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I shouldn't comment since I haven't been married but what the fuck.

I believe "to thine own self be true." If you really need that strange, you should find a way to get it. Women marry because...

This is an interesting dilemma. What would a guy do if he found the thing he most wanted in his life and left it because he did not want to hurt the other woman in his life?

This is tough because...

Maybe this is going to be all so repetitive for the guys but here is my baloney on the subject of marriage and men chasing "strange", paid or not. These are the facts as I understand them.

Men...

I did some field research lately with online dating, on a whim I tried it. I never sent any emails to any woman, rather waited to see if anyone was interested in meeting me. To my surprise, many did,...

I lived in La Paz, speak Spanish, and go back to visit over the years. I have read some reports here about it and they are not exactly accurate.

The scene in La Paz is a little bit difficult, in...

I did not experience this in China, but rather Mexico. However, there are recurring themes of younger women and older Western men.
This can happen when the woman is outside of her home element,...

Maybe I am overanalyzing. I had no previous experience with a girl from Shanghai China. So, my big head today has learned. Besides, the little head is smarter actually. Pussy=good, other baloney...

Who said that American women walk all over me? American women are simply not as demure and sweet as the Chinese I have met, and so if they behave agressively it does not come as a surprise.
As far...

I totally believe you.
The difference is I am living in the states, not China.
The fact there are chicks in abundance keeps your wife more attentive to you possibly. It's impossible that she does...

I am over it and "epilogue" means it's the last installment.
Within my post somewhere was my surprise that such a nice, kind, sweet Chinese woman was so capable of the same subterfuge that a bitchy...

Sorry to continue,
I neglected to mention. Lil would never tell her age to the guy she went out with while ostensibly she was my "girlfriend".
He had indicated he had a strong desire to have a...

"If you let them" is incomplete, I believe it is "If you let them tell you what to do and how to live."
How is it going with your Chinese wife these days?

I agree. I am quite aware of her need for financial security which I offered to her. She would have had her education, living and other expenses paid by me. She could have done anything she wished,...

I only went to one KTV located in my hotel. They had girls and I just took one up to my room. Ask for the price of a girl "to go". Japanese men are nuts and pay a fortune to have women to get drunk...

They make good wives and girlfriends, but be aware the nicest sweetest girl there is capable of lies as much as the bitchy American girls. One you expect, the other is a surprise.

This is the epilogue of a long boring and to some annoying story of my girlfriend who moved to the USA from Shanghai. This is only intended for someone who is thinking of biting the biscuit or buying...

good looks and nice clothes are a start. wear a watch. get a haircut and manicure. be in physical shape. stand up straight and be unfailingly polite. do not: spit, gamble, get drunk, loud, etc. in...

It's been just a few months that she's been giving me shit. I hope others who have Chinese girlfriends (not hookers) avoid this anguish.
Unlike many mongers, I have only dabbled in that "sport". ...

Thanks for your comment. The "news" was she admitted lying and has someone in the wings the entire time she was "negotiating". The second news was she said she would like to continue with me even if...

Actually, my new "information" was how much of a liar and deceiver this "ideal" woman was.
She was honest to be completely up front with her goals, plans, dreams etc.
She was completely dishonest...

If you are thinking of bringing one back to the USA or elsewhere, you should be advised to keep it that way. FYI.
In China, they know they are just one among zillions vying for your attention. Take...

You are mixing up two girls. I once had a gorgeous young hooker ask to move in years ago between real girlfriends. She is in no way related to Shanghai Lil who is not nor ever was a hooker. My...

I put the warning where someone like me may find it. Actually, imported stuff is what I have usually found in California: Vietnamese, Japanese, Mexican, etc.(Americans too, can't discriminate). Since...

A warning to Western and American men about the sly ways of a Chinese woman (who sounds typical) was my entire purpose. The other BS you don't like is by way of explanation. There is no way a guy...

Thank you for your post. I deleted a longer post outlining how devious and tricky her games were. I was in a weakened emotional state at the time and she seemed to take advantage. But, I agree all...