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A-B-C of how to seal the deal
[QUOTE=Pushkin13] Stayed chatting with a woman until 2am ... ... and can't read her?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Borisut]I met a 30 year old Russian on a beach in Thailand, we spent the evening talking until 2am until finally swapping email addresses and going our seperate ways.
1. She was sharing a hotel room with a Russian guy who she maintains was not her boyfriend.
2. Does not drink alcohol
3. Works in a corporate office as a beancounter
4. I could not see any emotions as to whether she was interested in anything more than chat.
I have no exposure to Russian women so I could not read the situation.
What's the deal here?[/QUOTE]
You either have a problem selling yourself or with closing the deal. Given the fact that you were able to bore her out of her mind until 2AM & she still gave you her email, I suspect the selling wasn’t too bad, but the closing must have sucked.
So, here is some advice from an expert on how to seal the deal:
[QUOTE=Glengarry Glen Ross] “… You can't play in a man's game if You can't close them…
A-B-C. A-always, B-be, C-closing. Always be closing!
Always be closing!!
A-I-D-A. Attention, Interest, Decision, Action!
Attention -- do I have your attention?
Interest -- are you interested? I know you are because it's fuck or walk. You close or you hit the bricks!
Decision -- have you made your decision for Christ?!
and Action!
A-I-D-A! Get out there!!
Are you gonna take it? Are you man enough to take it?”[/QUOTE]Your case analysis:
Attention- you certainly caught here attention & you started playing the game.
Interest- you got her interested in yourself, otherwise why the hell would the two of you be talking until 2AM
Decision- have you made your decision for Christ?! WELL, HAVE YOU?! Looks like you didn’t
Action- what were you waiting for- a permission from her daddy to kiss her? This isn’t Victorian England. She told you herself that the Russian guy she was staying with is not her boyfriend!
Jesus, a woman is on vacation at an “exotic” destination chatting with you until two in the morning and tells you that the dude she is here with isn’t here boyfriend- she couldn’t make it more obvious that SHE wants YOU to take her back to YOUR room (or a secluded part of the beach) and fuck her, even if she had that written in capital letters all over her forehead.
Oh, fuck me twice! I forgot the best part- she doesn't drink. That means she is telling you all of this while sober. Why would someone of opposite sex stay up late into the night talking to a complete stranger while their "friend/sugar daddy/significant other/companion/looser" was holed up in their hotel room??
Do you still have her email address? You wouldn’t mind sharing it? Maybe I could get her to accompany me to a bean counter convention when I’m in Москва early next year. Then I’ll be able to talk business with her :) After all money is the most powerful aphrodisiac, her being a bean counter- she knows that!
You ask what's the deal. Here's the deal: Give me her email and when I'm back from Moskva next year I'll send you here naked pics. Sounds fair?
Cleanliness is next to Whorishness
A recent adventure banging a Russian MILF freebie in Washington reminded me of one of the differentiating factors between Russian women and American women - pre-coital showering. I guess it's a good thing to get clean before getting dirty, but it is always a bit distracting. I mean you are working your way through the foreplay and trying to tease off those first few bits of clothing, when she abruptly excuses herself and heads for the bathroom. But then when you hear the shower running you know you are home (as if you did not already when she came up to your room)!
I guess Russian women are expecting more orifices to be in play and a lot of mouth-to-body part contact, so cleanliness is key. It is not uncommon for them to have both pre & post-coital showers, like my MILF did. Happily by the second round we were on sufficiently intimate terms to shower together, which usually leads to a second round of getting dirty again...
Whereas with a western woman (or my wife at least) an evening shower means "don't touch me - I just got clean, I don't want to get all sticky and dirty again".