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[Red Kilt]

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Maybe, just maybe, the risks that we get fed by various governments are deliberately over inflated, and there is some other cause for the continuous calls for safe sex.

Cause for some thought and serious statistical risk analysis.

G

I am not clear why you feel the need to be such an advocate for bareback sex Gangles.

Your statistics of zero from 400 can probably be matched by someone here with 3 from 10.

Guys who get regular STIs are hardly likely to come on here and boast about it.

For me, statistics don't mean anything. Just one instance would be enough for me.

On Friday I learned about a 21 year old who developed Chlamydia that ended up as a major pelvic infection with complications and she has just had her uterus removed. She knows who gave it to her. It is not always all about the guy being protected. Women need protection too. In your case you are vasectomised so that eliminates one element of "risk" for you in that you know the woman will not get preggers.

I think it is more salutary to just do what you want rather than try to convince others to do what you do. Bit like missionaries really.

[Member #4491]

Circumcised, right?

Either that or a red clown nose. LOL. There is also a correlation between global warming and a decline of the number of pirates in the Caribbean sea.

Just pulling your leg a bit now David, but in my belief cutting off the foreskin will have little effect on many STD:s, considering how they are transmitted. Personally I think the studies that I have seen either direct or in reference, either where done on to small groups and / or did not take cultural differences (behavioral patterns) into consideration. These reports seem to be selling something else than health. Given the cleverness of evolution one could wonder why uncircumcised men did not turn into circumcised men as time passed, but on the other hand we are constantly evolving so in 1000 years we might not even have dicks (how lucky are we not to live right now).

Some fractions of some cultures suggests that they practiced this "forever" for hygiene reasons, but "forever" is a puff in universe in this context. Cutting of the foreskin can be seen as a revolution, I. E. A fast but manipulated evolution, and the motives or outcome of such, has little relevance in the unmerciful progress of natural selection.

In any case this topic has been discussed many times here and I do not want to start a storm of opinions again, so I blame Saturday boredom for this post and beg your indulgence and patience.

To contribute something substantial, other than possibly to refrain from buying a scalpel, I can advice bareback readers to try for example Alibaba. Com for instant STD tests. Buy 100 of some brand you find trustworthy, and you will be at least slightly more equipped to avoid catching something nasty.

http://www.alibaba.com/trade/search?SearchText=rapid+hiv+test&Country=&IndexArea=product_en&fsb=why.

All the best from Barba.

STD free with foreskin.

[Ebauche]

I then started thinking about the number of guys who come here for a riotous 2 or 3 weeks, pop a Viagra or Cialis or Andros (whether legitimate from a Pharmacy or whether from the street containing unknown ingredients) every day or second day, and then go out drinking all manner of alcoholic cocktails (beer, vodka + Red Bull, mixes of beer, shooters etc) and follow it up with an energetic romp with a EWR woman later in the night.

It seems to me that given the percentage of self-confessed unfit, over-weight mongers around, all these combos are quite lethal and need a bit more thought.

I wonder just how many mongers in AC or Manila or anywhere else actually drop dead whilst in the throes of pleasure. I imagine it doesn't make the newspapers if someone dies "peacefully" and from apparent natural causes with no suspicious circumstances. It also makes me think that some of the Obituary columns in "Harry the Horse" may well have been generated by guys both old and young taking uncontrolled doses of medication washed down by copious amounts of alcohol and then busting a fuse in the bed with a horny little bedmate for the night.

Food for thought I reckon.

If ya gotta go, not a bad way. Rather die in the saddle than wasting away in a hospital or nursing home.

[Member #4351]

Never contracted any form of STI.

Circumcised, right?

[Gangles]

Having recently finished a short trip to the Phils (3 weeks) , I had my mandatory full scan for STI.

While there, I sexed 10 women, including 5 new ones. Result. Nil return.

This brings the total number of women that I have sexed bareback to about 400. I think that I have used a condom once or twice in my life. Never contracted any form of STI. And my regular doc, who expresses amazement at all of this, assures me that I can not be naturally immune to STI.

However, I have been nicked, so there is no risk of pregnancy.

Maybe, just maybe, the risks that we get fed by various governments are deliberately over inflated, and there is some other cause for the continuous calls for safe sex.

Cause for some thought and serious statistical risk analysis.

G

[Red Kilt]

I was reading an article on Whitney Houston's death today and speculation about what the toxicology studies regarding what caused her death will show when they are available.

The article further speculates that her death will be shown to have been caused by mixing prescription drugs with alcohol.

The article (in NY Times) then went on to report the data gathered over the past year about the number of people who have died from mixing prescription drugs with alcohol.

I then started thinking about the number of guys who come here for a riotous 2 or 3 weeks, pop a Viagra or Cialis or Andros (whether legitimate from a Pharmacy or whether from the street containing unknown ingredients) every day or second day, and then go out drinking all manner of alcoholic cocktails (beer, vodka + Red Bull, mixes of beer, shooters etc) and follow it up with an energetic romp with a EWR woman later in the night.

It seems to me that given the percentage of self-confessed unfit, over-weight mongers around, all these combos are quite lethal and need a bit more thought.

I wonder just how many mongers in AC or Manila or anywhere else actually drop dead whilst in the throes of pleasure. I imagine it doesn't make the newspapers if someone dies "peacefully" and from apparent natural causes with no suspicious circumstances. It also makes me think that some of the Obituary columns in "Harry the Horse" may well have been generated by guys both old and young taking uncontrolled doses of medication washed down by copious amounts of alcohol and then busting a fuse in the bed with a horny little bedmate for the night.

Food for thought I reckon.

[Gangles]

Towards the end of this last trip, I had arranged with Miss A2 that she would meet up and stay with me for 2 days. I reckon that this is enough time to get to know whether she is a long term prospect / keeper or not. She is 32, or thereabouts, lives in Cavite.

We had a few texts back and forth during the morning to confirm her progress. And she turned up exactly on time, to the minute. A text to say that she was outside, and was it OK that her friend is with her. OK.

So down I went. She was just like her photos and her profile. A plain face, big nervous smile. 5'7" tall and skinny. Just how I like them. Her friend was the opposite, the classical short, fat, ugly sidekick.

So I invited them to the resto next door to get a feeling for what was going to happen. We all ordered, chatted while we ate. It transpired that the ugly friend came to show Miss A2 how to get to the hotel. I had been telling her to take a taxi, but it had not registered. And then towards the finish, the friend announced that she was going back, and I should look after Miss A2. Yes Maam.

So Miss ugly disappeared into the throng, and Miss A2 and I proceeded upstairs. Once ensconced, she was pretty keen to get on with the kissing and fondling, and pretty soon we were naked on the bed. She was trembling in anticipation, and extremely wet. Her juices were running down her legs. So I just rolled her on top of me and went to slip into her. But I could not slip in. Then it dawned on me, and I asked if she was a virgin. Yes. So I shifted into virgin deflowering mode, and we jointly worked to get me inside her. Once I was there, she was breathing so heavily, chest heaving.

So I welcomed her to the world of womanhood, and I proceeded, to tell her what I was going to do, and what was going to happen. She was so tight, and so wet, that again, I came pretty quickly. I told her that I had come, and she was breathing heavily. So we just lay there, she on top of me, and I stroked her all over, calm her down, talk quietly into her ear. After a while, I rolled her off, we wrapped arms around, and drifted off into a lovely snooze.

We woke up early evening, went out to eat. Then back to the room. During our conversations, I was getting the feeling that she was so uneducated, so shielded from the world, that she would need intensive support.

She was pretty keen for round 2, which we did in a very slow style, lots of foreplay to get her some understanding of what sexual pleasure is all about. But she could not come that time.

Again, we drifted off to sleep.

Next morning, we had a cuddle and a smooch, and then downstairs for breakfast. Somehow the conversation got round to how she would get home. And I was astounded when she said that she could not get home by herself, from Ortigas to Cavite. Even if I walked her down to the MRT station, and put her on the right train, she could not do it. Wow. 32 years old.

Some time later, when we were back in the room, I told her that I thought that we were not suitable for each other, because I needed a woman who could find her way around, could fly from place to place, who could get things done by herself.

She was sad, but she understood what I was saying, and soon after that, we parted as friends. She had some money for a taxi fare to take her all the way home to Cavite, and I put her into a taxi at the door of the hotel. Wow.

[Gangles]

Towards the end of my last trip, I was staying with Miss J1, who was working.

So I had the days clear to do what I wanted.

So I arranged to meet Miss A1, with whom I had met through Cherry Blossoms some time ago. We met at the Podium Mall, very close to where I was staying. The intention was to have a coffee, or lunch, put a name to a face and body for later liaisons.

When she arrived, I was taken aback. She looked a lot more attractive than her photos. Bonus. Interestingly, when I remarked that she looked very young for a 30 year old, she said that she is really 24. Why would she fake her age up?

So we chatted away nicely, and then there was that lull in the conversation that heralds something interesting. So I asked her what she wanted to do.

No reply.

So I asked if she would like to come to the hotel to watch some TV. Yes. So we walked there, up to the room. Sat at the head of the bed and on with the TV. But she wanted to kiss and cuddle, and very soon we were naked. And she was very wet.

So I started to stroke and generally get her started, but no need, she was awash, and very hot. So I rolled her on top of me, and went to slide into her, but very tight resistance. Then it dawned on me, so I asked if she was a virgin. Yes.

Switched to virgin deflowering mode, and very slowly eased into her, with her in control. Once I was inside, we stopped, stayed still, and I welcomed her into the world of womanhood.

She was so tight, and so passionate, that it only took a few strokes for her to get a bellyful of my essential bodily fluids.

We just stayed still again, while I stroked her all over, and calmed her down. Then we had a cuddle and a smooch. She got dressed, and we went out.

Just wonderful.

This trip, we arranged for her to stay over for 2 days. Wow, what a woman. Intensely passionate, horny as hell, wants servicing all day and night. And she is such a lovely woman to boot. Not educated, but smart and intelligent. And very attractive in a simple faced way.

A real keeper.

G

[X Man]

Years ago I flew into Dumaguete from Manila and on the airplane I struck up a conversation with a non-Filipino. It seems he was into a bz making backpacks. Not exactly textiles, but close enough.

I was going to write "go to Bangladesh" but then I found these reports.

SNIP.

Barba.

[Stroker Ace88]

It just reinforces what a few other regular posters and I have been saying on here for a long time.

Be honest and frank in your profile, but use subtle language so that you will not be reported and banned from the site.

My profile shows my marital status; why I am there; why I am not looking for a wife; what I am seeking.

With such a profile I get a very low percentage of women who actually send me a message or "Show Interest" but it sieves out the women who are looking for the "happy ever afters". Guys who spin silly lies just to meet good-looking women will come undone more and more when the women become more and more savvy. I had the same experience as Vielendank with several girls from the same group sending me messages but for all the right reasons. They knew I wanted more than one friend and the first woman shared my name and so they all wanted to be in on it.

The irony is that the more honest And direct That you seem to be, the more women like it. I chuckle when I read here about all the lies and scams that women use with guys but nobody seems to acknowledge that the same complaining guys are usually spinning all manner of lies to the women too. It is a vicious circle and we won't stop it.

Red Kilt,

You touch on some good points and shine a light on an issue that some members I assume would rather keep quiet as it's rarely discussed here. Men who scam and lie to women either with dating profile descriptions, chat promises or promises made in person that they have no intentions of keeping.

Have you ever taken a look and browsed the profiles of men seeking women on some of the asian dating sites? Ay caramba! Seems there are endless romantics and countless guys seeking a wife and many more that claim to be seeking only special women in there life. I have only seen a few profiles that are blunt and are straight to the point.

Why would I browse profiles of other guys? Simple, to understand the actions and reactions of most filipinas, one needs to understand what kinds of influences they are exposed to. With extended time spent in the Philippines one can learn to understand the cultural inflections to a certain extent but IMO most women online are guided by experiences and interactions with foreigners both good and bad that shape there outlook.

I do think some of the guys online are seriously looking for a wife, but they are a very small percentage. Most of the guys online are chat and webcam warriors and have no intention of getting on a plane. I guesstimate the number of guys on any given dating website that will visit the Philippines soon or visits on a regular basis is below 15. That means most women online have to deal with alot of bola and broken promises, and it's those interactions that contribute to shape her thoughts and actions.

Guys are quick to post so-called "scammer" profiles in the chat rooms and pen-pals thread when they encounter one, very few stop to think about the equal quantities of guys online who scam them right back with endless promises and lies.

Personally, my profile is basic and simple with very few words. I always send a clear initial private message to someone that catches my eye that I am not seeking a wife, fun only. From my experience I get an even 50-50 split between outright rejection and women that are ok with what I am seeking. Of the 50% that claim to be ok, a further 25% will still refuse and back out along the way. It saves alot of time and headaches when the women know what I want and that leads to more jerjer time.

[Frenzy3]

Hey Everyone, just wanted to pass along something that I just experienced with the DIA girls. I have been talking to several for my upcoming trip to Angeles City and Manila. I have been talking to additional girls with the plans of having some back-ups. I found out that when I was talking to a couple of the girls that I would all of a sudden start getting emails from several girls from the same city. Come to find out that the girl / s I was talking to had her friends send me emails seeing if I tried to set up something with them also. Seems that they have caught on to some near-do-well foreigners interested in their body parts for nothing but pleasure. Just be aware especially if you start getting lots of messages from girls near the ones your talking too. Obviously harder in the bigger cities but when you don't get many message and then start getting alot from one geographical areas then it should raise some red flags. I do know the one thing these girls hate is men who lie to them. Obviously they are fine if it's the other way around.

What you do not understand is most of small towns are real small, they have nothing much to talk about, so they do talk about you. As for the lies the ones who lie are LB and scammers. So many guys are lying to the girls, the girls start of good then learn the game. So blame the idiots who try get free pussy or free cam to cam, these girls spend time and money to get online the 20 peso they spend comes out of their limited income, so the lies can cost the girls a lot.

I for one tell guys leave the online girls alone, just come here most will never meet you if you do not send money and even then they will not meet you. Get here and meet girls who are here and want to meet you. If your here for a week go to bars and discos, longer just be here going out you will meet plenty of girls.

[Red Kilt]

. Seems that they have caught on to some near-do-well foreigners interested in their body parts for nothing but pleasure. I do know the one thing these girls hate is men who lie to them.

It just reinforces what a few other regular posters and I have been saying on here for a long time.

Be honest and frank in your profile, but use subtle language so that you will not be reported and banned from the site.

My profile shows my marital status; why I am there; why I am not looking for a wife; what I am seeking.

With such a profile I get a very low percentage of women who actually send me a message or "Show Interest" but it sieves out the women who are looking for the "happy ever afters". Guys who spin silly lies just to meet good-looking women will come undone more and more when the women become more and more savvy. I had the same experience as Vielendank with several girls from the same group sending me messages but for all the right reasons. They knew I wanted more than one friend and the first woman shared my name and so they all wanted to be in on it.

The irony is that the more honest And direct That you seem to be, the more women like it. I chuckle when I read here about all the lies and scams that women use with guys but nobody seems to acknowledge that the same complaining guys are usually spinning all manner of lies to the women too. It is a vicious circle and we won't stop it.

[Slippery]

Hey Everyone, just wanted to pass along something that I just experienced with the DIA girls. I have been talking to several for my upcoming trip to Angeles City and Manila. I have been talking to additional girls with the plans of having some back-ups. I found out that when I was talking to a couple of the girls that I would all of a sudden start getting emails from several girls from the same city. Come to find out that the girl / s I was talking to had her friends send me emails seeing if I tried to set up something with them also. Seems that they have caught on to some near-do-well foreigners interested in their body parts for nothing but pleasure. Just be aware especially if you start getting lots of messages from girls near the ones your talking too. Obviously harder in the bigger cities but when you don't get many message and then start getting alot from one geographical areas then it should raise some red flags. I do know the one thing these girls hate is men who lie to them. Obviously they are fine if it's the other way around.

Yeah, they pass your I'd around and then they all ask for money. And it evolves and evolves and evolves.

Just block the ones that ask for help in any way, shap or form. Problem is that you will still be getting messages from their sisters, nieces and baklas in the family. I think I got it under control but I dunno.

[Member #4491]

Any of you guys in the garment industry in Phillipines. Need some information, and aid in procuring some materials.

CT

I was going to write "go to Bangladesh" but then I found these reports.

http://www.marketresearch.com/Textil...pines-1420305/

http://www.tradechakra.com/economy/p...ppines-257.php

"The textile and garment sector in the Philippines is a vital part of the country's economy. It has 320, 000 employees, making it the largest employer in the manufacturing sector with 11% of the national total.

An additional 700, 000 people are employed as home-workers and small sub-contractors."

I never knew that this was so big in the Philippines. Would be interesting to know where these 320 K workers are concentrated to.

Apparently they are in trouble though.

http://www.fibre2fashion.com/news/ga...s/philippines/

Cool Traveler why don't you try Alibaba? Easy way to find most one could wish to to import.

http://www.alibaba.com/countrysearch...-industry.html

Barba.

[Undakovabrotha]

I suggest (politely) , that you read TFF, UB. There have been several excellent reports in the forum by guys who know Davao and Samal. Just put 'Samal' into the search field. Definitely a BYOB kind of place.

Many thanks to all!