Por Supesto (But of Course)
[QUOTE=SavePros321;1910441]This was the one thing that turned me off from dealing with Dominicanas long distance-wise. These are the only chicks I have met that are quick to tell you all the problems in their lives the minute they meet you. It almost always came up during the second message exchange once you moved the conversation from DC to messaging (it was Skype for me a while back). I realize it is usually a tug at your heart strings to get you to open up your wallet, but I'm like "Damn, have you no shame?
The ones I would get were about "la luz" being cut off, needing to payback money borrowed from a relative, or money for school books. Oh, and of course "no hay comida". It's like they are saying "Papi, you don't want this pussy to stave to death before you get here, do you?" LMAO![/QUOTE]When you lead with money on the short term what else do you expect? Besides they also have a long list of other less savvy guys that will open up their wallet for them. So it's not really a problem for them if you keep your wallet closed. For them it's like the "hail Mary" pass in football. Nothing ventured; Nothing gained.
I haven't found one chica that told me calamity was about to befall them actually have anything bad happen to them when I told them no and just continued on about my business. The chicas were surviving before you arrived. They will continue to survive afterwards.
A closed mouth don't get fed
This should be a Hustler's anthem. Keep asking until someone says yes. In Boca Chica especially. That is the cheat code. They will ask you until you break. They will come at you every day because they have nothing to lose. Up and down Durante you will see this and experience it. From the shoeshine boys that will offered to shine your flip-flops to the guy that sees you with chica and ask for money because he knows you just want to get away with your girl. Some will shake your hand and speak cordially Hello, my friend until they lowered the Boom. They will not stop. Once they say they have your attention they go in for the kill. Hey can I talk to you. You my friend you supposed to help me. Can I please have a cervesa. I don't have money to pay child support. My children are starving. No leche for my baby. I have no gas for my Moto. I will be a fool to say I heard it all. But I've heard a lot. I wish that I can save all the newbies. But the hyenas have to eat. The strip on Boca Chica is full of them. If you sit back stay quiet and observe the scene it's like animal kingdom. If you think you're a Tarzan you're right but you're not the king of the jungle. Just another Gringo like Tarzan was. I like Boca Chica because it didn't kill me but Made Me Stronger. After a good week or two you are ready for the hustlers of the world. Boca Chica strip is 1/4 the size of sosua. But it has 10 times the number of touts and beggars on the strip. If you are new or returning after being away for awhile everyone is coming at you. A closed mouth don't get fed is the only thing ringing in the back of their mind while they're dealing with you. If they can get you to look into their eyes and listen to their son requests the Trap is set. No today means yes tomorrow. Even if they can get you to say manana. They know you probably don't mean it but they still will be in your face come tomorrow. If they can get you to recommit yourself again so be it. I've heard some say okay how about tomorrow. If you break down and give in that means you're weak and they were right about you . . They will forget everything you did for them yesterday except for the fact that they know your weak . I've seen New Yorkers home I thought we're used to dealing with beggars fall victim . Mr E we need to make a shirt that says don't ask me for s*** in Spanish. Then again what good would that do in Boca Chica.