Yeah the more low class the
[QUOTE=Terry09;1833015]I have also been dealing with civilians of late. The only problem is having to maintain constant contact.[/QUOTE]Yeah, keeping contact is hard and I have found the trend is usually the more low class they are the more they collect BF's. Philippines has its rep but poor girls everywhere are similar if not the same. In SA it is the taxi queens in other parts they go by different names. That is not to say that the higher the class the less likely you are a side dish. I respect their hustle but try to avoid or minimize how it will effect me as much as possible.
Contact details will change constantly for a variety of reasons even if you were chatting with them a day ago. If you treat them right without being a push over then they will give you a heads up when the digits change. That said more to your point. civilians require work so a different type of problem. That said it is more of their shit test than a requirement. If you keep constant contact that is ok but hit that shit right one time then they will wait as long as it takes for you to call them. Women are like men. Everyone likes the good shit. I am not saying I have it down pat but I have had moments. It more depends on the type of relationship you want with a civilian. If it is just sex then you can make that clear but what happens most times is that guys advertise for a relationship when they really just want to fuck. The saying goes you don't pay them for their time you pay them to leave.
Civilians can be very clinging and needy. Remember it is a mans world in Zim unless they are married most times they are staying at home with the parents. They do get desperate to get out, that can be both good and bad. The thing most owns do is target a jide who is already in a relationship with someone parent approved while being in a relationship. The risk obviously is that your side jide wants to trade places with your parent approved girl.