Friendster and Intel Gathering
Mahku, Friendster can be used to your advantage also. There was a chick I chatted with long term. She had big tits and a bunch of her "school" friends showing on her Friendster page. Very nice and sociable girl. Arm candy. Never asked for $ but always mentioned some need she was collecting for, like graduation $ or whatever. But the one time we met it was "no sex". haha. I was going to ignore my instincts and consider a relationship, until i re-checked her Friendster page, and saw pics of a handsome pinoy holding her.
Maybe I will hit up some of the cute friends she has on her list. Anyway I have found a fairly cute girl who is an orphan. She says, "I wan't to help my family". I say, "who is in your family?". She says, "My auntie and lolo (grandad)." Only two? I think. Deal! (but what are the odds it will remain only two with the hands out?)
online / face to face meetings
I'm always surprised at all the negativity about online gals. Let me take a wild guess...the guy who sent $45k to some 30ish Singaporean housewife was not on the ISG board, nor was he in sort of any reality that I know of. DUH!
I've reported in the past that I've had 40% success with online women when meeting them, usually within the first day.
Ouch, my last trip will really push down that number. I think it was one out of seven.
Caveats:
1) this trip was MLA / AC rather than my usual Visayans / Mindanao.
2) I had some unusual situations that pushed down numbers (2 cherry girls).
One girl was hot and a follow up meeting looked very promising. Then she asked for "help" for her family and I dropped her. There was another who in the throes of passion, as I had my hand on her crotch, and ....felt the pad, said, "You came at an unlucky time". She elaborated,,,,she had started bleeding that day. Sure enough, she suggested a meeting five days later, but I was already busy. Can I say 2 out of seven if the there was an offer?
Another was cherry but said, "I hope I'm not cherry next time you come". I'm pretty sure she has a very generous sugar daddy and she wants to keep her promise to him....and I don't doubt she'll keep her offer to me. This may be a number I'll take back later. SHe showed up for our date wearing a polka dot mini dress with a plunging neckline. At 5 7, and plenty of bosom she was a complete show stopper. I never had to worry about crossing the street....all vehicles and males and most females slowed down for look. At 18 she already knew her power... and seemed to appreciate the fact that I just laughed at what she was doing. Later she said, "even if I wasn't cherry, you couldn't do me because I'm on my period." The she raised her hemline to show me her crotch. She's playing a very dangerous game.
And there was the other cherry college girl who turned out to be 17. The web sites require the ladies to be 18, so she lied to be on the site. OF COURSE, I did not touch her, didn't try. She was an extremely intelligent young lady and plans to offer her most valuable "gift" to the man she marries. That would be a very luck man indeed.
****Warning: Besides the lady mentioned, I met an AC bar girl 19, who has been in the biz for 3 years! She said she borrowed the ID of her cousin in order to work in a bar. If you have any doubts, don't!
Then there was the call center girl, living in Makati, from Negros, who spent most of our time at Hard Rock Cafe sending text messages. I was glad to get rid of her, even though she was hot. One of the cutest girls, from Pampanga, had worked at ABCam. Once we started necking she suddenly asked for help for her family. How much? She quotes something exorbitant...and out the door she went.
So, not much luck with the online girls this time around.
I did manage to spend two nights with a travel agent I met. One of the tightest little holes I've had in a long time....
X Man
How about scam the scammer(spammer)
Every time I use to go to xmatch.com go to chat room you always see the gals from phili try to spam you if you want to watch them in private for $$ that you can send her money by westerunion, I wonder has anybody tried this con on the gal and say ok I send you money after she gives you info, you give her the phony westernunion number. After you get so called private show when you done watching and log off yahoo messenger when she goes to westerunion to get money SURPRISE! There is no money and the number is a phony. That will teach her to spam on adult chats sites! I was thinking of trying that and use the webcam capture to record the session.
Don't Send Money To Strangers!!!
Please don't send money to a girl you have never met in person.
First of all, if a girl you have never met asks you for money, she is a scammer. Even if you have established a "relationship" with her. Case in point: I had a 6 month, almost daily web-cam chat with a young lady who in the end dumped me. (I found out she had been lying by checking her friendster, so friendster is good for something. Just don't put too many personal details on it.) We had cyber-sex a few times, but never actually met.
After the first few months I thought I knew her well, so I started sending her gifts and money. STUPID ME!! Cost me $800 in the end, for a few stupid online jerk-off sessions. And she never got completely naked!
I certainly hope all you guys here are savy enough not to even consider sending money to these online girls.