[QUOTE=Suka Shalava;1493600]I'll repeat the lesson again for anyone reading. If you have any reason at all, not to completely trust someone that you know is not a very good person, don't even give them an opportunity to pull shit. Meet at a cafe, and preferably in the daytime, and spell out some clear warnings, that if they are even thinking about fucking with you, that you will have them chopped up into pieces and then their whole family will be disappeared.[/QUOTE]Wow. Glad you are safe. I now firmly believe this shit is happening all over the world as human beings are basically same. I had the same experience in the Philippines. The Evil which has possessed these women. Had me in her "TRUST" and then she played her game. Once she knew I'm into her. She made the move. I was very hurtful of even going to Philippines again and browsing through ISG that I came across your post.
Co-incidence & Similarities half way across the world.
1. I met her in dating site.
2. Not of good background but not that bad. Kinda in the middle.
3. I liked her and she was thankful for my gifts.
4. Was planning Live in relationship with her.
5. I think girls have some kinda love sense. Once she sensed I'm totally into her. She made the move. However, as in your post. If she wanted to kill me. She would have had better opportunities. May at that time. She couldn't find where I put my credit card and cash. Or she couldn't size my worth?
6. It did not get violent but she brought one of her friends on that day. It was just pure luck that I only lost money not my life with the stuff they mixed on my drink.
7. They are not too smart, just zombies. If she had been good. She would have anyway made 10 times more and good condo to live.
Your words are different but the trust you had with the women is the same I had built and she broke it. I never thought she would do this to me. BUT I don't know exactly how did she found out. I have reached that level of trust in her before she made the move. I mean it was perfect. I had totally let my guard down around her for few weeks before this happened. And I never do that.
I have been mongering for 15 years now and been single all my life and this is the first time I decided to go long term as frankly I was tired of chasing. I'm getting old nearing 40's and pressure from parents to get married. I thought she is the one after screening 100s of girls during last few years.
I'm honestly scared, paranoid and If I will ever trust any girls that come in contact with me in this line. I will let my parents pick a girl If ever I think of long term relationship. I'm self employed so finding a girl in work is also not possible. But this whole online dating is filled with risk that could cost life itself one day.
I'm fine if I die in car accident or some disease but getting killed by the one you gave your heart is truly tragic.