked if she could visit me here in California, she said she was obtaining a tourist visa. I know that takes money, a good job, etc, and upon questioning her, she said she had fooled a man in NY to send her $1000 for the visa (to be obtained thru an agency). She said she was going to try to get the visa to come see me. I told her to send his money back, and apologize to him (Fred). She said he had been supporting her, sight unseen, for several months. I thought this might some kind of ruse, so I told her I needed to be sure of this, to send the money to me, and I'd return it to him. She actually WU the money to me (several times more than shes seen in her life). I thought that would be the end of it as we were planning our marriage. She promised she had not been in touch with him, and she would not do that again. She sent him (and me) an email ending the relationship, and asking him to send me his real address so I could send his $ back to him.
I never heard back, thought that odd, and asked her why. She said she emailed him and he just didnt want it back, he was disgusted with her. So I sent him an email, and the add turned out to be undeliverable. However, I was able to add him to my IM, I contaced him on the IM, and he and I were both surprised: she had told each of us that she had dumped the other. He was shocked that we were planning on getting married and that I would be visiting her on Dec. 21.
Needless to say, I was about to have it out with her. But it gets better. Back up a few weeks. I was showing her how to screen capture cam images and stuff on her screen, simply alt + prt scr to capture. She captured several things on her screen and sent them to me for fun at that moment, including me on the cam, and... wait for it.... HER YAHOO IM LIST window. So.... I sent an email to everyone on that list saying that I was her fiancee, please wish us well. About 10 addresses. I got back a slew of angry responses in the next day or so, they are each a different bf (well, actually monetary donors it would turn out). So there it was in black and white: numerous men who she was stringing along, saying she wanted to meet (she always had an excuse why she couldn't), asking them for money. Some guys sent me her emails to them, and some also sent their IM's. Very romantic, full of MAHAL KO, can you send me some money for my rent / son / medicine for sexual disease???
You get the pic. Actually I'll attach another pic or two. I ended the relationship shortly thereafter, just a few days before flying to Philippines to meet her and fill out our K-1 visa. After she was caught, she wanted like crazy to save our relationship. She even called my house 40 times one night, 4AM, waking my kids and me up. I'll include here her admission of guilt here. Sorry about the length. Her name is Nichie Lou Andion, she's not on DIA.
nichie (12/14/2008 7:16:04 PM): yes i becoame such a lier to them just to surivive and wont ask money from u
nichie (12/14/2008 7:16:30 PM): as i its u who beat my heart
nichie (12/14/2008 9:47:48 PM): and how will i manage everything
nichie (12/14/2008 9:47:54 PM): to escape what i did
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:29 PM): i am scammer
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:31 PM): i am liar
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:36 PM): yes fred right
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:44 PM): but i didnt scam you
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:56 PM): i been yes liar for my own personal reasons
Rich Black (12/14/2008 9:53:29 PM): good touch
Rich Black (12/14/2008 9:53:34 PM): thanks for that
nichie (12/14/2008 9:53:34 PM): also i let him voice out his bad feelings for me
nichie (12/14/2008 9:54:40 PM): before i tried to open about offering marriage
nichie (12/14/2008 9:54:50 PM): but i lied him about u are my ex
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:41:34 PM): you sent this 48 hours after sleeping with me
nichie (12/14/2008 10:41:48 PM): who
nichie (12/14/2008 10:41:58 PM): after we meet i didnt meet anyone anymore
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:42:03 PM): see the problem? you cant even REMEMBER to who
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:42:09 PM): correct probably
nichie (12/14/2008 10:42:11 PM): yes
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:42:13 PM): but you WANTED to
nichie (12/14/2008 10:44:50 PM): yes i told u im liar just to have money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:49:16 PM): ok yeah im asking money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:49:17 PM): fine
nichie (12/14/2008 10:49:19 PM): what else
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:25 PM): MISS YOU BABY
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:28 PM): LOVE YOU BABY
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:37 PM): IM (SHY)
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:40 PM): TO ASK
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:44 PM): ur asking money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:51:45 PM): since also need money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:12 PM): i been a bad girl yes for money just to keep me survive
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:23 PM): in alittle way
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:29 PM): its ok
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:34 PM): i know IM BAD
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:42 PM): yes i ask money to other guys
Rich Black (12/16/2008 11:23:09 PM): why is it many men think that ur their gf? why they not all know, as my chatmates and buddys know, i have gf overseas and fiancee?
nichie (12/16/2008 11:23:41 PM): u know already the answer for that
nichie (12/16/2008 11:23:45 PM): money
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[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]I just had an interesting chat with a cute little scammer from DIA. ......that she used 2 different YM ID's also.
Beware!
HW[/QUOTE]I think I have seen this same girl with the same method of operation in several Camfrog rooms.
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Cultural Studies Of A Chat Filipina Kind...
[QUOTE=Rgbburn]I had known my gf for over a year online.....
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That’s a hair-raising tale Rgbburn.
Things learned:
I am having fun with DIA not looking for women but how it takes into you into the mindset of the Filipina. A cultural study if you will.
They will either ask outright or will go into tales of woe of how they have not eaten or they can’t pay tuition or rent. Sob stories to separate you from your dough.
One girl basically told me outright she was looking for a man to pay her tuition she was a religious nut. She asked what my religion was when I was told her I was an extremist…(Atheist) she damn near went crazy telling me how I need to believe in god.
I asked her what she would be prepared to give the guy in exchange for tuition payment. Her response was friendship.
Guys what I have learned over the years is that what they are saying might be true but they are survivors far tougher then me or you. They claim they need the money so bad how were they “making it” before you came along. You can’t buy your way into their pants or their heart. If they want to fuck you or court you they will.
It’s that simple…
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Sending $
DW, HW, others. As an aside from my former fiancee's scamming, I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met. I was the only one she had met or inteneded to meet, and I wasn't the one sending her $ on a regular basis. She told many that she wanted to meet, get married, etc, but always made excuses why she couldn't. Isn't the rule of thumb to not send money to someone you haven't met? Only one other guy that I'm aware of had not sent her any money, and when he wouldn't, she broke their 'engagement'. I think we make it easy for the girls when we do this. Some of the guys, having not been to a poor country, are sending her 2x, 3x what her monthly needs are. Amazing shes making bank. No wonder she rarely asked me for anything (made me curious). To each his own on this subject. Thoughts?
I'll send some more later in a later report with her pics for all to see and detailing who she was getting money from. Its fascinating. Thanks gents. Also, are there scammer websites to report this kind of thing?
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[QUOTE=Rgbburn]DW, HW, others. As an aside from my former fiancee's scamming, I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met. I was the only one she had met or inteneded to meet, and I wasn't the one sending her $ on a regular basis. She told many that she wanted to meet, get married, etc, but always made excuses why she couldn't. Isn't the rule of thumb to not send money to someone you haven't met? Only one other guy that I'm aware of had not sent her any money, and when he wouldn't, she broke their 'engagement'. I think we make it easy for the girls when we do this. Some of the guys, having not been to a poor country, are sending her 2x, 3x what her monthly needs are. Amazing shes making bank. No wonder she rarely asked me for anything (made me curious). To each his own on this subject. Thoughts?
I'll send some more later in a later report with her pics for all to see and detailing who she was getting money from. Its fascinating. Thanks gents. Also, are there scammer websites to report this kind of thing?[/QUOTE][url]http://dragonladies.org/[/url]
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African Connection
Hey Guys,
I just joined DIA 10 days ago. I have met 2 pinays and 2 Thai that seem to be on the level, the youngest being 28. I have had my share already of the little scammers that have no problem and waste no time attempting to seperate me from my money. I want to share another concern. When I am logged on to my yahoo account, even when I am in the invisible mode, I get these uninvited I'm's. When I ask them how did they get my information, they always say that they got it from DIA. Then before I hit the ignore button, they ask my a/s/l. I ask them why do they not have these facts if they read my profile. Now the funny thing about this story is that My yahoo ID is not the same as my DIA ID, and all of the contacts claimming to be women all say that they were born in other countries, for some strange reason end up in Ghana Africa. Has anyone else experienced this same situation?
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Rgbburn
I have not learned how to do the quote and excerpt process in these forums yet, but I agree with the statement from Rgbburn; "Many of us do make it very easy for these girls to get money". I posted before that I watch many girls in the cafe with 5 to 10 men on their screens telling them all that they love them and have no other man. They do not even care when I watch them do it. I really don't think it is the monger types, I think it is the naive guys that have never been there or have very limited experience with this culture. I must also say once again, that they learn these hunting skill from us. To prove my point, lets take DIA for example, if you actually read some of the girls profiles, many on them post, " that if you are here only for sex, then pass by my profile", also "I am not prostitute, do not talk to me about money for sex. In camfrog, you go to any room, any timezone and men will out number women 5 to 1. We are the hunters, that are teaching them how to hunt us right back.
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[QUOTE=Rgbburn] I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met... <snip> ... Isn't the rule of thumb to not send money to someone you haven't met?[/QUOTE]
EXACTLY!
[QUOTE=Rgbburn]Also, are there scammer websites to report this kind of thing?[/QUOTE]Yes. Google will tell you but dont expect to achieve much. There are legions of suckers going like lambs to the slaughter. Im sure posting the details here is very appreciated.
Sorry you had to experience this.
I caught a girl out last year by posting some info about her here & another member stepped in to try out her loyalty to me. She failed the test spectacularly. :D
AV
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World Record
Guys,
I talked to this 1 young lady and i think she might have broken the worlds record. She YM me and the 3rd sentence she was hitting me with the old "PHONE PAWN" technique. she was doing very bad because she had to pawn her phone. I told her i was very sad for her and told her i had to go. Her DIA name is " Little Yeng"
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The gents she scammed....
Amavida, thanks. Never had any reason to be so distrustful. Think after this it will be hard to trust pinays for a while.
Below is a partial email that I sent out to multiple folks. After discovering her scamming, I got back many emails from angry men. She also fessed up to much of it after getting caught. Below is a partial response to many of the men she was scamming. And some pics of the girl. I've also found a scamming website to expose her antics ([url]http://www.internet-love-scams.org[/url]).
She's not on DIA gents. However she's on Friendster and Myspace. I'll post that when I get it. In the meantime, stay away from this one. She is:
Nichie Lou Andion
Surigao City, Surigao Del Norte
Wish I knew how to boldface or italicize.
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To [blue][Name Deleted at Author's Request][/blue] in NY, she says she has made some peace with you since then. If you can find peace after sending $thousands$ to a gal you haven't met, all the better. She did not use the money you gave her for the call-center course (she used mine for that), she just spent yours. Or perhaps she used yours for the training and spent mine. She finished the course, and sent me a pic of her at her graduation complete with certificate. You'll notice each time you sent money, she went on a drinking spree ('going around' with my friends). Also she tried desparately the last month or so to get me to go visit her there at Xmas (I was planning a spring trip). The change in plans to Xmas caused me to spend twice as much for the ticket. She was very agreeable to me using your money you sent her (that she then sent to me) to make the arrangements for either the ticket increase, a wedding dress, a ring, etc (its in the IM's). Sorry, but she sent me your money W.U., and thats where it is going, to pay for my upcoming trip, to Philippines, as she asked me to do repeatedly (in which I'm not seeing her). I'm a single-parent (raising two teens) schoolteacher with not a lot of extra cash. Originally I tried to donate the money to the church, but the check I wrote didn't clear (long story). Also Fred, I sent her one month ago enough $ to last until mid-December, and enough to pay for one module (one month) of caregiver school. If you look thru the IM's attached, you'll see that she just paid the college for that month. She won't need another payment until she completes a month. There should be 4 months (payments) left if you're interested in supporting her. Insist that she complete the month of classes first before sending her more for that. She has not started those classes yet.She still wants a relationship with you ('backup guy') if she can't have one with me (see the IM's). Playing second-fiddle might not be your cup of tea. But she's a firecracker, and she's needing sugar-daddy immeadiately. She goes to the highest bidder if she can't have love.
To DS, as you requested, I never mentioned your name (or even your email) to her. She does not know that you know, and if you talk to her she'll never know you use the alias. I understand your anger. You are not going to be able to the money back, she's penniless and has no way of earning money (see attached SHESBROKE). She was not taking any college classes during the time you had been sending money for those classes. Thanks for the emails you forwarded between you and the other gentleman. These are very telling that you both knew she was scamming before. If you both knew of the scamming, and you yourself were supporting two different women in the same town (Surigao), why the sudden anger with her? Maybe the marriage thing?
To H, same as DS, I did not tell her as you requested. You also are not getting your money back (see SHESBROKE). Yes, she used the title of Professional Caregiver in her emails, but she never completed the courses she told you she was taking. She was not taking any classes at that time. Another money con. Apology.
To Andy, she says she has made some peace with you also. Glad for that after all those angry emails. She will not be able to return your money either. However, she says she is willing to do so if she has it in the future.
To Andy and others that she told she had an STD, or that she was getting STD's from prostitution, thats just not true. If she's been a prostitute, its been online, scamming guys for money (see attached ALLFORMONEY). She did have cervicitis in late July/early August. She had abdominal pains, went to her provincial doctor, was diagnosed with an inflamed cervix, and was told that her American BF had given her an STD (but she wasnt told which one). The doctor prescribed antiobiotics for gonorreah, syphylis, chlamydia, and one other. 4 drugs. The doctor never tested Nichie to see which one she had. Just the shotgun approach. I paid for those drugs, and several of you also paid for those drugs (from your emails). She has recently tried this one again with at least one of you (2 weeks ago). This scared me, I thought maybe I had given her and STD, or maybe she gave me one. I ran to my doctor and told my doctor what happened. My doc had me tested for all those + HIV. She also gave me the same 4 prescriptions (shots, painful) as Nichie's doctor gave her, as a just-in-case. When the results all came back negative for me, I asked my doc what had happened to Nichie since she could not have gotten these things from me. My doc explained that the provincial doctors do this, simply shotgun the treatment. Catholic society, better NOT to test the girl, girls dont want to know they have a specific STD, they just want treatment. My doc said Nichie was probably small, I'm large, and sudden onset lovemaking irritated the cervix. I do not believe Nichie to be sexually promiscuous in the physical sense (yet). Her cousin Gilbert is worried that if she moves to Manila or Cebu for work and doesn't find it, she'll be prostituting for real, soon, and I can see it.
To [blue][Name Deleted at Author's Request][/blue], thanks for the input. Soooooo glad you didn't get caught up in this.
To TJ, this is the first time I've attempted contact. You should know that she sent you a very loving email on July 1, complete with her pics, just 48 hours after sleeping with me in Cebu City. The first pic at the bottom of the email is her standing in the Cebu Airport, where she dropped me off just before emailing you. Its all an attempt to get money. Hope she didn't scam you too. In the email she sent, she said she was very tired from her 'training' trip. She was not on a training trip, she was with me (see pics). The only thing tiring for her on the trip would have been: holding hands strolling and shopping in Cebu city, walking and swimming at beautiful beaches at the Bohol Beach Club (see pic), rocking the night away at bars and discos in Mango Park (pic), making love, eating at nice restraunts, taxiing to bars in Tagbiliran for live bands, and waking up late to room service; all on my dime. Poor girl, so tired from her 'training' trip. In one of the recent IM's from the last several days, she fessed up to all of this (see attached ALLFORMONEY). She had no intention of actually meeting you. She simply meets men online to use MAHAL KO and WHEN CAN YOU COME? in hopes of them sending money to her first. When their plans change and they can't come, she's relieved. If they make plans, she makes different plans. Then there are excuses why she can't actually meet. Maybe this will look familiar. Notice the date of July 1; and keep in mind I departed June 29. Also keep in mind that she was my fiancee until 3 days ago. There is an interesting story that goes with that picture of her (sunglasses if you still have the email from her), I'll explain it another time maybe.
"From: Nichie Andion <>
Subject: Its Me Nichie
Date: Tuesday, July 1, 2008, 8:24 PM
Hello Thomas, How are you nowdays? Sorry it took me time to sent you an email. Just tired fromthe training & trip.Anyways i am attaching some of my pictures . Hope you will like it.Hope to hear from you soon also. Take care!
Nichie"
To J, same as TJ. On July 1 she sent you an email: LOVE YOU and MISS YOU BABY.... asking for money [ I'M (SHY) ] just seven minutes after sending the email to TJ ( HOPE YOU LIKE MY PICS. ), less than 48 hours after sleeping with me. I am guessing from the email's reply that you were a former BF at that time, and she was just trying to get money from you (she confirmed that two days ago in an IM), and it didn't work at that time. Since she is desparately trying to save our relationship (see attached STILLINLOVE), she's been lying less, fessing up more. This might be familiar. Again, 48 hours after sleeping with me:
"Hello Baby,Hope you are in a good health always. Im glad you did replied my letter. I was so worried you know. But thanks you let me know that you are ok. Thanks to God. I miss you a lot baby. I hope you do miss me too. Baby, just wanna ask if you are going to send me today as you know..hehhehe...(shy). but im worried about for my rental & food honestly as i dont have work as of now. I am also in need in school as our teacher never permit me not to have a fieldtrip. It is a must. She may failed me as it is our one requirements in going to different hospitals for a part of a training. Baby, i am so really worried.I dont know where i may able to ask help but you were the last chance & person that i could lean my problems.I am really in a big problem. I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH JOHN. I MISS YOU A LOT BABY!!!"
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Whats Love Anyway?
That's a tough break Rgbburn, I hope you can bounce back. I believe there are plenty of pinays willing to be totally devoted to THE ONE who can provide a good home for them (and send a little dough to her family).
I will take love of money over "pure love" any time. I think its very correct, even Darwinian for a girl to think first of a guy who can provide well for her. I don't know when this idea of being in "love" as the most important thing started.
I am going a marry a great girl soon. She is such a looker, I think a lot of guys passed on her, worried that she would not be true. I am sure she collected at least some money from guys she met online. She better not be doing it now! lol.
From my girl, I most expect, devotion, respect, obedience, and a cheerful disposition. If I don't get that, I will send her home. I expect I can provide for her well enough to keep her happy. If it's not enough for her, she can go. I'll have a pre-nup. No big deal. Until then, I will have a great girl who can help with my business and home. I'll just keep my bank account passwords protected!
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A sad but oft repeated tale...
Rgburn, thanks for sharing what has to be a painful experience. I wish you could share it more widely with the universe of men who are absolutely convinced that the women whom they've met on the Internet and to whom they're sending money are "different" from the ones in all the stories they've read. I belong to another (non-sex) board focused on life in the Philippines, and you might not believe the number of guys writing in about coming here to visit their "fiancees" whom they've never actually met, but to whom they've been sending money for months or even years. They're often perplexed as to why the girls' plans changed at the very last minute. It doesn't seem to matter how many guys (like me) who actually live here and who have witnessed similar situations for years, warn them. They're blinded by "love," and by the certainty that their girls are different. I guess as a gender we never learn.
This lady seems to have made a true art form out of the multiple-men scam. You've done a public service by exposing her for what she is.
GE
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Its because we want to believe
Luckily I live in Asia. And have pussy basically on tap.
But I know and have lived in small provincial towns on US, UK and that hithole Saudi Arabia. Where life can be very grey.
A cute hottie who promises a lot and looks the business. Heck whats a few bucks that we soon get sucked into. Then we need to continue the habit otherwise she might forsake us for another john.
Its all sad. Been going on forever.
But hey todays my lucky day. The Sapnish Lottery sent me an email sating Id just won 12 million Euros. And I never even bought a ticket.
Point being. Anything that looks too good to be true. USUALLY IS!
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Check-Mate...
[QUOTE=GoodEnough] They're blinded by "love," and by the certainty that their girls are different. I guess as a gender we never learn.
GE[/QUOTE]
It’s not the gender it’s the westerners. I don’t see Filipino men or Thai men going “goo- goo” over their own women like we do. No matter what they look like. I brought this up on the Filipina advice thread. No one responded. I wonder why? I have met Filipinas and Thai girls who in my eyes where beautiful enough to be models and they all had tales of how native guys from their respective countries fucked them and cast them aside. I think us westerners who come to third world countries with our over inflated wallets and “heads” could learn a lot from these guys.
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Don't forget that it cuts both ways
It seems hardly credible that guys are still getting sucked in by online dating site scammers. It seems that there is still one born every minute but that otherwise sensible people are willing to send money to girls they have not yet met (or have met only briefly) is ridiculous to the point of sublimity. So why do they do it? Is it forlorn hopelessness or lonely desperation? Or maybe soft hearted gullibility? Or is it in anticipation of repayment in sexual favors to come? Will someone please enlighten me? For anyone who has spent anytime reading reports on this forum, or similar sites particularly those that deal with The Philippines and Thailand, cannot have failed to have noted the numerous warnings and salutary stories that appear on a very regular basis. So maybe these men are car crashes waiting to happen anyway and have no one else to blame but themselves for their heedless blindness.
We must also be aware that it not only the girls who engage in scamming. What about the sexual scamming engaged in by guys? How often have we read and chuckled over, reports submitted on this board by members crowing over their successes on DIA and similar sites. And, yes, before I am accused of hypocrisy, I too have also indulged in this, but I will say that I have always made it clear, both in my pen picture and in pre-meet chat, that I am only interested in a purely casual relationship. But is everyone so honest? I think not and enticing a young and naïve girl to put out on a one nighter, in the anticipation of a prolonged relationship, is an even worse form of scamming than the financial kind. I get the impression from reading the many ‘no players’ (playboys) and other comments on Pinay PP’s, that this is not an uncommon occurrence.
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"where's my gift, hehehehe"/ I am shy to you"
"where's my gift, hehehehe"
I have gotten that at least 10 times the last couple of weeks from girls I have met to those that I can barely remember.
I have yet to come up with a a good response that indicates that I want to screw them, with out sounding like a total douche bag.
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My 3 week trip to the Phils in Dec2008
Hey guys,
I don't want to write 3-4 different reports in different sections so I'll summarize my trip in this section since you guys were so helpful and DIA worked so well. Quick background. I'm in my mid-30's, decent looking, but live in a small town where most of the girls are married by 25 so I hardly ever get laid. I wanted to go somewhere for 3 weeks for a mix of pro, semi-pro, and non-pro action. The perfect solution. The phils.
I added my profile to DIA 2 weeks prior to my trip. Put a nice photo on there and a nice sounding write-up. Omg, 2 weeks prior to a trip is plenty. I had hundreds of girls contact me. I'm serious. I didn't get any work done for those 2 weeks. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.
I spent 3 nights in Manila when I landed. Got my fix quick with a LA Cafe girl (see photo section). Second night met a nice 25 year old from DIA. Bit of a party girl but it made getting laid easy. I took her and her 2 cousins out to the Embassy Club. Cost me about 80 USD for the night but she rewarded me for the following 48 hours with non-stop sex. Great time. I told her I was flying to Cebu (white lie. Was heading up to AC first for 2 nights. LOL).
The first night there I went to Lollypop (see photo section) and picked up a tight little spinner. The second night I met a 19 year old girl from DIA. She said she was a student but obviously a semi-pro (or pro. Who knows). She looked a little young when she came over to my hotel (pacific breeze). No ID but she knew how to f*ck so I'm pretty sure she was at least 18. Great GFE for 24+ hours. Didn't ask for anything but I gave her 2000 PHP. She really deserved it after being such a great GFE (she pampered me non-stop).
Then I flew down to Cebu City. Met a chick there from DIA. Cute little 19 year old factory worker. Spent the next week with her (went to Dumaguette and Apo Island). Good times. But too young for anything serious. No pics of her b/c she's a nice girl. Went over to Bohol after. Met a cute single mother. Only 19. Couldn't even tell she had a kid. She needed the money so she was very willing to please. Again, a nice girl so I won't post pics.
Then back to Manila. Met another DIA girl at the last minute. Chatted with her on YM and met up with her and her friend. Took her to a club called Nirvana. Kind of a dumpy club but I got them both drunk after a few hours and a bottle of vodka (buy a full bottle when you take more than one girl to a club. It looks pimp, it's cheaper than a bunch of single drinks, plus it's a great way to get them drunk. LOL). Took them both home. Only shagged the one girl though. The hot girl turned out to be a pro and wanted money. Was tempted to go for the 3some but she wanted like 3000 PHP and she had a slightly bitchy attitude so I opted not to. Gave the friend 1000 PHP for the 'taxi' after the second shag in the morning. Probably didn't have to but whatever.
Anyways, to summarize. The Philippines is a guy's paradise. Beautiful islands, beatiful beaches, great scuba diving, friendly people, and the women there go bananas over white guys. You could easily do a trip without any P4P and get laid lots. But I had been deprived of sex for too long so I went hardcore. LOL. Anyways, I've been a lurker for a long time. I hope this report helps out some of you guys.
-ps- for those guys who are looking for a nice girl. Be very careful. The 19 year old factory worker seemed very genuine and nice for the week we were together. No red flags. 10 days after getting home she sends me the 'omg, my nephew is in the hospital email. ' Didn't see that coming at all. I guess the ultimate red-flag test is time. Even the best scammers will crack eventually.
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"Where's my gift?" Reply.."in my pants"
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Dragonladies...
[QUOTE=Seafish57][url]http://dragonladies.org/[/url][/QUOTE]
Seafish, thanks for that. Have just posted there.
Gents, thanks for all the advice and thoughts. In addition to hearing from the angry scammed guys, I've gotten emails from several pinays who are strangers to me but who got a copy of the email from somebody or other (part of which is quoted in a report below). Of the 4 pinays responding, all know Nichie, and 3 live in Surigao City. All are unsympathetic towards Nichie. This is life.
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Wow!
Wow, if you guys have not checked out that dragonladies site, the stuff is sobering at best. As for the online scammers and beggars, I always wondered what happened to those flower girls when they grow up. Guess they grow up and learn to use the computer.
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Beggars
Over the weekend I received seven, yes, count them, 7 instant messages asking for money. These little mosquitos are becoming more than a nuisance. If you hear the word "problem" you know that a request for money will follow. Its also obvious that my yahoo ID has been passed around. These girls are networking. Some of them I have only spoken to once or twice but they unashamedly ask for money. One's internet was going to be turned off within hours on Saturday if I didn't immediately send her 1,000 pesos. She was online on Sunday. Nope, I didn't send her a single penny.
Perhaps a beggars and scammers thread should be started.
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[QUOTE=Darcnite14]Hey Guys,
I just joined DIA 10 days ago. I have met 2 pinays and 2 Thai that seem to be on the level, the youngest being 28. I have had my share already of the little scammers that have no problem and waste no time attempting to seperate me from my money. I want to share another concern. When I am logged on to my yahoo account, even when I am in the invisible mode, I get these uninvited I'm's. When I ask them how did they get my information, they always say that they got it from DIA. Then before I hit the ignore button, they ask my a/s/l. I ask them why do they not have these facts if they read my profile. Now the funny thing about this story is that My yahoo ID is not the same as my DIA ID, and all of the contacts claimming to be women all say that they were born in other countries, for some strange reason end up in Ghana Africa. Has anyone else experienced this same situation?[/QUOTE]
I get the "I'm American (or British) but living in Ghana" IM's quite often. I usually play along with them until they try to make me believe that line. Then I don't hesitate to hit the ignore button and report is as SPAM. I do the same with girls that start asking me to send them money. I don't know how these "Ghana" girls know when I'm online. But I really wish that the folks at Yahoo would do something about it. Of course, I guess the simplest solution would be to quit using YM. But then what would I do with all my spare time outside of the Philippines? :D
HW
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Dragon-ladies...Scammed Sponsors Fight Back
Rgbburn....that website is priceless. Wow!
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]Perhaps a beggars and scammers thread should be started.[/QUOTE]
hahahahah.....
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]It’s not the gender it’s the westerners. I don’t see Filipino men or Thai men going “goo- goo” over their own women like we do. No matter what they look like. I brought this up on the Filipina advice thread. No one responded. I wonder why? I have met Filipinas and Thai girls who in my eyes where beautiful enough to be models and they all had tales of how native guys from their respective countries fucked them and cast them aside. I think us westerners who come to third world countries with our over inflated wallets and “heads” could learn a lot from these guys.[/QUOTE]
Perhaps true freedom comes from fucking a beautiful woman and casting her aside. The more one values something the more power it has over you. Maybe by placing a low value on beauty these men challenge their women to bring more than a pretty face to the table. In the West a pretty face, slender body and a pussy is pretty much all that is needed to guarantee a life of relative luxury. Thank goodness the men from the East exercise more pragmatism in this regard or else the whole world would be like the West.
The Thai and Filipino men have learned to see women and their purpose from a practical point of view. Therefore they do not dote over them or shower them with money and attention. Some mongers, like That Asshole, eventually learn the ways of the Eastern men after years of experience in the hobby.
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Money Requests and Filipino Reality
Here is a quote from Richard:
"-ps- for those guys who are looking for a nice girl. Be very careful. The 19 year old factory worker seemed very genuine and nice for the week we were together. No red flags. 10 days after getting home she sends me the 'omg, my nephew is in the hospital email. ' Didn't see that coming at all. I guess the ultimate red-flag test is time. Even the best scammers will crack eventually."
I think the girl here in question may very well be genuine and not a scammer. This is the reality of marrying a Filipina. Someone in the province dies, and they need money for a burial, a young niece gets taken to the hospital, grandparents need money for seed rice, a nephew is starting school, etc. I've been married to a Filipina and all of these are real crises. No one in the family has money, so where do they go when crisis strikes? You.
If the girl in the above quote was genuine in her affections, and there was a real connection, she will turn to you. This is how Filipinos operate.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]Perhaps true freedom comes from fucking a beautiful woman and casting her aside. The more one values something the more power it has over you. Maybe by placing a low value on beauty these men challenge their women to bring more than a pretty face to the table. In the West a pretty face, slender body and a pussy is pretty much all that is needed to guarantee a life of relative luxury. Thank goodness the men from the East exercise more pragmatism in this regard or else the whole world would be like the West.
The Thai and Filipino men have learned to see women and their purpose from a practical point of view. Therefore they do not dote over them or shower them with money and attention. Some mongers, like That Asshole, eventually learn the ways of the Eastern men after years of experience in the hobby.[/QUOTE]Wow Chocha Monger. You make a lotof sense here. I suppose that makes me a bad person for believing it. We have been brainwashed her in the USA.
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Lets See More Pics
[QUOTE=Rgbburn]DW, HW, others. As an aside from my former fiancee's scamming, I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met.[/QUOTE]
Hey Rgburn, as long as you are getting revenge, lets see the nakes!
I know if my girl leaves me, I will have enough material to start my own porn site..and a model release from her! lol
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The Bus Stops Here...Welcome CM
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]Perhaps true freedom comes from fucking a beautiful woman and casting her aside. The more one values something the more power it has over you. Maybe by placing a low value on beauty these men challenge their women to bring more than a pretty face to the table. In the West a pretty face, slender body and a pussy is pretty much all that is needed to guarantee a life of relative luxury. Thank goodness the men from the East exercise more pragmatism in this regard or else the whole world would be like the West.
The Thai and Filipino men have learned to see women and their purpose from a practical point of view. Therefore they do not dote over them or shower them with money and attention. Some mongers, like That Asshole, eventually learn the ways of the Eastern men after years of experience in the hobby.[/QUOTE]
CM glad to see you here on this thread you always respond with insightful posts taking us deep into the human psyche. I am not saying we should be a "dick" to the ladies but the bus has to stop somewhere.
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Me too
[QUOTE=Mr Hawaii]"Where's my gift?" Reply.."in my pants"[/QUOTE]I've used that line very often. And God bless some of them. They don't know what we mean. One even put her hand in my pants packet one day and said she was looking for the gift. Said she didn't feel anything. Then she did. Then she went red. (as red as a brown gal can do). Then she got very shy and realised what I meant. She didn't return my calls therafter. Hahahahah.
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MD ranting
[QUOTE=SergeantRay]I think the girl here in question may very well be genuine and not a scammer. This is the reality of marrying a Filipina. Someone in the province dies, and they need money for a burial, a young niece gets taken to the hospital, grandparents need money for seed rice, a nephew is starting school, etc. I've been married to a Filipina and all of these are real crises. No one in the family has money, so where do they go when crisis strikes? You.
If the girl in the above quote was genuine in her affections, and there was a real connection, she will turn to you. This is how Filipinos operate.[/QUOTE]
So what did they do before you came along? Not bury the dead or go to the hospital? Where does all that rice come from if Kano is not there to pay for it?
My Filipina friend who is an MD, born in PI but raised in Guam, absolutely refuses to send money to PI. She told me she gets requests for money from family members she doesn't even know. She also refuses to go there anymore because when she did go to visit family, she says she came home with an empty suitcase and just the clothes on her back. Her mother and father still live in Guam and her mother works a factory job to send money back to PI. Even though the grandparents are both dead, they send money to nieces and nephews. The family even asks the parents to ask Jen (MD) because they are too shame to ask outright for money.
It is always interesting to hear her point of view on the subject because she gets down right pissed about her own family. Her point to me was, "I worked hard to get where I am. I had to sacrifice. I earned this myself. Why should I give to people who are lazy and don't work?" (I think she was ranting at this point as she had a beer in her.)
Guilt is a powerful thing, but not if you don't let it be.
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Revenge...
[QUOTE=Jambo]Hey Rgburn, as long as you are getting revenge, lets see the nakes!
I know if my girl leaves me, I will have enough material to start my own porn site..and a model release from her! lol[/QUOTE]
Jambo, I've gotten enough revenge the last 10 days. She's outed on this forum, and two scammer websites. I've got the goods you mentioned, but am not wanting to stoop quite that low. Letting the world know what she's been up to is plenty. And maybe a trip to AC soon.....
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Filipino Handouts
[QUOTE=Carmex]So what did they do before you came along? Not bury the dead or go to the hospital? Where does all that rice come from if Kano is not there to pay for it?
My Filipina friend who is an MD, born in PI but raised in Guam, absolutely refuses to send money to PI. She told me she gets requests for money from family members she doesn't even know. She also refuses to go there anymore because when she did go to visit family, she says she came home with an empty suitcase and just the clothes on her back. Her mother and father still live in Guam and her mother works a factory job to send money back to PI. Even though the grandparents are both dead, they send money to nieces and nephews. The family even asks the parents to ask Jen (MD) because they are too shame to ask outright for money.
It is always interesting to hear her point of view on the subject because she gets down right pissed about her own family. Her point to me was, "I worked hard to get where I am. I had to sacrifice. I earned this myself. Why should I give to people who are lazy and don't work?" (I think she was ranting at this point as she had a beer in her.)
Guilt is a powerful thing, but not if you don't let it be.[/QUOTE]
Carmex,
Your point is well taken. I am not suggesting that Richard should send money to the Philippines. The possibility exists that the nephew in the hospital is a con attempt. I'm just saying that a request for money in this sort of circumstance is typical of the way Filipinos operate.
I remember the Wowowee episodes that were filmed in the US. One Filipina here in America was practically in tears as she pleaded with people back home to understand the difficulties she faced (she was working as a maid at a hotel). She was avalanched with money requests that she just couldn't meet.
The larger question is whether the Filipino system of borrowing from extended relations (blood relatives, neighbors, godparents, etc.) is a necessary socio-economic safety net, a cultural plague that encourages leeches, or both. I think foreigners need to be aware of this dynamic, especially if they plan on marrying a Filipina.
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I'd love to know how I got so lucky
Am a serial player, by my own confession and seem to find great girls whom I never spend much on, but they still seem happy to meet me regularly. Ok. Self glorification time over. The point is I met one gal thru a site as we all do.
Eventually she took a bus to meet me, we met had sex. Repeated this a few times with a few variations. Sometimes we would stay in a hotel, sometimes would only meet for an hour or two etc.
She doesn't work, has a kid, the kids father sends her US$200 per month which she basically lives on. She has a really old phone and almost orgasmed when I gave her some old novels so now she can fill her days better. She goes onlnie one hour a day to chat with me as thats all she can afford.
Her bus fare to meet me is P400 round trip and I happily reimburse that.
Been doing this for 8 months now. But not once has she ever given me the " daughter sick no medicine" " no electricity in house as bill not paid etc". Shes a really nice gal, wouldn't know how to scam (ok she would but hasnt) and has very high principles. Its really amazing. Shes knows she could go to Angeles and make lots money. But principles won't let her. At this point I'm figuring I'm damned lucky. And if we only meet for a short time on each trip it allows me to play with others. Of course I slip her the odd P1000 bill now and again but thats because I want to and not because its expected.
Lifes good!
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[QUOTE=Carmex] .. She also refuses to go there anymore because when she did go to visit family, she says she came home with an empty suitcase and just the clothes on her back.
Guilt is a powerful thing, but not if you don't let it be.[/QUOTE]
Hit it in one C. Back to utang loob again. Ever wondered why, when Filipina's are travelling by air, they take not just the kitchen sink, but the entire kitchen as well? Now you know.
My wife thinks its a mortal sin to travel with one ounce less than check-in allowance (and often much more - spent a small fortune on excess baggage over the years). This used to work both ways as well. Travelling out to The Philippines it was gifts/clothes etc for the extended Barangay family. Coming back it was Philippine foodstuffs etc for expat Filipino friends.
Ever wondered how a pack mule feels. I know. GH
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[QUOTE=SergeantRay]The larger question is whether the Filipino system of borrowing from extended relations (blood relatives, neighbors, godparents, etc.) is a necessary socio-economic safety net, a cultural plague that encourages leeches, or both. I think foreigners need to be aware of this dynamic, especially if they plan on marrying a Filipina.[/QUOTE]
I learned a good deal about what seems to be the Pinay attitude from my Filipina girlfriend while she was working abroad. She would tell me things (probably not everything) that her friends would say to her when they found out she and I were together. Most of the time, it was "get money from him," or "tell him to buy you lots of expensive things." Some of them went as far as telling her to take advantage of me, and find other guys to take advantage of at the same time. I don't believe that she followed their advice, because she never tried to get excessive amounts of money, or expensive items from me. In fact, she refused to take money that I offered to her for living expenses when she returned to Phils.
My point is, this seems to be the prevalent way of thinking for Filipinas when their Filipino family member or friend gets romantically involved with a foreign man. Most Filipinos see us as being extremely rich, and ready to hand over what to them amounts to very small portions of our fortune. They never once stop to consider the fact that while we might make as much in one month as they do in six months, our cost of living in the west is much higher than in Phils.
HW
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Utang Na Loob
An interesting discussion about a subject that I think no Westerner will ever understand. Having been here for more than five years now, I know I don't and the more I see the less I seem to understand. My take on this entire thing is that I would never get involved with a Filipina who felt some sort of obligation to "help" her family with my money. It would be a no-go from the start.
I'm fortunate, in that my asawa feels no obligation toward relatives, extended relatives, neighborhood acquaintances or anyone from her former life and turns a cold, unambivalent shoulder toward all such requests. Her attitude is pretty much summed up by the "What the hell did you ever do for me when I needed help?" perspective, and I applaud it. Remember that these "desperate" relatives, friends, acquaintances, sycophants and parasites are all talking behind her back about your relationship no matter what she does, since that's pretty much the way things work here.
In my view, if you don't mind spending a little money to help someone, help some kids go to school who could not otherwise afford to do so. At least the kids are always blameless and may be able to derive some real benefit from the money you spend. Remember too that the family managed to survive before you came along and it will continue to do so whether you're there or not.
The whole concept of "utang na loob" is, as far as I'm concerned, a bunch of pap fed by parents to children to ensure that the parents will be taken care of in their old age--the more kids, the more economic security for the parents and the less they'll have to exert themselves. Funny that the parents seem to have no reciprocal obligations to the kids regarding education, decent nutrition or much of anything else.
GE
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Eight In A Row
The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.
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Bleeding Heart Board Members...
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.[/QUOTE]
Be careful guys some board members don’t like you talking bad about the girls too much for example.
[QUOTE=Robbaf]Wow, DW, I find myself wondering why you are a member of this site. All you do is wine and tell how bad the ladies are. Just wondering why are you here on ISG?
Not trying to start a war, just asking?
Thanks
Robb[/QUOTE]
I rest my case.
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So much wasted breath ....
Much as I applaud Rgbburn for his honesty and understand his desire for revenge on the girl that strung him along, at the end of the day, it serves mainly as a cathartic emotional vent for him rather than as a timely warning for the rest of the forum. For either you get it, develop it from bitter experience or it will always be lost on you. What is 'it'? It is that you must assume that a Filipina is not telling the truth if her lips are moving. That might sound cynical but I assure you that I have had 25 years of exposure to Pinays and Thai's (same general mindset), so have had plenty of time and experience to form my opinions. I refer specifically, of course, to P4P girls met in bars or girls who are selling themselves in a slightly diferrent way in online chat rooms or dating sites. For they are not animated, cuddly, brainless sex toys (amazing how many guys view them in this light) but are canny, cunning schemers with an agenda of their own in which you are seen merely as their walking ATM machine to fund their escape plans. The sooner guys realize this and plan accordingly, the better it will be for their emotional and financial health.
So until men stop being led by that little deceiver tucked in their own pants (probably never), they will continue to fall for the line of that lovely asian femme fatale deceiver whose pants they are just itching to get into. Rggburns girl will, no doubt, easily find other suckers to con, for, as they say, and never was it more true, there is one born every minute. And members on forums like this will continue to bump their gums as to the wicked, scheming, deceitful ways of these girls. And Eve tempted Adam and blah, blah, sermonise, blah. And fools will continue falling for tired, old lines that they don't really believe.
And so the cycle continues, ad infinitum.
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So many women
in the RP, and I fail to understand how the guys end up with the scammers.
OK - a few has asked me for gifts and money, especially now that it is Christmas, but overall - I dont find this as a problem.
During my, about 15 years, visits to the country I have mainly good memories from being with the ladies that love sex and cuddling more than any other ladies on this planet.
Happy New Year Gentlemen, and I hope you all will be able to get in to more panties of the yummy ladies of this beautiful country. I just love it when here. Masarap :)
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Utang na loob, debt of the heart, its pinoys family safety-net for when one does good, but it always seems to be one way traffic and never reciprocated.
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agreed
Met five, talked on the phone to another five chat friends in the last week. Two ended up in my bed - one an old contact from CB and a new one from DIA. None asked for anything. Of a dozen others I chatted with online, I think one hinted about money and two asked for a Christmas present.
I wonder if it is how we define "scam" that is causing these wide fluctuations in actual experiences. Who knows.
On the other had, I overheard a conversation at breakfast here in Cebu where a guy was telling a gal about the "rocks" he had bought as an investment.Now maybe that is his bait, or maybe he's just a fool, but I guess he'll attract more golddiggers that cheapskate, horndogs like myself.
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[QUOTE=Marconista]in the RP, and I fail to understand how the guys end up with the scammers.
OK - a few has asked me for gifts and money, especially now that it is Christmas, but overall - I dont find this as a problem.
During my, about 15 years, visits to the country I have mainly good memories from being with the ladies that love sex and cuddling more than any other ladies on this planet.
Happy New Year Gentlemen, and I hope you all will be able to get in to more panties of the yummy ladies of this beautiful country. I just love it when here. Masarap :)[/QUOTE]
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Showing A Little Seasonal Goodwill
Happy New Year!
It is the time for a bit of seasonal goodwill and some of my chat-mates have exposed just a little more of themselves. This is not easy to do in open internet café sessions, but where there is a will there is a way! Apparently it is now hard to find private rooms in internet cafes these days (have they been banned?).
Here are a few random screen captures in recent weeks involving 5 different girls. The quality is mixed; there are some real crappy vid cams out there. In open session these chat-mates have used a little bit of café dexterity and shown what they promise will be much more when we meet. We will see what eventuates in 2009!
We have had a few recent Filipina con stories in this forum, but in my experience the good far outweighs the bad. And where else can you get such loving and sex-charged, English-speaking, young ones?
KongKing
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Some filipinas lacking manners
I just finished one of the worst YM sessions I have ever had. This little ***** came online, and started a chat with me by accusing me of being some lier that she had previously chatted with! This is a filipina that I met through Tagged (foxie_juliane18) and have only exchanged a couple of quick messages with her on that site previously. She kept asking "how's that?" at the beginning of the chat session. Eventually, I figured out that she meant "who's that?" So I tried explaining to her where we met, and who I was. She kept insisting that I was some guy that told her he was in Saipan. When I continued to explain who I am, and about my Tagged profile, she came back with the following comments:
[i]foxie_juliane18 (3:59:44 PM): i cant remember people in tagged i just add them
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:29 PM): ok
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:38 PM): i just maybe cant remember
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:52 PM): i chat to lots of people
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:54 PM): hehehe
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:03 PM): cant remember names only pictures
ME (4:01:11 PM): I think I added you around the end of October.
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:28 PM): i told you i cant remember that
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:35 PM): i just add people there
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:52 PM): and im not always using that account
ME (4:02:11 PM): My Tagged profile pic shows only *******************
foxie_juliane18 (4:02:36 PM): why do you keep on telling me that?
ME (4:03:23 PM): I just want you to know that it is really me, and not some lier.
ME (4:03:37 PM): Are you really upset to somebody now?
foxie_juliane18 (4:05:42 PM): yah definetly
foxie_juliane18 (4:05:51 PM): im chating with him right now
ME (4:05:58 PM): Why are you taking it out on me?
foxie_juliane18 (4:06:10 PM): you are that person
foxie_juliane18 (4:06:13 PM): ok
ME (4:06:21 PM): What did I do to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] you off?
foxie_juliane18 (4:06:27 PM): i dont want to here who you are in tagged
ME (4:06:52 PM): I told you already.
ME (4:07:01 PM): Why are you upset to me?
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:09 PM): i dont want to here who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:17 PM): i dont want to hear who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:17 PM): i dont want to hear who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:18 PM): i dont want to hear who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:19 PM): ok
ME (4:07:27 PM): OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:47 PM): if you want to chat lets chat if you want to tell your profile on tagged then dont message me again
foxie_juliane18 (4:08:02 PM): and thanks for making my year really [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off
foxie_juliane18 (4:08:03 PM): thanks
foxie_juliane18 (4:08:07 PM): X-(
ME (4:08:38 PM): YOU ARE THE ONE THAT STARTED THIS FUCKING CHAT BY TELLING ME THAT I AM A LIER!!!!
foxie_juliane18 (4:10:26 PM): bye
foxie_juliane18 (4:10:31 PM): asshole
ME (4:11:08 PM): FUCK OFF LITTLE *****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/i]
Where do these little *****s get off conducting a chat like that? Didn't anyone ever teach them manners?
I've had some that have asked me to send them money also. I used to try to make an excuse to them for why I didn't have enough money to do that. Now I just tell them "NO!" If they keep on asking, I simply delete them from my friends list, and add them to the ignore list.
I know there are many good women to be found in the Philippines. Unfortunately the ones like this tend to give all the rest a very bad reputation among people that don't know any better.
HW
Oh, and before I forget, Happy New Year!!!!!!! Now let's all go find some [b]pussy[/b]!!!!! :D
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Momma Busts Daughter
I just had a mother come online who apparently got her daughter's ID and password asking me how often I chat with her daugher, what we talk about and whether we have "open" discussions. The old battle ax even wanted to see me on cam. Told her I was in my office and did not have cam there.
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mother and daughter
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]I just had a mother come online who apparently got her daughter's ID and password asking me how often I chat with her daugher, what we talk about and whether we have "open" discussions. The old battle ax even wanted to see me on cam. Told her I was in my office and did not have cam there.[/QUOTE]If the mother is hot like the daughter. Go for a threesome! : P maybe the old battle ax is just jealous. Haha
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[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]I just finished one of the worst YM sessions I have ever had......I've had some that have asked me to send them money also. I used to try to make an excuse to them for why I didn't have enough money to do that. Now I just tell them "NO!" If they keep on asking, I simply delete them from my friends list, and add them to the ignore list.
I know there are many good women to be found in the Philippines. Unfortunately the ones like this tend to give all the rest a very bad reputation among people that don't know any better.
HW
Oh, and before I forget, Happy New Year!!!!!!! Now let's all go find some [b]pussy[/b]!!!!! :D[/QUOTE]
Honestly, with all respect for all human beings from those as us who pays to enjoy sex with a nice girl, to a nice girl that sells her body to make ends meet, I would not bother much into extending the conversation as you did.
probabloy the first lines would have been the signal to cut it off and call it a day.
Not worth the hassle.
Whatever the reasons she had to behave like that.
It is true politeness can't be bought at the local market, but this means it is also free.
If she does not have it, no money will buy it.
No reason to ask why there are girls asking for money, why there are girls behaving liket this.
It is a 0.0001% of the world population.... make a living out of it and progress to the next more reasonable beauty.
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A Con Job?
I have just posted some chat and show pics (see my posting below) from a few of my chat mates who promise me a very happy time when we meet in the New Year.
One I am less certain about. I will call her Daisy from Davao, a 23 year old mother. She initiated a DateInAsia chat which led to a sharing of our Yahoo addresses. But before we had our first cam chat (I always like to see them on cam) I received this email:
[i]Hi loverboy,
Im Funny, have sense of humor and im open minded too..
Aside from that im willing to be your lover and we having a lots of fun. Theres a lot of tourist spots here in davao city a lots of beaches and mountains you can see, but Im sure if you are with me, you will like to explore me than those tourist spots here.. [inserted at this point a few tongue hanging out and wink-wink icons]
Im easy to talk and little bit hot.... in bed.. hehehe
This is my latest picture. I hope you will like to lick it..[clothed pic of her sitting on a park bench]
You ask me if we can be together.. For me theres no impossible if we want it.. Hope to hear from you soon..
Your hot babe
Daisy[/i]
Of course I gave a sufficiently encouraging response which led to our first cam Yahoo chat in which, more or less unprovoked, she revealed her upper chassis and nice it was too. It kept me busy for a while using SnapIt screen captures! (see two pics attached) I never had someone do that before on a first cam chat. Too good to be true? Probably. A few days later I received this email:
[i]Hi,
My daughter shes not fine the doctor said she have dengue fever and its very dangerous to her because her platelets very down. Shes really weak now and im worried for her. I know that we only known for each other for few days. I ask help to you for my daughter she really need white blood to transfer to her that her platelets will go back to normal. And she will not in danger and the white blood transfer to her. I really need 5000 pesos for 2 bags. Can you please help me.
I know its not good im asking help to you bcoz you dont know me very well but for me its hard also to ask help like a beggar, but im doing this for the seek of my daughter. I know you will not think not good for me. But i will understand that. Im just try to ask help to you. Im just disperate now. Bcoz my sister in china cant help my problem. I know its my obligation. But im still hoping that maybe you can help my problem. I hope you understand me. Just in case you want to help me i will give you my address.
(address given)
Im just here to send you this message. I will go back to hospital now.[/i]
This is the first time I have had a situation where she shows it for free and then subsequently seeks money. I have had a few situations where obvious cam girls want to show it all but “send me money so I can buy a cam”. They get the “delete” treatment.
After one or two previously hard-learnt experiences of being well conned (exceeded by many fine examples reported by others on this web site) I now have a policy of ignoring/deleting all requests for money and hard-up stories. And I have done that, but still have that sneaking feeling: I wonder if her story is true? Maybe if I do have a spare afternoon when next in Davao I might give her a call (I have her number) and check her out, and see if there is more chassis to be revealed.
KongKing
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[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.[/QUOTE]
I rarely get requests like that. Do you have your IM address in your profile, so that anyone can IM you without you screening them?
Normally after I ask them them "how are you" if they answer anything other than good, fine, ect., I politely tell them I have to get back to work because I know a long, boring story it about to be told to me, followed by a money request.
CB is very good in screening out the scamers, but you have to pay for the service and it takes longer to exchange IM information.
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[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.[/QUOTE][b]Puerto La Cruz,[/b]
I have been on FH for the last 5 months, chatted with around one hundred girls from FH with only one outright request for money. She only asked me for cash once I added her to my YM and she gave some form sob-story and I told her that I did not have a credit card. She then asked me to Western Union her the cash, LOL. I told her I could mail it instead and she was all too happy to provide me with an address in Cebu. She asked when I would send the cash. I told her that I would send it soon and that it would depend on the Postal System when the package would arrive. Of course I never sent the money and deleted her from both my FH and YM. I know, I know, bad StrokerAce but this grasshopper has been well schooled by lurking on ISG for awhile and soaking in alot of wisdom passed down from the many members that have been so kind to enlighten the masses.
I have however come across a few working cam girls that had pics on FH that looked too good to be true, very professional lifted pics (just my guess). A few sob chats with girls that mentioned any one of these lines, "my mom is sick, my sister is sick, my dog is sick, my wallet is very sick". LOL. Well you get the point, but they never actually asked for cash, which I considered odd.
But all-in-all a pretty tame and rewarding experience on FH. I did however put several disclaimers in my profile like "No pic=no chat, no women over 35, no ladyboys". That seems to have kept away the scammers.
I do however have a question.
I have had a few requests for "chocolates" when I visit, so this has me scratching my head. What kind of chocolates are they talking about? To me here in North America chocolates are something that comes in a box and has alot of small chocolates inside, but awhile back I remember reading on ISG a few posts about bars of chocolate the PI girls preferred more.
Can someone clear this up and tell me what the chocolate situation is like in the PI? I will be in Bangkok before my trip to the PI in late January and I was just going to pick up a couple of boxes in Bangkok for a few of my favorite FH girls that I will meet, or can I buy the chocolates in the PI and save myself some weight in my bags? Brands and-or bars versus boxes would be good to know.
Thanks
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[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]I just had a mother come online who apparently got her daughter's ID and password asking me how often I chat with her daugher, what we talk about and whether we have "open" discussions. The old battle ax even wanted to see me on cam. Told her I was in my office and did not have cam there.[/QUOTE][b]Puerto La Cruz,[/b]
I had a very simillar thing happen to me on FH a few months back.
In my profile I state that I am looking for a GF only when I visit the PI and one day this cute young girl I will call "R" Pm's me on FH looking to chat. I accept her invite and we start to chat. I ask her if she has read my profile and she says no. (Why is it that it seems all the girls do not even bother to read the profiles, sad really but I digress).
She goes off and reads my profile while I wait. R comes back and we continue chatting and I ask her if she was ok with what she read on my profile and if she understood that I was only looking for a GF. R says she is ok and we continue to chat for the next 15 minutes or so then I tell her I have to go. We say goodbye and that was that, or so I thought.
R sends me 4 or 5 emails on FH within the preceding 24 hours each one more excited than the previous one. They all contain things like, "I told my parents about you, they are so happy", "My parents can't wait to meet you", "My mom wants you to come stay at our house when you visit".
It took me a few minutes to put together that she thought I had asked her to become my GF. Which I did not, but I can see how things might have been confusing to her.
I sent her an email in which I clearly stated that we were not BF-GF and that she seemed nice but for her not to get the wrong idea.
A few days later I saw that she was on FH once again and Pm'ed her to explain the mess, but I was shocked by the response. It seems R gave her Mom the ID and password to her FH profile so that her Mom could respond to emails while R was at school. WOW, this I did not expect. So I chatted with her mom and she seemed nice and unphased by the fact her 19yr old daughter was chatting with men twice her age. I thanked her for the offer for me to stay at her house and then she informed me she would tell R that I had something to talk with her about.
I chatted with R that same day and everything got straightened out, but it kind of freaked me out somewhat.
A few days later we chatted again and R accepted the offer to join my YM and R happened to be in a cafe so she turned on the cam and the first thing I see is R, and her Mom standing beside her. Her mom seemed to be telling R what to say and what to do and I just could not help but feel strange.
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A Con Job?
WOW, that's quite a setup she crafted, Kong. When I hear the hospital payment request, I'll usually mess with their heads by telling them I'll wire the money directly to the hospital. Usually, they'll suffer a two second whiplash thinking the money is going to the wrong hands :D then the BS really starts piling up requiring hip-waders.
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[QUOTE=KongKing] And I have done that, but still have that sneaking feeling: I wonder if her story is true? Maybe if I do have a spare afternoon when next in Davao I might give her a call (I have her number) and check her out, and see if there is more chassis to be revealed.
KongKing[/QUOTE]This is a scam at 99% probability, she got you hooked and now tries to milk you ....
Actually, if i was you, I'd like to see her anyway to milk her and suck on her VERY NICE tits ;)
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Nice rack KongKing...
. But hardly worth the 5000 she is asking for a peak. But if shes a ho on the cam she might as well be a ho for real so give her the old stall stories and then let it amount to "well, I'll just give it to you in two weeks when we meet" next time you head down to your old hunting grounds.
Love that one about wiring directly to the hospital. Got to use that one. :.D I frequently wind the girls up.computers getting trapped in customs. Money transfers bouncing. Mobile phones disappearing. The stupidity of my stories about why those precious gifts never arrives are only challenged by the air heads believing them.
But I also fell in the trap once. The most stupid thing I did was to send a girl 5000 peso for 5 fucks. The real reason was her tuition but my condition was 5000 if she "visit" me 5 times before school. I met her three times on various occasions prior to this transfer but either I had company or was going to some place. She is indeed pretty, and she is indeed a first class bullshitter. I don't think I will ever cash in on that promise, but I guess I'll find out in some weeks. If I am lucky this little sweet girl will consider me her "only true love" that week and spread her little tight pretty fanny for me. If not, I can stop waisting my precious hours in Davao hunting for something I will never get. I already wasted enough hours on her, but it's like she put a spell on my little head. Her latest act is that she rubs her tummy and says "aiaiaiai honey, I am so hungry. Please can you help me with some food". She is the worst actress. I told her that she will never win an Oscar on that. "More passion baby. More emotions, and someone might believe you". And I naturally also response "Yea sure baby, just go to my buddy X and he will feed you on my tab. ".
This money begging is a part of some wealth redistribution plan we are part of.
Some guys give frequently. Makes them feel like a man. Like a provider. The hunter that return with todays prey. Sad loosers in my opinion.
Id rather the go to asianbabecams.com and have some cutie push a rubber dildo up her fanny. Or just save the money.
Kong, do report on the outcome of this dramatic event. You are actually suddenly in the middle of saving a childs life here.
All the best from Barba!
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Individual Choices
I suppose that each of us must make an individual decision about whether or not to send money, which will depend, on a large extent, to the credibility of the stories told and perhaps on whether one has actually spent time here. Chatting on FH or DIA or other sites is no longer a concern of mine, but when it was, my rule was never, under any circumstances to send money and to assume that all stories were fabrications at worst or at best exaggerations. This is probably overly harsh, since some of the sad tales are probably true. But I guess I've witnessed too much since I've been here, and I now realize that, for many girls, scamming foreigners is a true art form. The practice is so prevalent that for me, it would be impossible to distill the truth from the larger universe of fiction, so I would choose not to believe any of it.
GE
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[QUOTE=KongKing]One I am less certain about. I will call her Daisy from Davao, a 23 year old mother. She initiated a DateInAsia chat which led to a sharing of our Yahoo addresses. But before we had our first cam chat (I always like to see them on cam) I received this email:
[i]Hi loverboy,
I'm Funny, have sense of humor and I'm open minded too.
Aside from that I'm willing to be your lover and we having a lots of fun. Theres a lot of tourist spots here in davao city a lots of beaches and mountains you can see, but I'm sure if you are with me, you will like to explore me than those tourist spots here. [inserted at this point a few tongue hanging out and wink-wink icons] I'm easy to talk and little bit hot. In bed. Hehehe
This is my latest picture. I hope you will like to lick it. [clothed pic of her sitting on a park bench
You ask me if we can be together. For me theres no impossible if we want it. Hope to hear from you soon.
Your hot babe
Daisy[/i] Of course I gave a sufficiently encouraging response which led to our first cam Yahoo chat in which, more or less unprovoked, she revealed her upper chassis and nice it was too. A few days later I received this email:
[i]Hi,
My daughter shes not fine the doctor said she have dengue fever and its very dangerous to her because her platelets very down. Shes really weak now and I'm worried for her. I know that we only known for each other for few days. I ask help to you for my daughter she really need white blood to transfer to her that her platelets will go back to normal. And she will not in danger and the white blood transfer to her. I really need 5000 pesos for 2 bags. Can you please help me. I know its not good I'm asking help to you bcoz you don't know me very well but for me its hard also to ask help like a beggar, but I'm doing this for the seek of my daughter. I know you will not think not good for me. But I will understand that. I'm just try to ask help to you. I'm just disperate now. Bcoz my sister in China can't help my problem. I know its my obligation. But I'm still hoping that maybe you can help my problem. I hope you understand me. Just in case you want to help me I will give you my address.
(address given)
I'm just here to send you this message. I will go back to hospital now. [/i]
This is the first time I have had a situation where she shows it for free and then subsequently seeks money.
KongKing[/QUOTE]I could be wrong, but those tits look like they may be implants (perhaps a tit expert can weigh in). If so, this would likely make her a pro and explain why she was so forward.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Am a serial player, by my own confession and seem to find great girls whom I never spend much on, but they still seem happy to meet me regularly.
Lifes good![/QUOTE]Yeah FF you are not alone, i have many experiences like that. Over on the AC board I just finished readig the umpteenth story about runners. I've never had a runner. The last BF I had in AC would not take a tip in the morning & happy to repeat for 3 more days also with no tip.
I have regular GF's same deal, dont bleed me for money. Only occasional hint about needs.
Im sure there are many guys like us.
Cheers
AV
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]The whole concept of "utang na loob" is, as far as I'm concerned, a bunch of pap fed by parents to children to ensure that the parents will be taken care of in their old age--the more kids, the more economic security for the parents and the less they'll have to exert themselves. Funny that the parents seem to have no reciprocal obligations to the kids regarding education, decent nutrition or much of anything else.
GE[/QUOTE]My god you are so right GE.
I tell you a little story. A few months ago my asawa got into an argument with me over money (at this point she had no evidence of sexual wrong doing on m part mind you). Any way to cut a long story short she incorrectly calculated that she could be boss & blackmail me into unwise financial decisions. When I called her bluff & let her know that when push comes to shove I have the final say on finances. Her response was to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off & disappear. She took my little boy with her which was very hurtful.
I got angry calls from cousins & after explaining what happened, they quickly sided with me & became to angry at her.
When I talked with them it was clear that their number one concern was loss of children <=> loss of provider in your dotage. That was their big concern.. nothing else came close.
As a side note, shortly after her disappearing act it became clear she had swiped my cell phone, got it unlocked by someone & was busy trying to get everybody upset about my suspected romantic liaisons. By this time it was an irrelevant distraction & I had changed the locks & told her to don't come back. I have learned from past bad experiences that there is no way in hell any woman, let alone a pinay, is getting their hands directly on my meager wealth.
AV
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[QUOTE=Marconista]in the RP, and I fail to understand how the guys end up with the scammers.
OK - a few has asked me for gifts and money, especially now that it is Christmas, but overall - I dont find this as a problem.
During my, about 15 years, visits to the country I have mainly good memories from being with the ladies that love sex and cuddling more than any other ladies on this planet.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately vaccination confers only partial immunity M. :)
I've only been around the PI for 3 1/2 years and during that time I've avoided all but the most well concealed traps. An occasional loss of a few pesos here and there i take in my stride. Nobody can have perfect x-ray vision of people here but most scams are obvious.
Guys sending money to unmet people from internet chats are total fools.
Guys sending money to GF's have to be very very careful & ultimately, just like marriage, be prepared to take a loss on their investment sometimes.
AV
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Individual choices
You gents are correct. Sending money to unmet girls is dumb. There are so many guys who do it. I've had such good experiences with some girls. I've had girls in both RP and Indonesia who would never let me send money. Maybe they have a job, maybe not, but they feel cheapened by a man sending money (*****-ish). On the other hand, you find out a few days before your trip to visit with your woman that she's been scamming multiple other men.... you see the range. From human trash to humanity.
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Charm...Looks Who The Fuck Knows?
[QUOTE=Amavida]Yeah FF you are not alone, i have many experiences like that. Over on the AC board I just finished readig the umpteenth story about runners. I've never had a runner. The last BF I had in AC would not take a tip in the morning & happy to repeat for 3 more days also with no tip.
I have regular GF's same deal, dont bleed me for money. Only occasional hint about needs.
Im sure there are many guys like us.
Cheers
AV[/QUOTE]
If you read these boards apparently not…What type of cologne are you and Freebie wearing? :D
[QUOTE=Amavida]My god you are so right GE.
I tell you a little story. A few months ago my asawa got into an argument with me over money (at this point she had no evidence of sexual wrong doing on m part mind you). Any way to cut a long story short she incorrectly calculated that she could be boss & blackmail me into unwise financial decisions. When I called her bluff & let her know that when push comes to shove I have the final say on finances. Her response was to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off & disappear. She took my little boy with her which was very hurtful. AV[/QUOTE]
Sorry about your wife man my American wife took off damn near 3 years ago for reasons I still don’t know... I escaped with all my Warbucks one reason we didn’t have any rug-rats but man I know what it feels like… my condolences
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my guess is that she's preggie, and that ample bosom has a lot of milk in it.
sidenote: recently barfined a lady with a SIX yr old kid and she suggested breastmilk. Huh? I clarified things since I suspected a six month old, but that was not the case. She had some baby sag, but at 4 10, she was a little sprite of a thing. She did have milk -- she squeezed out a few drops.
I thanked her for her calcium contribution, but over a decade ago the mother of my child was a happy contributer. Been there done that.
KK, have you seen any recent breast photos? I wonder if the grandmother is still milking those big tits for Pesos...depriving the kid of some very good nourishment.
X
[QUOTE=KongKing]I have just posted some chat and show pics (see my posting below) from a few of my chat mates who promise me a very happy time when we meet in the New Year.
One I am less certain about. I will call her Daisy from Davao, a 23 year old mother. She initiated a DateInAsia chat which led to a sharing of our Yahoo addresses. But before we had our first cam chat (I always like to see them on cam) I received this email:
[i]Hi loverboy,
Im Funny, have sense of humor and im open minded too..
Aside from that im willing to be your lover and we having a lots of fun. Theres a lot of tourist spots here in davao city a lots of beaches and mountains you can see, but Im sure if you are with me, you will like to explore me than those tourist spots here.. [inserted at this point a few tongue hanging out and wink-wink icons]
Im easy to talk and little bit hot.... in bed.. hehehe
This is my latest picture. I hope you will like to lick it..[clothed pic of her sitting on a park bench]
You ask me if we can be together.. For me theres no impossible if we want it.. Hope to hear from you soon..
Your hot babe
Daisy[/i]
Of course I gave a sufficiently encouraging response which led to our first cam Yahoo chat in which, more or less unprovoked, she revealed her upper chassis and nice it was too. It kept me busy for a while using SnapIt screen captures! (see two pics attached) I never had someone do that before on a first cam chat. Too good to be true? Probably. A few days later I received this email:
[i]Hi,
My daughter shes not fine the doctor said she have dengue fever and its very dangerous to her because her platelets very down. Shes really weak now and im worried for her. I know that we only known for each other for few days. I ask help to you for my daughter she really need white blood to transfer to her that her platelets will go back to normal. And she will not in danger and the white blood transfer to her. I really need 5000 pesos for 2 bags. Can you please help me.
I know its not good im asking help to you bcoz you dont know me very well but for me its hard also to ask help like a beggar, but im doing this for the seek of my daughter. I know you will not think not good for me. But i will understand that. Im just try to ask help to you. Im just disperate now. Bcoz my sister in china cant help my problem. I know its my obligation. But im still hoping that maybe you can help my problem. I hope you understand me. Just in case you want to help me i will give you my address.
(address given)
Im just here to send you this message. I will go back to hospital now.[/i]
This is the first time I have had a situation where she shows it for free and then subsequently seeks money. I have had a few situations where obvious cam girls want to show it all but “send me money so I can buy a cam”. They get the “delete” treatment.
After one or two previously hard-learnt experiences of being well conned (exceeded by many fine examples reported by others on this web site) I now have a policy of ignoring/deleting all requests for money and hard-up stories. And I have done that, but still have that sneaking feeling: I wonder if her story is true? Maybe if I do have a spare afternoon when next in Davao I might give her a call (I have her number) and check her out, and see if there is more chassis to be revealed.
KongKing[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]It’s not the gender it’s the westerners. I don’t see Filipino men or Thai men going “goo- goo” over their own women like we do. No matter what they look like. I brought this up on the Filipina advice thread. No one responded. I wonder why? I have met Filipinas and Thai girls who in my eyes where beautiful enough to be models and they all had tales of how native guys from their respective countries fucked them and cast them aside. I think us westerners who come to third world countries with our over inflated wallets and “heads” could learn a lot from these guys.[/QUOTE]They do. We just don't get to see it because we're not in their world.
Been to Asia many times and have mongered (or tried to monger) everywhere I've traveled. The hard part many of these guys face is that they're looking for love. Looking for someone to love them. It might sound cold-hearted, but that's a recipe for disaster.
Whether in America or elsewhere, where is it normal that a nineteen year old girl will fall in love with a sixty year old guy. From a different culture? Regardless of where you are, it just doesn't happen. Sure, the girl will tell you she loves you, but do you really believe it? I know you want to, but don't.
Over the years, I've run into all these types of girls. One girl in Nicaragua that had a fiancee told me that her birthday passed but she's open to late gifts. Sure, I'll give you a gift, but I expect you to toss my salad first.
I'll give a girl gifts, I'll give her money. But she better look good to me and deep throat my cock before fucking her. That's the exchange. That's the game. And it's actually true whether you're mongering or dating in real life.
I'm sorry to hear you got burned, but remember that all of this is a game. You spent some money. You even got scammed a little. But I presume you fucked the shit out of a girl many years younger than you. That's pretty good in my book.
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Websites and lower quality.
Hello All- I have a question about online sites and the various quality/quantity available on them. I joined DIA about a month ago and although I'm over 2000 emails received, I've yet to find a single person worth talking to. Most seem to be either under 18 or lady boys.
Last summer, before my first trip to PI, I was on a pay site that I won't name and the quality there was above average. I eventually started talking to a 21 yo Manila girl, who I eventually met. This girl would have easily been a 10 in any western country. Had a job, spoke great non-accented English, and never asked me for a cent.
SO my question, is it just the free sites that have the lower quality offerings? Or have I just got lucky elsewhere?
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]If you read these boards apparently not…What type of cologne are you and Freebie wearing? :D[/QUOTE]Im all seriousness DW, i dont know about FF, but it doesnt hurt to be on the young side of 50, trim physique & have a good personality.
Personality is the big thing with flips. They detest type 'A' personalities. No matter how successful and driven u may be its best to be laid back, friendly & warm. I find it easy to engage flip chicks. Some guys dont have the knack.. The one complaint i hear most often from chicks here is 'arrogant'.
Dont get me wrong i've had plenty leeches try to attach themselves to me.
I toss them & keep the good ones.
We must never ever forget that the reason we are blessed with abundant nubile girlfriends is because we have <MONEY>
[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Sorry about your wife man my American wife took off damn near 3 years ago for reasons I still don’t know... I escaped with all my Warbucks one reason we didn’t have any rug-rats but man I know what it feels like… my condolences[/QUOTE]Yeah thanks man. Its never easy. But I went in with my eyes open. I have a lovely 19 year old GF who disracts me from thinkin about things too deeply.
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Amavida? Flips?
Thank you for showing what a low life bigot you are.
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What cologne do I use.....
Actually Daddy makes an interesting if unintended point. Rules for picking up ladies in Manila (20 years of doing it)
1. Be clean and neat with personal grooming. Unshaven unkempt don't work.
2. Smell good. Nothing overpowering. Simple Nivea spray works well.
3. Wear good shoes. Not rubber shoes or sandals.
4. Offer to buy the girl coffee/beer whatever. Don't look cheap. But never talk about how much money you got.
5. Be humble. If a gal asks if your rich never for numerous reasons answer yes. Me. I state that I work hard, 12 hours a day and have done so for many many years.
The "hard worker" tag is a clear impresser. Many will say. Ah then its your money, you deserve it, you don't have to spend it on me.
6. Make random acts of kindness. One gal loves me to buy her books. One is so impressed if I give her an old CD that I would otherwise throw away.
Gave one a disposable camera. Panties down 5 minutes later. Its not cash that works. Its the fact you show you pretend to care.
7. Send sms or email when least expected. A Filipina likes to know shes respected. And an sms from a guy in a foreign country remembering her birthday (I don't live in Phils, but visit often) goes a long way.
8. If your chatting, don't get naked or offer to get naked. Let her get interested first. All girls complain that so many guys want to just show off their "meat and potatoes". Be different. Its surpising how many I score with as I treat them respectfully on line. Till they get interested. Then if they ask for a little flesh, its come from them. Not imposed on them by me.
Any guy who wants to show how important he is. Will not go far. After all. This is a country full of politicians and other hangers on who all love to show how important they are. Remember the golf fight and the mayor who said " don't you know who I am". Enough said.
Show them a good reason to remember you. And they will. I'm never short of new ones or old ones by following the above listed principles.
Oh and I'm the wrong side of 50, have a nice smile, reasonable physique. And never stingy.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Actually Daddy makes an interesting if unintended point. Rules for picking up ladies in Manila (20 years of doing it)
5. Be humble. If a gal asks if your rich never for numerous reasons answer yes. Me. I state that I work hard, 12 hours a day and have done so for many many years.
The "hard worker" tag is a clear impresser. Many will say. Ah then its your money, you deserve it, you don't have to spend it on me.
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I agree and experienced the point 5...all points you mentioned are like bible codes for hunting down a filipina ..very true
On the other hand...i have experienced that getting rid of a filipina after been too nice is a double edge sword with a cynide tip... :)
you just cant get rid of a filipina ..i have not found a way other than offering her money, she breaking few objects or bucket load of crying, crying crying and me feeling guilty for rest of my life.
The lines like " i need space", "we need a break to see where our life is going etc" western excuses does not seem to work.
Even been nice to a bar girl, is like taking her for ever. after an year, im still getting mails from bar girls, saying i made her pregnant and its in 10's
I had nightmares thinking about it...we know its a scam...but still getting rid of a regular girl after one night of fun is a mystery to me...once you take a bar girl from a bar, be too nice to her, be a gentleman, then you JUST CANT take another girl from the same bar..or whats the point in been too nice..its too complex.
I would be very relieved and happy to know if their is any way around this... without hurting their feelings but a nicer way to dumb them.
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[QUOTE=Born Loser 5]I agree and experienced the point 5...all points you mentioned are like bible codes for hunting down a filipina ..very true
On the other hand...i have experienced that getting rid of a filipina after been too nice is a double edge sword with a cynide tip... :)
you just cant get rid of a filipina ..i have not found a way other than offering her money, she breaking few objects or bucket load of crying, crying crying and me feeling guilty for rest of my life.
The lines like " i need space", "we need a break to see where our life is going etc" western excuses does not seem to work.
Even been nice to a bar girl, is like taking her for ever. after an year, im still getting mails from bar girls, saying i made her pregnant and its in 10's
I had nightmares thinking about it...we know its a scam...but still getting rid of a regular girl after one night of fun is a mystery to me...once you take a bar girl from a bar, be too nice to her, be a gentleman, then you JUST CANT take another girl from the same bar..or whats the point in been too nice..its too complex.
I would be very relieved and happy to know if their is any way around this... without hurting their feelings but a nicer way to dumb them.[/QUOTE]Here again I get lucky. They all know I don't live in Philippines so theres little way they can contact me. The big advantage of that of course is they never know when I'm there either. Then I contact the ones I want to and don't say Hi to the ones I don't. I find that this way puts me in a measure of control.
Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.
Haven't encountered too many clingers. But when I lived in Manila and faced one would always invent a business trip to somewhere far away. That seemed to quieten them down.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Here again I get lucky. They all know I don't live in Philippines so theres little way they can contact me. The big advantage of that of course is they never know when I'm there either. Then I contact the ones I want to and don't say Hi to the ones I don't. I find that this way puts me in a measure of control.
Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.
Haven't encountered too many clingers. But when I lived in Manila and faced one would always invent a business trip to somewhere far away. That seemed to quieten them down.[/QUOTE]
Yep i was in Cebu, which is a small place and in couple of months, people know who you are...Manila is always better to play hide and seek and im never telling anyone im here for long term stay but would go in a week and will keep two SIM cards..that should make things easier ..hehehe :)
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I've come to the conclusion that some of the smarter ones know about when we (or people like us) take our vacations (Christmas?) and then give a call or send a text to guys in their phone around that time.
The first time it happened to me (a year ago) I had just reloaded my phone at the airport and bam -- this girl is calling me. It freaked me out. It happened for the third time last week.
X
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]
Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man]I had just reloaded my phone at the airport and bam -- this girl is calling me. It freaked me out. It happened for the third time last week.
X[/QUOTE]It's happened to me too. I flew into the Philippines a few days earlier than I had told gf. Switched phone on in the airport to check whether or not the sim was still active. Got a missed call from her within 5 minutes. That was the beginning of a very difficult few weeks!
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my 2 cents
Hi to all,
just read some reports here. I dont want to quote each statement so I will just give my 2 cents roughly to all what was posted here the last week.
Bornloser, if you let a girl stay in your place and you like to get rid of her it will be allways drama involved. Depends on you and the girl. I prefer not to let any girl stay with me unless I really love her and that is not going to happen any time soon. I just want to screw around with pretty girls :)
If girls miscall you when you dont expect them to do so, just txt them your sim is on roam, so you can get miscalls and txt but you not in the country.
Allways WAIT for their first move. If you dont want to see them, then DONT. You a manwhxxre once you touched Philippine soil!!
To my other fellow mongers or chataddicts, please avoid the following things.
Do not get your so called chatGF ym password, sign in and sent messages to all on their ym list not to contact your "fiancee".
That happen to me last time. Guy from UK visit that girl I havent met from dia and sent me an offline with that content to stay away from his fiancee and also not to txt her , because he holds her cellphone.
Actually I had no interest to meet her..she is to far..Alabang area..Im in Manila and I hate traffic.
Now, I consider to bang her, because of this guy who thinks boinking a girl for 10 days in the Philippines makes him to own her and sent angry emails to guys like me who live here :D....
BIG BIG mistake, its childish and now you can see that once you not around and out she can do whatever she want to do and she can meet up and bang who ever she wants, so dont do this, be cool, be matured, get a life or settle here in the Philippines.
Yesterday I did the "search" again on dia and laughed about one profile. I know the girl, she has a baby allready and lives with her pinoy boyfriend and now is "looking for a serious guy to be with " She aint a scammer, but people can change, specially if money is tight. So beware! If you here and have your fun its ok. If your out of the country, beware!!
I once talked to a girl from dia on yahoo. She told me her bf went back to the USA and she is working now on a "fiancee visa" to go and visit him. She works in bank, so nonbargirl. I told her its difficult to get such visa and it takes some time, so why not meet up since Im in Ermita next week....hehehehe...She says ok, no sex, drinks only...:D Of course, I dont want sex with a young hot girl like you, Im happy if we can have just a softdrink (yeah right)
Enjoy your stay in the Philippines, dont send any money to girls you never meet up in person, because this is VERY STUPID!!! Aside from that you will ruin the buyers market here, if the pros get money that easy, no need to provide the real thing, di ba?
Happy holidays , weather is fantastic here, cool, cloudy , but cool as in cool.
Blink
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Blink and spoook, thanks for the post
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chatgirls from dia
Hi to all,
its weekend, so Im heading to AC first thing in the morning. Going to meet up with one girl I know from acm, maybe another from dateinasia..and surely with some girl from Dollhouse who also post her profile in DIA. Thats going to be very funny.
Aside from that my regular txt me she lost her cp and back to work again, cause she also lost her money, hehehehe...yeah right. Can get the girl out of the bar, but not the bar out of the girl. But, she is a funny one, so I will keep her.
Just talked a girl from Dia on ym. She showed me her cam. I wasnt quite sure if she was a girl or TS, but I think she was girl. some kid was running around in the cafe and I saw an elder lady sitting in the back. I think her mom. She wasnt only talking to me, so I told her its ok you talk to other guys. I wont get jellous (why should I? I live here) Then she says to me that I should shut up, or maybe some other person typed that, cause she only show half of her face. I just told her I delete her from my list, no need to talk to bxxxes.
So, this is how it work guys. Remember, if you not around they do what they want to do and they talk or meet whoever they want to meet.
Hope I can do some nice fotos tomorow. I will post them in the apropiate section.
Happy weekend
Blink
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Chatgirls From DIA
Blink, this looks like a classic case of the pot calling the kettle black.
When viewed in the context of your plans to scruff a number of women this weekend, your comment about the women playing around looks more than a little hypocritical.
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Guys Guys Guys
I have said many times that these girls are learning from us. Many girls tell me that the first thing men ask them is can they have sex with them, can they pay them, do they need anything. We are suppose to be the hunters, but these women are no longer fish in a barrell. It is actually some very good women on these sites, but we ruin them with our monger spirit. Sure they want money, sure we want sex. Sure they want sugar daddies, sure we want trophies. Guys I love to monger, but I really don't think I am a typical monger, because most of my action is free, but I do 1 thing a little differrent then what I read on the post here. I tell each girl that I meet that I insist that she is bi or bi curious. I do not lie to them. I treat them with respect but I let them know that I am here to play, if it becomes more then so be it, but if it doesn't, then that is the way it is. I can not believe the amout guys that lie so much to these girls and get upset when you find out that you have been lied too. Guys we are hunters, if we do not do the best job, then we become the hunted. Get your game right or sit on the sideline.
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[QUOTE=Darcnite14]I have said many times that these girls are learning from us. Many girls tell me that the first thing men ask them is can they have sex with them, can they pay them, do they need anything. We are suppose to be the hunters, but these women are no longer fish in a barrell. It is actually some very good women on these sites, but we ruin them with our monger spirit. Sure they want money, sure we want sex. Sure they want sugar daddies, sure we want trophies. Guys I love to monger, but I really don't think I am a typical monger, because most of my action is free, but I do 1 thing a little differrent then what I read on the post here. I tell each girl that I meet that I insist that she is bi or bi curious. I do not lie to them. I treat them with respect but I let them know that I am here to play, if it becomes more then so be it, but if it doesn't, then that is the way it is. I can not believe the amout guys that lie so much to these girls and get upset when you find out that you have been lied too. Guys we are hunters, if we do not do the best job, then we become the hunted. Get your game right or sit on the sideline.[/QUOTE]Actually I love it when guys treat girls with lies and the overtly sexual approach.
Sure makes my "game" of winning/bedding these girls with trust, respect and good treatment sooo much easier.
I love to hear that guys are forever flashing their dicks at girls on YM.. makes my approach so much more winnable, and rewarding.
Damn.. suddenly all guys will become respectful ..there wont be any spare girls. lol. Yeah.. and it will snow in Saudi Arabia too.
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Freebiefan
I hear your words, and have no complaint to your ways. Your way and my way is different and I still "Ain't" mad at yah. You get yours what ever way that get your rocks off. I will do the same. I just have a stupid habit of treating people like people, no matter if I have paid them for their services or not. My statement was in response to the guys that say they must think of lies and excuses to get away from certain girls, My advice, "OPINION", is to tell them that you have other plans, if they can not deal with that, then the proper foundation was not implemented. What is so bad to say, I am here to party? I have talked to other girls and I hope you can be a part of that. If she says no, then how many other of the thousands would agree with no problem. That is my approach. You do it your way, and I will continue mine.
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my weekend
[QUOTE=Gangles]Blink, this looks like a classic case of the pot calling the kettle black.
When viewed in the context of your plans to scruff a number of women this weekend, your comment about the women playing around looks more than a little hypocritical.[/QUOTE]
Hi,
actually I just meet one girl. She showed up in a mini skirt and had a nice attitude. When boinking her she showed me a picture of her UK bf. Im sure he is sending her money, she didnt ask any money from me.
She received txt all the time and Im not that kind of guy snatching her cp and inform all of her contacts that Im now her BF LOL. If those guys are happy when sending her money Im fine with this. Here we allrady discussed it many times not to support a gurl you have never meet in person or send her money after you back to your country.
She wouldnt love you more if you send her, neither she will be more faithfull to you.
FF has a certain kind of humor, like me, but Im sure he treats the girls with respect like I do. If your an ass...le and belive me I met a lot of expat or long timer as..les in the Philippines you just get hookers or girls who will scam you right away. You wont get any decent girl. Filipinas have also their pride and they not stupid at all.
I treat them nice but I make it clear Im single as in single. I think its better this way as if Im married to some cow in the west and enjoy my 2 weeks holiday in the Philippines boinking young girls and make them belive Im actually in love to them and heading back to my wife but BEFORE screwing her make sure I didnt catch any STD from my little sexuel adventures in the Philippines.
Oh well, gotta go now, work is over and I like to date some mallgirls for a change.
Happy hunting and b carefull to whom you send money
Blink
PS sorry for my english I didnt run the spellcheck properly cause Im in a hurry to meet some new girl :))
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In other words, be honest and tell them that the foundation is on quicksand.
Just remember, Filipino quicksand sucks more than any quicksand I've run into.
Pun may or may not be intended.
X
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Money from Afar
[QUOTE=Blink157
Im sure he is sending her money, she didnt ask any money from me.
She received txt all the time and Im not that kind of guy snatching her cp and inform all of her contacts that Im now her BF LOL. If those guys are happy when sending her money Im fine with this.
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I am so glad Blink brought this up before I had chimed in. I have been thinking about this for some time now, and even though I don't live in Phils, I agree with Blink.
I have a steady GF in Angeles who I see about every two months or so. She is cool and lets me monger on Fields/BKK/Manila when I feel the itch. She tells me she loves me and is happy being #2 in my life. She knows I will never be with only one girl, but she is happy to spend time with me when I visit her. We have gone on some very good vacations together and generally enjoy each others' company and sex. I don't know if the #2 thing is bullshit or not and she is hoping for better (me exclusively).
There was a series of reports on ISG from a guy recently who found out his girl was scamming about 10 guys online, but never him. He wanted to marry her, but then found out her scheme. He promptly broke it off and sent the other guys the txt of her activities. My thought was like, "so what".
It would be one thing if she was scamming him also, but he reported she never asked him for money; only the other guys who never met her in person. Now, it would be one thing if they got married and she kept scamming after her Maslow’s’ hierarchy of needs were met, but she was doing what she thought she needed to survive. Hey, if the money is out there then why not take it? We westerners do not need it because we have jobs, but what if we were in their shoes?
The very first time I was in AC, I had two girls from the Vodoo lounge in my room the morning after, and CP's were ringing off the hook. The girls looked at me and were like, "oh sorry, do you want us to go outside?" I just said, "Hey baby, I'm not here to fuck your shit up. Go on and do what you got to do." I then proceded to watch TV and listen to all the "I love you babyko's" and "I'm at home babyko" bullshit for the next half hour. When they were done, it was back to work on round three with both of them on my titi.
I know my GF has some sponsors, cause the last time I saw her she has some serious bling on. 24 carat shit that I know I did not pay for. Did not bother me at all. If some dude that she never met wants to send her money, go ahead brother, keep her off my back. Of course I spend money on her when I am there, but I basically have to stuff money in her pocket to do it. I don't mind the shopping trip to SM every now and then either. Mostly she just wants to fuck and spend time with me, doing what ever I want to do.
When you guys are in Hawaii and go deep sea fishing and catch the big Marlin or Ahi, you have a good time and tip the captain at the end of the day. But do you continue to send him money after you go home to South Dakota and show off all your fishing photos? Of course not. In my mind it is the same thing, only you are not cuming in the captains mouth. hehe Why should the Phils be any different? If you don't live there you are a tourist.
Another forum member wrote, "guys, get off your ass and visit the phils before you send any money". My sentiments exactly. Then if you want to continue to send money, just write it off on your taxes like you were giving to Unicef or some bullshit.
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Carmex and X
I agree with you both. I have basically the same hook up. I have 2 main girls in the Phils. They both understand that i am single but they just want to spend time with me. I care for them both but not to the point of being a wife. I always have more then enough sex when i am there and have even had the 2 of them together. I treat them nice and do the "little" shopping trips when i am there but never have been asked for money from either. Now the good part is that, they have also requested that we go bar hopping and at times they have chosen P4P to join us for nightly activities. They also have many gf that dont cost me anything. "I feel so Used and Cheap" when they do this to me but i swallow my pride and suck it up for the home team. My point is that i always tell any girl that i meet, my true intentions. I have never had a stalker and have never had to make an excuse to be away from them.
Carmex, i also see the bling and the calls. If i do not have a ring on their finger, i can not knock them for playing the game.
X, correct, the foundation is on super quicksand, the important fact is to be aware of this so you know where to step.
My motto is:" I am positive that is will always be some left for me when I get there, you can't use it all up"
D14
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cheers
Hi,
I just shut my balcony door. Its kinda cold outside. Must be 20 celsius or so in Manila :)). Reading the post and I fully agree .
Just watched a nice movie. Gran Tourino, downloaded that, sorry Clint, Im sure you ok with this, Im a big fan of you and watched most of your movies either in the cinema or on VHS or DVD.
Back to the topic. I once wachted a Thai/french movie and one sentence is still in my mind and in my head.
"Your on holiday with me, but Im not on holiday with you" you guys should allways keep that in your mind. You come to the Philippines to spend some time with gourgeous young girls. Once you leave the country what you expect them to do? Wait for you to return and have "great sex with you" LOL.
Be cool, be polite. Flow with the river. Dont lose face, smile back. Be a gentleman and dont act like a 14 year old kid.
Good night evrybody
Blink
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Life Is A *****…? No. Depends On How You Treat Her
[QUOTE=Blink157]Once you leave the country what you expect them to do? Wait for you to return and have "great sex with you" LOL.
Blink[/QUOTE]
It depends on the lady Blink. Some Filipinas/women wait like hell while their husbands or boyfriends are overseas on business. What about all the Filipino men working overseas surely all of their women are not fucking around. Depends on if she is a **** or not.
Blink in 2 ½ weeks be expecting a text message from me I still got your number last time you were on the mother ship so we couldn’t hook up. The American and German connection better than the original NATO.
North Atlantic Tricks Organization :D
Take it sleazy
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[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]It depends on the lady Blink. Some Filipinas/women wait like hell while their husbands or boyfriends are overseas on business. What about all the Filipino men working overseas surely all of their women are not fucking around. Depends on if she is a **** or not.
Blink in 2 ½ weeks be expecting a text message from me I still got your number last time you were on the mother ship so we couldn’t hook up. The American and German connection better than the original NATO.
North Atlantic Tricks Organization :D
Take it sleazy[/QUOTE]
Pinay, will cheat on you and string you along like anyone else would. How many times on this forum have we heard of stories that some guy was shagging another guy's lady. If anything filipina are more likely to do so. Once they have a bf that doesn't mean they aren't going to grab something better if it comes on by.
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Back to chat friends.
DIAsia is a free site and I've used it, got laid, but feel something is very different from my paid subscription to Cherry Bl.
Below is just one example of several messages I got where the lady was surprised that I knew her location. Duh, it's on your profile. But after three times I have to suspect that these ladies aren't always the ones who post the profile.
WHo knows?
ha ha ha, only small restaurant and no name. if i have more capital i can open a very big restaurant i accept catering, thats my ambition in my life. but now only my small business fashion jewelry. u know what balut? y you that im in iligan City.
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The Trade up
Phils are the inventor of the Trade up. They are your # 1 until a better #1 comes along and of course we are no better.
I have spent 13 of the last 20 weeks inthe Phils, met and chatted literaly 100 women, have 25 friends and another 50 aquitances, fucked 10 of them very very well and met another 200 or so due to my business. They just want to get ahead and some wil go to amazingly lengths to do so.
If you want to meet a nice lady there are hundreds of thousands but here are the rules.
1. If she is a single mom with no job, immeidately dump her or simply use her. 25% of these women I can have naked on a webcam in 2 hours or less. They are what I call low class *****s. Kings of the soft sell and they will make you wnat to give them money, FUCK THEM.
2. She needs a job or two, 95% of the women working 2 jobs are dateable and futurable, they know how to work, they know they need to work, these are good women.
3. If you are planning to meet one and she will tkae a cab from further thna 20 minutes away, say no thank you. Every Phils rides a bus, jeepney or Trike. A cab is for the rich, I had one chick spend 1200 pesos on a cab I paid of course, my loss my lessons, never again, nice body, never even touched her and she talked a good game.
4. Watch how they are willing to spend your money, it they are free with your money even only in discussions lose them ASAP, they are low class *****s. If they have no respect for their are you money theyy are not worht your time.
5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
6. The upper class women seem to be the worst cunts I have ever met, treat every one poorly and think they deserve it, fuck them llleave them to those nasty Pinoy men now there is a group of cocksuckers if you have ever met one, hilariuos.
Every Pinoy Man I met except 3 fucks arounds and does it with no class and I am tlaking lawyers to Business owners, upper class guys, the regular or low class guys drink and hit!
I gave alot of lessons last trip, I negotiated with about 7 women for a Xmas weekend in Bohol, they all wanted to much in some way and they were all "normal" girls I was of course prepeared to pay for everything I just don't like being expected to pay for weeverything and a whole lot more and all were normal working girls.
Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim
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[QUOTE=Just Jim]Phils are the inventor of the Trade up. They are your # 1 until a better #1 comes along and of course we are no better.
I have spent 13 of the last 20 weeks inthe Phils, met and chatted literaly 100 women, have 25 friends and another 50 aquitances, fucked 10 of them very very well and met another 200 or so due to my business. They just want to get ahead and some wil go to amazingly lengths to do so.
If you want to meet a nice lady there are hundreds of thousands but here are the rules.
1. If she is a single mom with no job, immeidately dump her or simply use her. 25% of these women I can have naked on a webcam in 2 hours or less. They are what I call low class *****s. Kings of the soft sell and they will make you wnat to give them money, FUCK THEM.
2. She needs a job or two, 95% of the women working 2 jobs are dateable and futurable, they know how to work, they know they need to work, these are good women.
3. If you are planning to meet one and she will tkae a cab from further thna 20 minutes away, say no thank you. Every Phils rides a bus, jeepney or Trike. A cab is for the rich, I had one chick spend 1200 pesos on a cab I paid of course, my loss my lessons, never again, nice body, never even touched her and she talked a good game.
4. Watch how they are willing to spend your money, it they are free with your money even only in discussions lose them ASAP, they are low class *****s. If they have no respect for their are you money theyy are not worht your time.
5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
6. The upper class women seem to be the worst cunts I have ever met, treat every one poorly and think they deserve it, fuck them llleave them to those nasty Pinoy men now there is a group of cocksuckers if you have ever met one, hilariuos.
Every Pinoy Man I met except 3 fucks arounds and does it with no class and I am tlaking lawyers to Business owners, upper class guys, the regular or low class guys drink and hit!
I gave alot of lessons last trip, I negotiated with about 7 women for a Xmas weekend in Bohol, they all wanted to much in some way and they were all "normal" girls I was of course prepeared to pay for everything I just don't like being expected to pay for weeverything and a whole lot more and all were normal working girls.
Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim
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Heck if the place and the people turn you off so much, try somewhere else.
Phils is pussy heaven. You just have to know how to work the system. But it seems your looking in all the wrong places if your always getting scammers.
I'm just back from a brilliant weekend in Manila. Time of my life. Not one scammer in sight. Use good judgement. But be a little less judgemental.
As we all know. Judge not lest ye be judged.
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Report of distinction???
Maybe we need "report of infamy".
Did Jim chat with 100 or actually meet 100 of his chat friends? The post isn't clear and I'm not even sure why it's in the chat section.
13 weeks....oh, 91 days, and he's met over 200 for business and possibly another 100 thru chat. Quite an achievement.
X
[QUOTE=Just Jim]Phils are the inventor of the Trade up. They are your # 1 until a better #1 comes along and of course we are no better.
I have spent 13 of the last 20 weeks inthe Phils, met and chatted literaly 100 women, have 25 friends and another 50 aquitances, fucked 10 of them very very well and met another 200 or so due to my business. They just want to get ahead and some wil go to amazingly lengths to do so.
If you want to meet a nice lady there are hundreds of thousands but here are the rules.
1. If she is a single mom with no job, immeidately dump her or simply use her. 25% of these women I can have naked on a webcam in 2 hours or less. They are what I call low class *****s. Kings of the soft sell and they will make you wnat to give them money, FUCK THEM.
2. She needs a job or two, 95% of the women working 2 jobs are dateable and futurable, they know how to work, they know they need to work, these are good women.
3. If you are planning to meet one and she will tkae a cab from further thna 20 minutes away, say no thank you. Every Phils rides a bus, jeepney or Trike. A cab is for the rich, I had one chick spend 1200 pesos on a cab I paid of course, my loss my lessons, never again, nice body, never even touched her and she talked a good game.
4. Watch how they are willing to spend your money, it they are free with your money even only in discussions lose them ASAP, they are low class *****s. If they have no respect for their are you money theyy are not worht your time.
5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
6. The upper class women seem to be the worst cunts I have ever met, treat every one poorly and think they deserve it, fuck them llleave them to those nasty Pinoy men now there is a group of cocksuckers if you have ever met one, hilariuos.
Every Pinoy Man I met except 3 fucks arounds and does it with no class and I am tlaking lawyers to Business owners, upper class guys, the regular or low class guys drink and hit!
I gave alot of lessons last trip, I negotiated with about 7 women for a Xmas weekend in Bohol, they all wanted to much in some way and they were all "normal" girls I was of course prepeared to pay for everything I just don't like being expected to pay for weeverything and a whole lot more and all were normal working girls.
Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim
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dateinasia funny lines
Hi to all,
I just read a profile in dia.
"...... love beaches,wearing my suits,together with friends..I love hang outs and i love meeting people..
Unfortunately,i work as a dealer,it just like a part time job...for my studies..
"
Hehehe....part time dealer , now that line made my day :)
Well, I go Makati later, its happy hour in Rogues and my singaporen co worker is feelin thirsty.
Have a nice day all.
Blink
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Contradictions
[QUOTE=Just Jim]5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
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Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim[/QUOTE]
Is it just me, or did Jim contradict himself with these two statements in one post?
HW
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NO Contradictions just I was unclear
Sorry
I am not into seperating Mother from Child for more than a few hours like every single mom deserves now and again and single dad no less. I am not into meeting children for 5 days holidays cause I am not their dad and would not sleep with a mom if her kids were aware of it.
At Xmas I gave many people cash to ensure they had a good Xmas and I assure you this had nothing to do with sex just trying to be a good person cause I had it and they did not, I spent Xmas alone asn that was fine.
Perhaps I did not make it clear I dislike being misled or lied to and have no time for women of no character.
Christmas is an important family time as is New Years so declined a couple of options.
Oh well It seems my report has hit some nerves, hmmm.
JJ
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dateinasia
Hi to all,
greetings from another sunny day in the Philippines.
I got a message from a girl in Angeles city who I contacted on dateinasia.
She said to me that we can meet up but only for food and no sex.
I replied I will meet her up AFTER I had sex with somebody else for food, because after the deed is done Im often getting hungry.
I guess I wont hear from her anynear soon, but who knows.
Currently viewing some posts in this "other site" where they collect info about webcamgirls,diagirls, chatgirls etc an whine to each other because they send money and then found out that the girl aint serious. Of CAUSE she isnt, I mean havent we got discussed this topic here before?
Tsk, tsk, but I have to admit. Its somehow entertaining.
Happy day to all
Blink
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Hits and misses
For me DIA has been a lot of fun.
Had some excellent hits culminating in damn raunchy fun when I hit Manila. However there have been misses as well. Too many camgirls out to hit me for cash and ladyboys just out for god knows what.
One thing I have always made clear in my profile is my interest in fun and not a 'long term relationship'. Now this is all well and good but there are occasions when many of these girls think that they will somehow convert me to some form of long term commitment. Had one who was a lot of fun and damn killer in bed. Hell her morning blow jobs were the most incredible on earth. I always made it clear that my life was about fun not commitment, and she seemed cool about that.
Unfortunately she has been bugging me on email and on phone about how much she cares about me and when I am going to be in town. Blah blah. Maybe I carried on for too long with her. So time to end it gently.
I have a list of 10 ladies of various ages who are just incredibels so far and all hot on cam as well as when we meet up. You just have to try and pace yourself in when you can meet up with them.
Will be back in Manila soon. So will update on the fun later.
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Well, we are all over the top at times.
Thanks for clarifying your thinking.
Likewise, sorry if my (much earlier) message was more confrontational than necessary.
X
[QUOTE=Just Jim]Sorry
I am not into seperating Mother from Child for more than a few hours like every single mom deserves now and again and single dad no less. I am not into meeting children for 5 days holidays cause I am not their dad and would not sleep with a mom if her kids were aware of it.
At Xmas I gave many people cash to ensure they had a good Xmas and I assure you this had nothing to do with sex just trying to be a good person cause I had it and they did not, I spent Xmas alone asn that was fine.
Perhaps I did not make it clear I dislike being misled or lied to and have no time for women of no character.
Christmas is an important family time as is New Years so declined a couple of options.
Oh well It seems my report has hit some nerves, hmmm.
JJ[/QUOTE]
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GeneraL Impressions
This post is just meant to summarise my views on Filipinas and the whole issue of dating and romance.
1. Filipinas really are special women. They have very little of the post feminist bullshit that clouds relationships with North American/Scandinavian/British women ( to be fair females from Latin and Mediterranean cultures and a lot of Irish / Scottish / East European women are often an exception to the rule that western women are a high maintenanance pain in the butt.)
2. Filipinas are often sweet and gentle but tough.The fact they are nice does not mean they are mugs. They know how to survive. Western women talk tough but run at the first sign of trouble, their fat asses wagglin in the air as they suddenly forget all about 'equality' and start conveniently morphing into delicate little girls who need all sorts of special protections from the system (including on occasion, your house, your car and total control over your kids, lol.)
3. Age: yes often the appeal of a guy over 50 depends on the size of his wallet. But, remember, in most countries in most of the world for most of history the older guy / younger women combo is nothing unusual: it is only in our virulent western culture that it has become an issue. So, they can be genuinely attracted to you.
4. However, the fact that they can get to you genuinely like/love you does not mean you should close your eyes. Filipinas are human like the rest of us. They are not saints either. I know of an awful lot of married Filipinas who take a very relaxed attitude to fidelity, especially when one or both of the partners is working overseas. In Taiwan for instance the Filipinas have a phrase: 'FTO'- meaning 'For Taiwan Only'. They are perfectly capable of having one or even two Taiwan BFs on the go while their hubbies are back in the Phils (an increasing number of them in fact swing both ways and have affairs with fellow Filipinas while they work in Taiwanese computer sweat shops). So stay real about it. Love and sex are games for adults: if you cannot take it, do not get into it.
5. Now, in evaluating all these things, your chances of good results are vastly enhanced if you do the following:
a) Do not walk around in baggy shorts with trainers/huge leather sandals and sweaty socks-and do not wear a ball cap
b) Trim all that hair, especially nasal and ear stuff, keep the damn beergut under control, switch to protein from carbs and get some exercise (you can last longer in bed with or without Viagra)
c) If you are losing your hair it is no big deal, so long as you shave/crop it close- combovers never gave anybody an orgasm and the same goes for greasy grey ponytails
d) Be a man- there is no need to hide your testosterone under a bushel if you forgive the pun- Filipinas like strong men who know what they want, especially in the bedroom-they love to be mastered- but this does not mean that you act like a jerk - be courteous, show some consideration, stand upright, walk with dignity, be polite, wear nice chinos and a teeshirt with an open shirt over it or a nice linen jacket (drink plenty of water in the heat)- stand out as a guy who has a little style and dignity- do not be like the sloppy 'laid back' guys who slobber their way round Cebu.
e) Do all of the above and you will have a great time - they really are wonderful women.
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General Impressions and DIA
General Impressions post. You said it right. Act and look stylish and the buffet will be open to you. Look cheap, act cheap, and there will be morsels.
DIA. Well we all seem to do well out of it. But lets wonder how many of us are screwing the same girls. All sometimes thinking we got our own freebies. I'm not sure I want to do a namecheck tho. LOL
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Great first post, Conrad! Seems like all very accurate and good advice. I am definitely gonna lose that combover before heading for warmer climes!
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Great Post Conrad
I would like to add.
I have always treated the women properly, open doors, walk on the right side of the road, hold the umbrella for them, never ever hit them, treat them as an equal, ask their opinion, listened to them, pros and regular women and I dare say it impresses the panties right off their sweet asses.
I do not tell them I love them or tell them I will be their BF, I do not buy them things unless it just works out, I pay for cabs and of course anything we do in Public, like here in Canada (only with out the great sex or happiness) and I fuck the shit out of them for hours. And I focus on them and their needs as a woman and most of them have never ever experienced this (the amateurs). I swear I could open a service just teaching them how they should be fucked.
I am affectionate, passionate, tell them they are hot and kiss the hell out of them they love this as well and spend a long time having sex. And I love sleeping with them holding them and repeatedly remounting them in the night if I am not completely exhausted.
They love it. I had sex with 9 amateurs this last trip and only 1 did not repeat. All knew what I was doing (meaning doing others) 4 had BF, 1 was married and I turned down to many to count. And I never even bought a dinner for a girl I had sex with, most refused cab fare, I offered but they simply wanted to get naked after our first meeting and my standard approach was to watch a movie on my laptop which meant close quarters.
Had several that did not turn out, I kissed a few frogs I think I had 2 that got away, damn lack of battery, text messaging is for getting laid, be direct and I wasted time and money on 2 and those I actually bought dinner for and they both talked a good game.
They are grossly under appreciated and underfucked and I am hell on their tiny sweet cunts so you need to have them on a rotation so they can heal.
Do these things and you will own them and some are good friends who I get to watch now on webcam, thank you Yahoo!
JJ
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Among the post here, you've been the one who give fair opinions with filipina's. And I agree about your idea, most cases nowadays about 50 and 20 year old tandem, wasnt even the issue it happens there are people who are not open about the idea. They think that the girl is just looking for the money of the guy, but its NOT! It just happened that I'm a filipina, but I disagree with the idea about the wrong notions about "US".
Have a nice day.
[QUOTE=Conrad2009]This post is just meant to summarise my views on Filipinas and the whole issue of dating and romance.
1. Filipinas really are special women. They have very little of the post feminist bullshit that clouds relationships with North American/Scandinavian/British women ( to be fair females from Latin and Mediterranean cultures and a lot of Irish / Scottish / East European women are often an exception to the rule that western women are a high maintenanance pain in the butt.)
2. Filipinas are often sweet and gentle but tough.The fact they are nice does not mean they are mugs. They know how to survive. Western women talk tough but run at the first sign of trouble, their fat asses wagglin in the air as they suddenly forget all about 'equality' and start conveniently morphing into delicate little girls who need all sorts of special protections from the system (including on occasion, your house, your car and total control over your kids, lol.)
3. Age: yes often the appeal of a guy over 50 depends on the size of his wallet. But, remember, in most countries in most of the world for most of history the older guy / younger women combo is nothing unusual: it is only in our virulent western culture that it has become an issue. So, they can be genuinely attracted to you.
4. However, the fact that they can get to you genuinely like/love you does not mean you should close your eyes. Filipinas are human like the rest of us. They are not saints either. I know of an awful lot of married Filipinas who take a very relaxed attitude to fidelity, especially when one or both of the partners is working overseas. In Taiwan for instance the Filipinas have a phrase: 'FTO'- meaning 'For Taiwan Only'. They are perfectly capable of having one or even two Taiwan BFs on the go while their hubbies are back in the Phils (an increasing number of them in fact swing both ways and have affairs with fellow Filipinas while they work in Taiwanese computer sweat shops). So stay real about it. Love and sex are games for adults: if you cannot take it, do not get into it.
5. Now, in evaluating all these things, your chances of good results are vastly enhanced if you do the following:
a) Do not walk around in baggy shorts with trainers/huge leather sandals and sweaty socks-and do not wear a ball cap
b) Trim all that hair, especially nasal and ear stuff, keep the damn beergut under control, switch to protein from carbs and get some exercise (you can last longer in bed with or without Viagra)
c) If you are losing your hair it is no big deal, so long as you shave/crop it close- combovers never gave anybody an orgasm and the same goes for greasy grey ponytails
d) Be a man- there is no need to hide your testosterone under a bushel if you forgive the pun- Filipinas like strong men who know what they want, especially in the bedroom-they love to be mastered- but this does not mean that you act like a jerk - be courteous, show some consideration, stand upright, walk with dignity, be polite, wear nice chinos and a teeshirt with an open shirt over it or a nice linen jacket (drink plenty of water in the heat)- stand out as a guy who has a little style and dignity- do not be like the sloppy 'laid back' guys who slobber their way round Cebu.
e) Do all of the above and you will have a great time - they really are wonderful women.
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dia LOL
Hi to all,
check this one out
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=d4570782-ae6c-48d8-9b2c-99634397f2be[/url]
unfortunetely once I read her profile I told her straight what I was thinking :D
IM sure she wont reply to me any more. Amen. but maybe you guys contact her and report your experience here.
I guess another money beggar with zero in return.
God thanks Its friday tomorow AC time :D
Blink Out
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??? She mentions she doesn't have money to travel, but I'd hardly assume she's a money begger.
Don't be so pessimistic Blink! Tell her you want to go to church with her!
X
[QUOTE=Blink157]Hi to all,
check this one out
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=d4570782-ae6c-48d8-9b2c-99634397f2be[/url]
unfortunetely once I read her profile I told her straight what I was thinking :D
IM sure she wont reply to me any more. Amen. but maybe you guys contact her and report your experience here.
I guess another money beggar with zero in return.
God thanks Its friday tomorow AC time :D
Blink Out[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man]??? She mentions she doesn't have money to travel, but I'd hardly assume she's a money begger.
Don't be so pessimistic Blink! Tell her you want to go to church with her!
X[/QUOTE]
Says not pic, no reply. And hers is blank.
Also says she is 5 foot 6.
Did she just take down her picture?
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]Says not pic, no reply. And hers is blank.
Also says she is 5 foot 6.
Did she just take down her picture?[/QUOTE]
She must have, I had a look earlier and she was very nice. 8/10 in my eyes.
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Servant of God
[QUOTE=AussieOverboard]She must have, I had a look earlier and she was very nice. 8/10 in my eyes.[/QUOTE]
Yes, she was cute. I would have got down on my knees with her any day;).
She is probably confused as to why visitors to her profile have skyrocketed since Thursday. Plus she has maybe had a few PM's from prospective born again Christians who also happen to be ISG members:D.
Its amazing how many push the 'good little catholic girl' angle in their profiles.
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Yep, took her picture down and now has a warning about guys who "don't believe" her profile.
I hope you're satisfied Blink.
X
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]Says not pic, no reply. And hers is blank.
Also says she is 5 foot 6.
Did she just take down her picture?[/QUOTE]
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She has now put a photo up--I never saw the old one, so I don't know if it is the same one.
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am a servant of god!
am simple person who spend my time in attending church and join any ministry in church...have faith in god
my hobby is reading,listening music and go anywhere with my friends... i don't have work now my family is okay...they happy! i love to travel in any country but i don't have much money to go... but its ok! i grew up in a good family and happy but sometimes they have struggle to come... but they survive it!...
if people who not believe in my profile don't message me... don't compare me in other girls... who wearing a mask....
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]She has now put a photo up--I never saw the old one, so I don't know if it is the same one.[/QUOTE]
Its a different pic and no where near as flattering as the first.
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Why did she switch it?
Wrote her a short note but no response.
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Here's the type of add that really makes me wonder what is going on in their heads:
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=2f9ebe6a-61cc-43f6-a355-e529ff985080[/url]
Busty, but oh so negative.
I once answered an ad like this suggesting that it was too negative. She was cute and apparently educated so I wanted to see what would happen.
She responded, "You are the reason why...blah, blah... Don't ever send me a message again..." I didn't.
X
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shockrooms.com
My friend told me about a chatroom to meet filipina bargirls called [url]www.shockrooms.com[/url]. He said there was some hot looking filipina girls on there. We recognized a girl that works at a bar called lollipops. She looks mixed. She goes by the name crazyfantasy on [url]www.shockrooms.com[/url].
Anyone recognize her?
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The sad decline of Filipino Kisses
I've done two trips to the Phils and am just about to go for my third.
On my first trip a year ago I posted a new ad on Filipino Kisses and was bombarded with emails. Perhaps 70 in two or three days. I skipped FK for my second trip six months ago since that's where I met one of the ladies I wanted to see again. I went with Cherry Blossoms instead.
If anything it was even more productive - on the order of 80 to 90 in that same span. I've been very specific that I'm only interested in women from the city that I'm visiting.
For trip three, I'm avoiding CB to reduce the risk of complications. So I signed up with DIA. Since "free" left room in my budget for a one month paid subscription, I decided to circle back around and do FK.
Very disappointing. I don't know if DIA and CB have sucked all the business away from there, but I've gotten 12 unsolicited emails and none of them were worth responding to. I've gotten 80 unsolicited in four days on DIA. Only two were ladyboys.
I deleted my previous FK profile and created a new one with very similar content so I wouldn't show as having been on the site for 400 days. I used the same text and pic for DIA, so that isn't a factor, either.
Right now, based on my most recent experience, I couldn't recommend FK. I'm curious if others have noticed the same thing.
BTW, Why do the women in places I'm NOT going to visit always look so hot? Cebu and CDO have several that make me want to change my flights.
- SbySW
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Why? The same reason why you meet a stunning, sweet thing on the last day of your trip.
So where ya goin?
X
[QUOTE=South by SW 2]...SNIP...
BTW, Why do the women in places I'm NOT going to visit always look so hot? Cebu and CDO have several that make me want to change my flights.
- SbySW[/QUOTE]
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Miss 'I'll tell you later'
[QUOTE=X Man]Here's the type of add that really makes me wonder what is going on in their heads:
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=2f9ebe6a-61cc-43f6-a355-e529ff985080[/url]
X[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=X Man]
I hope you're satisfied Blink.
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Same result, methinks. Hope YOU are satisfied.
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Yes, I considered that. (sarcasm noted / enjoyed / dismissed)
But what has me baffled is why they would let a few wankers (not you Blink....I kind of like your causticity...) get their dandruff up and then revise their profile, putting themselves in such a negative light.
Likewise, a very colorful (no pun intended) fellow ISGer recently posted something that included "fuck y'all" (my paraphrase). I suspect his vitriol was aimed at someone other than myself, but it's kind of hard to smile and ignore such a greeting before I've had my morning coffee. I guess my response caught him before he had HIS morning coffee as well!
So, my question still stands. What is going thru people's heads when they pick such negative communication when posting online?
OH, And I'm not referring to my direct virtual face to virtual face disagreements on this list. But, if anyone wants to comment on that, please try to keep the name calling to a minimum.
X
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Same result, methinks. Hope YOU are satisfied.[/QUOTE]
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I'm busted
Funny thing just happened.
I had a profile on DIA to actually find a serious girlfriend, and then I put up a second using a different email and all that, just to find a little extra good time with out a picture.
And damn it, after about 24 hours of posting the second profile. I've been banned permanently! Oh well. Giving me a good laugh at it though. I don't know how they caught me. Unless they have a cookie on my computer? Any ideas? Recording the IP addresses?
At least I have my girls I'm already going to meet. I don't need it now anyways.
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Caution - Pen Pal And Chat Site Scams
Be very careful when joining the chat sites or sending a pen pal.
Most of those sites are owned by locals and lots by people associated with the going on there in the Philippines
Many have been set up using the credit card info to meet a girl - then after going getting a suite for child support. They then pay child support wether the child is theirs or not - and even if they do a test many have reported it takes as much as 5 years to get the government to stop taking money or release bank accounts etc.
Recently one person was set up from a popular site from a add saying they had the best escorts etc - and when he picked the girl up the cops showed up at his hotel and demanded $5000 US or they would turn the case over and have him deported at which time he owuld also be persecuted in the states
Do not give personall info to any of these pen pals or chat sites.
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Recording the IP addresses? Yes, exactly. Very simple.
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Hide.
Equally simple to hide using TOR, a free proxy or another of the hundreds of services available.
I do not see how the IP relates to the framing? After all, your ISP will not hand out records associating a person with an IP adress unless there is a criminal charge. Your IP is just a number until someone (ISP / police with the help of ISP) relates it to YOU using records of usage.
If you use TOR, do remember that Javascript and Flash (amongst a few others) will (can) still leave an imprint of your true IP. Privacy is not automatic just because you install TOR/TOR packet, but to hide you IP on a basic HTML/PHP/ASP-site is super simple and is explained in another thread on this forum.
Barba
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headache
Hi to all,
sorry I was a bit busy recently. Went on this other forum where whiny and angry guys posted their soap stories how they got scammed by filipinas.
I dont know if I made myself clear, but its stupid to send any money to girls you never met in person. More stupid if you send money to them and never been in their country before or never have any intention to go there. Im just in contact with a 5"0 21 years young busty cam chick. She want to meet me, because she is bored. Her thai bf supported her since 3 1/2 years and he never meet her up. Of course he aint living in Thailand. He is in the USA. Guess I dont have to comment on that one, but surely will post some pictures of her in the apropiate fotosection after I have meet her up for "a drink".
Some days ago I post some profile from a dia girl over here. I can see that you guys also dont came any closer to this obvious very religious minded chick. I dont mind to be religious at all if it comes to dating, but as Im banned now I have no more chance to tell her how much I would enjoyed to meet her up in sogo church and discuss things with her. Maybe she would show up in a nun costume? that would be new...hmmm...now Im really thinking. Hope you guys have better success to aproach her in the apropiate way.
I take a look at XMen dia lady. Nice busty but what she says in her profile , all this f.. and sh..t and liar stay away from me....I wouldnt conisder to send her any message. BTW she looked like one of my ex GF. Maybe thats why she hates men now? Should consider my behaviour next time :)
Have to go to lunch now. Burger king waitress are dressed all in black, black nylon, black mini skirt. God I really love this country :)
Blink
PS. didnt know that nowadays they put cookies in a laptop or pc. Choclate cookie? vanilla cookie? No wonder I live in a thrid world country since Kycuriosity has allready the new Cookie laptop from starbucks. Gosh Im jellous now!Need to get one of those asap!!
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[QUOTE=Kycuriosity]Funny thing just happened.
I had a profile on DIA to actually find a serious girlfriend, and then I put up a second using a different email and all that, just to find a little extra good time with out a picture.
And damn it, after about 24 hours of posting the second profile. I've been banned permanently! Oh well. Giving me a good laugh at it though. I don't know how they caught me. Unless they have a cookie on my computer? Any ideas? Recording the IP addresses?
At least I have my girls I'm already going to meet. I don't need it now anyways.[/QUOTE]
I had 3 different profiles running at one time on DIA and never had a problem.
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Cam girls...
Aside from the report I posted in Makati section about a cam girl...theres another who says she doesnt want money, only chocolates for a show.
Sweet girl must be smitten by me as says she will give me a free show on Feb 14th if I give her chocs. She says could I send them.
I explain they would melt in post and she accepts this.
So.. I guess I get a free show. The good life!
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[QUOTE=Kycuriosity]Funny thing just happened.
I had a profile on DIA to actually find a serious girlfriend, and then I put up a second using a different email and all that, just to find a little extra good time with out a picture.
And damn it, after about 24 hours of posting the second profile. I've been banned permanently! Oh well. Giving me a good laugh at it though. I don't know how they caught me. Unless they have a cookie on my computer? Any ideas? Recording the IP addresses?
At least I have my girls I'm already going to meet. I don't need it now anyways.[/QUOTE]
I have 2 profiles on DIA one with pic and one without and never had any problems. Its a good idea to have 2 profiles because you can check on your honeyko and see if she is as true to you as she says she is..lol.. MOST are not..They will chat with ANYONE who sends a hello. Just the way it is. They are all looking for the best opportunity and you cant blame them I suppose. life is hard in Phil as we all know.
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[QUOTE=Nightrider1]I have 2 profiles on DIA one with pic and one without and never had any problems. Its a good idea to have 2 profiles because you can check on your honeyko and see if she is as true to you as she says she is..lol.. MOST are not..They will chat with ANYONE who sends a hello. Just the way it is. They are all looking for the best opportunity and you cant blame them I suppose. life is hard in Phil as we all know.[/QUOTE]Wise words. Filipinas are lovely, but they are female, and only guys who can handle the heat should apply. Example, one particular trip to the Phils I had two weeks intensive with a mid 30s single mom from a website, desperate to marry etc. Nice submissive screw, tight pussy, always ready, but a bit too small and plaintive for my taste. Wanted me to meet her family and so on. I told her I did not know her well enough to marry.
So three weeks after I returned from the Phils she told me she had met another guy, was hot with him. I did not give a damn, I told her (always the best response). Then 2 weeks later she said she wanted to get back with me, she was 'in love with me'. So I said ok let's see how it goes, and for the next two years she emailed, phoned virtually every day without ever meeting me again (I went to the PHils a few times but not to her city.) Once or twice I sent small amounts of money. Even her married best friend who lives in Holland and was visitng my country told me she was very much in love with me. Eventually about 2 months ago I told her I could not commit. Best be friends etc.
Guess what? Her friend now tells me she is 'getting married'! I laughed. That was quick. LOL. What is the betting she was cruising other guys all along? Good luck to her, but do not take any crap from them: 'love' is a very elastic word.
Oh and guess what- her married best friend is flirting with me. She is coming to my city on her own for a few days. Her hubby thinks she is on a business trip.
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Dia
I have had 2 profiles on DAI for 6 months or so. 1st has my real profile, Bob the Nice Guy. 2nd Profile is Butterfly Bob that says very clear, this next trip is for fun.
I was bouncing between the 2 profiles back and forth sending messages to the same girl. After about 30 mins, I got a screen that said you are only allowed one profile. I think I got it because I was bouncing between the 2 so much in a short period of time.
The next day I clear my cookies and had no problem logging into them both.
Butterfly Bob sent a short polite note to a girl asking if she wanted to chat. Her response was "ók but not if you want to talk about sex" 30 mins later she agreed to have sex with me if I took her and her parents to Bohol for a couple of days. She is a single mom in Cebu. I bet Nice Guy Bob would be lucky to get a hand job from her after taking her entire family out to a few meals and spoiling her kid with gifts.
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Need a new Dating website
H' all
I have used used Phil Hearts it was good, DIA is it Hit and Miss and Cebuanas, no longer of any value in my oipinion.
I am looking for a pay site againa dn I am wondering about Asiankisses. Has anyone used it?
I signed up for free and get some hits but have never responded.
Assistance would be appreciatted.
JJ
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I have had 2 profiles on DAI for 6 months or so. 1st has my real profile, Bob the Nice Guy. 2nd Profile is Butterfly Bob that says very clear, this next trip is for fun.
I was bouncing between the 2 profiles back and forth sending messages to the same girl. After about 30 mins, I got a screen that said you are only allowed one profile. I think I got it because I was bouncing between the 2 so much in a short period of time.
The next day I clear my cookies and had no problem logging into them both.
Butterfly Bob sent a short polite note to a girl asking if she wanted to chat. Her response was "ók but not if you want to talk about sex" 30 mins later she agreed to have sex with me if I took her and her parents to Bohol for a couple of days. She is a single mom in Cebu. I bet Nice Guy Bob would be lucky to get a hand job from her after taking her entire family out to a few meals and spoiling her kid with gifts.[/QUOTE]Fascinating experience, with big insights into the whole way they operate.
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I have had 2 profiles on DAI for 6 months or so. 1st has my real profile, Bob the Nice Guy. 2nd Profile is Butterfly Bob that says very clear, this next trip is for fun.
I was bouncing between the 2 profiles back and forth sending messages to the same girl. After about 30 mins, I got a screen that said you are only allowed one profile. I think I got it because I was bouncing between the 2 so much in a short period of time.
The next day I clear my cookies and had no problem logging into them both.
Butterfly Bob sent a short polite note to a girl asking if she wanted to chat. Her response was "ók but not if you want to talk about sex" 30 mins later she agreed to have sex with me if I took her and her parents to Bohol for a couple of days. She is a single mom in Cebu. I bet Nice Guy Bob would be lucky to get a hand job from her after taking her entire family out to a few meals and spoiling her kid with gifts.[/QUOTE]Fascinating experience, with big insights into the whole way they operate.
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Dia
How about this one:
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=56ce6bd0-f343-43df-8ff7-f743143be9e2[/url]
[QUOTE=X Man]Here's the type of add that really makes me wonder what is going on in their heads:
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=2f9ebe6a-61cc-43f6-a355-e529ff985080[/url]
Busty, but oh so negative.
I once answered an ad like this suggesting that it was too negative. She was cute and apparently educated so I wanted to see what would happen.
She responded, "You are the reason why...blah, blah... Don't ever send me a message again..." I didn't.
X[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Fredje1961]How about this one:
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=56ce6bd0-f343-43df-8ff7-f743143be9e2[/url][/QUOTE]I saw that one the other day. Didn't bother to reply to her.
Anyways had a super chat yesterday with a gorgeous 21 year old somewhere near Davao. Long legs hot smiles. Totally gorgeous. Anyways after an hour chat (and she said she'd fly to manila if I asked her). She says she has no eletricity in her home. And could I make a contribution so we could continue to chat more " privately. " No idea if it was an attempted scam. I didn't bite.
Meanwhile, one lady who I WILL meet on next Manila trip, did her little show for me. Nice body. Nice open puss. Went down well with my morning coffee.
Then another cam gal I know, 19, saw I was on a business call (we were both on cam) so she offs her shorts. And starts dancing in red bikini and t back. Said she was trying to get me to concentrate on her. Well she sure did. Wonderful C cups. So all in all was a good mornings work. And viewing. LOL
And this one has no electricty for sure. Was cut off two days ago. But she never asked.
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''ONLY TO THOSE WHO R TRUE''
''To all users in this site,,,,as far as i know that this site is for people who want to know each other,,,and meeting someone,,,but i realize that some people give bad meaning in word DATE,,,yeah it depends on how to understand it,,but sad to say that mostly here for fun and playing games,,i know not all but mostly,,,they are different on their frofile,,,so i decide not to put any description of my self ,,,what for,,,,,i know many girls their that here just for fun too and hurt feelings to others,,,but not all like boys too not all of them are bad,,,,,but forsake what f that girl or boy have good heart,,,and really good intention here,,,and i prove now that this site cant protect our personal info,,,,,well so sad but its true,,,
Im very disappointed on it when i found out that many guys here just want to talk us and ask but then want to destroyed lives,,,,,,,think of it,,what f thats happen to ur family,,ur son or daughter maybe its hurt too,,,so we r just human being and i know how it feels too,,but in proper way,,,,,GOOD LUCK TO ALL.
ejekin143 from dipolog city
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'''IMPOSIBLE TO FINE A REAL LOVE HERE.....
hello im mary gold a VERY simple Asian girl!!!!!!!!!!!
i like to play soft ball, badminton any kinds of games as long as i know how to play,,,
i am a college student w/ the course of BS education major in biology,,,
hope to find a good guy here,,,,coz lot of guy here in internet are very naughty they just want for fun or they just like to have sex w/ some girl,,
i dont like guy who just want to talk about sex i hate that kind of guy,,,,,
God bless you all!!!
thank you for reading my profile,,,
regards,
mary gold
mg_nunez!
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zzzzZZ
[QUOTE=Parker88]My friend told me about a chatroom to meet filipina bargirls called [url]www.shockrooms.com[/url]. He said there was some hot looking filipina girls on there. We recognized a girl that works at a bar called lollipops. She looks mixed. She goes by the name crazyfantasy on [url]www.shockrooms.com[/url].
Anyone recognize her?[/QUOTE]
ehem,
why you want to talk with a girl in chatroom who obviously works in a bar? God thanks they play some music there and serve cold beer. Imagine they wont do that and you could hear all he conversations going on over there, like: Where you from? whats ur name? see how you areee! Hell no!!! Dont want to hear that and specially not in a chatroom.
I guess you you interested for whatever reason in that girl. Well, I hadnt had her lately, but hundreds did. Maybe that says it all about Angeles city and the "working girls"
Nice day to all!
Blink
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Hey, Cuba Tourist, how’s it going?
I’m not a big fan of DIA, for any number of reasons. Particularly that the profiles only allow one pic. I want to see a number of pics, and be confident that they are all of the same girl! Most of these girls are working out of internet cafés and could just be grabbing a pic from anywhere on the net. I want to have some confidence that the girl I’m going to meet is the girl in the pic!! Remember the old adage that if it looks to good to be true, it probably is. At least Filipina Heat is better, that way.
Spread your wings wide. I’ve made contacts and gotten numbers through Hi5, Friendster and even Myspace. My date book is already overflowing for my next trip.
Give me a ring some time, bud! I seem to have lost your number. I should be home the next few weekends.
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[QUOTE=Genghois]Hey, Cuba Tourist, how’s it going?
I’m not a big fan of DIA, for any number of reasons. Particularly that the profiles only allow one pic. I want to see a number of pics, and be confident that they are all of the same girl!
Spread your wings wide. I’ve made contacts and gotten numbers through Hi5, Friendster and even Myspace. My date book is already overflowing for my next trip.
Give me a ring some time, bud! I seem to have lost your number. I should be home the next few weekends.[/QUOTE]Dont forget, that DIA may be a place to initially find one that looks good.. thereafter use the opportunity to have follow up chats on DIA.. most cafes now have cams so you can quickly sort the stars from the also rans.
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blocked sites
Hi again,
for those guys who actually in the Philippines or live in the Philippines here is some info how to access blocked sites like acm..mybabes, etc :D
just use google translater and type in the url of the site.Thats it!
YOu cant log in as or with your member name, but you can chat and view the girls as a guest before you kicked out. Its fun for me to be there sometimes. Specially because some of the girls/models I met up in person, but not many. I just met those who were fuckable and not those I have to spend my money for foods and then bye bye LOL
Blink
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Question
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Good Idea????
I have a couple of ex girlfriends in the Philippines that are both recent college grads in Hotel/ Restaurant MGT. One of them took a 6 month internship in Asia for 6 months, but it did not pay very well compared to the US. It was still better than the PI, and she was able to send back about a $100 a month to her family. The employer paid for her housing and for her air fair. Her college career center sends many grad through the program.
However, they also have programs that sends the students to the US or Earope for much better paying internships. The catch is they have to pay upfront for the cost (visa, agency fees ect. ). The cost is around $1500 plus airfare. In return the interns make great money compared to the PI. My friends know other studens in the program, so It sounds legit.
so you see the proplem is the "rich get richer and the poor get poorer" Girls that have access to the upfront fees can get well paying jobs vs the girls who have no money so have to go to the low paying Asia internships.
So, I am looking into comments or suggestions if I should lend the girl the money. she can easily pay me back month instalments from her paycheck, just like any other loan.
I like the idea that she will have a job with in driving distance to me, so that we can visit eachother. Of course my concerns are makeing sure I get my money back and that this is not illegal in anyway. I don't want my name involved with this, in case I do want to get a finacee visa for another girl sometime in the future.
Any comments? You can PM if you like to share your ideas, or to knock some sense into me.
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The Big Head
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I have a couple of ex girlfriends in the Philippines that are both recent college grads in Hotel/ Restaurant MGT. One of them took a 6 month internship in Asia for 6 months, but it did not pay very well compared to the US. It was still better than the PI, and she was able to send back about a $100 a month to her family. The employer paid for her housing and for her air fair. Her college career center sends many grad through the program.
However, they also have programs that sends the students to the US or Earope for much better paying internships. The catch is they have to pay upfront for the cost (visa, agency fees ect. ). The cost is around $1500 plus airfare. In return the interns make great money compared to the PI. My friends know other studens in the program, so It sounds legit.
so you see the proplem is the "rich get richer and the poor get poorer" Girls that have access to the upfront fees can get well paying jobs vs the girls who have no money so have to go to the low paying Asia internships.
So, I am looking into comments or suggestions if I should lend the girl the money. she can easily pay me back month instalments from her paycheck, just like any other loan.
I like the idea that she will have a job with in driving distance to me, so that we can visit eachother. Of course my concerns are makeing sure I get my money back and that this is not illegal in anyway. I don't want my name involved with this, in case I do want to get a finacee visa for another girl sometime in the future.
Any comments? You can PM if you like to share your ideas, or to knock some sense into me.[/QUOTE]Think with the big head sir - lol
Lets look at the reality of things - this is a lot of money to them and there are lots there that do nothing but spend their hours of the day scamming on the net and personal sites - young military guys that think they love the, old coggers like ourselves, and the unexpecting.
On the other hand if you know this girl and feel for her - then do not lend her the money - just give it to her and do not expect it back.
Peace
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My first DIA girl blocked me. I wrote about eating ice cream.....She answered:
Angles Gift of Love, 23, Philippines
hi again,
I work 28 days in a row, at the end of the month - if
I have been on the job 28 days, I can take two days off.
one day is for washing my things,
the other is for resting....
I don't care, what your having, to eat...
Here that is not a nice thing to do when so
many of us, have no such thing... Its viewed
as being rude....
I'm blocking this off, soon... I did ask you to send to
me e-mail at my address, you don't do so... Sincere
people just don't chat all the time....
your in the USA, so chat does us no good...
my cell is a text only type, and I can't have voice
talking on it... they are cheap cells phone here, like
p 600. to p 850. so many of us girls buy them type...
you be good now,
hope to see a letter from you, but I won't
stay up nights waiting.....
take care,
Lynzz
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[QUOTE=Wrong Info]Think with the big head sir - lol
Lets look at the reality of things - this is a lot of money to them and there are lots there that do nothing but spend their hours of the day scamming on the net and personal sites - young military guys that think they love the, old coggers like ourselves, and the unexpecting.
On the other hand if you know this girl and feel for her - then do not lend her the money - just give it to her and do not expect it back.
Peace[/QUOTE]
Agree any money given to a girl should be seen as a gift, and if she pays you back then it is a bonus.
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Wow, they send me messages like "hi". You should consider yourself lucky to get such a thought provoking message!
Considering the weird message and bags under the eyes, I'd say she either has some problems or some chemical assistance.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=afc7657d-e3f8-4034-a260-83e121e32dc9[/url]
I sent her a message and said I like ice cream too.
X
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]My first DIA girl blocked me. I wrote about eating ice cream.....She answered:
Angles Gift of Love, 23, Philippines
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[QUOTE=Wrong Info]Think with the big head sir - lol
Lets look at the reality of things - this is a lot of money to them and there are lots there that do nothing but spend their hours of the day scamming on the net and personal sites - young military guys that think they love the, old coggers like ourselves, and the unexpecting.
On the other hand if you know this girl and feel for her - then do not lend her the money - just give it to her and do not expect it back.
Peace[/QUOTE]
I just wanted to make sure there was nothing illegal about this. I don't think there is, I just wanted to stay under the radar in case I do decide to get a fiancee visa later in life.
I have know both girls for over 2 years and believe they THINK they will pay me back. But I know once there families find out they have an money, they will but a lot of pressure on the girls to send them money. They will easily make enough money to pay me back, because the jobs are for 9 months to a year long. Maybe I can have them sign a promissory note, it will at least make them understand that they need to pay me back the loan.
The idea that I can have a 21 year old Pinay Friend within driving distance sounds to good to be true. And since they don't drive, there will be no drop by's'.
I am sure someone on this board has helped a Pinay out in this way, please share how your experience went.
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(Cover the) Angles Gift of Love
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]My first DIA girl blocked me. I wrote about eating ice cream.....She answered:
Angles Gift of Love, 23, Philippines
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Yes ... but did you tell her you had running water indoors in your house ...that might have got her interest.
Or maybe you forgot the photo - she did mentions 3 times about the importance of the photo. Or maybe you are not in her narrow age range of 34 to 62?
You have to feel sorry for the poor dear living alone in the jungle as she does! Maybe you didn't fit her idea of a Tarzan to her Jane?
Perhaps they are all a little flaky on Masbate. It must be difficult sometimes, living in a place that sounds like an act of self abuse;).
I too sent her a message about ice cream. I told her I had a big cone and she would be welcome to come and lick it:D I imagine she will be on the next boat.
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This is too funny! Unfortunately, I lost my notes to her when she blocked me.
Can someone post her photo and profile or send them to me PM if that is better vis the rules of this website. I was caught totally off guard. I was never a smart ass with her!!!!
I thought she was going to be the love of my life!!! Boo hooo....
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Better
This girl sounds better- Her moniker is: simple and young!
i wanna rock your world!!!
i am a friendly and an adventurous girl who wants to meet someone exciting...
Weight: 43 kg (95 lbs)
Occupation: still looking for a good job!
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Cuba. I posted the URL about one day ago. Just click on that.
Or just search for the name you gave us earlier. Angles Gift of Love
Gamahucher -- funny post. Seems your humor only shines thru about one in 20 posts, and not at all when you are in in attack mode.
Anyway, let's not gang up on poor Ms. Gift of Love. She's provided a thought provoking piece, gave GH some great material, and strikes me as the simple minded type which we could learn from.
(oh, that last sentence looks like new material for GH....scratch that itch boy....)
This is a girl you would want to go home with. Communal outdoor cold shower...I've been to a village like that....what a freakin adventure.
X
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]This is too funny! Unfortunately, I lost my notes to her when she blocked me.
Can someone post her photo and profile or send them to me PM if that is better vis the rules of this website. I was caught totally off guard. I was never a smart ass with her!!!!
I thought she was going to be the love of my life!!! Boo hooo....[/QUOTE]
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Xman, since she blocked me, the url will not work for me.
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Craigslist
Funny ad on Manila's Craigslist.
[url]http://manila.craigslist.com.ph/ers/1047926531.html[/url]
I so hungry and need to pay my rent - w4m - 22 (Malati)
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Reply to: [email]pers-1047926531@craigslist.org[/email] [Errors when replying to ads?]
Date: 2009-02-24, 12:12PM PHT
Hi, Im so hungry and need to pay my rent:-( I spent all peso shopping at Robinsons. I dont like job so Ill do anything w any1. Filipinos r free. Thank u to the June man buy me condo 4 months free. And July man for Antibiotics. And August man for Samsung cell. And September man for shopping and silver jewlery. And October man for ear rings. And November man for happy birthday cake. And December man for Hyatt and Boracay. And January man for Happy New Years. And Valentines man for shirt and chocolates. And February BlueRidge Navy men. And all the short timers in between b4 n after. I know what I gav u all wont ever go away. So who wants to join d Arlyn Western Union Taub club? If no reply is bc my boyfriend in town, but when he go Ill sneek u in;-)
Location: Malati
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]Xman, since she blocked me, the url will not work for me.[/QUOTE]
I think you are blocked because you are signed in to DIA when you try to view her profile. Try logging out and make sure you don't put remember me for the user name and password, then click on x=man's link.
Robb
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Use of word " simple"
I llvoe it when some sweet probinsiya gal says " Im so simple"....
Unfortunately what she doesnt always realise is that the use of term has connotations of mental inadequacy. The word was often associated with those who had to go to special schools back in my youth.
I've tried explaining this a few time to a few ladies and several "get it".. they now say they are humble. But I still have to laugh, as so many of these aspire to being " simple"
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I think they use the word simple to indicate that they are from a modest background. One Otis wrote me today on date in Asia that she wants to find a guy who will accept her for who she is. I asked her what she meant by that and she said that she has no father and is from a poor family. I think that many of them feel that they are not worthy because they are not sophisticated.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]I llvoe it when some sweet probinsiya gal says " Im so simple"....
Unfortunately what she doesnt always realise is that the use of term has connotations of mental inadequacy. The word was often associated with those who had to go to special schools back in my youth.
I've tried explaining this a few time to a few ladies and several "get it".. they now say they are humble. But I still have to laugh, as so many of these aspire to being " simple"[/QUOTE]
And if you look at matchmaking sites from ex-British colonies, esp. India, you'll always find girls described as "homely". Now why in hell would they do that, I wondered, and then learned that it means that they like to stay around the house, take care of their man, cook, clean, etc.
So maybe I should post an ad: Wealthy foreigner seeks simple, homely lady for permanent arrangement. Beautiful nymphomaniac preferred.
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You kidding?
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I just wanted to make sure there was nothing illegal about this. I don't think there is, I just wanted to stay under the radar in case I do decide to get a fiancee visa later in life.
I have know both girls for over 2 years and believe they THINK they will pay me back. But I know once there families find out they have an money, they will but a lot of pressure on the girls to send them money. They will easily make enough money to pay me back, because the jobs are for 9 months to a year long. Maybe I can have them sign a promissory note, it will at least make them understand that they need to pay me back the loan.
The idea that I can have a 21 year old Pinay Friend within driving distance sounds to good to be true. And since they don't drive, there will be no drop by's'.
I am sure someone on this board has helped a Pinay out in this way, please share how your experience went.[/QUOTE]Hi,
just one advise. Lending money to a pinoy means given it to him/her. Why you think its so dam diff to get a loan here, until you come up with so many paperwork. Why you think they have loansharks, 5/600 bumbay?
Like WI says, if you like the girl, send her the money, but dont expect anything in return, no sex, no nothing and no money at all. Send it to me, I send you 50% back, the other 50% will be spending on a blast withe some ISG members here in ANgeles city. If ever you send, I will post pictures, promise :D
Blink
PS. Seriously, its correct that, if that works (which I think it wont cause its a scam) the chick will be in your neighbourhood, but why should she bang you if she can have evry hot guy in the US??So if she bang you, expect that she will charge you in US rates..200US one pop LOL.
PPS: Dont even consider that money to send to her, save it for urself and fly over here and have fun
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My opinion regarding CT
Hi,
Danamae here, anyway think positive. Maybe there's a reason why she blocked you. Think of any way to communicate with her again if you really wanted her.
If you think that she's the right person then continue anyway she's worth it all along, rather than regreting in the future.
I cheated before, I lied with my partner but I sincerely regreting and sorry for what I have done and now trying to do what I think is right but I am willing to wait to win he's forgiveness and give me another chance because he's worth waiting for. I will do everything, for him to know that he's my life, my partner that's why I'm doing this.
So, goodluck and may you find true happiness and love. Takecare always I know it sounds corny but its real.
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Some Questions - March Trip
Hi Guys,
I'm a long time lurker who was last in The Phills 2001. Almost got stuck there! Going again Mid March to Manila stopover and Cebu. Not into the usual tourista spots unless it is for a quickie. Already have gfe and a previous gf lined up.
Anyway, some questions if you can assist me:
What is the best airline to travel Manila to Mactac (Cebu)? Can you walk up in NIAA and likely get a flight? I want to be flexible outside Manila.
Best way to carry money? Credit Cards or USA Or Pesos or Traveller's Cheques? Draw from CC daily at a Hotel for cash? Which cards work. Or don't?
Anyone know a good value 4/5 Star near NIAA?
Communications. Have my BB with me for contact back home daily to 'check on things'. Can one get a short term rental CP at NIAA or MOA? Or do we need to purchase. Want to have a Phils based CP too.
Are small towns dangerous if you are with a local gal? I worry some about that. I'm early 50's, she is late 20's. (Last time at Shang in Edsa didn't seem to matter! )
Promise to post some ols and new pics next.
Thanks!
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Tagged
I haven't seen people mention tagged.com (though not read back all the posts.)
It's quite an OK to get contacts in the Phils. You use the "meetme" function and just OK the girls you are interested in. If she also clicks OK you can view the pics add her as a friend etc. A bit more convoluted than DIA but some pretty girls there.
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[QUOTE=Blink157]Hi,
PPS: Dont even consider that money to send to her, save it for urself and fly over here and have fun[/QUOTE]
I was thinking of ways to protect my cash, like paying the agency directly and having her pay me back each pay check. But I have learned overtime if there is cash in a Pinay's hand, her family will be all over and I will be the last person to get paid.
So far, looks like I am SOL, protecting my cash.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]I can confirm that Myspace, Friendster, Ringo & Tagged are all places where pinay's hunt us. For example a girl asked me to put an account on Tagged 6 weeks ago & I got about 100+ people all wishing to be 'friends'. All pinays, 18-35 year old. Many very nice ones & easy to get phone numbers for meeting if you say you are going to be there in their town soon.
The nice thing about these social networking sites is you can look at the friends of a friend & find stunners quite by accident.[/QUOTE]I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead [post]803989[/post] I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.
Good Luck
Robb
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Thanks for the info AV and Robbaf,
I've been deleting mail from Tagged as I thought it was one of those bot sites that encourages you to sign up, import your mail lists, and then spams.
I've never warmed up to the social network sites, but I may have to give it another go.
X
[QUOTE=Robbaf]I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead [post]803989[/post] I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.
Good Luck
Robb[/QUOTE]
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Tagged.com
[QUOTE=Robbaf]I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead [post]803989[/post] I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.
Good Luck
Robb[/QUOTE]
I went there and had a look also. Signed up and found many Chinese gals also. One pic attached :)
Maybe low hanging fruit.
ES
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Tagged
[QUOTE=Eaglestar]I went there and had a look also. Signed up and found many Chinese gals also. One pic attached :)
Maybe low hanging fruit.
ES[/QUOTE]Been on Tagged for past 3 months.. high success rate in several countries......as long as you know how to play the game.
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Good For The Short Term
I have never been a fan of this social networking phenomenon but I have found Myspace, Friendster and Facebook overall more productive in every aspect in terms of seeing more photos; friends and family, day to day life and weeding out scammers.....
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......as long as you know how to play the game.
Could you explain what you mean exactly. This could be very helpful, because I probably don't know how to play.
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]......as long as you know how to play the game.
Could you explain what you mean exactly. This could be very helpful, because I probably don't know how to play.[/QUOTE]IMHO, playing the game means being a gentleman. Don't ask them to get naked on the first webcam chat, don't talk about sex. I always joke and laugh with them and take the time to chat with them. So many times I have had girls tell me that guys are rude to them and start the chat with, "Can you show me your tits?" and keep asking for webcam sex.
IMHO, these guys are lurkers from other countries who have never been to the Philippines and most likely will never be able to afford a trip here.
Robb
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One girl wrote me that she changed her photo back to the previous photo because the better photo was attracting the wrong kind of attention:
...good morning
it's not new photo...but i changed photo, trying to get rid of nasty messages...sorry.
i dont know why i received such messages..but i dont care...i dont get much messages right now..and thats fine... :) the more sexy pic i have, the more i get nasty messages... :)
so you're ready for your trip...good for you... :)
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But I think they have to accept that we may meet several girls on the same trip. I don't want them to think it is automatically monogamous from the start. That same girl would not accept this idea.
for me...if i am interested to a guy....i would want to meet him...and i dont want him to meet plenty...it's just your choosing...and it's a big insult if i would be one of your collection...it might be okay for those women...they can take it...but not me. it would be waste of your time if you meet plenty and end up nothing... :) well, i guess you have numbers to choose for...so, i guess you already made up your mind...that;s good.
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Friendster
I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?
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Bi Sexual girls
I met a guy yesterday who had struck it lucky with a girl he met via DIA in GenSan a year ago. Turned out that she was bi and more than happy to participate whenever he wanted another girl He now intends to marry her and bring her to Pattaya to live with him as she is so flexible.
Anyone have any suggestions how to track down bi or bi curious giurls in the Phils?
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I agree with Robbaf's main point. But assuming that the online lechers are low-income lurkers is tenuous at best.
I'll add a few things about "playing the game" from the X Man point of view. Many of my comments are just generalizations, but they seem to work for me.
There are a lot of things you can say/do on chat to find out information and /or set up a possible rendezvous...
Where is your boyfriend tonight? (Comes across as a joke, but if you can confirm that she HAD a bf at one time, you can assume she isn't cherry.)
Do you live with family/ how many bros sis do you have / what is your work? (The more independent they are, the more likely your seduction strategy will work. And older ladies often fall into this category. Many brothers and sisters may indicate a lower income family...)
Can you recommend a good beach? Can you swim? What color is your bikini? (Some will recommend Borocay, but they've never been there. Having a bikini is usually a good sign, but best to chat a bit before going in that direction.)
Flirting in general seems to be very effective. "It's cold here in xxx, I wish you could give me a warm hug."
I'm sure others have their special techniques. Oh, and I try to get email and phone numers as quickly as possible.
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[QUOTE=Robbaf]IMHO, playing the game means being a gentleman. Don't ask them to get naked on the first webcam chat, don't talk about sex. I always joke and laugh with them and take the time to chat with them. So many times I have had girls tell me that guys are rude to them and start the chat with, "Can you show me your tits?" and keep asking for webcam sex.
IMHO, these guys are lurkers from other countries who have never been to the Philippines and most likely will never be able to afford a trip here.
Robb[/QUOTE]
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Yes, this is often a problem. One option is just to drop one of these types.
But, I also suspect you could avoid the topic altogether by changing the subject or suggesting that you insist on "friends first".
And if you have her phone number already, just let it go. Ignore her for a while. Wait until you get to the Philippines. Her tune may change when you call her up and suggest having lunch.
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]But I think they have to accept that we may meet several girls on the same trip. I don't want them to think it is automatically monogamous from the start. That same girl would not accept this idea.
for me...if i am interested to a guy....i would want to meet him...and i dont want him to meet plenty...it's just your choosing...and it's a big insult if i would be one of your collection...it might be okay for those women...they can take it...but not me. it would be waste of your time if you meet plenty and end up nothing... :) well, i guess you have numbers to choose for...so, i guess you already made up your mind...that;s good.[/QUOTE]
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Friendster Search
[QUOTE=GregLondon]I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?[/QUOTE]
The Friendster search functionality was changed, a few weeks ago, and has definitely gone downhill. The seem to be going the Facebook route and trying to make it so that you can only find people you really know (Hi5 did the same about a year ago). You go into Search, type “Philippines” or, better still, your city of interest. Then you have to chose gender, age and eliminate all of the other countries, so you’re only seeing girls resident in Phil. Pain in the ass, as it used to be much simpler.
Funny thing about Friendster is how the girls use it. Every Filipina on the planet who lives within 20 miles of an internet café has a Friendster account. I’ve got over 400 friends on my account, but I rarely get responses back to messages I send. I have better luck getting responses in Myspace, sometimes even with the same girl!
Thanks guys for the heads up on Tagged. My account’s been up for 24 hours and I’ve already got 40 friends, some of whom are very responsive! Although there do seem to be a few too many “too good to be true” profiles, and a high number of TS/TV’s on the site. Buyer beware! Also seem to be girls with multiple profiles. I had identical (and highly boring, monosyllabic) chats on YM, last night, with two supposedly different girls from Tagged.
I haven’t managed to get into Ringo. Is the site down?
Thanks also to X Man for his chat suggestions.
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I had a interesting conversation.
Her-Hi
Me- Hi How r u
Her- fine. I am happy. I will be graduating in april.
me- What r u going to be.
her- a nurse
me- good for u. What is your future plans.
Her- to go abroad to work. Do you come to PHI ?
me- yes, This month
her- I want to be with you.
me- ok. Where do u live?
her- Zamboanga.
me- Is it safe there?
her- Yes. I will never leave you alone.
Me- ok. but i prefer to be in manila
her- in that case i will come to manila and stay with you.
me- ok
her- But i do not have any money to come there
ME- I will send you the air ticket
her- Really? That is nice. But i do not have expense money.
me- How much for expenses?
her - 5000 pesos.
me- That is too much Why?
her- I need to buy clothes and other things.
me- I will only send the ticket.
her- Can u help me with the rent?
I ignored her after.
The Philippinas are adept in conning. Do not send any money to anybody
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check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1[/url]
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[QUOTE=Pimpster]check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1[/url][/QUOTE]
She is not honest.
State: Davao City
City: Makati City
Ethnicity: African American
LOL.
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One indicator could be (especially on sites like Tagged etc) that she has many girlfriends in profile.
So far, I think I've struck gold two times in Phils and once in Hongkong (filipina living in Hongkong).
I expect to go to HKG and Phils soon, I'll give feedback on the actual situation later on.
[QUOTE=GregLondon]I met a guy yesterday who had struck it lucky with a girl he met via DIA in GenSan a year ago. Turned out that she was bi and more than happy to participate whenever he wanted another girl He now intends to marry her and bring her to Pattaya to live with him as she is so flexible.
Anyone have any suggestions how to track down bi or bi curious giurls in the Phils?[/QUOTE]
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I wouldn't think this is 'not honest'
she may be originating from Davao City but working and/or living in Makati.
As for the "African American", given the fact that she's posting a pic and that we can see she's asian, I would just put that on a manipulation error when creating her profile.
[QUOTE=Bob Down]She is not honest.
State: Davao City
City: Makati City
Ethnicity: African American
LOL.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Bob Down]She is not honest.
State: Davao City
City: Makati City
LOL.[/QUOTE]
State: Davao City (she is from Davao)
City: Makati City (working in a Makati bar)
:)
Robb
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No offense to Sammon, but I have a very different take on this chat:
1) Not adept at conning at all. She simply asked you for money. Sammon hung out the bait....who offerred something? If you had sent the money she may very well have come to Manila. That's not a con! I have a friend who sent money to a bar girl to go to Bali and she arrived on schedule.
2) Considering how quick and awkward her replies are, I have to assume she is either a fkwit, or more likely, taking the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] out of Mr. Sammon.
The really good ones will steal your heart before they ask for money.
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[QUOTE=Sammon]I had a interesting conversation.
Her-Hi
Me- Hi How r u
Her- fine. I am happy. I will be graduating in april.
me- What r u going to be.
her- a nurse
me- good for u. What is your future plans.
Her- to go abroad to work. Do you come to PHI ?
me- yes, This month
her- I want to be with you.
me- ok. Where do u live?
her- Zamboanga.
me- Is it safe there?
her- Yes. I will never leave you alone.
Me- ok. but i prefer to be in manila
her- in that case i will come to manila and stay with you.
me- ok
her- But i do not have any money to come there
ME- I will send you the air ticket
her- Really? That is nice. But i do not have expense money.
me- How much for expenses?
her - 5000 pesos.
me- That is too much Why?
her- I need to buy clothes and other things.
me- I will only send the ticket.
her- Can u help me with the rent?
I ignored her after.
The Philippinas are adept in conning. Do not send any money to anybody[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Fredje1961]One indicator could be (especially on sites like Tagged etc) that she has many girlfriends in profile.
So far, I think I've struck gold two times in Phils and once in Hongkong (filipina living in Hongkong).
I expect to go to HKG and Phils soon, I'll give feedback on the actual situation later on.[/QUOTE]
An OFW recently mentioned to me that many Filipinas that accept (legit OFW) work in HK turn bi or les, because there are simply so few men available to them. Taiwan, in contrast, also employs many Phil and Tai male construction workers, so straight OFWs can find bfs from their home country. Could be that HK is a gold mine for 3-somes among the OFWs?? Worth some investigating I would think.
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[QUOTE=Houziwang]An OFW recently mentioned to me that many Filipinas that accept (legit OFW) work in HK turn bi or les, because there are simply so few men available to them.[/QUOTE]Don't think that this idea really holds water. I spent several years living and working in Hong Kong, and Filipina's were my standard boffing fare. Don't ever recall meeting a single confessed Bi (or lezzy) during this time. Saying which, there are a lot of ugly sisters/older spinsterish Filipina's working in Honkers, so maybe they find that the only way to get a little nookie is amongst themselves. An attractive Filipina in HK will never have to go too long without.
My mate and I had a foolproof MO for attracting Pinay pussy. He played a mean guitar, so most Sundays we used to heave our hungover asses, with guitar, over to Central, and set up a mini buskers point in Chater Gardens or near the Cenotaph or in one of the myriad other places that the thousands of Hong Kong Filipinas spent their day off work. Between his strumming and my good looks (LOL), we usually had a Pied Piper effect and were quickly surrounded my hordes of sex starved OFW's. The rest was easy.
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[QUOTE=Fredje1961]I wouldn't think this is 'not honest'
she may be originating from Davao City but working and/or living in Makati.
As for the "African American", given the fact that she's posting a pic and that we can see she's asian, I would just put that on a manipulation error when creating her profile.[/QUOTE]I think she just made the whole profile up for a laugh. Taking the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url]!
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Bi or Les in HKG ?
Houziwang,
Funny you mention this: during my last visit to HKG, I met a pretty indonesian nanny (via yahoo, and two hours later in person), and when I asked her about Sunday afternoons in Victoria Park, she told me that she didn't want to go there "because there's so many lesbians, I don't like them".
[QUOTE=Houziwang]An OFW recently mentioned to me that many Filipinas that accept (legit OFW) work in HK turn bi or les, because there are simply so few men available to them. Taiwan, in contrast, also employs many Phil and Tai male construction workers, so straight OFWs can find bfs from their home country. Could be that HK is a gold mine for 3-somes among the OFWs?? Worth some investigating I would think.[/QUOTE]
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I was based in HK for four and a half years,never met a genuine Bi and I was in wanchai in the infamous pussycats and neptunes every single weekend without fail,met plenty of lesbians though,and a number of pinays married in pinas who had taken lesbian lovers in HK (gender-confused?).
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Sorry Bob, I agree with Fredje on this one. I've seen more than a few Filipinas listed as Afro-am. Maybe that is their man target or maybe they consider themeselves "too dark". There may very well be another explanation...poor English skills?
I guess the way to find out is to ask the lady! Try to give the lady the benefit of the doubt.
X
[QUOTE=Fredje1961]I wouldn't think this is 'not honest'
she may be originating from Davao City but working and/or living in Makati.
As for the "African American", given the fact that she's posting a pic and that we can see she's asian, I would just put that on a manipulation error when creating her profile.[/QUOTE]
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ok, um, yeaaaa
[QUOTE=Pimpster]check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1[/url][/QUOTE]
and she says her name is Miiyuki? Sounds like japayuki to me.
So she has been to Japan and passed around the Yakusa like a living fuck doll for either a year or more. Anyone one taking these chicks is really getting the low end of the "used" car lot. Trust me, I have seen it.
I guess that they are women too, so what the fuck do I know, go on and marry the chick. I am sure she fucks good.
ahh, just jokin, little bit pissed tonite.
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Miiykki
She has the same profile on FH
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[QUOTE=Carmex]and she says her name is Miiyuki? Sounds like japayuki to me.
So she has been to Japan and passed around the Yakusa like a living fuck doll for either a year or more. Anyone one taking these chicks is really getting the low end of the "used" car lot. Trust me, I have seen it.
I guess that they are women too, so what the fuck do I know, go on and marry the chick. I am sure she fucks good.
ahh, just jokin, little bit pissed tonite.[/QUOTE]You could well be right. I have a different take on this. Since i live here i aim my sights a little higher than the bottom end of the socio econmic scale.
I have experience with girls from higher up the 'food chain'.
Lets see now.. 19 years old, well groomed & well dressed, has decent but not expensive jewellery, photo posed somewhere decent (not beside roosters & nipa hut), very upfront about what she wants.. Hmm.. I'd say shes a typical university student. These types of girls have a little better lifestyle than your average province girl & are even more aggressive about finding a guy from overseas to ensure they move up in the world.
Enjoy the fringe benefits of humping one of these super horny little vixens but dont lose your heart to them coz they are very two faced.
AV
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[QUOTE=GregLondon]I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?[/QUOTE]Friendster is MASSIVE here in the PI!
Every girl & boy from about 16yrs on gets an account. Its all very school kid'ish at first but them becomes a flirtation venue & a place to satisfy their vanity.
Girls in particular spend A LOT of time embellishing their FS profile with glitter & endless self portraits from their cell phone & pics of all their cousins & school buddies. Some web browsers (software) simply crash under the weight of all the javascript on the girls pages :)
FS is not really seen by them as a place to find a guy (although you will find plenty of foreigner guys posting leering comments to their profiles).
The girls mostly go to CB or FH or DIA for the husband hunting & then return to FS to display their 'catch' to their cousins & friends.
If I were looking I would get a CB & DIA account & let them come to me!
My god you can waste some time on web sites & yahoo chasing pinay's.
AV
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Confused
[QUOTE=Pimpster]check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1[/url][/QUOTE]She looking for a millionaire, does she mean in peso, euro, pound or usd?
Million peso isn't that much.
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At first, I see all these pics on friendster. These gals will have hundreds of pics. Many of the pics will be the same, for example there will be a photo album of Boracay, and there will be about 10 pics of the gal wearing the same outfit at the same location, just different poses, but not that different.
At first, I think gee these gals sure are vain. But then I think. Friendster, its a Philippines phenomenon LOL. What else do they use the PC for?
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[QUOTE=Fattie]She looking for a millionaire, does she mean in peso, euro, pound or usd?
Million peso isn't that much.[/QUOTE]
She looking for u.s. millionaire.
Reastilically Ph, makes turns average american male into donald trump. You can be old and ugly and still get hot girls. If we are really honest with ourselves , we wouldn't be able to pick up 20 something filipina living in the U.S. but its the norm in PH.
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Friendster
So far, have scored with about 10 ladies from Friendster.
The challenge is that everyone can see who is your friends and who you have been looking at.
This is both good and bad.
They will then play the game on your comments page to out comment you. Showing all others that you are the real honey and all others are pretenders. Its a funny game to sit back and watch.
The ability to look at private pics is good. Just yesterday an OFW who I know in Taiwan let me see her private pics. Cute little titties.
The girls on FS have a thing called " shopping ". Nothing to do with malls. They look at their friends friends and then introduce themselves. Thats how a ferw have found me. Its a wonderful game. And not only restricted to Philippines.
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DIA girl
Met a cute one in DIA the other day from some province or other.
We then switched to YM so we could see each other on cam. She was nice 19, young and tasty. I had no intention of actually doing it, but asked her if she wanted to come visit me in Manila.
She was an obvious virgin but gave the standard " I like you ".
Chatted a bit about sex and her lack of experience, so asked her again if she would meet me in Manila, Id pay for ticket etc.
She said hold on. Next thing I know there's her Dad on cam waving at me.
So funny. Poor guy, I don't think he knew how to type so it didn't get to a conversation. He was about 10 years younger than me too.
Anyways he told the daughter it was ok for her to go to Manila to see me. The power of me wearing a neck tie and looking clean cut LOL.
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You don't explain why she's an "obvious virgin".
A while back I had a rather mind-dumbing debate (in the loosest sense of the word "debate") with a guy who basically suggested that meeting the family was unusually immoral because it suggested a marriage invitation.
Your interesting story seems to support my side, which is ..blah, blah, read FF's message...
X
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Met a cute one in DIA the other day from some province or other.
We then switched to YM so we could see each other on cam. She was nice 19, young and tasty. I had no intention of actually doing it, but asked her if she wanted to come visit me in Manila.
She was an obvious virgin but gave the standard " I like you ".
Chatted a bit about sex and her lack of experience, so asked her again if she would meet me in Manila, Id pay for ticket etc.
She said hold on. Next thing I know there's her Dad on cam waving at me.
So funny. Poor guy, I don't think he knew how to type so it didn't get to a conversation. He was about 10 years younger than me too.
Anyways he told the daughter it was ok for her to go to Manila to see me. The power of me wearing a neck tie and looking clean cut LOL.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Met a cute one in DIA the other day from some province or other.
We then switched to YM so we could see each other on cam. She was nice 19, young and tasty. I had no intention of actually doing it, but asked her if she wanted to come visit me in Manila.
She was an obvious virgin but gave the standard " I like you ".
Chatted a bit about sex and her lack of experience, so asked her again if she would meet me in Manila, Id pay for ticket etc.
She said hold on. Next thing I know there's her Dad on cam waving at me.
So funny. Poor guy, I don't think he knew how to type so it didn't get to a conversation. He was about 10 years younger than me too.
Anyways he told the daughter it was ok for her to go to Manila to see me. The power of me wearing a neck tie and looking clean cut LOL.[/QUOTE]
Be aware that in many instances, as far as the family is concerned the girl is a virgin. It is the social thing in PHI. Even if the girl has lost her cherry she will not tell her family or others. Marriage prospects are better for her if she is a " Techical Virgin ".
Another thing is that girl lives with her parents. She will have to ask for permission to go anywhere. Next thing she is going to tell you is she wants to bring her friend along because she is scared. If you agree and send money for tickets 95% of the time they will not show up. Even if you send the tickets instead of money she can ask for refund from the airlines.
If you really like the girl best thing is to travel to her place to meet her. It is highly unlikely you will be able to screw her but you never know. All PHI girls profess " I love you very much " without even meeting you. The reason is like any girl all over the world who wants a saviour to make their life better and all want a loving husband and children. In Phi age does not seem to be a factor with poor people.
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....With Poor People
[QUOTE=Sammon] In Phi age does not seem to be a factor with poor people.[/QUOTE]
That's the key statement in your whole post. We search for pussy in the third world then complain about their searching for money. I have made complaints about this in the past but now in retrospect I think I and all the guys here whining about rogue chat mates in PI need their head examined.
As for the Virgin shit....still never met one that was of legal age and Filipina.
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Here is a good one. She says she is married and lives in Makati. Here is her header---
They ignore me in public..but fantasize me in private lol
Her self-description---
im a **** coz ill wear short and a tanktop,im a bicth coz i dont let u push me around,im a liar coz i wont tell u evrything,im stupid coz sometimes imwrong,im controlling coz i get mad sometimes. im rude coz my manners aren't perpect.
She is looking for--
I want to meet a Male
with age from 18 to 80
and I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.
i want to meet the one willing to love me for who i am or what ever i am..and give to me everything i want. God bless u all.
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[QUOTE=Sammon]Be aware that in many instances, as far as the family is concerned the girl is a virgin. It is the social thing in PHI. Even if the girl has lost her cherry she will not tell her family or others. Marriage prospects are better for her if she is a " Techical Virgin ".
If you agree and send money for tickets 95% of the time they will not show up. Even if you send the tickets instead of money she can ask for refund from the airlines.
If you really like the girl best thing is to travel to her place to meet her. It is highly unlikely you will be able to screw her but you never know. All PHI girls profess " I love you very much " without even meeting you. The reason is like any girl all over the world who wants a saviour to make their life better and all want a loving husband and children. In Phi age does not seem to be a factor with poor people.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice mate.. but I think "doesnt apply" Have the Filipina wife, lived there for 5 years, am an inveterate, and vetaran player there, have regualr weekend trips there where I always get 3-4 in 72 hour trips.. so my interest in a girl who maybe a virgin is purely from the hunting angle.
Tho I will add when I lived there I had 6 virgins, all of whom were well over 18..
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Good point about her not telling the family.
How did you arrive at "95% OF THE TIME THEY WILL NOT SHOW UP"?
And I'm pretty sure you can arrange a ticket that cannot be refunded.
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[QUOTE=Sammon]Be aware that in many instances, as far as the family is concerned the girl is a virgin. It is the social thing in PHI. Even if the girl has lost her cherry she will not tell her family or others. Marriage prospects are better for her if she is a " Techical Virgin ".
Another thing is that girl lives with her parents. She will have to ask for permission to go anywhere. Next thing she is going to tell you is she wants to bring her friend along because she is scared. If you agree and send money for tickets 95% of the time they will not show up. Even if you send the tickets instead of money she can ask for refund from the airlines.
If you really like the girl best thing is to travel to her place to meet her. It is highly unlikely you will be able to screw her but you never know. All PHI girls profess " I love you very much " without even meeting you. The reason is like any girl all over the world who wants a saviour to make their life better and all want a loving husband and children. In Phi age does not seem to be a factor with poor people.[/QUOTE]
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another interesting one---
i olredi enrol at univ.b.a at political science!hope i can mke it
- i can be very shy around people i have never met before and i know that often comes off as bitchy, but trust me i dont mean it like that at all. -
- i still dont get why i get shy sometimes. -
- in all honesty i personally dont care if you like me or not. just please do yourself a favor and keep my fucking name out of your mouth.
- neweiz maybe i am too adventurous and naughty at times but i do know my limitations.. people often misunderstood me.. so you fucking people who does nothing but spread gossip! "dont judge a book by its cover" you dont know me.. this saying is so lame but true..
anyhow,. i am trying to change myself now.. ive been pretty fed up of who and what i am.. i am 20 and getting old.. life has been really though for me.. i am more matured now.. and pretty independent.. however i feel like being alone.. i wanna isolate myself from the very wide ridiculous world ive been in.. i am willing to surrender everything,. from my beliefs to peers.. i wanna be someone else.. a new michelle deguzman delacruz..
loosing something uve treasured the most has made me realize of who i am becoming.. this has made me stronger and gave me dedications to finally move forward.. time will come when eventually things will go smoother for me.. but as of the moment i am pretty much not contented of this lifestyle..
so a new me is about to come.. i am hoping it'll work out..
uhm addition to that im pursuasive.. hahaha.. pursuasive it is.. ehem.. i only said this so that ul be contented febri.. hahaha.. i am not.. geeez
- ive realized. how i never needed certain people in my life. i found out who matters and who never did. i know who's gonna be there for me when i need them. and who are/have walked out of my life for good. -
..sometimes you just gotta be weird, go against the crowd and act stupid, laugh till you cry and cry till you can't feel the pain.
don't listen to what other people say.
you know you're being yourself and that's all that counts.
don't worry what they willthink about you. your true friends will stay by you.
*so just be yourself*
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Banned from DIA
Hi,
I've just found that I've been locked out of DIA which is a pain. Of the various possible reasons the only one that could apply is sending the same message to lots of different girls. Something that I suspect most of us do.
Does anyone have a feel for how much multi message sending DIA will tolerate. Also as far as setting up another profile is concerned are there any complications. I presume one needs a new email? Do they also check you internet ID etc?
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Spamming DIA
[QUOTE=GregLondon]Does anyone have a feel for how much multi message sending DIA will tolerate. [/QUOTE]
Last year I was trying to send messages and chat with seven women at the same time (a frivolous exercise) when all of a sudden the website slowed me down by making me type a code into a box before I sent each message. So they have anti-spamming systems in place that are triggered by rapid messaging.
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DIA Hits
Just came back from Manila. Met this girl who works as saleslady. Through DIA. We had chatted for a while and got a bit raunchy online. She is in late 20s, more mature than most and got nice body and really big lips.
Arranged to meet at my hotel (Traders) for dinner. No mention of money as she has a job.
Thinking I would take a while for the seduction to take place so imagined a long flirtatious night before the fornication would start.
Met her as she got out the cab. And she looked nervous and first thing she said: "can we go to your room for our drink. I feel nervous in public".
Off we went to my room. As we opened the door. Gave her a peck on the cheek which turned into a full on DFK session. On to the couch where it was rip off our clothes time.
I got no bloody sleep as it was pretty full on all night.
Next morning breakfast and she had to rush home to get changed for work.
I offered to pay for her cab which she refused.
Lesson is with DIA. Pick a woman with a job and with more mature attitude and don; t make any promises to them either.
Amazing things can happen if you use your brain first before your dick.
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Banned from DIA
[QUOTE=GregLondon]Hi,
I've just found that I've been locked out of DIA which is a pain. Of the various possible reasons the only one that could apply is sending the same message to lots of different girls. Something that I suspect most of us do.
Does anyone have a feel for how much multi message sending DIA will tolerate. Also as far as setting up another profile is concerned are there any complications. I presume one needs a new email? Do they also check you internet ID etc?[/QUOTE]Having read the DIA site it seems that they use complaints from other members to automatically ban people if you get enough complaints. I don't think my profile said anything offensice except that I was not interested in ladyboys or hearing from scammers. Maybe the scammers and ladyboys got their revenge??
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It's kind of nice to get seduced once in a while. But I have to tell you scout, I think she's just using you for your body.
Ordinary salesladies don't make much money. You probably should have insisted.
Anyway, great post.
X
[QUOTE=Scout 7272]Just came back from Manila. Met this girl who works as saleslady. Through DIA. We had chatted for a while and got a bit raunchy online. She is in late 20s, more mature than most and got nice body and really big lips.
Arranged to meet at my hotel (Traders) for dinner. No mention of money as she has a job.
Thinking I would take a while for the seduction to take place so imagined a long flirtatious night before the fornication would start.
Met her as she got out the cab. And she looked nervous and first thing she said: "can we go to your room for our drink. I feel nervous in public".
Off we went to my room. As we opened the door. Gave her a peck on the cheek which turned into a full on DFK session. On to the couch where it was rip off our clothes time.
I got no bloody sleep as it was pretty full on all night.
Next morning breakfast and she had to rush home to get changed for work.
I offered to pay for her cab which she refused.
Lesson is with DIA. Pick a woman with a job and with more mature attitude and don; t make any promises to them either.
Amazing things can happen if you use your brain first before your dick.
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very good english. i have to suspect there is some pansy-ass british guy wearing stockings, lip stick and high heels as he types out that message.
i could be wrong....
x man
(no offense to my british friends)
[quote=cuba tourist]another interesting one---
i olredi enrol at univ.b.a at political science!hope i can mke it
- i can be very shy around people i have never met before and i know that often comes off as bitchy, but trust me i dont mean it like that at all. -
- i still dont get why i get shy sometimes. -
- in all honesty i personally dont care if you like me or not. just please do yourself a favor and keep my fucking name out of your mouth.
- neweiz maybe i am too adventurous and naughty at times but i do know my limitations.. people often misunderstood me.. so you fucking people who does nothing but spread gossip! "dont judge a book by its cover" you dont know me.. this saying is so lame but true..
anyhow,. i am trying to change myself now.. ive been pretty fed up of who and what i am.. i am 20 and getting old.. life has been really though for me.. i am more matured now.. and pretty independent.. however i feel like being alone.. i wanna isolate myself from the very wide ridiculous world ive been in.. i am willing to surrender everything,. from my beliefs to peers.. i wanna be someone else.. a new michelle deguzman delacruz..
loosing something uve treasured the most has made me realize of who i am becoming.. this has made me stronger and gave me dedications to finally move forward.. time will come when eventually things will go smoother for me.. but as of the moment i am pretty much not contented of this lifestyle..
so a new me is about to come.. i am hoping it'll work out..
uhm addition to that im pursuasive.. hahaha.. pursuasive it is.. ehem.. i only said this so that ul be contented febri.. hahaha.. i am not.. geeez
- ive realized. how i never needed certain people in my life. i found out who matters and who never did. i know who's gonna be there for me when i need them. and who are/have walked out of my life for good. -
..sometimes you just gotta be weird, go against the crowd and act stupid, laugh till you cry and cry till you can't feel the pain.
don't listen to what other people say.
you know you're being yourself and that's all that counts.
don't worry what they willthink about you. your true friends will stay by you.
*so just be yourself*[/quote]
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The DIA name for this one is emsdcute13 from makati:
im a **** coz ill wear short and a tanktop,im a bicth coz i dont let u push me around.... (see below for her full text.)
I wrote her and she didn't answer.....
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[QUOTE=Tony Hoeprano]At first, I see all these pics on friendster. These gals will have hundreds of pics. Many of the pics will be the same, for example there will be a photo album of Boracay, and there will be about 10 pics of the gal wearing the same outfit at the same location, just different poses, but not that different.
At first, I think gee these gals sure are vain. But then I think. Friendster, its a Philippines phenomenon LOL. What else do they use the PC for?[/QUOTE]Tony my GF's all do the same thing.. they stand around taking endless self portraits with their cell phones & posting them on FS. For the love of god how many times can you at pictures of yourself? But these girls are FASCINATED by it. I guess they have very shallow lives..
Im so glad I bring a little excitement into their boring lives ;)
AV
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X man - yes
X- man,
I hope to god she is using me for my body. Hate to think its for my brain. As at the moment when I hit Manila the last thing that functions properly is my brain. And definitely next time I am going to make sure she does take some money or treat her to something.
At same time. I'm not wanting to get too close in case she thinks I want some sort of serious relationship.
Besides I have a few more on DIA I am working myself through.
But as I said before. Using DIA is a bit hit and miss. You need to really be smart in case you get hooked by some scammer.
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Banned from DIA
[QUOTE=GregLondon]Having read the DIA site it seems that they use complaints from other members to automatically ban people if you get enough complaints. I don't think my profile said anything offensice except that I was not interested in ladyboys or hearing from scammers. Maybe the scammers and ladyboys got their revenge??[/QUOTE]It turns out that it is quite difficult to get back onto DIA if you have been banned for some reason. If you are using your own PC/Laptop you are in trouble as their site detects your IP details. It also won't help if you try to use an anonymous web surfing sit as you can only use the site if you have enabled cookies. A real pain.
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[QUOTE=GregLondon]It turns out that it is quite difficult to get back onto DIA if you have been banned for some reason. If you are using your own PC/Laptop you are in trouble as their site detects your IP details. It also won't help if you try to use an anonymous web surfing sit as you can only use the site if you have enabled cookies. A real pain.[/QUOTE]You must have been hitting that site hard for that to happen Greg!
Commiserations as its fun to surf the thousands of pretty girls advertising themseles there!
My suggestion is go hit some other sites for a while because the ban will probably expire after a period of time. Other suggestion is change ISP (if you are logging in from home) or if you have a laptop, go log in using another Wifi network.
You understand you will be now going to the site from a different (not banned) IP address right Greg?
I suggest start a fresh account, for gods sakes dont go to the site from another network & try to login with your old user/pass ok?
Good hunting!
AV
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GregLondon
In addition to AV's advice, I suggest contacting them directly and asking why you were banned and/or apologizing and asking to be reinstated.
A while back when I was a paying member at Cherry BLossom I put my email address (without the 'at' mark) in my message (against the rules) and it went unnoticed. My payment period expired and the message remained. After about four months I updated something trivial and bam...banned. An apology and some lame excuse got me reinstated even though I wasn't a paying member.
It's worth a try.
X
[QUOTE=Amavida]You must have been hitting that site hard for that to happen Greg!
Commiserations as its fun to surf the thousands of pretty girls advertising themseles there!
My suggestion is go hit some other sites for a while because the ban will probably expire after a period of time. Other suggestion is change ISP (if you are logging in from home) or if you have a laptop, go log in using another Wifi network.
You understand you will be now going to the site from a different (not banned) IP address right Greg?
I suggest start a fresh account, for gods sakes dont go to the site from another network & try to login with your old user/pass ok?
Good hunting!
AV[/QUOTE]
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Internet Cafe's
Just logged onto yahoo to find two friends in Manlia online, only problem was both ID's belong to the same person. I got chating to both and wasn't hard to work out which one was my friend and which one wasn't.
My guess was my friend forget to log out while in a cafe and then someone has come along and changed their password and started using their ID. My friend thought they had forgotten their password and because they not use ID much, never worried about it until I came apon the problem.
The person who stole my friends ID didn't seem to care that they were using someone else ID which still had my friends picture on it. They just said "I own the account" and to stop talking to them. Who knows what they are using my friends account for.
I told my friend to get in and change password again, but WTF. Can never be too careful while using a cafe.
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Another thing to look out for is a lady lending her ym to a friend or younger sis/cousin. Or worse, mom or sis/ cousin is looking over the shoulder reading the exchange. If your chat is headed in the naughty direction, it's best to ask a few questions first.
My points are a bit different than what BD described, but it made me think of a few of my own irregular experiences.
X
[QUOTE=Bob Down]Just logged onto yahoo to find two friends in Manlia online, only problem was both ID's belong to the same person. I got chating to both and wasn't hard to work out which one was my friend and which one wasn't.
My guess was my friend forget to log out while in a cafe and then someone has come along and changed their password and started using their ID. My friend thought they had forgotten their password and because they not use ID much, never worried about it until I came apon the problem.
The person who stole my friends ID didn't seem to care that they were using someone else ID which still had my friends picture on it. They just said "I own the account" and to stop talking to them. Who knows what they are using my friends account for.
I told my friend to get in and change password again, but WTF. Can never be too careful while using a cafe.[/QUOTE]
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Is it worth it?
Alright guys, I've heard a little about using chat sites to pick up girls and/or have them waiting for you when you go to PI. The chat site I've ever tried is AFF and it was such a waste of money AND time. Time is the big problem for me. I hate wasting time making a profile, checking it all the time, advertising myself, and doing all this for a couple of hours everyday for nothing. I want to ask you guys honestly is it worth it?
The sites I know of are DIA, cherryblossums, and filipinahearts. If you all feel it definitely worthwhile, then my plan is to make accounts there and advertise myself. (I'm not sure if I should do free or paid accounts.) I speak Filipino also if that helps. Also what can of info should I post? Should I just post the basics or should I also post photos or is posting photo too risky? (my wife is filipina) I guess I should also that I have been to once already so I know what PI is like but I have never tried the chat site approach. I wanted to try to pick up local girls when I was there but I kept thinking that I would get scammed since most of the time I was in major cities like Cebu city, Manila, AC. I kept telling myself that if I go to Davao or the provinces then I'll pick up some local girls.
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[QUOTE=Laylow3]Alright guys, I've heard a little about using chat sites to pick up girls and/or have them waiting for you when you go to PI. The chat site I've ever tried is AFF and it was such a waste of money AND time. Time is the big problem for me. I hate wasting time making a profile, checking it all the time, advertising myself, and doing all this for a couple of hours everyday for nothing. I want to ask you guys honestly is it worth it?
The sites I know of are DIA, cherryblossums, and filipinahearts. If you all feel it definitely worthwhile, then my plan is to make accounts there and advertise myself. (I'm not sure if I should do free or paid accounts.) I speak Filipino also if that helps. Also what can of info should I post? Should I just post the basics or should I also post photos or is posting photo too risky? (my wife is filipina) I guess I should also that I have been to once already so I know what PI is like but I have never tried the chat site approach. I wanted to try to pick up local girls when I was there but I kept thinking that I would get scammed since most of the time I was in major cities like Cebu city, Manila, AC. I kept telling myself that if I go to Davao or the provinces then I'll pick up some local girls.[/QUOTE]1) Bored just doin it for giggles as a time filler? Do it.
2) Lonely bachelor with lots of time on your hands? Do it.
3) Looking to learn a little about the way the chicks think/speak/act? Do it.
4) Want to line up a couple to check out as soon as you arrive? Sure why not.
5) Married to a filippina? Aaaaaarrrrgggghhhh!!!! DONT DO IT!!!
She WILL have many cousins/friends back home in PI who are active on these very same sites! They WILL see you & they WILL inform her!!!!
Do you have a death wish man? :)
All jokes aside it can be an ok ice breaker for a newbie to get a few girls lined up but dont waste hours on it.
Dont get a profile more than 4 weeks before you leave, I'd say 2 weeks in advance is plenty. The chicks go 'off the boil' pretty quick as they are constantly being hit on every day on those sites ( hitting on guys constantly daily i might add).
Put up a flattering pic with just a few reassuring words about your self & hint about coming very soon & where. You will get LOTS of 'bites' believe me.
Pick the a couple that are most attractive to you & chase them up with a few chats.
Have a squiz through the profiles for some chicks that stand out from the crowd but dont make it a big deal to win them over. Sometimes you get lucky.
Dont spend hours chatting to any of them. Get their cp #'s. Follow them up when you get there. Sometimes you get lucky other times its an anticlimactic waste of time/money. Dont go chasing after them when you get there. Make them come to you. The place is filled to bursting with desirable/available young women. After you visit here once or twice you will calm down & develop the confidence to pick up nice GF's/Freebies practically anywhere.
If you're married may i suggest you give it a swerve & just to Angeles and go bang your brains out? Seriously, P4P is a LOT safer & easier than advertising yourself on the internet & them chasing after strangers.
AV
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[QUOTE=Amavida] 1) Bored just doin it for giggles as a time filler? Do it.
2) Lonely bachelor with lots of time on your hands? Do it. 3) Looking to learn a little about the way the chicks think/speak/act? Do it. [\QUOTE]1). i’m a student so I’m always busy and I never ever have much time.
2). i’m married
3). I speak Filipino so. .
[QUOTE=Amavida] 4) Want to line up a couple to check out as soon as you arrive? Sure why not. [\QUOTE]Bingo! That’s me. I just want to have as many sexy girls waiting for me as possible since when I go to the PI, I usu. Stay for at least a month. (that’s how it has been so far at least)
[QUOTE=Amavida] 5) Married to a filippina? Aaaaaarrrrgggghhhh! Don't DO IT! She WILL have many cousins/friends back home in PI who are active on these very same sites! They WILL see you & they WILL inform her!
Do you have a death wish man? [\QUOTE]So, on a serious note are you saying I should do it or not do it? I was thinking I could do it without sharing photos but I’m not sure that would work. (or would it? )
[QUOTE=Amavida]All jokes aside it can be an ok ice breaker for a newbie to get a few girls lined up but don't waste hours on it. [\QUOTE]Well, i’m not a newbie since I been to the PI before and I stayed for almost a month.
[QUOTE=Amavida]Put up a flattering pic with just a few reassuring words about your self & hint about coming very soon & where. You will get LOTS of 'bites' believe me. [\QUOTE]ok, so pics are mandatory then?
[QUOTE=Amavida]don't spend hours chatting to any of them. Get their CP #'s. Follow them up when you get there. Sometimes you get lucky other times its an anticlimactic waste of time/money. Don't go chasing after them when you get there. Make them come to you. The place is filled to bursting with desirable/available young women. After you visit here once or twice you will calm down & develop the confidence to pick up nice GF's/Freebies practically anywhere. [\QUOTE]I definitely won’t spend much time on their unless we "connect" in some kind of way. GFE doesn’t mean much to me although it is nice. I just like banging hot girls and from the quick search I did on AFF, DIA, blossoms, and hearts, there were a lot of HOT girls on there. I don’t if most or all of them are scams but damn 70-80% of those chicks were banging. That’s a high percentage!
[QUOTE=Amavida]If you're married may I suggest you give it a swerve & just to Angeles and go bang your brains out? Seriously, P4P is a LOT safer & easier than advertising yourself on the internet & them chasing after strangers. [\QUOTE]This is very true but I’ll already been to AC and don’t get me wrong, I really enjoyed and I will be going back but I want to try out some new things. Also, I don’t think I saw one single working girl in AC that made me almost bust a nut in my pants by just looking at her. Although of course I saw some regular girls that gave me that effect but that’s besides the point. I’ve said it before and I’ll reiterate it again. IMHO, AC would be perfect if it had a couple of bars where you could go and find available girls that are as fine as the so-called "models" working on P. Burgos. I’ve never been to Burgos St. Yet so I don’t know if the girls are actually really sexy as hell but from what I’ve read on the internet and stories I heard from my friends, they are supposedly the finest girls out there when you compare Philippines and Thailand.
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DIA banning
[QUOTE=X Man]In addition to AV's advice, I suggest contacting them directly and asking why you were banned and/or apologizing and asking to be reinstated.
A while back when I was a paying member at Cherry BLossom I put my email address (without the 'at' mark) in my message (against the rules) and it went unnoticed. My payment period expired and the message remained. After about four months I updated something trivial and bam...banned. An apology and some lame excuse got me reinstated even though I wasn't a paying member.
It's worth a try.
X[/QUOTE]Thanks for the suggestions guys. My next plan is to create an account in an internet shop, which shouldnt be picked up, then I'm hoping thayt once iyt is approved I wil be able to log on with my laptop when I'm in a different place withouty them being able to trace that the messages are comming from this specific computer. I'll delete the cookies and hope that works. The problem is that DIA has to have a very aggressive ant I scaming policy as it is so full of scammers. Which seems to have caught out me a legitimate user whose only misdemeanour's was to cut and paste and email tthe same message to a load of chicks.
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Nice if it works
[QUOTE=Laylow3] I just want to line up lots of sexy girls...[/QUOTE]Ok thats cool. It can be done but it is hit & miss. It can quickly chew up valuable copulating time. If it works this trip, congrats & enjoy but if it does'nt dont be surprised. The girls will often play you & dick you around. Like i said, if it works out its very nice but most mongers will agree that trying to get them lined up like ducks in a row produces variable results from trip to trip.
You need to be highly organised other wise you end up with a cell phone full of messages from identified numbers. Its not unusual for them to give you one number & them sms you from a cousins or sisters cp. They rarely use their name in messages (coz they are the only one you are meeting RIGHT?) It quickly gets unmanageable...
The punters that have the best results are VERY up front on their internet profile & chats about what they want. They make no bones about wanting sex & intending to butterfly. This way they only talk to those type of chicks who have enough mileage to handle it. Low mileage girls are gonna be very suspicious hence much harder to organise & potentially time wasting.
Personally i go for quality over quantity. Im happy to pursue just one low mileage girl if i feel she's worth it. I really prefer GFE over frantic copulation all over the place but that's just me. To each his own...
[QUOTE=Laylow3]I’ve never been to Burgos St. Yet so I don’t know if the girls are actually really sexy as hell but from what I’ve read on the internet and stories I heard from my friends, they are supposedly the finest girls out there when you compare Philippines and Thailand.[/QUOTE]Dont get too excited about Burgos.
The girls looks there vary. The bar's there generally have more consistant quality & more nicely presented girls than in AC for instance. Instead of flouro bikin's you probably find Burgos BG's dressed in a uniform of LBD (Little black dress). They could step out on the street & look like a chick going home from the disco. These bars are often empty & you will get mobbed by heaps of very doable girls. Peak periods like saturday nights the bars get busy. Asian holiday season & Xmass etc also VERY busy.
They are often a little older, more experienced & professional. The prices are much higher. Your unlikely to get fresh off the farm chicks on Burgos. But if you choose well you will usually have a very satisfying BF.
Each bar has its own personality. Don't be in a rush, walk through & check them all out & see what you like. A word of warning - a couple of the Burgos bars charge VERY high prices for drinks & the girls don't BF in those. Read the makati threads about which to avoid.
My personal favourites are Fridays & especially Hollywood. I dont look for flashy bars for drinking sessions. I look for bars with plenty of good quality chicks available to BF with a helpful mamsan.
AV
P.S. If your are married especially to a Pinay it is sudden death to advertise yourself on the Internet. Hope you have a pre-nup...
P.P.S. Please dear god learn how to use the quotes! - I nearly went blind trying to read your jumbled up post.
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Excellent post, Amavida
[QUOTE=Amavida]Ok thats cool. It can be done but it is hit & miss. It can quickly chew up valuable copulating time. If it works this trip, congrats & enjoy but if it does'nt dont be surprised. The girls will often play you & dick you around. Like i said, if it works out its very nice but most mongers will agree that trying to get them lined up like ducks in a row produces variable results from trip to trip.
You need to be highly organised other wise you end up with a cell phone full of messages from identified numbers. Its not unusual for them to give you one number & them sms you from a cousins or sisters cp. They rarely use their name in messages (coz they are the only one you are meeting RIGHT?) It quickly gets unmanageable...
The punters that have the best results are VERY up front on their internet profile & chats about what they want. They make no bones about wanting sex & intending to butterfly. This way they only talk to those type of chicks who have enough mileage to handle it. Low mileage girls are gonna be very suspicious hence much harder to organise & potentially time wasting.
Personally i go for quality over quantity. Im happy to pursue just one low mileage girl if i feel she's worth it. I really prefer GFE over frantic copulation all over the place but that's just me. To each his own...
Dont get too excited about Burgos.
The girls looks there vary. The bar's there generally have more consistant quality & more nicely presented girls than in AC for instance. Instead of flouro bikin's you probably find Burgos BG's dressed in a uniform of LBD (Little black dress). They could step out on the street & look like a chick going home from the disco. These bars are often empty & you will get mobbed by heaps of very doable girls. Peak periods like saturday nights the bars get busy. Asian holiday season & Xmass etc also VERY busy.
They are often a little older, more experienced & professional. The prices are much higher. Your unlikely to get fresh off the farm chicks on Burgos. But if you choose well you will usually have a very satisfying BF.
Each bar has its own personality. Don't be in a rush, walk through & check them all out & see what you like. A word of warning - a couple of the Burgos bars charge VERY high prices for drinks & the girls don't BF in those. Read the makati threads about which to avoid.
My personal favourites are Fridays & especially Hollywood. I dont look for flashy bars for drinking sessions. I look for bars with plenty of good quality chicks available to BF with a helpful mamsan.
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Agree with pretty much everything you say.
I can get excited about Burgos, but as you say, the LD/barfine prices are exhorbitant, in most of the bars.
In terms of Laylow3's questions on, "the finest girls out there when you compare Philippines and Thailand". Based on my trips to both, last year, I'm not sure that any bar can compare to Shark Bar in Soi Cowboy in terms of sheer volume of drop-dead hotties. But, as is usually the case, you'll get better GFE in the Phils, even from Burgos, than from most girls in Bangkok/Pattaya.
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P.S. If your are married especially to a Pinay it is sudden death to advertise yourself on the Internet. Hope you have a pre-nup.
Amavida. Nothing like a dramatically bad as you say. Been married for a long time to a Filipina and I am on all the " pick up " sites (with great and regualr success I should add) Thankfully no cousins sisters or anyone else yet found me. Tho I should add I won't go on Facebook in case my kids see me there. LOL
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DIA banning
[QUOTE=GregLondon]Thanks for the suggestions guys. My next plan is to create an account in an internet shop, which shouldnt be picked up, then I'm hoping thayt once iyt is approved I wil be able to log on with my laptop when I'm in a different place withouty them being able to trace that the messages are comming from this specific computer. I'll delete the cookies and hope that works. The problem is that DIA has to have a very aggressive ant I scaming policy as it is so full of scammers. Which seems to have caught out me a legitimate user whose only misdemeanour's was to cut and paste and email tthe same message to a load of chicks.[/QUOTE]For future reference, the solution seems to be to go to an internet cafe and set up a new account. They seem to check the computer/internet ID when u first set up a new account, then if you pass you can use your own computer/net connection (better delete cookies first though)
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Av
P.S. If your are married especially to a Pinay it is sudden death to advertise yourself on the Internet. Hope you have a pre-nup.
Amavida. Nothing like a dramatically bad as you say. Been married for a long time to a Filipina and I am on all the " pick up " sites (with great and regualr success I should add) Thankfully no cousins sisters or anyone else yet found me. Tho I should add I won't go on Facebook in case my kids see me there. LOL[/QUOTE]G'day FF! I'd say your a very lucky man in that case. Maybe we mix with a different age group. Every pinay i've had LTR with has been familliar with dating/social network sites along with many of her friends & cousins. I caution newbies to be aware of this & tread carefully!
Friendster is my biggest worry. You get a GF & before you know it she has plastered your mug all over her fs account. Even when trying not to cheat you find yourself being solicited by HER friends & friends of her friends! I think someone here on the forum said they call it 'shopping'. I've experienced it.
I've met many girls who tell me how they caught their BF/hubbie advertising themselves on the net. In the west a wife is on her own but in PI women are big on networking.
IMHO the only way a married guy can minimise risk of discovery is advertise for short period & then hide the profile while following up contacts. The longer you leave a profile up the greater the risk of accidental or deliberate discovery.
Native born pinays are all distrustful, they grew up in a highly competitive environment where men cheat endemically. Maybe you're married to an older non net using westernised pinay?
Good luck to you FF!
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[QUOTE=Amavida]IMHO the only way a married guy can minimise risk of discovery is advertise for short period & then hide the profile while following up contacts. The longer you leave a profile up the greater the risk of accidental or deliberate discovery.
Native born pinays are all distrustful, they grew up in a highly competitive environment where men cheat endemically.
Maybe you're married to an older non net using westernised pinay?
Good luck to you FF!
AV[/QUOTE]So when you say hide the profile, what do you mean? Do you mean totally deleting the profile or do you mean simply removing all the pictures of yourself? Of course, I'll be using fake names. But if she has your picture already, then what is the use of "hiding your profile" or taking down the pictures?
Yes, my wife is super distrustful and jealous when it comes to me and other women. Even her family. Check this out, when I went to visit her family in PI last year she made sure that all of the females that usually stay at their house was gone. I know for a fact that she has about 5-6 females living at her house in the PI but they were nowhere to be found when I got there. I agree with you that they are always wondering what we are up to.
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What size?
I met a young lady online who I'm planning to meet next month.
She has only shown me pictures from the waist up as she says she has a big butt.
The face is great, and small titties which I like, but she tells me she has a size 36 butt.
My problem is I have no idea how big a 'size 36' butt is?
Any help appreciated.
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Tagged adventures
i would be cautious about plastering your photo on one of the dating only sites such as dia. after all, what other reason, apart from chasing pussy, could you have for being there? the social networking sites such as friendster, my space and tagged are much safer in that you could concoct relatively valid reasons for joining … i.e making online friends, posting photos for family etc. her indoors, if she found out (unlikely), might be suspicious but with no proof of nefarious activities (make sure that you have a few older 50+ women and guys amongst your friends – not all nubile 18 year olds:d), what can she do? oh, the tangled webs we weave ….
speaking of tagged, i joined several weeks ago, after reading about it here and have been dangling my juicy worm ever since. had plenty of bites but most have had to be thrown back for various reasons relating to age, body shape (fat) or looks. had one interesting case of cyber stalkery in which a 48 year old fugly bombarded me with those annoying tags and countless messages of undying love. she seems to have gone quiet so maybe she has been returned to the asylum. another girl asked me to contact her by email and then sent me an interesting message which had little head springing to attention, together with some even more interesting photos (have a look). well, i never!! guess it was a scam or trying to entice me onto a pay site, or something.
but finally took the plunge last week and met two likely lasses, that looked reasonably good bets. the first was a 32 year old, rather plump but in all the right places, but otherwise rather tasty. we met for a rather pleasant glass of wine and merienda at a atc wine bar. purely platonic and nothing came of it, but we have agreed to meet again and she says that she would like to get to know me better;). suspect (and hope) that this means carnally. i reckon that she is married as she was a little evasive about her status, so maybe she is after a little fling. hope so, but if not, no problem, as she is rather sweet and to keep his feet on the ground a chap needs a few platonic lady friends amongst all of the fuck buddies.
the next liaison definitely comes under the latter category. this was a 19 year old, rather tasty but rep001ty bint that i met and treated to lunch yesterday. she immediately told me that she thought i was phil collins (not looked like …was, anyway is this a complement or an insult and what is a 19 year old doing being a fan of mr collins?). i immediately thought …’eyup …got a right one here’, but persisted and found her delightful, if a little weird (i seem to attract them like a cookie magnet ..the nutter on the bus always sits next to me). for some reason we got onto the subject of sex (what a surprise) and she told me that she lost her virginity at 14, had had a few boyfriends including a 60 year old swedish guy who sends her p10,000 a month and that she likes older men. well this was my cue and in a trice i had whipped her off to eurotel where i proceeded to show her that an old dog know all the best tricks. i wasn’t sure whether this was a p4p encounter or not so offered her a bluey as taxi money. she wasn’t offended and took the money with thanks, but i got the impression that a kiss and a bar of hersheys would have made her just as happy.
yet again, life in the philippines continues to delight and astonish me. could you, in your wildest wet dreams, imagine a similar thing happening back home?… to a phil collins lookalike or not;).
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[QUOTE=Laylow3]So when you say hide the profile, what do you mean?[/QUOTE]Sites like CB (Cherry Blossoms) & DIA Date In Asia) for example have a 'hide profile' setting in their account screen (Gee i wonder why?). Your profile is temporarily hidden from public view. Hide & unhide as the need arises but dont leave it up for prolonged periods.
[QUOTE=Laylow3]Yes, my wife is super distrustful and jealous when it comes to me and other women.[/QUOTE]In that case its only a matter of time before your Pinay wife discovers your online activities either herself or by a relative/friend.
GH has some good suggestions in a following post about sticking to 'friend' (Tagged, Hi5, Freindster etc etc) sites & avoiding 'dating sites' (CB, DIA, FH etc). You will have to put in a LOT of effort to make your profile page look innocent as GH say's & remain vigilant to that none of your , er 'friends', posts a juicy comment there.
Even so your Pinay wife is going to be livid. FS & Tagged are well know as 'flirting/pickup places' amongst singles. She's not stupid mate!
Congratulations if you have gotten away with it up to this point. Enjoy it while it lasts.
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Anyone know how much the scamsters make on average?
Curious as to how much the various scamsetrs one encounters make per week on DIA etc.
I asked one cam girl I got to know a bit and she claimed that she only made 500P a week after the agency took is cut - which seemed unrealistically low.
A friend of mine has got a very cute and wonderfully fun (and even better bisexual) fiancee through DIA. He actually met her on his second day in the Phils when having had a disappointing encounter with a girl he had been cultivating fpr several months, went to a net cafe and saw her on line. it turned out that it wasn't actually her on line but some ladyboy freinds of hers who were using her photo but after some confusion they put him in touch with her and hes been with her 3 years now. She said that her Ladyboy friends are online over 12 hours a day trying scams and that they usually get one or two big hits a week - where some dumb American guy sends them P20 -40k to allow them to "finish their nurse training" or such like. This seems on the high side to me. Anyine else have dfeedback on this one? I think one has to differentiate the cam girls who are actually providinga service 9even if te ones offering a free voew as long as you sign up and put your credit card details through age verification etc are doing it dishonestly. From the various scams asking for plane ticket, bus fare money finishing college, burrying grandmother etc etc.
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Kavorka
Maybe she 32-26-36. Or close to that. I don't think she means size 36 jeans and 36" waist!!! 36" hips, OK.
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Mmmm nice catch!
[quote=gamahucher]i would be cautious about plastering your photo on one of the dating only sites such as dia. after all, what other reason, apart from chasing pussy, could you have for being there? the social networking sites such as friendster, my space and tagged are much safer in that you could concoct relatively valid reasons for joining … i.e making online friends, posting photos for family etc.[/quote] agreed & seconded.
[quote=gamahucher]speaking of tagged, i joined several weeks ago... had plenty of bites but most have had to be thrown back for various reasons relating to age, body shape (fat) or looks.[/quote]thats been my experience also gh. i put up an innocent tagged page 2 weeks ago & got plenty of unsolicited bites most of which were.. ahem.. below my expectatiions.. ;) a couple looked very tasty. i feel dia & tagged are great value. friendster i avoid - whilst full of honeys, just too popular as a pick up site amongst pinays to look innocent there.
btw number 1 gf 'discovered' my tagged page & immediately went nuclear & demanded its removal hehehe :) she's not stupid! since im already well catered for in the carnal department at the moment i let it slide.
[quote=gamahucher]but finally took the plunge last week and met two likely lasses.. that looked reasonably good bets. the first was a 32 year old,.. we have agreed to meet again and she says that she would like to get to know me better;). suspect (and hope) that this means carnally.[/quote]tally ho mate! :d
[quote=gamahucher]the next liaison definitely comes under the latter category. this was a 19 year old, rather tasty but rep001ty bint that i met and treated to lunch yesterday... found her delightful, if a little weird..[/quote]i really love doing these kinds of dipsy hippie chick types!
[quote=gamahucher]had a few boyfriends including a 60 year old swedish guy who sends her p10,000 a month and that she likes older men.[/quote]yes im sure she bloody does, when these guys are so stupid to assume fidelity from a fuck toy 19yr old!
[quote=gamahucher]... in a trice i had whipped her off to eurotel where i proceeded to show her that an old dog know all the best tricks[/quote]nice tits on that one, thanks for sharing gh. im sure you enjoyed doing her as much as i would ;)
[quote=gamahucher]yet again, life in the philippines continues to delight and astonish me. could you, in your wildest wet dreams, imagine a similar thing happening back home?[/quote]too right cobber! an occasional trip back to oz gives ma a bloody big wake up call.. smile at a 19yr old hottie there, she slaps you & calls you a dirty old man. smile at a 19yr old hottie here, she smiles back & offers her cp #. incredible!
thanks again for sharing gh
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Innocent web pages - How much can you get away with?
I still find myself wrongly assuming Pinays think/behave like western chicks.
Been experimanting with putting up profile page that for myself that is OBVIOUSLY lovie-dovie with a joint photo of the happy couple to gage the response.
Im staggered to find I STILL get chicks hitting on me regularly.
No bloody wonder these chicks are so suspicious & distrustful!
Its a no holds barred free for all it seems with Pinays.
The have no compunction about poaching a guy from another chick.
It seems it does'nt matter WHAT you put on your profile.. if you have a heart beat & a wallet you are fair game!
What thinks ye lad's?
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[QUOTE=Amavida] Nice tits on that one, thanks for sharing GH. Im sure you enjoyed doing her as much as I would ;)
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Thanks but think you must have been looking at the pic of the scam girl who wasn't Pinay. The cutey from yesterday had itsy bitsty, teeny weeny titties, but you know that more than a handful is a waste;).
Your right about the western sexual mores. It seems as though as soon as a guy hits 40, he should mysteriously transmogrify from being a horny young stud into a near celibate who should be satisfied by a once weekly (or monthly), rapidly completed, bounce atop the dogsbreath and strife. A lot of my friends and contemporaries back home are happy with this and sometimes less. Those that know of my lifestyle out here either don't believe me or are green with envy:D.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]
Im staggered to find I STILL get chicks hitting on me regularly.
No bloody wonder these chicks are so suspicious & distrustful!
Its a no holds barred free for all it seems with Pinays.
The have no compunction about poaching a guy from another chick.
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I'm surprised that you are surprised. It really is a buyers market out there, with guys been the buyers. I read somewhere that some enormous proportion of the Philippine population (?60-70%) are aged under 30 and that girls outnumber boys by an also not inconsiderable degree. Wish I had the article and stats to hand so I could quote the correctly. Maybe one of the Philippine ISG intellectual stalwarts (?GE) will remember and know the figures.
Guess this is why girls are so savagely competitive to avoid being 'left on the shelf'.
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Girls outnumber boys myth
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]I'm surprised that you are surprised. It really is a buyers market out there, with guys been the buyers. I read somewhere that some enormous proportion of the Philippine population (?60-70%) are aged under 30 and that girls outnumber boys by an also not inconsiderable degree. Wish I had the article and stats to hand so I could quote the correctly. Maybe one of the Philippine ISG intellectual stalwarts (?GE) will remember and know the figures.
Guess this is why girls are so savagely competitive to avoid being 'left on the shelf'.[/QUOTE]The natural birth ratio is about 106 boys to 100 girls. We have evolved this ratio as in our evolutionary past, the death rate among males was higher so that by the expected breedingage the numbers would have balanced.
In countries such as India and China where social custom has been in favour of boys and infanticide/ selective abortion is prevalent the ratio has been up to 140 boys/100 girls in some countryside districts. As females live on average about 5 years longer the total number of females in most countries is higher than the total number of males, but the surplus is in old ladies not nubile hotties I'm afraid.
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Atamavida & Gamahucher. So just to sum things up, I should post profiles on Friendster and Tagged. Do NOT use any date only sites. Also I should only put up a profile on Friendster/Tagged 2 weeks before I leave for the PI. Don't send any money and be very explicit about wanting buttloads of sex and butterflying but don't put this in my profile only outline that part when I speak to the girls one-on-one. I think that sums it up, yeah?
Side thoughts. I wonder though, do you think maybe I could get away with posting on DIA or other date only sites if I set up profiles at Friendster/Tagged right now and then later set up profiles on DIA etc. Right before I leave to go to PI and then hide the profile after the 2 weeks before my trip time period has elasped. This way if my wife finds out about the profiles on the date only sites, I could feign ignorance and state that someone stole my photo from my other profiles on Friendster or Tagged. After that, I could show her proof that my accounts on those sites are valid and innocent and have been up for far longer than that random DIA profile. Also, she won't be able to throw the profile in my face because the profile will be hidden. What do you all think? I'm just brainstorming here because from what I'm hearing here it sounds like the girls on the social networking sites aren't as hot as the ones on the date-only sites.
Hopefully I can find a way to get the best of both worlds safely.
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Why put your pic?
[QUOTE=Laylow3]Atamavida & Gamahucher. So just to sum things up, I should post profiles on Friendster and Tagged. Do NOT use any date only sites. Also I should only put up a profile on Friendster/Tagged 2 weeks before I leave for the PI. Don't send any money and be very explicit about wanting buttloads of sex and butterflying but don't put this in my profile only outline that part when I speak to the girls one-on-one. I think that sums it up, yeah?
Side thoughts. I wonder though, do you think maybe I could get away with posting on DIA or other date only sites if I set up profiles at Friendster/Tagged right now and then later set up profiles on DIA etc. Right before I leave to go to PI and then hide the profile after the 2 weeks before my trip time period has elasped. This way if my wife finds out about the profiles on the date only sites, I could feign ignorance and state that someone stole my photo from my other profiles on Friendster or Tagged. After that, I could show her proof that my accounts on those sites are valid and innocent and have been up for far longer than that random DIA profile. Also, she won't be able to throw the profile in my face because the profile will be hidden. What do you all think? I'm just brainstorming here because from what I'm hearing here it sounds like the girls on the social networking sites aren't as hot as the ones on the date-only sites.
Hopefully I can find a way to get the best of both worlds safely.[/QUOTE]
In your position just don't add your photo to DIA. If you have no photo in FS or Tagged you wont get much responsde and in DIA you wont get much unsolicited repsonse. But if u post a profile in DIA a max of 1 week before you go and then just send a suitable message to 100 or so girls you fancy telling them what you have in mind you will get about 25% positive reeplies (my experience) even if you are very explicit about wanting sex as son as you meet etx\c. Of course a good proportion of those will either be scamsters or cam girls but youi should also geta plenty of regualr girls. If you make such demands however i think you are going to have to give most of them some cash as well as they know therer is no chance of a marriage.
Just say your photo is being approved. All they are really worried about is that you are a real western guy.
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[QUOTE=Laylow3]So just to sum things up, I should post profiles on Friendster and Tagged. Do NOT use any date only sites. Also I should only put up a profile on Friendster/Tagged 2 weeks before I leave for the PI. Don't send any money and be very explicit about wanting buttloads of sex and butterflying but don't put this in my profile only outline that part when I speak to the girls one-on-one. I think that sums it up, yeah? [/QUOTE]Yep that sums it up.[QUOTE=Laylow3]Side thoughts. I wonder though, do you think maybe I could get away with posting on DIA... [/QUOTE]Putting your pic on a dating web site is relationship suicide these days IMHO.
Computers are everywhere, everybody is learning how to use them, social networking web sites are becoming a big thing now. Many eyes looking at the internet...
Sure maybe you will get away with it for awhile. On the other hand maybe it will be seen fast & land you in a divorce before you can say 'alimony'. Your choice dude..
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Wtf?!
Maybe I'm doing something wrong but I've had my profile up complete with pics in Friendster and Tagged for 3 days and not even one profile view yet. I'm like seriously what the hell, man? ! It's a very innocent profile with pics of my wife, family, scenery, and a few friends on there. I don't think my wife would think it's a profile to fuck hot nubiles with. I decided to go ahead and create 2 profiles on FS and tagged so just in case she inquires I can say "oh, I've had that profile up for ages, it's nothing much really. " I had to indicate that I'm in a relationship and that I'm on the site look for friends & activity partners. Of course, I wanted to put a checkmark next to relationships w/ women and dating women but I know better than that. So, is there something missing on my profile that I should list OR should I just calm down and get it time.
P.S.. I'm holding off on creating the DIA profile until right before I leave for my next trip, which is quite a couple of months away.
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Patience
[QUOTE=Laylow3]Maybe I'm doing something wrong but I've had my profile up complete with pics in Friendster and Tagged for 3 days and not even one profile view yet. I'm like seriously what the hell, man? ![/QUOTE]Patience grasshopper..
In my experience you start to get bites on 'innocent' profiles after a week or two. Even with hard core dating sites like CB or DIA I put up a profile & don't check back for a week or two at first. Then the enquiries start coming. On CB you can get a lot of Chinese & to a lesser extent Russian chicks hammering your profile. On DIA you will get all types many young ones & a few lady boys.
On Tagged you get mostly single Pinays of varying quality with a few cute ones. Friendster I found the same. On the social sites once you make friends with a few you start getting friends & friends or their friends 'shopping' your profile. My god there are so many honies out there...
Its semester break right now. The schoolies & uni girls are all out in the province visiting family or off at the beaches etc. Come June they will be all back in class & eagerly checking their CB, DIA accounts between lectures again.
Don't worry you get will bites. Just be patient. Take your time to check out some that interest you.
Typically you get a bit anxious about getting enough bites. But after a while you get so many it becomes unmanageable. Eventually I just picked a couple that I had a good 'gut' feeling about & focused on them.
If you want to accelerate your enquiries & firm 'bookings' massively open a dating site profile on say CB, FH or DIA.
Put only one sentence in that profile : Hi may name is [insert your name] I will be in [insert city] on [insert date].
WHAM! you will get slammed with 'pick me!' type enquiries ;)
They all feel they have one chance to 'catch a fish'. If they think they are first in line they can be very enthusiastic. Just remember though, some will chicken out & dick you around when the time comes, some are not honest about their looks etc
If you are married you are playing with fire but some guys get away with it...for a while.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Even with hard core dating sites like CB or DIA I put up a profile & don't check back for a week or two at first. On CB you can get a lot of Chinese & to a lesser extent Russian chicks hammering your profile.[/QUOTE]What does "CB" mean?
[QUOTE=Amavida]On Tagged you get mostly single Pinays of varying quality with a few cute ones. Friendster I found the same. On the social sites once you make friends with a few you start getting friends & friends or their friends 'shopping' your profile. My god there are so many honies out there.[/QUOTE]Well, last night I got impatient. So, what I did was browse some profiles and I sent out winks to girls I thought were hot. I checked my e-mail just 5 min. Ago and as of now I have received winks from 5 girls and 2 girls "bought me" as pets or something. What does the pet thing and superpoke thing mean on tagged anyway? !
[QUOTE=Amavida]If you want to accelerate your enquiries & firm 'bookings' massively open a dating site profile on say CB, FH or DIA.
Put only one sentence in that profile: Hi may name is [insert your name] I will be in [insert city] on [insert date].
WHAM! You will get slammed with 'pick me! ' type enquiries
They all feel they have one chance to 'catch a fish'. If they think they are first in line they can be very enthusiastic. Just remember though, some will chicken out & dick you around when the time comes, some are not honest about their looks etc[/QUOTE]nice strategy, of course without a picture. It would be weird though if I do this with CB, FS, FH, and DIA with no pic and then when I get to PI I meet up with girls who recognize me from my profile that in fact does have a lot of my pics. Hehe
[QUOTE=Amavida]If you are married you are playing with fire but some guys get away with it. For a while.
AV[/QUOTE]Well I intend to get away with it, forever. As long as I cross my Ts and dot my Is.
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Good luck & good humping :)
[QUOTE=Laylow3]What does "CB" mean?[/QUOTE]CB : CHERRY BLOSSOMS, FH : FILIPPINA HEART,
DIA : DATE IN ASIA, FS : FRIENDSTER (not my idea, all the flip chicks use this)[QUOTE=Laylow3]Well, last night I got impatient. So, what I did was browse some profiles and I sent out winks to girls I thought were hot. I checked my e-mail just 5 min. Ago and as of now I have received winks from 5 girls and 2 girls "bought me" as pets or something. What does the pet thing and superpoke thing mean on tagged anyway? ! [/QUOTE]On Tagged its a cutesy way of saying i dig you. Same as 'winks' etc on other sites. I did'nt look into it coz all that shit bores me.[QUOTE=Laylow3]nice strategy, of course without a picture. It would be weird though if I do this with CB, FS, FH, and DIA with no pic and then when I get to PI I meet up with girls who recognize me from my profile that in fact does have a lot of my pics. Hehe [/QUOTE]Yeah with a pic & an ETA you're gonna be mobbed.[QUOTE=Laylow3]Well I intend to get away with it, forever. As long as I cross my Ts and dot my Is.[/QUOTE]Ok, good luck & happy humping LL3..
AV
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Tagged and Myspace
So I spent an hour or so on Tagged and MySpace, last night (North American Eastern time), sending out friends requests, whilst chatting with some early risers (Phil time) on ym.
Open up my e-mail, this afternoon, and I’ve got 31 new friends and half a dozen messages (including one offering me a threesome with her and her “hot sister”, but I already have a gf in their city). That’s in addition to the over 500 friends I already had on the two sites (not all pinays). Plus another 400 on Friendster, but I think we’ve all agreed that it’s a bit of a desert in terms of actually hooking up with the ladies.
I guess I’ll be sending out some messages, tonight. And I already have more phone numbers than days in my trip. But you can never have enough, right?
Only three more weeks…
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[QUOTE=Genghois]So I spent an hour or so on Tagged and MySpace, last night (North American Eastern time), sending out friends requests, whilst chatting with some early risers (Phil time) on ym.[/QUOTE]I never though about MySpace and YM. Hmm, you think I should post there as well or just stay put with my FS and Tagged profiles?
[QUOTE=Genghois]Only three more weeks.[/QUOTE]It's weird, I wonder why there aren't more retired military hands here. For me, I can go to PI whenever I want with the free mil flights that I have. The only thing that's stopping me is I'm currently unemployed. (economy got me too) If I had a place to stay and assurance that I'd get fed, I'd be there every month banging "regular" girls everyday until my wife made wife makes me come back home. I don't know any retired military living there but I'm sure there's a lot there. You could ask me, "but why don't you go to your wife house? " well, I tried this and I thought that I would get a buttload of ass but to my surprise she made sure that all her boy relatives kept me AWAY from any chicks. I don't ever plan on visiting her family again, EVER. What makes things worse is that they live in the provinces. It's supposed to way easier there and a blast but I'd never know. Oh well.
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[quote]IMHO the only way a married guy can minimise risk of discovery is advertise for short period & then hide the profile while following up contacts. The longer you leave a profile up the greater the risk of accidental or deliberate discovery.
Native born pinays are all distrustful, they grew up in a highly competitive environment where men cheat endemically. Maybe you're married to an older non net using westernised pinay?
Good luck to you FF!
AV[/QUOTE]Hi Mate. And yes I'm familiar with 'shopping"
Actually the thing I'm most scared of, rather than being found on a website, is what hapened to me about 3 months back.
Was waiting around Market Market, for my "pick up" Was standing admiring a few cute ones and generally smiling when I get a " Hello Uncle XYZ ".
Turned around and theres two 19-21 year olds who I vaguely recognise. Wifes sisters daughters. Hadnt seen them in years. But they sure recognised me. Phew. Had that cold sweat running down my back for a while.
Blew them off. Met the pick up (whilst looking left and right furtively.)
Never seen them there since. But. Yes. We live on the edge and can be found out in a moment.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Turned around and theres two 19-21 year olds who I vaguely recognise. Wifes sisters daughters. Hadnt seen them in years. But they sure recognised me. Phew. Had that cold sweat running down my back for a while.
[/QUOTE]Yeah, I'm pretty sure I would have shit my pants right there.
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Blew them off. Met the pick up (whilst looking left and right furtively.)[/QUOTE]And you STILL met the pick up? ! That's pretty ballsy but if you can get away with it, more power to you, I guess. I would have taken that as a sign and got the fuck out of dodge, no questions asked.
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Modus Operandi
[QUOTE=Laylow3]I never though about MySpace and YM. Hmm, you think I should post there as well or just stay put with my FS and Tagged profiles?
It's weird, I wonder why there aren't more retired military hands here. For me, I can go to PI whenever I want with the free mil flights that I have. The only thing that's stopping me is I'm currently unemployed. (economy got me too) If I had a place to stay and assurance that I'd get fed, I'd be there every month banging "regular" girls everyday until my wife made wife makes me come back home. I don't know any retired military living there but I'm sure there's a lot there. You could ask me, "but why don't you go to your wife house? " well, I tried this and I thought that I would get a buttload of ass but to my surprise she made sure that all her boy relatives kept me AWAY from any chicks. I don't ever plan on visiting her family again, EVER. What makes things worse is that they live in the provinces. It's supposed to way easier there and a blast but I'd never know. Oh well.[/QUOTE]
I think it all depends on your personal situation and your personality.
I’m single so I’m not too worried about putting myself out there (but not with my real, full name, of course!) I am employed and have a limited amount of vacation in a year, so I want to maximize my vacation by having some probable hits before I leave home (with p4p as a back-up). Personally, I have no qualms about putting a pic on my profile, as I find that I get far more responses to my advances with a pic than without.
Your situation may dictate an entirely different approach.
But it comes down to your personality, too. If you’ve got really good game, just show up and start working the room! I’m somewhat shy, but well spoken. I find that I can make a better impression, in writing, than just meeting a girl in a club and working it. That way, I have a step up and have already charmed her a bit, before we actually meet.
I’ve got profiles on MySpace, Tagged, FS, FH, DIA,…
Don’t really like DIA (I want to see more than one pic or her).
FH I have had some luck with, but read her profile carefully. If the phrase “god-fearing” appears more than once, you’re chances of getting her out of her pants are slim. Most of the girls in here are looking for a husband, not a date (same could be said for DIA).
FS is a weird one. I’ve got over 400 friends there but I rarely get responses to messages I send. And since they “Facebooked” the search functionality, a couple of months ago, it’s gotten even worse. Not a totally useless site, but getting there.
I’ve tried MySpace for a couple of other countries (the DR, in particular) with very little success, but had never tried it for Phil. Decided to give it a shot for this trip, and I’m having fairly good luck getting contacts and cell numbers. Still only get responses back from probably less than half of the messages I send out, but that’s not bad. I promise to report back on the hit and miss ratio on my return.
FH and MySpace definitely win in terms of search functionality.
I’ve only had a Tagged account for about a month (after reading about it in this thread), but am up to close to 100 friends and I’m getting a surprisingly high response rate to my messages. We’ll see how it pans out once I’m on the ground, but it seems highly promising.
Hi5 is another one that I’ve had some luck with in the past but, like Friendster, they downgraded their search functionality a while back, making it very difficult to sort through the thousands of profiles.
The Friend Finder series of sites are all utterly useless, IMHO (with the possible exception of Amigos, but even that only seems to work in a limited number of countries).
In terms of YM… well, all of the above is just the first step in the process of getting her YM address, chatting with her there, getting her cell #, texting with her, calling and finally meeting and hopefully…
Two problems with YM:
1) depending on how many time zones away you are, the timing can be problematic, I’m either at work or sleeping while they're at the internet cafe;
2) Usernames! I may have her cell # saved in my cell as Cheryl Cebu, so I know who and where she is. But her YM username may be *?$bootyliciouspink$?*, so how am I supposed to remember who that is? I must learn to be more disciplined and maintain a table: Name; YM name; Location; Site met at.
All comes down to the simplest of plans: Arrive and spend a few nights in AC to drain my overstuffed testicles. Immediately on arrival load up my cell and start texting the girls in my next port of call, and continue on as such, always concentrating my texting on the next city: “I’ll be there in a couple of days, sweetie!”
I think that’s more than enough, for now!
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Yep that sums it up.Putting your pic on a dating web site is relationship suicide these days IMHO.
AV[/QUOTE]Yeap, used to have a boss that got found out by someone in my company. He was booted out by higher bosses. My boss was married with kids and trolling for a girlfriend in Thailand. I work for a pretty conservative company. Pretty sad considering that whoever ratted him out was probably also trolling.
Actually, now that I'm a regular visitor to the Phils and soon to be resident, I find the online stuff a waste of time. It's not hard to hook up with women or bargirls in absolutely no time at all.
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Using YM
[QUOTE=Genghois]
2) Usernames! I may have her cell # saved in my cell as Cheryl Cebu, so I know who and where she is. But her YM username may be *?$bootyliciouspink$?*, so how am I supposed to remember who that is? I must learn to be more disciplined and maintain a table: Name; YM name; Location; Site met at.
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I think that’s more than enough, for now![/QUOTE]
You ca just rename the contact eg "Cheryl 19 Cebu" in YM so that this shows up in your account rather than her real username
I use the MAc version wher what you do is Contacts Get info then type in the new name you want.
I think in the WIndows version you need to bringup the contacts option and rename it from there.
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Cebu, DIA
Guys,
I've been sending invitations on DIA and I got scores of #s, some want to bring their cousins, some wished me luck, some very abusive, some were silent.
I got 2 strong candidates to accompany me for the duration of my visit (about 5 days). One of them went out of her way to look for suitable accomodation and she's pretty. The other one looks prettier and is game too and wants me to call her to organize stuff - I'm not calling anyone yet.
My question is how do I do them both, assuming ofcourse that this is real and will pan out.
I think I'm begining to have "oneits" (one woman man, disease) and want to resist that.
Suggestions?
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[QUOTE=Lustforthrust]Guys,
I've been sending invitations on DIA and I got scores of #s, some want to bring their cousins, some wished me luck, some very abusive, some were silent.
I got 2 strong candidates to accompany me for the duration of my visit (about 5 days). One of them went out of her way to look for suitable accomodation and she's pretty. The other one looks prettier and is game too and wants me to call her to organize stuff - I'm not calling anyone yet.
My question is how do I do them both, assuming ofcourse that this is real and will pan out.
I think I'm begining to have "oneits" (one woman man, disease) and want to resist that.
Suggestions?[/QUOTE]First, IMHO don't let a girl book your room.
Second, you can always cut them loose by saying you have to meet some friends for dinner or drinks. Then bring the other girl in.
Have you been in the PI before?
Robb
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[QUOTE=GregLondon]You ca just rename the contact eg "Cheryl 19 Cebu" in YM so that this shows up in your account rather than her real username
I use the MAc version wher what you do is Contacts Get info then type in the new name you want.
I think in the WIndows version you need to bringup the contacts option and rename it from there.[/QUOTE]
Thanks, Greg. I was going to send you a PM on this one, but it is good information for everyone.
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Keeping track
[QUOTE=GregLondon]You ca just rename the contact eg "Cheryl 19 Cebu" in YM so that this shows up in your account rather than her real username
I use the MAC version where what you do is Contacts Get info then type in the new name you want.
I think in the WIndows version you need to bringup the contacts option and rename it from there.[/QUOTE]
Greg i have found the task of keeping track of 'who is who' quickly becomes very time consuming.
Im a Mac user & did what you said.
I found girls use a name in the dating website 'cheryl2' when u chat them on the site they say there name is joni can u meet me on ym? My ym is mary5. You ask to email them & they say its jane6@gmail. You get their cell number & txt them but they reply from another number without idenifying themselves or they inform you that their cp needs repair so they borrow their brothers cp (cue violin music). So you now have at least 4 different monikers and possibly 2 phone numbers for each girl.
Cell phone numbers : How many times have you guys had a list of chicks to txt, arrived in country sent a txt to #1 choice on your list but received several txt's from an unknown #'s with no identifying info "hi want me 2 go der na?" Etc.
So you get in a long series of txt's back & forth trying to get them reveal who they are without making it obvious. You notice your P500 load that looked so generous is quickly burning up... Its not uncommon to nail down girl (A) location to say Pasig in Manila & girl (B) to say, quezon city manila before arrival. Then you get the vague txt's from unknown #'s. You try to ID the txt'er subtly by txt'ing them 'is it hot in pasig?' you get a long series of vague replies and eventually find that girl (A) was never in Pasig in the first place (long drawn out story about why she told you this) then find girl (B) is somewhere else (another complicated story).
When you eventually sort out who is who in the texts you try to line them up for say a 10am meet for girl (A) & 4pm for girl (B). But girl (A) is running late with several delay's & girl (B) suddenly has to change her plans & come earlier... Lots of txt's flying back & forth. Its lunch time by now.. In the middle of all this you get a txt from another unknown # 'i out of load i barrow my sis cp i come na'. So you are back into a long series of txt's with vague answers trying to establish who "I" is. Finally you nail one of them down to a place & time on that day and then she does not show after all.. Mutiply this by say 5 or 10 girls & you see how difficult it can be.
Even when you are upfront with them about wanting to meet other women they can really dick you around & waste a lot of your time. It seems common for pinays to 'borrow' cousins/sisters email address's, YM's & cell phones.
Another time waster is the habit of putting their province home as their location in their profiles when they are actually somewhere else. You do a trawl through say CB looking for hot looking girls in say Cebu because thats where you are going next. You launch a chat session to try to verify location & get their YM so u can see them on cam to verify their looks. You get a long series of vague answers in chat eventually learning that she is not studying nursing in cebu but is in fact living at her grandmothers house in zamboanga 'because i have no money na' - cue the violin music... Rinse & repeat over & over..
At one stage I thought of putting together a spreadsheet or database with enough fields to cross reference all the names & numbers. Then I realised it was all becoming too much like work! Im decided i was supposed to be having fun and to hell with it.
Im not saying you cant get some very nice scores through the web sites but it can quickly eat up your time. Once you have visited here you realise how absurdly easy it is to pull chicks and you drop the web sites mostly. Its fun to poke my nose in occasionally with a pleasant results sometimes.
AV
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Relatives/Friends
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Actually the thing I'm most scared of, rather than being found on a website, is what hapened to me about 3 months back.
Was waiting around Market Market, for my "pick up" Was standing admiring a few cute ones and generally smiling when I get a " Hello Uncle XYZ ".
Turned around and theres two 19-21 year olds who I vaguely recognise. Wifes sisters daughters. Hadnt seen them in years. But they sure recognised me. Phew. Had that cold sweat running down my back for a while.[/QUOTE]Jesus! I would have turned to stone FF! :) You just KNOW that your siting will be reported back & you better have a good excuse why you were there hehehe.
This is a reason why I avoid liasons outside of all but the biggest cities in PI, because of the risk of bumping into people. Even in manila, a huge conurbation of miliions of people this can happen especially if you frequent areas where relatives may live.
AV
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Thanks, AV
[QUOTE=Amavida]Greg i have found the task of keeping track of 'who is who' quickly becomes very time consuming.
So you get in a long series of txt's back & forth trying to get them reveal who they are without making it obvious. You notice your P500 load that looked so generous is quickly burning up... Its not uncommon to nail down girl (A) location to say Pasig in Manila & girl (B) to say, quezon city manila before arrival. Then you get the vague txt's from unknown #'s. You try to ID the txt'er subtly by txt'ing them 'is it hot in pasig?' you get a long series of vague replies and eventually find that girl (A) was never in Pasig in the first place (long drawn out story about why she told you this) then find girl (B) is somewhere else (another complicated story).
At one stage I thought of putting together a spreadsheet or database with enough fields to cross reference all the names & numbers. Then I realised it was all becoming too much like work! Im decided i was supposed to be having fun and to hell with it.
Im not saying you cant get some very nice scores through the web sites but it can quickly eat up your time. Once you have visited here you realise how absurdly easy it is to pull chicks and you drop the web sites mostly. Its fun to poke my nose in occasionally with a pleasant results sometimes.
AV[/QUOTE]
Love your post. I don't disagree with a word you said. And I know you have more experience in Phil than I.
But don't discourage us short time visitors, too much. For all of the time-wasting YM and texting there is to be done, there are still a few diamonds to be found, through this method. Hit and miss, for sure, but I think it's better than showing up with nothing on board.
Take care, man! Your input is always appreciated.
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On woman?
[QUOTE=Lustforthrust]Guys,
I've been sending invitations on DIA and I got scores of #s, some want to bring their cousins, some wished me luck, some very abusive, some were silent.
I got 2 strong candidates to accompany me for the duration of my visit (about 5 days). One of them went out of her way to look for suitable accomodation and she's pretty. The other one looks prettier and is game too and wants me to call her to organize stuff - I'm not calling anyone yet.
My question is how do I do them both, assuming ofcourse that this is real and will pan out.
I think I'm begining to have "oneits" (one woman man, disease) and want to resist that.
Suggestions?[/QUOTE]
There are so many girl in Cebu who are up for it it would be a shame to keep to just one unless you are the very romantic type.
Many Philippinas will prefer to set you up with a friend or cousin for the night or have a threesome rather than risk you dumping her for another one. I would suggest that the way to deal with it is to tel them that you have a very strong sexual appetite and really want to try more than one girl and has she had a threesome before. if the answer is positive then see if she can come up with a suitable girl otherwise say you'll find one (she'll much prefer to get a friend/cousin involved.)
As an illustration I was chating with a girl on DIA yesterday who said that she had just droped her bf off at the airport having spent a month with him. I was asking her to join me and my girl for a threesome she said she was a little tired that day. She said she had no problem though. Infact during her vf's stay she lined up a 5 some with 3 of her freinds with him and was vey proud that he was able to satisfy them all.
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Dia
[QUOTE=Robbaf]First, IMHO don't let a girl book your room.
Second, you can always cut them loose by saying you have to meet some friends for dinner or drinks. Then bring the other girl in.
Have you been in the PI before?
Robb[/QUOTE]
I was in the Philippines in November. Had just one DIA chic - had a lot of trouble cutting her loose; weeping, crying and other womanly stuff that is unfairly used against men.
I paid $310/night for my suite at the Hyatt - I don't think any Filipina could do that booking and I stayed there 5 nights. Had a great time with hookers from LA cafe; never once went into that gas chamber, grabbed A listers before they went in to smell like shit.
The most I paid was $30, usually $20, all short-term.
I have changed my approach at DIA, an approach that seems to be far more successful than in November. I do not post a picture there, so I start with kind of a disadvantage.
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Database
[QUOTE=Amavida]Greg i have found the task of keeping track of 'who is who' quickly becomes very time consuming.
Im a Mac user & did what you said.
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Im not saying you cant get some very nice scores through the web sites but it can quickly eat up your time. Once you have visited here you realise how absurdly easy it is to pull chicks and you drop the web sites mostly. Its fun to poke my nose in occasionally with a pleasant results sometimes.
AV[/QUOTE]
I think you are absolutely right that it becomes very confusing after a while. What I do is (1) when i add the girls no to my cell i use as consistent format eg First name age city then code for various attributes eg v for virgin, u for it up fro it, h for hot or whatever.
eg Cathy 19 Cebu H U
In my YM I change there names according to this format as son as possible.
I also set up a database in Filemaker Pro with fields for their various details plus my assessments. It's also good as you can paste pics in etc. I'm using a mac and Filemaker Pro is probablythe only decent database program for Macs. Windows users also have Access which comes with the more advanced types of MS Office.
If you are just planning a one off 5 day trip it would be a waste of effort to set up such a database, but if you do alot of this type of thing, its a very useful tool. The main pain is setting the thing up initially. Once you have your template to your liking its then easy. You probably also have to be reasonably computer literate to set up a database.
Both Filemaker Pro and Access are expensive paid for programs but are widely available fpor download via the Pirate Bay torrent portal. If you are not used to bit torrent just download a free bit torrent client such as utorrent for Windows or Transmission for Mac search fro the right torrent then it should download quite quickly depending on the popularity of the file. mac users should also download the latest monthly update of serialbox from Pirate bay (a database of serial numbers for mac programs), in many cases they wil have seria numbers fro the software you are interested in and you just download the trial version from the vendor site and add the serial.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]When you eventually sort out who is who in the texts you try to line them up for say a 10am meet for girl (A) & 4pm for girl (B). But girl (A) is running late with several delay's & girl (B) suddenly has to change her plans & come earlier... Lots of txt's flying back & forth. Its lunch time by now.. In the middle of all this you get a txt from another unknown # 'i out of load i barrow my sis cp i come na'. So you are back into a long series of txt's with vague answers trying to establish who "I" is. Finally you nail one of them down to a place & time on that day and then she does not show after all.. Mutiply this by say 5 or 10 girls & you see how difficult it can be.
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ROTFLMAO
I had this crap in Manila. I simply pulled out my SIN card (have a fully-loaded SMART/BUDDY clip) and enjoyed the peace & quiet. So much easier with the P4P at LA Cafe.
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No Phone
[QUOTE=Lustforthrust]ROTFLMAO
I had this crap in Manila. I simply pulled out my SIN card (have a fully-loaded SMART/BUDDY clip) and enjoyed the peace & quiet. So much easier with the P4P at LA Cafe.[/QUOTE]
Precisely. I have never carried a phone with me in the Phils. The first couple days there, I just get P4P at LA Cafe or elsewhere and then I bring a girl along to wherever else I'm going there. Hell, I'm on vacation and don't want to be bothered with that.
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Keeping Track Of Contacts
Just reading through the posts, it looks like some are having the same problem that I had of keeping track of who/where/phone etc.
I mostly use Cherry Blossoms, which has a decent search engine, and I have a Match setup also. So I get daily emails with lists of girls who meet my "Match" specifications.
I have set up a photo database, with girls files numbered from 1 to whatever. I also have a spreadsheet with name, identifier, age, location, height/weight code, phone, email etc. The phone and email are just Y or N for if I have her number and email address.
And I have a Word document space for copies of their profile data.
When I find an interesting target, I open a new folder for her photo(s) with the next folder number, and copy her photos. This photo folder number is then her unique ID.
I copy her profile data into the Word document, listed alphabetically, with her heading being her name, height/weight code and unique identifier. And other important info she subsequently sends me I add below the profile.
I enter her info into the spreadsheet, listed by name, alphabetically.
This is a bit time consuming, but if I am planning to go to cebu, I can search for girls in Cebu for whom I have phone and email. I text first, about 3 weeks before I go there, then phone, using Skype, and some emails. may chat on YM, but I view YM as being very inefficient..
This generally works, certainly in setting up the contacts. But whether she shows or not is another matter, and whether she jumps into the pit with me depends on the usual variables. But the system means that I can set up a meeting, with one or two levels of backup. So it is rare that I do not have company for the night.
It sounds like a lot of work, but I am back and forth to the Phils fairly regularly, and stay for several weeks at a time. And I very much prefer local girls to P4P.
G
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person.com
I can't remember anyone mentioning person.com as a way of getting Filipina contacts. I met a guy in the hotel I'm in Angeles now who said it was the main thing he used and had had good success.
It does seem to have alot of functionality and is free to search and contact, with plenty of Filipinas . They can load up to 100 pics, lots of cam intregration.
It looks fun.
This guy had lined up several hot dates in various parts of the Phils. However
didn't have anyone in Angeles. Last night my gf had a text from her freeind who said she had seen us walking around town and wondered if she could come for a threesome as she needed some cash for the rent. I said fine for P500 and she turned out to be a little hottie with a lovely body and nice tits. I told him my gf would text her for him and 10mins later she was there at the poolside complete with very sexy swimming costume. They went off to his room and when we met up for dinner a few hours later he said he had done her 4 times and was now scrapping his plan to meet a 19 year old virgin in Cebu.
The moral of this tale, is that the dating sites can be time consuming but fun but in te Phis there are so many girls that it is easy enough to rely on serrendipity.
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Can i be found easily?
I was thinking about a discussion here the other day about the risks faced by married/LTR guys placing their face on dating & social web sites.
Apart from the obvious of just googling, you guys better hope your spouses/GF's dont see this!
[url]http://namechk.com/[/url]
Checks 80 of these websites all at once GULP!
AV
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[QUOTE=Amavida]I was thinking about a discussion here the other day about the risks faced by married/LTR guys placing their face on dating & social web sites.
Apart from the obvious of just googling, you guys better hope your spouses/GF's dont see this!
[url]http://namechk.com/[/url]
Checks 80 of these websites all at once GULP!
AV[/QUOTE]Yes. Theres a few of these type sites. Which shows why some of us use fake names all over the place.
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Safe enough!
[QUOTE=Amavida]I was thinking about a discussion here the other day about the risks faced by married/LTR guys placing their face on dating & social web sites.
Apart from the obvious of just googling, you guys better hope your spouses/GF's dont see this!
[url]http://namechk.com/[/url]
Checks 80 of these websites all at once GULP!
AV[/QUOTE]
Date In Asia... Cherry Blossoms.... Filipina Hearts ........ Friensdster... are all still safe. Relax guys!
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Just from the pics I'd guess she was in a hotel room with a porigner. The furniture and bottles of water...
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]I want to see if anyone knows her or has spent any time with this girl in the past. I heard from a third party that she has had a few foreign BF's which she denies, so I wanted to make sure she was not a semi-pro paying for her tuition meeting men around town before I decide to get serious with her. She lives in Cebu and I met her on a dating website that's why I am adding this report to the chat rooms section.
If anyone knows her or has spent time with her I would be interested in the details about where and when you met her to possibly save me some headaches down the road. Send me a PM with any info.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Mongering1]Just from the pics I'd guess she was in a hotel room with a porigner. The furniture and bottles of water...[/QUOTE]
Umm, Yes I am the "porigner" she was with and yes I took these pics in my hotel room.
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College girls & poriner BF's
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]I heard from a third party that she has had a few foreign BF's[/QUOTE] RED FLAG #1 : Cebu is a small place compared to Manila. People cant hide their antics there.
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]...paying for her tuition...[/QUOTE] RED FLAG #2 : Sigh... college girls are desperate to have a sponsor.
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]I met her on a dating website[/QUOTE] RED FLAG #3 : Best place for a girl on the make to find a victim, er, BF.
I dont mean _any_ disrespect. Maybe yours is an innocent little lilly... but i have to tell ya, I have extensive experience mixing in the circles inhabited by college girls, and many MANY of them have 'poriner' BF's. If the money dries up with one they _do_ move on to another, trust me I know!
Their college curriculums have lofty sounding names but they have very low standards to meet & frequently lecturers dont turn up. As long as the girls meet the minimum requirements by putting in an appearance student life goes on. Their educational qualifications are practically worthless outside of PI.
They get on CB, DIA etc display themselves, chat up & hook overseas guys all the time. In any class of students many have 'poriner' BF's.
You must understand as a student they are insulated from the harsh realities of working life in the PI's. They lead a charmed life hanging around campus doing their nails & make up, taking self portraits with the expensive cell phone (paid for by BF) and getting the cell #'s of horny little pinoy classmates. Despite her claims of fidelity she will be dating (& screwing) many pinoy's and a few 'poriners' in your abscence. Going to parties, going on 'school field trips' (paid for by the 'poriner' BF) & meeting 'poriners' in plush hotels is MUCH more interesting than studying or standing on your feet 72 hours a week in a job.
When they are not doing that they are at the nearby Internet cafe updating their many dating site profiles & checking all their email accounts. They do have dozens of 'poriner' yahoo chat contacts.
If you want to screw with their heads, give them a laptop with remote access pre-installed & then marvel at their two faced antics.
I hate to sound so cynical but you must understand, Asian women never do things without a purpose. Her agenda is to get someone ANYONE to keep her in her cozy college life. If your agenda is to have fun & maybe keep her on as a 'friend with benefits' thats cool but don't make the mistake of losing your heart to her coz you will live to regret it.
AV
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"its just business"
One of my GF's has many cousins, most of whom have already 'poriner' BF's, the rest are trying.
One of them, a nursing student who presents as intelligent, warm, friendly & straight, I have got to know. Her nursing studies have been interrupted by periods of 'work' to help get money to return to college. At first she used to tell me she worked in a 'resto bar' but after a while she revealed that she worked in a 'bar'. Actually it came about because she was always warning me no to cheat on her cousin by going to bars. When asked how she would know she let the cat out of the bag.
For the last 12 months she has been back in college courtesy of her 64 year old japanese 'BF' who visits manila every few months for his conjugal rights.
Recently she was having a little 'Dr Phil' session with me about how she had found out that Nippon boy had several other pinay's whom he visited when he was in Manila.
She told me she was 'getting in love with him'. When i commiserated with her & asked it why she still continued to see him, she came back with 'its ok, its just business'.
Pinay's are amazingly adaptable...
AV
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[QUOTE=Amavida]RED FLAG #1 : Cebu is a small place compared to Manila. People cant hide their antics there.
RED FLAG #2 : Sigh... college girls are desperate to have a sponsor.
RED FLAG #3 : Best place for a girl on the make to find a victim, er, BF.
I dont mean _any_ disrespect. Maybe yours is an innocent little lilly... but i have to tell ya, I have extensive experience mixing in the circles inhabited by college girls, and many MANY of them have 'poriner' BF's. If the money dries up with one they _do_ move on to another, trust me I know!
Their college curriculums have lofty sounding names but they have very low standards to meet & frequently lecturers dont turn up. As long as the girls meet the minimum requirements by putting in an appearance student life goes on. Their educational qualifications are practically worthless outside of PI.
They get on CB, DIA etc display themselves, chat up & hook overseas guys all the time. In any class of students many have 'poriner' BF's.
You must understand as a student they are insulated from the harsh realities of working life in the PI's. They lead a charmed life hanging around campus doing their nails & make up, taking self portraits with the expensive cell phone (paid for by BF) and getting the cell #'s of horny little pinoy classmates. Despite her claims of fidelity she will be dating (& screwing) many pinoy's and a few 'poriners' in your abscence. Going to parties, going on 'school field trips' (paid for by the 'poriner' BF) & meeting 'poriners' in plush hotels is MUCH more interesting than studying or standing on your feet 72 hours a week in a job.
When they are not doing that they are at the nearby Internet cafe updating their many dating site profiles & checking all their email accounts. They do have dozens of 'poriner' yahoo chat contacts.
If you want to screw with their heads, give them a laptop with remote access pre-installed & then marvel at their two faced antics.
I hate to sound so cynical but you must understand, Asian women never do things without a purpose. Her agenda is to get someone ANYONE to keep her in her cozy college life. If your agenda is to have fun & maybe keep her on as a 'friend with benefits' thats cool but don't make the mistake of losing your heart to her coz you will live to regret it.
AV[/QUOTE]Amavida,
I don't always agree with your writings, but in this instance, you got it 100% exactly right. !
The seriously smart don't go to schools in Phils. They are in US or Australia. The rest are left in schools in Phils, and unless its UP or La Salle or something significant and prestigious, the college will indeed not do much for their education. However it means they are slightly smarter than having to become service crew somewhere. Theat means they know how to best use their time.
And also means their English will be such that they can talk. And chat. And voila. They find a foreign BF or two or three. Well written Amavida!
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[QUOTE=Amavida]
I hate to sound so cynical but you must understand, Asian women never do things without a purpose. Her agenda is to get someone ANYONE to keep her in her cozy college life. If your agenda is to have fun & maybe keep her on as a 'friend with benefits' thats cool but don't make the mistake of losing your heart to her coz you will live to regret it.
AV[/QUOTE]
Wow, AV, you must have been really screwed over by one;). You sure make them out to be manipulative, scheming bitches which I'm sure a fair few of them are but I wouldn't go so far to say all or even most. That would be too much of a stereotypical generalization.
Whatever the case, I don't suppose this is what Stroker wanted to hear. If I was him I would invent a new chat site/ym identity and approach the girl to see what response he received to his advances. You would soon discover if she is willing to play around.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]RED FLAG #1 : Cebu is a small place compared to Manila. People cant hide their antics there.
RED FLAG #2 : Sigh... college girls are desperate to have a sponsor.
RED FLAG #3 : Best place for a girl on the make to find a victim, er, BF.
I dont mean _any_ disrespect. Maybe yours is an innocent little lilly... but i have to tell ya, I have extensive experience mixing in the circles inhabited by college girls, and many MANY of them have 'poriner' BF's. If the money dries up with one they _do_ move on to another, trust me I know!
Their college curriculums have lofty sounding names but they have very low standards to meet & frequently lecturers dont turn up. As long as the girls meet the minimum requirements by putting in an appearance student life goes on. Their educational qualifications are practically worthless outside of PI.
They get on CB, DIA etc display themselves, chat up & hook overseas guys all the time. In any class of students many have 'poriner' BF's.
You must understand as a student they are insulated from the harsh realities of working life in the PI's. They lead a charmed life hanging around campus doing their nails & make up, taking self portraits with the expensive cell phone (paid for by BF) and getting the cell #'s of horny little pinoy classmates. Despite her claims of fidelity she will be dating (& screwing) many pinoy's and a few 'poriners' in your abscence. Going to parties, going on 'school field trips' (paid for by the 'poriner' BF) & meeting 'poriners' in plush hotels is MUCH more interesting than studying or standing on your feet 72 hours a week in a job.
When they are not doing that they are at the nearby Internet cafe updating their many dating site profiles & checking all their email accounts. They do have dozens of 'poriner' yahoo chat contacts.
I hate to sound so cynical but you must understand, Asian women never do things without a purpose. Her agenda is to get someone ANYONE to keep her in her cozy college life. If your agenda is to have fun & maybe keep her on as a 'friend with benefits' thats cool but don't make the mistake of losing your heart to her coz you will live to regret it.
AV[/QUOTE]
Avavida,
This girl has never ever asked me for a dime, and she often pays for things when I go out with her. I once even offered to pay for ferry tickets for her and her family back to her Province when her Grandfather passed away (I saw the pics so I know it was real) and she declined. Sure I bought her some shoes or paid for meals, taxis or movie tickets, but she has never even hinted she would like me to buy her something it was always something I suggested.
I am 97% sure her family pays for her classes, so I am not worried about a sponsor. It's possible just not likely. A local BF is much more likely. She does have some other ym chatmates from before I met her and she has tried really hard to make me happy by giving me her ym password and by deleting contacts. Sure she could just create another YM ID, but she knows I check on her comp every time I come see her. If a girl is intent on contacting someone then she can find a way. I accept that she has had other online relationships before I met her and I am ok with that, but if she is in the p4p area im not ok with that. Of course she would never admit it, that's why the pics have been posted.
I know she has had foreign BF's online in the past, she admists that and the reports of her being with foreign men are from another online contact (FH) that I know in Cebu and she wants to date me. I took her reports with a grain of salt because she wants my girl out of the picture, so that's why I posted her pics online. If she is indeed on the market and in play then someone somewhere on ISG has seen her around Cebu at a bar, disco or mall. If no one has come forward with evidence I will take her pics off ISG and consider her non-p4p unless new evidence comes to light.
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[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]Avavida,
I am 97% sure her family pays for her classes, so I am not worried about a sponsor. It's possible just not likely. A local BF is much more likely. She does have some other ym chatmates from before I met her and she has tried really hard to make me happy by giving me her ym password and by deleting contacts. Sure she could just create another YM ID, but she knows I check on her comp every time I come see her. If a girl is intent on contacting someone then she can find a way. I accept that she has had other online relationships before I met her and I am ok with that, but if she is in the p4p area im not ok with that. Of course she would never admit it, that's why the pics have been posted.
.[/QUOTE]I would test her using a different picture and profile. If you are concerned about p4p, you can have the new guy "hint"at play for play. for example, suggest she will get a new cell phone if she stays the weekend with him.
I think some of her past BF's are sending her a little cash now and then. How is her family paying for her classes? an overseas family member?
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Ain't love grand
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]Avavida, I am 97% sure her family pays for her classes, so I am not worried about a sponsor. It's possible just not likely. A local BF is much more likely.[/QUOTE]Pinays are amazingly free & easy in their attitudes. Their definition of morality is very fuzzy compared to us westerners. Based on what i have seen, I would say its highly likely foreigner BF's are doing the paying while Pinoy BF's are doing the playing.
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]She does have some other ym chat mates from before I met her[/QUOTE]She's been around the block several times & she's got mileage bro. Face it dude.
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]she has tried really hard to make me happy by giving me her ym password and by deleting contacts. Sure she could just create another YM ID, but she knows I check on her comp every time I come see her. If a girl is intent on contacting someone then she can find a way.[/QUOTE]You know in your heart its dead easy for her to have other YM identities that you don't know about but you want to believe she's not cheating you... 'kaaayyy...
The bottom line is you can never know unless you give her a laptop connected to the internet with remote access for you to spy on her &/or as GH & BB have suggested test her fidelity by setting up fake personas of your own to approach her through her dating web site profiles.
Caveat, she will be on her guard because you made a big deal out of it to her already. It is much wiser to play their game ie. always play your cards close to your chest, feign trust, but check up behind their back's. You will be amazed...
Here's a question, when you two became an item did she immediately close all her dating site accounts? Did she get rid of her old YM & set up a non public one just for you & her in private? Or is she still business as usual on her DIA? Hard questions you must answer to your self honestly dude.
Based on my experience, if she kept her accounts it's 99.9% certain she is hedging her bets...
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]I accept that she has had other online relationships before I met her and I am ok with that, but if she is in the p4p area im not ok with that.[/QUOTE]The line between P4P & non P4P is very blurry in PI. You are here on a sex tourist message board presumably because you have met women in PI & exchanged gifts/food/$ for sex. You already know she has exchanged her her favours for gifts/food/$ to other men from the internet. Ask yourself 'what makes me so different?'.
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]I know she has had foreign BF's online in the past, she admists that and the reports of her being with foreign men are from another online contact (FH)[/QUOTE]See my comment above.
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]If she is indeed on the market and in play then someone somewhere on ISG has seen her around Cebu at a bar, disco or mall.[/QUOTE]Not necessarily. If no one ID's her on ISG it means nothing, there are thousands upon thousands of Pinays on the net daily meeting foreigners.
She's been around the block several times & she's got mileage bro.
If you want a LTR find a fresh one. These high mileage chicks are nothing but trouble.
I have meant no disrespect Stroker. Just tryin' to pass on the wisdom of experience to a fellow traveller. I wish you and your lady love all the best...
AV
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Dont get me wrong
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Wow, AV, you must have been really screwed over by one;). You sure make them out to be manipulative, scheming bitches which I'm sure a fair few of them are but I wouldn't go so far to say all or even most. That would be too much of a stereotypical generalization.[/QUOTE]I think unless people have lived here & got a feel for the place its very easy to misinterpret comments from battle scarred mongers.
Im not a misogynist. I love women. I love Asian women. I love Pinay women. I have some great GF's. I just never let myself forget that they are NOT like western chicks in thinking & attitude.
Guy's must understand that Pinays are NOT like western women. They are asian so culturally they tend to be inscrutable. The misinformed call this two faced.
Most have grown up in a very harsh competitive environment. While her westerner sister was whining about a broken promise to go to Mac Donalds by her parents she was wondering if she was going to bed hungry again that night. They appear sweet & innocent on the outside but they are mentally tough & resourceful. The misinformed call this manipulative & scheming.
You know GH i personally find the best way to cope with this cultural divide is to try think like an Asian/Pinoy.
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Whatever the case, I don't suppose this is what Stroker wanted to hear.[/QUOTE]I know GH, this is a case of 'tough love'. Sometimes you have to confront people to get them to stop thinking with their penile brain.
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]If I was him I would invent a new chat site/ym identity and approach the girl to see what response he received to his advances. You would soon discover if she is willing to play around.[/QUOTE]Thats very good advice GH.
AV
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Camfrog
Has anyone had any luck with camfrog girls?
So far I have been hit up for money for bills and for camshows.
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Lets get real here!
[QUOTE=Amavida]
I know GH, this is a case of 'tough love'. Sometimes you have to confront people to get them to stop thinking with their penile brain.
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OK AV, we both know that you are being a realist and only telling it as it really is. But fantasy is the 'name of the game' for the majority of the punters who head out to the magical east and the romantically inclined are lost before they hit Philippine soil. I am always amazed, reading the various forums (not just The Philippines) at the continuing and delightful naivete of many guys who seem to view themselves as some sort of horny knight in shining armour come to rescue a little brown and innocent maiden in distress. Its a pipe dream.
In truth, all these girls on dating/chat sites etc fully know who their target audience are and will ruthlessly exploit any dishonest ruse and lie through their teeth to get what they want which is usually a ticket out. But who can blame them?
It amuses me when you said you tried to think like them:D. Watch out for that, mate, it is the road to perdition. Not only will you get twisted blood and end up with your head up your own arse trying to out think them, but they are so much better at it (having had years more to practice) and will run rings around you. Best to go with the flow but always bear in mind the maxim 'you know when they are lying because their lips are moving'!
Now I am really sounding like a cynical 'battle scarred monger';).
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The GFE Smoke
[QUOTE=Amavida]I think unless people have lived here & got a feel for the place its very easy to misinterpret comments from battle scarred mongers.
Im not a misogynist. I love women. I love Asian women. I love Pinay women. I have some great GF's. I just never let myself forget that they are NOT like western chicks in thinking & attitude.
Guy's must understand that Pinays are NOT like western women. They are asian so culturally they tend to be inscrutable. The misinformed call this two faced.
Most have grown up in a very harsh competitive environment. While her westerner sister was whining about a broken promise to go to Mac Donalds by her parents she was wondering if she was going to bed hungry again that night. They appear sweet & innocent on the outside but they are mentally tough & resourceful. The misinformed call this manipulative & scheming.
You know GH i personally find the best way to cope with this cultural divide is to try think like an Asian/Pinoy.
I know GH, this is a case of 'tough love'. Sometimes you have to confront people to get them to stop thinking with their penile brain.
AV[/QUOTE]
AV no need to back off your words. As me you have simply emerged from the “GFE” smoke.
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Girl from Cebu
[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88]If no one has come forward with evidence I will take her pics off ISG and consider her non-p4p unless new evidence comes to light.[/QUOTE]
Looks like you found a keeper so I would delete her pics (that is if you can). Having had extensive experiences with non and semi-pro Cebuanas, they are a different breed then your typical Pinay from the north. Most are conservative, religious and family oriented, happy with their situations and in no way desperate.
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Gerontophiles rule OK!
This fine lady on Tagged, supposedly living in Manila, wants to be my friend.
Yeeeeessss...a result! Fill my boots with crinkly granny. Hope she takes her teeth out before giving head:D.
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The Shining Knight Rescue Complex
AV has posted some of the best advice/insights that I've yet seen here. It's easy to get beguiled by the ostensible charm, the great sex, the eternal smiles and the frequent expressions of "love," and it's equally easy to immerse yourself in the Pygmalion fantasy of rescue and transformation. I think in literary criticism it's called the willing suspension of disbelief. The harsh fact is though that in many--dare I say most--cases, it really is fantasy and the cold reality it that many of these girls are as hard as steel at the core; they do what they need to do in order to survive and, in many cases, provide for the survival of their families. I'm not contending that this is always true, because it certainly isn't, but it pays always to be extraordinarily cautious.
Being cautious means accepting some simple, basic truths:
1. Avoid thinking you understand the culture and the social dynamics because you do not and you never will. It's easy to get duped into thinking you understand the girl, her situation, her feelings and her motives; easy because there's a patina of Western culture in the Philippines, and many people assume that because people speak English and because the Americans were here as colonizers for 50 years or so, the country is "Westernized." The veneer of westernization however is quite thin. This is a tribal culture or cultures, with unique values, belief systems and mores; you are not part of it; you never will be part of it; you will never understand it completely.
2. Do not assume that you are being told the truth, because in most cases you aren't, at least not in the way that Westerners look at the truth. There's no hesitation, and no sense of shame in lying here is the lie causes the liar to avoid unpleasantness, save face, or avoid putting herself in a corner. Reality is an invention and if you do not keep constantly in your mind that you are not hearing stories that incorporate all of the relevant facts, you could be in trouble because you will act on assumptions that are not valid.
3. Remember that, most likely, her first obligation is to her extended family and not to you. You will, in most cases, never understand the "utang na loob;" the enormous, neverending obligation she owes her family, and part of her relationship with you is a way of paying forward that obligation.
You can have a great time here, and you can indulge yourself in your wildest fantasies, so long as you remember that most of the time they're fantasies and nothing more. This is not your culture and it's essential to keep that always at the forefront of both of your brains.
GE
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]AV has posted some of the best advice/insights that I've yet seen here. of "love," . I think in literary criticism it's called the willing suspension of disbelief.
1. Avoid thinking you understand the culture and the social dynamics because you do not and you never will. It's easy to get duped into thinking you understand the girl, her situation, her feelings and her motives; easy because there's a patina of Western culture in the Philippines, and many people assume that because people speak English and because the Americans were here as colonizers for 50 years or so, the country is "Westernized."
When I worked in Makati, I employed a few expats and my message on Day One to them was always " this isnt Europe, this isnt the US.". They may talk English and may look you in the eye, but they arent the same as you.
A few got it, but I had to re-patriate quite a few who never understood that they arent Western depsite some outward appearances to the contrary.
In Vietnam, in Indonesia, in China you know what you are dealing with. Many however, get confused in Philippines.
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]This fine lady on Tagged, supposedly living in Manila, wants to be my friend.
Yeeeeessss...a result! Fill my boots with crinkly granny. Hope she takes her teeth out before giving head:D.[/QUOTE]
Now you know how your young lovelies and her friends look at you. Not right to re-post that lady's photo out of ridicule.
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Smoke and Mirrors
[QUOTE=Cbea20]Now you know how your young lovelies and her friends look at you. Not right to re-post that lady's photo out of ridicule.[/QUOTE]
You are maybe right but I do still do have my own teeth or not qute as many wrinkles (or am a Granny as far as I know):D. I'm sure you don't think I would be so callous or that such an sweet old lady would seek romance on Philippine Tagged? She is obviously not a Pinay and the picture is a cover for a far younger (late 30's) lady. Do a search on tagged for Granny Meg (you have to become her friend to see her real photo's).
Never take at face value, anything you read on the internet, especially from an established [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url]-taker!
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]1. A
2. Do not assume that you are being told the truth, because in most cases you aren't, at least not in the way that Westerners look at the truth. There's no hesitation, and no sense of shame in lying here is the lie causes the liar to avoid unpleasantness, save face, or avoid putting herself in a corner.
GE[/QUOTE]A Filipina I know here where I work, who I used to bonk contacted me today. She is now married, and as her purse is reasonably empty, asked if I wanted to taste her again. I said. " what about your vow to stay faithful". She replied. I would be paying her to bonk her now so it didn't count.
Amazing how these loveies can twist the words to suit their own version of truth.
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Mercenary
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]A Filipina I know here where I work, who I used to bonk contacted me today. She is now married, and as her purse is reasonably empty, asked if I wanted to taste her again. I said. "what about your vow to stay faithful". She replied. I would be paying her to bonk her now so it didn't count.
Amazing how these loveies can twist the words to suit their own version of truth.[/QUOTE]Yeah FF, they are breathtakingly mercenary but to be fair its not only flips who are like that. Its just, as GE and others have said, because they speak english & have a thin veneer of westernisation we are more easily fooled.
AV
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Great Advice - Elegantly Summarized
[QUOTE=GoodEnough]AV has posted some of the best advice/insights that I've yet seen here. It's easy to get beguiled by the ostensible charm, the great sex, the eternal smiles and the frequent expressions of "love," and it's equally easy to immerse yourself in the Pygmalion fantasy of rescue and transformation. I think in literary criticism it's called the willing suspension of disbelief. The harsh fact is though that in many--dare I say most--cases, it really is fantasy and the cold reality it that many of these girls are as hard as steel at the core; they do what they need to do in order to survive and, in many cases, provide for the survival of their families. I'm not contending that this is always true, because it certainly isn't, but it pays always to be extraordinarily cautious.
Being cautious means accepting some simple, basic truths:
1. Avoid thinking you understand the culture and the social dynamics because you do not and you never will. It's easy to get duped into thinking you understand the girl, her situation, her feelings and her motives; easy because there's a patina of Western culture in the Philippines, and many people assume that because people speak English and because the Americans were here as colonizers for 50 years or so, the country is "Westernized." The veneer of westernization however is quite thin. This is a tribal culture or cultures, with unique values, belief systems and mores; you are not part of it; you never will be part of it; you will never understand it completely.
2. Do not assume that you are being told the truth, because in most cases you aren't, at least not in the way that Westerners look at the truth. There's no hesitation, and no sense of shame in lying here is the lie causes the liar to avoid unpleasantness, save face, or avoid putting herself in a corner. Reality is an invention and if you do not keep constantly in your mind that you are not hearing stories that incorporate all of the relevant facts, you could be in trouble because you will act on assumptions that are not valid.
3. Remember that, most likely, her first obligation is to her extended family and not to you. You will, in most cases, never understand the "utang na loob;" the enormous, neverending obligation she owes her family, and part of her relationship with you is a way of paying forward that obligation.
You can have a great time here, and you can indulge yourself in your wildest fantasies, so long as you remember that most of the time they're fantasies and nothing more. This is not your culture and it's essential to keep that always at the forefront of both of your brains.
GE[/QUOTE]
You are right 100% that they are different that Westerners. Lying is a way of life, to save face or whatever. I find along with the lying is that they can justify anything they do or others do, especially if it against a Westerner. They believe it never wrong for Westerner to pay for everything, all the time. Also it is OK if they are lazy and don't work, but a Westerner should work and give them their money. I hear that working that job doesn't pay enough. There is none of the mentality that any job is better than no job.
Do they lie as much to other Filipinos or is it just to Westerners because we are outside of the tribe?
It is a tribal society and I see their obligation is to their family is first. I see fathers who don't mind their daughter being bar girls and putting in double time boom booming so they can have alcohol or some other non-necessity for the home. I see the girls go along with it to be a good little daughters.
My question is can these girls ever feel their obligation is to their BF or husband and not to their family first?
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Girls On Dating Sites
I have never used a dating site yet. How easy to bed are the girls on these sites? What % of the girls on the sites are P4P?
Also how easy are non bar girls to bed? Is it a promiscuous culture?
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About right
[QUOTE=Big Johnson2]You are right 100% that they are different that Westerners. Lying is a way of life, to save face or whatever. I find along with the lying is that they can justify anything they do or others do, especially if it against a Westerner. They believe it never wrong for Westerner to pay for everything, all the time. Also it is OK if they are lazy and don't work, but a Westerner should work and give them their money. I hear that working that job doesn't pay enough. There is none of the mentality that any job is better than no job.
Do they lie as much to other Filipinos or is it just to Westerners because we are outside of the tribe?
It is a tribal society and I see their obligation is to their family is first. I see fathers who don't mind their daughter being bar girls and putting in double time boom booming so they can have alcohol or some other non-necessity for the home. I see the girls go along with it to be a good little daughters.
My question is can these girls ever feel their obligation is to their BF or husband and not to their family first?[/QUOTE]
I'm now in the Phils and showed this post to me GF here. In her view it is a pretty accurate summary. On your final question, I think it rather depends on whether she is really in love with you or whether she is just pretending to be and sees you primarily as a walking ATM machine to benefit the whole family. I think for the bulk of westerner-Filipina relationships, the latter interpretation is nearer the truth. Even if she really does fal in love with you, she will see taking care of her immediate family, especially parents as a priority. Today at dinner the next table was occupied by a Western guy with a 25 strong Pinay extended family. My GF said she expected that the Westerner would need to pick up the bill for the whole lot.
Personally I see this as a big issue and would be very reluctant to marry a Filipina partly for this reason. I think if you are a university educated nd want an Asian wife say 15 years younger than yourself, it's much better to find a University educated Chinese girl. I've had 3 such serious GFs. Each has been able to hold down a serious job in the West, has had a much more compatible range of interests to me and has a small hard working and respectible family that has never asked me for a penny. Of course if you are a 60 year old looking for a cute 18 year old the Philippines is for sure the place to come, but don't be surprised if it turns out that she is primarily interested in you for the economic benefit of herself and her family.
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Very Easy LOL
[QUOTE=Big Johnson2]I have never used a dating site yet. How easy to bed are the girls on these sites? What % of the girls on the sites are P4P?
Also how easy are non bar girls to bed? Is it a promiscuous culture?[/QUOTE]
The majority of girls on most of the dating sites are looking for the elusive "serious relationship" leading to marriage however a significant minority are also open to short term relationships. If there is a significant age gap between you then she wil probably be hoping/expecting/requiring some sort of financial compensation. Typically 500P for short time (a few hours) or 1000P for all night will be seen as reasonable. For reference a girl working as a shopping assistant in a mall would typically earn around 250P a day. of course things vary. Some guys will pretend to be looking for a wife to persuade one of the "serious relationship" ones to bed. Sometimes this will be for "free" but in my experience the costs - dinners, presents etc involved in "free" sex have a tendency to converge on that for paid sex.
There are also a significant number of scammers on these sites (often ladyboys) along with cam girls primarily interested in earning money through cam shows, or girls loking for advanced payments of one sort or another eg to buy a fare to see you etc etc. There are also some girls, often with sexy photos in their profile who are looking for short term sex at higher rates (2000-5000 per night - almost always negotiable down to the lower level)
Personally I believe in being honest and frank about what I am looking for and expecting. In the major population centres you should have no trouble in finding loads of suitable candidates. Often the "naughty" girls will have other naughty sisters/cousins/friends so its relatively easy to organise 3, 4 or more somes if you wish. Its also relatively easy to find virgins willing to let you deflower them if that is your thing.
I personally found the bars in the Phils very boring and have spent minimal time in them. In the last 5 weeks I have only spent one night alone, otherwise always with one or more girls from dating sites or their friends/relatives. In general I have found the sex much more passionate and "real" than that available in the rest of SEA such as Thailand. Generally I make it clear through chat or text before we meet that assuming she likes me, she will end up in bed with me on that date. I am probably missing out on some nice girls being so direct, but given the numbers available it seems to work well. I ask the girls to meet me at my hotel and take her straight to my room. Some prefer to meet in a mall or something, but as Philipinas are always late this can be seriously tiresome.
I've just used Date In Asia and Tagged. Others have used PH, CB (both paid sites) or Person.com (focussed on cam chat). It's also useful to set up a Friendster account to check photos. You really only need to start chatting to girls a few days before you are comming (get their Yahoo messenger ID and cell no through the sites then chat on YM and get a Phils SIM card (best is Smart when you get here), but in practice for many guys the anticipation/preparation is much of the fun.
It is very difficult to judge who will be good and who not before you actually meet. There are loads of instances of guys spending months cultivating particular girls only to find there is no chemistry between them whereas the one they meet by accident or had not rated turns out to be a gem. Some girls seem to act as de facto mama sans for their bunch of friends. I've made very specific requests before now (18-23, slim, cute, no baby, horny) and just been asked OK how many do you want?
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This saving face and lying is unbelievable. I met a girl on Date in Asia a few months ago while I was in the Philippines. We became close (sex after a few dates, she said I was only her second sex partner, after her first Pinoy bf) and we went online one day to check out each others profile, just for fun. We exchanged passwords and then never talked about it again. Of course I changed my pw the next day, and she still has the same pw for everything(email, friendster, job sites, ect).
So I was able to take some notes before she deleted old emails. Well there was this one conversation with a guy from Asia who basically promised her the world(she had a very sick relative, who has since died) before they actually met. Eventually he came to visit her, had a great time with her, then dumped her shortly afterwards. She even mentioned she was afraid she might be pregnant in one of her emails to him.
My point? I have asked her many times if she has had any other sex partners besides me and the original Pinoy Trail Blazer. She would always say no, lying directlly to my face (or web cam). I then asked her if she chats with any other guys, just to see if she would lie again, and she lied to me saying no others.
Well after those 2 blantant lies, she will repeat a thousand times that she is not a "lier girl".
This girl went throught the trouble of deleting all her emails in DAI after she read them, but she forgot to delete all of her Sent emails, where she is asking guys to chat and even asked one guy if he was looking for a nice wife.
At first I thought Dragon Slayer was exagerating when he says all Pinays lie, but I have concluded it is true, at least the ones I have first met on the internet. The saying "saving face" is so true. Every Pinay that I put to the test by asking a question that I new the answer to already, lied to me if it would make them look bad, especialy if it was sexual. Most of the time if I showed the proof of their lie, they would say that did not want to ' upset me or they were ashamed"
To qoute GE, "You can have a great time here, and you can indulge yourself in your wildest fantasies, so long as you remember that most of the time they're fantasies and nothing more. This is not your culture and it's essential to keep that always at the forefront of both of your brains." This should be printed and hung on the wall of the Manila Airport Immigration counter for all men to read.
Of course, of all of the girls I met on my last trip, I only told one girl the full truth about how many other girls I had met, and she was the one hooker met.
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In defense of Pinay lieing
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]This saving face and lying is unbelievable. I met a girl on Date in Asia a few months ago while I was in the Philippines. We became close (sex after a few dates, she said I was only her second sex partner, after her first Pinoy bf) and we went online one day to check out each others profile, just for fun. We exchanged passwords and then never talked about it again. Of course I changed my pw the next day, and she still has the same pw for everything(email, friendster, job sites, ect).
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I agree that the vast majority of Pinay girls lie, but this is in part explained by the wildly unrealistic expectations (or maybe perceived expectations) of many guys. Probably only about 10% of the guys who chat to girls on the dating sites will ever actually show up in the Phils. Of those, very few will actually meet or contact more than 10% of the girls they have had conversations with. There is therefore probably a sub 1% chance that any online contact will actually lead to a physical meeting yet some guys seem to want to believe the fantasy that the girl has only had one prior BF and is only in contact with him. For the girl placing all her chips on this one guy actually showing up and actually getting on with him would be frankly stupid in most cases yet this is apparently what some guys want to hear - and therefore the story that many girls tell all prospective guys.
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[QUOTE=GregLondon]I agree that the vast majority of Pinay girls lie, but this is in part explained by the wildly unrealistic expectations (or maybe perceived expectations) of many guys. .[/QUOTE]
I agree, they do not put all there egg in one basket, hoping the one guy they have been chatting to will come and take them away to the promised land (Detroit ?)
I have found that the Pinays lie so easily and effortless to everyone, including family. I have asked girls what their parents will say to her when she returns home after spending the night with me. They respond "I just tell them we had separate rooms or beds, they believe me".
I believe this is part of the "saving face mentality" The girls Parents probably know the white American is not going to fly all the way accross the world to just to sit and watch wwowowee reruns with their little Angel all night.
I notice the male Pinoys find it realy hard to directly admit they were wrong, I just don't push the issue unless it is something really important.
For fun, go ask Pinoys who will win the fight tonight and if it will it be by a knock out or decision. Go back tomorroow and confront those that picked wrong, and watch them back track. Ps. you may get stabbed if Pacman loses.
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Very Big Liars
I had an experience like you where a girl I had dated gave me her Date In Asia id and password, because I wanted to see her profile and she said she had nothing to hide. I was surprised at the lack of follow through she got from men. Lame messages and nothing ever coming of there Emails.
I had a second much different experience with another girl on DIA that said she was looking for a husband. I found what you were describing. Tons and tons of lying had been going on. She had another boyfriend while she was suppose to be truthful to me, of course this is while I was away. And tons of other lying about her fidelity to me. Her answer to me was she didn't think I loved her because I didn't call her often enough and I only sent her money occasionally. It makes you wonder if a girl like this could ever marry a man and be faithful or would she always be looking for something better? Are Filipino girls faithful when they are married?
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Sex from the Dating Sites
[QUOTE=GregLondon]
I personally found the bars in the Phils very boring and have spent minimal time in them. In the last 5 weeks I have only spent one night alone, otherwise always with one or more girls from dating sites or their friends/relatives. In general I have found the sex much more passionate and "real" than that available in the rest of SEA such as Thailand. Generally I make it clear through chat or text before we meet that assuming she likes me, she will end up in bed with me on that date. I am probably missing out on some nice girls being so direct, but given the numbers available it seems to work well. I ask the girls to meet me at my hotel and take her straight to my room. Some prefer to meet in a mall or something, but as Philipinas are always late this can be seriously tiresome.
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Thank you for the detailed answer. It was very informative. Are these girls that are coming over and know that you want sex expecting money? Do you discuss this upfront?
If so they are P4P just like bar girls, only you find them in a different way. Right? I know you can go to LA Cafe or discos in Thailand and pick up girls and bring them home with you too.
I think you're doing the right thing, being up front and telling them what you want. Why waste your time on a bunch of dinners if she will never sleep with you.
I find the ones that want to be your girl friend don't ask for money up front. They are smart and know that by being your girl friend they will get a lot more money that way.
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Liars
I have a girl right now in Cebu that I have traveled with twice in the PI. She really did seem like an innocent girl. She even said she was. Of course I don't believe it. She is still on DIA where I meet her in November. One time we were chatting on YM and I asked her if she has been on DIA lately. She said no and that she could not figure out how to cancel her account (yeah, right). As we were chatting I checked her DIA page (which I have bookmarked) and she was logged on as we were chatting! Another time I texted her to go to the internet so we could chat and she said she can't go because she dosen't have any money. Not believing her story I checked her account and yes, she was logged in!! Unbelieveable! I never bring up DIA and I occasionally check it because I use it as a tattle tale just for these reasons.
Actually, I really don't care if they lie to me. Afterall, I lie to them. Just as long as you know they are doing it and act accordingly. I don't think you can really trust them when you are 8,000 miles away. Do you expect her to be waiting in her province like a good little girl waiting for you to come back some day to see her?
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When is enough enough?
[QUOTE=GregLondon]I'm now in the Phils and showed this post to me GF here. In her view it is a pretty accurate summary. On your final question, I think it rather depends on whether she is really in love with you or whether she is just pretending to be and sees you primarily as a walking ATM machine to benefit the whole family. I think for the bulk of westerner-Filipina relationships, the latter interpretation is nearer the truth. Even if she really does fal in love with you, she will see taking care of her immediate family, especially parents as a priority. Today at dinner the next table was occupied by a Western guy with a 25 strong Pinay extended family. My GF said she expected that the Westerner would need to pick up the bill for the whole lot.
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Your description of the Westerner picking up the tab for the whole group, reminds me of experiences with my GFs family and friends. Is this always expected or am I being taken advantage of. My question is when is enough enough and when are they taking advantage of you. I had 2 incidents that bothered me and I thought maybe this was going too far. I've found if you want to buy some beer to drink with dinner at her parents house, one round is never enough. It then becomes another 2 rounds. We are leaving and she asks me to get her family some more beer/rum. Now this may only cost $2-3 USD, but I'm leaving and won't be there to enjoy it. Is this appropriate/nice manners?
Second incident, we all went out to a disco and the friends asked if they can order food for the table. There tends to be more food than I originally anticipated. We got a friend of hers who had a trike to take us and bring us back because no trikes ran at night to that village. The trike driver proceeded to get drunk on my money and I didn't feel he was safe to drive us home. I felt that I was being taken advantage of because he was charging a lot and didn't want to quit drinking.
Should I just say no, when I don't want to buy that last round of drinks. Do they respect you more when you say no or are you disliked as a cheap foreigner. I'd like to hear your GF opinion and the opinions of other guys out there.
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When to Say No
The whole "How much is enough" question is entirely personal. At the end of the day, you're the one who must decide the point at which you're sick and tired of the parasites. In my case, it's easy. I refuse to do any of it when it's "expected." Regardless of what others may say about "true love" or "when she really loves you," or such other romantic canards, the fact is we are, and we always will be mainly ATMs with feet. She may like you, but part of that attraction is your constant willingness and ability to provide things for her family and friends that they cannot, or will not, or do not provide for themselves. Don't forget, in these cases the women also gain face, since they're the ones that brought the cash machine home, so to speak.
GE
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Walking ATMs
[QUOTE=GoodEnough]The whole "How much is enough" question is entirely personal. At the end of the day, you're the one who must decide the point at which you're sick and tired of the parasites. In my case, it's easy. I refuse to do any of it when it's "expected." Regardless of what others may say about "true love" or "when she really loves you," or such other romantic canards, the fact is we are, and we always will be mainly ATMs with feet. She may like you, but part of that attraction is your constant willingness and ability to provide things for her family and friends that they cannot, or will not, or do not provide for themselves. Don't forget, in these cases the women also gain face, since they're the ones that brought the cash machine home, so to speak.
GE[/QUOTE]
You are so right. My GF was always thought of as second class in her family behind her brothers. She told me when she became a bar girl and was sending money home then she was important and they couldn't give her any shit anymore. She told me once her mother was talking about how much she liked something and wanted to know if she could get her another one, and my GF told her, "do you know how many men I had to fuck to get that?" I truthfully believe that if she was sending home twice as much as a bar girl as what I'm currently giving her, they'd tell my GF to go back to being a bar girl. Now to generalize, I think many of these girls are treated as second class citizens in their families and are sent away to earn money. I think many of the girls have inferiority complexes and they will go boom boom as many men as they can to buy people in their family gifts to win face.
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Girls that found their way to the dating sites.
Imho all girls that found their way to the dating sites will see and chat with a whole bunch of men. In a sense they are less interesting than the girls you meet randomly. I am very honest to the girls I see, and they get the same with me after a while when they discover that no lies are required to keep this ATM oiled up. All of them, without exceptions, told me about Americans, Germans, Pakis, etc that they regularly chat with. If those guys come to town, they will meet.
All 40 million females are not like this though. The corrupted few on for example DIA differ a lot from many of the girls I met "on site" in Davao, and a few I met from the dating sites. They do not care about Internet, foreigners and pots of gold at the end of the rainbow. I worked hard to, as a foreigner, get trusted. Gifts was useless. That would only manifest the image of the untrustworthy foreigner. Just hanging out with the girl on local places, beaches, etc, showing a true appreciation for the country made a difference with those girls. A lot is for sale, but not everything. Seeing through those chicas is not rocket science, so when a man once in a while don't see any crap I like to avoid spoiling the experience by generalizing and listening to the cynics. In all countries there are all types, just of various concentrations.
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Well I kept exchanging emails last night with the that girl who will not admit that
1. She had sex with a foreigner before we met. I keep saying I don't care if she did before we met, I just can not stand her lying to me. She does not know how much proof I have that it did happen, so she keeps say what a honest girl she is, over and over again.
2. the other lie is she is not chatting with other men. Again, I told I don't care if she does, we are not married. Just don't lie to me about it.
Well she offered to give me her DIA password to prove to me she is not trying to chat or meet other men, and she also put her profile as "hidden". I told her I don't want her password.
So I just checked her DIA account, since she forgot she gave me the password last year. She has deleted all of her emails except a couple from some dude that she is not really interested in. Of course I checked her SENT emails and there are a shit load of emails from her to other guys. Boom! I got her red handed.
Now the question is how she is going to "save face"and blame me for the fact she is lying.
Yes, I know I am acting immature, and the only reason I have not just let it go is because she is throwing all the the scammer tricks my way: ï love you", you will have bad karma now for not trusting me, I am good girl, you are the one cheating...."
Barba is correct, the best way to meet a good Pinay is in person. But for guys like me who can only visit the country once a year for a short time, we need to set up the dates in advance and hope we did a good job of vetting (vetting is a word I hear constantly on the political shows, thought I would try using it). Also, I am shy with girls, I am not good at meeting ordinary girls at the mall or club.
The internet dating sites are not perfect, but it is the best I have found for me.
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Not honest, keep looking
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]Well I kept exchanging emails last night with the that girl who will not admit that
1. She had sex with a foreigner before we met. I keep saying I don't care if she did before we met, I just can not stand her lying to me. She does not know how much proof I have that it did happen, so she keeps say what a honest girl she is, over and over again.
2. the other lie is she is not chatting with other men. Again, I told I don't care if she does, we are not married. Just don't lie to me about it.
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Very simple, you have a girl who is not honest. Quit trying to expect her to have your level of honesty. She will not change. You are in a good position, you know what she is doing. Just have fun with her, she is not GF material. If you want an honest girl keep looking.
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Recently returned from a 2 week trip to Phils, heres the story...
I've spent time in the Phils before, but only on business and only in Manila. I've done plenty of mongering throughout asia in the past, so the trips were not only work...
This time was my first trip for pleasure only, so I decided to spend 1 week in Cebu and 1 week in Davao. Using FH I found myself a young girl in each place and planned to meet them.
So I tell the Cebu girl that I will only be in town for 3 nights. She says ok, she will stay with me. I ask her if she is coming alone to meet me at the airport and she says yes. So on arrival in Cebu I exit the airport and see her there. Of course she is not alone. I go and meet her and do the introductions then she introduces me to her friend. 'This is my mother'.
I am 38, she is 18. The strangest part was being older than her mother. She was only 37. So I jump in the hotel car with her, and the mother also gets in. It was quite a strange trip to the hotel, but obviously I had made a good enough impression in that 25 minutes that the mother felt I was suitable to defile her daughter for 3 days.
We get in the hotel and it's quite obvious she just wants to get that initial sex out of the way. So we do. That indicated to me that she had obviously done this before. The sex was ok, but she wasn't really that experienced. So we get it on for the 3 days, and do alot of chatting. She was a really nice girl, from the islands, and really didn't know much about where to go, what to do in Cebu city. She was upfront with me (I'm assuming), that she has had 4 or 5 boyfriends and recently broke up with an older foriegn guy.
To cut a long story short I end up cancelling the trip to Davao and staying with this girl for 2 weeks.
I travelled to her island and stayed in her village for 10 days. We were met at the port by her younger brothers, who take my luggage and head off in the trike, while we get a lift from some guy on a motorbike. Once we arrived at the guesthouse she introduces the guy as her father. Another strange experience as the father and brothers hauled all my luggage into the room, not letting me do anything. Then they tell me to take a walk with them. We walk for about 20 minutes in a cirle and end up back at the guesthouse. Of course the route they took me on passed everybody they knew. Really an uncomfortable feeling being paraded around the village so they could show everyone I was with their daughter.
Of course during these 10 days I was taken to every bar, restaurant, karaoke joint that was run by a friend or family member, or a friend of a cousin of a friends family member.... I had the nights out with her friends for which I paid the bills. I took the family out to dinner one night (mother, father and 6 siblings) for which I paid the bill.
But in return I got looked after like a king. Every morning I would go outside the room to find her mother had left fresh coffee and fruits. At lunchtime I would be brought food and drinks. My dirty clothes were taken and cleaned. I even commented on the 2nd day that it would be good to have a television in the room, and 15 minutes later her father was hauling a televison from there place into the guesthouse for me. Anytime I wanted anything she would be on the phone to her younger brother and he would bring it to me.
Never at any stage was I asked for any actual money. Of course I pumped plenty of pesos into their village and perhaps they were getting some kickbacks from the different bars and restaurants I went to, but I was never asked to pay for any of the food, or any of the drinks which were brought to my room during the 10 days, so I was happy to have spent the money I did for the experience I received. And of course there was plenty of good sex.
So what now...
I see her on cam everyday, I know from the surroundings she is at the internet cafe in her village. She has given me her email and friendster logins, and I am plastered all over her page. She has cancelled her account on FH. I really like this girl, and with the work I do I have the opportunity to go back and see her every 6 weeks, and in a month I will be back. But this time taking her on holidays somewhere away from the family.
I've always said I would never be naive enough to fall for a bar girl, but can you take this same attitude with a girl you meet from the provinces ? I understand the resposibilities (and costs) I would take on if I get serious with this girl, and I know her definition of 'love' is different than mine. I'm looking for a young girl from a good family to mother a child for me, she is looking for someone to look after her and her family. If we are both happy with that and really enjoy our time together, then how much in love do you need to be ?
There are so many bad stories, but surely sometimes things work out for the good... how can you minimize the risk, and when do you decide to take that risk ?
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No Pictures on Dating Sites?
If you go Filipina Heart and search on Samar by most recent Activity, 18-26, under 5'6'' and <119, you get tons of girls with no pictures. Like probably 1/3 of the girls. What is going on? Are these girls Cheaters that already have a Boy Friend and don't want to get caught? What is the reason for this?
Who is a girl that will go out with someone 18-80?
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There are many different answers. Why don't you ask a few of the ladies?
I can think of four quick answers:
1) she's butt ugly
2) she hot and cannot begin to handle the flood of mail whe would get if she posted a pic.
3) she not very computer savvy....a friend helped her fill out the profile.
4) scanning a pic, or renting a webcam often costs more money....and many of these ladies don't have much money to spare...
X Man
[QUOTE=Big Johnson2]If you go Filipina Heart and search on Samar by most recent Activity, 18-26, under 5'6'' and <119, you get tons of girls with no pictures. Like probably 1/3 of the girls. What is going on? Are these girls Cheaters that already have a Boy Friend and don't want to get caught? What is the reason for this?
Who is a girl that will go out with someone 18-80?[/QUOTE]
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20 years is 20 years difference
If you are happy with her and do not plan on taking her out of PI, then you are ok. BUT, if you plan on moving her to where you are which Im not sure of from your post.
There is a saying, marry a girl from PI, you marry the whole family. I'm not saying that is bad, just be a where of it.
[QUOTE=Kavorka341]Recently returned from a 2 week trip to Phils, heres the story...
I've spent time in the Phils before, but only on business and only in Manila. I've done plenty of mongering throughout asia in the past, so the trips were not only work...
This time was my first trip for pleasure only, so I decided to spend 1 week in Cebu and 1 week in Davao. Using FH I found myself a young girl in each place and planned to meet them.
So I tell the Cebu girl that I will only be in town for 3 nights. She says ok, she will stay with me. I ask her if she is coming alone to meet me at the airport and she says yes. So on arrival in Cebu I exit the airport and see her there. Of course she is not alone. I go and meet her and do the introductions then she introduces me to her friend. 'This is my mother'.
I am 38, she is 18. The strangest part was being older than her mother. She was only 37. So I jump in the hotel car with her, and the mother also gets in. It was quite a strange trip to the hotel, but obviously I had made a good enough impression in that 25 minutes that the mother felt I was suitable to defile her daughter for 3 days.
We get in the hotel and it's quite obvious she just wants to get that initial sex out of the way. So we do. That indicated to me that she had obviously done this before. The sex was ok, but she wasn't really that experienced. So we get it on for the 3 days, and do alot of chatting. She was a really nice girl, from the islands, and really didn't know much about where to go, what to do in Cebu city. She was upfront with me (I'm assuming), that she has had 4 or 5 boyfriends and recently broke up with an older foriegn guy.
To cut a long story short I end up cancelling the trip to Davao and staying with this girl for 2 weeks.
I travelled to her island and stayed in her village for 10 days. We were met at the port by her younger brothers, who take my luggage and head off in the trike, while we get a lift from some guy on a motorbike. Once we arrived at the guesthouse she introduces the guy as her father. Another strange experience as the father and brothers hauled all my luggage into the room, not letting me do anything. Then they tell me to take a walk with them. We walk for about 20 minutes in a cirle and end up back at the guesthouse. Of course the route they took me on passed everybody they knew. Really an uncomfortable feeling being paraded around the village so they could show everyone I was with their daughter.
Of course during these 10 days I was taken to every bar, restaurant, karaoke joint that was run by a friend or family member, or a friend of a cousin of a friends family member.... I had the nights out with her friends for which I paid the bills. I took the family out to dinner one night (mother, father and 6 siblings) for which I paid the bill.
But in return I got looked after like a king. Every morning I would go outside the room to find her mother had left fresh coffee and fruits. At lunchtime I would be brought food and drinks. My dirty clothes were taken and cleaned. I even commented on the 2nd day that it would be good to have a television in the room, and 15 minutes later her father was hauling a televison from there place into the guesthouse for me. Anytime I wanted anything she would be on the phone to her younger brother and he would bring it to me.
Never at any stage was I asked for any actual money. Of course I pumped plenty of pesos into their village and perhaps they were getting some kickbacks from the different bars and restaurants I went to, but I was never asked to pay for any of the food, or any of the drinks which were brought to my room during the 10 days, so I was happy to have spent the money I did for the experience I received. And of course there was plenty of good sex.
So what now...
I see her on cam everyday, I know from the surroundings she is at the internet cafe in her village. She has given me her email and friendster logins, and I am plastered all over her page. She has cancelled her account on FH. I really like this girl, and with the work I do I have the opportunity to go back and see her every 6 weeks, and in a month I will be back. But this time taking her on holidays somewhere away from the family.
I've always said I would never be naive enough to fall for a bar girl, but can you take this same attitude with a girl you meet from the provinces ? I understand the resposibilities (and costs) I would take on if I get serious with this girl, and I know her definition of 'love' is different than mine. I'm looking for a young girl from a good family to mother a child for me, she is looking for someone to look after her and her family. If we are both happy with that and really enjoy our time together, then how much in love do you need to be ?
There are so many bad stories, but surely sometimes things work out for the good... how can you minimize the risk, and when do you decide to take that risk ?
[size=-2][b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please [url=http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?]Click Here[/url] for more information.[/blue][/size][/QUOTE]
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Actually...
[QUOTE=MarkFalcon33]If you are happy with her and do not plan on taking her out of PI, then you are ok. BUT, if you plan on moving her to where you are which Im not sure of from your post.
There is a saying, marry a girl from PI, you marry the whole family. I'm not saying that is bad, just be a where of it.[/QUOTE]It's if you marry a girl from PI, you marry the whole country :-) Get over the sex, and I hate to say it, but girls like you've met are dime a dozen. I have made mistakes of falling for a girl; then waking up and realizing that it had to stop. When I did, the she spew venon like a king cobra accusing me that I ruined her life, career, body and everything else.
This girl seems to give her all, but you should know that she expects the same from you. Unless, you are willing to do that, I think the best thing to do is to just enjoy and leave.
Just my 2 cents...
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[QUOTE=Kavorka341]Recently returned from a 2 week trip to Phils, heres the story...
I've spent time in the Phils before, but only on business and only in Manila. I've done plenty of mongering throughout asia in the past, so the trips were not only work...
This time was my first trip for pleasure only, so I decided to spend 1 week in Cebu and 1 week in Davao. Using FH I found myself a young girl in each place and planned to meet them.
So I tell the Cebu girl that I will only be in town for 3 nights. She says ok, she will stay with me. I ask her if she is coming alone to meet me at the airport and she says yes. So on arrival in Cebu I exit the airport and see her there. Of course she is not alone. I go and meet her and do the introductions then she introduces me to her friend. 'This is my mother'.
I am 38, she is 18. The strangest part was being older than her mother. She was only 37.
[size=-2][b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please [url=http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?]Click Here[/url] for more information.[/blue][/size][/QUOTE]When I first relaised that I'm older than the girls parents that was a weird thought. Then it kept on ocurring and no longer phases me. Especially when they say. " my dad looks old but you look much younger than him "
I don't know what I'm going to do when sonme 18 yr tells me. Oh your as old as my lolo (grand dad).
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Kkavorka Nice report - I had a similar experience
Very nice story. I had a similar experience.
There is a 20 year difference between myself & my GF. I went to my GFs island for the first time. I felt like you did. When I arrived at her house, everyone came over to meet me. In addition I think everyone else in the village was looking in the door or windows to see me. I felt like they had never seen a white guy before. When I walked through the village I felt like the Pied Piper because all the kids follow me around. When I went to an outside dance at the village there was a group of 13 year old girls "groupies" who just stood and stared. I think they thought I was Tom Cruise or something. We went to quite a few Karaoke bars w/ friend. Even though I picked up the tab, it was usually only about $5 for the whole group. Her parents definitely treated me like the guest of honor, almost like a colonial feel still. I think in her village it is a big status symbol to marry a foreigner.
In case you have not been to Visayas, you are really missing something by not seeing these "wild" islands. The food is unbelievable. The fish is the best I've had anywhere, usually only hours out of the water. I never really had any good fish in Luzon.
Banging a different girl every night is fun, but there is definitely something good about the real GFE.
When I told my negative friends in the West that she is happy staying in Phil, they were shocked, because they believed all young pretty girls only wanted Western guys to get Visa to get to the USA.
I agree with MarkFalcon38, do Not bring her back to the West. It can work over in the Phil, because that age difference is not that uncommon when they hook up w/ foreigners. You are seen a GREAT catch to this girl and her family. Be happy! Enjoy!
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It Can Only Work in the Phils
Agreed. That's why I tell them that I'm moving there. Most girls run after I tell them that. If I have pinay here and she runs, then I start from a mile back again. If I have a pinay there and she runs, I walk around the corner.
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run, mile back, have a pinay....
I'm a native English speaker and I don't understand this post. Can anyone translate?
X man
"walk around the corner"
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]Agreed. That's why I tell them that I'm moving there. Most girls run after I tell them that. If I have pinay here and she runs, then I start from a mile back again. If I have a pinay there and she runs, I walk around the corner.[/QUOTE]
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only in the Philippines
Hi,
just got this weird message as new contact on my ym...
conversation starts like that:
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:04:37): hello.how are you?
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:04:44): its me jhen 25/f/phils
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:04:56): i think u curious wer i get ur id right?
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:06:23): i see ur id on my little sister was died 2007 so i try to check if this id is still in use so i am surprise yes its still use
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:06:23): yes right
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:06:47): i dnt know if u nkow her or maybe u forget her bcz thats a year fast
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:07:12): wel I dont know
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:07:21): where she from?
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:07:24): yes i think u dnt know that
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:07:56): u have pci of ur sis?
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:08:00): pic
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:08:05): but,did u believe even i want to give her id to you atleast u can remind who is she i really dnt know her id bcz b4 i dnt know how to use com and i am not interesting to use like this
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:08:11): yes i have
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:08:20): anyway,ur asl please
and now the most weird part :D
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:18:45): where she worked? how old was she?
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:18:59): she is not working
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:19:06): she is 23 now
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:19:15): but when she died she is 21
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:19:32): ah ok, well thats sad to hear
Jennifer Cortez (05.05.2009 14:19:50): yes but dats lyf
Mr.lonelyheart (05.05.2009 14:20:24): yess
So hmmm, that really works in the Philippines. YOu die and then some days later you raise from the dead and get back to ym :D
oh well
Blink out
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Native English
[QUOTE=X Man]run, mile back, have a pinay....
I'm a native English speaker and I don't understand this post. Can anyone translate?
X man
"walk around the corner"[/QUOTE]
Either you've been in Japan too long or are a product of the Detroit public schools.
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imyour_sweetie!
This girl has a boyfriend but is still on DIA all the time. imyour_sweetie!
I want to meet a Male
with age from 18 to 61
and I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.
no one......i've finaly found my sweetheart...thanks DIA! i love you william blaby!!!theshyman..........
i love you william blaby!!!!
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]When I first relaised that I'm older than the girls parents that was a weird thought. Then it kept on ocurring and no longer phases me. Especially when they say. " my dad looks old but you look much younger than him "
I don't know what I'm going to do when sonme 18 yr tells me. Oh your as old as my lolo (grand dad).[/QUOTE]
FF
Has never bothered me actually quite a turn on...;) My bet to myself it try and keep the age gap very high, so nice when in your 50s you are shagging a lovely 18/19 year old who tells you that your are definitely not old just very horny and naughty :D And she is amazed as she never thought older guys were like that .....
I hope some lovely does say I am as old as her lolo and then I will still shag her sensless :)
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[quote=kavorka341]recently returned from a 2 week trip to phils, heres the story...
[/quote]after reading your story i can only congratulate you. do not let the cynics and their stories get to you. i have relatives and close friends that lived large parts of their life with pinays and they are happy. more than ever. they are growing old together. you know all the answers to setting up limits and so on for the family. that part is simple really for anyone that contemplate his own limits for a moment. set up rules and do not bend them. a man is a provider and a care taker. it makes us feel good. to give and provide makes us feel like good men, at least if we do not get infected by cynicism and suspicion. there are no pockets on the wooden suit we all will end up in. west raped the globe for centuries. the standard we enjoy came from someones else's blood and sweat. so it is not hard to motivate some pay back in my opinion. spend the cash and live life. tomorrow you might have the swine flu.
if my advice is worth anything i'd say go for it man. marry her. get babies. build a little house and build a little family in this house. it is not a life time sentence in jail. it is about doing the important things in life. you can still fuck around every now and then. we are just dogs, and they know it. just do your part as a man and be happy. if you separate in the future you will have wonderful children and the comfort of taking that leap.
gut feeling is a humans constant and collected evaluation of thousands of parameters. a statistical description of potential outcome that you could never put to print, but that guide you well if you are really true to it and yourself. go with your gut mate. always remember that there are hundreds of exists down the road, so no need to run out the first one because someone else once was burnt by a deceptive woman.
keep us in the loop, kavorka341.
best regards barba
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[QUOTE=Wicked Roger]
Has never bothered me actually quite a turn on...;) My bet to myself it try and keep the age gap very high, so nice when in your 50s you are shagging a lovely 18/19 year old who tells you that your are definitely not old just very horny and naughty :D And she is amazed as she never thought older guys were like that .....
I hope some lovely does say I am as old as her lolo and then I will still shag her sensless :)[/QUOTE]
Right on, WR. There is nothing to beat the look of amazement on the faces of some of these young dollies as they expect a quick rumble and then you proceed to shag them into exhausted submission. It is priceless and the pleasure that they get often have them coming back for more.
Older guys are often wealthier, better mannered and more generous both financially and with their time and patience than young bucks. Plus old dogs tend to have picked up a good few tricks along the way which can tend to delight and astonish these young b*****'*.
Age is definitely no barrier to love in The Philippines as it is in the west (unless you are super wealthy).
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Thank you Puerto La cruz
Instead of a simple answer, you bless me with your usual moroninity.
My Internet searches for "walk around the corner" and "from a mile back" do not show any usage similar to the way you have used them.
I've never attended a Detroit public school.
X
BTW, do you have any OTHER alias here at ISG? Your style reminds me of someone else.
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]Either you've been in Japan too long or are a product of the Detroit public schools.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man] ...."moroninity" ...[/QUOTE]
Great word that, X. Did you invent it? What does it mean?
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Age Issue
[QUOTE=Cbea20]The problem with local guys their own age is a private place. They don't have the back seat of a car! Unless she uses money from you, the foreigner, they cannot afford a ST motel room. If she hangs out with a BF for one week, they might find a room of their own to use once. But don't kid yourself--they do have sex with guys who speak their native language and enjoy the same music.[/QUOTE]
You guys can try to validate these 20-40 year age differences as long as you want. I think they are cool as long as they are not genuine. To each his own but what could a 60 year old man have in common with 20 year old woman? As long as those two people enjoy each other company there is no problem but I know one independent, Filipina who said she was disgusted with guys “old” guys walking around with those “young” girls as she put it. Also people are attracted to youth its human nature men and women.
Do you go to the bar looking for 40-60 year old bar girls? I know the hell I don’t. Age is a factor as well as other things here just as in the west only in the third world the local women are more likely to “over look it.”
As for fucking the bar girls or “jump offs” to death how is this possible when most of you guys are married…or have a steady…Well I know Wicked R story but sadly this is not the case with other guys.
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=jump+off[/url]
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Excuse me guys, but you are often talking about "DIA", I read the 5 last pages and made a research on google and I still can't figure out what is this website?
Is there any other website that I could check in order to contact pinay girls?
I am considering creating a YM account, I know about CAMFROG, what else is there?
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Chip Pissers
A sex board is full of ‘interesting’ and varied characters but those misogynist, moralizing killjoys who try to ‘[url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] on the chips’ of other members are, in my view, the most unwelcome.
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=[url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url]%20on%20your%20chips[/url]
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Dia
[QUOTE=Wilco1985]Excuse me guys, but you are often talking about "DIA", I read the 5 last pages and made a research on google and I still can't figure out what is this website?
Is there any other website that I could check in order to contact pinay girls?
I am considering creating a YM account, I know about CAMFROG, what else is there?[/QUOTE]Dateinasia, free searching, free membership, recommended but many fake profiles and scammers
Cebuanas
Filipinaheart
CherryBlossom
Beware, the girls on these sites are mostly looking for relationship, sometimes P4P Many filipina's have Yahoo Mail, Yahoo Messenger and Friendster
Ok like this?
Good luck, hw1940
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Date in Asia
[QUOTE=Wilco1985]Excuse me guys, but you are often talking about "DIA", I read the 5 last pages and made a research on google and I still can't figure out what is this website?
[/QUOTE]
DIA = DateInAsia.com
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[QUOTE=Illogic]You guys can try to validate these 20-40 year age differences as long as you want. I think they are cool as long as they are not genuine. To each his own but what could a 60 year old man have in common with 20 year old woman? As long as those two people enjoy each other company there is no problem but I know one independent, Filipina who said she was disgusted with guys “old” guys walking around with those “young” girls as she put it. Also people are attracted to youth its human nature men and women.
As for fucking the bar girls or “jump offs” to death how is this possible when most of you guys are married…or have a steady…Well I know Wicked R story but sadly this is not the case with other guys.
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=jump+off[/url][/QUOTE]In some countries, the similarity in age of partners is the norm. Indeed in a recent Craigs List post I read some lady said she would welcome inquiries from guys up to the age of 35, after that she said it would just be "old age creeps". The point being that none of us mongers have any interest in people of 50 or whatever our age is. The other point being that in Phils, Thailand and Indonesia etc is VERY nornal for a 50 year old to be with a 20 year old and for it to be "normal " for both parties. Its enjoyable for both, so its a non issue.
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You mean you didn't find it in your dictionary?
Ask Puerta la cruz. Maybe he knows.
X
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Great word that, X. Did you invent it? What does it mean?[/QUOTE]
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Huh?
[QUOTE=X Man]You mean you didn't find it in your dictionary?
Ask Puerta la cruz. Maybe he knows.
X[/QUOTE]
You don't know when to stop do you. Two things in life will get you in trouble. One is your dick. Figure out what the other one is.
No wonder you got banised from Detroit to Japan.
No a very nice guy.
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[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]You don't know when to stop do you. Two things in life will get you in trouble. One is your dick. Figure out what the other one is.
No wonder you got banised from Detroit to Japan.
No a very nice guy.[/QUOTE]Not to get in the middle of a pissing contest here, but the word is banished-not banised, and, as far know, X is free to go anywhere he pleases, and he always tells it as it is.
If you are going to insult members here, at least use spell check.
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[QUOTE=Seafish57]Not to get in the middle of a pissing contest here, but the word is banished-not banised, and, as far know, X is free to go anywhere he pleases, and he always tells it as it is.
If you are going to insult members here, at least use spell check.[/QUOTE]
And those of use who have been on the receiving end of his serial antagonism are also free to respond. As per a misspelled word with an overlooked "h" we are all human. I certainly know how to spell that word.
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La Cruz, you seem to not realize that I simply asked for clarification of some things you wrote in your earlier message. It was not meant as an insult on your English -- I was just curious. You responded rudely and therefore I responded rudely.
I asked the ISG master to create the Chat Rooms thread so that people can discuss their online relationships (see what a nice guy I am!). Can we please get back to that?
X
I'm so sad to have been banished FROM Detroit. I wish I could return. I love it there! Maybe I can get a factory job at GM!
[url]http://www.wsws.org/images/foreclosure_photo1.JPG[/url]
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]You don't know when to stop do you. Two things in life will get you in trouble. One is your dick. Figure out what the other one is.
No wonder you got banised from Detroit to Japan.
No a very nice guy.[/QUOTE]
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person
ok, you morons, take your bickering somewhere else. nobody wants to hear that shit here.
now then, back to business. has anybody had any luck with arranging meet ups through person dot com? i really like their webcam-based interface as you can see exactly what you'd be getting. i did notice though, unfortunately, there's a fair number of girls on it that appear grossly ****.
input pls?
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Cebu or...
While planning my upcoming trip to the land of milk and honey, I couldn't help but notice a very high percentage of girls on DIA are from Cebu and a fairly large number of them from Davao as well. Not nearly as many from Manila. This makes me wonder...why, obviously, and also, will I find my myself spending my whole trip in Cebu and never make it to Manila and Angeles which is my plan? Input please?
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[url]http://filipinofriendfinder.com[/url] has anyone had much experience on it. I thought I would give it a try before my next trip. I believe it is more tailored for fun vs. LTR.
I have used CB, FH, and DIA in the past and had good luck.
I also believe that filipinofriendfinder is supposed to have some local (usa) girls, but the ones I saw had not logged in for the last 3 months.
Is it easy to use like the other sites, so far it seem to have so many gimics, and not straight forward emails after a search.
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Trolling -> Ignore list
[QUOTE=Puerto La Cruz]And those of use who have been on the receiving end of his serial antagonism are also free to respond. As per a misspelled word with an overlooked "h" we are all human[/QUOTE]Agreed, this habitual antagonism is so tedious. The only way to stop trolls is to place the offender on your ignore list. The offender in question gets away with it by keeping his nonsense just under the threshold of the admin. It's been going on for years. Seems like a person with an abrasive personality & too much time on his hands. Just use your ignore list Puerta.
AV
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Cebu?
[QUOTE=Gaijin Gigolo]While planning my upcoming trip to the land of milk and honey, I couldn't help but notice a very high percentage of girls on DIA are from Cebu and a fairly large number of them from Davao as well. Not nearly as many from Manila. This makes me wonder...why, obviously, and also, will I find my myself spending my whole trip in Cebu and never make it to Manila and Angeles which is my plan? Input please?[/QUOTE]Theres tons of chicks from all over on DIA but of course being free it attracts a lot of poor girls from the province. By all means go check out Manila & AC also. The country is filled to bursting with women ready to put a smile on your face. Go try it all & report back to us your fun :)
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AFf
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie][url]http://filipinofriendfinder.com[/url] has anyone had much experience on it. I thought I would give it a try before my next trip. I believe it is more tailored for fun vs. LTR.
I have used CB, FH, and DIA in the past and had good luck.
I also believe that filipinofriendfinder is supposed to have some local (usa) girls, but the ones I saw had not logged in for the last 3 months.
Is it easy to use like the other sites, so far it seem to have so many gimics, and not straight forward emails after a search.[/QUOTE]like all AFF sites there is a lot of fakes, scammers & stale profiles. But there is a good amount of middle class hotties & semi pros on there. You will enjoy them. The other sites you mentioned are good also but the girls are less explicit. Dating sites are for LTR but you find hotties just the same. The country is awash with women. Don't need to spend too much time on web sites. You will see what I mean when you get here.
Cheers!
AV
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Friend Finder
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie][url]http://filipinofriendfinder.com[/url] has anyone had much experience on it. I thought I would give it a try before my next trip. I believe it is more tailored for fun vs. LTR.
I have used CB, FH, and DIA in the past and had good luck.
I also believe that filipinofriendfinder is supposed to have some local (usa) girls, but the ones I saw had not logged in for the last 3 months.
Is it easy to use like the other sites, so far it seem to have so many gimics, and not straight forward emails after a search.[/QUOTE]Dear Bob,
My opinion is that all the Friend Finder networks, there seem to be dozens of them, are not worth the effort. I would expect any Filipina who paid to be on the site to be a serious hunter, as most I know go for the free sites like DIA and FH. Given your parameters of fun, that type of girl I would expect is either a bar girl or cam girl, both looking to separate you from your money. Think you could just go to a bar when you get to PH and have greater selection and a more straightforward transaction. For the price of a 12 month gold membership, you can pay for five BF. Unless you seek a real girlfriend from the provinces, I think any site is a lot of effort, for a very limited selection of fun when you get here. Arranging appointments, wanting travel money, maybe disappointment upon meeting or no-shows. If all you want is fun, would just go to a bar, mall or walk out on the street, the girls are everywhere. Have a good time
Regards
Matius
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Where the girls come from
[QUOTE=Gaijin Gigolo]While planning my upcoming trip to the land of milk and honey, I couldn't help but notice a very high percentage of girls on DIA are from Cebu and a fairly large number of them from Davao as well. Not nearly as many from Manila. This makes me wonder...why, obviously, and also, will I find my myself spending my whole trip in Cebu and never make it to Manila and Angeles which is my plan? Input please?[/QUOTE]I think when you get to Manila or Angeles you will find a large number of girls are from the Cebu region, Samar, Mindano. Just because the girl says she is from Cebu, as an example, does not mean she is actually there right now. She may be working a bar in either Angeles or Manila, the girls tend to put their home town, rather than where they are at the moment. Filipino graduate from highschool when they are 16, so University/College is generally over by the time they are 20 or 21. When you see girls that are 23 to 30 that are still students, not always, but often it means they either have no job or are working in a job they prefer not to mention, massage, bar, cam girl, etc. Or they are being sponsored by some Western guy. Not a rule, just to keep your eyes open for it. Cebu is not a bad place to go, thus would recommend it, but you don't have to alter your plans, as all those girls will be in Manila and Angeles as well. The final point is that you don't have to go to the girls, in Angeles or Manila, the girls are there. You will not find a shortage of talent. Have fun.
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thanks
Amavida and Matius, thanks very much for your insight and advice. Much appreciated. With 12 days at my disposal, I think I will stick to my original plan,which was Cebu for 4 days, Manila for 5 and Angeles for 3. Am getting tons of interest on DIA as was the case with my last visit so I'll have quite a few dates lined up before I arrive. If they don't work out, or turn out to be too much trouble, so be it...am still in the Phils. :-) Thanks again.
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This affliction called AVD has promised to ignore me, but always shows up to add his two cents. He has an interesting definition for "ignore".
If he has placed me on his "ignore list", is it fair to make any judgement about what I posted?
I think anyone who read my last post to La cruz can see it is neutral and was meant to diffuse the situation rather than escalate it.
So, who is being antagonistic?
X
[QUOTE=Amavida]Agreed, this habitual antagonism is so tedious. The only way to stop trolls is to place the offender on your ignore list. The offender in question gets away with it by keeping his nonsense just under the threshold of the admin. It's been going on for years. Seems like a person with an abrasive personality & too much time on his hands. Just use your ignore list Puerta.
AV[/QUOTE]
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Gaijin Gig, I've found the southern Philippines preferable to the north in most respects. But if this is your first trip, you might as well do the whirlwind tour just to see what the country can do for you.
I've also wondered why the online gals seem to be weighted to certain cities. It may simply be a case of the gals talking to each other and spreading the word in some places. There are also some cities where there seem to be an overabundance of golddiggers and/or scammers -- and that seems to support my theory. But, as you said in an ealier post, I'm just a moron.
X
[QUOTE=Gaijin Gigolo]While planning my upcoming trip to the land of milk and honey, I couldn't help but notice a very high percentage of girls on DIA are from Cebu and a fairly large number of them from Davao as well. Not nearly as many from Manila. This makes me wonder...why, obviously, and also, will I find my myself spending my whole trip in Cebu and never make it to Manila and Angeles which is my plan? Input please?[/QUOTE]
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There are also some cities where there seem to be an overabundance of golddiggers and/or scammers
which places?
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Zamboanga Cuba for some strange reason,I actually went there last month,its changed a lot,its now as charmless as its women.
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Excellent question because you force me to rethink my post and in some ways eat my words.
For a while, over a year ago, I used Cherry Blossom and I felt that Butaun City and some other northern Mindanao cities (other than CDO) seemed to include a lot of ladies who had sob stories. Some asked for money.
One lady from Butuan I was especially smitten with, but turned out not so receptive once I called her from CDO. First she wanted bus fare, and I said I would pay all transportation costs upon her arrival. She agreed, but then later asked if she could bring three friends.... I declined.
Not long after I left, she fessed up and said she had a fiance. She still posts from CDO, the fiance thing never worked out -- at least not ROMANTICALLY. She may have made a killing FINANCIALLY. She didn't have enough for bus fare, but was online often.
Anyway, my experiences are a bit old and probably overgeneralized. My trip to CDO was very productive with regards to online gals and gals just hanging out.
I haven't used CB for a while.
X
Oh, MNL and AC tend to have some rather bright ladies who want some money. My advice is to NOT discount these ladies outright. They may be receptive to a fair tradeoff of money for slip and dip.
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]There are also some cities where there seem to be an overabundance of golddiggers and/or scammers
which places?[/QUOTE]
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P4p
[QUOTE=Big Johnson2]Thank you for the detailed answer. It was very informative. Are these girls that are coming over and know that you want sex expecting money? Do you discuss this upfront?
If so they are P4P just like bar girls, only you find them in a different way. Right? I know you can go to LA Cafe or discos in Thailand and pick up girls and bring them home with you too.
I think you're doing the right thing, being up front and telling them what you want. Why waste your time on a bunch of dinners if she will never sleep with you.
I find the ones that want to be your girl friend don't ask for money up front. They are smart and know that by being your girl friend they will get a lot more money that way.[/QUOTE]
Girls vary. The more experienced "practical" ones will want to talk about price up front and one can sometimes have a long text conversation haggling them down to something reasonable. Others will just come along and expect you to do the decent thing. Girls just dont want to get cheated. ie have sex wit some old guy for no reward. If its 3 hours for 500P thats OK if its being your GF for a week and you give them 5000P at the end that's OK
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cool...
Thanks for the input X Man. This will actually be my second trip but last time I was there for a week and never made it out of Manila. Just want to explore a bit more but certainly without spending a lot of time traveling from point to point. I know where to go and how the game works in Manila so I will return there for the 'sure thing'. But I'll also spend several days in Cebu and plan for two nights in Angeles. As much as I like the sound of the south, I think four cities over two days would leave me traveling and getting acclimated a lot more than I would like.
And as far as the moron comment...we're all morons, dude. At least that's what I've been told. lol!
[QUOTE=X Man]Gaijin Gig, I've found the southern Philippines preferable to the north in most respects. But if this is your first trip, you might as well do the whirlwind tour just to see what the country can do for you.
I've also wondered why the online gals seem to be weighted to certain cities. It may simply be a case of the gals talking to each other and spreading the word in some places. There are also some cities where there seem to be an overabundance of golddiggers and/or scammers -- and that seems to support my theory. But, as you said in an ealier post, I'm just a moron.
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I once did a 3/3/3day to MNL/ cebu/ Dv and it was a mistake. Too much time spent in transit, packing bags, etc.
If you never made it out of MNL, you will get a pleasant surprise regradless of what direction you head in.
Have fun.
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[QUOTE=Gaijin Gigolo]Thanks for the input X Man. This will actually be my second trip but last time I was there for a week and never made it out of Manila. Just want to explore a bit more but certainly without spending a lot of time traveling from point to point. I know where to go and how the game works in Manila so I will return there for the 'sure thing'. But I'll also spend several days in Cebu and plan for two nights in Angeles. As much as I like the sound of the south, I think four cities over two days would leave me traveling and getting acclimated a lot more than I would like.
And as far as the moron comment...we're all morons, dude. At least that's what I've been told. lol![/QUOTE]
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yep
[QUOTE=X Man]I once did a 3/3/3day to MNL/ cebu/ Dv and it was a mistake. Too much time spent in transit, packing bags, etc.
If you never made it out of MNL, you will get a pleasant surprise regradless of what direction you head in.
Have fun.
X[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the support...that's what I'm thinking too...not only time wasted in transit but also figuring out a new city and where everything is. Will just stick to what I know and add Cebu this time..I'm getting a hell of a lot of hits on DIA and another site or two from that place. Can't wait to meet em. :-)
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Cam Scams R Us
[url]http://www.internet-love-scams.org/[/url]
[url]http://dragonladies.org/[/url]
Here are two interesting sites with lots of pretty scammers. Happy caming:)
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Duh, I replied to this post and answered Butuan, but actually i was thinking of Iligan. Sorry for the confusiong.
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]There are also some cities where there seem to be an overabundance of golddiggers and/or scammers
which places?[/QUOTE]
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Sad post from scorned lady on CL!!
Wonder if he is a ISG member?
[QUOTE=Filipina on CL]After Meeting Mr. S. ********, I THINK I NEED A BREAK FROM CL! - w4m
I knew you swept me off my feet. I could have told you, I wanted to spend the night with you ...be kissed and hugged.
But I knew too, you were just for casual encounters.....and I have to keep the excitement when you were holding my hand and touching my skin while I was drinking red wine. We were so sweet and almost real. We never shared a passionate night ( which I wish we did) yet I will never forget our smiles to each other.
Sadly, it was my first time to be forced by security officers out of a hotel, first time to be asked to stay in a security room. It was really a traumatic experience for someone to meet a guy from CL (and a decent girl at that) has to have scars like this. I asked them if I could talk to you but they showed me your signed statement that you asked the security guards to make me leave and told me that you knew I was held in that room and waht you said was you don't care.
If you check all my ads, I always emphasized that I don't need drama...but I think all women should be treated as ladies even if they were on Casual Encounters.
Well, I think you are in Japan now...don't worry, no plans to stalk....I am just telling all the guys who responded to my ad " NO GAMES, Just Productive and Rewarding Experience for Both of Us".. or my other ad (just guess on WOMEN SEEKING MEN), sorry I might not want to meet again any Caucasian.
It would take time for me to understand what happened Mr. ********* and I know you don't have a heart to care. Is it because you are in the military? Maybe.
Whatever this is, I hope we meet someday in a better and gentlemanly circumstance. I still think you are a good guy and you have your reason to do such actions to me but for now, it will serve me a lot of lessons. Yes, you are right, I should never meet a stranger. You were so nice early that night and what happened....wow, it was just unbelievable.
I am not sure if you can read this message. I just assumed that you checked Craigslist Manila because you were here for 2 days and you were just looking for some NSA.
May you have a good time...I still appreciate your being nice to me on that sweet drinking (wine and water) time ...and you and I talking about our families, past relationships, career and your travels.
Well, I noticed that when I click reply to your emails, it comes back to me saying you have deactivated it. No need, that traumatic night was enough.
Thanks though for the FIRST EXPERIENCE in that security room and making me understand Americans more.[/QUOTE]
Although we don't know the full story, it is guessable. Why do some guys get off on treating Pinay ladies like shit? If he didn't want her (or she would not put out for him), why not just tell her, instead of taking the cowards way out:(.
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GH, from the ladies post she sounds intelligent and level-headed (except for her comment about "Americans").
Nevertheless, we don't know the whole story (as you say). The guy may have had a very good reason to call security. You wrote that the situation is "guessable".
Hmmm, okay, I'll give it a try. He treated her like a prostitute, she got pissed off and made a scene, he threw her out or tried to throw her out. He's an idiot.
Or, she is a prostitute, asked for too much money and he threw her out.
Were you guessing something different?
If you have the time, please ask her to elaborate.
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Wonder if he is a ISG member?
Although we don't know the full story, it is guessable. Why do some guys get off on treating Pinay ladies like shit? If he didn't want her (or she would not put out for him), why not just tell her, instead of taking the cowards way out:(.[/QUOTE]
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The Face Sitting Fiend of Manila!!
[QUOTE=X Man]
Were you guessing something different?
If you have the time, please ask her to elaborate.
X[/QUOTE]
Not really but maybe you will agree that hiding behind hotel security was a bit of a 'chicken livered' response. But there again the lady might have been reprising Glenn Close's role out of Fatal Attraction. Who is to know? But I suspect either he decided he wasn't into her or she wouldn't put out for him and he wanted rid so that he could go to the next on the list. Just like Lust for Thrust in Cebu recently.
Here's another hilarious real ad from CL Manila. I bet the guy was inundated with replies:D. He even attached a helpful illustrative photo just in case the applicant was unsure about what is required.
[QUOTE=60 year old man on CL Manila]
I would like to hire a woman, age open, who would be agreeable to simply sit on my face for a prolonged period of time. Approx 2 hours or so once a week ...1000 P an hour. No other requirements, you would be free to watch cable TV, a DVD or perhaps surf online.[/QUOTE]
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hmmm yeah we never know
Hi to all,
read some post during my lunchbreak. The story of the girl, totally agree we dont know the full story. My comment would be, do they have a security room in SOgo hotels? :D
Some filipina can be really a pain in the ass and dont forget all the scams going on in this country. However I wouldnt consider to take any girl which I would have met for the first time in my place, meaning my home. Once they know you and they like you they stalk you down. Im glad I spent the night with one Manila hooker in a hotel, instead inviting her to my place. She txt me all the time. Good she doesnt know where I really stay. I treat her good, its just that after one night with her I just had enough. Magic was gone and Im not interested any more. I paid her for that, does that make me now a bad guy?
GG, I read your plans for coming over here. 5 days in Manila? Well, you go here and then you will see why mostly all the guys here take the 2 hours challenge and go to AC instead spending one more night in this crowded poluted city.
YOu should stay at Manila, close to Manila bay, Ermita for example. There youu have the LA cafe which is different then the usual barfine experience, because its a free-lance scene. From there you can easily go to Edsa Entertainment and Makati. This can be done at one night.
The big plus in AC is you dont need a cab, you get a trike, jeep or just walk along perimeter/fields. You have a lot of variety in food, cause restaurants run by expats. Its cheaper and even if your a chosy bastard like me , you can find a girl of your liking, either in a bar or along fields which I did last time :D Got 3 gurls who bj all together one hour later in my room :D
WHy we have a lot of DIA girls from the visaya? I assume visayas dont see that much foreigners as you see them in ANgeles city. In DIA you see only little profiles from girls origin from AC. and because I contacted most of them allready you simply forget them fast. Either they stalkers, bargirls or wallflowergirls with many kids who cant get a customer at work(bar) any more.
Pampangan are all crazy anyway.
GG I fully agree with you spending some time in the Visayas to meet the girls over there. Hopefully they jump into bed with you right on the first date. Otherwise you will be loaded and tempted and then find yourself nowhere to go except either really expensive KTV places or the teethless scumbag hooker on the street for 250p :D Both aint my liking, specially if I would be on a holiday.
Im sure you will have a good time in the Philippines, but staying 5 days in Manila, ok well, you will see once you get there :)
Blink
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Scam or real?
Mmmm .... interesting what one can find in ones inbox:).
[QUOTE=recently received email] Hi. I have a proposition for you, though it may sound crazy, I'm for real. A little something about myself, I'm 27 years old and I'm still a virgin. Yes, I'm a virgin but I'm not naive nor innocent, I've had boyfriends before and I do masturbate at times but I've never really done it all the way. You might ask, why I'm doing this? why now?
Suffice it to say, I'm in a financial bind right now and I don't want my family and friends finding out. Yes, I need money. Does that make me into a *****? Maybe, maybe not. I just hope you won't judge me too harshly because to tell you frankly, it took me hours just writing this email, it's hard for me. This is not a scam and obviously i'm no pro.
Btw, let me describe myself to you a bit, as not to waste time. I have shoulder length black hair, dark brown eyes, brown skin tone, 5'3" in height, I weigh 151lbs, I have curves and I'm not petite nor small, so if those are your preferences, please stop reading now and delete this. I'm clean, I drink and smoke socially, I've never done drugs in my entire life and I work in a call center and usually in a graveyard shift.
What I'm proposing is this: 36hours of whatever its is you have in mind, please no weird stuffs like bondage or whatever, also that 36 hours I hope we'll just stay in one part of Metro Manila, no out of town or something and I would also demand discretion, as i have a lot of relatives and friends in the metro. The amount I need is $2,000. You must be thinking, that it's too much, yes, maybe it is, but it's the amount that i need, not want.
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I think scam but she provided a Philippine CP No. So maybe not.
Any rich punters who out there like a supposedly intact BBW as a personal sex slave?
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Pussy For Sale Vs Nothing But A Return On Investment LOL
[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Mmmm .... interesting what one can find in ones inbox:).
I think scam but she provided a Philippine CP No. So maybe not.
Any rich punters who out there like a supposedly intact BBW as a personal sex slave?[/QUOTE]
At least she offered you pussy....
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Mmmm .... interesting what one can find in ones inbox:).
I think scam but she provided a Philippine CP No. So maybe not.
Any rich punters who out there like a supposedly intact BBW as a personal sex slave?[/QUOTE]
ahahahaha,
2.000 US ahahahaha, for 36 hours LOL. Well, I prefer my new 18 year young GF, virgin, (I let her belive she is even I have my doubts but lets see)no drugs, slim, 5"6, firm breast and curvey, performing BJ.
Totally cost to keep her. New samsung cp, 500 to 1000p when she visits me, to support her with her schooling.
I know some girls in the 24 years age, asking me for 10.000p. Am Im going to meet them? SImple Answer: NO! NO! NO!
Its fun to f..ck, but it aint fun to pay that kind of money, specially not for some callcentergirl. DIA got plenty of them for free!!
Blink out for coffee
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Mmmm. Interesting what one can find in ones inbox.
I think scam but she provided a Philippine CP No. So maybe not.
Any rich punters who out there like a supposedly intact BBW as a personal sex slave? [/QUOTE]If a Filipina admits to being 151 punds you can bet she is. The young cute slim ones have no idea of wieght not having bathroom scales, but the older ones know they can't lie.
This is one VERY big woman.
Manny Paquiou might be the best pound for pound fighter. But this woman has got serious pound for dollar credentials.
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that email in your inbox
Must be inflation or something. I can remember being offered nice looking 18 year old virgins for 50k pesos a few years ago. Now a BBW virgin who wants close to 100k pesos for a romp? Once one has taken her, she's not a virgin anymore so the 100k is for that first pop, the rest is just sloppy seconds as with regular girls. What fool is going to give her that? And how would he know she hasn't fooled around already? Sheesh what are they thinking?
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The term BBW
That is an often thought about issue for me.
The term BBW is so loosely used. It really has become another word for "fat" or a nice way to say one is fat or over weight.
Does a ugly chubby girl become a BBW because she reached a certain weight? It seems so. Shazzam! I just went from ugly chubby to BBW because I finally reached 180 pounds.
I have talked to girls in the USA on chat lines. Chat lines are a way to hook up in the USA for pay for play. Phone dating services is a way they hide what most people use the service for. Some girls on these chat lines use the BBW word, but also describe themselves as "thick". This has become another word for "fat" is what I discovered.
Now I have seen BBW and I have seen thick girls. But every girl with a weight issue no matter how large of a problem thinks they fall in one of these two categories.
I have talked to girls who will say that they are 5'2" and weigh 175 pounds and that they are thick not fat and that it is all in the right places. NOT!
"It is all in the right places" That is another way that fat girls describe themselves. If you are 175 and 5'2" it would appear that you do not have enough spaces for all that you have. That is the problem.
Just venting here. A little soap boxing.
I'm just glad you usually do not have that problem in the Philippines. It does happen, but not as often as in the USA and probably other western societies, but I'm not knowledgeable if it is world wide.
FF
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Mmmm .... interesting what one can find in ones inbox:).
I think scam but she provided a Philippine CP No. So maybe not.
Any rich punters who out there like a supposedly intact BBW as a personal sex slave?[/QUOTE]
So, was it good:D
Did you ask for a photo?
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The grattitude of plump Pinays
Whether they are BBS’s or FFF’s (Fat F****** Filipinas), size 12+ girls are most grateful for some loving attention and affection and are sitting fat ducks for freebies, if you enjoy chubby girls. Filipinos can be extra cruel and mocking to those who are slightly different from the norm and are not afraid voicing it. The 150+ lb girl, trying to market her supposed virginity, would have great difficulty giving it away to a local boy, which is why she is trying to sell it to a gullible foreigner.
But fat girls, as I say, can be very grateful and good fun. I met one a couple of week’s ago, that was a case in point. She looked pleasantly chubby and cuddly on her photos on Tagged but she did warn me that she had had put on a little weight since they were taken. And she was not fucking joking! I arranged to see her near McDonalds (danger bells) in a nearby mall. When I saw her, I very nearly turned tail and did one on my toes but I’m made of sterner stuff so pressed on. I think that she must have just lost her job as a test pilot for Jolibee’s – such was the rapt attention that she was gazing at the diners in the fast food joint. She was a well rounded lass – about 5’ 2” and weighing in at 150-60 lbs. She was one of the first Filipinas, in The Philippines, that I had seen wearing those elasticated leggings which are the standard dress of porkies in UK and the States. But she had a pretty face and her bulk was well proportioned.
I bought her a Big Mac with extra fries/upsized drink and one of those disgusting ice cream desserts that McDonalds do so badly. She was mine forever! She told me a little about herself. She was a student nurse, from Bicol, 20 years old and living with her aunt. She showed me a photo of herself taken 3 years before, which was of a beautiful, tight bodied little spinner and swore that it was her. Sad. She lost her virginity at age 18 to a Chinese guy and had not had sex in 6 months (with a fuck buddy – her words). She was bisexual and had a girlfriend. She loved her pussy being licked and her favorite position was doggy. Funny what a girl will divulge when treated to a Big Mac meal.
She readily agreed to a visit to a nearby ST hotel and I steeled myself for a bit of adipose surfing (slap the thighs and ride the waves …yeehaw). And it was great fun. She quickly warmed up under ministration from my wandering tongue and screamed like a good ‘un. I discovered that she was fond of doggy because she could then reach under and play with her love button whilst been pounded. So I showed her how to use my finger vibe and she was in seventh heaven. Due possibly to the size of her arse or her slippery, well lubricated pussy, I kept sliding out of her. Silly me, on reentering, I repeatedly chose the wrong hole. First 2 time, I rectified my mistake under her protests. Third time she said nothing so I just ‘went boldly in where no man had been before’ and pounded her ass, which, from the noises that she was making, was a new sensation that she was finding not at all unpleasant. Either that or else she was having such fun with the vibe that she didn’t care. She was a little embarrassed and rueful, later, about losing her ass cherry but said that it was a strange but thrilling sensation. Yet another convert. This, she said, was the second cherry that she had lost that afternoon as earlier I had come a wad in her mouth. Wicked me, depraving yet another young girl.
She must have really enjoyed her afternoon romp as I have had many emails, from her, requesting a repeat. Which I will do sometime, but FFF’s are an acquired taste, and one that I enjoy, but just not all that often.
Here’s a few photos but no full face shots, obviously. Please don’t view unless you like big girls.
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Thick, Fat, BBS, FFF.... Ad nauseam
Nice post G. Reminded me of my recent encounter with a not so LBFM who flew from RP to be with me for a few days. See post 1705 thru 1708 in China Photo Gallery.
One pic attached here of my not so little pigglette.
Your observations about their desires are, IMOHO, very accurate.
ES
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[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Whether they are BBS’s or FFF’s (Fat F****** Filipinas), size 12+ girls are most grateful for some loving attention and affection and are sitting fat ducks for freebies, if you enjoy chubby girls. Filipinos can be extra cruel and mocking to those who are slightly different from the norm and are not afraid voicing it. The 150+ lb girl, trying to market her supposed virginity, would have great difficulty giving it away to a local boy, which is why she is trying to sell it to a gullible foreigner.
But fat girls, as I say, can be very grateful and good fun. I met one a couple of week’s ago, that was a case in point. She looked pleasantly chubby and cuddly on her photos on Tagged but she did warn me that she had had put on a little weight since they were taken. And she was not fucking joking! I arranged to see her near McDonalds (danger bells) in a nearby mall. When I saw her, I very nearly turned tail and did one on my toes but I’m made of sterner stuff so pressed on. I think that she must have just lost her job as a test pilot for Jolibee’s – such was the rapt attention that she was gazing at the diners in the fast food joint. She was a well rounded lass – about 5’ 2” and weighing in at 150-60 lbs. She was one of the first Filipinas, in The Philippines, that I had seen wearing those elasticated leggings which are the standard dress of porkies in UK and the States. But she had a pretty face and her bulk was well proportioned.
Here’s a few photos but no full face shots, obviously. Please don’t view unless you like big girls.[/QUOTE]Well done Sir. I've gone down the "fat route" a few times myself. Groaned when they got in my car and saw that they were supersized, but if they come with a good attitude then its also led to some entertaining afternoons. Had one recently tho and she wouldn't take off the towel. She was clearly embarassed and as we were drunk and in the hotel fI igured we may as well go thru with it. We both knew it was once and once only. LOL
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twice the fun
Enjoyed reading the GH post about fff,
Had an LA Cafe hippo offer all night for 500 pesos. I declined.
Out in the province, I had a smiling chubby wade across the river and ask me over to her place. Hmmm.
Chubby, tubbyfuking should be free if you play your cards right. I personally prefer slim and trim, but everyone should expand their horizons.
I met a few chat friends that were heavier than expected, and it really tore my heart the way they looked at me with their pleading eyes. I did not succumb to their desires, as the weak and irresponsible GH did!!!
I directed them to the food court and kept pointing at vegetables. When they expressed a desire for pork, I suggested chicken.
When they begged for me to take them home, I suggested we go for a jog instead.
X
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Fat girls give the best BJ
That is the opinion of the spamhog who perfers smaller, tighter and rounder ladies. On the occassions that I had fat or pudgy girls, I found their oral skills were superb. Perhaps it has something to do with eating, putting things in their mouth and a constant love of food but fat girls give the best head and are the most enthusiastic about it by far, I have never had to coax or convince a fat girl to do the deed, not like some of their thinner sisters, most eagerly grab, attach lips and the rest is history.
I recall a rather corpulent filipina damsel in Singapore who was very english articulate and mature for her 22 years, I thought, ahhh astiff one, probably frigid. Boy was I wrong, she loved giving (and recieving) oral and she was a swallower to boot.
There is also something pleasant about dogging a hefty maiden with a plump rump.
So don't overlook the larger ladies, you may be pleasantly surprised.
Spamhog
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Free sites?
I pulled some real gems from CB and lately from Date-in-Asia.
As I was busy with other things, I deleted my account at DIA 3 months ago. Now I am unable to create a new account or to re-activate my old account: "You are Banned" Why? no one of those uebermenschen at DIA has the curtesy to reply my mails.
Anyway, which other site is free as DIA?? CB, FH...on all those sites you have to pay once you want to reply.
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[QUOTE=Botaki6]I pulled some real gems from CB and lately from Date-in-Asia.
As I was busy with other things, I deleted my account at DIA 3 months ago. Now I am unable to create a new account or to re-activate my old account: "You are Banned" Why? no one of those uebermenschen at DIA has the curtesy to reply my mails.
Anyway, which other site is free as DIA?? CB, FH...on all those sites you have to pay once you want to reply.[/QUOTE]If you want to have another account at DIA, just use a different email address to the one you previously used on your 'you are banned' account.
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[QUOTE=MongerManiac]If you want to have another account at DIA, just use a different email address to the one you previously used on your 'you are banned' account.[/QUOTE]
Also a different ISP.
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[QUOTE=Cbea20]Also a different ISP.[/QUOTE]
I did both already before ...didnt work
I think I have to clear my cookies also. Perhaps their program is not only identifying the IP and e mail but the old log-in cookies as well.
Still...any other free site, boys?
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Seems DIA got a very smart program>
New e-mail adress, different IP, different PC with cookies cleaned, different name and password - still I get the "banned" message. I am a really dated criminal...lol
Any hacker can enlighten me, why this shit happens?
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[QUOTE=Botaki6]Seems DIA got a very smart program>
New e-mail adress, different IP, different PC with cookies cleaned, different name and password - still I get the "banned" message. I am a really dated criminal...lol
Any hacker can enlighten me, why this shit happens?[/QUOTE]Try different location (far from original location); register there and then go home again and log in your new account.
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[QUOTE=Rampana]Try different location (far from original location); register there and then go home again and log in your new account.[/QUOTE]That's what I would suggest.
What you are experiencing makes no sense at all. Using another PC and getting a new IP adress should have done it, unless, your real IP has not changed. This will be the case if using a router or you have a static (non-changing IP). So are you sure it changed? If you do a Google on "What is my IP", many sites wil come up where you can check your real IP (the one seen by the outside world).
If you are using a router, changing PCs will not change your real IP, because it is in the the router. In turn, the router will give each of your PCs a different address (like 192.168.xxx.xxx). But, the site in question only sees the IP of the router.
If you find that you do have a router and the IP did not change, you can try to force it (this won't work if your ISP assigned you a static IP). Turn off your modem for about 10 secs (if DSL) or a few days (if cable) and you should be able to have a new IP assigned to the router.
If this was not your problem, then I am stumped.
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Tagged
I did both already before ...didnt work
I think I have to clear my cookies also. Perhaps their program is not only identifying the IP and e mail but the old log-in cookies as well.
Still...any other free site, boys?
Tagged is almost as effective. Its a bit less intuitive but you can search for girls by location and age bracket. filter for those interesetd in dating if you want, then use the brwse button and send a copy/pasted message to those that you are interested in. Depending on what you say/ what uyoiu loo like etc, you can get up to a 50% respsone
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[QUOTE=Spam Hog]That is the opinion of the spamhog who perfers smaller, tighter and rounder ladies. On the occassions that I had fat or pudgy girls, I found their oral skills were superb. Perhaps it has something to do with eating, putting things in their mouth and a constant love of food but fat girls give the best head and are the most enthusiastic about it by far, I have never had to coax or convince a fat girl to do the deed, not like some of their thinner sisters, most eagerly grab, attach lips and the rest is history.
I recall a rather corpulent filipina damsel in Singapore who was very english articulate and mature for her 22 years, I thought, ahhh astiff one, probably frigid. Boy was I wrong, she loved giving (and recieving) oral and she was a swallower to boot.
There is also something pleasant about dogging a hefty maiden with a plump rump.
So don't overlook the larger ladies, you may be pleasantly surprised.
Spamhog[/QUOTE]
I agree. The uglier the better the sex. They know they have to perform to get you to take interest or come back for more. A girl that is a looker rather it is her face, body or both knows she can get action with her looks. The BBW or whatever type you have is sure they will have to perform to have any further interaction.
FF
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[QUOTE=Jack Sheet]Wow, I'm surprised by this report. I thought the reason we travel here from destinations like Shitville, North Carolina is to get away from these porkers. Anyway, to each their own. I'll stick with the 90 pound spinners any day. Otherwise, I'd be better off picking up on some white swine on Match.com and saving the travel expense. Personally, I'm not into "uglier".[/QUOTE]
My experience with the girls of a larger stature and their desire to perform better in bed is from my experience in the USA. Uglier does not mean ugly, just not as attractive as others available. There is always a pecking order.
Yes, I travel to the lands of LBFM for the same reason. To have a plethora of petite girls and to not have to deal with all the other hang ups with sex in the USA.
Besides JS, I do recall a recent post of yours where you took a certain boxer home that was a "little thicker" than you like. Per my original post the term "thick" has become another moniker for fat. I'm sure your conquest was actually really thick as there is nothing wrong with a thick girl. It is the fat girls that refer to themselves as "thick" that has me bothered, but that only happens in the USA that I know of.
Funny you mention NC in your post as that is where I'm from. Not shitsville, NC, but close. Shitville=UNC
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Meeting Girls on the Web Cam Sites
Wondering if anyone has had any experiences meeting Filipinas on the Web Cam Sites. I met a 28 year old a little over 3 years ago on My Free Cams, after a lot of chat (and a few dollars her way) I decided to go to PI to meet her. (I've been going there since the early '70's so no newbie to the area). Got to the airport and no sign of her, called her cell phone and she had already checked into the Hotel I'd booked. Got a taxi to the Hotel and there she was waiting in the room. Little awkward for me at first since I'm used to the pros in PI, however it came together pretty quick. Bottom line is we really hit it off and I'm still making yearly trips down there to meet her and every trip is great. BTW she no longer works on MFC, she has a couple other sources of income, one includes me which is no problem since I can afford it, but just a token amount once and a while. As long as I've been doing the pros in PI, this one is head and shoulders above them and dynamite in bed.
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Can be good
I've been in the Phils for almost 3 months now and have spent my time exclusively with girls from the dating sites or their friends. A couple of the best girls I have do web camming as a "sideline" It can be quite profitable, a good one can hope to make 1-2k per night on average which beats working at Jollybees for 6000P a month. Generally this is combined with seeking guys who will support them by sending a few thousand a month or paying tuition etc.
Some of the web cam girls are only doing it because they don't like sex for real, but for others it's just convenient and fun. These girls can be amongst the most sexy and open minded in bed as obviously doing web cams for a while rapidly opens the girls mind to various sexual possibilities.
[QUOTE=Asia Nut]Wondering if anyone has had any experiences meeting Filipinas on the Web Cam Sites. I met a 28 year old a little over 3 years ago on My Free Cams, after a lot of chat (and a few dollars her way) I decided to go to PI to meet her. (I've been going there since the early '70's so no newbie to the area). Got to the airport and no sign of her, called her cell phone and she had already checked into the Hotel I'd booked. Got a taxi to the Hotel and there she was waiting in the room. Little awkward for me at first since I'm used to the pros in PI, however it came together pretty quick. Bottom line is we really hit it off and I'm still making yearly trips down there to meet her and every trip is great. BTW she no longer works on MFC, she has a couple other sources of income, one includes me which is no problem since I can afford it, but just a token amount once and a while. As long as I've been doing the pros in PI, this one is head and shoulders above them and dynamite in bed.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Asia Nut]Wondering if anyone has had any experiences meeting Filipinas on the Web Cam Sites. I met a 28 year old a little over 3 years ago on My Free Cams, after a lot of chat (and a few dollars her way) I decided to go to PI to meet her. (I've been going there since the early '70's so no newbie to the area). Got to the airport and no sign of her, called her cell phone and she had already checked into the Hotel I'd booked. Got a taxi to the Hotel and there she was waiting in the room. Little awkward for me at first since I'm used to the pros in PI, however it came together pretty quick. Bottom line is we really hit it off and I'm still making yearly trips down there to meet her and every trip is great. BTW she no longer works on MFC, she has a couple other sources of income, one includes me which is no problem since I can afford it, but just a token amount once and a while. As long as I've been doing the pros in PI, this one is head and shoulders above them and dynamite in bed.[/QUOTE]
How did she check into the hotel you booked?
There is no way the reception will check her in unless she booked the hotel and put the deposit down. It is possible that you sent her lots of money.
Who would loose a cash cow or in this case a heifer ?
I know some girls who are studying doing this cam thing. Some days they hang around LA cafe. Isn't it funny about philippino girls always studying ?
Just because they are cam girls does not mean they are normal girls who does not ***** on the side or maybe full time. But it is all about sex. If any girl gives you the ride of your life better keep her irrespective of her morality. That is why we all monger in the first place.
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[QUOTE=Sammon]How did she check into the hotel you booked?
There is no way the reception will check her in unless she booked the hotel and put the deposit down. It is possible that you sent her lots of money.
Who would loose a cash cow or in this case a heifer ?
I know some girls who are studying doing this cam thing. Some days they hang around LA cafe. Isn't it funny about philippino girls always studying ?
Just because they are cam girls does not mean they are normal girls who does not ***** on the side or maybe full time. But it is all about sex. If any girl gives you the ride of your life better keep her irrespective of her morality. That is why we all monger in the first place.[/QUOTE]That isn't always true. If you are a regular and they know you, they will pass the key upon your request. I do it all the time and as a matter of fact, I am doing that tonight. She arrives from Davao at 4:00 pm and I will not arrive until 6:00 pm. The hotel already has my request to pass her a key and they will.
Robb
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[QUOTE=Sammon]How did she check into the hotel you booked?[/QUOTE]
I had put her name on the reservation along with mine, payment for the room was already guaranteed by my Credit Card when I made the reservation so the hotel apparently didn't have a problem (although they asked her for a 1000 Peso deposit which was deducted from the final bill and yes. I paid her back).
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First, it seem odd to require a cash deposit after a credit card was used.
I tend to be a cash guy...
Some cities in the Philippines seem to require cash deposits upon check in and others do not. I haven't kept track of such things, but pretty sure the Manila hotels want deposits.
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[QUOTE=Asia Nut]I had put her name on the reservation along with mine, payment for the room was already guaranteed by my Credit Card when I made the reservation so the hotel apparently didn't have a problem (although they asked her for a 1000 Peso deposit which was deducted from the final bill and yes. I paid her back).[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man]Some cities in the Philippines seem to require cash deposits upon check in and others do not. I haven't kept track of such things, but pretty sure the Manila hotels want deposits.
X[/QUOTE]I had to deposit in all hotels I visited in Davao as well. Around 15 hotels ranging from 800 peso-rooms to Marco Polo. And they often staple the money to a piece of paper with my info on it.
Barba
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[QUOTE=Asia Nut]I had put her name on the reservation along with mine, payment for the room was already guaranteed by my Credit Card when I made the reservation so the hotel apparently didn't have a problem (although they asked her for a 1000 Peso deposit which was deducted from the final bill and yes. I paid her back).[/QUOTE]
There is a special rate for Philippino citizens. It is called balikbayan rate.
If you know the girl very well she can book the hotel at that rate. And she can deposit 1000 pesos and check in and wait for you.
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Whinge for the Day
Those sweet young ladies on DIA who we all chase with great haste and abandon just dont seem to know what their weight is.
One young gal, who clearly was on the small and slim side , when questioned by me as to whether she really was the 175 pounds she stated said " well i dont know my weight so I asked my sister who is very fat and deducted a few pounds".
Well aside from the fact the said sister must be seriously big, I advised her that putting her weight as 100 pounds, would get an awful lot more DIA activity than 175 pounds.
Her response was a small thank you.
Told her later Id tell her who it was incorrect on her profile to state she was " caucasian.". You gotta love it.
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Filipina Heart
Filipina Hearts
I would like to thank BL for blessing me with this site. Much better then the rest. Lot of hits once I found out how to unhide myself LOL. One money scammer so far. Told me she was going to sale her virginity but she did not want to do so. I told her I would buy it. Should have seen her damn face (on cam) "She thought I was going to say no don't do that I will help you." LOL.
Two fake photos. Had one girl tell me she was model. OK. Had one girl tell me she just look dark now because of the light. I wonder has she fooled anyone with this?
Met one girl who said I was nice and sweet. She asked what I like In a woman. I said one who can support herself financially. Right after that in her words I was mean and immature. LOL.
Have met two that I would not mine just kicking it with. Real sweet one works for a Filipino Congressman and the other some type of HR assistant. No sex shit but they got their own money and seem cool as a fan the type of lady Ill digs. Still have not landed one yet that looks better then my live in GF in the looks department. There are some on there that are knocks-out but they tend not to reply. LOL
Lot of nice girls I have met. Average in the looks department. Guys if you are about a playing house or looking for marriage definitely a good site. I have also met a couple of "fun girls" too. Still way too much trouble when you can just go in the bar pay the tab, fuck sleep and go home.
Some guys will say well its conquest of sleeping with a non bar girl but are you really conquering something when the girl is poor as all hell and hoping your foreign ass might fall in love and marry her? I see if she just a fun girl and tell you she just looking for fun have met two of those so far. One old and one I might just take her up on the offer. I am only checking for the ones with jobs and degrees not pressed for cash. When they hit me I take a quick glance of the profile. Don't see what I like I bounce.
Another thing I have noticed the girls around Manila are harder to get. Most of the girls that hit me are really dark in complexion not what I personally like. I keep getting hits from girls with fucking Bamboo huts in the background provincial type. Sorry my Black ass is not about to walking in some dark provincial town in Nike's just for some unguaranteed ass.
All and all I think it is a good site if you just want to get away from the bar scene for while but me no luck with these sites guess I am just to choosy :D
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I Just Like The Style
You know Illogic, I like your writing style--part hiphop, part Maya Angelou maybe, part philosophy and part cinema verite. Keep it up, you're one of the most interesting guys on the forum and I like the fresh eye with which you look at everything and your perceptions of the whole Manila scene.
GE
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]You know Illogic, I like your writing style--part hiphop, part Maya Angelou maybe, part philosophy and part cinema verite. Keep it up, you're one of the most interesting guys on the forum and I like the fresh eye with which you look at everything and your perceptions of the whole Manila scene.
GE[/QUOTE]Hi GE,
I really must admit I like your style a lot.- nothing against Illogics writing style of course, I fully agree with you-- and I think you are a wise man looking at others who sometimes lack wisdom and even more, humanity.
Thanks a million
Hw1940
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GE, always seeing the rosy side - I envy you for that.
I've often been irritated by Illogic, his different personas and sometimes over the top brashesness and braggadario. But at the same time, I've enjoyed his different perspectives and style.
These various personalities on the NET communicate and clash, but in the end, we really don't know jack shit about each other unless we meet face to face.
Thanks for your perspective. GE, the Obi Wan Kinobi of PI ISG. ....Or maybe he is YODA. :-)
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]You know Illogic, I like your writing style--part hiphop, part Maya Angelou maybe, part philosophy and part cinema verite. Keep it up, you're one of the most interesting guys on the forum and I like the fresh eye with which you look at everything and your perceptions of the whole Manila scene.
GE[/QUOTE]
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Urban style...
Frankly, I am not a fan of Illogic's style. I am not at all interested in trying to decode it. Not really a race / color thing. I would be just as annoyed if someone was posting in Shakespearean English. It's annoying, and sort of a pain in the ass to muddle through.
However. He covers a lot of ground, and I certainly appreciate the substance over the style.
[QUOTE=GoodEnough]You know Illogic, I like your writing style--part hiphop, part Maya Angelou maybe, part philosophy and part cinema verite. Keep it up, you're one of the most interesting guys on the forum and I like the fresh eye with which you look at everything and your perceptions of the whole Manila scene.
GE[/QUOTE]
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Thanks....And One Of A ISG's Member's Worst Fears
[QUOTE=GoodEnough]You know Illogic, I like your writing style--part hiphop, part Maya Angelou maybe, part philosophy and part cinema verite. Keep it up, you're one of the most interesting guys on the forum and I like the fresh eye with which you look at everything and your perceptions of the whole Manila scene.
GE[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the props GE. You are probably the most respected guy on the PI boards and one of the most respected on ISG in general.
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=props[/url]
PS: Not PI related but a warning. An ISG monger has just been outed on the China General Info Thread with his real name, email and phone #, photo etc being broadcasted here. :eek:
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?t=938[/url]
Guys watch how much information you put online. Especially when chatting.
This is why the fuck I don't even give WGs my real name. WOW!
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Illogic,
The link to the China thread was interesting and worrying. Thanks for posting it.
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[QUOTE=Illogic]Thanks for the props GE. You are probably the most respected guy on the PI boards and one of the most respected on ISG in general.
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=props[/url]
PS: This is why the fuck I don't even give WGs my real name. WOW![/QUOTE]Years ago I invented a bar name for myself (if bar girls can have a bar name why shouldn't I? )
Since then I; ve walked down Burgos many times with ladies who know my real Christian name and they always ask why the door people are shouting out my bar name at me. I tell them maybe they mistake me for someone else. The fun and lies we get into.
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My god !
From DIA "My name is Jingle and I have three kids, 3. 2 yrs old and the third one is coming. July is the due date of my pregnancy. I registered here to hopefully find my new love"
I guess theres guys out there in InternetLand who would be happy with a slim and tasty 22 year old. Even wih 3 kids in tow. Damn she has been BUSY.
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jingle Bells!!
Lots of Maieusiophiles out there who will probably inundate her inbox. Not for me though - jinking about atop a beached whale does nothing for my libido:D.
Jingle is an appropriate name. Stick your bell end in her poor abused snatch and it would probably chime as it bounced off the sides!
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Too damn early...
So there I was at 7am in my office checking emails etc.. when I get a message on DIA " did I want to have some dirty fun, from an 18 year old in Cebu. Replied yes probably and next thing is shes sending me message on YM.
Then she sends me her cam invite and shes an ok looking 18 year old I guess.. Mom in background holding a baby ( probably hers ).. and by 7.05 shes saying " I can get naked and make you come ".. meanwhile mom is still in background. I even think I saw Dad hovering around.
Girl says the usual " if you want to see me naked have to help me " etc.
I left and went back to work but if brothers want to see this girl her name in DIA is Megasedon and YM [blue][Email address deleted by Admin][/blue]
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DIA girl - Madonna Gwapa
Hey,
Has anybody hooked up with the girl called "madonna gwapa" in Cebu, thru DIA? I had a look at her page, not a bad looker, she seems to be pretty cluey, and is very honest about what she is looking for (to accompany western guys on their holidays, for a fee no doubt.) I had a look at her friendster photos, and she looks pretty good in a swimsuit. I've asked to have a look at her private photos (titled "a bit naughty" or something), but haven't heard back yet. I'm not likely to have free time in Cebu anytime soon (I'm limited to maybe one night every couple of years in Manila, if travelling at a different time to my wife when visiting her family), so if anybody tries her out, please let us all know how it went.
Taster
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Madonna Gwapa
[QUOTE=Taster]Hey,
Has anybody hooked up with the girl called "madonna gwapa" in Cebu, thru DIA? I had a look at her page, not a bad looker, she seems to be pretty cluey, and is very honest about what she is looking for (to accompany western guys on their holidays, for a fee no doubt.) I had a look at her friendster photos, and she looks pretty good in a swimsuit. I've asked to have a look at her private photos (titled "a bit naughty" or something), but haven't heard back yet. I'm not likely to have free time in Cebu anytime soon (I'm limited to maybe one night every couple of years in Manila, if travelling at a different time to my wife when visiting her family), so if anybody tries her out, please let us all know how it went.
Taster[/QUOTE]
Yes, I've met Madonna several times. She is a very nice girl - honest and straightforward and sets out on her profile exactly what she is looking for without any hidden agenda. The pics on her profile are recent so you can decide for yourself whether you find her attractive or not. She has a cute enough face and the type of body (slim, petite but with big boobs) that many guys love. If you are a decent guy and she likes you she is very sexy and passionate. She's not a hooker and isn't going to let you see the private photos.
Like most girls on DIA her main aim is to get a Western guy to marry her and take her to live with him in the West. For a guy looking for a cute young Filipina to marry she would be a pretty good candidate, if you like those type of looks and are not looking for a university educated college girl type. She has a very small family (just her mum really) so you wouldn't have to provide for the huge numbers of hangers on that is the issue with most Filipinas. I spent 3 months in the Philippines and was amazed at how many Western guys chose to marry fat and not very good looking Filipina girls when the likes of Madonna are available.
She is pretty down to earth and straight forward and knows that any sensible guy would want to spend quite a bit of time with her before making a decision about marriage so is happy to go on holiday etc so that you can get to know each other. She doesn't talk about money but lost her job in an electronics factory a few months ago so needs to support herself plus her mum so of course if you spend time with her you should give her an appropriate financial compensation. She gets alot of interest through DIA so has to be selective about who she replies to. If you are a married guy just looking for a days fun some time in the distant future, it would be a waste of time for her, so I doubt if she will be interested in you.
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Did you help her write her profile? I'd say even a uni educated Filipina would be hard pressed to put together such a well-written profile. Possible, but not likely. Nothing wrong with that...just curious.
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[QUOTE=GregLondon]Yes, I've met Madonna several times. She is a very nice girl - honest and straightforward and sets out on her profile exactly what she is looking for without any hidden agenda. The pics on her profile are recent so you can decide for yourself whether you find her attractive or not. She has a cute enough face and the type of body (slim, petite but with big boobs) that many guys love. If you are a decent guy and she likes you she is very sexy and passionate. She's not a hooker and isn't going to let you see the private photos.
Like most girls on DIA her main aim is to get a Western guy to marry her and take her to live with him in the West. For a guy looking for a cute young Filipina to marry she would be a pretty good candidate, if you like those type of looks and are not looking for a university educated college girl type. She has a very small family (just her mum really) so you wouldn't have to provide for the huge numbers of hangers on that is the issue with most Filipinas. I spent 3 months in the Philippines and was amazed at how many Western guys chose to marry fat and not very good looking Filipina girls when the likes of Madonna are available.
She is pretty down to earth and straight forward and knows that any sensible guy would want to spend quite a bit of time with her before making a decision about marriage so is happy to go on holiday etc so that you can get to know each other. She doesn't talk about money but lost her job in an electronics factory a few months ago so needs to support herself plus her mum so of course if you spend time with her you should give her an appropriate financial compensation. She gets alot of interest through DIA so has to be selective about who she replies to. If you are a married guy just looking for a days fun some time in the distant future, it would be a waste of time for her, so I doubt if she will be interested in you.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man]Did you help her write her profile? I'd say even a uni educated Filipina would be hard pressed to put together such a well-written profile. Possible, but not likely. Nothing wrong with that...just curious.
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Yes I edited it/helped her write it. The basic ideas and who she wants etc are hers but as you point out it would be next to impossible for a girl educated in the Phils to write such text.
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[QUOTE=GregLondon]Yes I edited it/helped her write it. The basic ideas and who she wants etc are hers but as you point out it would be next to impossible for a girl educated in the Phils to write such text.[/QUOTE]
Actually the text is of secondary importance on DIA, I don't think more than 5% of guys read it. I met her more or less by accident. She had a blurry picture on DIA taken with a friend's camera phone so was getting 2 or 3 responses a month. I couldn't believe my luck when she showed up with such a fantastic figure and nice attitude. As soon as she uploaded a nice bikini shot she was getting messages every few minutes. This being DIA most of them are of course time wasters, but I believe she has got a few who seem seriously interested. I wouldn't be at all surprised if she doesn't get an offer of marriage within a year.
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Greg ...man, you are such a sport. Many guys here would have kept such an obvious cutey very much to themselves;).
I am surprised, given the paranoiac inclination of certain members, that you have not been accused of being Taster as well!
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[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Greg ...man, you are such a sport. Many guys here would have kept such an obvious cutey very much to themselves;).
I am surprised, given the paranoiac inclination of certain members, that you have not been accused of being Taster as well![/QUOTE]
Many thanks CS. Yes I know many guys are complete idiots, I've seen some of the emails they write. Many are paranoidly jealous or suspicious that they are being scammed and so end up missing out on good opportunities. Too bad for them. My moto is: Give and you shall receive. If a girl is honest, genuine and nice I am usually the same to her. More often than not this results in introductions to meet her friends and cousins and I end up fucking them too. At one point I managed to have 8 cute 18-21 year old Filipinas in my room. Got quite a few astonished looks from the hotel receptionist.
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Dating-social sites(DIA-Tagged):Are you honest on your intentions from the beginning?
I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers
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DIA approach
First of all they may say they are looking for serious long term relationship but in truth the vast majority are happy enough if someone takes the time and effort to meet them in person. Its not often you meet and don't get laid
Personally I spend a bit of time chatting and getting to know them before I visit. Some I have talked to fairly quickly move from "God fearing" or "no players" to horny as hell.
Yes there are times when you need to offload as you see the conversation is not going in the direction we require.
Always remember they are playing the same game as us!!
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Hossers
[QUOTE=Traveller22]I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers[/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hosser[/url]
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=899226&postcount=4301[/url]
I asked this question in public view to “I am a monger” Sammon LOL… but he never responded. Some guys on this forum “claim” they are upfront with the girls but I have been around Filipinas for while now (well not as long as most of you as I am not that old) and if they are not whoring or the ***** type outright telling them you just looking to get your dick wet doesn’t fly in most cases.
Now if she is impoverished the ***** type, naive (low intelligence) and desperate for some cash I am sure some things can be arranged as anywhere on earth. The conditions have to be right.
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Traveler22,
I am quite honest in my advertisements and I meet lots of girls still. I am picky and prefer girls 18-23 years. Honesty can also be a strength since there is so many foreigners filling the girls with crap to get into their knickers. I put the cards on the table in a gentle way within the first minutes of chatting. Many 100% normal and lovely Pinays are definitely interested in just a casual bf/love story. My cards are not very helpfull, I assure you but still I meet many lovely girls. SOme get gifts, of course and other just tag along to beaches and resorts. Nothing is ever totally free. Many of them maybe nurse a hope somewhere deep inside that whatever relation is there will evolve to something more stable, but still I do not get much pressure on this topic. Just waiting for woman to contact you is never good in any culture. Be active and sell your story of "a honest and frank guy that want to meet a lovely and happy girl for some leisure activities".
No point though in being foolishly honest and tell girls about your every move and intention thought. If you make arrangements to have 2 girls a day and is totally frank with this you end up with scammers, pims and ladyboys. But this goes without saying, I guess.
One approach to this "problem" I find suitable is to mention that you wish to have a "pretty and warm girl to guide you for a couple of days in city X and the surroundings". Most pinays know the concept of reading between the lines.
Cheers Barba!
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Great question, but there is no right answer. You have to follow your own moral compass.
As for me...my moral compass just spins around and around. I'm not sure why.
If an online ad is too negative, i give it a pass. On the few ocassions I tested the waters, I found a really hateful person there.
Anyone who mentions "serious" or "marriage", I say "friends first". They almost always will agree to that. So meet them for lunch and see what happens. If you can turn a lunch date into a lover, then both of you have done well for that day.
If you are already married and have no intention of doing more than a one night stand I suggest the p4p route. Of course your moral compass may be differnet than mine. I'm happily divorced.
Oh, and "don't play games"? I ignore that completely assuming it isn't too negative. This game has rules and winners and losers and they are playing the "game" just by being on the Internet.
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[QUOTE=Traveller22]I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers[/QUOTE]
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[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=899226&postcount=4301[/url]
i asked this question in public view to “i am a monger” sammon lol… but he never responded. some guys on this forum “claim” they are upfront with the girls but i have been around filipinas for while now (well not as long as most of you as i am not that old) and if they are not whoring or the ***** type outright telling them you just looking to get your dick wet doesn’t fly in most cases.
now if she is impoverished the ***** type, naive (low intelligence) and desperate for some cash i am sure some things can be arranged as anywhere on earth. the conditions have to be right.[/quote]
i have replied you. check your pm. being a monger means looking for sex with p4p girls as well as others. if sex equals marriage i would have been married hundresds of times already. i look for dates with normal girls. if we end up in bed so be it. i am not going to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] them or pressure them in any way to jump into bed. if the girl thinks just because she had sex with me i am going to marry her that is her problem. i never promise anything before or after. nobody has come after me for a shotgun wedding because i had sex with them.
girls are not naive as you believe. they know the ways of the world and if they are clueless their friends will teach them. all people have their own rules and regulations they follow. insisting your way or highway on others is wrong.
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How to [CodeWord140] off a Filipina without even trying
This posting may only make sense to someone who uses Filipina Heart:
I just returned from my quarterly trip to Manila. As usual, I set up my dates in advance to keep my dance card filled. One of the dazzling babes meets me for drinks and dinner. After that, I encouraged her to come join me over at the hotel which she resisted a bit but then agreed. I guess the Catholic guilt wore off after the third tequila shot.
Long story short, I had a great night with her and she left early in the morning. Here's where the trouble started. I went to my FH account whereas I had her listed as one of my "favorites". Once they are listed as a favorite, you can put copious notes about them to refresh you memory upon your next visit. I did this, listing her number and some graphic detail about our encounter.
The next day I started getting texts and flame mails about why did I put this information on FH. I was not aware that these notes are visible to the person you have as your "favorite". I assumed they were as private as the notes you put in the "detail" section of Yahoo Messenger. Since I was busted, I just apologized profusely saying I learned my lesson and will never do that again, blah blah blah.
I’d suggest you do not use the "notes" section of FH since it serves no real purpose due to the fact it's not private.
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As somebody else said there is no right or wrong answer to this and different people have different approaches.
My own approach is to be pretty upfront in my ads, explicitly stating I'm not in it for the long term. Maybe this means i just get a 25% response rate rather than the 90% I would probably get if I said I was on the look out for a nice wife, but with so many girls around that still way more than I can handle, so why not at least start with a pool of reasonably up for it girls. Even then half of the respondees haven't quite understood I'm just looking for short term fun so it takes a few ÝM or text messages to eliminate them from my enquiries. If one is looking for something more unusual eg threesomes then there is another layer of winnowing to get to the group that can do that too. My approach is usually to give the girl 500P (2-3 hours) or 1000P (all night) assuming we have had alot of fun. I am not looking for this type of date to get "freebies" - I don't like Bar Fining girls (a) because I dont like funding often shady bar owners and (b) because I much prefer hanging our with nurses, uni girls and the like than girls sitting around a bar getting jaded. In most cases the amount and quality of the sex one gets is way in excess of what one would get elsewhere in SEA eg Thailand or Cambodia let alone elsewhere in the world so i certainly dont begrudge a student 500P towards her fees or mobile phone bill. And one can develop genuine and I hope long term friendships. I personally don't think highly of the type of guy who tries to trick these young girls into a "freebie" by giving the impression he is looking for a wife when in fact he is on a sex binge. Of course if we are talking about the 35 year old divorcee filipinas desperate for a good seeing to, that's a different story, but that's not my scene. I'm not even sure that this type of guy is saving alot of money, as it probably involves, more taxis to unproductive dates, dinners and general time wasting than would otherwise be the case. I suspect that in many cases its more a question of massaging his own ego by pretending to convince himself he is still attractive enough to pull a 21 year old for free.
[QUOTE=Traveller22]I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers[/QUOTE]
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Amen to that, GregLondon!
Well spoken.
Barba
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More on DiA
A month or so back I stayed a short week in Manila again.
This time for pleasure only, as in "no work".
Had chatted up 4 ladies from DiA before arriving, in addition to my 36yo lady friend (FuBu) of the last 7 years.
Arrived saturday afternoon and my FuBu came to meet in my hotel within an hour. She stayed until monday morning, and all we did outside of the hotelroom was to have breakfast. Other meals via room-service. Nice weekend.
Monday morning, sent her off to work.
Monday. Off to Harrison Plaza (HP) at 1000 to buy a SIM-card and txted the first lady on my list. Fhe was waiting for it. She lived not so far away, and arrived HP in an hour. She is a 26yo, slim and I met her in DiA about 4 months ago. She looked conservative in our chats, so I told her that I was looking for fun and more. She gave me a cold shoulder, and I did not hear from her in a weeks time. Then she contacted me in YM and said that she would like to meet me for some hugging and cuddling, and maybe more if chemistry was right. As I did not visit Manila right away I lost contact with her. Guess she blocked me in YM. Then - when I had a firm booking I mailed her and she responded right away. From the way she acted I dont think she had been with a man in a long time. She wanted everything except anal. Not experienced, and not maganda, but good looking to me. Sent her home at about 7pm with php.1000 for transport.
Contacted the next lady, and she agreed to meet at HP next day at 1000.
Tuesday. Txted Bev and asked when she would be in HP. She replied, wanting to reschedule since it was raining, but I told her that this was my only available day for her. It took her 2,5 hour to arrive in HP, and she txted me 5 minutes before arriving, and I took a taxi from my hotel to be meet her. She was 27yo, petite and cute, and just wanted to get to the hotel ASAP. In the elevator up to the room she said she needed a shower due to the long travel, and who was I to refuse that. Well - it took all of 20 minutes before we were in bed due to her showering first :) - and she stayed until 9pm. Not so experienced, but loved to meet a foreigner and was playing with my nose and dick all the time, being very frank about how she loved to fuck and that she did it toooo seldom. Sent her off with php 1000 for transport, with a promise to meet again.
Wednesday. Met the 4th lady (3rd from DiA), Eva, and she did not know HP, so we decided to meet at Mall of Asia. Met her at one of the many coffeeshops, but she did not want to stay there for too long, she wanted to go back home. I asked her to come to my hotel, but she was reluctant to begin with. I reminded her of our chats and that we agreed to meet for some hugging and cuddling and that it would be difficult to do in the coffeeshop :) . She then agreed to visit my hotel, but "she was not like that, sleeping with a guy on a first meeting", she said. I said that was fine with me, if we could do all the other stuff except having sex. She smiled and said no problem and we took a taxi back to my hotel. We were on the bed within two minutes and she eagerly started to play with the bulge in my pants. I opened my zipper and she played it. Told her we should undress unless she wanted to get a lot of sperm on her dress. We both did, and I played her wet pussy until she came and she played me. I held back as I wanted her to stay for a few hours, and she did. No intercourse, but all the rest. Regular girl, looking for marriage. Told her I was attached, looking for fun only. Before leaving she thanked me for not fucking her, and promissed to give me everything I wanted upon my next visit. I have been on YM with her later on, where she have stripped down and played for me ;) . Looking forward to meet her again.
The 4th girl did not materialize, due to me.
However, I met another lady from DiA for coffee at MoA. She had been chatting with foreigners for a long time, but never met any. Shy she said. She was married, and told her hubby everything, she said. I challenged her and she decided to meet me with a chaperone, and brought her 8 year old niese along. Fed them icecream and pasta, and in a chat a few days later she said she would like to meet me privately when I returned. At first she thought I was a grandpa, looking for young girls (she is 25), but after meeting she found me to be a pleasant and fun person.
I just love the RP and especially DiA.
All the young ladies were slim and pleasant for my eyes, although not beautiful. I dont look for starfishes.
I stayed at the G Hotel close to Maynila Ospital along Roxas and never experienced any problem. Each breakfast there were foreign guys there with local ladies.
They have conferences in the hotel as well. One day it was about Human Traficking :)
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Such sweet girls
Was chatting on YM to one of my DIA ladies (or maybe one of yours tooo! ). Just keeping her nice and warm for my next visit.
She so sweetly told me that had used the choclate wrapper from the chocs I bought her to decorate her college book, and that she had showed her mom and sister the very sweet pair of panties that I had bought her.
And that was all it took. Now shes asking if I can tie her up and spank her on her next visit. Sure thing baby!
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Filipino Heart
Hi I have just joined this meeting online place and I have been contacted by girls that are located in remote areas. You FH experienced guys have you met girls in remote areas or you do not bother?
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Good question, but a lot depends on you. Have you already traveled to the typical destinations? Do you have a fairly long holiday and are you adventurous and don't mind roughing it? If you've answered yes to any of these, then you should give at least one "new" destination a try.
Another option, is station yourself in a city like Cebu or Davao or CDO and encourage them to bus / ferry to your destination. I've had poor luck with this, probably because I won't sent the money in advance. Also, they seem to want you to sit on a bus for two hours even though you've already spent hours and thousands of pesos to get there -- two hours from their location.
That being said I always pay transportation costs round trip and even encourage that they take a taxi (if available). Be aware, some ladies will get in a taxi and expect you to pay at the other end -- in other words, you have to be hanging around to meet the taxi. Sometimes a pain in the arse.
I generally find that there is more than enough women withing 90 min bus/jeepney. So, I don't bother unless I'm curious about visiting a new place.
Some will disagree with me, but I usually allow them to brings someone...friend, cousin, etc. NOT MOTHER! They usually ask ahead of time.
Where are these "remote" destinations?
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[QUOTE=Manicure]Hi I have just joined this meeting online place and I have been contacted by girls that are located in remote areas. You FH experienced guys have you met girls in remote areas or you do not bother?[/QUOTE]
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Marconista, can you give some more info about "g" hotel. I've never heard of it. Do you have contact info? Prices?
FreebieFan, congrats on your public service helping to educate college girls. The world is a better place because of you!
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Go where you want to go
I think your plan of action should be to go where you want to go, then search for girls convenient for that location. Some "remote" places in the Phils are well worth visiting in their own right eg Palawan, but more than likely you will have been contacted by girls from places with high populations but few Westerners especially Mindanao, places like Bislig, Zamboanga, Gen Santos etc. It would be foolish to chase any one girl in any of these places, but if you want to explore and have time go there and meet a whole bunch. As previous poster said most girls in these places are more than willing to take 2/4 hours bus to see you in Davao, CDO or wherever you are, the problem is that few have the funds to spend to get there and risk that you dont show up etc to refund them. So they prob ask for the fare, and will generally inflate the true cost by 2-5x, in which case they will probably keep the money.
If you are talking about a remote village rather than a substantial Mindanao city like the above, then your other problem may be conservatism. Most guys seem to want a fun sexy girl who has good English, a sassy sense of humour, is good and adventurous in bed etc AND they are the only foreigner who has touched her. Unfortunately this is probably being unrealistic or hypocritical. The former qualities tend to be developed through contacts with previous Western guys and are almost invariably found inn the cities. of course if you are loking for a shy and innocent girl with basic English that's different.
[QUOTE=Manicure]Hi I have just joined this meeting online place and I have been contacted by girls that are located in remote areas. You FH experienced guys have you met girls in remote areas or you do not bother?[/QUOTE]
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Fh
Thanks Xman and greglondon. I am surprise by the variety of location the girls come from. Remote areas means for me Island that does not belong to Davao, Cebu and Manilla. I have decided in the light of my readings and comments to declare honestly that I am looking for leisure meetings and specific locations.
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good plan
I think if you want to have many many girls, these cities are your best bet, but remember Cebu Pacific flights to loads of places are often just 1000P. You will often pay twice as much for a hotel in Cebu or Manila than you can find for a smaller place so if you want a change of scenery it can be worth it.
[QUOTE=Manicure]Thanks Xman and greglondon. I am surprise by the variety of location the girls come from. Remote areas means for me Island that does not belong to Davao, Cebu and Manilla. I have decided in the light of my readings and comments to declare honestly that I am looking for leisure meetings and specific locations.[/QUOTE]
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The purpose of this Forum is to provide for the exchange of information between Men on the subject of finding Women for Sex.
Let's get back to the subject.
Thank You,
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Vous avez tout a fait raison Greg (You are right Greg) Usted tiene todo justificу Greg
[QUOTE=GregLondon]Give the guy a chance, I presume he is a French speaker so I think things get lost in translation. He seems essentially to be saying thanks Ill take your advice and go to specific places and find girls in and around that area'. Am I wrong?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Manicure]Hi I have just joined this meeting online place and I have been contacted by girls that are located in remote areas. You FH experienced guys have you met girls in remote areas or you do not bother?[/QUOTE]Girls from remote areas is not a good option. If you are looking for a genuine country girl to settle down it maybe ok. But if you are looking for fun stay in the cities. Better hotels and the girls are better companions. I had a girl from Mindanao meet me in Manila. She had to take 6 hours bus to zamboanga airport just to catch a plane. Then 2 hours flight to manila and half hour to the hotel. By the time she came to the room all she could do is sleep. The girl can eat only pork and rice day in and day out. And occassional fried chicken.
Not interested in any sightseeing although it was her first trip to Manila. Maybe she thinks people will think bad of her being with a foreigner like in her own place.
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Let's get back to the subject.
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Thank You,
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Threesomes - sexygurl on DIA
Some guys have messaged me about getting threesomes in Cebu. If you are looking for this (or just a single, sexy girl0 then check out "sexygurl" from DIA 22 Cebu. As you might have guessed, she got a little help with the English on her profile, but it's 100% accurate, she's got a great body and very sensual. Her face is not 100% photogenic as her mouth is quite wide, but actually she looks better in person than on camera. She's great in bed if you are a decent guy at least.
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G-Hotel
G-Hotel is along Roxas Boulevard, next to Maynila Ospital.
Link: [url]http://www.g-hotel.com.ph/[/url]
- and Tripadvisors have some reports as well:
[url]http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotel_Review-g298573-d648427-Reviews-G_Hotel_Manila_by_Waterfront-Manila_National_Capital_Region_Luzon.html[/url]
I paid about php4400 a day for a doubleroom, including breakfast for 2.
No proble with visitors as far as I know. I never brought any in at late hours.
Its a little noisy, as in you can easily hear people walk outside the room. When the boardwalk was still open you could also easily hear the music from the bars across Roxas.
Friendly staff, and important to me - Free WiFi.
If you look deeper in the "Manila Hotels"-thread you can find more info, but it is a pain in the ass to search for "G-Hotel" in ISG.
Looking forward to go back to RP, but it will be mainly work next time in Manila (with lady workmates all over, limiting my possibilities).
[QUOTE=X Man]Marconista, can you give some more info about "g" hotel. I've never heard of it. Do you have contact info? Prices?
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Mango Park
If free wi-fi is important for you then The Mango Park hotel on Maxilom Blvd is worth looking at. It's the cheapest mid range hotel with free unmetered wifi in the rooms and a pool (not a bad small pool on the roof) I could find in Cebu. Prices are 1500/2000 P for a standard/delux (bit bigger with fridge) inc a (not especially good) breakfast for 2. There are other hotels such as the grand which are nicer for similar money but the wifi is 100p an hour so if you are online a few hours a day the cost starts to escalate.
[QUOTE=Marconista]G-Hotel is along Roxas Boulevard, next to Maynila Ospital.
Link: [url]http://www.g-hotel.com.ph/[/url]
- and Tripadvisors have some reports as well:
[url]http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotel_Review-g298573-d648427-Reviews-G_Hotel_Manila_by_Waterfront-Manila_National_Capital_Region_Luzon.html[/url]
I paid about php4400 a day for a doubleroom, including breakfast for 2.
No proble with visitors as far as I know. I never brought any in at late hours.
Its a little noisy, as in you can easily hear people walk outside the room. When the boardwalk was still open you could also easily hear the music from the bars across Roxas.
Friendly staff, and important to me - Free WiFi.
If you look deeper in the "Manila Hotels"-thread you can find more info, but it is a pain in the ass to search for "G-Hotel" in ISG.
Looking forward to go back to RP, but it will be mainly work next time in Manila (with lady workmates all over, limiting my possibilities).[/QUOTE]
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Sexygurl
[QUOTE=GregLondon]If you are looking for this (or just a single, sexy girl0 then check out "sexygurl" from DIA 22 Cebu.[/QUOTE]
Have seen her profile on Tagged and judging from her photos gets around the islands! I would assume you shot some of her pics as well!?
Also thanks Jackson for cleaning up this thread; well done!
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Thanks Marconista for the G hotel info.
Mattrick, sexygurl looks interesting, but it looks like her profile was written by a friend. The English is just too good. I guess there's nothing wrong with that.
??? Did my 2000th post get deleted. I though I'd get a prize or something. How disappointing. :-)
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Sorry, but what site is DIA?
I am not sure what site DIA is. I know the others you mention.
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[QUOTE=Ilp Wdu]I am not sure what site DIA is. I know the others you mention.[/QUOTE]
Date in Asia (just Google it) it is by far the most active dating site for phil girls mainly because though it has less functionality than the others anyone can post messages for free
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[QUOTE=X Man]Thanks Marconista for the G hotel info.
Mattrick, sexygurl looks interesting, but it looks like her profile was written by a friend. The English is just too good. I guess there's nothing wrong with that.
??? Did my 2000th post get deleted. I though I'd get a prize or something. How disappointing. :-)
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Does Coca Cola write their own advertising?
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[QUOTE=Mattrick]Have seen her profile on Tagged and judging from her photos gets around the islands! I would assume you shot some of her pics as well!?
Also thanks Jackson for cleaning up this thread; well done![/QUOTE]
I've not seen her tagged profile recently, but I have alot of pics of her so I guess she has probably used some of them. Yes I think she gets invited off for mini holidays quite alot as do most of the good looking girls with a great attitude. Guys see them once or twice then figure that the best plan is to take them to some of the islands where they can enjoy a much nicer environment than Cebu in the company of a very sexy girl
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vanzhorneygirl2003
Oh Ugh,,,,, I just chatted with this gal (I use that term loosely). She sent me a message on DIA hinting so I bit and exchanged Yahoo email IDs with her cuz she did not look bad. When I told her to turn on her cam she did and I almost puked. Different person.
If there was a beauty contest between my ass and her face, the one eyed man would win, HANDS DOWN. If she pages you just ignore her, or risk loosing your dinner.
This is her web page on DIA and the web page photo is attached but it AIN'T her my friends.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=88e69738-160e-444e-9da3-28167fd57994[/url]
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Found this in a Manila craigslist W4M....Funny as!!
[quote]People say I'm cute - My mom says I'm cute.
Simple - Complicated
Looking for someone who's generous - Will let you have sex with me if you throw me enough money. . . . I'll lay there like a dead fish.
Chubby - Fat. Fat enough to roll down the street.
Looking for someone who likes experiencing different places/cultures - . . . So I can come along and travel at your expense.
God-fearing - Have you found Jesus? I'll definitely help you.
Looking for someone who knows how to treat a lady - All expenses paid by you.
Tour guide - See 'Looking for someone who's generous' and 'Looking for someone who likes experiencing different places/cultures'
Don't care about looks - Will ask for your picture, then drop you like a hot potato if you're not their 'type'
Sexy - Not.
Looking for someone who won't cheat - Just got burned. Will get burned again. And again.
Let's be friends first - . . . because friends do stuff for other friends. Like loan them money.
Looking for soulmate/long-term relationship - Looking for sugar-daddy
Looking for caucasian/foreigner - Any will do, as long as he's American
Looking for marriage - Any will do, as long as he's American
Looking for Christian - Because . . . Islamic=Arab=stinky, Hindu=Indian=stinky, Buddhist=Chinese/Japanese=too asian for asians, Jewish=Jesus-Killers=precludes Christianity . . . they should just say 'caucasian'. See 'Looking for caucasian/foreigner'
No pic, no reply - Picky. See 'Don't care about looks". Send them cock pics.
Must be honest - See 'Looking for someone who won't cheat'
No secrets - Naive. This is THE INTERNET! . . . You could probably scam *her* for money.
No lies - See 'No secrets'
No games - Just gave up DotA and Counterstrike. Otherwise, see 'No secrets'
I am not a scammer - I am a scammer.[/quote]
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[QUOTE=Eaglestar]Oh Ugh,,,,, I just chatted with this gal (I use that term loosely). She sent me a message on DIA hinting so I bit and exchanged Yahoo email IDs with her cuz she did not look bad. When I told her to turn on her cam she did and I almost puked. Different person.
If there was a beauty contest between my ass and her face, the one eyed man would win, HANDS DOWN. If she pages you just ignore her, or risk loosing your dinner.
This is her web page on DIA and the web page photo is attached but it AIN'T her my friends.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=88e69738-160e-444e-9da3-28167fd57994[/url]
ES[/QUOTE]I blew this girl off many months ago. She hit me up on DIA also. I found out she works in one of the bars on Mango in Cebu. I told her no I wont visit her there then immediatly she starting asking for money claiming her son was sick in the hospital.
I will give her a little credit because she approached me at Valentine Day saying she just wanted a date. She was trying to sneek in the back way but then the begging for money started. I never seen her in person or on cam but I am happy I read your report.
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New site
Being bored at work as ocassinally occurs was trawling thru the pc. Spotted [url]www.beautifulfilipina.info.[/url] has pics of girls with email and phone numbers. Sadly it doesn't show where the heck they are at. But for the retired folks with time on their hands whats the loss in sending off a few sms.
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Asianbabydoll
Guys!
I'm deeply concerned, does anyone know what happened to asianbabydoll a fantastic performer in abc?
I've chatted with her since long time back. I haven't heard or seen her online in a long time. I know sometimes she takes time off, but not this long.
Has she found someone else? Huhuhuhu
ZS
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Hey
I saw her online today if you mean this one:
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile. Aspx? Uid=79c38eb8-acac-4686-ab4a-cc74d2de8c3e[/url]
She looks serious hot. I can see why you would be concerned.
[QUOTE=Zootsuite]Guys!
I'm deeply concerned, does anyone know what happened to asianbabydoll a fantastic performer in abc?
I've chatted with her since long time back. I haven't heard or seen her online in a long time. I know sometimes she takes time off, but not this long.
Has she found someone else? Huhuhuhu
ZS[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Blizz]Hey
I saw her online today if you mean this one:
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile. Aspx? Uid=79c38eb8-acac-4686-ab4a-cc74d2de8c3e[/url]
She looks serious hot. I can see why you would be concerned.[/QUOTE]Sorry I can´t open your link so I don´t know if that´s the one. But here she is...[url]http://www.asianbabecams.com/photos.asp?Performer=asianbabydoll[/url]
She is bloody hot and a body to dream about. Hehehe. And also it's very fun to chat with her.
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Real Girls?
Is there a non offensive way to ask an attractive girl if she was born with a dick? I usually go with my gut feeling like assuming if she is over 5'3, wearing too much girly attire, or is online after 9 pm PI. time: she is a dude. Compare DIA's last active section at noon P.I. time and after midnight. It is like a freak show after dark, but It is good practice to learn how to spot the men in dresses
Cherry Blossoms used to do a good job of sorting out the bad profiles, I found the most "good girls" there. However since last year, I have noticed a lot of cross dressers and girls who were obviously cam girls on the site. CB used to list the the sign up date on there profile, so I knew most girls that have been on the site for at least a couple of months with out getting banned were most likely not to be scanners. CB management has also gotten more aggressive and sexually themed in there email advertisements.
On another note, I remember a dating site that included breast size among its profile questions. It was not a pure "sex site", and a lot of normal Pinays were on the site.
If anyone knows the name, could they please share. I am finding it difficult to find a Pinay with big tits.
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I remember a dating site that included breast size among its profile questions. It was not a pure "sex site", and a lot of normal Pinays were on the site.
If anyone knows the name, could they please share. I am finding it difficult to find a Pinay with big tits.[/QUOTE]Does the site also require men's profiles to disclose dick size?
That would be fair. LOL
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[QUOTE=Radical Guy]Does the site also require men's profiles to disclose dick size?
That would be fair. LOL[/QUOTE]
Sure why not? You have a problem with that?
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]Is there a non offensive way to ask an attractive girl if she was born with a dick? I usually go with my gut feeling like assuming if she is over 5'3, wearing too much girly attire, or is online after 9 pm PI. time: she is a dude. Compare DIA's last active section at noon P.I. time and after midnight. It is like a freak show after dark, but It is good practice to learn how to spot the men in dresses
Cherry Blossoms used to do a good job of sorting out the bad profiles, I found the most "good girls" there. However since last year, I have noticed a lot of cross dressers and girls who were obviously cam girls on the site. CB used to list the the sign up date on there profile, so I knew most girls that have been on the site for at least a couple of months with out getting banned were most likely not to be scanners. CB management has also gotten more aggressive and sexually themed in there email advertisements.
On another note, I remember a dating site that included breast size among its profile questions. It was not a pure "sex site", and a lot of normal Pinays were on the site.
If anyone knows the name, could they please share. I am finding it difficult to find a Pinay with big tits.[/QUOTE]I simply ask them if they were BORN A WOMAN!!! Most of them don't have a problem with asking. I never ask if they are a real woman or a woman because most Ladyboys & Shemales think they are REAL woman.
I thought this was funny. I placed a not on my DIA profile no Ladyboys or Gays. A Shemale sent me a note and I told them to read my profile. They came back and said I mentioned Ladyboys and Gays but I didn't specify Shemales LOL.
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Craigs List
Ok sometimes I liike to peruse who is offereing what and the levels of creativity that young female writers use to basically state they will accept $$ for sex.
Lately some ladies is clearly trying to stave off the effect of recession (or maybe create one) by stating amazing prices. I. E. P5000 for 2 hours etc.
Was in email contact with one young lady claiming to be a student, who I wanted to massage me and my lady friend and then join us in the sack. The sweet thing sent pics and said she would "accept " (not request) P 7500 for 2 hours and I would also have pay her travelling costs.
I told her to consider taking an Economics course majoring in Supply and Demand.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]
Lately some ladies is clearly trying to stave off the effect of recession (or maybe create one) by stating amazing prices. I. E. P5000 for 2 hours etc.[/QUOTE]
I also have had some silly price quotes from CL list girls, often holding out for P5T ST and making out that they are worth it because they are good girls that have never done it for money before. Yeah..well sure, and I’ve taken a vow of lifelong celibacy:). One girl said that she wouldn’t do it for less than 5 thou, as she made nearly that much on a photo shoot at her day job as a fashion model! Admittedly she did look rather tasty in the picture she sent, although how was I to know that the photo was genuine?
Has anyone tried girls from one of the escort sites? Was offered the full monty by this girl for P2500 all-in ST. She don’t look at all half bad and I might have being tempted if I could be assured that the photo was genuine and she really did look like this. Price is still a bit steep though!
Mind you with my overflowing little black book of CP contacts together with occasional mall/LA Cafe forays and tagged/DIA ladies on the go it must only be that perverse need for variety and the old adrenalin punch that it offers, that tempts me down this particular avenue.
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[QUOTE=Robbaf]I don't know who this guy is in DIA, but he is a loser. He messaged the girl that I met from Manila and told her about my post and how he wanted the same thing. WTF. Can you not get your own women?? You are a Fucking loser. I hope that we never get to meet in person. This site is for men to help others meet ladies, not to tell ladies that you saw them here and want the same.
Triple X:
Gender: Male
Age: 38
Country: Canada
State / Region: British colombia
City: Vancouver
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White)
Appearance: Attractive
Height: 179 cm (5'10")
Weight: 38 kg (84 lbs)
Eye color: Green
Hair color: Brown
Education: University - Graduated
Occupation: Import/export.
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: I'll tell you later
Born in the year of: I'll tell you later
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Not willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: Non smoker
Drinking: Non drinker[/QUOTE]I read your report about Cebu. And then checked out the DIA loser.
I work in another Asian country (see board reports and you will see where) and whenever I used to make a report about a freebie I've found, ten guys would crawl out the woodwork send me PM's for deails, and all assume if I pass them the phone number that they could score, just by dialling the number.
I don't post such reports any more as who needs or wants to deal with such parasites.
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Keeping Shit On The Low
[QUOTE=Robbaf]
I don't know who this guy is in DIA, but he is a loser. He messaged the girl that I met from Manila and told her about my post and how he wanted the same thing. WTF. Can you not get your own women?? You are a Fucking loser. I hope that we never get to meet in person. This site is for men to help others meet ladies, not to tell ladies that you saw them here and want the same. [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]I read your report about Cebu. And then checked out the DIA loser.
I work in another Asian country (see board reports and you will see where) and whenever I used to make a report about a freebie I've found, ten guys would crawl out the woodwork send me PM's for deails, and all assume if I pass them the phone number that they could score, just by dialling the number.
I don't post such reports any more as who needs or wants to deal with such parasites. [/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=on+the+low[/url]
Freebie with all due respect to you and Robbaf not showing the girls whole face or an/giving an identifying mark would solve this problem. I don't show girls entire face's (unless it comes out blurry hard to see anyway) on ISG no matter Pro or non Pro unless they are in a dancing bar. Two reasons I would hate for their family to see them and second you never know who is out there who will find this girl just to find you as I take their number ( and I am sure a lot of you guys do too) and usually they take mine but the good thing its so easy here just to buy another SIM.
[QUOTE=John Aldrich]Dear Bulai 69 and other senior mongers. Just want to share a small note of caution to all. Please, I repeat please, do not share any contact details with anyone who has very few postings or no postings or postings which ask just for questions without any contribution.
I have had one bad incident. I had very " innocently" given the details of a contact to guy who had asked for it in the Thai forum after I shared my contacts. I did not read all his reports. He hardly had a few reports. And all his reports were just questions. And this was one of those contacts who was not someone available at Siloam or Sukhimvit area in the go go bars. But a free lancer girl studying in a university and needed money for her fees. Whenever I went to Thailand we used to be literally dating each other. And it was with her permission that I gave the number.
There was this LE who was hovering around and took the contact and asked her to meet at Hotel Elizabeth in Bangkok, which she promptly did. He probed her as to how long she was in the trade etc. And finally sprang a surprise and told her she was under arrest. And this, of all the places in Bangkok. She was taken to the police station and threatened that she needs to pay up some huge money since she has been in the trade without paying them off. And if she does not pay, her fine could be just about some Thai Baht 5,000 but she will have her picture splashed all over the news papers with a news item. That was being ruthless.
She was not a regular. And finally, after 2 days in the coolers and pleading a lot, she was told that they wil hook her up to a guy who was a pimp and that he will get her the clients and she needs to pay up the amount for her past mistake of not paying the cops and remaining in the business. The bribe they were asking was Thai Baht 50,000. It got reduced to Thai Baht 35,000. Finally she contacted another Bule regular of hers and he paid up that money. And from then on, a random check is being done on her and being warned that if she entertains a client, then she needs to pay up. Apparently, the calls have reduced now to about 1 in 20 days.
I would suggest that in case you have not picked up a girl from the regular mongering joints, then please avoid giving the contact details to any guy who has very little or no posts. And if there are very little posts, then, please go through the contents of the posts, to check the quality of his contribution. Am sure you will be able to ascertain it from there whether he is a regular or not and whether its worth sharing the contact.
I thought, this is applicable in most parts of the developing world and hence decided to post it here.
And Bulai 69, thanks for the contact last time. She came with her friend. And all went well and we had a whale of a time[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Robbaf] I don't know who this guy is in DIA, but he is a loser…You are a Fucking loser. I hope that we never get to meet in person.
Height: 179 cm (5'10")
Weight: 38 kg (84 lbs)
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Sure must be one long, straggly, piece of [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] if height/weight figures are correct.
Surprised that you hope to NEVER get to meet him in person. I would have thought the opposite would be desired!
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[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Sure must be one long, straggly, piece of [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] if height/weight figures are correct.
Surprised that you hope to NEVER get to meet him in person. I would have thought the opposite would be desired![/QUOTE]When I posted that I was mad as hell and I said that I hope that we never get to meet, as in I pity you if we ever get to meet. I almost thought about having the girl meet the guy and her texting me when she was in the room.:D
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[QUOTE=Illogic][url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=on+the+low[/url]
Freebie with all due respect to you and Robbaf not showing the girls whole face or an/giving an identifying mark would solve this problem. I don't show girls entire face's (unless it comes out blurry hard to see anyway) on ISG no matter Pro or non Pro unless they are in a dancing bar. Two reasons I would hate for their family to see them and second you never know who is out there who will find this girl just to find you as I take their number ( and I am sure a lot of you guys do too) and usually they take mine but the good thing its so easy here just to buy another SIM.[/QUOTE]
I didn't post pictures that I took of her, it was her DIA picture. He tracked her down on DIA. I agree with what you are saying.
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[QUOTE=Illogic][url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=729462&postcount=117[/url]
I dragged this from the Comments On Site Rules Section as I thought it pertained to the discussion here.
This is the problem with posting photos. These are real fucking people this is not a movie. There are some crazy mother-fuckers on this site. Now Ezinho I applaud you on being a tough guy ( I consider myself one as well) and telling this guy to curve but the problem you don't know who he is. I am sure though through this girl he knows who you are. You will return to Angeles and when you are out bar hopping you never know if this guy will pop out of the wood works with the sucker punch, his buddies or at worse a weapon.
[url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=curve[/url][/QUOTE]
With all due respect, my post that you quoted is over a year old. And it was regarding a photo I had posted in the photo gallery for Ecuador, a completely different country; hell, a completely different continent!
What happened was, I ended up sending Jackson a PM and I asked him to remove the girl's photo. Jackson removed the photo the next day and the ISG member sent me a PM to thank me for taking the picture down. So, who's the "crazy mother-fucker" in this situation?
As someone who actually was attacked in Angeles City, I would say the thugs hanging out in the streets late at night are much more dangerous than any anonymous member of the ISG.
And as far as complaints about showing girl's faces, this is an issue that you guys should bring up with Jackson, since he is the administrator of this site and he makes the rules. Myself and others who post photos are just following the rules of the ISG.
I can't comment on this DIA thing as I don't know what it is. Anyways, I'd rather fuck filipinas than chat with them online.
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The ethics of the posting photos
[QUOTE=Ezinho] So, who's the "crazy mother-fucker" in this situation?[/QUOTE]
Makes you wonder doesn’t it?
Way I see it, ISG is a closed member only community, and no one except subscription paid members should get to view any photos posted here, Admittedly you will still get the very rare instances, as in your case, where a fellow senior member will object to another members photos.
Another scenario is when a member willfully shows photo’s to the girl in question. Assholes like this do unfortunately exist here. They are normally of the sad and envious wanker type who ought to get out more! This is the case of Robbaf’s beanpole man.
A third, even rarer category, is girls who have taken out membership or had it bought for them by an ISG member. These are as rare as a virgin in an AC bar, so can probably be discounted, but they do exist.
The idea that a family member of one of the girls pictured, getting to see her photos is, I imagine, fairly preposterous.
The only way around this situation is for all of the photo galleries to be taken down. In this case I reckon ISG would immediately lose a fair proportion of its paying membership and be a much less interesting place. I don’t suppose Jackson would be a very happy teddy bear;).
Very few ISG members have an agenda against the photo galleries, and it makes one wonder at the raison d'être and motivation of those who do. However I’ll bet it does not stop them drooling over the photos in the galleries although they themselves will never be able to contribute anything worthwhile. Perhaps this is part of the problem.
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No Complaints Bruh
[QUOTE=Ezinho] With all due respect, my post that you quoted is over a year old. And it was regarding a photo I had posted in the photo gallery for Ecuador, a completely different country; hell, a completely different continent! [/QUOTE]
Got you.
[QUOTE=Ezinho]What happened was, I ended up sending Jackson a PM and I asked him to remove the girl's photo. Jackson removed the photo the next day and the ISG member sent me a PM to thank me for taking the picture down. So, who's the "crazy mother-fucker" in this situation?[/QUOTE]
Well I have heard more then your story of guys getting threatened over photos as one man's ***** is another man's wife/girlfriend etc....
[QUOTE=Ezinho]As someone who actually was attacked in Angeles City, I would say the thugs hanging out in the streets late at night are much more dangerous than any anonymous member of the ISG.[/QUOTE]
There was a guy I read about who was sucker punched in the face in Angeles by another expat and he had no idea why.
[QUOTE=Ezinho]And as far as complaints about showing girl's faces, this is an issue that you guys should bring up with Jackson, since he is the administrator of this site and he makes the rules. Myself and others who post photos are just following the rules of the ISG.
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Nah no complaints from me I saw a post about guys complaining about guys telling girls they saw them here and I thought that would be a way to avoid it or other potential trouble.
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Way I see it, ISG is a closed member only community, and no one except subscription paid members should get to view any photos posted here, Admittedly you will still get the very rare instances, as in your case, where a fellow senior member will object to another members photos. [/QUOTE]
This is not a closed community but the world wide web.
I can't remember how the hell I found ISG but I know I was not looking for it.
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OK paradigms apart!
[QUOTE=Illogic]
This is not a closed community but the world wide web.
I can't remember how the hell I found ISG but I know I was not looking for it.[/QUOTE]
Yes, but the point is was you able to view photos? Surely only a hacker would be able to do this without paying subs/achieving senior member status:).
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]... whenever I used to make a report about a freebie I've found, ten guys would crawl out the woodwork send me PM's for deails, and all assume if I pass them the phone number that they could score, just by dialling the number.
I don't post such reports any more as who needs or wants to deal with such parasites.[/QUOTE]FF I've experienced the 'me too' mentality also. Frankly the thought of 'going sloppy seconds' turns my stomach. Maybe the guys doing it just PM reflexively with out thought.. I just politely PM the guys back to go get there own girl in as light hearted way as possible without causing offence.
AV
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A little tact
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Yes, but the point is was you able to view photos? Surely only a hacker would be able to do this without paying subs/achieving senior member status:).[/QUOTE]Well, CS I've always relied on the fact that only members can see pics & assumed its ok to post pics.
I have however been on the receiving end of howls of protest by that ironic breed of 'mongers with morals' from time to time. So you can't please everybody..
I think i would observe a little tact & not knowingly post if a fellow monger had subsequently 'bought' one of my ex short term rentals.
AV
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One of the reasons that I have almost completely stopped posting on my thread in the Peru forum is because some asshole who I set up with a cutie not only showed her ISG, but showed her my thread and told her what my ISG handle is. This information has now made the rounds and continues to make its way to more and more chicas in Lima.
A couple of years ago, I posted some pics of a girl on the Colombia forum, eyes and jewelry blacked out. She was from a fairly small town. This fact not withstanding, within two days I had her messaging me in a panic begging me to take down the photos. Somebody had somehow recognized her and was ruining her reputation in the pueblo.
This is a recurring theme on ISG. The fact that some losers think they will gain some sort of cachet by showing the forum to girls is pitiful.
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The spoilers
Salutary story, David but unfortunately that is the nature of the beast. Boards such as this will always attract more than its fair share of saddo, ‘get a life’ types who get their nasty, green eyed, little kicks by spoiling the fun for everyone else.
Simply from reading the tone of the posts, on various forums, of certain members, you just know that they would take great delight in pissing on the cornflakes of other members.
It’s a real pisser but what can you do?
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That sucks
[QUOTE=David_33]One of the reasons that I have almost completely stopped posting on my thread in the Peru forum is because some asshole who I set up with a cutie not only showed her ISG, but showed her my thread and told her what my ISG handle is. This information has now made the rounds and continues to make its way to more and more chicas in Lima.
A couple of years ago, I posted some pics of a girl on the Colombia forum, eyes and jewelry blacked out. She was from a fairly small town. This fact not withstanding, within two days I had her messaging me in a panic begging me to take down the photos. Somebody had somehow recognized her and was ruining her reputation in the pueblo.
This is a recurring theme on ISG. The fact that some losers think they will gain some sort of cachet by showing the forum to girls is pitiful.[/QUOTE]Yes sadly there are trolls & losers lurking all over the internet. I know how you must feel, I recall about two years ago some body who goes by the ISG handle 'X-man' searching for my profile on Cherry Blossoms web site & then revealing my info on ISG. This may have potentially caused me great harm but fortunately, in that instance it did not.
I cant see the point of posting heavily censored pics, anonymous body parts hold no interest for me. I can understand why guys might give up & not post at all.
I have received many PM's from good guy's on ISG wanting to meet up for a beer but always politely declined. The reason being that I have always kept a strict quarantine between my mongering life & my non-mongering life. This way if I post a pic, no-one knows who posted it, & presumably, no-one knows it was posted, except those I share it with here.
If it comes to the day that I am recognised simply because I am frequenting the same mongering location so often as many ISG'ers then its probably time for me to hang up the Cialis, for awhile ;)
AV
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Dancing With The Devil
[QUOTE=David_33]One of the reasons that I have almost completely stopped posting on my thread in the Peru forum is because some asshole who I set up with a cutie not only showed her ISG, but showed her my thread and told her what my ISG handle is. This information has now made the rounds and continues to make its way to more and more chicas in Lima.
A couple of years ago, I posted some pics of a girl on the Colombia forum, eyes and jewelry blacked out. She was from a fairly small town. This fact not withstanding, within two days I had her messaging me in a panic begging me to take down the photos. Somebody had somehow recognized her and was ruining her reputation in the pueblo.
This is a recurring theme on ISG. The fact that some losers think they will gain some sort of cachet by showing the forum to girls is pitiful.[/QUOTE]
David thats a got damn shame. I always enjoyed your posts and because of your reports have been trying to put together a trip to South America/Peru when my schedule allows.
I have a fairly young mongering buddy who lives in Metro Manila and I asked him why he never posted photos and he simply said photos mean “evidence” and he left it at that
I mean I agree with Cunning Stunt 100% if there were no photos the forums would be boring but I have said time and time again if you dance with the Devil be prepared to dance around the flames.
[QUOTE=Amavida]I have received many PM's from good guy's on ISG wanting to meet up for a beer but always politely declined. The reason being that I have always kept a strict quarantine between my mongering life & my non-mongering life. This way if I post a pic, no-one knows who posted it, & presumably, no-one knows it was posted, except those I share it with here.
AV[/QUOTE]
I never give guys I meet off these forums my real name.
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Always Wary...
I'm with AV on this. I get many requests, most I'm sure from genuinely good guys here, requesting to meet for a beer when they're here in Davao. Most of the time I decline, I hope politely, since there's no way to differentiate between the good guys and those who are---how to put this kindly--less responsible. There are indeed some very strange creatures lurking in the outer realms of cyber space, and you're never sure when you might meet one.
In my early days on ISG, I would meet gladly with anyone who asked, but I've been bitten because of my naiveté, and now I try to make sure it's not ever going to happen again. I even had one guy who was baffled as to why I would not let him stay at my house and why I refused to introduce him to the wife of my best friend. Others, who have contributed absolutely nothing to this site, have requested me to fix them up with women. So now I protect my anonymity and by doing so, I've probably missed the opportunity to meet some truly interesting people, but so be it.
GE
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[QUOTE=David_33]One of the reasons that I have almost completely stopped posting on my thread in the Peru forum is because some asshole who I set up with a cutie not only showed her ISG, but showed her my thread and told her what my ISG handle is.
This is a recurring theme on ISG. The fact that some losers think they will gain some sort of cachet by showing the forum to girls is pitiful.[/QUOTE]
David
Not only in Asia and South America. Had same experience in the UAE when some toad decided to show a CIS girl (the one and only, and it will be the last trust me) my FR and handle. Never found out who it was, and surprisingly he never owned up...but I got a series of threatening and abusive phone calls for about a week.
This sort of stuff happens unfortunately as some guys cant get it up themselves IMHO and like to ruin for those who can
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Vigilant
I agree with the direction of the last threads. but I can assure you that your report and response does help plan a visit. It is also fun to share our experience. Despite good intention though everybody has to be vigilant at both end of the tunnel. Not everybody can see the world the same way. Some does it voluntary ( spoiling) others are not understanding the repercussions of their decision and are trying to profit of the context. I guess what I am saying is that common sense more prevail. It is preferable to hide or blur the face of the lady in my opinion if you post here the picture so all party are protected unless you are 100% sure they will never see it(and judging by our friend in Peru this to prove wrong).
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I met a few board members back in 2004 when I used to hook them up with chicks in the red light districts of Seoul (of course, it was my 'work' and I got a commission) and wow, I never had any of the weird experiences like you guys.
All the guys I met were very 'normal'. Just regular business guys who were in town for a bit who needed a 'local' to show them around and get them girls who provided good service at the local rate!
I guess I'll be careful in the future, though I never did use my real name when I met board members (though it is normal to use a nickname when working in the industry, as I was).
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Fh
So I was on the FH website (where I have a Gold membership), and wow, I do get a good response on there, though most of them are not exactly cute. Still, from about the 200+ emails and 'winks' I've rec'd, I've found some gems.
I'm mainly speaking to two of them now. One is 21, and the other is 25.
The 21 year old is really cute, very sexy. We were talking for a while, even doing video chat. She has her own computer, which is good, since it seemed most of the girls chat from work or from a PC cafe. We've made plans to meet up perhaps next month if I can make it out there in time. Funny thing she told me is that on the street, Westerners don't approach her, and it's only Koreans that do so. I wonder why...
The 25 year old is not sexy, but more along the lines of 'beautiful' and 'elegant'. She looks like a pretty, yet pure 'wife' type of girl. I was talking to her on the phone today and she was telling me she's a virgin. Damn! Oh well, but she is very intelligent, probably the smartest I've spoken with, and she's very hard working it seems.
Well, I must say FH has done wonders for my ego. I feel like a stud now, weeding out the nasties from in FH inbox and only contacting those that look somewhat decent. And most of the hot ones I email first do respond back and we chat as well.
Anyway, for those of you actually living out there, you need to get on FH!
DIA is fine as well, but the problem for me is that there is only 1 photo per profile, and almost any girl will have one photo where they look great, but in person look like the Michelin tire man.
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[QUOTE=Byung]
The 21 year old is really cute, very sexy. We were talking for a while, even doing video chat. She has her own computer, which is good, since it seemed most of the girls chat from work or from a PC cafe. We've made plans to meet up perhaps next month if I can make it out there in time. Funny thing she told me is that on the street, Westerners don't approach her, and it's only Koreans that do so. I wonder why...[/QUOTE]Paler & more chinky eyed? Shrugs..
[QUOTE=Byung]Anyway, for those of you actually living out there, you need to get on FH![/QUOTE]Those of us actually living 'out there' need only stand still & wait for them to come to us ;)
[QUOTE=Byung]DIA is fine as well, but the problem for me is that there is only 1 photo per profile, and almost any girl will have one photo where they look great, but in person look like the Michelin tire man.[/QUOTE]Amazing how quickly after graduating from college some turn into Telly Tubbies is'nt it? A word to the wise from an ISG'er who lives here, its often a warning sign that they have had a remittance BF, because often the girls (and their famillies) are too poor to gorge themselves on jollibee.
AV
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[QUOTE=Amavida]FF I've experienced the 'me too' mentality also. Frankly the thought of 'going sloppy seconds' turns my stomach. Maybe the guys doing it just PM reflexively with out thought.. I just politely PM the guys back to go get there own girl in as light hearted way as possible without causing offe[/quote]Yeah I'm with you on this.
Can recall one set of PMs' that went like this.
Me. Ok yes her number is. XXXXXXX
Him. OK what shall I call her
Me. Talk to her and get her name. You asked for a number and I gave you a number. However as you can't do that, her name is Carol.
Him. Ok so how shall I say I got her number.
Me. I have no idea and don't really care. You asked for a number of an ex playmate of mine and I gave it to you. I gave you the name too. Go get creative.
Him. Well I called her she asked me how I got her number. I told her I got it from some guy. She said if I wasnt a white guy she didn't want to see me. You didn't tell me she only has sex with white guys.
Me. Please don't ever waste my time by contacting me again.
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Ha, ha, well I'm glad I got to meet you when you had no scruples!
X
[QUOTE=GoodEnough]I'm with AV on this. I get many requests, most I'm sure from genuinely good guys here, requesting to meet for a beer when they're here in Davao. Most of the time I decline, I hope politely, since there's no way to differentiate between the good guys and those who are---how to put this kindly--less responsible. There are indeed some very strange creatures lurking in the outer realms of cyber space, and you're never sure when you might meet one.
In my early days on ISG, I would meet gladly with anyone who asked, but I've been bitten because of my naiveté, and now I try to make sure it's not ever going to happen again. I even had one guy who was baffled as to why I would not let him stay at my house and why I refused to introduce him to the wife of my best friend. Others, who have contributed absolutely nothing to this site, have requested me to fix them up with women. So now I protect my anonymity and by doing so, I've probably missed the opportunity to meet some truly interesting people, but so be it.
GE[/QUOTE]
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With the exception of the last message from "him", I'm not sure why you find this unusual. I also would have asked those earlier questions. I would have asked partly to protect the guy who gave me the info.
Maybe a completely different situation....
I once planned to meet an ISG guy. We talk on the phone and I ask, "what do I say if someone asks how we met?" He replies, "no one will ask that.". So there I am in a restaurant full of mixed company and one of the first questions was, "How did the two of you meet?".
I'm a terrible liar, so I opt for something very near the truth, "We met online at a travel website. He gave me some great information about abc ...".
X
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Yeah I'm with you on this.
Can recall one set of PMs' that went like this.
Me. Ok yes her number is. XXXXXXX
Him. OK what shall I call her
Me. Talk to her and get her name. You asked for a number and I gave you a number. However as you can't do that, her name is Carol.
Him. Ok so how shall I say I got her number.
Me. I have no idea and don't really care. You asked for a number of an ex playmate of mine and I gave it to you. I gave you the name too. Go get creative.
Him. Well I called her she asked me how I got her number. I told her I got it from some guy. She said if I wasnt a white guy she didn't want to see me. You didn't tell me she only has sex with white guys.
Me. Please don't ever waste my time by contacting me again.[/QUOTE]
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Up until my last visit I used Cherry blossom, but this time I used DIA.
DIA requires a followup with cam, but I met only a few that way. Too busy. As Byung says, the one pic on DIA is probably the best they have.
You might make better use of your time with a subscription to FH or CB, even if it's only one month.
I met four from DIA and one turned out to be absolutely fantastic. On turned out to be expensive to meet and ungrateful for her free few hours out. One turned out to be shy, and showed up in a nurse student uniform. One just turned my stomach.
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[QUOTE=Byung]
DIA is fine as well, but the problem for me is that there is only 1 photo per profile, and almost any girl will have one photo where they look great, but in person look like the Michelin tire man.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=GoodEnough]So now I protect my anonymity and by doing so, I've probably missed the opportunity to meet some truly interesting people, but so be it. GE[/QUOTE]
GE it's hard to protect your anonymity when I sit next to you in an airport for two hours then three hours after that I turn around and I am sitting next to you in a far away place that will remain nameless....
Sorry to miss you in MNL this past weekend had a blast still trying to sort it out and get a report going.....
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Interesting post, especially since someone recently criticized me (pm)for posting "bullshit" on the PI threads, but bery bery little on the Japanese thread. ( a member of the X Man fan club)
The first time I posted pic on Japan thread it was PG rated hot chicks on the beach. I got slammed online by some guy saying it could be "my daughter" and I was a "stalker", etc..
I also had some PI ISG x-rated pics get turned in by some guy who happened to know the gal. He was especially angry because I had used a "secret camera" which of course is what the girl told him. I was tempted to show the whole set which included night activities as well as fun at the beach....damn good CIA agent I must be.
When I post pics I never give names, nor locations.
X
[QUOTE=Wicked Roger]David
Not only in Asia and South America. Had same experience in the UAE when some toad decided to show a CIS girl (the one and only, and it will be the last trust me) my FR and handle. Never found out who it was, and surprisingly he never owned up...but I got a series of threatening and abusive phone calls for about a week.
This sort of stuff happens unfortunately as some guys cant get it up themselves IMHO and like to ruin for those who can[/QUOTE]
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First time DIA/Philippines
Hello fellow ISGers,
Being a long time lurker and first time poster, I would like to post my experiences in DIA.
On my first trip to Philippines and after dutifully reading as much as possible from the threads, I followed your advice and opened an account in DIA. Just showing up was enough to get lots of messages (all ages, lots of countries, a fair share of ladyboys) that required a bit of filtering. I also mailed a few of the cuties and among them appeared what seemed to be a truly unpolished gem from Mindanao, 20 years old and university student. I am under 35 so I was happy with the age difference.
What follows now is a story of a not too elaborated scam but one certainly well paced and smoothly performed.
Long smart talk ensued, nice stories, that came from a seemingly open minded person. I performed most of the checks proposed in the forums, ym followup, cam, other boyfriends or not, own laptop, tuition and boarding house payed by family, double checking background and education, traveling abroad. All passed with marks.
After two weeks, we had agreed on meeting for a week of island hopping. She insisted on booking two rooms, something that should have rung a bell but actually was arousing for me as it implied a sense of modesty. I must say I was starting to fall for her.
During our chats an issue seemed to surface, she had some problems getting the university transcript. Apparently something was wrong with her birth certificate. She was solving it but it was an annoying bureaucratic hurdle.
A week later she said that she could not come on the agreed date but one day later as she was solving those legal issues with the city hall and the university.
After one more week of sweet talks of beautiful nights by the sea, she said she could not meet me as the legal issue was stuck and she needed to be there. The lawyer she had contracted was far too expensive. She said she could not see me and that she had to give back the laptop, her family had payed a lot already.
Her future was at stake and she had to do it. Obvious question: how much is the lawyer? Straightforward answer 25.000 PHP.
I thank the board for the enlightment. I had been scamed for 4 weeks.
To be honest I am quite pragmatic. 3 nights at Marriott in Hong Kong is more or less the same, and out of 35 days in HKG and Philippines is not a big deal. On the other hand I don't care about what kind of bullshit they tell me in order to save face. I don't care what appears on the "bill", water buffalo, cousin on hospital. If is easier for the girls to lie than a straightforward sex deal then let it be. I don't care if she is a student or not as long as I believe it.
What made me angry is that no goods were going to be provided and that I had been treated as a sucker for so long. I could pay a girl's holiday and had no sex with her, I could pay a "water buffalo" and have a beautiful night. Something I cannot accept is what this girl (or whatever she is) was doing to me.
Don't be too rought with me I am still in the "could it be true" phase.
For all the other not so hard skinned board members: plan A, plan B, plan C. F3, and never give any money before you get there. Remember that they could pass all the tests as they also know about them.
I am not letting her know I am aware of her dealings. As some people on the board have suggested the less they know about us discovering their tricks the less they will improve their tactics.
Kudos to the board,
T
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[QUOTE=Trajano]Hello fellow ISGers,
Being a long time lurker and first time poster, I would like to post my experiences in DIA.
Don't be too rought with me I am still in the "could it be true" phase.
For all the other not so hard skinned board members: plan A, plan B, plan C. F3, and never give any money before you get there. Remember that they could pass all the tests as they also know about them.
I am not letting her know I am aware of her dealings. As some people on the board have suggested the less they know about us discovering their tricks the less they will improve their tactics.
Kudos to the board,
T[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear about your experience and I hope that you will find another Filipina and then another:D
After being here for awhile I can see where the girls learn this type of behavior. I have met so many girls who told me stories of guys who just meet and screw the girls, promise the world and are gone the next day. We teach them how to take advantage of us. I understand not all girls are like that, but if you read a lot of the ad's on DIA, who will find things like, "Don't ask me to get naked on Cam!!" and girls tell me that is because on the first chat guys start the wow baby get naked for me.
Here is one that I found on Craigslist:
First Post:
Like a virgin - w4m - 24 (Alabang)
I can't believe I'm doing this. Desperate times call for desperate measures, they say.
I'm a pretty and pretty sexy 24 year old girl. I haven't been touched by a man (or woman) for 4 years now since I broke up with my first boyfriend. My friends tease me that makes me like a virgin again.
Here goes. I'm selling my like-a-virginity for P35,000. Just please don't give me any disease or hurt me. Please don't reply if you're just curious or want to see my photo. Serious offers only.
Second Post:
please don't be rude to me - w4m - 24 (Alabang)
Below is one of the rude emails I received. This is adressed to all you people out there reading ads. Please do not reply to an ad if it does not strike your fancy or you have nothing better to do than torment another soul. Please do not verbally abuse me. I have done nothing to you. I cannot defend myself from you. Or if you're just trying to get my photo but have no intention of closing the deal, please don't write me. It's hard enough to do something like this. Apparently a lot of other women are here to give you what you want/need so please write me only if you are serious about an offer. Thank you.
-----------Original Message-------------
Subject: re: Like a virgin - w4m - 24 (Alabang)
From: Daniel Richardson ( hotmail.com)
hahaha, u r funny ... tourists are stupid, but not 35000peso stupid .... no one will pay that for a pinay ***** pretending to be a 'born again' virgin.
i will offer you 500peso for 3 hours and I go in all three of your holes ... and you better shave that hairy pussy before hand, or only 300peso for you .... not ONE peso more
[url]http://manila.craigslist.com.ph/cas/1322546925.html[/url]
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[QUOTE=Trajano]Hello fellow ISGers,
T[/QUOTE]
So dude,,did you send the dough? I replied to all the ladies from Pattaya and Angeles. The replies were too funny. Not a hooker among them.
You should not have made big plans. Keep it simple. Don't promise them anything worthwhile in advance. Otherwise, you are already losing.
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Anyone else experience this?
I was on FH yesterday and messaged a girl on there who looked super hot and cute. I sent her my yahoo ID, and I was added to her list about 30 minutes later. We then start chatting, and she asks to cam with me, and I agree.
Well, what the fuck? The chick was not the one in the photos at all, not even closely resembling her, and was probably a good 50 lbs (about 22 kg) overweight. I chatted with her for about three minutes and blocked her.
What the hell do these girls think they're doing? Totally retarded and.. eww, this one was so disgusting. Ugh, I almost vomited.
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[QUOTE=Byung]I was on FH yesterday and messaged a girl on there who looked super hot and cute. I sent her my yahoo ID, and I was added to her list about 30 minutes later. We then start chatting, and she asks to cam with me, and I agree.
Well, what the fuck? The chick was not the one in the photos at all, not even closely resembling her, and was probably a good 50 lbs (about 22 kg) overweight. I chatted with her for about three minutes and blocked her.
What the hell do these girls think they're doing? Totally retarded and. Eww, this one was so disgusting. Ugh, I almost vomited.[/QUOTE]Sadly this is quite normal in a number of sites. If you call the girl on it she will say she didn't have her own pic so " borrowed" a friends etc. Always some lame excuse. Don't worry. Move onto the next one. Remember, its like fishing. Can't get a great catch every time.
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[QUOTE=Robbaf]Sorry to hear about your experience and I hope that you will find another Filipina and then another:D
Here is one that I found on Craigslist:
First Post:
Like a virgin - w4m - 24 (Alabang)
I can't believe I'm doing this. Desperate times call for desperate measures, they say.
I'm a pretty and pretty sexy 24 year old girl. I haven't been touched by a man (or woman) for 4 years now since I broke up with my first boyfriend. My friends tease me that makes me like a virgin again.
Here goes. I'm selling my like-a-virginity for P35,000. Just please don't give me any disease or hurt me. Please don't reply if you're just curious or want to see my photo. Serious offers only.
Second Post:
please don't be rude to me - w4m - 24 (Alabang)
Below is one of the rude emails I received. This is adressed to all you people out there reading ads. Please do not reply to an ad if it does not strike your fancy or you have nothing better to do than torment another soul. Please do not verbally abuse me. I have done nothing to you. I cannot defend myself from you. Or if you're just trying to get my photo but have no intention of closing the deal, please don't write me. It's hard enough to do something like this. Apparently a lot of other women are here to give you what you want/need so please write me only if you are serious about an offer. Thank you.
-----------Original Message-------------
Subject: re: Like a virgin - w4m - 24 (Alabang)
From: Daniel Richardson ( hotmail.com)
hahaha, u r funny ... tourists are stupid, but not 35000peso stupid .... no one will pay that for a pinay ***** pretending to be a 'born again' virgin.
i will offer you 500peso for 3 hours and I go in all three of your holes ... and you better shave that hairy pussy before hand, or only 300peso for you .... not ONE peso more
[url]http://manila.craigslist.com.ph/cas/1322546925.html[/url][/QUOTE]Yeah I saw that one too. And the thought that crossed my mind, was how the hell would anyone know whether she was even remotely serious. A very strange add. But you are right, we've conditioned some of these ladies to expect us to pay. But 35k. Damn I could get 35 girls for that.
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[QUOTE=The Departed]So dude,,did you send the dough? I replied to all the ladies from Pattaya and Angeles. The replies were too funny. Not a hooker among them.
You should not have made big plans. Keep it simple. Don't promise them anything worthwhile in advance. Otherwise, you are already losing.[/QUOTE]I didn't send any money. Thanks for the interest. That was the obvious red line.
In fact I haven't arrived yet to Philippines and have a few cuties lined up. No more money asked so far.
T
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cherry girls
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Yeah I saw that one too. And the thought that crossed my mind, was how the hell would anyone know whether she was even remotely serious. A very strange add. But you are right, we've conditioned some of these ladies to expect us to pay. But 35k. Damn I could get 35 girls for that.[/QUOTE]
You do have the cherry girls in Angeles. Not my bag.
I am doing DIA. It is a hoot. The only honest ones are the grandmothers and even there one wouldn't know.
I recognise some of the mug shots from the erotic services section of Craigslist.
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DIA: whiterabbit (in AC)
A good example of why you should have numerous contacts and alternative plans.
She looks good in pic, and was very nice in communcation. Works at the Irish pub. She said she would take time off of work and show me around...possibly travel. I didn't take her up on the offer, but she was on the top of "things to do" list.
When I text her from Manila, she doesn't know who I am. I get to AC and she says she's just gone off to Subic Bay (no details). Later, she oddly amends it to "seeing a cousin in Olongapo". As you might expect, I find other things to do in AC.
Upon her return, she sends me a text. I suggest lunch. She says she has plans, but will contact me later for a possible later meeting. It doesn't happen, she texts me very late suggesting I have breakfast at Shano's so that I can meet her. I ignore the text and basically give up on this one.
As I'm sitting in the Clark terminal for my flight to Cebu, I get a text which basically says that X Man was wrong to think that she was THAT type of girl, blah, blah, blah, X Man must be the jealous type to think what he was thinking, blah, blah, blah.
It's funny how they will give you such short messages when they apparently like you, but somehow have advanced discourse skills when they want to diss you.
Anyone had better luck with this cute, but loopy Filipina?
X
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DIA: highness
H: It's too far.
X: How far is it?
H: 30 minutes
X: Can we meet tonight?
(no reply....30 minutes is apparently too far!)
DIA: star's
Sexy pic, suggests she'll meet me, says she'll take me to the beach....
Reality....she asks me to get on a bus to meet her in some town no where near a beach, and, oh, btw, she is a student and has classes in afternoon and evening.
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Dia
DIA: kcdurano (in AC)
Get to Candy bar early...a stunner who get's bfined early.
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[QUOTE=X Man]DIA: whiterabbit (in AC)
A good example of why you should have numerous contacts and alternative plans.
Anyone had better luck with this cute, but loopy Filipina?
X[/QUOTE]
I asker in June if she wanted to get together with me, she replied with her cell number.
next email, I asked for her yahoo and she sent it.
I never folled up on it.
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[QUOTE=X Man]DIA: kcdurano (in AC)
Get to Candy bar early...a stunner who get's bfined early.[/QUOTE]
X, the profile is gone:(
Also, tried to PM, your box is full!
Robb
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AC dia girl
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=8a91e21e-0903-4aa6-9754-bbda0e61e349[/url]
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Beware of Scammers! ...but at least some comedy in this thread. and maybe some hope.
Since joining FH, I've chatted up a lot of girls. To date, in about a one month period, I have over 300 messages in my inbox and hundreds of 'interest' indicators. I chat up the ones who are a 7 and above in terms of looks.
Out of all of them, I've met quite a few 'scammers'. As in, girls who want money. One chick wanted me to send her close to 3,000 PHP to buy a webcam so she could chat with me. She had great pictures though, of a hot Filipina with a slim figure and huge knockers. She had no money to visit a PC cafe to use their cam (of course, she had her own personal computer at home), so she wanted me to wire her money via Xoom. I then agreed to do it (not that I would), and she gave me her name, address, and details on how to create an account. Then she told me she needed money to pay for the fare to pick up the money. LOL! So I notified FH about her and they deleted her profile. She then sent me a Yahoo message, upset that I was responsible for her deleted profile.
Then there's another girl, a virgin from Cebu who on our first chat stated she needed approximately 12,000 PHP to pay for her tuition or something that would allow her to graduate. She had a deadline of last Tuesday, and I told her I couldn't help her. She said she understands. Come Tuesday, she said she was able to get an extension until Friday. Naturally, on Thursday, she asked me for money again, saying she'd scrounged up enough money and now only needed 3,000 PHP. I again told her no, and haven't heard from her since.
...and there are the others, but I won't get into it here.
Then there's one girl, who looks extremely beautiful. She looks somewhat Chinese/Korean, and is slim with a nice rack which complements her pretty face. I was camming with her, and she really is hot. I even chatted her up on the phone. Well, anyway, during the course of our several-day-relationship, she would have to say "I have to go, I have no more load in my pre-pay internet kit"...
She would tell me how it costs her 60 PHP per hour to talk to me, so she wanted to save her 'load' so she can talk to me everyday. She said it cost $50 USD (she didn't even quote pesos) to pay for her monthly internet if she were to get an unlimited free service.
Anyway, that was only a small part of the conversation. We would usually talk to each other about other things, and she was telling me how she was already in love with me, and how she dreamed of our life together, and how she would be a great wife... handling all the household chores and taking care of me.
Of course, eventually came time to sign off because she had no load in her pre-paid internet kit. So finally she then asked if I'd be willing to help her out. I told her I wish I could, but I couldn't. I told her my brother lived in Davao with his Filipina wife (scammer lives in Mindanao) and I could ask him to help her out. She kept saying that she'd rather me help her out personally, and that she didn't even have enough load in her phone to make outgoing calls to talk to them. I told her not to worry and that I will figure out a way... she then suggested Western Union.
Anyway, this girl who says she loves me and wants to marry me, doesn't need FH anymore, doesn't even need to look at another guy anymore and all this (all within a few days, WOW!)... then says she has to go offline as her internet-load is low, and that she'll talk to me later. I said okay, and that I'll send her the money in a few hours (yeah, right).
A few hours later, supposedly when she's sleeping, I see her status as online in FH. So I signed onto my Yahoo using an alias, and I just add her. She accepted within two seconds, and we started chatting. Enclosed is the entire transcript of our conversation (by the way, she has no idea what this 'fake person' looks like, so how can I be good looking? LOL. I also made up the name of the archbishop she 'knows', Fernando Martinez, haha.):
**Me**: Hello, are you there?
Scammer: hi
Scammer: hw r u?
**Me**: I'm doing quite good, and yourself?
Scammer: im fine too
Scammer: thank u
**Me**: So, are you a single lady?
Scammer: yes i am
Scammer: very single
Scammer: wat about u?
**Me**: That sounds great. I myself am single.
**Me**: So you have no boyfriend, that's good.
Scammer: great
Scammer: thats good
Scammer: wat r u looking for in a lady?
Scammer: i dont have bf yet
**Me**: Someone who is very honest, caring.
**Me**: And of course, God-fearing.
Scammer: wow thats good
Scammer: i think those qualities in me
Scammer: :">
**Me**: How old do you want your boyfriend to be?
Scammer: age doesnt matter for me
Scammer: as long as the man is serious with me
Scammer: wat about u?
**Me**: I am a little bit old, I think.
Scammer: oh how old r u?
Scammer: ?
Scammer: its fine with me
**Me**: I'm... too old, I think. =(
Scammer: as long as u are a serious man tome
Scammer: oh that doesnt matter to me
Scammer: age doesnt matter wen it comes to love
**Me**: Even 70 years old?
**Me**: I think maybe you are too young for me, now.
Scammer: wel yes as long as the man is sincere and serious to me
**Me**: Okay... because I am kind of old, and I never married or had children, so I saved up so much money now and I want to finally get married and have children, even if I'm old...
Scammer: wow u do
Scammer: i wonder y not
Scammer: with ur looks? hmmp
Scammer: i think ur very handsome'
**Me**: Even if I have lot of money, will you take advantage of me?
Scammer: yes thats a good plan
Scammer: no i wont ever do that
Scammer: im not that kind of woman who will take advantage to anyone
Scammer: im a serious type of person
**Me**: I'm glad to hear that from you.
Scammer: yes ..
Scammer: i fear GOD
Scammer: and i beliv that its a sin to take advantage to other people
**Me**: Yes, even though we think God is not watching us, he really is. And if we take advantage of God's children, he will put us in hell.
**Me**: People who take advantage should go to hell, because they break other people's trust.
**Me**: So I am glad to hear you are not like that.
Scammer: yes of course my parents discipline me so well
Scammer: so we are good children of good
**Me**: Yes. But are you willing to move to USA?
**Me**: I live in Las Vegas. So there are many casinos and sinners here.
Scammer: yes im willing to move
Scammer: and relocate
Scammer: oh hehe i see
Scammer: thats fine
**Me**: Well, if you become a good wife to me, you will inherit a lot of money. =)
**Me**: I know I can only live maybe 10 more years, but after I die, my wife will get more than $7,000,000 dollars.
Scammer: oh really? wel money isnt sop much important
Scammer: i prefer to inheret ur love more
**Me**: Do you think I should leave to church instead? I really want to help spread the word of God.
Scammer: wow thats good
Scammer: wat is ur work?
**Me**: Well, it's a secret, but I used to build casinos.
**Me**: I would own casino for a few years and sell it to someone else.
**Me**: I feel bad, because gambling is a sin.
Scammer: yes u should and i will help u spread words of god
Scammer: oh thats good
**Me**: So that's why I want to give all the money back to church.
Scammer: yes its a sin as long as uplay a lot
**Me**: I want to give everything to the church... my money, my cars, my airplane, my homes...
Scammer: but if we play sometimes
Scammer: its just a pastime
**Me**: That's why I want to find a simple girl who doesn't care about money.
Scammer: oh the church is really fortunate
Scammer: yeah..
Scammer: maybe thats me
**Me**: Yes, the Archbishop is my dear friend.
**Me**: He is a Filipino-American.
Scammer: wow really?
Scammer: whos he?
Scammer: maybe i know him'
**Me**: Yes, well this is in Las Vegas.
**Me**: His name is Fernando.
**Me**: But can I ask you a question; how many boyfriends did you have?
Scammer: wat is his fulname?
Scammer: i have ONCE
Scammer: and been very hurt
Scammer: he cheated me
**Me**: Fernando Martinez is his full name.
Scammer: nw i dont wanna be hurt anymore
**Me**: And you really don't have a boyfriend anymore?
**Me**: You are so pretty, I'm sure you have a good looking young man for a boyfriend.
Scammer: oh yeah i know him
Scammer: he is good man
**Me**: Oh wow, that's great. =)
Scammer: ive heared
Scammer: i dont have bf anymore
**Me**: Wow, even though you are so pretty, you don't have a boyfriend. That is so hard to believe.
Scammer: yeah i dont have
Scammer: y should i lie\
**Me**: It's just difficult to trust people.
Scammer: i am so picky in choosing a man nw
Scammer: cox i dont wanna be hurt anymore
**Me**: This is a personal question, but I must ask: are you a virgin?
Scammer: yeah iunderstand me either
Scammer: but wen u find the true love we ned to trust
Scammer: is it very important to u?
**Me**: It is somewhat important to me, as I need to find a pure woman.
Scammer: oh thats good
Scammer: i am pure
Scammer: i beliv purity is very sacred for GOD
**Me**: So I will be your first man for sex?
Scammer: yes if we have given a chance
Scammer: i beliv that sex is importand before marriage
**Me**: Okay, maybe you are the right one for me.
Scammer: GOD"S word
Scammer: wow thank u for considering me as
Scammer: u right one
**Me**: Yes, I only consider you because you are a virgin, you do not care about money, and you are God-fearing.
**Me**: ...and because you do not have another boyfriend.
Scammer: wow thank u so much
**Me**: Do you think it's possible we can marry next month?
Scammer: yes i dont have another man
**Me**: I can give your parents a dowry of $100,000 to marry you.
Scammer: yes sure if u want too
**Me**: Would you rather $100,000 to church or to your parents? I know God is very important to you.
Scammer: wow thats a lot, wel my parents is not materialistic
Scammer: not necesary to give them but if u wanna help itsok
**Me**: Well, from someone so God-fearing like you and your parents, probably they would rather have it go to church then. That's fine, I will give to the church so we can help people.
Scammer: yes wel my family is very important to me too. i prefer to split it half to church for GOdD and half to my family
Scammer: if u will allow me
**Me**: Oh I see. Yes, I can give your parents $50,000 and $50,000 to church then.
Scammer: yes
**Me**: And I will take your virginity.
**Me**: And I hope to have children with you.
**Me**: I'm not sure if in my old age I can still produce sperm for children, but I hope I can do it.
Scammer: yes sure..
Scammer: wel any u want to have child
**Me**: But, I'm so ashamed, because as much as I love God, I am also a sinner.
Scammer: yes of course god will give u a child
Scammer: cox u r a good person
**Me**: My sin is that I like when woman gives me oral sex. I know it's not good, but I feel like I must have it.
**Me**: I'm so ashamed of myself.
Scammer: yeah but u know GOD sacrificehis love for our sins
**Me**: I'm so ashamed, but can you provide oral sex for me?
Scammer: and im sure GOD will pardon ur sins
**Me**: I really need to find the right girl for this.
Scammer: as long as u repent for ur sins
**Me**: To marry and love.
Scammer: oh wel if u want too
Scammer: y not
**Me**: Is it okay if I finish in your mouth? That is another one of my deep sins.
Scammer: i maybe not the best but i can try harder
Scammer: wow great maybe its me
Scammer: wooohhh..
Scammer: wel i can try
**Me**: I'm so happy to hear that you are willing to do this for me, to possibly be my wife.
Scammer: i can try to
**Me**: Of course, I will only touch you after I marry you.
**Me**: Only after you are my wife I will ask you to do this.
Scammer: yeah sure.
Scammer: u know wen i love a person im wlling to do everything
Scammer: wow thank u
**Me**: I really want to say this first, to let you know beforehand, that I am a sinner, too.
**Me**: If anything you are not okay with, I understand. So I have to tell you all of this now.
Scammer: wel its ok to me
Scammer: i will be here for u
**Me**: After you give me oral sex, sometimes I need to finish onto your face. Sometimes, the devil makes me do these horrible things. But I really must finish and shoot my sperm on your face.
Scammer: even if u are a sinner
Scammer: oh yeah,,wel i can try
**Me**: I spoke with Fernando Gonzalez, the Archbishop about this, and he is praying for me.
Scammer: ilbe willing to if its ur wish
Scammer: but sometimes u must resist the devil
Scammer: wow thats good
**Me**: Okay, so you will give me oral sex and I can finish in your mouth and on your face. That is good to hear. I will try to resist the devil, but sometimes I must do this to you, I'm sorry dear.
Scammer: yeah i understand u..
Scammer: its ok to me
Scammer: no problem
Scammer: do u have a cam?
Scammer: i wanna see u
**Me**: No, I'm sorry but I don't have one. I'm too old, so I never bought a cam.
**Me**: Do you have a cam?
Scammer: oh ok i see
Scammer: i dont have it too
Scammer: by now but im gonna try it for u
Scammer: if u want
**Me**: Can you send me any pictures?
Scammer: yeah sure
Scammer: plsaccept dear.
Scammer: wat is ur screen name in FH?
**Me**: By the way, I would like to send you some money to help you out if you need some.
**Me**: You don't know my name?
Scammer: really? im ashame
**Me**: I thought you knew who I am.
Scammer: i know u DAVID
**Me**: But would you like me to send you some money to help you and your family for now?
Scammer: i knew u but i just want to make sure
**Me**: Do you have any pictures where I can see your whole body? I want to see if your body is good to have children.
Scammer: well im ashamed on u bcox its our frst time to talk
Scammer: and u will give me money?
Scammer: why would u do that?
**Me**: Because I think you will be my wife.
Scammer: well yes sure
**Me**: I only want to send you $1,000.
**Me**: Just to help you a little bit.
Scammer: oh i see thank u for that
Scammer: well its up to u..
Scammer: i also ned to have internet connection so i can chat with u anytime u want
**Me**: Well, if you are ashamed, I understand that.
**Me**: Oh, well how much does the internet connection cost?
**Me**: I can pay for your internet then.
Scammer: thats my full body pic wen im stil on school
Scammer: its just 150dollars in us money dear
**Me**: I'm sorry my dear, but these pictures do not come out so good. They are very blurry, so I cannot see.
Scammer: really? thanks but im shy..
**Me**: Okay, so instead of $1,000, I can just send you $150 for internet. I don't want you to feel ashamed so I understand you.
Scammer: ur anice man and i dont want to take advantage on u
Scammer: oh sorry pls wait dear soon it will be appear clear anytime soon
Scammer: sorry my prepaid kit signal is really slow
Scammer: i wish i can have internet connection
**Me**: I understand.
Scammer: yes of course if u insist
**Me**: I really wish you had a cam so I can see how you look in person. Do you have a neighbor who has a cam?
**Me**: Maybe you can borrow it.
Scammer: thank u in advance but i will assure u i will be faithfull and true to u
Scammer: no dear, i dont have a neighbor with a cam
Scammer: they also dont have a computer
**Me**: Well, I hope these are really pictures of you.
Scammer: its on a net cafe
Scammer: yes its really me.
Scammer: thats me, if u want i can buy a cam tomorow
Scammer: then u can see me on cam'
**Me**: Well, before I send the money, I would like to see you on cam. Just to make sure, I hope you understand.
Scammer: yeah sure.
**Me**: Unfortunately dear, the photos are still blurry.
Scammer: mybe i will try my cam now but this cam dont work for many time
Scammer: times..huhu:((
Scammer: oh so sorry
**Me**: Oh, you have an old cam?
**Me**: Sure, maybe you can try it anyway.
**Me**: Let's see if it works.
Scammer: yes i do have
Scammer: i just pray this will work
Scammer: ok im gonna try this out dear
Scammer: plswait
**Me**: Okay, thank you darling.
Scammer: pls accept the invitation dear
**Me**: Yes, I will accept it now.
Scammer: thank u
Scammer: lets just pray this will work nw
**Me**: Could you please try again?
Scammer: ok deari will
**Me**: It says your cam is not available, unfortunately.
Scammer: oh gosh
Scammer: sorry
Scammer: i ry and try it dear
Scammer: u stil there david?
**Me**: Yes I am. Someday you will call me your husband.
**Me**: Your cam is still not working. That's too bad.
Scammer: yes sure..
Scammer: il be willing too
Scammer: yeah im really sorry
**Me**: I must ask you one more thing.
**Me**: This is the final question that the devil is compelling me to ask you.
Scammer: ok wat is it?
Scammer: ask anything u want dear feel free
**Me**: I know you said I can finish in your mouth or on your face.
Scammer: ok wat is it?
**Me**: But the last thing the devil makes me do is...
Scammer: yes? wat more?
**Me**: I'm so ashamed of this, and to tell you this. You are my future wife...
**Me**: ...but I need to have anal sex with you.
**Me**: Not a lot, just a few times. Once in a while.
Scammer: yeah wat is?
**Me**: After our children are born, I will need to have sex through your anal cavity.
Scammer: oh my..anal sex u mean in the anus?
**Me**: Yes, honey.
Scammer: hmmp we will see.
Scammer: yes its ok as long as u wish
**Me**: But only after the children are born.
Scammer: but not all the time? is it ok to u?
**Me**: Yes, just once a week is fine.
Scammer: yes i understand cox my pussy wil bcome bigger right?
**Me**: I must stick it in your anus, because your vagina will become large. I need to feel it tight.
**Me**: I know it is not right to say this to my future wife, but I must tell the truth, because lying is also a sin.
Scammer: oh ok, how big is urs? hehe im shy to ask u but i must know
**Me**: Dear, my penis is 6 inches.
Scammer: oh ok well its fine
**Me**: It's an average size, nothing too big.
Scammer: i think it will hurt a lot
Scammer: yes we ned to be honest also
**Me**: Yes it will hurt in the beginning, but later it doesn't hurt.
**Me**: Some women enjoy it later.
**Me**: And I will need to finish inside your anus as well.
Scammer: ohyeah i think its big. i dont know how much is long and how much is not
**Me**: Oh yes, because you are a virgin, you don't know what's big, I forgot.
**Me**: Well, don't worry, it's not too big.
Scammer: well its ok. u said i enjoy it later
Scammer: its fine. il do everything for my love
Scammer: oh ok
Scammer: ok dear
**Me**: I will stick my penis in your anus and then into your mouth. In America, and in the English-speaking world we call that, 'ass-to-mouth'.
Scammer: wattime is there?
**Me**: And of course all the anal creampies you could handle.
**Me**: Currently it is 7 AM in Las Vegas.
**Me**: I wake up everyday at 6 AM.
**Me**: Soon I will have breakfast, and go exercise.
Scammer: oh ok. wel im new to that word'
Scammer: is it enjoyable dear?
Scammer: oh ok i se
**Me**: Anal creampie? Yes, it is enjoyable.
Scammer: i see do u go to work nw?
**Me**: At least it is for me.
**Me**: But you should be able to handle it.
Scammer: oh ok. u have no work??
Scammer: ok i think il like it. as u said so
**Me**: No, I am retired.
Scammer: yeah ok
**Me**: I just have too much money and I always help the church with money.
**Me**: I give the church $50,000 every month.
Scammer: oh ok dear
Scammer: wow thats good
**Me**: I have a maid in my home, though.
**Me**: She helps me by cooking and cleaning.
**Me**: She is Filipina also.
Scammer: but u know u should also repent for ur sins not just giving the church money
**Me**: Maybe you two can be friends after we get married.
Scammer: oh ok thats good
**Me**: My maid is very young and pretty, and she is also a pure virgin. She has been working with me for three months, and she said she loves me and wants to marry me.
**Me**: Sometimes, I think I should marry her, but I'm not so sure.
Scammer: thats so kind of u. do u go to church alot?'
Scammer: yes sure
Scammer: no problem
**Me**: Yes, I go almost everyday to repent.
**Me**: I must do confession everyday.
Scammer: y ur not sure of her?
Scammer: u see me nw
**Me**: Well, she is my maid so I can't marry her now.
**Me**: I did not tell her this, but if she quits her job, I will ask her to marry me.
Scammer: yes its good for u to do confession evryday
Scammer: u see me nw??
**Me**: Yes, I see you. You are quite beautiful.
Scammer: oh pity her
Scammer: oh thank u alot
Scammer: i hope i can see u too
**Me**: I'm glad to see your cam is working.
Scammer: i think ur a very good looking man
**Me**: Can I see your body shape? I want to make sure we can make enough children.
**Me**: I am not asking you to be nude.
Scammer: now this cam FINALLY work
Scammer: wow thats good
Scammer: yes me too. im glad
Scammer: oh ok
Scammer: if u want
**Me**: I just want a healthy mother for children.
**Me**: Oh, I see. Can you turn to side?
Scammer: did u see me stand?
Scammer: ok
**Me**: Yes I did, but I cannot see if you have the body for producing good children.
Scammer: ok
**Me**: Okay, I think that is good.
Scammer: wel yes i can produce
Scammer: thanks
**Me**: I want to have at least four children.
**Me**: I think you are not too skinny, so that is good.
Scammer: yeah me too
**Me**: What is your date of birth?
Scammer: even more..
Scammer: i can handle it
Scammer: u know im a midwife
Scammer: its OCT. 9
**Me**: Okay, what year is that?
Scammer: yeah lately im fat thats y im in diet
Scammer: 1989
**Me**: Okay.
**Me**: So you are a young, tight, virgin. That's good.
Scammer: but if want i will not be in diet anymore
Scammer: wat about u?
**Me**: I'm old, but I'm in shape.
Scammer: wat is ur birthday?
Scammer: yes. stil innocent
**Me**: June 9, 1939
Scammer: yeah i beliv u
Scammer: and u think young thats nice
**Me**: Are you at home now? Or is this PC cafe?
Scammer: ohok i see belated happy b-day to u
**Me**: Thank you.
Scammer: im at home nw
Scammer: with my mom
Scammer: and my adopted sister.
**Me**: Okay, so do you want me to send some money now or later?
Scammer: now u get to see me on cam
Scammer: well, its up to u, anytime u want to send the money dear
**Me**: Okay. Hmm, I'm sorry, but is there anything else you can show me?
**Me**: I'm so sorry, but devil is acting in me again.
Scammer: well i have more to showu
**Me**: My Archbishop said it's because I am a man, but sometimes the devil controls the man like this.
Scammer: oh its ok..
Scammer: but i just ant to make sure u r serious with me
Scammer: yes i understand u
Scammer: i just wanna be sure.if its ok to u?
**Me**: Yes.
**Me**: I want to see what I will make love with after marriage.
Scammer: ok thank u. i can show u anything u want wen i find ur serious with me
Scammer: yes sure..but u know i just wanna be sure.
**Me**: Okay, I understand.
Scammer: its up to u how will u proved to me
Scammer: thanks for understanding dear
Scammer: so do u live alone in ur house with ur maid??
**Me**: Okay then, I will try to think of a way to prove it to you, and then I will let you know.
**Me**: Yes, I live alone with the maid.
**Me**: The maid has tried to kiss me many times, and sometimes I am weak, and I kiss her, too.
Scammer: oh ok thanks for understanding
Scammer: oh i see.
**Me**: She said she wants to marry me and have many children.
**Me**: And she is really God-fearing, so I like that.
Scammer: oh i see thats natural bcox u area man and sheis a woman living together
Scammer: oh i see.
Scammer: wel thats good
Scammer: so why didnt u marry her?
**Me**: I'm sorry, but I have an appointment I have to get ready for. Breakfast with Archbishop today.
**Me**: I am going to talk to him about you.
**Me**: Ask him for advice on marrying you.
Scammer: oh ok
Scammer: ok take good care
Scammer: have fun
Scammer: yeah ok sure..
Scammer: take the best of care..
**Me**: Okay, I will contact you again sweetheart. My sweet, tight pure innocent virgin girl.
**Me**: Please bear me many children, I pray to the Lord.
Scammer: ijust want u too know that GOD is always good to GOOD people even in SINNers
Scammer: ok sweetie
Scammer: ok i will
**Me**: Our wedding night, I will finish in your mouth and then kiss you.
Scammer: thanks for ur time
**Me**: We will be a hapy couple.
**Me**: Please take care.
Scammer: ok be happy..
Scammer: ok pls take care too
Scammer: be well and always beliv in god
Scammer: :-h:-*:x
Scammer: bye
**Me**: Yes I will dear. "creampie"
**Me**: Goodbye
Scammer: goodbye
She was actually getting up on cam to pose for me, and unfortunately I couldn't get her to get nude for me, as I would have loved to have saved a screen shot of that moment, as it would have been priceless... but having her move around like that on cam to show me that she could have children was priceless in and of itself.
I will contact her again, and try to get her nude on cam.
Anyway, guys, girls can say all the shit they want to you, but they can be total liars. You'll notice I kept teasing her with "God-fearing". They all are, whatever that means. I think they may be secret atheists. Who knows.
So my opinion is I agree with posters who say do not send money to people you haven't met! Even if you've met them, assess what kind of people they are when you meet them. Are they just looking for a lazy way out or do they have enough integrity to know it's unacceptable to just start asking for money?
Of course, it's not all bad news. The best girl I've met on FH so far and BY FAR is someone who I would actually want to be in a LTR with. You can tell she is truly genuine based on the things she says, and she's very well educated, graduated top of her class (which she did not tell me, but I discovered via Googling her name), and also has a fairly prestigious job working with foreigners. She has never asked me for money, obviously and was telling me to watch out for girls like that. She also said she prefers to pay for her own stuff, even when we are together, though she has agreed to let me pay for the first date.
It's safe to say I do feel a strong connection to this lady, and just hearing the certain little things she says or stories she tells me, she really is a good girl. And she definitely has no problem in telling me if she disagrees with something I say. A good, strong, woman. Maybe it helps that she's a bit older than the typical 18~20 year old FH girls. Who knows... but hey, I had to go through hundreds of FH girls before I found her. A few days ago, I discovered she shut off her profile when I tried to access it, and I asked her why, and she simply replied she didn't need it anymore. Yea, definitely a great girl.
Just remember these simple rules:
1) Don't send money prior to meeting them... Ever!
2) Even if you've met them, and they ask for money later, be cautious. I know in my case with the 'good girl' I'm talking about, she would never ask me for money even if she really had a genuine emergency.
3) Do the girls sound interested when they talk to you? Do they take too long to reply? Maybe they're juggling several different Yahoo chat windows.
4) Is she up at odd hours of the night? Does she work?
Well, there are more rules, but I'm tired of typing at this point... just use common sense and think with the big head.
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That was hilarious
I had mixed emotions reading Byung's play by play. Laughing hysterically while at the same time feeling a little bit of sympathy for the god-fearing scammer. Then again, some of us are scamming them, too, in a different way.
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ROFLMAO!! I am sitting here eating popcorn reading this. Now this is classic stuff like I would do. Keep up the good work scaming the scamers.
[QUOTE=Byung]Since joining FH, I've chatted up a lot of girls. To date, in about a one month period, I have over 300 messages in my inbox and hundreds of 'interest' indicators. I chat up the ones who are a 7 and above in terms of looks.
Out of all of them, I've met quite a few 'scammers'. As in, girls who want money. One chick wanted me to send her close to 3,000 PHP to buy a webcam so she could chat with me. She had great pictures though, of a hot Filipina with a slim figure and huge knockers. She had no money to visit a PC cafe to use their cam (of course, she had her own personal computer at home), so she wanted me to wire her money via Xoom. I then agreed to do it (not that I would), and she gave me her name, address, and details on how to create an account. Then she told me she needed money to pay for the fare to pick up the money. LOL! So I notified FH about her and they deleted her profile. She then sent me a Yahoo message, upset that I was responsible for her deleted profile.
Then there's another girl, a virgin from Cebu who on our first chat stated she needed approximately 12,000 PHP to pay for her tuition or something that would allow her to graduate. She had a deadline of last Tuesday, and I told her I couldn't help her. She said she understands. Come Tuesday, she said she was able to get an extension until Friday. Naturally, on Thursday, she asked me for money again, saying she'd scrounged up enough money and now only needed 3,000 PHP. I again told her no, and haven't heard from her since.
...and there are the others, but I won't get into it here.
Then there's one girl, who looks extremely beautiful. She looks somewhat Chinese/Korean, and is slim with a nice rack which complements her pretty face. I was camming with her, and she really is hot. I even chatted her up on the phone. Well, anyway, during the course of our several-day-relationship, she would have to say "I have to go, I have no more load in my pre-pay internet kit"...
She would tell me how it costs her 60 PHP per hour to talk to me, so she wanted to save her 'load' so she can talk to me everyday. She said it cost $50 USD (she didn't even quote pesos) to pay for her monthly internet if she were to get an unlimited free service.
Anyway, that was only a small part of the conversation. We would usually talk to each other about other things, and she was telling me how she was already in love with me, and how she dreamed of our life together, and how she would be a great wife... handling all the household chores and taking care of me.
Of course, eventually came time to sign off because she had no load in her pre-paid internet kit. So finally she then asked if I'd be willing to help her out. I told her I wish I could, but I couldn't. I told her my brother lived in Davao with his Filipina wife (scammer lives in Mindanao) and I could ask him to help her out. She kept saying that she'd rather me help her out personally, and that she didn't even have enough load in her phone to make outgoing calls to talk to them. I told her not to worry and that I will figure out a way... she then suggested Western Union.
Anyway, this girl who says she loves me and wants to marry me, doesn't need FH anymore, doesn't even need to look at another guy anymore and all this (all within a few days, WOW!)... then says she has to go offline as her internet-load is low, and that she'll talk to me later. I said okay, and that I'll send her the money in a few hours (yeah, right).
A few hours later, supposedly when she's sleeping, I see her status as online in FH. So I signed onto my Yahoo using an alias, and I just add her. She accepted within two seconds, and we started chatting. Enclosed is the entire transcript of our conversation (by the way, she has no idea what this 'fake person' looks like, so how can I be good looking? LOL. I also made up the name of the archbishop she 'knows', Fernando Martinez, haha.):
**Me**: Hello, are you there?
Scammer: hi
Scammer: hw r u?
**Me**: I'm doing quite good, and yourself?
Scammer: im fine too
Scammer: thank u
**Me**: So, are you a single lady?
Scammer: yes i am
Scammer: very single
Scammer: wat about u?
**Me**: That sounds great. I myself am single.
**Me**: So you have no boyfriend, that's good.
Scammer: great
Scammer: thats good
Scammer: wat r u looking for in a lady?
Scammer: i dont have bf yet
**Me**: Someone who is very honest, caring.
**Me**: And of course, God-fearing.
Scammer: wow thats good
Scammer: i think those qualities in me
Scammer: :">
**Me**: How old do you want your boyfriend to be?
Scammer: age doesnt matter for me
Scammer: as long as the man is serious with me
Scammer: wat about u?
**Me**: I am a little bit old, I think.
Scammer: oh how old r u?
Scammer: ?
Scammer: its fine with me
**Me**: I'm... too old, I think. =(
Scammer: as long as u are a serious man tome
Scammer: oh that doesnt matter to me
Scammer: age doesnt matter wen it comes to love
**Me**: Even 70 years old?
**Me**: I think maybe you are too young for me, now.
Scammer: wel yes as long as the man is sincere and serious to me
**Me**: Okay... because I am kind of old, and I never married or had children, so I saved up so much money now and I want to finally get married and have children, even if I'm old...
Scammer: wow u do
Scammer: i wonder y not
Scammer: with ur looks? hmmp
Scammer: i think ur very handsome'
**Me**: Even if I have lot of money, will you take advantage of me?
Scammer: yes thats a good plan
Scammer: no i wont ever do that
Scammer: im not that kind of woman who will take advantage to anyone
Scammer: im a serious type of person
**Me**: I'm glad to hear that from you.
Scammer: yes ..
Scammer: i fear GOD
Scammer: and i beliv that its a sin to take advantage to other people
**Me**: Yes, even though we think God is not watching us, he really is. And if we take advantage of God's children, he will put us in hell.
**Me**: People who take advantage should go to hell, because they break other people's trust.
**Me**: So I am glad to hear you are not like that.
Scammer: yes of course my parents discipline me so well
Scammer: so we are good children of good
**Me**: Yes. But are you willing to move to USA?
**Me**: I live in Las Vegas. So there are many casinos and sinners here.
Scammer: yes im willing to move
Scammer: and relocate
Scammer: oh hehe i see
Scammer: thats fine
**Me**: Well, if you become a good wife to me, you will inherit a lot of money. =)
**Me**: I know I can only live maybe 10 more years, but after I die, my wife will get more than $7,000,000 dollars.
Scammer: oh really? wel money isnt sop much important
Scammer: i prefer to inheret ur love more
**Me**: Do you think I should leave to church instead? I really want to help spread the word of God.
Scammer: wow thats good
Scammer: wat is ur work?
**Me**: Well, it's a secret, but I used to build casinos.
**Me**: I would own casino for a few years and sell it to someone else.
**Me**: I feel bad, because gambling is a sin.
Scammer: yes u should and i will help u spread words of god
Scammer: oh thats good
**Me**: So that's why I want to give all the money back to church.
Scammer: yes its a sin as long as uplay a lot
**Me**: I want to give everything to the church... my money, my cars, my airplane, my homes...
Scammer: but if we play sometimes
Scammer: its just a pastime
**Me**: That's why I want to find a simple girl who doesn't care about money.
Scammer: oh the church is really fortunate
Scammer: yeah..
Scammer: maybe thats me
**Me**: Yes, the Archbishop is my dear friend.
**Me**: He is a Filipino-American.
Scammer: wow really?
Scammer: whos he?
Scammer: maybe i know him'
**Me**: Yes, well this is in Las Vegas.
**Me**: His name is Fernando.
**Me**: But can I ask you a question; how many boyfriends did you have?
Scammer: wat is his fulname?
Scammer: i have ONCE
Scammer: and been very hurt
Scammer: he cheated me
**Me**: Fernando Martinez is his full name.
Scammer: nw i dont wanna be hurt anymore
**Me**: And you really don't have a boyfriend anymore?
**Me**: You are so pretty, I'm sure you have a good looking young man for a boyfriend.
Scammer: oh yeah i know him
Scammer: he is good man
**Me**: Oh wow, that's great. =)
Scammer: ive heared
Scammer: i dont have bf anymore
**Me**: Wow, even though you are so pretty, you don't have a boyfriend. That is so hard to believe.
Scammer: yeah i dont have
Scammer: y should i lie\
**Me**: It's just difficult to trust people.
Scammer: i am so picky in choosing a man nw
Scammer: cox i dont wanna be hurt anymore
**Me**: This is a personal question, but I must ask: are you a virgin?
Scammer: yeah iunderstand me either
Scammer: but wen u find the true love we ned to trust
Scammer: is it very important to u?
**Me**: It is somewhat important to me, as I need to find a pure woman.
Scammer: oh thats good
Scammer: i am pure
Scammer: i beliv purity is very sacred for GOD
**Me**: So I will be your first man for sex?
Scammer: yes if we have given a chance
Scammer: i beliv that sex is importand before marriage
**Me**: Okay, maybe you are the right one for me.
Scammer: GOD"S word
Scammer: wow thank u for considering me as
Scammer: u right one
**Me**: Yes, I only consider you because you are a virgin, you do not care about money, and you are God-fearing.
**Me**: ...and because you do not have another boyfriend.
Scammer: wow thank u so much
**Me**: Do you think it's possible we can marry next month?
Scammer: yes i dont have another man
**Me**: I can give your parents a dowry of $100,000 to marry you.
Scammer: yes sure if u want too
**Me**: Would you rather $100,000 to church or to your parents? I know God is very important to you.
Scammer: wow thats a lot, wel my parents is not materialistic
Scammer: not necesary to give them but if u wanna help itsok
**Me**: Well, from someone so God-fearing like you and your parents, probably they would rather have it go to church then. That's fine, I will give to the church so we can help people.
Scammer: yes wel my family is very important to me too. i prefer to split it half to church for GOdD and half to my family
Scammer: if u will allow me
**Me**: Oh I see. Yes, I can give your parents $50,000 and $50,000 to church then.
Scammer: yes
**Me**: And I will take your virginity.
**Me**: And I hope to have children with you.
**Me**: I'm not sure if in my old age I can still produce sperm for children, but I hope I can do it.
Scammer: yes sure..
Scammer: wel any u want to have child
**Me**: But, I'm so ashamed, because as much as I love God, I am also a sinner.
Scammer: yes of course god will give u a child
Scammer: cox u r a good person
**Me**: My sin is that I like when woman gives me oral sex. I know it's not good, but I feel like I must have it.
**Me**: I'm so ashamed of myself.
Scammer: yeah but u know GOD sacrificehis love for our sins
**Me**: I'm so ashamed, but can you provide oral sex for me?
Scammer: and im sure GOD will pardon ur sins
**Me**: I really need to find the right girl for this.
Scammer: as long as u repent for ur sins
**Me**: To marry and love.
Scammer: oh wel if u want too
Scammer: y not
**Me**: Is it okay if I finish in your mouth? That is another one of my deep sins.
Scammer: i maybe not the best but i can try harder
Scammer: wow great maybe its me
Scammer: wooohhh..
Scammer: wel i can try
**Me**: I'm so happy to hear that you are willing to do this for me, to possibly be my wife.
Scammer: i can try to
**Me**: Of course, I will only touch you after I marry you.
**Me**: Only after you are my wife I will ask you to do this.
Scammer: yeah sure.
Scammer: u know wen i love a person im wlling to do everything
Scammer: wow thank u
**Me**: I really want to say this first, to let you know beforehand, that I am a sinner, too.
**Me**: If anything you are not okay with, I understand. So I have to tell you all of this now.
Scammer: wel its ok to me
Scammer: i will be here for u
**Me**: After you give me oral sex, sometimes I need to finish onto your face. Sometimes, the devil makes me do these horrible things. But I really must finish and shoot my sperm on your face.
Scammer: even if u are a sinner
Scammer: oh yeah,,wel i can try
**Me**: I spoke with Fernando Gonzalez, the Archbishop about this, and he is praying for me.
Scammer: ilbe willing to if its ur wish
Scammer: but sometimes u must resist the devil
Scammer: wow thats good
**Me**: Okay, so you will give me oral sex and I can finish in your mouth and on your face. That is good to hear. I will try to resist the devil, but sometimes I must do this to you, I'm sorry dear.
Scammer: yeah i understand u..
Scammer: its ok to me
Scammer: no problem
Scammer: do u have a cam?
Scammer: i wanna see u
**Me**: No, I'm sorry but I don't have one. I'm too old, so I never bought a cam.
**Me**: Do you have a cam?
Scammer: oh ok i see
Scammer: i dont have it too
Scammer: by now but im gonna try it for u
Scammer: if u want
**Me**: Can you send me any pictures?
Scammer: yeah sure
Scammer: plsaccept dear.
Scammer: wat is ur screen name in FH?
**Me**: By the way, I would like to send you some money to help you out if you need some.
**Me**: You don't know my name?
Scammer: really? im ashame
**Me**: I thought you knew who I am.
Scammer: i know u DAVID
**Me**: But would you like me to send you some money to help you and your family for now?
Scammer: i knew u but i just want to make sure
**Me**: Do you have any pictures where I can see your whole body? I want to see if your body is good to have children.
Scammer: well im ashamed on u bcox its our frst time to talk
Scammer: and u will give me money?
Scammer: why would u do that?
**Me**: Because I think you will be my wife.
Scammer: well yes sure
**Me**: I only want to send you $1,000.
**Me**: Just to help you a little bit.
Scammer: oh i see thank u for that
Scammer: well its up to u..
Scammer: i also ned to have internet connection so i can chat with u anytime u want
**Me**: Well, if you are ashamed, I understand that.
**Me**: Oh, well how much does the internet connection cost?
**Me**: I can pay for your internet then.
Scammer: thats my full body pic wen im stil on school
Scammer: its just 150dollars in us money dear
**Me**: I'm sorry my dear, but these pictures do not come out so good. They are very blurry, so I cannot see.
Scammer: really? thanks but im shy..
**Me**: Okay, so instead of $1,000, I can just send you $150 for internet. I don't want you to feel ashamed so I understand you.
Scammer: ur anice man and i dont want to take advantage on u
Scammer: oh sorry pls wait dear soon it will be appear clear anytime soon
Scammer: sorry my prepaid kit signal is really slow
Scammer: i wish i can have internet connection
**Me**: I understand.
Scammer: yes of course if u insist
**Me**: I really wish you had a cam so I can see how you look in person. Do you have a neighbor who has a cam?
**Me**: Maybe you can borrow it.
Scammer: thank u in advance but i will assure u i will be faithfull and true to u
Scammer: no dear, i dont have a neighbor with a cam
Scammer: they also dont have a computer
**Me**: Well, I hope these are really pictures of you.
Scammer: its on a net cafe
Scammer: yes its really me.
Scammer: thats me, if u want i can buy a cam tomorow
Scammer: then u can see me on cam'
**Me**: Well, before I send the money, I would like to see you on cam. Just to make sure, I hope you understand.
Scammer: yeah sure.
**Me**: Unfortunately dear, the photos are still blurry.
Scammer: mybe i will try my cam now but this cam dont work for many time
Scammer: times..huhu:((
Scammer: oh so sorry
**Me**: Oh, you have an old cam?
**Me**: Sure, maybe you can try it anyway.
**Me**: Let's see if it works.
Scammer: yes i do have
Scammer: i just pray this will work
Scammer: ok im gonna try this out dear
Scammer: plswait
**Me**: Okay, thank you darling.
Scammer: pls accept the invitation dear
**Me**: Yes, I will accept it now.
Scammer: thank u
Scammer: lets just pray this will work nw
**Me**: Could you please try again?
Scammer: ok deari will
**Me**: It says your cam is not available, unfortunately.
Scammer: oh gosh
Scammer: sorry
Scammer: i ry and try it dear
Scammer: u stil there david?
**Me**: Yes I am. Someday you will call me your husband.
**Me**: Your cam is still not working. That's too bad.
Scammer: yes sure..
Scammer: il be willing too
Scammer: yeah im really sorry
**Me**: I must ask you one more thing.
**Me**: This is the final question that the devil is compelling me to ask you.
Scammer: ok wat is it?
Scammer: ask anything u want dear feel free
**Me**: I know you said I can finish in your mouth or on your face.
Scammer: ok wat is it?
**Me**: But the last thing the devil makes me do is...
Scammer: yes? wat more?
**Me**: I'm so ashamed of this, and to tell you this. You are my future wife...
**Me**: ...but I need to have anal sex with you.
**Me**: Not a lot, just a few times. Once in a while.
Scammer: yeah wat is?
**Me**: After our children are born, I will need to have sex through your anal cavity.
Scammer: oh my..anal sex u mean in the anus?
**Me**: Yes, honey.
Scammer: hmmp we will see.
Scammer: yes its ok as long as u wish
**Me**: But only after the children are born.
Scammer: but not all the time? is it ok to u?
**Me**: Yes, just once a week is fine.
Scammer: yes i understand cox my pussy wil bcome bigger right?
**Me**: I must stick it in your anus, because your vagina will become large. I need to feel it tight.
**Me**: I know it is not right to say this to my future wife, but I must tell the truth, because lying is also a sin.
Scammer: oh ok, how big is urs? hehe im shy to ask u but i must know
**Me**: Dear, my penis is 6 inches.
Scammer: oh ok well its fine
**Me**: It's an average size, nothing too big.
Scammer: i think it will hurt a lot
Scammer: yes we ned to be honest also
**Me**: Yes it will hurt in the beginning, but later it doesn't hurt.
**Me**: Some women enjoy it later.
**Me**: And I will need to finish inside your anus as well.
Scammer: ohyeah i think its big. i dont know how much is long and how much is not
**Me**: Oh yes, because you are a virgin, you don't know what's big, I forgot.
**Me**: Well, don't worry, it's not too big.
Scammer: well its ok. u said i enjoy it later
Scammer: its fine. il do everything for my love
Scammer: oh ok
Scammer: ok dear
**Me**: I will stick my penis in your anus and then into your mouth. In America, and in the English-speaking world we call that, 'ass-to-mouth'.
Scammer: wattime is there?
**Me**: And of course all the anal creampies you could handle.
**Me**: Currently it is 7 AM in Las Vegas.
**Me**: I wake up everyday at 6 AM.
**Me**: Soon I will have breakfast, and go exercise.
Scammer: oh ok. wel im new to that word'
Scammer: is it enjoyable dear?
Scammer: oh ok i se
**Me**: Anal creampie? Yes, it is enjoyable.
Scammer: i see do u go to work nw?
**Me**: At least it is for me.
**Me**: But you should be able to handle it.
Scammer: oh ok. u have no work??
Scammer: ok i think il like it. as u said so
**Me**: No, I am retired.
Scammer: yeah ok
**Me**: I just have too much money and I always help the church with money.
**Me**: I give the church $50,000 every month.
Scammer: oh ok dear
Scammer: wow thats good
**Me**: I have a maid in my home, though.
**Me**: She helps me by cooking and cleaning.
**Me**: She is Filipina also.
Scammer: but u know u should also repent for ur sins not just giving the church money
**Me**: Maybe you two can be friends after we get married.
Scammer: oh ok thats good
**Me**: My maid is very young and pretty, and she is also a pure virgin. She has been working with me for three months, and she said she loves me and wants to marry me.
**Me**: Sometimes, I think I should marry her, but I'm not so sure.
Scammer: thats so kind of u. do u go to church alot?'
Scammer: yes sure
Scammer: no problem
**Me**: Yes, I go almost everyday to repent.
**Me**: I must do confession everyday.
Scammer: y ur not sure of her?
Scammer: u see me nw
**Me**: Well, she is my maid so I can't marry her now.
**Me**: I did not tell her this, but if she quits her job, I will ask her to marry me.
Scammer: yes its good for u to do confession evryday
Scammer: u see me nw??
**Me**: Yes, I see you. You are quite beautiful.
Scammer: oh pity her
Scammer: oh thank u alot
Scammer: i hope i can see u too
**Me**: I'm glad to see your cam is working.
Scammer: i think ur a very good looking man
**Me**: Can I see your body shape? I want to make sure we can make enough children.
**Me**: I am not asking you to be nude.
Scammer: now this cam FINALLY work
Scammer: wow thats good
Scammer: yes me too. im glad
Scammer: oh ok
Scammer: if u want
**Me**: I just want a healthy mother for children.
**Me**: Oh, I see. Can you turn to side?
Scammer: did u see me stand?
Scammer: ok
**Me**: Yes I did, but I cannot see if you have the body for producing good children.
Scammer: ok
**Me**: Okay, I think that is good.
Scammer: wel yes i can produce
Scammer: thanks
**Me**: I want to have at least four children.
**Me**: I think you are not too skinny, so that is good.
Scammer: yeah me too
**Me**: What is your date of birth?
Scammer: even more..
Scammer: i can handle it
Scammer: u know im a midwife
Scammer: its OCT. 9
**Me**: Okay, what year is that?
Scammer: yeah lately im fat thats y im in diet
Scammer: 1989
**Me**: Okay.
**Me**: So you are a young, tight, virgin. That's good.
Scammer: but if want i will not be in diet anymore
Scammer: wat about u?
**Me**: I'm old, but I'm in shape.
Scammer: wat is ur birthday?
Scammer: yes. stil innocent
**Me**: June 9, 1939
Scammer: yeah i beliv u
Scammer: and u think young thats nice
**Me**: Are you at home now? Or is this PC cafe?
Scammer: ohok i see belated happy b-day to u
**Me**: Thank you.
Scammer: im at home nw
Scammer: with my mom
Scammer: and my adopted sister.
**Me**: Okay, so do you want me to send some money now or later?
Scammer: now u get to see me on cam
Scammer: well, its up to u, anytime u want to send the money dear
**Me**: Okay. Hmm, I'm sorry, but is there anything else you can show me?
**Me**: I'm so sorry, but devil is acting in me again.
Scammer: well i have more to showu
**Me**: My Archbishop said it's because I am a man, but sometimes the devil controls the man like this.
Scammer: oh its ok..
Scammer: but i just ant to make sure u r serious with me
Scammer: yes i understand u
Scammer: i just wanna be sure.if its ok to u?
**Me**: Yes.
**Me**: I want to see what I will make love with after marriage.
Scammer: ok thank u. i can show u anything u want wen i find ur serious with me
Scammer: yes sure..but u know i just wanna be sure.
**Me**: Okay, I understand.
Scammer: its up to u how will u proved to me
Scammer: thanks for understanding dear
Scammer: so do u live alone in ur house with ur maid??
**Me**: Okay then, I will try to think of a way to prove it to you, and then I will let you know.
**Me**: Yes, I live alone with the maid.
**Me**: The maid has tried to kiss me many times, and sometimes I am weak, and I kiss her, too.
Scammer: oh ok thanks for understanding
Scammer: oh i see.
**Me**: She said she wants to marry me and have many children.
**Me**: And she is really God-fearing, so I like that.
Scammer: oh i see thats natural bcox u area man and sheis a woman living together
Scammer: oh i see.
Scammer: wel thats good
Scammer: so why didnt u marry her?
**Me**: I'm sorry, but I have an appointment I have to get ready for. Breakfast with Archbishop today.
**Me**: I am going to talk to him about you.
**Me**: Ask him for advice on marrying you.
Scammer: oh ok
Scammer: ok take good care
Scammer: have fun
Scammer: yeah ok sure..
Scammer: take the best of care..
**Me**: Okay, I will contact you again sweetheart. My sweet, tight pure innocent virgin girl.
**Me**: Please bear me many children, I pray to the Lord.
Scammer: ijust want u too know that GOD is always good to GOOD people even in SINNers
Scammer: ok sweetie
Scammer: ok i will
**Me**: Our wedding night, I will finish in your mouth and then kiss you.
Scammer: thanks for ur time
**Me**: We will be a hapy couple.
**Me**: Please take care.
Scammer: ok be happy..
Scammer: ok pls take care too
Scammer: be well and always beliv in god
Scammer: :-h:-*:x
Scammer: bye
**Me**: Yes I will dear. "creampie"
**Me**: Goodbye
Scammer: goodbye
She was actually getting up on cam to pose for me, and unfortunately I couldn't get her to get nude for me, as I would have loved to have saved a screen shot of that moment, as it would have been priceless... but having her move around like that on cam to show me that she could have children was priceless in and of itself.
I will contact her again, and try to get her nude on cam.
Anyway, guys, girls can say all the shit they want to you, but they can be total liars. You'll notice I kept teasing her with "God-fearing". They all are, whatever that means. I think they may be secret atheists. Who knows.
So my opinion is I agree with posters who say do not send money to people you haven't met! Even if you've met them, assess what kind of people they are when you meet them. Are they just looking for a lazy way out or do they have enough integrity to know it's unacceptable to just start asking for money?
Of course, it's not all bad news. The best girl I've met on FH so far and BY FAR is someone who I would actually want to be in a LTR with. You can tell she is truly genuine based on the things she says, and she's very well educated, graduated top of her class (which she did not tell me, but I discovered via Googling her name), and also has a fairly prestigious job working with foreigners. She has never asked me for money, obviously and was telling me to watch out for girls like that. She also said she prefers to pay for her own stuff, even when we are together, though she has agreed to let me pay for the first date.
It's safe to say I do feel a strong connection to this lady, and just hearing the certain little things she says or stories she tells me, she really is a good girl. And she definitely has no problem in telling me if she disagrees with something I say. A good, strong, woman. Maybe it helps that she's a bit older than the typical 18~20 year old FH girls. Who knows... but hey, I had to go through hundreds of FH girls before I found her. A few days ago, I discovered she shut off her profile when I tried to access it, and I asked her why, and she simply replied she didn't need it anymore. Yea, definitely a great girl.
Just remember these simple rules:
1) Don't send money prior to meeting them... Ever!
2) Even if you've met them, and they ask for money later, be cautious. I know in my case with the 'good girl' I'm talking about, she would never ask me for money even if she really had a genuine emergency.
3) Do the girls sound interested when they talk to you? Do they take too long to reply? Maybe they're juggling several different Yahoo chat windows.
4) Is she up at odd hours of the night? Does she work?
Well, there are more rules, but I'm tired of typing at this point... just use common sense and think with the big head.[/QUOTE]
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Two pick-up lines everyone can try
For those of you looking for opportunities to do non-pros, here are some tips.
1. (I usually take PAL to Manila, but if you fly foreign airlines, there are usually 1~2 local Filipino flight attendants so look for them.)
Me: Excuse me, can I ask you a question?
Her: Sure
Me: What is the most popular mobile carrier in the Philippines?
Her: Globe
Me: Is that what you use?
Her: Yes
Me: Is that the one that starts with 095?
Her: Actually, 091.
Me: Oh, you use Globe and it starts with 091?
Her: Yes
Me: ... and?
Her: What?
Me: How does the rest of it go? (Now I have a friendly and blatant smirk on my face)
Her: (She smiles back.) You want my number?
Me: Sure, it's my first time in Manila and it would be nice to know a local.
Her: OK, it's xxxxxxxxxx
Me: Thanks, I'll text you when I get into town.
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Did I meet her? Yes
Did I get to bang her? Not a chance.
She had a boyfriend, a co-pilot for PAL, and she would mention him every 5 minutes of our conversation, which I understood as "You're not going to bone me tonight no matter what you do." So I let her go at about 8pm and took a cab straight to EDSA.
2. When you buy your SIM card, shop around. Look for a stall with a salesgirl that attracts you.
Me: I'd like a SIM card, please.
Her: Here
Me: I'm not familiar with this phone. Can you insert it for me?
Her: Sure. Here you go.
Me: How do I top up? How do I know how much I have left?
(Now I'm asking a bunch of basic questions, while smiling, to carry on the conversation, making sure that I'm not holding up anyone behind me.)
Me: Can you please make sure that it works? Can you call your phone and check?
Her: OK. See, it works fine.
(Now I have her number and she has mine.)
Me: What time do you finish?
(And the rest is history.)
***
Did I meet her? Yes
Did I do her? Most definitely.
But there was a huge drawback. She worked at a stall in Glorietta right across from my hotel, and I had to make a big detour whenever I went into the mall to make sure that she didn't see me. Besides, I was constantly on alert whenever I met another girl in or around the Ayala Center because she could just pop out of anywhere.
As they say, "Be careful what you wish for."
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Israeli 'pervert' preying on Filipino women deported
08/20/2009
The Bureau of Immigration (BI) has deported an Israeli man accused of tricking Filipino women into having sex with him in exchange for a better life abroad.
Daniel Berner, 37, was deported Wednesday on board a Cathay Pacific flight bound for Hongkong and Tokyo enroute to Tel Aviv, Israel.
Immigration chief Marcelino Libanan said the Israeli, who disguised himself as a Canadian and goes by many aliases, had victimized several Filipinas whom he had duped by sending them e-mails via the Internet.
“He would usually promise his victims that he would marry them and bring them with him to Canada if they got pregnant with his child, thus he would entice them to have sex with him," Libanan said in a statement.
Epifanio Lambino Jr., acting assistant chief of the bureau’s Law Enforcement Division (LED) said they first found out about Berner when one of his victims sought the help of a television station, which in turn referred the case to the BI.
Berner was finally apprehended by the LED during an entrapment operation on July 29 at the Greenbelt Mall in Makati City.
After the arrest, the BI board of commissioners issued the deportation order against him. He has also been included in the bureau’s blacklist.
“Sex perverts like him (Berner) who exploit and take advantage of our women should be expelled and banned from re-entering our country," said Libanan.
The BI chief said the Israeli entered the country as a tourist and was staying in the Philippines on a fraudulent passport.
The BI also found out that Berner is wanted in Japan, Great Britain, and Canada for engaging in similar Internet fraud schemes and that a US$50,000 reward for his arrest has already been put up by authorities in Tokyo. - Kimberly Jane T. Tan, GMANews.TV
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How do you handle unidentified text messages?
I realize this isn't exactly on topic, but it is hopefully in the spirit of the thread.
I have my Philippines cell phone set to international roaming. I drop a 100 pesos on it every few months so I can keep my number.
One side effect is that I get a steady drip of text messages from unidentifiable phone numbers.
Given how often Filipinas lose their phones, borrow their friend's because they are out of load, etc. I'm sure at least a couple of them are women I want to stay in touch with, but the rest are women I'm avoiding or ones who got my number second or third-hand.
My previous phone (a Samsung?) had a handy phone number block option that my current Nokia seems to lack.
I have toyed with the idea of getting a new SIM and, before I swap it, replying to all the anonymous text messages in the past month and asking, "Do I know you?"
If they are someone I want to keep in touch with, I give them my new number, otherwise they vanish when I switch numbers.
How do the you guys handle the UTMs?
- SbySW
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I'd say your post is very relevant to this thread. The whole goal of chat (for most of us) is to eventually meet the target...and usually that's done by phone/text.
Yes, what you described is very aggravating. I just reply: Name and city please. Of course, you'll get the "oh, you forgot me!" messages.
Sometimes that doesn't work as my last trip I had an AC bargirl tell me she was in Manila which really threw me off. I finally called her and discovered she was a cherry girl that I met on my first day in AC (T of Class) and was in MNL visiting family.
Even more aggravating my last trip were some of DIA contacts. We had communicated on DIA and I told them which month I would be in town. In my text I clearly wrote my name and the city I live in. I still got a few replies, "who are you?" I suppose what they really wanted to ask is, "Of the five web matchmaking sites I belong to, which one did I meet you on, and what is your handle?"
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[QUOTE=South by SW 2]I realize this isn't exactly on topic, but it is hopefully in the spirit of the thread.
I have my Philippines cell phone set to international roaming. I drop a 100 pesos on it every few months so I can keep my number.
One side effect is that I get a steady drip of text messages from unidentifiable phone numbers.
Given how often Filipinas lose their phones, borrow their friend's because they are out of load, etc. I'm sure at least a couple of them are women I want to stay in touch with, but the rest are women I'm avoiding or ones who got my number second or third-hand.
My previous phone (a Samsung?) had a handy phone number block option that my current Nokia seems to lack.
I have toyed with the idea of getting a new SIM and, before I swap it, replying to all the anonymous text messages in the past month and asking, "Do I know you?"
If they are someone I want to keep in touch with, I give them my new number, otherwise they vanish when I switch numbers.
How do the you guys handle the UTMs?
- SbySW[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Dreamplay 767]For those of you looking for opportunities to do non-pros, here are some tips.
2. When you buy your SIM card, shop around. Look for a stall with a salesgirl that attracts you.
As they say, "Be careful what you wish for."[/QUOTE]
I used this five years ago when I brought a new cell phone. The sales girl was married to an Indian and after texting her for two days, he called me and asked why I was texting his wife. I laughed and told him, wrong answer, your wife put her number into my phone and she is texting me. If you have a problem talk to her and he replied, thanks, you are right. :D
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UTM's
[QUOTE=South by SW 2]Given how often Filipinas lose their phones, borrow their friend's because they are out of load, etc. I'm sure at least a couple of them are women I want to stay in touch with, but the rest are women I'm avoiding or ones who got my number second or third-hand.
How do the you guys handle the UTMs?[/QUOTE]I don't dick around anymore. Gone are the days when i drove myself crazy trying to figure out who is who.
I txt back 'whoz dis?' once. If I don't get a straight answer I ignore. If they are motivated they will chase me up, if not, then they are not worth my time. There is always _PLENTY_ more fish in the sea here.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]I don't dick around anymore. Gone are the days when i drove myself crazy trying to figure out who is who.
I txt back 'whoz dis?' once. If I don't get a straight answer I ignore. If they are motivated they will chase me up, if not, then they are not worth my time. There is always _PLENTY_ more fish in the sea here.
AV[/QUOTE]
A Filipino also told me to text that. That way they don't know if it is a local or foreigner who is replying. I love to receive text asking to be my textmate and when I reply "whoz dis?", I get "I am so and so", and that my friend gave them my number, but they don't know the friend's name or my name. Most of the time I save them in my cell as scammer, so if they text again I know not to reply at all. I have one who has been texting me for 6 months and I have yet to reply once:) maybe she knows me?
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Robbaf, I really feel for you guys who live in Philippines and have to endure such hardship as women texting you for six months straight. Poor guy.
Also, thanks AV for the "whoz dis" advice. I know I'm not on your Friendster list, but it would be interesting to have more of the common chat friend translations. Sometimes the Filipinas have some very clever usages. Or maybe I'm just old and not "with it".
On my August trip I had numerous text messages in Japanese. I replied to a few in Japanese, but mostly in English. I could never figure out who it was. Finally, I said, "I'm American and would prefer to use English.". She responded, "Oh, really!" and I never heard from her again.
That's a mystery.
Although I think AV has an excellent strategy, I'm the collector type. I can NOT throw anything away. I still have a bondi blue non-functioning iMac and I still have phone numbers from four years ago. A few of these numbers have worked unexpectedly in that the number has been assigned to someone else.
X Man
[QUOTE=Robbaf]A Filipino also told me to text that. That way they don't know if it is a local or foreigner who is replying. I love to receive text asking to be my textmate and when I reply "whoz dis?", I get "I am so and so", and that my friend gave them my number, but they don't know the friend's name or my name. Most of the time I save them in my cell as scammer, so if they text again I know not to reply at all. I have one who has been texting me for 6 months and I have yet to reply once:) maybe she knows me?[/QUOTE]
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UTM Sighting
[QUOTE=Amavida]I don't dick around anymore. Gone are the days when i drove myself crazy trying to figure out who is who.
I txt back 'whoz dis?' once. If I don't get a straight answer I ignore. If they are motivated they will chase me up, if not, then they are not worth my time. There is always _PLENTY_ more fish in the sea here.
AV[/QUOTE]
UTMs are a another hazard of our hobby. I never reply back unless it's my two WG home girls or some non-pros that I know. Hell a UTM might be your ole lady or one of your ole ladies trying to see if your being faithful you never know.
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Good point D'etat / Warbucks / illogic and good friend of AV (aka AVD), good thing I don't live in the Philippines, or things would be really complicated.
Curious, UTM means "unknown text message", so how is it that you would never reply back unless you know who it is? Maybe superior powers of ESP?
Maybe you meant to write, I never reply back to people I don't know. Us lower people who only come to the Philippines on holiday don't have such a luxury. Good hearing from you D'etat. X
[QUOTE=Warbucks]UTMs are a another hazard of our hobby. I never reply back unless it's my two WG home girls or some non-pros that I know. Hell a UTM might be your ole lady or one of your ole ladies trying to see if your being faithful you never know.[/QUOTE]
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UTMs Part Dalawa
[QUOTE=X Man]Maybe you meant to write....[/QUOTE]
You must be back at work :D
I never reply back no matter if I know them or not unless it is from those before mentioned ladies who are cool with me.
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At work?
Monday I was at Onjuku beach. Tuesday I showed my face in the office for a few hours and discussed weekend strategy. Today, I'm just hanging at my apartment looking out over the park. I was thinking about bicycling out to Yoyogi park, but after a glass of wine I feel lazy.
I'll definitely have to go to work on Saturday and things get busy from Monday.
Feel free to give me all the numbers of the ladies you ignore.
Take care warbucks.
[QUOTE=Warbucks]You must be back at work :D
I never reply back no matter if I know them or not unless it is from those before mentioned ladies who are cool with me.[/QUOTE]
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More food for thought
[QUOTE=Warbucks]Hell a UTM might be your ole lady or one of your ole ladies trying to see if your being faithful you never know.[/QUOTE]
I've gotten the "Hi I'm a friend of [current f-buddy] and I'd like to meet you." text. More than half the time it's going to be a test by your current f-buddy to confirm what a horn dog you are. Quite possibly she's the one typing it on her friend's phone.
I don't answer UTMs, so I haven't had to ponder the chances that they would send a completely anonymous one. That's one more angle to consider.
SbySw
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[QUOTE=X Man]Robbaf, I really feel for you guys who live in Philippines and have to endure such hardship as women texting you for six months straight. Poor guy.
X Man[/QUOTE]Sounds great X, but I receive an average of 150 text a day! If you don't think that it is a pain in the ass:( I got three text yesteray from girls that I met with a year ago, wondering how I am doing and if I am busy. I carry two cells. One only for work and one for play. It is almost time to change out the play sim and start again.
The girl that keeps texting me some how got my work number, so that isn't good for me.
With Globe and Smart unlimted text for 20P a day, they can text and text and text:(
Robb
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Trouble making
[QUOTE=South by SW 2]I've gotten the "Hi I'm a friend of [current f-buddy] and I'd like to meet you." text. More than half the time it's going to be a test by your current f-buddy to confirm what a horn dog you are. Quite possibly she's the one typing it on her friend's phone.
I don't answer UTMs, so I haven't had to ponder the chances that they would send a completely anonymous one. That's one more angle to consider.
SbySw[/QUOTE]Hey SbySw, another source of these UTM's is legit business or personal transactions where sales girls/accounts clerks/bank tellers lift your CP # from an invoice or business card & start texting you unbidden. I suspect they just want to practice their english & are curious but too shy to actually date a 'poriner'. This happens to me a lot from cell phone recharge stations, in building supplies stores, banks etc. Seems more prevalent outside Manila in the provinces.
Its not worth wasting time worrying about unless you are hit on immediately by a notably hot chick.
And of course we have the odd bakla pissing about with you anonymously.
If you are in a LTR these UTM's can be like throwing gasoline on the flame of your pinay's highly developed jealously/distrust.
AV
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Suddenblue08
I just stumbled across an interestingly written profile on DIA. The name on profile is Suddenblue08 with a rather foxy looking lady's photo
Anyone ever tried her on? She sounds interesting
ES
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[QUOTE=Eaglestar]I just stumbled across an interestingly written profile on DIA. The name on profile is Suddenblue08 with a rather foxy looking lady's photo
Anyone ever tried her on? She sounds interesting
ES[/QUOTE]Ladyboy alert. Too much makeup, to much BS in profile and 5:5 or over. IMHO
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[QUOTE=Eaglestar]I just stumbled across an interestingly written profile on DIA. The name on profile is Suddenblue08 with a rather foxy looking lady's photo
Anyone ever tried her on? She sounds interesting
ES[/QUOTE]Damn! Its a scary world if a bloke might be able to look like that! I think you should persue Suddenblue08 in the interests of research and then report your findings back to your fellow mongers here.
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suddenblue08
Those are some thick fingers and possibly unnaturally large breasts. Danger Will Robinson!!
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Re Suddenblue
the poor he/ she /it is wondering " how come I used to get 10 viewers a day and now I'm getting 100.
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Dating sites
Hey Guys,
After having used Date in asia and feedback here on ISG, I want to give a paid dating site a try.
Right now i am considering:
- filipinaheart.com
- cherryblossoms.com
So your advice on which one might be best will be appreciated.
I do have a free profile on both. FH looks more professional, while the girls on CB seems nicer. The costs would be comparable, so what are your experiences so far. Or on any other dating site.
Thanks!
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[QUOTE=Blizz]Hey Guys,
After having used Date in asia and feedback here on ISG, I want to give a paid dating site a try.
Right now i am considering:
- filipinaheart.com
- cherryblossoms.com
So your advice on which one might be best will be appreciated.
I do have a free profile on both. FH looks more professional, while the girls on CB seems nicer. The costs would be comparable, so what are your experiences so far. Or on any other dating site.
Thanks![/QUOTE]Personally I prefer FH; whilst I did use Cherry Blossoms a few years ago I only got one fuck out of it; I have had loads from FH and, as you say, FH is more professionally laid out.
Having said that I only use DIA now; it's free (wonder how they make their money) and contains exactly what I want.
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I had good luck with CB, but didn't like the fact that I couldn't get / send contact info immediately. You have to exchange messages at least once before YOU can give your contact info. Ridiculous IMHO. I used them two years ago, so I don't know if they still have this policy. CB is okay, but might be better for the wife hunting type of guy.
You might also consider where you will be. I eventually picked CB because they had a lot of women from Mindanao, which was my destination at the time.
DIA has the big disadvantage in that they have only one pic. DIA may be free, but your holiday is not. You can spend a lot of time on cam checking them out (advised, but time consuming), or waste time meeting women who are as ugly as sin.
For newer members, I would receommend the pay sites.
One of the toughest things for me was keeping track of all the women and their pictures and their contact info.
X
[QUOTE=Blizz]Hey Guys,
After having used Date in asia and feedback here on ISG, I want to give a paid dating site a try.
Right now i am considering:
- filipinaheart.com
- cherryblossoms.com
So your advice on which one might be best will be appreciated.
I do have a free profile on both. FH looks more professional, while the girls on CB seems nicer. The costs would be comparable, so what are your experiences so far. Or on any other dating site.
Thanks![/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Blizz]Hey Guys, After having used Date in asia and feedback here on ISG, I want to give a paid dating site a try.
Right now i am considering: - filipinaheart.com - cherryblossoms.com
So your advice on which one might be best will be appreciated.[/QUOTE]'Strike rate' on both is erratic & comparable. I say hit _all_ the dating sites at once. Its amazing how you see the same faces turn up .. hint hint.. ;)
It can be fun getting girls from dating sites but can quickly become time consuming & more like work than fun. Most girls are using a shotgun approach. Most girls have a different handle "screen name" on each site (cutejoy26 on CB, wowmari75 on DIA etc ), an unrelated email address (hothelen90@yahoo.com.ph), a different yahoo IM handle (snowwhite217@yahoo.com), a borrowed cell phone number and about 37 internet boyfriends all chatting simultaneously.. not much chance of anything meaningful happening here :D
AV
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[quote=blizz]hey guys,
after having used date in asia and feedback here on isg, i want to give a paid dating site a try.
thanks![/quote]
unless you're taking a very long vacation in the phils, just hit the malls, clubs and other filipina gathering places. smile a lot (i mean a lot fellas!), make as much eye contact as you can with every girl who will look your way, strike up conversations with every girl you come into contact with (even if you're not interested) to hone your hunting skills, and don't be afraid to ask the girls for their cell numbers...do all of this even if this is not your normal mode of operation in your home country, or even if this kind of interaction with the ladies makes you uncomfortable. the more you do it, the more natural and comfortable you will become. do it because it is guaranteed to get you laid a handful of times during your stay. as you get better at it, you can single out the women who most interest you and concentrate on them. finally, move around a lot. stay in one place too long and you'll discover just how small the philippines is, and how very large and intricate the grapevine can become. it's very fun and challenging to branch out. i try to visit a new city or island each time i'm there, but alas, the old haunts do call me back from time to time.
i have used the dating sites before with luck, and i have some chat-mates whom i chat with, and i have been given cell numbers from girls i have met online since my last trip to the phils. i might even meet them in january if it's convenient for me to do so, but essentially i don't like planning my trips around meeting a bunch of "hit or miss" women. the effort consumes too much time. there are an enormous amount of women every where you go just waiting to strike-up a conversation with you. whatever your method, you shouldn't have any problems meeting available women in the phils.
always on the quest
yella man
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what he said!
[QUOTE=Yella Man]Unless you're taking a very long vacation in the Phils, just hit the malls, clubs and other Filipina gathering places. Smile a lot (I mean a lot fellas!), make as much eye contact as you can with every girl who will look your way, strike up conversations with every girl you come into contact with - Yella Man[/QUOTE]Sums it up perfectly YM!
It becomes strangely 'other worldly' at times. The ease of picking out a real honey and a short time later being in bed with her has to be experienced to be believed.
AV
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Sums it up perfectly YM!
It becomes strangely 'other worldly' at times. The ease of picking out a real honey and a short time later being in bed with her has to be experienced to be believed.
AV[/QUOTE]But its not only in Phils.. Ive had this in Bangkok too. Confirmed a trip to BKK, and told a new never met before "chat friend". She was waiting in my hotel when my taxi arrived. Completed the registration card, got room keys and looked at my watch. it was 19.10.
By 19.20 we were both naked.
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As for FF post below, brings back memories of arriving in Bkk without a reservation. My old standby, Nana hotel was fully booked, and while walking down the road from Nana a gal asked me where I was going. She was cute as a button and recommended a place and helped me check in and fkd me one way, two ways, sideways, and then left. I was coming in from Hawaii so had a fair bit of jet lag.....she was just what the doctor ordered.
But, I have digressed! She wasn't a chat friend.
Has anyone met this one?
DIA: darah, 28, Philippines
X
[QUOTE=FreebieFan]But its not only in Phils.. Ive had this in Bangkok too. .[/QUOTE]
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Anyone know this girl?
Has anyone ever met this girl from DIA: Anne Roslalda
Any info would be appreciated.
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Is there any sort of code on dateinasia that might indicate that they are p4p?
A girl said something about "working with my friend bar", just wondering if that might be code.
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[quote=cwomd]is there any sort of code on dateinasia that might indicate that they are p4p?
a girl said something about "working with my friend bar", just wondering if that might be code.[/quote]
in chiefthinker´s inquiry for anne roslalda there is some kind of code ;)
"my character is perhaps capricious and selfish.
i am 22 and looking to meet real men and couples for good times. i am into hardcore sex. i am looking for serious inquiries only. i want [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord134][CodeWord134][/url] play, [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord128][CodeWord128][/url] and forcable sex. make me fuck . i will do it all. use me as your personal cum ****. i do not have a mind to have the relation with a man who doesn't show face. filipino must not do me contact either."
of course she might be doing it for free although last sentence contradicts that.
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[QUOTE=Cwomd]Is there any sort of code on dateinasia that might indicate that they are p4p?
A girl said something about "working with my friend bar", just wondering if that might be code.[/QUOTE]
Second answer on more serious note... Majority of bar girls work because they are single mams. You might check "Have children" in the profiles. If there is "Yes (don't live with)" you probably have higher probability for P4P.
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Tagged
Anyone had any luck meeting some Filippina FL's or no pay freebie gals through the introduction website 'Tagged' ?
I have made a few contacts and have some phone numbers but I am just wondering how legitimate these women are or are just fronts for webcam agencies ?
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[QUOTE=White Whale]Second answer on more serious note... Majority of bar girls work because they are single mams. You might check "Have children" in the profiles. If there is "Yes (don't live with)" you probably have higher probability for P4P.[/QUOTE]
Quite a few girls do not disclose they have kids. Only after probing you will find out the truth. Sometimes you will not know till she is naked on your bed.
Lots of P4P girls go on online website posing as regular girls. It is next to impossible to know their true nature.
My advice is if you are into F,F,F no need to worry. Any serious relationships need to be carefull.
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Scammer Alert!
There are at least two scammers on DIA using the Yahoo ID: julianaloveyouall and display name "Happiness Always Gladys love". These moron's MO is to pose as a Filipina and send a request to be added to your Yahoo messenger contacts. They then quickly close the account so you cannot see who it came from in order to prevent you from reporting them once you realize it's a scam. Once they start chatting with you they will reveal that they're in fact from Africa. After that it's a typical weak Nigerian scam attempt. The person making initial contact writes English very well the person who takes over mid chat spells like shit with terrible grammar.
The story is that Gladys the scammer has 40 bags of gold jewelry that her father left her when he died. She needs you to send her $400 to get a passport and visa to get it out of the country. Sound familiar? I told her I would help her once I got there and ran some tests on the gold to make sure it was good. ;) After that Gladys asked me to erase her from my contacts. Yeah right! Sure Gladys.
Do not open your cam or accept picture files from these scammers. They will try to send you picture files embedded with a Trojan. If your firewall and antivirus stops it they'll resort to their idiotic 40 bags of gold con. Do not add anyone to your Yahoo contacts until you chat with them through DIA for while and they pass preliminary screening.
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[QUOTE=Osakagin]Anyone had any luck meeting some Filippina FL's or no pay freebie gals through the introduction website 'Tagged' ?
I have made a few contacts and have some phone numbers but I am just wondering how legitimate these women are or are just fronts for webcam agencies ?[/QUOTE]
I do not explicit answer to give you about "luck". The AC bar girl I met couple of years ago has invited me afterwards to Tagged and Hi5. So she is doing side job as freelancer there.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger] Once they start chatting with you they will reveal that they're in fact from Africa. After that it's a typical weak Nigerian scam attempt. [/QUOTE]
I just noticed a nice feature with Cherry Blossoms is they show the IP address of the location where the poster is working from. IP stands for Internet Protocol and its the "address" of the server that handles the users connection. For Europe and North Africa is troublesome because one company (Ripenet i think) handles most of the traffic, so you may have the same IP for all those countries. But for the PI its one group of IP addresses. You may see pinays working in Europe and Hong Kong etc showing up with those IP addresses.
The other sites should implement that, its not hard to do.
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[QUOTE=Jambo]I just noticed a nice feature with Cherry Blossoms is they show the IP address of the location where the poster is working from. IP stands for Internet Protocol and its the "address" of the server that handles the users connection. For Europe and North Africa is troublesome because one company (Ripenet i think) handles most of the traffic, so you may have the same IP for all those countries. But for the PI its one group of IP addresses. You may see pinays working in Europe and Hong Kong etc showing up with those IP addresses.
The other sites should implement that, its not hard to do.[/QUOTE]
I just checked Cherry Blossoms site and they are having big problems with scammers too. One guy said he got taken for $50 and another for $5,000. I think the safest way to go is just say no to any request and refuse to communicate with anyone without a photo and active profile. Refusing any picture files and email attachments is probably the safest way to avoid being sent a Trojan or some nasty viruses. At least one member of the CB blog said he wouldn't be renewing because the site was plagued with scammers operating out of Ghana.
Other than the viruses I don't see it as a big deal because no one is getting a penny from me until I meat and stuff them. They just waste a bit of time that could have been better spent scamming some other gullible person.
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Tagged is good
Yes I've met some nice girls through tagged. Of course there are some web cam ones, normally if its a very provocative scantily clad photo it will be a cam girl. But remember cam girls are girls too and some of them are avaiolable to meet in person too, especially the ones who are doing it as a sideline not full time
[QUOTE=Osakagin]Anyone had any luck meeting some Filippina FL's or no pay freebie gals through the introduction website 'Tagged' ?
I have made a few contacts and have some phone numbers but I am just wondering how legitimate these women are or are just fronts for webcam agencies ?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]
Other than the viruses I don't see it as a big deal because no one is getting a penny from me until I meat and stuff them. They just waste a bit of time that could have been better spent scamming some other gullible person.[/QUOTE]
Agreed! Why guys loose money to scammers is a mystery to me. Who sends money to people they have never met? And by the way, if you're one of those members who does that PM me so I can give you my address so you can send a little this way. Because my mother is sick and needs an operation, my brother was in a trike accident and I need to pay his doctor bill, my sister needs tuition money, and I need a new cell phone so I can call you every day baby! Mwuaaah! :)
Yella Man
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Right Away!
[QUOTE=Yella Man] my brother was in a trike accident and I need to pay his doctor bill,
Yella Man[/QUOTE]I have never heard of a trike accident yet. I will send that money right away!
What country do I need to send it too. Are you stuck in Nigeria on mission work as well?
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Against My Better Judgement
[QUOTE=Yella Man]Agreed! Why guys loose money to scammers is a mystery to me. Who sends money to people they have never met? And by the way, if you're one of those members who does that PM me so I can give you my address so you can send a little this way. Because my mother is sick and needs an operation, my brother was in a trike accident and I need to pay his doctor bill, my sister needs tuition money, and I need a new cell phone so I can call you every day baby! Mwuaaah! :)
Yella Man[/QUOTE]YM - it is idiots who send money to people they never met. It is also idiots who think I will do the same. But, the scam is not limited to the Pinays. There are many american girls who get plenty via the internet.
I decided to chat with a girl I met on a DIA-like site. Although it was "Against My Better Judgement" the session did not seem like a scam. She said she had no job. However, she said repeatedly that she was looking for a lender to help her set up a business. She never did come out and ask me for money.
I suppose this was a non-confrontational way to ask me for money? What do others think?
My rule is the same as Chocha Monger who said "no one is getting a penny from me until I meat and stuff them."
If I want a h00ker, they are easy enough to find. I dont need sites like DIA to find one. For me, these sites are only good for finding a GF. I am looking for a GF in the PI.
Next time, I will very clear up front (in advance of the conversation) that no one is getting a penny from me until I meat and stuff them.
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Taken for $5,000 ???
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]I just checked Cherry Blossoms site and they are having big problems with scammers too. One guy said he got taken for $50 and another for $5,000.[/QUOTE]Wow, what kind of idiot would send $5,000 to someone they don't know really well? I wouldn't even send $5,000 to my brother. (Of course, that is *because* I know him.)
Whoever got scammed for that kind of money deserves it, IMHO. As for the scammer.... well, one of Murphy's Laws is, "It is morally wrong to allow a sucker to keep his money." LOL
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[QUOTE=Water Boy]I decided to chat with a girl I met on a DIA-like site. Although it was "Against My Better Judgement" the session did not seem like a scam. She said she had no job. However, she said repeatedly that she was looking for a lender to help her set up a business. She never did come out and ask me for money.
I suppose this was a non-confrontational way to ask me for money? What do others think?
My rule is the same as Chocha Monger who said "no one is getting a penny from me until I meat and stuff them."
If I want a h00ker, they are easy enough to find. I dont need sites like DIA to find one. For me, these sites are only good for finding a GF. I am looking for a GF in the PI.
Next time, I will very clear up front (in advance of the conversation) that no one is getting a penny from me until I meat and stuff them.[/QUOTE]I agree and also disagree. I met this girl in DIA (photos here [post]927172[/post]) and it took me almost 5 months and 5000P to get her to Manila. She finished her contract and wanted to go to Manila to be with her sister and try to apply to go overseas. I sent her the money (after 100's of text and hours of webcaming and figured either way, maybe she will be all that or maybe I am out 5000P (no big deal). I met her and her sister in the mall at Jolly bee's and her sister gave her the blessing to go with me, because I am a nice guy:D and her sister told her that she had to be home by 10 pm. She told me in the room that her family thinks that she is a virgin. When we got to the room she was on me within 2 minutes and we fucked three times in three hours. I love the Philippines:D
I think if you send money, you should know the girl and not send money to the girl you met today:(
IMHO,
Robb
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Can You Spot the Scam in this Chat?
Had this nice looking 19yr old on chat for the first time, but it was apparent to me pretty quickly that she was up to no good! Can you spot the scam?
her <ding>
her ..hello
her tnx for adding
her <ding>
me Hey there
me No prob
her hmmm tnx again
her k
her :)
me No luck on d serch
her y?
me Jus asking beautiful
me Did the typhoon hit Davao?
her ...hmmm not so
her just in manila
mm Gooood!
her yeah
me I'll b there to dive in Jan
her really?
her wow
her hmm
her y?
me Yup. Diving
her ...wow
her gud 4 u
me Yup
her wat are u doing now?
me Watching a movie
me U?
her hmmm research
her for my assignment
me Research on?
me Aaah ok
her articles of radiologic tecthology
me Ok. Great
her hmmmm yeah
me U becoming a nurse?
her radiologist
her hmmmm if there are some cud support my study
me Xray me! Hahahaa
her yeah
her xray u
me Yup
her hmmm 2000
me ?
her sister
me Sister?
her heheeh for my sister msg sorry
her im asking for my tuition for her
her hehehe
me K
me Ur a tad bit young but I'll messege u wen I get to Davao. Mayb we could meet.
her i hope so
her hmmm
me K
me I'll b at d Marco Polo
her ...i hope to see u soon
me K
me We'll chat more later ok. Take care always beautiful.
her same here
The subtle ways they try to part us from our money are many, so be careful online. Like another member said, "stuff the hole first", then you can be generous if you like.
Yella Man
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tnx yella man.
Like another member said, "stuff the hole first", then you can be generous if you like.
I never send money and am currently in cebu city. My plate is full from all angles. Plenty of ladies here are looking for just a little to help them or their family just a little. But as always, trust them only as they look in your eyes and taste your juices, cuz when they leave you, they are going to plan 'b'.
Jes
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Do they get jealous? Of course not.
Had a cute conversation with a very tasty 20 year old on DIA. We then exchanged Friendster pages so we could see more of each other's pics then added each other as friends.
12 hours later my Friendster page has not one but TWO comments, from previous freebies, both asking why I had added a 20 year old girl and did I intend to meet her.
Now they could have posted these as messages, but by posting them as comments, everyone gets to see.
The comments just got deleted.
Im sure the next few hours will see a comment that says "why did you delete my comment.".
They are so sweet.
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1 photos
Recent messages between a Tagged Filipina contact and myself. The photo was her lead picture.
Me: Wow ..shame that you don't really look like that!! But you look pretty good anyway.
Her: LOOK LIKE WHAT?WHAT U MEAN IF U DONT MIND?
Me: No need to shout. The girl whose pic you posted as your lead photo, of course. I assume that hot lady is not you?
Her: ahhh ok....im not shouting anyway.
Duh ... if they had a brain, they would be dangerous!
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"you look pretty good anyway" ??? Shall we assume there were other pictures that were obviously different than the top pic? I'll assume so.
What are you whining about? X
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Recent messages between a Tagged Filipina contact and myself. The photo was her lead picture.
Me: Wow ..shame that you don't really look like that!! But you look pretty good anyway.
Her: LOOK LIKE WHAT?WHAT U MEAN IF U DONT MIND?
Me: No need to shout. The girl whose pic you posted as your lead photo, of course. I assume that hot lady is not you?
Her: ahhh ok....im not shouting anyway.
Duh ... if they had a brain, they would be dangerous![/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Yella Man]Had this nice looking 19yr old on chat for the first time, but it was apparent to me pretty quickly that she was up to no good! Can you spot the scam?
me Aaah ok
her articles of radiologic tecthology
me Ok. Great
her hmmmm yeah
me U becoming a nurse?
her radiologist
her hmmmm if there are some cud support my study
me Xray me! Hahahaa
her yeah
her xray u
me Yup
her hmmm 2000
Yella Man[/QUOTE]Ha HA. Love your x-ray reply yella. Good humour
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[QUOTE=X Man] Shall we assume there were other pictures that were obviously different than the top pic? [/QUOTE]
Obviously ...
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In which case, we have to give credit to a woman who knows what a man is attracted to and knows how to advertize herself. She seem quite inteliligent, in a basic sort of way. But, in the end, she show's the real deal. Intelligent and honest.
Oh, sorry CS, what was your point? Does she have a brain? I would say that yes, she has a brain. Sorry if my opinion surprises you.
X
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Obviously ...[/QUOTE]
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Bloody hell, man....is she a relative of yours? Your IQ levels are probably the same.
[QUOTE=X Man] Sorry if my opinion surprises you.
[/QUOTE]
Your contrary opinions never surprises me. So no need to apologize.
Any further comments, kindly address as PM's. I'm sure the forum does not need to be subjected to more of your over analytical drivel.
Is it the wrong time of the month for you?
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Scammer!
If anyone is chatting with conservative_girl2001 you need to dump her(I suspect it's a male) quick. After a long first chat in which she/he claimed they had no cam, claimed they lived in a town with no internet cafe that had cams, claimed they had no mobile phone that I could call, claimed they had no friends with a mobile phone that I could call, amd kept calling me "honey"!
Of all my trips to the pinas, I have never had a girl call me honey. Baby, sure...but never honey. The pictures she/he posted on FH were nice, and she/he even sent me a bunch more via email. Bet it isn't her though. I reported her/him to FH staff and they have removed her profile. It's a jungle out there!
Yella Man
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Pictures on DIA
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Recent messages between a Tagged Filipina contact and myself. The photo was her lead picture.
Me: Wow ..shame that you don't really look like that!! But you look pretty good anyway.
Her: LOOK LIKE WHAT?WHAT U MEAN IF U DONT MIND?
Me: No need to shout. The girl whose pic you posted as your lead photo, of course. I assume that hot lady is not you?
Her: ahhh ok....im not shouting anyway.
Duh ... if they had a brain, they would be dangerous![/QUOTE]
Tips to spot real vs fake pictures.
1. Never go by Photoshopped pics. These look like portrait pictures.
They do not even remotely match their faces on cam.
2. Always look at the background. If it looks natural setting most often
it is authentic. In some cases the girl looks better on cam.
3. Avoid talking to girls with pictures showing her boobs or in scanty clothes.
These girls I found are desparate and will jump into bed with anybody.
4. Check the pics to see if it shows part of the body not just the face.
I met one girl in Cebu who had a cute face on pic as well as cam , only to
see she is overweight and it was like screwing a whale.
5. Look for how much make up the girl the girl has in pics as well as in cam.
Make up usually hide ugly scars.
6. Finally some of the girls put pictures when they are 15 years old. Naturally
look very pretty. Only to see aged look on cam. Besides they all lie
about how old they are.
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No, she's not a relative, but considering the picture, I wish she was.
Glad to hear that my contrary opinions don't SURPRISES you.
Later, I hope to post some pictures which might DELIGHTS you.
But if I you don't like the pictures, I apologize in advance ...I'm really sorry that they DISAPPOINTS you.
X ***pm me if you want to correct our grammar :-)
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]
Your contrary opinions never surprises me. [/QUOTE]
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Some good tips, but actually, they DON'T all lie.
I'll stick my neck out and say MOST don't lie.
Sammon may have just overgeneralized, most of his post is quite accurate.
X
[QUOTE=Sammon]Besides they all lie
about how old they are.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Sammon]...
3. Avoid talking to girls with pictures showing her boobs or in scanty clothes.
These girls I found are desparate and will jump into bed with anybody.
...[/QUOTE] yeah, I am really gonna try to avoid that ;-)
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[QUOTE=Yella Man]If anyone is chatting with conservative_girl2001 you need to dump her(I suspect it's a male) quick. After a long first chat in which she/he claimed they had no cam, claimed they lived in a town with no internet cafe that had cams, claimed they had no mobile phone that I could call, claimed they had no friends with a mobile phone that I could call, amd kept calling me "honey"!
Of all my trips to the pinas, I have never had a girl call me honey. Baby, sure...but never honey. The pictures she/he posted on FH were nice, and she/he even sent me a bunch more via email. Bet it isn't her though. I reported her/him to FH staff and they have removed her profile. It's a jungle out there!
Yella Man[/QUOTE]Sounds fishy. Or not fishy, haha. Maybe we chatted with the same girl but different screen name because it sounds exactly like one who chatted with me. I tried to lure her out too, but she did try to sign me up to a website where I could see her on cam there. Except, she really liked me and didn't want me to actually watch her on cam if I didn't want to, just to sign on there so we could chat and help to get her quota. I said I don't pay online and I would be in Manila in 5 days (which was true) and would like to help her out then and take her out for a coffee. Then she got mad, hahaha. Beautiful pic though.
Ya, I was so close to giving my credit card number out online I had to break my card, not.
BTW, my regular girl calls me hon, is that the same? Damm, when I'm home in 4 days I will have to do another detailed examination of all areas to make sure I'm not getting scammed, haha
Peace out!
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Its Just Sad..
Cherry Blossoms Member C01224266
[quote]I'm Single and I have 3 Children...
I am a good clean woman.....IF YOUR INTENTIONS ARE NOT PURE, STAY AWAY FROM ME....Nobody is perfect.[/quote]
Well she has some nads, posting a profile. Maybe there is a white knight out there. Hope she had a couple of daughters, maybe a chance for future income that way. Not a bad looker..
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[QUOTE=Henio]yeah, I am really gonna try to avoid that ;-)[/QUOTE]
You are not in a bar trying to barfine a girl. The fact that you are searching in these sites is to find a presumably normal girl with hopefully some extras. You definitely want to avoid high mileage girls.
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[QUOTE=Sammon]You definitely want to avoid high mileage girls.[/QUOTE] Yes exactly. I won't hold a girls past affairs against her exactly. But if the men a girl may encounter in her life is a stream--I prefer to fish upriver.
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DIA is probably the last place you want to look for a normal girl. These girls are worst than bargirls. Most bargirls are happy to sell you their pussy and call it a day but internet girls are trying to hit the jackpot. Jackpot being a visa to a more prosperous country and lifetime support via children and marriage. They get online with pretentious bullshit about being “conservative”. Put them on cam and you’ll notice that they’re doing multiple chats trying to scam as many suckers as possible. At least bargirls have the courtesy to wait until you get your nut before requesting money or gifts. Plus you can talk shit with a bargirl without all the faux modesty. Online dating sites are simply virtual boot camps where these girls refine their lying, scamming and cheating skills. If you want normal find a Filipina who has never been on a dating or social networking site. Think about this. When you set up your profile with a location in your home country you’ll still be contacted by hordes of Filipinas. This indicates that they’re searching for you based on your country of citizenship. Set up a profile with a location and nationality of a poor country with everything else being equal and see how many hits you get.
Anyone looking for an Asian girl to play house with would be better off looking in Vietnam or China. Filipinas are fun to dump your load in but if you’re not going to live in the Philippines and keep them there you’re setting yourself up for a whole lot of hurt. I found one on DIA who is currently in Minnesota looking for a sucker. She came on fiancé visa to marry a guy but he called it off. Well, she just overstayed her visa and resorted to the old tricks of finding another sucker online. Bringing one of these girls to the US is like catching a bad case of herpes. They never go away. If they end up on public assistance the government will enforce the affidavit of support that you signed when you sponsored them. It’s true that another guy usually picks them up and supports them before it gets to that point but you may not be that lucky. You’ll be even less lucky if she gets a slick immigration lawyer and files for residency under the abuse clause.
If you’re a transient sex tourist stick to the bargirls. You’ll save yourself time, money and a whole lot of aggravation.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]DIA is probably the last place you want to look for a normal girl. These girls are worst than bargirls. Most bargirls are happy to sell you their pussy and call it a day but internet girls are trying to hit the jackpot. Jackpot being a visa to a more prosperous country and lifetime support via children and marriage. They get online with pretentious bullshit about being “conservative”. Put them on cam and you’ll notice that they’re doing multiple chats trying to scam as many suckers as possible. At least bargirls have the courtesy to wait until you get your nut before requesting money or gifts. Plus you can talk shit with a bargirl without all the faux modesty. Online dating sites are simply virtual boot camps where these girls refine their lying, scamming and cheating skills. If you want normal find a Filipina who has never been on a dating or social networking site. Think about this. When you set up your profile with a location in your home country you’ll still be contacted by hordes of Filipinas. This indicates that they’re searching for you based on your country of citizenship. Set up a profile with a location and nationality of a poor country with everything else being equal and see how many hits you get.
Anyone looking for an Asian girl to play house with would be better off looking in Vietnam or China. Filipinas are fun to dump your load in but if you’re not going to live in the Philippines and keep them there you’re setting yourself up for a whole lot of hurt. I found one on DIA who is currently in Minnesota looking for a sucker. She came on fiancé visa to marry a guy but he called it off. Well, she just overstayed her visa and resorted to the old tricks of finding another sucker online. Bringing one of these girls to the US is like catching a bad case of herpes. They never go away. If they end up on public assistance the government will enforce the affidavit of support that you signed when you sponsored them. It’s true that another guy usually picks them up and supports them before it gets to that point but you may not be that lucky. You’ll be even less lucky if she gets a slick immigration lawyer and files for residency under the abuse clause.
If you’re a transient sex tourist stick to the bargirls. You’ll save yourself time, money and a whole lot of aggravation.[/QUOTE]I think newbies/mongers should give you a fee for filling them in on the quick and dirty and how to get down to business. Very well said. And I'm glad I don't live in Minnesota anymore!
Peace out!
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]
Anyone looking for an Asian girl to play house with would be better off looking in Vietnam [/QUOTE]
Any recommended websites for vietnam?
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[QUOTE=Amjeck]Any recommended websites for vietnam?[/QUOTE]
I would not recommend websites where girls are specifically targeting foreigners. These girls have a motive to escape their home country. You'll just get used. Use a non-dating site like Facebook and try to friend some girls from your country of interest. Many wouldn't respond but a few will, but all you need is a few because once you become part of their network you can friend their friends. Call it viral mongering if you like. You will meet upper class girls that you wouldn't have a chance making contact with otherwise. You'll have to get creative using the sites' search function. In my case I stumbled upon the key accidentally while trying to find a long lost Vietnamese girlfriend who was very good to me.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]DIA is probably the last place you want to look for a normal girl. These girls are worst than bargirls.[/QUOTE]
Have met many nice, respectable Filipinas on DIA and as always YMMV.
You sound very jaded, perhaps a victim of a goldigger yourself?
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]She came on fiancé visa to marry a guy but he called it off. Well, she just overstayed her visa and resorted to the old tricks of finding another sucker online.[/QUOTE]
Doesn't the woman have to get married or go home after three months?
If she has overstayed her visa, she is an offender. Isn't this grounds for deportation?
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[QUOTE=Mattrick]Have met many nice, respectable Filipinas on DIA and as always YMMV.
You sound very jaded, purhaps a victim of a goldigger yourself?
Doesn't the woman have to get married or go home after three months?
If she has overstayed her visa, she is an offender. Isn't this grounds for deportation?[/QUOTE]
Mattrick:
Maybe, I'm tarring them all with the same brush but there are an awful lot of the bad kind on DIA and FH. Perhaps, you're just lucky or an optimist. Sure you can find the odd diamond in the rough. I wouldn't deny that. And no I haven't been a victim because my policy is to stuff the turkey before ladling on the gravy. I prefer to be skeptical and pleasantly surprised rather than trusting and unpleasantly surprised. Let's chalk this one down to glass half filled vs. glass half empty.
Yes to both your last two questions. At least that's the theoretical part of how the law is supposed to work but in reality it rarely works out like that. If she can get another sucker to marry her she can get off if the new sponsor pays a fine on her behalf. Who does and doesn't get deported from the US is based on an algorithm even more secret than the one Google uses to determine search engine rankings.
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This one from DIA is really weird.
c/o the church? And mailing a laptop would be insanity. Surely she must realize it would be stolen before delivery.
"i am after of your money"????
X I can't help thinking this is just a joke by a bunch of kids, but who knows...
elow...
how r u??
can i ask u a favor??
can i ask u for a laptop.
irily badly needed it since im taking up nursing..
hoping you would not mind that i am after of your money.
its just i nid it this time for our thesis..
i wil just pay you after i graduate nd get a job..
by this time, my parents dont have sufficient balance to provide me a laptop
i am expecting for your positive reponse.
i knoe that computer ther in your country is much less compared here..
by the way here is my address if you had planned to send it via LBC.
(name / address deleted)
c/o IGLESIA NI CRISTO COMPOUND
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[QUOTE=X Man]can i ask u for a laptop.[/QUOTE]LOL! Last I heard, cheap cell phones were nice gifts to reward great service. Now we need to provide laptops! ? What's next."please send deed to house in martha's vinyard. Please make near single Kennedys."
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I know of a few fiance visas that had happy endings.
You seem to be exagerrating a worst case scenario. X
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]If she can get another sucker to marry her she can get off if the new sponsor pays a fine on her behalf. .[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Mattrick]Have met many nice, respectable Filipinas on DIA and as always YMMV.
You sound very jaded, perhaps a victim of a goldigger yourself?
Doesn't the woman have to get married or go home after three months?
If she has overstayed her visa, she is an offender. Isn't this grounds for deportation?[/QUOTE]
Yes, according to the Fiance visa rules marriage has to take place within 90 days of arrival. If it does not happen it is the Citizens's responsibility to make sure the girl/boy goes back to their country. Rules also state that both need to stay together unless religious customs do not approve. In this case the petitioner has to bear the expenses of housing.
However nobody can be held hostage against their will. If the person leaves with no forwarding address they become illegal immigrants and subject to deportation if caught. The petitioner only has to report this to the police department as missing person and to the immigration authorities.
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[QUOTE=Osakagin]Anyone had any luck meeting some Filippina FL's or no pay freebie gals through the introduction website 'Tagged' ?
I have made a few contacts and have some phone numbers but I am just wondering how legitimate these women are or are just fronts for webcam agencies ?[/QUOTE]
The last trip I took the Cebu, ALL of my dates were arranged beforehand on Tagged. I didn't even look at any of the other sites mentioned on here.
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[QUOTE=X Man]I know of a few fiance visas that had happy endings.
You seem to be exagerrating a worst case scenario. X[/QUOTE]
Tarring 'em all with the same brush am I? Not really, for every fairy tale happy ever after ending there are numerous others that end like Greek tragedies. The folks at the embassy know this. They know how many of these girls skip out on their fiance visas and never return home. Why do you think they treat them like shit when they show up at the US Embassy for the interview? They charge hefty application fees because they know that many of these girls will do a runner from the old goat who sponsored them. The number of people who abscond on US visas from a given country on an annual basis has a direct effect on the difficulty other citizens from that country will encounter when trying to get a visa.
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this is the entire substance of one profile on DIA. I guess she has gotten frustrated with some of the types of guys approaching her. The truth is that there are a variety of different types of girls on that website. As one person here remarked a few days ago, some are worse than bargirls. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Some have shown up ready to jump into bed, which is not necessarily a bad thing. The ones-- actually some of the ones -- that consider themselves good girls will refuse to have sex on the first date. after such an occurrence, one girl kept texting me. I told her was disappointed that nothing happened and she told me that it was only our first date and on the second date, everything would happen. I had gotten spoiled so I didn't go out with her a second time. Anyway, this is what that one girl wrote:
If You're As Shallow As A Kiddy Pool, Bother The Next Person
SO! How weird are some people on this website? Most of you are seriously superficial, and some of you are just plain creepy. If you're looking for your picture perfect 34-24-34 Coca Cola Bottle girl, good luck with that and if you're into doing the freaky, there are plenty of other women on this website who would be glad to help you make your wildest dreams a reality.
1. I'm not a ladyboy. If you're into that kind of thing, good for you!
2. I don't need money. As of yet, all my family are in good health and are financially stable.
3. I don't need a husband to take me away to greener pastures; I'm happy where I am.
4. I'm not a webcam girl. So don't ask me to take my clothes off for you.
If you want to know more about me, then feel free to send me a message.
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Dates with online gals
It's really offputting to read a profile like this, but as CT implies, there seems to be a few people out there who spend time harassing or insulting the ladies online.
Oh, the "second date"? I've made a move a few times early on during a first date, and been rebuffed. I just kept smiling and suggested we do something else...take a walk, stop for a drink.....etc...and somehow got her into bed eventually.
What did I do that worked? Hmmm, not really sure. Maybe, not putting pressure on her. Also, keeping up the romance so that she felt comfortable that there WOULD be a second date. Or maybe it was the alcohol!
Of course there was one lady who went home earlier than I hoped on our first date. But we made some plans the next day. Soon after HER DRIVER dropped her off at my hotel the next day, we were going at it. Great fun.
X
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]this is the entire substance of one profile on DIA. I guess she has gotten frustrated with some of the types of guys approaching her. The truth is that there are a variety of different types of girls on that website. As one person here remarked a few days ago, some are worse than bargirls. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Some have shown up ready to jump into bed, which is not necessarily a bad thing. The ones-- actually some of the ones -- that consider themselves good girls will refuse to have sex on the first date. after such an occurrence, one girl kept texting me. I told her was disappointed that nothing happened and she told me that it was only our first date and on the second date, everything would happen. I had gotten spoiled so I didn't go out with her a second time. Anyway, this is what that one girl wrote:
If You're As Shallow As A Kiddy Pool, Bother The Next Person
SO! How weird are some people on this website? Most of you are seriously superficial, and some of you are just plain creepy. If you're looking for your picture perfect 34-24-34 Coca Cola Bottle girl, good luck with that and if you're into doing the freaky, there are plenty of other women on this website who would be glad to help you make your wildest dreams a reality.
1. I'm not a ladyboy. If you're into that kind of thing, good for you!
2. I don't need money. As of yet, all my family are in good health and are financially stable.
3. I don't need a husband to take me away to greener pastures; I'm happy where I am.
4. I'm not a webcam girl. So don't ask me to take my clothes off for you.
If you want to know more about me, then feel free to send me a message.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]this is the entire substance of one profile on DIA. I guess she has gotten frustrated with some of the types of guys approaching her. The truth is that there are a variety of different types of girls on that website. As one person here remarked a few days ago, some are worse than bargirls. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Some have shown up ready to jump into bed, which is not necessarily a bad thing. The ones-- actually some of the ones -- that consider themselves good girls will refuse to have sex on the first date. after such an occurrence, one girl kept texting me. I told her was disappointed that nothing happened and she told me that it was only our first date and on the second date, everything would happen. I had gotten spoiled so I didn't go out with her a second time. Anyway, this is what that one girl wrote:
If You're As Shallow As A Kiddy Pool, Bother The Next Person
SO! How weird are some people on this website? Most of you are seriously superficial, and some of you are just plain creepy. If you're looking for your picture perfect 34-24-34 Coca Cola Bottle girl, good luck with that and if you're into doing the freaky, there are plenty of other women on this website who would be glad to help you make your wildest dreams a reality.
1. I'm not a ladyboy. If you're into that kind of thing, good for you!
2. I don't need money. As of yet, all my family are in good health and are financially stable.
3. I don't need a husband to take me away to greener pastures; I'm happy where I am.
4. I'm not a webcam girl. So don't ask me to take my clothes off for you.
If you want to know more about me, then feel free to send me a message.[/QUOTE]
It's only natural for some of these girls to get bitter after being fucked by one monger after another with no K-1 visa or Western Union to show for it. Just pass on the bitter angry profiles and find a fresh one who perhaps hasn't had so many miles of foreign cock ran through her. I love when women post these hateful declarations online because it saves me the trouble of finding out that they're psycho abused chicks after meeting them.
One needs to interpret the language used in these profiles. For example:
1. "I'm not a ladyboy." This means that she looks like a ladyboy and cautious mongers have asked her to make a truthful declaration regarding her gender. Another possibility is that she is indeed a ladyboy trying to run a scam and she/he has to protest loudly to convince online sugar daddies that they're indeed sending money to a woman.
2. "I don't need money." She needs and/or wants money desperately. The biggest gold diggers always claim that money isn't important to them without the man even asking about it.
3. "I don't need a husband to take me away to greener pastures; I'm happy where I am." She desperately wants a husband to take her away to greener pastures. She is very unhappy living in her shit hole. Most guys online aren't offering marriage. They're after a quick fuck so why is she refusing something that is rarely ever offered? She's full of shit. Again this is another attempt to get mongers to lower their guard and believe that she is different from all the others. Yeah right girl!
4. "I'm not a webcam girl. So don't ask me to take my clothes off for you." She has done cam shows for mongers in the past and they didn't send Western Union as promised. Time to change strategy and play virtuous girl.
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[QUOTE=X Man]Oh, the "second date"? I've made a move a few times early on during a first date, and been rebuffed. I just kept smiling and suggested we do something else...take a walk, stop for a drink.....etc...and somehow got her into bed eventually.
X[/QUOTE]I had a great first date once with a gal I met through Adpost. Yes you could score there too in the old days. We met, had drinks and dinner in Rockwell and I suggested we go somewhere else for a drink. She said " no can we go somewhere else not for a drink" I replied " somewhere private " " and she said " Yes please ". In Sogo barely 20 minutes later!
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]some of the ones -- that consider themselves good girls will refuse to have sex on the first date. after such an occurrence, one girl kept texting me. I told her was disappointed that nothing happened and she told me that it was only our first date and on the second date, everything would happen.[/QUOTE]Was in Jakarta last week ( report posted ) and sent sms to lady at 8pm.. hoping we could meet. Said she wasnt that kind of a lady.
We met later in week for lunch, then had a date for drinks and ended in bed. She was the hottest momma I have been with for past ten years. slapping my cock on her face like a pornstar, thanks goodness I went for the second date !!!
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]It's only natural for some of these girls to get bitter after being fucked by one monger after another with no K-1 visa or Western Union to show for it[/QUOTE]EXACTLY!
If you want to know how much shit the women have to endure on those web sites, open a womans profilem on one of them & stand back to marvel at the disgusting assortment of weirdos, creeps & slime balls will soon descend. It made me have a more patient attitude with the girls after I did that.
AV
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[QUOTE=Amavida]EXACTLY!
If you want to know how much shit the women have to endure on those web sites, open a womans profilem on one of them & stand back to marvel at the disgusting assortment of weirdos, creeps & slime balls will soon descend. It made me have a more patient attitude with the girls after I did that.
AV[/QUOTE]The other way of looking at this is an opportunity. I'm amazed when girls always say " you are so nice, you treat me well "
I treat them bad in that I screw them then dump them, but laways do it with a sense of style and humour. Keeps them coming back for more.
Equally, in all chat DIA / Tagged / FRiendster etc I never ask naked pics and same on Ym etc. Then they know I'm decent. Amazing that stupid dumb guys get a gal on cam and the first thing he can say is " show me your tits. "
Thanks goodness there are such tossers around. Makes my job so much easier.
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]The other way of looking at this is an opportunity. I'm amazed when girls always say " you are so nice, you treat me well "
I treat them bad in that I screw them then dump them, but laways do it with a sense of style and humour. Keeps them coming back for more.
Equally, in all chat DIA / Tagged / FRiendster etc I never ask naked pics and same on Ym etc. Then they know I'm decent. Amazing that stupid dumb guys get a gal on cam and the first thing he can say is " show me your tits. "
Thanks goodness there are such tossers around. Makes my job so much easier.[/QUOTE]
I agree! Most of the girls I chat with tell me how "Nice" I am. I never have a problem trying to meet these girls if I actually want to meet them. The words tits, ass, and pussy never come up in any of my chats. Those are things best left for the hotel room. :)
Another CB girl to avoid is C01431021, YM id sexyphilippines2009. Her whole chat was about doom and gloom. She even started out by saying she didn't know where she would be staying the next day because her landlord was kicking her out because she couldn't pay rent. The whole chat went downhill from that point. She even asked me to buy her a phone because she didn't have one! So yes, it's a good idea to be a gentleman during your chat sessions. It's an entirely different thing if you fall for the bullshit many of the girls despense through chat. I simply told her "it's too bad you dont have a phone, or I would call you when I get to CDO". She gave me her number right away! She forgot to keep track of her own lies!
Yella Man
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Excellent!
A great post, but most of all I would agree that readers DO NOT give hell to the obvious scammers. They are in training and the more you fk with them, the better they get.
YM has a great strategy.
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[QUOTE=Yella Man]I agree! Most of the girls I chat with tell me how "Nice" I am. I never have a problem trying to meet these girls if I actually want to meet them. The words tits, ass, and pussy never come up in any of my chats. Those are things best left for the hotel room. :)
Another CB girl to avoid is C01431021, YM id sexyphilippines2009. Her whole chat was about doom and gloom. She even started out by saying she didn't know where she would be staying the next day because her landlord was kicking her out because she couldn't pay rent. The whole chat went downhill from that point. She even asked me to buy her a phone because she didn't have one! So yes, it's a good idea to be a gentleman during your chat sessions. It's an entirely different thing if you fall for the bullshit many of the girls despense through chat. I simply told her "it's too bad you dont have a phone, or I would call you when I get to CDO". She gave me her number right away! She forgot to keep track of her own lies!
Yella Man[/QUOTE]
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White Knights and Charity
Clearly a not-so-small industry has grown up around the online scamming. I really don't understand why the govt abolished the private video chat rooms. Money is money.
Reading other 'straight' PI forums, I realize that its not just mongers and potential suitors sending money to girls. There are men 'sponsoring' girls college expenses. I've had those come-ons also. Nursing school costs money. "I am looking for a sponsor". Seems like every exam or certification has a fee. These 'sponsors', I can't believe they have any direct knowledge if the money is actually being spent on school, or on Tanduay for dad. A guy on another board admitted after sponsoring a girls school, she ended up in a bar because it paid more than a call center job.
Want to be charitable, help people out? Wonderful idea. Why not give to an appropriate charity, in CASH, and let them decide where is it needed? Flood victims for example. Poor people who live where there is no electricity and Internet cafes.
Say you're a charity passing out rice, and you unload the planeload of rice at the airport, and park outside giving it out. The refugees will all move to the airport and stop working, waiting for the next load of rice to arrive. Other refugees will hear about it, and they will migrate to the place where the rice arrives. Just as well, girls migrate to the cafes at all hours of the night because they hear about stupid guys who send money.
But we gotta put a face on our charity, don't we? Just like those old Sally Struthers commercials, "We'll send you a picture of the little girl you are sponsoring". Well what about the other kids in the school. They're in rags, and here is this one girl (is it ever a boy?) with new clothes and books.
Well please excuse me for venting. I know it's been gone over before. And its not like I didn't to it also. But for me, from now on its pay as you go.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]EXACTLY!
If you want to know how much shit the women have to endure on those web sites, open a womans profilem on one of them & stand back to marvel at the disgusting assortment of weirdos, creeps & slime balls will soon descend. It made me have a more patient attitude with the girls after I did that.
AV[/QUOTE]
It is so sad that these girls get on online thinking that they will find some nice gentleman from a rich country to rescue them from all the poverty and squalor. Instead all they get for their trouble and pesos spent on internet cafe fees is a hard Viagra inflamed prick in their guts and a bunch of empty promises.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]It is so sad that these girls get on online thinking that they will find some nice gentleman from a rich country to rescue them from all the poverty and squalor. Instead all they get for their trouble and pesos spent on internet cafe fees is a hard Viagra inflamed prick in their guts and a bunch of empty promises.[/QUOTE]Yep. There is a fine line between fun & inflicting misery. Maintain your Karma is my motto...
AV
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Another angry female
This is what Merry Anne has to say--
jes dont make DIA as a key for cam to cam sex okies? :)
that's enough. i will spam every foolish man who invited me on a cam sex.!
ohh see me at [url]www.friendster.com[/url] to know more about me.. <billieca_meneses@yahoo.com>
>DONT INVITE ME ON A CAM SEX CAUSE I MIGHT CLICK "REPORT AS SPAM" THERE
> I DONT WANT TO BE AN ESCORT TO ANYBODY FOR 2-3 WEEKS.!
> I'M NOT SHORT TERM KIND OF PERSON.,!!
>AND LASTLY.! DONT COMPARE ME ON ANY OTHER FILIPINA.! EVERY PERSON ARE NOT THE SAME..!!!
>THIS JES A FEW RULES AND REGULATIONS ACCORDING TO MY AUTONOMY.!<
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bhadzjen from davao
bhadzjen from davao declares....
virginity is sacred....
FELLOWS,
Hi,I am Jennilyn Torregosa,18 years young,i came from davao city.A simple girl living in a simple way,i am young by age but mature in my head.i did'nt do good things juz for the sake of good impression,im not pretensious and im not fake.i cant say that im not a liar coz every one of us commits lie,i cant say that i am good coz not all the time we are good,i cant say that i am honest coz there's always hidden behind our honesty.i am picky coz im aware of stupid and bulshit guys.i juz finished high school but i am smart and clever.i am a decent woman,im not a ***** nor a prosti,i dont have lots of money coz i did'nt sell my body.
I dont have house and lot to own,i dont hve car to ride,i do hve celphone but not that much expensive,i dont have profession to be proud of but im dreaming and striving for it.i owned only a good heart to offer u,my smile and my lips to touch,my arms that u can lean on and my life that cant live without u in my side.
WHEN I CHOOSED YOU,ITS ONLY YOU.
i hate people who under estimate me,wer juz human,no more,no less.,i dont want to be petied coz im not a beggar.,i juz want to be accepted as the whole me without hesitations.
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]virginity is sacred....[/QUOTE]
Hmm maybe a little ceremony? Darken the room, get some candles. Wear a red robe. Put her naked on the dresser. "omni-domni"
I had girl lined up to give her cherry to me, then her mom got ahold of her phone and started texting me. I didn't know it was momma, so I was explaining how it might go. Well you can imagine my little plan was quashed!
I even had a bi-girl lined up to join and help out. Shoot.
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virginity is sacred....
All good things must come to an end
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Joylove: IM JUST REALLY EASY TO GET BUT HARD TO FORGET....
Im Just Really Easy To Get But Hard To Forget....
Im Just Being Simple,but Attractive..i Am Studying As Of Now.my Interest Is Chatting,having Conversation Through Net...my Hobbies Are Dancing,i Am A Member Of Marjorette In Our School...i Love To Travel And Work In Abroad Just For My Future Coz I Want To Help My Family To Surpass In Poverty...i Have No Bf Coz My Priority Is My Studies...to All Naughty And Stupid Foriegner..dont Waste Ur Time! Im Not A Prostitute!!!! And To Those Liar And Pretender Please Dont Waste Ur Time Of Making Me Fool!dont Have Time For That......thanks But Im Just Being Frank!
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]Im Just Really Easy To Get But Hard To Forget....
Im Just Being Simple,but Attractive..i Am Studying As Of Now.my Interest Is Chatting,having Conversation Through Net...my Hobbies Are Dancing,i Am A Member Of Marjorette In Our School...i Love To Travel And Work In Abroad Just For My Future Coz I Want To Help My Family To Surpass In Poverty...i Have No Bf Coz My Priority Is My Studies...to All Naughty And Stupid Foriegner..dont Waste Ur Time! Im Not A Prostitute!!!! And To Those Liar And Pretender Please Dont Waste Ur Time Of Making Me Fool!dont Have Time For That......thanks But Im Just Being Frank![/QUOTE]
This one seems to have been fucked several times by you naughty foreign mongers. She swears she wouldn't fall for all of your sweet talk, lies, empty promises and your foreign currency but she always seems to end up in a motel room with a pair of naughty foreign nut sacks in her mouth. She's not a prostitute, okay. She just wants to go to Dubai and suck on some sweaty nuts for her future. Why is she online? Because she knows foreigners are stupid and they'll send her money via Western Union to surpass her family's poverty but she'll actually use it to buy a cell phone. She doesn't like liars and pretenders because she's paying good pesos at the internet cafe to work those six open chat windows and if you're not going to give her a return on her investment, well just don't waste her time. Her interest is chatting and scamming stupid foreigners on the internet. She has no boyfriend because her priorities are her studies yet her spelling and grammar are atrocious, not to mention she's on a dating site?
The angry ones who have seen miles of cock always seem to end up on the internet. They get stuck in a cycle of being used, re-used and abused. Every time they get fucked and tossed they get a little crazier. This is true even in the US. A guy who used the net to find easy fucks once showed me some women he fucked five years ago from a dating site. He said nothing changed their ages seemed to remain the same or actually get a bit younger.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]This one seems to have been fucked several times by you naughty foreign mongers. She swears she wouldn't fall for all of your sweet talk, lies, empty promises and your foreign currency but she always seems to end up in a motel room with a pair of naughty foreign nut sacks in her mouth. She's not a prostitute, okay. She just wants to go to Dubai and suck on some sweaty nuts for her future. Why is she online? Because she knows foreigners are stupid and they'll send her money via Western Union to surpass her family's poverty but she'll actually use it to buy a cell phone. She doesn't like liars and pretenders because she's paying good pesos at the internet cafe to work those six open chat windows and if you're not going to give her a return on her investment, well just don't waste her time. Her interest is chatting and scamming stupid foreigners on the internet. She has no boyfriend because her priorities are her studies yet her spelling and grammar are atrocious, not to mention she's on a dating site?
The angry ones who have seen miles of cock always seem to end up on the internet. They get stuck in a cycle of being used, re-used and abused. Every time they get fucked and tossed they get a little crazier. This is true even in the US. A guy who used the net to find easy fucks once showed me some women he fucked five years ago from a dating site. He said nothing changed their ages seemed to remain the same or actually get a bit younger.[/QUOTE]
haha...Good one....perfectly explained.....yet somehow i like these types...they are more giving and easy it seems :)
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]This one seems to have been fucked several times by you naughty foreign mongers...[/QUOTE]
Here's the DIA girl for you Chocha. She looks remarkably like a plastic blow-up doll so maybe she will let you put her away in the wardrobe after use.
Now that would solve a lot of problems;).
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Heading to the Phils (Cebu) for the firSt time soon. I'm setting up my DIA account but as always there's the question of how direct to be. I thought I'd say something like 'looking for sweet, sexy girl for fun and company' etc. etc.
Does anyone know this:
cebuanas.com
It looked promising, but then I noticed that it says 'Where Philippians meet Foreign Men'. A magnet for scammers?
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CM thats an excellent translation. They should have a CM plug-in on the site.
Those girls are often accompanied by the tell-tale "in the hotel room when the white guy who was here last month" pics.
All that said. Clearly from what the girls say, there are a lot of guys who are online to just jerk off. Trying to talk dirty to them. Have no intention to actually go over to see them. I tell girls, if a guy isn't talking about going there within say, 3 months, don't waste your time.
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Neither bhadzjen nor Joylove has answered me!!!! I am so sad......
One girl wrote this as her header:
"Don't judge me outside but touch me inside"
is she saying what I think she is saying?
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[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]Neither bhadzjen nor Joylove has answered me!!!! I am so sad......
One girl wrote this as her header:
"Don't judge me outside but touch me inside"
is she saying what I think she is saying?[/QUOTE]
She wants you to go deep and touch her where it matters. She might not look like a supermodel but she's got a tight fur lined taco in need of a hot meat filling. Don't keep her waiting!
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For me, a good sign: "I can't get online very often"
Bad sign: Online at 2am their time. Online every day. View my Webcam showing for hours
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3 weeks
i think 2-3 weeks would be more realistic
[QUOTE=Jambo]CM thats an excellent translation. They should have a CM plug-in on the site.
Those girls are often accompanied by the tell-tale "in the hotel room when the white guy who was here last month" pics.
All that said. Clearly from what the girls say, there are a lot of guys who are online to just jerk off. Trying to talk dirty to them. Have no intention to actually go over to see them. I tell girls, if a guy isn't talking about going there within say, 3 months, don't waste your time.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Jambo]For me, a good sign: "I can't get online very often"
Bad sign: Online at 2am their time. Online every day. View my Webcam showing for hours[/QUOTE]Can't really go by that. Most Pinays I know and have talked to have multiple Yahoo, MSN, Etc accounts. Plus they can be invisible too or hide the webcam status if they are smart. Use to be a program called Buddy Spy that would scan your friends on Yahoo and could tell you if they are invisible or webcam was on. But its not supported anymore. Might be other such programs though.
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[QUOTE=Neon Noodle]Can't really go by that. Most Pinays I know and have talked to have multiple Yahoo, MSN, Etc accounts. Plus they can be invisible too or hide the webcam status if they are smart. Use to be a program called Buddy Spy that would scan your friends on Yahoo and could tell you if they are invisible or webcam was on. But its not supported anymore. Might be other such programs though.[/QUOTE]To check if your buddy is invisible you can use this page, no need to install :-)
[url]http://www.ydetector.com[/url]
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Read the profile
Read the profile carefully of the little f machine you hope to fuck. I have gone further and I ask you to do the same.
Check out the amount of men on line. X man, bad for you as not so many white asses in Japan are online so your cover might be blown by someone prepared to waste time on you.
If you do this, you will see there are tons of men chasing these machines.
Next, try hitting up the Asian f machines living outside of Asia, France, UK, US etc. You will see they are a lot choosier than little Joy [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] flaps stuck in Manila.
For those of you sneering that Little Ms Pissflaps shows her breasts in the photos, notice that many of the older ones too. That is all they have to offer. That is all they can bring to the party.
Me, I always bring a kind word and plenty of lube but that is all they have. If you do your homework and are patient, you will get to fist fuck them and empty your bowels on them. Here, all can win the lottery.
I will do my KL report soon and then I am off to bag some Rohingya. My type of meat.
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Here, All Can Win The Lottery
[QUOTE=The Departed]Check out the amount of men on line. X man, bad for you as not so many white asses in Japan are online so your cover might be blown by someone prepared to waste time on you...[/QUOTE]
X has nothing to worry about. Lot of suit and tie white types living in Japan. I used to see them all the time going to work while transienting Japan's intricate subway system on my way home to my Prefecture from partying in Roppongi/Yokohama most nights :)
[QUOTE=The Departed] If you do this, you will see there are tons of men chasing these machines.
Next, try hitting up the Asian f machines living outside of Asia, France, UK, US etc. You will see they are a lot choosier than little Joy [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] flaps stuck in Manila..[/QUOTE]
The PI based Filipiana is not that choosy at all. As I have said the dating pool is shit for them.
I used to think the light skin, career having ones were out of reach (read my earlier posts) to "some of us" but from the bar ass shaker, to the corporate level women makes no difference when the possibility to escape PI/Middle East for western pastures arises.
Just look how the average guy gets flooded with hits once they put up a profile on these PI orientated sites.
[QUOTE=The Departed] Here, all can win the lottery..[/QUOTE]
Indeed.
[QUOTE=The Departed]I will do my KL report soon and then I am off to bag some Rohingya. My type of meat.[/QUOTE]
I know some of us are looking forward to it.
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No Disagreement
[QUOTE=Warbucks]X has nothing to worry about. ......[/QUOTE]
I was spweaking about the dating site, not him. Qe are agreed that these lands are full of willing meat. The maazing thing is when they go overseas, they get picky. Another good thing about checking out those in farang land is it is often easy, too easy, to spot the ex bar girls. Making us ask, what nut case brought them over to shame him. Good fucks for those in farang but to think of hitching stars together is very bad for the stomach.
Now, I have to do some homework on these Burmese babes. The culture of Islam is indeed rich and for many of them Malaysia is heaven. And I am their equivalent of the 77 virgins. One would almost pity them.
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Seems Like a Disconnect Here..
Just the one does not match the other. lol
[quote]about our family life..my father is a farmer, he is working with other people and they pay my father thats per day..i just dont know how much... and my mother is working in laundry..sometimes i helped her, i do iron clothes and she wash... our life is really very hard compare to other family here...our house is made of nipa and we dont have electric power at home..my parents cant afford to pay...we dont have TV, washer, refrigerator...we just have transistor radio...maybe u cant believe what kind of life we have here but thats the truth..i dont want to hide it...since i stop studying, if i didnt help my mother working in laundry, i work at home..cleaning, washing our clothes and cooking so when my parents came from work they have food to eat...and after doing all household choires, i am just listening radio....thats our life runs everyday here....but i am still dreaming to continue my studies... i wish my dream will come true someday.....anyway i am still young..[/quote]
Ok sure, I can believe a girl is poor. And maybe a monger took her to Manila, and got her a Starbucks, and some jewelry, and a manacure, and sunglasses. It could happen. Nice looking girl though, but probably expensive in the long run. But she's breaking my heart haha.
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[QUOTE=Mr Durex]To check if your buddy is invisible you can use this page, no need to install :-)
[url]http://www.ydetector.com[/url][/QUOTE]
A problem with this one is it is only interactive and does not collect a log file. You will have to be pushing buddy name to get update.
[QUOTE=Neon Noodle]Can't really go by that. Most Pinays I know and have talked to have multiple Yahoo, MSN, Etc accounts. Plus they can be invisible too or hide the webcam status if they are smart. Use to be a program called Buddy Spy that would scan your friends on Yahoo and could tell you if they are invisible or webcam was on. But its not supported anymore. Might be other such programs though.[/QUOTE]
Yes, development seems to have ended. Latest version I found was 2.2.19 and I could not find correct setting to get Buddy Spy to work. I did some googling and did not find other similar free SW. Or there was one web based that requires registration but it did not detect invisible online users.
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[QUOTE=Jambo]Just the one does not match the other. lol
Ok sure, I can believe a girl is poor. And maybe a monger took her to Manila, and got her a Starbucks, and some jewelry, and a manacure, and sunglasses. It could happen. Nice looking girl though, but probably expensive in the long run. But she's breaking my heart haha.[/QUOTE]
She probably has several online Western Union sponsors funneling economic aid through the UN Cash for Ass Program.
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]She probably has several online Western Union sponsors funneling economic aid through the UN Cash for Ass Program.[/QUOTE]
Now let's be fair here, MoneyGram just took over some of the largest WU stations in PI and is now becoming one of the dominate leaders in the Cash for Ass Program....
While the veterans are used to WU only the fresh babies are starting to know the MoneyGram program as well. :D
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[QUOTE=Jambo]Just the one does not match the other. lol
Ok sure, I can believe a girl is poor. And maybe a monger took her to Manila, and got her a Starbucks, and some jewelry, and a manacure, and sunglasses. It could happen. Nice looking girl though, but probably expensive in the long run. But she's breaking my heart haha.[/QUOTE]
Wow, I think you would be surprised how many of these girls are out there. I have met people and seen shit here in the PI that most people wouldn't believe. I was in Tawi Tawi last week and if you want to see what she was talking about go there.
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Oh I am not nieve about poverty in the PI. I've seen the people living in boxes in Manila. Shoot, the people in the province at least got access to water, food, and cooking fuel.
I was just suggesting that the text she sent me did not seem to match the photo of the girl in Starbucks, which is supposed to be her. She needs to work on her total message.
[quote]Wow, I think you would be surprised how many of these girls are out there.[/quote] OTOH if you meant, how many lying scamming c***ts are in chat, I totally agree and would not be surprised at all.
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Dead give away
[quote=jambo]just the one does not match the other. lol
ok sure, i can believe a girl is poor. and maybe a monger took her to manila, and got her a starbucks, and some jewelry, and a manacure, and sunglasses. it could happen. nice looking girl though, but probably expensive in the long run. but she's breaking my heart haha.[/quote]all the girls find a way to have a pair of skin tight jeans, a tshirt/blouse, nail polish & a pair of sandal shoes, a cheap bracelet & ring & even a cheap cell phone. they beg money from moms & dads, borrow items from sisters & cousins, and occasionally (gasp) work. there is nothing sinister in this pick. they all want to conform to peer pressure.
now if a girl has an expensive cell phone/laptop/clothing... well.. this pretty much a clear sign that she has been selling her ass (one way or another).
cheers
av
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Read this and weep you poor bastard that married her
...i tell you some things of me...when i am givng blowjob to men, I love to get very nasty while i sucking on cock...my spit and mouth slob & drool all over it...very sticky and slimy...VERY NASTY..i did that for a guy before..he tell me to relax my throat and he push his whole cock down my throat..i could feel it go all down and he could see it too..... after he teach me on what to do and how to do it... he LOOOOOVE IT!!.......Ever since, I find that most men love it when women get that way during oral sex..very wild, crazy, make all kinds of sounds, losing all control...like out of control hungry pig eating and making all kind of sex noises. do you liked it when women get very very nasty like the sexual crazy pig during blowjobs? or not into it? If so, what do you find so sexy about it? i love the feeing when I know mens true sex thoughts of me....how they think of me as sex meat....i know you probably did not understand it the way I feel but to some women that is compliment when men view me that way...
k
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[QUOTE=Jambo]
I was just suggesting that the text she sent me did not seem to match the photo of the girl in Starbucks, which is supposed to be her. She needs to work on her total message.[/QUOTE]
Was you maybe expecting a picture of her out in the middle of some godforsaken rice field, knee deep in shit, wearing a paddy hat and her best rice sack dress?
[QUOTE=Jambo] OTOH if you meant, how many lying scamming c***ts are in chat, I totally agree and would not be surprised at all.[/QUOTE]
Don't forget the lying scamming c**ts who are foreign and male and will tell these girls anything just to get into their knickers.
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[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Don't forget the lying scamming c**ts who are foreign and male and will tell these girls anything just to get into their knickers.[/QUOTE]Were you talking to me?
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I'm not sure what AV means by "one way or another", but there are plenty of reasons why a lady (even a lady you met on DIA) might have some nice things. The first that comes to mind is having relatives who work overseas and subsidize the family.
X
[QUOTE=Amavida]
Now if a girl has an EXPENSIVE cell phone/laptop/clothing... well.. this pretty much a clear sign that she has been selling her ass (one way or another).
Cheers
AV[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Were you talking to me?[/QUOTE]
Lol:D - if the face fits, FF. Don't worry, you are not alone; most of us on ISG will be guilty of that at some time or other.
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[QUOTE=Amavida]Maintain your Karma is my motto...
AV[/QUOTE]Great advice, Amavida. Bottom line, as humans, we are all looking for the same thing: love, understanding, and peace in our lives.
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Is she the oldest on DIA
In the "Modt Active " page this morning.
I'm simple woman with dignity. Widow for almost 6 years & now seriously looking a second love appear.
Well its difficult to describe myself if others would disagree but I'm a simple woman, nice and caring. Fun of reading different kind of books. Physically & mentally healthy, socially well oriented. I believe that God is the center of everything. I was provincial gov't employee. I love making conversations with my friends and my family.
Her name is Ampers from San Francisco, Agusan del Sur.
Shes 71!
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]In the "Modt Active " page this morning.
I'm simple woman with dignity. Widow for almost 6 years & now seriously looking a second love appear.
Well its difficult to describe myself if others would disagree but I'm a simple woman, nice and caring. Fun of reading different kind of books. Physically & mentally healthy, socially well oriented. I believe that God is the center of everything. I was provincial gov't employee. I love making conversations with my friends and my family.
Her name is Ampers from San Francisco, Agusan del Sur.
Shes 71![/QUOTE]Good luck and don't forget to let us know how you fare!
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Chicks Sticking Their Tongue Out?
What the heck is going on?? I know they like to copy...I've seen some Japanese anime characters doing that as a kind of genki (healthy) look. Or maybe some TV star did it? Or is it some secret sign that they wanna suck my dick?
I dunno, but someone needs to tell these girls its not attractive..Just shoot the peace sign.
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[QUOTE=Jambo]What the heck is going on?? I know they like to copy...I've seen some Japanese anime characters doing that as a king of genki (healthy) look. Or maybe some TV star did it? Or is it some secret sign that they wanna suck my dick?
I dunno, but someone needs to tell these girls its not attractive..Just shoot the peace sign.[/QUOTE]The "tongue" thing started out as you correctly state because some teen model ( she was doing Bench ads) did it, and you know these kids propensity to copy.
I "think" they think it looks cool or hot or whatever.
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Look Out for my Scamming Wife!
Taken from CL
"My Cheating Filipina wife who has another life i never knew about, Her ex husband didnt know she was married and he and i both was paying all her expenses and schooling for 4years before we found out what she was doing.. She has Many yahoo ids and accounts and we think she has more men sending her money! She is full of lies and after we found this out she went missing and we cannot find a way to contact her. If you see this women, or talked to her online understand she is still married and is a user and dont care who she hurts in the process. She only cares about money! She was a student nurse but finished her schooling last March And she will lie to anyone just to get what she wants! On two of her yahoo ids i have opend i have found out more then 20men she was iviteing to see her! one of them men sent me the webcam videos that was taken just after she and i was married. Contact me ASAP if u know or have seen this women and i can tell you anything you want to know about her.. and one more thing she tells everyone she is 19 years old on some ids and others she is 28.. but she is really 32 her name is lorena Olecia.. If you have met her or are talking to her let me know. and what tattoo she has on her left ring finger to confirme. She cannot get remarried untill we are divorced and i contacted the consulate general of the philippines and the US Embassy about getting her visa and passport revoked for fraud if i find her! you can read more on [url]www.dragonladies.org[/url] under the id Danraine2007, has photos and proof of what she done."
Whoops – yet another poor dupe.
If you see – do not approach – dangerous(ly cute).
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Sudden Blue 08
Wonder if any one here has had any experience with a gal on DIA using the name of Sudden Blue 08 from Cebu.
I have had some interesting chats with her but can't figure out where she is heading. Her profile pic attached.
Any one with personal experience please let me know.
ES
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Looks like a ladyboy
[QUOTE=Eaglestar]Wonder if any one here has had any experience with a gal on DIA using the name of Sudden Blue 08 from Cebu.
I have had some interesting chats with her but can't figure out where she is heading. Her profile pic attached.
Any one with personal experience please let me know.
ES[/QUOTE]The feature appear male, plus there is tons of makeup.
Yes, a ladyboy
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[QUOTE=Eaglestar]Wonder if any one here has had any experience with a gal on DIA using the name of Sudden Blue 08 from Cebu.
I have had some interesting chats with her but can't figure out where she is heading. Her profile pic attached.
Any one with personal experience please let me know.
ES[/QUOTE]Read a few pages back. Shes been discussed by a few guys earlier.
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Well I guess its clear what she wants..
"Hi I'm aya looking 4 real love and give me my dream I pod touch is what I like I'm lovely person, sense of humor and I have a great companion, I'm nice all I want is someone who will love me accept me for who I am, thanks coll me "
I'm just wondering whether I should tell the sweet girl that she needs a valid credit card to get onto both Itunes and the apps store.
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Monger's funeral
I am relatively new in mongering scene. Just been doing it couple of years. Last summer I was four weeks with a AC bar girl. We have been regularly chatting in YM since. Yesterday I realized: Yikes! I am getting married. She brought her daugher and mother with her in net cafe. And she invited me to her parents' house for X-mas. Soon there will be one less monger in these forums :(
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You're kidding, right? RTFF
[QUOTE=White Whale] Last summer I was four weeks with a AC bar girl. Yesterday I realized: Yikes! I am getting married. She brought her daugher. [/QUOTE]Your mileage may vary, but many people in your situation have said "You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl."
Good luck!
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[QUOTE=White Whale]I am relatively new in mongering scene. Just been doing it couple of years. Last summer I was four weeks with a AC bar girl. We have been regularly chatting in YM since. Yesterday I realized: Yikes! I am getting married. She brought her daugher and mother with her in net cafe. And she invited me to her parents' house for X-mas. Soon there will be one less monger in these forums :([/QUOTE]The good news is Mongers never retire.. they just have periods away from the game.
The bad news is you have 3 generations of one family watching you online... .run away quickly!
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[QUOTE=Option Swiz]Your mileage may vary, but many people in your situation have said "You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl."
Good luck![/QUOTE]
Yeah, it was pretty lame attempt to be funny. I have now been in Phils four times and experienced bar girl WU tactics. She was most unlucky with accidents requiring expensive hospital treatment including heart surgery. Her parents and other relatives did not do much better either healthvise judging from emails I got. BTW I did not send any money so received email frequency suddenly went down and finally ended alltogether.
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I may be ignorant, but what does "WU" refer to?
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Pussy On Lay-A-Way
[QUOTE=David_33]I may be ignorant, but what does "WU" refer to?[/QUOTE]
Western Union, Money Gram, Ikobo, Xoom or any other way suckers to ( try to put pussy on lay-a-way) send money.
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Thanks, I should have known. I checked the abbreviations list and since it wasn't there, I thought it might have been some kind of bar girl secret weapon I should know about.
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[QUOTE=White Whale]Yeah, it was pretty lame attempt to be funny. I have now been in Phils four times and experienced bar girl WU tactics. She was most unlucky with accidents requiring expensive hospital treatment including heart surgery. Her parents and other relatives did not do much better either healthvise judging from emails I got. BTW I did not send any money so received email frequency suddenly went down and finally ended alltogether.[/QUOTE]
Come on White Whale! Who is to say that the water buffalo didn’t step in that land crab’s burrow and break his leg requiring expensive orthopedic surgery complete with stainless steel pins and rods? Maybe the poor girl love you too much, so much so that she wore out her poor little heart and now needs some new valves. Repeatedly saying, “Mahal kita” has been known to cause serious heart problems in bar girls. And maybe, just maybe mamma did eat that batch of bad rice and needed to have her colon replaced. Who can tell right? Yours is not to question. Yours is to Western Union. Didn’t you know that Filipinas are among the most unlucky people in the world? A very accident prone lot they are. Why do you think that overseas work applicants are required to undergo a medical examination and pay for health insurance before being accepted as an overseas worker?
Of course she ceased communications. You failed to rally to her cries like a White Whale in shining armor. No stimulus money to offset the pesos spent on internet café fees. Shame on you! But don’t fret my friend soon enough a less lucky whale will swim along and feel the sharp bite of her harpoon. :D
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[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]
Of course she ceased communications. You failed to rally to her cries like a White Whale in shining armor. No stimulus money to offset the pesos spent on internet café fees. Shame on you! But don’t fret my friend soon enough a less lucky whale will swim along and feel the sharp bite of her harpoon. :D[/QUOTE]
Why I believe humour is such a serious thing it should be left for professionals? :) Not because of you but my lame start. I was hunted down with the previous BG Captain Ahab style:( Yet She is still out there hunting for deep waters - invisible in [url]http://www.ydetector.com/[/url]
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[QUOTE=David_33]I may be ignorant, but what does "WU" refer to?[/QUOTE]I think Jackson should introduce an abbreviation test for all mongers before particpating in Phils Board.
If so then whats WU would be the first question... whats MWF would be another and the infamous LBM and UTI would be another.
Passing would allow board entrance lol
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Maybe even the escorts are at it?!
Love this ad from an escort. It nearly had me in tears:
'im k....... 23 singlemom im working in globetelecome,,and i have a 0nlineshope:-)im working as a part time escort for financial problem:-(i need to support my family bcoz he need me:-( i have a sister sick:-( she a a laukemia:-( hope guys u understand me y im doing this:-( plss help me...'
Globetelecome - is that an international dirty chat line?
Not tried her but she looks quite tasty. Charges P2500 for 3 hours. Offers CIM and photo's but not anal. Have her CP No if anyone wants it.
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[QUOTE=White Whale]Why I believe humour is such a serious thing it should be left for professionals? :) Not because of you but my lame start. I was hunted down with the previous BG Captain Ahab style:( Yet She is still out there hunting for deep waters - invisible in [url]http://www.ydetector.com/[/url][/QUOTE]
great link!
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]
If so then whats WU would be the first question... whats MWF would be another and the infamous LBM and UTI would be another.
Passing would allow board entrance lol[/QUOTE]
OK, mate, I failed:D.
LBM - Little Brown Motherfuckers - tricycle drivers in Angeles?
UTI - Urinary Tract Infection?
MWF - WTF? Man, Wolf, Female - a particularly chancy form of bestiality?
Put me out of my misery!! Mind you I'm the guy who always have to resort to google when I see ROFLMFAO. I'll never get used to this internet lingo.
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Craigslist
~~~~PRETTY,,KIND,,FUNNY GIRL HERE~~~~ - 20 (MAKATI/MANILA/ORTIGAS)
"hi im aya looking 4 real love and give me my dream i pod touch is wat i like im lovely person,,sense of humor and i have a great companion,,im nice all i want is someone who will love me accept me for who i am,,thanks coll me"
Who wants to buy her a IPod touch...come on, anyone? That is real love:D
[url]http://manila.craigslist.com.ph/w4m/1452145802.html[/url]
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[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]OK, mate, I failed.
LBM. Little Brown Motherfuckers. Tricycle drivers in Angeles? UTI. Urinary Tract Infection? MWF. WTF? Man, Wolf, Female. A particularly chancy form of bestiality?
Put me out of my misery! Mind you I'm the guy who always have to resort to google when I see ROFLMFAO. I'll never get used to this internet lingo.[/QUOTE]LBM is loose bowel movements. An acronym every Filpino knows.
MWF is Monday Wednesday Friday. A common schedule for students.
Hope you got a smile out of this. LOL. As in laughing etc.
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She's A Living Doll...Really
How about WTF and YGTBSM?
This is on Cherry Blossoms
[quote]My name is Anastasiya and after viewing your profile I wanted to send you a smile and say hello.
If you would like to know more about me, please reply to my profile.
Just click above on Reply to Email.
My ID Code is: C01451662 [/quote]
Guess I should have posted to Ukraine board but I don't know anyone there...the sex is kind of passive, but you can fuck her anyplace you can find a hole..
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[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]OK, mate, I failed:D.
LBM - Little Brown Motherfuckers - tricycle drivers in Angeles?
UTI - Urinary Tract Infection?
MWF - WTF? Man, Wolf, Female - a particularly chancy form of bestiality?
Put me out of my misery!! Mind you I'm the guy who always have to resort to google when I see ROFLMFAO. I'll never get used to this internet lingo.[/QUOTE]
How about: LBFMPBRABC = Little Brown Fucking Machine Powered By Rice Activated By Cash:D
Robb
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Does she want love or food?
Mj1987
I'm looking a seriuose relation and steak 2 one only if your not this guy sorry don't send me msg
I'm seaking the guy honest and steak 2 one and he want to marry me and responsible for the family and like kids and funny love me who I am and hes not lier and loyal with me no photo don't send me msg ok
I will have mine well done please!.
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[QUOTE=White Whale]Why I believe humour is such a serious thing it should be left for professionals? :) Not because of you but my lame start. I was hunted down with the previous BG Captain Ahab style:( Yet She is still out there hunting for deep waters - invisible in [url]http://www.ydetector.com/[/url][/QUOTE]
I have been using detectinvisible.com and ydetect.org for awhile now and they are very valuable tools. You just have to be careful of false results sometimes, so if you are not sure just run the same ID a few times to see if the status stays the same and soon enough you will know if your girl really is running off to bed like she told you.
Also FYI many girls in the PI know about these yahoo status websites, so if you can use it, so can she. Also don't assume she is the one who is online all hours of the day and night, it's not unusual for a few family members to use the same yahoo ID.
Does anyone know of a website that detects MSN Messenger status?
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I would assume the girls have multiple Yahoo ID's and multiple every other instant messenger ID's. I have 3 screen names myself but mostly use the main one. So its easy enough to certain people on certain screen names for anyone.
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Cresel - DIA
Found this one on DIA if anyone cares............... I did not chat with her.
mmmm...looking for fun try me, i am better than other bitches..
i am loving person, and very friendly,most of the time,i am was at the gym, to get some work out, also i would love to read some books,and hanging out with my friend, for me i allways wanted to travel again, i am was been few country, wow its really a wonderful adventure,experience, that i never forgot it,specially when my firstime to visit london, who well i born bicol where my dad come from,but i grew up puerto galera then when i am was 16 try to live by myself, sorry couldnt to tell everything about my self,
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I want to meet a Male
with age from 27 to 31
and I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.
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ES
i wouldlike to meet. somebody who got nice attitude,and bad guy sometimes,also open minded everything,
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[QUOTE=Eaglestar]Wonder if any one here has had any experience with a gal on DIA using the name of Sudden Blue 08 from Cebu.
I have had some interesting chats with her but can't figure out where she is heading. Her profile pic attached.
Any one with personal experience please let me know.
ES[/QUOTE]It's a ladyboy
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Just a little story about how easy it is to get a lunch date in the Phil. Last month I was in Cagayan de Oro sitting at the hotel doing an e-mail with DIA open on the side. Got a mssg from a 28 yr old who as luck would have it was also in CDO. We chatted a bit,.her pic was nice, so a lunch date was offered and accepted at Lighthouse restraunt at Gaisano Mall. We exchanged cell numbers and the time to meet. I dont usually get to a lunch date on time cause the girls are always late anyway. This girl suprised me when the appointed time arrived I got a text saying she is there waiting.. Score some points for her in my book and I quickened my pace. Got to the restraunt and i just see one girl standing by the door and she looks different than the pic in DIA. Not that she was not pretty cause she was, just not the pic i remembered in DIA. Well i walked up to her and said " hi Are you ready for lunch? She smiled and said I sure am but can you wait a few min because my sister is dropping off her cell phone for repair but she will be right here in a few min..GRRR i was pissed and i told her " Your sister is joining us for lunch "? She said yes and I decided I did not want this to go any further,,she looks different than her pic and she never even asked if she could bring her sister. i said..I am not hungry anymore so I will say bye bye and I walked .. In about 5 min I get a text.." where are u I am waiting "... I said I told you i was leaving,I dont like that you brought your sister without asking me first..She text..I dont have a sister we have not met yet, I am waiting for you at a table here inside. HMMMM whats going on here?? Is it possible I met the wrong girl?? What the hell i had nothing else going on so i text back "ok I am coming back " Well I walked INSIDE this time and i spotted her sitting at a table in the corner..all ALONE with a sweet smile on her face. We had lunch and a good laugh about what happened and then we went to a movie at the mall but of course 10 min after we sat down we were exploring each others tongues. I asked her if she wanted to leave as the movie was boring and told her we could watch TV back at the hotel. She agreed so away we go to Natures Pension ( the new one ). We did make a half hearted attempt to watch TV but other things seemed more fun. Anyway just a story to relate and makes me wonder if you could not go up to just about any girl in the mall and invite them to lunch and get at least a 50% sucess rate.
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It's a good story with a happy ending, but it's also a little bit fked up.
Can you imagine how the first girl felt? A bold and brash man makes his moves, she accepts, then he acts like a prat when she suggests he wait for a few moments. Sad.
Most girls bring a friend or "cousin" on these kind of adventures. Politely bail out if you feel uncomfortable, but spending an hour and a few hundred yen in the food court with two women seems like a very simple thing to do.
Be nice.
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[QUOTE=Nightrider1]Just a little story about how easy it is to get a lunch date in the Phil. Last month I was in Cagayan de Oro sitting at the hotel doing an e-mail with DIA open on the side. Got a mssg from a 28 yr old who as luck would have it was also in CDO. We chatted a bit,.her pic was nice, so a lunch date was offered and accepted at Lighthouse restraunt at Gaisano Mall. We exchanged cell numbers and the time to meet. I dont usually get to a lunch date on time cause the girls are always late anyway. This girl suprised me when the appointed time arrived I got a text saying she is there waiting.. Score some points for her in my book and I quickened my pace. Got to the restraunt and i just see one girl standing by the door and she looks different than the pic in DIA. Not that she was not pretty cause she was, just not the pic i remembered in DIA. Well i walked up to her and said " hi Are you ready for lunch? She smiled and said I sure am but can you wait a few min because my sister is dropping off her cell phone for repair but she will be right here in a few min..GRRR i was pissed and i told her " Your sister is joining us for lunch "? She said yes and I decided I did not want this to go any further,,she looks different than her pic and she never even asked if she could bring her sister. i said..I am not hungry anymore so I will say bye bye and I walked .. In about 5 min I get a text.." where are u I am waiting "... I said I told you i was leaving,I dont like that you brought your sister without asking me first..She text..I dont have a sister we have not met yet, I am waiting for you at a table here inside. HMMMM whats going on here?? Is it possible I met the wrong girl?? What the hell i had nothing else going on so i text back "ok I am coming back " Well I walked INSIDE this time and i spotted her sitting at a table in the corner..all ALONE with a sweet smile on her face. We had lunch and a good laugh about what happened and then we went to a movie at the mall but of course 10 min after we sat down we were exploring each others tongues. I asked her if she wanted to leave as the movie was boring and told her we could watch TV back at the hotel. She agreed so away we go to Natures Pension ( the new one ). We did make a half hearted attempt to watch TV but other things seemed more fun. Anyway just a story to relate and makes me wonder if you could not go up to just about any girl in the mall and invite them to lunch and get at least a 50% sucess rate.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man]It's a good story with a happy ending, but it's also a little bit fked up.
Can you imagine how the first girl felt? A bold and brash man makes his moves, she accepts, then he acts like a prat when she suggests he wait for a few moments. Sad.
Most girls bring a friend or "cousin" on these kind of adventures. Politely bail out if you feel uncomfortable, but spending an hour and a few hundred yen in the food court with two women seems like a very simple thing to do.
Be nice.
X[/QUOTE]
I thought I WAS politely bailing out..I said " i am sorry but i dont feel hungry now.. have a nice afternoon" I was not rude or unkind to her.. I suppose everyone is different but my policy is i dont accept that a girl brings a friend unless she asks first..If she asks first then its ok,, But to me when they bring the ontorage of couisins or sisters then they are just looking for a freebe meal and not interested in being with me at all.. MANY experiences in 13 trips has born that out.
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You have a right to your opinion, but you should recognize a few things:
1/ you approached the wrong gal. She didn't know you. So, there was no way for her to "ask first". You may have been polite, but she must have thought your behavior was bizarre.
Just curious, when gals ask to bring a friend, do you say no?
2/ Even if it WAS the gal you expected to meet, she didn't bring an "entourage". She was with her sis (according to your earlier message).
3/ "Freebie" meal at mall food court might set you back a few hundred pesos. So what? You have to eat anyway.
There have been a lot of different opinions about meeting friends and / or family in these situations. Like Nightrider, I prefer when they come alone, but I've also had some good experiences when being flexible.
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[QUOTE=Nightrider1]I thought I WAS politely bailing out..I said " i am sorry but i dont feel hungry now.. have a nice afternoon" I was not rude or unkind to her.. I suppose everyone is different but my policy is i dont accept that a girl brings a friend unless she asks first..If she asks first then its ok,, But to me when they bring the ontorage of couisins or sisters then they are just looking for a freebe meal and not interested in being with me at all.. MANY experiences in 13 trips has born that out.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=X Man]You have a right to your opinion, but you should recognize a few things:
1/ you approached the wrong gal. She didn't know you. So, there was no way for her to "ask first". You may have been polite, but she must have thought your behavior was bizarre.
Just curious, when gals ask to bring a friend, do you say no?
2/ Even if it WAS the gal you expected to meet, she didn't bring an "entourage". She was with her sis (according to your earlier message).
3/ "Freebie" meal at mall food court might set you back a few hundred pesos. So what? You have to eat anyway.
There have been a lot of different opinions about meeting friends and / or family in these situations. Like Nightrider, I prefer when they come alone, but I've also had some good experiences when being flexible.
X[/QUOTE]
To each his own..Everyone is entitled to monger the way they like. What I do works for me..What more can I say..It's just my post of my experience. No need to be judgemental IMHO
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[QUOTE=X Man]I prefer when they come alone, but I've also had some good experiences when being flexible. X[/QUOTE]
Oh I had a shopgirl I asked to lunch show up with her dad, her kid (which I was uninformed of), and her cutie 18yo sister. I went along with it and eventually re-targeted on the 18yo. Got a date with her later. Didn't work out though.
What was screwed up. I went to their house. Kid's daddy is American, disabled, and gone, trying to divorce the lady. I picked the little girl up for a minute. Girl called me daddy...What a waste.
Actually, once I move to the PI, I am going to re-consider my normal aversion to girls with kids. Not that I want one at home, but many of the young moms are pretty nice looking, and perhaps have a more settled attitude.
Just today, a hot looking girl that I had exchanged ONE email with on Cherry Blossoms, IMd me and demanded that I delete her from my list, or give her my password. Because she "found out" I was chatting with other girls and she hated guys who "play games". Oh and she was certain I was in the PI now since I send her a sms (from the US via Google Voice) dum cu**. lol delete, ignore.
I do stay logged into yahoo messenger 24/7 and have noted some girls think I am online and ignoring them. I try now to change my status and tell them why it says online all the time. OTOH, not a bad little detector of the attitude ho's.
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[QUOTE=Nightrider1]I thought I WAS politely bailing out..I said " i am sorry but i dont feel hungry now.. have a nice afternoon" I was not rude or unkind to her.. I suppose everyone is different but my policy is i dont accept that a girl brings a friend unless she asks first..If she asks first then its ok,, But to me when they bring the ontorage of couisins or sisters then they are just looking for a freebe meal and not interested in being with me at all.. MANY experiences in 13 trips has born that out.[/QUOTE]I'm 100% with you on that one. I ALWAYS ask if they intend to bring a friend. If they say yes, I say no date. I tell them we are adults and add that no where else in the world does anyone go on a date with a girl+ her friend. Usually they say " Really"? And then agree to come alone.
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[quote=freebiefan]i'm 100% with you on that one. i always ask if they intend to bring a friend. if they say yes, i say no date. i tell them we are adults and add that no where else in the world does anyone go on a date with a girl+ her friend. usually they say " really"? and then agree to come alone.[/quote]
i am also with you on this one. i had a similar experience last week.
i had been chatting with a gal on dia and eventually we had set a date to meet in the evening in makati, a venue. in all of our chatting and date arranging, there was no hint of anyone else involved. yet, when i arrive at the meeting point, i see the gal (not looking anywhere near as attractive as her dia profile pic... why am i not surprised!), and she is standing and talking with another gal (also not very attractive). i walk up to her and greet her.
at that point, she says, 'ok where do we go to drink,' and they both start walking with me. i stop and say, 'sorry, who are you?' to the other gal. then my dia gal says, 'oh this is my friend, can she come too, she has nothing to do tonite?'
as i said, neither one of them were particularly good looking, and to be very honest, had they both been stunners, i might have reacted differently. however, i felt quite peeved that the dia gal hadn't asked in advance if her friend could come along, or even mention it as a possibility. to me that is simply rude, given that obviously i would be paying for whatever they consumed in the evening.
i therefore stopped and said that although i am sure her friend (who by the way hadn't said a word up to that point) is very nice, i am not interested in a group date, and furthermore, she should have asked me in advance if she could bring a friend, as that would be the polite thing to do. i told them to have a nice evening and i left them standing there. i should add that i had offered in advance of the date to pay her taxi fare to our meeting spot, but when i left i didn't give her any money.
for me the point is not whether or not a gal can bring a friend on the first date with a western guy, because i do realize that cultures vary and chaperoned dates are not extraordinary here. it is much more a matter of simple courtesy to ask/inform your date partner in advance. by leaving them there, i was hoping that my point was made strongly enough so that she wouldn't do that again.
i ended up having a pleasant enough evening having a few beers with gals i know in rogues!
mantaray
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Troubled conscience?
[QUOTE=Manta Ray] ..I should add that I had offered in advance of the date to pay her taxi fare to our meeting spot, but when I left I didn't give her any money.
For me the point is not whether or not a gal can bring a friend on the first date with a Western guy, because I do realize that cultures vary and chaperoned dates are not extraordinary here. It is much more a matter of simple courtesy to ask/inform your date partner in advance. By leaving them there, I was hoping that my point was made strongly enough so that she wouldn't do that again.
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Yes, but did you ask her if she intended bringing a mate, as FF suggested? On a first date, Filipina's will often want to bring along a friend or family member for moral support. If you ask first and reassure them that you are not an escaped ax murderer, and hint that the date is off if they bring someone along, they will usually turn up alone.
A few times I have had first meetings with girls who did not match up to their profile photo's. Each time I politely made my excuses and left. As you did. No point flogging a dead horse. But I have always given them a hundred pesos or so 'taxi' money. They always travel on public transport so this usually covers it, even if they have come a fair distance.
A few pesos is nothing to us but can mean an awful lot to a girl who doesn't have two pesos to rub together and who has spent time and money coming to meet you.
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Serious Scammer
This one is over the top. Cherry Blossoms no C01259188
"Her" first text to me made her seem very bright:
"...I am very open-minded, accepting and understanding. I'm able not only to recognize, but also appreciate the fact that people are wonderfully varied creatures with a tremendous range of differing thoughts and opinions. I can easily entertain new or foreign ideas or philosophies without having to adopt them as my own..."
but this was copied from a gay mans friendster page
[url]http://profiles.friendster.com/18625651[/url]
Had some nice chats, then I get this:
ME: hello there cathy, its nice to hear from you
Cathy-C01259188: Have a pleasant day Sir: <-OK I taught "Cathy" to address me this way. Then I get this copied and pasted text:
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First of all i would like to introduce myself. I am Jane Putis friend of Catherine.
I am here to informed you that Catherine was admitted to hospital yesterday because of the car accident. She is in critical condition right now due to this accident. She got little bit blood cloth of her head and a bone fracture that made her life unconditionally. Bone fraction is a medical condition in which the bone is cracked but not broken. And my friend Catherine need to have her treatment. Since bone healing is a natural process which will most often occur, fracture treatment aims to ensure the best possible function of the injured part after healing.
ME: oh that sounds just awful.."
On and on several pages, I guess copied from some medical web site.
Its just so freaking silly...
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[QUOTE=Manta Ray]For me the point is not whether or not a gal can bring a friend on the first date with a Western guy, because I do realize that cultures vary and chaperoned dates are not extraordinary here. It is much more a matter of simple courtesy to ask/inform your date partner in advance. By leaving them there, I was hoping that my point was made strongly enough so that she wouldn't do that again. [/QUOTE]
Actually, you should have known to ask ahead of time as you state you know it is not uncommon for this to happen. And it is very common for girls to show up with friends or family, that's one of the first questions I ask, and you should clarify ahead of time.
It also is a good indication if a girl does or is willing to show up alone that she might just be spending the night also.
Sounds more like you were disappointed that she was uglier then you thought.
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[QUOTE=Jack Sheet]I don't even ask if they are bringing a friend. If they do, I sit down, buy them a drink and try to get them relaxed and comfortable and make a few jokes. Then I ask if I "passed the interview" and ask the one I invited if she wants to join me at my hotel. If the other one is hot too, I try to get her over as well to make a threesome.[/QUOTE]There is another advantage to accepting a chaperone too. If a girl has a friend or cousin along she can often stay out all night, if she is alone she will be expected home early.
Ask them both back to the hotel. If the chaperone "falls asleep" it is a sure sign that the girl you dated is ready to party. I have had great times with the chaperone feigning sleep on the same bed:)
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[QUOTE=Ausieguy]There is another advantage to accepting a chaperone too. If a girl has a friend or cousin along she can often stay out all night, if she is alone she will be expected home early.[/QUOTE]You must be dealing with quite young ladies. I've never met one that had a curfew though I always check if they have well in advance, just so theres no misunderstanding.
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[QUOTE=Ausieguy]There is another advantage to accepting a chaperone too. If a girl has a friend or cousin along she can often stay out all night, if she is alone she will be expected home early.
Ask them both back to the hotel. If the chaperone "falls asleep" it is a sure sign that the girl you dated is ready to party. I have had great times with the chaperone feigning sleep on the same bed:)[/QUOTE]
I tend to agree with the other posters on this.
If the chaperone is hot also I try to enjoy a threesome..or least the chaperone may enjoy watching and then decides she is missing out on the fun.
But I have also had some bad experiences of girls turning up with the family unannounced
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WoW!
With over 70 chat mates on YM, I have had about a third of them ask me for money outright because of their so-called financial problems, and another third hint about their poverty stricken lives. I've been polite to all of them, even as I decline to send them money. When I get there in January I'll send them all my Cell Phone number to see who bites. I love the Pinas!
Yella Man
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[quote=yella man]with over 70 chat mates on ym, i have had about a third of them ask me for money outright because of their so-called financial problems, and another third hint about their poverty stricken lives. i've been polite to all of them, even as i decline to send them money. when i get there in january i'll send them all my cell phone number to see who bites. i love the pinas!
yella man[/quote]
it has been told to them through the grapewine that if they cry poverty some foreigner will send money . in the begining i have sent $50 to a girl who promised to meet me in manila. ofcourse i got scammed. live and learn.
later i have sent money for airfare to fly them in to meet me. i did not get scammed and they showed up and we had a good time. ofcourse some money changed hands for clothes,gifts and pocket money to them at the end. so it is hard to figure out who is telling the truth or who is lying.
some promise sex right away and others wait till i meet you attitude. majority of them will have sex with you if you behave half way decent.
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[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]Actually, you should have known to ask ahead of time as you state you know it is not uncommon for this to happen. And it is very common for girls to show up with friends or family, that's one of the first questions I ask, and you should clarify ahead of time.
It also is a good indication if a girl does or is willing to show up alone that she might just be spending the night also.
Sounds more like you were disappointed that she was uglier then you thought.[/QUOTE]
Yep, I do believe you've sussed it. As I mentioned in my post, I would probably have reacted quite differently had the DIA gal and/or her friend been hot.
Oh well, we live and learn! And ain't that what makes mongering so damn educational!
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No friends policy
I used to implement a strict no friends policy. Nowadays I often do just the opposite, at least if we are talking "normal" girls you spend more than 1 hour with before your first attempt to pull down their knickers. I ask the girl if I can bring a buddy and she can bring a friend (according to a few guidelines. No LB, no aunties, no mums, etc). She feels safe, and most often we have more fun between the four of us. In the end we shag anyway. Seating strategy is the key many times. You walk with the girl and chit chat. As a true gentleman you offer her to sit first and then you lock her in on the chair next to you.:.) Good if it is a corner. That way you can establish a physical relation with her. An arm around her when you joke. A hand on her leg. Put your hand on her for 10-15 sec. You know the drill.
With a pro this is just a waste of time. For an innocent girl this is the fastest way to get to know her.
Barba
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Sending money
[QUOTE=Yella Man]With over 70 chat mates on YM, I have had about a third of them ask me for money outright because of their so-called financial problems, and another third hint about their poverty stricken lives. I've been polite to all of them, even as I decline to send them money. When I get there in January I'll send them all my Cell Phone number to see who bites. I love the Pinas!
Yella Man[/QUOTE]
If one looks at it from a Philippinas perspective, they soon come to realise that 80% of the guys contacting them through DIA will never actually set foot in the Phils just feeling lonely and in the search of a hot internet partner. A further 15% will just hook up with someone they met at a bar or mall and forget about the monthly long internet contact. A further 3% are just lining up as many girls as they can . Maybe 1-2% are for them serious prospects. So of course many learn that getting some pre sales cash is the way forward. A proportion (esp the ladyboys then turn it into their main profession)
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Truth In Advertising Dept
[quote]I want to meet a strong, tall, studly man. Must have money, good job and be able to care for me and my family...I am the only one in my family who works, so I have to support my mother and father, 2 sisters, 1 brother and his wife. This is the Philippine way. I send them 25,000 PHP each month. If you marry me, you marry my family also...I am willing to marry you. [but if] I am unable to provide them what I send them now, then you will be obligated to do it. That is my marriage contract.[/quote]
Cherry Blossoms C01463162 19yo Angeles, Pampanga
She's got some tits and they're milking 'em. At least she's up front about her costs lol. Maybe the contract is negotiable..
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[quote=jambo]cherry blossoms c01463162 19yo angeles, pampanga
she's got some tits and they're milking 'em. at least she's up front about her costs lol. maybe the contract is negotiable..[/quote]
yes. i'm quite sure that the contract is negotiable. she'll renegotiate it every chance she gets for more money and less services. i can think of a lot better ways to spend $533 usd/month than on a chick who is only 19 yr old but already showing tremendous porker potential. based on her location and business sense i'd say that she has already put in some time in the bars. with all of those dependent family members i'd say that $533/month will quickly balloon into $1,000/month or more. one week papa will fall off the water buffalo while working the rice paddy breaking an arm, leg or both. the following week mamma will have a trike accident resulting in the need for expensive lifesaving surgery. the week after that the brother's wife will be giving birth and need money for doctors, [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord131][CodeWord131][/url], baby clothes etc. then the two sisters will need money for school among other things and the leaky roof on the nipa hut needs fixing. if she is sending them 25,000 pesos/month then she is already doing some serious hooking. if you don't let other guys fuck her so she can make money for her family then you will have to pay. it's the philippine way.
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I'm Missing Manila...
Okay, so I probably should have read THIS thread before even starting down the road that I chose, but we all know that hindsight requires no vision correction! Anyway...the details first.
About 8 weeks ago, I learned I would be making a trip to the Philippines. Of course, since I expected to be visiting a hobbiest's paradise, I began my homework on ISG! I received some excellent advice and recommendations from an expert (wicked roger) and several others on the forum.
Wanting to make this more than just a bombing episode in the bars, I began with Yahoo chat groups, and quickly discovered DIA and the other dating sites. After sifting through the 100-200 wannabe's, I settled in for several weeks of chatting with 3 or 4 good possibilities. I knew which one was the winner from the outset, but wanted to have a few backups in case of no-show-itis. I needn't have feared.
My chat friend and I spent five amazing days together, doing a whole lot more than chatting. In between bar hopping and bed hopping, we went out for dinner and sightseeing and shopping. It was a lovely time with a lovely woman. I felt like I was dating again...after 22 years of ho-hum married life.
From the outset, we were realistic. She knew about Mrs. Gern and the family in the USA, so we had no expectations about a "future" together. Nevertheless, I am now 6 days removed from the PI and I cannot get her out of my mind. Mind you...I'm a seasoned hobbiest...this has never happened to me before! She is suffering as much as I am, but we are both muddling through.
I don't necessarily have any questions, and I don't have any advice. I'm just living in purgatory, chatting daily with my amazing friend and hoping for an opportunity to go back to PI in the near future. I'd love to bring her to the USA for a vacation, but recognize that while I can afford the ticket, lodging, and other expenses, the visa regulations are impossible to overcome (any advice there??).
She is a REAL winner for someone who is looking for a sexy (smokin' responsive body), intelligent (college-educated), mature (28), optimistic-yet-realistic woman who just wants LOVE and companionship. She has never asked for a penny, nor do I expect her to do so. Her family is doing fine by Philippine standards, so she isn't looking for a family handout.
So...why am I writing? I guess that even though some of you may want to flame me or have a good laugh at my well-worn story, I'd enjoy chatting privately with anyone in a similar situation. PM me and we can talk more.
Oh...and if you are seriously looking for a woman who will make you happy...contact me for more details. I'd be willing to share (with her permission of course).
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No flaming/laughing from me
I think your experience is a good example of why many of us (especially on this particular section) do prefer the phils over Thailand despite the poor food, over priced accomodation and comparatively lacklustre nightlife.
Greg
[QUOTE=Gern]Okay, so I probably should have read THIS thread before even starting down the road that I chose, but we all know that hindsight requires no vision correction! Anyway...the details first.
About 8 weeks ago, I learned I would be making a trip to the Philippines. Of course, since I expected to be visiting a hobbiest's paradise, I began my homework on ISG! I received some excellent advice and recommendations from an expert (wicked roger) and several others on the forum.
Wanting to make this more than just a bombing episode in the bars, I began with Yahoo chat groups, and quickly discovered DIA and the other dating sites. After sifting through the 100-200 wannabe's, I settled in for several weeks of chatting with 3 or 4 good possibilities. I knew which one was the winner from the outset, but wanted to have a few backups in case of no-show-itis. I needn't have feared.
My chat friend and I spent five amazing days together, doing a whole lot more than chatting. In between bar hopping and bed hopping, we went out for dinner and sightseeing and shopping. It was a lovely time with a lovely woman. I felt like I was dating again...after 22 years of ho-hum married life.
From the outset, we were realistic. She knew about Mrs. Gern and the family in the USA, so we had no expectations about a "future" together. Nevertheless, I am now 6 days removed from the PI and I cannot get her out of my mind. Mind you...I'm a seasoned hobbiest...this has never happened to me before! She is suffering as much as I am, but we are both muddling through.
I don't necessarily have any questions, and I don't have any advice. I'm just living in purgatory, chatting daily with my amazing friend and hoping for an opportunity to go back to PI in the near future. I'd love to bring her to the USA for a vacation, but recognize that while I can afford the ticket, lodging, and other expenses, the visa regulations are impossible to overcome (any advice there??).
She is a REAL winner for someone who is looking for a sexy (smokin' responsive body), intelligent (college-educated), mature (28), optimistic-yet-realistic woman who just wants LOVE and companionship. She has never asked for a penny, nor do I expect her to do so. Her family is doing fine by Philippine standards, so she isn't looking for a family handout.
So...why am I writing? I guess that even though some of you may want to flame me or have a good laugh at my well-worn story, I'd enjoy chatting privately with anyone in a similar situation. PM me and we can talk more.
Oh...and if you are seriously looking for a woman who will make you happy...contact me for more details. I'd be willing to share (with her permission of course).[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Gern]Okay, so I probably should have read THIS thread before even starting down the road that I chose, but we all know that hindsight requires no vision correction! Anyway. The details first.
About 8 weeks ago, I learned I would be making a trip to the Philippines. Of course, since I expected to be visiting a hobbiest's paradise, I began my homework on ISG! I received some excellent advice and recommendations from an expert (wicked roger) and several others on the forum.
My chat friend and I spent five amazing days together, doing a whole lot more than chatting. In between bar hopping and bed hopping, we went out for dinner and sightseeing and shopping. It was a lovely time with a lovely woman. I felt like I was dating again. After 22 years of ho-hum married life.
From the outset, we were realistic. She knew about Mrs. Gern and the family in the USA, so we had no expectations about a "future" together. Nevertheless, I am now 6 days removed from the PI and I cannot get her out of my mind. Mind you. I'm a seasoned hobbiest. This has never happened to me before! She is suffering as much as I am, but we are both muddling through.
I don't necessarily have any questions, and I don't have any advice. I'm just living in purgatory, chatting daily with my amazing friend and hoping for an opportunity to go back to PI in the near future. I'd love to bring her to the USA for a vacation, but recognize that while I can afford the ticket, lodging, and other expenses, the visa regulations are impossible to overcome (any advice there?).
She is a REAL winner for someone who is looking for a sexy (smokin' responsive body), intelligent (college-educated), mature (28), optimistic-yet-realistic woman who just wants LOVE and companionship. She has never asked for a penny, nor do I expect her to do so. Her family is doing fine by Philippine standards, so she isn't looking for a family handout.
So. Why am I writing? I guess that even though some of you may want to flame me or have a good laugh at my well-worn story, I'd enjoy chatting privately with anyone in a similar situation. PM me and we can talk more.
Oh. And if you are seriously looking for a woman who will make you happy. Contact me for more details. I'd be willing to share (with her permission of course).[/QUOTE]Every now and again in every hobbiest/mongers life we make a "connection". Its usually when theres a limited amount of time, therefor the connection we make assumes a greater significance than would occur if he/she could spend a normal amount of time together.
My first was an Indonesian girl from Surabaya. We still chat ten years later, but the last sex we had was 4 years ago, but there was magic there and she truly invaded my mind.
A Filipina here in Malaysia did the same thing. She moved to Europe and I still see her every time I travel to Europe.
Theres a current one who occupies a lot of my thoughts but has fallen on very hard times recently.
Theres others too but the vast majority fall into the "what was your name again" post bonk "
Its a wonderful feeling when you wake up thinking about great moments with a lady who you know is unattainable. And who would probably be boring if you had her all day every day. So instead you turn over and smile at the wife. I'm sure theres 100's of us do exactly that!
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Pinayitis - handle with care!
[QUOTE=Gern]
So...why am I writing? I guess that even though some of you may want to flame me or have a good laugh at my well-worn story, I'd enjoy chatting privately with anyone in a similar situation. PM me and we can talk more.
[/QUOTE]
Interesting story Gern and very common. Filipinas are a world apart from the overbearing, overweight frumps that represent the womenkind most of us encounter in the west. If you are not careful they can infect your head and even more dangerously, your heart with that incurable disease Pinayitis. Symptoms include softening of the heart and frequent hardening of a certain other organ, on thinking of the infective agent. More serious symptoms include delusions, the desire to do irrational and stupid acts and inability to pass a WU office without wiring money although it seems that you have avoided the latter financially damaging symptom.
There is no cure except time and patience. I feel for you as you have some tough times ahead until you get over it. Best of luck:).
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[QUOTE=Jambo]Cherry Blossoms C01463162 19yo Angeles, Pampanga
She's got some tits and they're milking 'em. At least she's up front about her costs lol. Maybe the contract is negotiable..[/QUOTE]
I could have sworn I bumped into her at Club Atlantis....along with another two-hundred other girls!
YM
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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Every now and again in every hobbiest/mongers life we make a "connection". Its usually when theres a limited amount of time, therefor the connection we make assumes a greater significance than would occur if he/she could spend a normal amount of time together.
Its a wonderful feeling when you wake up thinking about great moments with a lady who you know is unattainable. And who would probably be boring if you had her all day every day. So instead you turn over and smile at the wife. I'm sure theres 100's of us do exactly that![/QUOTE]
And then there is 100's of us (Me included:D) who woke up one morning and said bye:) No regrets here and I will not tie the knot again.
Robb
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[QUOTE=Jambo]Cherry Blossoms C01463162 19yo Angeles, Pampanga
She's got some tits and they're milking 'em. At least she's up front about her costs lol. Maybe the contract is negotiable..[/QUOTE]
I had the same experience. Met a "cherry" girl who works in AC as a nanny. Did not understand the reason why she does not want to work in a bar and make lots of money. She also is looking for a sponsor in return for cherry and keeping her as a GF. Demanding 25,000 pesos per month. My offer was 10,000 pesos per month. In a country like PHI 25,000 is a lot of money.
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Sammon
[QUOTE=Sammon]I had the same experience. Met a "cherry" girl who works in AC as a nanny. Did not understand the reason why she does not want to work in a bar and make lots of money. She also is looking for a sponsor in return for cherry and keeping her as a GF. Demanding 25,000 pesos per month. My offer was 10,000 pesos per month. In a country like PHI 25,000 is a lot of money.[/QUOTE]
I agree Sammon. I had a young girl in Cebu that I was seeing for over 2 years and I sent her 5000 pesos per month. She wasn't a bar girl and lived a life of extereme poverty and 5000 per month was a lot of money to her. She was soo grateful for that money and treated me like a king and would do anything for me and I mean anything. Just to put it in perspective, her neighbour who was a 35 year old women with three teenage kids was working shifts in a garment factory 5 -6 days per week and earning 6000 pesos. Hard to believe but she was raising three kids on 6000 pesos per month and it kind of puts into perspective the amount that you are willing to send to your girl. Personally I think 10,000 is very generous to send to your gf, unless of course she works in a bar where she will be used to much higher earnings. Of course the other consideration is that Cebu is cheaper than AC and Manila so you need to take that into account also. Personally I steer clear of the pros ( well as much as I can) and as a result the money that you do give (in my humble opinion) is much more greatly appreciated.
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[QUOTE=Mortman]I agree Sammon. I had a young girl in Cebu that I was seeing for over 2 years and I sent her 5000 pesos per month. She wasn't a bar girl and lived a life of extereme poverty and 5000 per month was a lot of money to her. She was soo grateful for that money and treated me like a king and would do anything for me and I mean anything. Just to put it in perspective, her neighbour who was a 35 year old women with three teenage kids was working shifts in a garment factory 5.6 days per week and earning 6000 pesos. Hard to believe but she was raising three kids on 6000 pesos per month and it kind of puts into perspective the amount that you are willing to send to your girl. Personally I think 10, 000 is very generous to send to your gf, unless of course she works in a bar where she will be used to much higher[/QUOTE]I have a very very sweet friend who I have been seeing on most of my Manila trips. She lives near Bataan and travels 4 hours by bus to meet me every time I'm in Manila. She has a kid with some 'kano and he was sending her p10, 000 a month which was plenty for her to live on, chat online with me etc, buy food, pay rent, etc., etc.
Then he stopped sending her this money fuly aware that he was making his child suffer by not fulfillnig his obligations. My friend got a lousy salesgirl job that paid P3000 per month, then the work place got flooded in typhoon Onding, and so she lost her job. I sent her P2000 this week, which isn't exactly a Kings ransom for most of us. Got the most delightful emotion filled email today full of thanks and appreciation. A small gift, a little bit of personal Karma found.
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[QUOTE=GregLondon][url]http://www.dateinasia.com/[/url]
It's a totally free dating site ie you can send as many messages as you like to anyone on the site for free. [/QUOTE]
Tagging along on this nice run-down from Greg in the General section.
Note that Date In Asia (DIA) asks for your email address, and uses that to form your user id. Nigerians know that, and will put the ID into Yahoo Messenger and see if it works. So if you use a Yahoo email and keep YM up, you'll often get pestered by these jerks.
Tagged I haven't really used. I have an account and get no end of spam from them. A search in Google for Tagged, you see the Wikipedia page is not very kind to them, mentioning many complains about pfishing scams.
I am sure everyone here knows, but just in case, when site like these (also Friendster/Facebook etc) offer to send out invites to all your friends, and ask for your email address and password. Its not a good idea, OK? I do use a "throw away" Yahoo account for monger-related chats, but if someone were to get access to my regular Yahoo account, they would have business, friend and family contact info, birth dates, bank account numbers, all kinds of stuff. Remember Yahoo holds names, email, phone numbers, calendar info, depending on what you put into it. Giving a third party access to the email account allows access to all that data.
I know YOU won't do it, but someone is. Pinays don't seem to think twice about these things.
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[QUOTE=Mortman]I agree Sammon. I had a young girl in Cebu that I was seeing for over 2 years and I sent her 5000 pesos per month. She wasn't a bar girl and lived a life of extereme poverty and 5000 per month was a lot of money to her. She was soo grateful for that money and treated me like a king and would do anything for me and I mean anything. Just to put it in perspective, her neighbour who was a 35 year old women with three teenage kids was working shifts in a garment factory 5 -6 days per week and earning 6000 pesos. Hard to believe but she was raising three kids on 6000 pesos per month and it kind of puts into perspective the amount that you are willing to send to your girl. Personally I think 10,000 is very generous to send to your gf, unless of course she works in a bar where she will be used to much higher earnings. Of course the other consideration is that Cebu is cheaper than AC and Manila so you need to take that into account also. Personally I steer clear of the pros ( well as much as I can) and as a result the money that you do give (in my humble opinion) is much more greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]
Well, We cannot totally stay clear of the pros. Pros come with no obligations and use and throw away conditions. Sponsoring a girl and having her as a GF has its own disadvantages. I have sponsored few girls along the way. But they have always come with more demands about money if not in the begining. Yes, they do appreciate your money every month. It is like getting a paycheck so that they do not need to worry. Giving sex and companionship few times a year is not a big deal for them.
The AC girl I am talking about probably found out lots of things in AC concerning how foreigners are. That is why her demand is high. I told her to go work in the bar so that she will make lumpsum money for cherry and maybe lots of money otherwise as a bargirl. She is only 19 year old but constantly complains about her nanny job and it pays her 3000 pesos + room and board. She has to take care of 2 children. Her employer is a Philippino and some of them can be not nice to their employees.
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[QUOTE=Mortman]I agree Sammon. I had a young girl in Cebu that I was seeing for over 2 years and I sent her 5000 pesos per month. She wasn't a bar girl and lived a life of extereme poverty and 5000 per month was a lot of money to her. She was soo grateful for that money and treated me like a king and would do anything for me and I mean anything. Just to put it in perspective, her neighbour who was a 35 year old women with three teenage kids was working shifts in a garment factory 5 -6 days per week and earning 6000 pesos. Hard to believe but she was raising three kids on 6000 pesos per month and it kind of puts into perspective the amount that you are willing to send to your girl. Personally I think 10,000 is very generous to send to your gf, unless of course she works in a bar where she will be used to much higher earnings. Of course the other consideration is that Cebu is cheaper than AC and Manila so you need to take that into account also. Personally I steer clear of the pros ( well as much as I can) and as a result the money that you do give (in my humble opinion) is much more greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]
To put it in perspective 4000-6000P a month is a normal wage for a young phily girl in eg shop or factory, but if this is your total income, you are going to have a very dull life where a trip to Jollybees is a luxury.
A good looking 18-25 year old pro sex worker ought to be earning 25,000-50,000P a month. A typical fairly pro active semi pro can probably hope to make 5,000-20,000P a month from her "side line" .
An attractive girl would be mad to accept a 5000P a month and go and sit around at your parents farm and wait for me to come once or twice a year deal unless she is fairly confident all this is going to lead to marriage as she is losing a quite a bit from not working in the city and secondly she is wasting the golden years when her body is at its peak and she needs to find a guy to sign a long term contract and if she is sitting around in her village you are her only hope.
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Tagged
[QUOTE=Jambo]Tagging along on this nice run-down from Greg in the General section.
Note that Date In Asia (DIA) asks for your email address, and uses that to form your user id. Nigerians know that, and will put the ID into Yahoo Messenger and see if it works. So if you use a Yahoo email and keep YM up, you'll often get pestered by these jerks.
Tagged I haven't really used. I have an account and get no end of spam from them. A search in Google for Tagged, you see the Wikipedia page is not very kind to them, mentioning many complains about pfishing scams.
I am sure everyone here knows, but just in case, when site like these (also Friendster/Facebook etc) offer to send out invites to all your friends, and ask for your email address and password. Its not a good idea, OK? I do use a "throw away" Yahoo account for monger-related chats, but if someone were to get access to my regular Yahoo account, they would have business, friend and family contact info, birth dates, bank account numbers, all kinds of stuff. Remember Yahoo holds names, email, phone numbers, calendar info, depending on what you put into it. Giving a third party access to the email account allows access to all that data.
I know YOU won't do it, but someone is. Pinays don't seem to think twice about these things.[/QUOTE]
To get the most (or anything) out of tagged, you need to be proactive. if you just upload a profile and wait for people to contact you the only contacts will be oldies or African scammers ans young girls dont use it primarily as a dating site but as a dating site/social network/photo store site.
If you use it pro actively its very effective.
The benefits are. Lots of hot girls, many pics so better overall impression than DIA.
The way to use it is to make a decend profile, then search you target range iin the city you are interested in. You can either send a cut an paste message to that you fancy with your YM and when you will be in phils and brief description inc whether you are lookingfor fun or a long term. Alternatively you can uplug in your desired search criteria and hit Meet me it will then generate a seies of girls pics for you to say yes or no to and message them indicating your interest. About 30% will indicate they are inetersted and then you can send your email.
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[QUOTE=Jambo]Tagging along on this nice run-down from Greg in the General section.
Note that Date In Asia (DIA) asks for your email address, and uses that to form your user id. Nigerians know that, and will put the ID into Yahoo Messenger and see if it works. So if you use a Yahoo email and keep YM up, you'll often get pestered by these jerks.
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DAI does not use your email in your profile.
From their website "Your E-mail address must be valid, but we will never give it to anyone and we will not show it on your profile."
Untill the last year or so, I would guess 90 percent of 18-30 year old Pinays had at least one Friendster account. Many are now adding Facebook. The best part of reasearching Friendster is the girls mostly tell the the truth on it, since most of there relatives are attached to it. You can see if there are pictures of a local boy friend or if most of there freinds are gays. Also there are many picutres of them so you can see how they look in many diffrent angles or locations (work,school, mall, ect).
I would not use a real friendster account, becasue all your friends can see each other, and that is my worst nightmare. One bitter girls sending an email to all of the other girls- ouch!
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[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]DAI does not use your email in your profile.[/QUOTE]
Ok explain to me then why when I give DIA my email address as "jambo@yahoo.com", my DIA username becomes "jambo" and thereafter scumbags from Nigeria are able to open chat with me on Yahoo IM.
DIA is using your email as a user ID
Perps are able to determine that user id and use it to email/IM you.
When web sites say they will not "yada yada" with your private information. They are lying, ok? They cannot ensure their own security.
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Role reversal
Tagged has been a happy hunting ground for me, over the last few months. Being a SN site, you get to choose who your friends are, which suits me fine. There are some very hot ladies on the site but quite a few woofers, oldies and working girls, as well. Although it allows multiple photos, some girls will naturally choose to post flattering/older pictures only. So, it is best to get a potential victim onto webcam first to check her out before arranging a meeting.
There are quite a few older ladies on Tagged, either SADS (single/available or divorced/separated) or wifeys looking for some extra marital fun to spice up their boring lives, quite often with their husbands approval (after all he is screwing around with younger chicks). If you have the time and want a little variety or a change of pace, give one a spin. They can be great fun and are very grateful for the attention, particularly from a foreigner, who they know have so many other younger alternatives available. Met one 45 year old with the body of a 25 year old (although she had to return it after seeing me;)). She insisted on paying for lunch and tried to pay for the motel as well! It made me feel quite uncomfortable. I almost expected her to whip out a camera and ask for a few photos of the action or offer me some taxi money afterwards. Maybe there is a girl’s version of ISG somewhere lurking on the internet and, on it, a report about me:eek:
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[QUOTE=Jambo]Ok explain to me then why when I give DIA my email address as "jambo@yahoo.com", my DIA username becomes "jambo" and thereafter scumbags from Nigeria are able to open chat with me on Yahoo IM.
DIA is using your email as a user ID
Perps are able to determine that user id and use it to email/IM you.
When web sites say they will not "yada yada" with your private information. They are lying, ok? They cannot ensure their own security.[/QUOTE]
You are mistaken about DIA. You must have it confused with another site.
For those of you who want to learn how to better spot a ladyboy, check out DAI after midnite PI time. They tend to be out a lot during the late hours.
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Dia
[QUOTE=Jambo]Ok explain to me then why when I give DIA my email address as "jambo@yahoo.com", my DIA username becomes "jambo" and thereafter scumbags from Nigeria are able to open chat with me on Yahoo IM.
DIA is using your email as a user ID
Perps are able to determine that user id and use it to email/IM you.
When web sites say they will not "yada yada" with your private information. They are lying, ok? They cannot ensure their own security.[/QUOTE]
Not sure how you have managed to do that. I and everyone else I know have just made up a user ID entirely indepdent of my email for the obvious anti scamming reasons you suggest. Maybe it was a suggested user name and you accepted the suggestion????
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LBs
[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]You are mistaken about DIA. You must have it confused with another site.
For those of you who want to learn how to better spot a ladyboy, check out DAI after midnite PI time. They tend to be out a lot during the late hours.[/QUOTE]
Yes you are right. passed about midnight phils time the DIA members logged in increasingly become professionals and the LBs are disproportionately scammers as they are generally quite a bit smarter and more money focussed than the girls. I smart LB scammer can hope to generate 20,000-40,000 a month from working the system which is obviously big money in the Phils, so worth adopting a nocturnal lifestyle and stay up chating to all those lonely and naive guys in Kansas
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Darwinisn is Bunk
You would think, with all the pressure on from Western men for girls with larger breasts, we would see a trend like that in the Philippines. But I just don't see it. At least not in girls under 45yo.
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Right!
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt] Maybe there is a girl’s version of ISG somewhere lurking on the internet and, on it, a report about me:eek:[/QUOTE]CS,
Stunning idea, let me get right on the phone to my Bangalore developers! Being an uber-honest man, I'll be sending you a percentage of the profits. Check's in the mail.