Lies we tell on our SA profiles
[QUOTE=Artisttyp;2449180]Do most of you guys lie about your income and what happens when the girls go over to your house and see your Toyota in the driveway? How do you keep with appearances if you don't have them? It seems to me like both of you are trying to con each other KNOWING exactly what you are doing.
Has Covid affected SA in a positive or negative way?[/QUOTE]
Usual lies that SDs tell:
(1) height (by an inch or two, especially guys under 6 feet tall).
(2) income / wealth.
(3) photo (photo is usually a few years old.
(4) age (only if we are in our 50's and beyond).
(5) location (usually, we pick a nearby location.
(6) body type.
Usual lies that SBs tell:
(1) education (about half of them do not have as much education as they claim).
(2) photo (heavily photo shopped).
(3) location (they usually pick a nearby location).
(4) smoking (those addicted to cigarettes or pot usually just they are light smokers).
(5) age (if in 30's, will shave a few years, if in 40's, will shave almost a decade).
(6) body type.
But the gals really do NOT care what you drive, how you dress, what your home looks like, etc. All they care about is what you will pay them and what kind of time you can show them (if you can take them out to nice restaurants, hotels, outings).
Converting ST to LT arrangements
[QUOTE=SfoCowboy;2449171]My learnings from sugar dating -.
1. These girls need money, the more you give the more they ask. Especially in a long term relationship.
2. If you find one who isn't greedy hold on to her; it won't last forever but 1-2 years is a great time frame.
3. Take time in finding the right girl, don't bargain on cash. My request to those girls. I don't bargain your allowance but I ask for more time. Most of the girls agree to spend more time. Some might cut the allowance instead.
4. When you get into long term, be clear to the girl that you'the pay ppm for the first few meetings. Once your comfortable only then you go for long term.
5. I mostly dated students; could guide them in their careers. They fall for it big time.
6. Nerdy girls are the best.[/QUOTE]All good points, but point (4) is tricky. If you are paying 500 PPM, and then later convert to LT arrangement, both of you will be doing the mental accounting all the time. She will try to achieve an average of at least 500 per date, while you are trying to get the average below 500 per date. Also, she will be more prone to canceling dates, usually at the last minute. Well, this is what happened to me, at least. The only times that LT arrangements worked out for me were when we had instant and genuine chemistry. When they like you so much that they want to see you all the time, and don't want you to leave. In other words, it felt like a real GFE from the start. And so they became LT from the start and financial arrangements were not never explicitly discussed (most of the time, but not always). One gal gave me a key to her place after I spent the night on our first date.