Words of Wisdom: The Truth!
[QUOTE=EastGoing;1429961]Remember, girls sit on their luck, men live for their hormones-stormed self-destruction, it's never you using women, it's always women using you.[/QUOTE]Words to remember!
Good defense is the best offense
[QUOTE=Stravinsky;1429908]There are ice queens in eastern Europe. Thawing them out is half the fun![/QUOTE]Gentlemen,
Thank you for a most entertaining thread. I just renewed the lease on my apartment in Moscow for the 2nd time taking me into my 3rd year living in Moscow. Over the past two years I have learned a great deal about Russian women. In the workplace, socially, dating and simple day to day interaction on the streets and public places. I can say with 99% confidence that the "Ice Queen" facade in Russian (Slavic) women is a defense mechanism.
I think back to one of my first trips to Moscow in June of 2005. Sitting with friends on the terrace at Hard Rock Cafe. There at a table sat this beautiful creature with long silky hair, pale blue eyes and a demeanor that said,"Don't Fuck With Me". She was cold the the waiter, cold to me when I asked to borrow the salt shaker from her table and seemed generally angry at the world. When a very good looking guy came over and offered to buy her a drink she basically told him to screw off. But when her girlfriend approached and sat down to join her, the Ice Queen's face lit up like the sun. It was was the most amazing transformation I had ever seen. A while later, two more girls joined them and now it was a regular little "hen party". A few hours later, both tables joined and we were all drinking and laughing (much to my surprise almost all of the girls spoke some English). Even the Ice Queen let me chat her up and we enjoyed a nice social evening. While I did NOT fuck her, I felt like I had crossed a bridge with her. I will never forget this encounter.
It struck me that these girls (like many beautiful women) need to keep up a strong barrier. Being polite and saying,"No thank you" is not enough in Russia. Russian men do not respect the word "no" and generally charge ahead on the slightest encouragement. For Western guys, this can be very intimidating. But Ice Queens are all just waiting to melt as soon as they feel comfortable and unthreatened. True, there are some who have been "around the block" (like my assistant) and are hardened to men in general due to a bad experience, but most Ice Queens just are keeping up a strong face to ward off unwanted advances from over aggressive fellas.
In the immortal words of Cyndi Lauper,"Girls Just want to Have Fun".