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03-06-21 17:00 #18437
Posts: 3281Originally Posted by Sharka [View Original Post]
Need to navigate through all this. Just because they blocked you does not mean anything. If you have other means of communication and you are on the ground they will jump into your bed.
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03-06-21 08:50 #18436
Posts: 632Originally Posted by SinfullyKorean [View Original Post]
But I have been asked many times from various girls I've banged before for handouts. Worse now with the Pandemic as most can't find customers and can't find work as many places either downsized or closed.
I have ignored most request Over the past year and many have already blocked me. Too bad though as many were cute and somewhat decent performers.
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03-06-21 05:23 #18435
Posts: 216Its all about denial and "suspending disbelief" on the part of the guy. I can't blame the girl for trying to raise some cash.
If one truely believes he is someone that young filipinas find attractive and fun to be with then it should not be difficult to hook up with a single filipina in the USA where she has her own money and the playing field is level. If that can't be achieved then you may need to work on some self improvement so you can compete.
I advise against confusing sex tourism with romance.
Originally Posted by Pussycat123 [View Original Post]
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03-05-21 23:47 #18434
Posts: 459Originally Posted by Sharka [View Original Post]
It's not even a matter of expecting something in return. Most of us are blessed to be in a good situation. Sharing a small sliver of that good fortune to people who don't expect it, but are grateful for it, just makes you a good human being.
If she starts expecting handouts, shows she's not grateful, or expects more dump her. World's too big to get hung up on a single ungrateful pussy.
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03-05-21 16:39 #18433
Posts: 3394Originally Posted by SaltyPete [View Original Post]
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03-05-21 16:11 #18432
Posts: 340Originally Posted by Sharka [View Original Post]
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03-05-21 08:04 #18431
Posts: 632Yeah, I'm a sucker too. When I spend too much time in PI, I fall into the lets help the girl mentality. Don't affect me when its only 1-2 week trip but when its a month or more, then guessing could be out of boredom.
The last girl I met was a part time freelancer with a 2 yr old girl. She was a very nice person. Not a harden pro. Use to meet up one a week then she wanted to meet more. I asked why as she always insisted she didn't have time to come out more often when I wanted her. She said her daughter has asthma and she was desperate for hospital bills and medicine. She was always trying to be as cheerful as possible when she was with me but always sad and worried just the same.
I tried not to be too sympathetic but it does affect me the longer you know them. I also tried not to let money be an issue but also do find myself giving her a little more than what we agreed on. There was once when she came over and both just got undressed and her phone rang. She started crying as Neighbor said her daughter was having another asthma attack. She got dressed and wanted to leave right away, didn't ask me for any money even though she had to pay transport to visit me. She ran out of my hotel and I caught up to her in the street. I gave her transport money along with what I usually give her for ST and little extra. So she went away with my money and I got absolutely nothing out of it. Yeah, like a said, I'm a sucker too.
Cheers.
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03-05-21 07:34 #18430
Posts: 4050There's One Born Every Minute
Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
GE.
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03-05-21 05:54 #18429
Posts: 451Goes both ways and same the world over. Think Anna Nicole Smith and Summers. I was with a group of young people in the US recently. One of the guys had a bitchy beautiful gold digger wife. I felt sad for the guy because she was looking at climbing into richer greener pastures. Another cute blond girl was married to a red neck who probably makes a tenth of what she makes.
A few years ago, a US politician divorced his crazy rich Asian wife and sued for Alimony.
A rich professional woman could not wait for the super rich separated husband to die so she could take over some of his property and manipulate the kids who inherited the husband's business.
When I was younger, waitresses, nannies, au pairs, shop assistants were such easy targets. The girls' mental calculator figures out where your are from and your potential net worth very rapidly. It is like in Batman, Cat woman's line to Bruce about what he does for a living. Girls ask that all the time to size up your wallet.
It is the same the world over. Don't let color or location blind you.
Originally Posted by Pussycat123 [View Original Post]
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03-05-21 04:39 #18428
Posts: 3394Originally Posted by Brisman33 [View Original Post]Originally Posted by Pussycat123 [View Original Post]
Guys that loose $150 K only do so because they allow the out flow. Pay the "help" out of her bank account / allowance / part time job and see how long it continues.
Sorry, but I have absolutely no sympathy for these guys. The girls see a cash cow and would be crazy not to take advantage of it.
Cheers. G.
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03-05-21 00:43 #18427
Posts: 3260Originally Posted by Pussycat123 [View Original Post]
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03-04-21 22:54 #18426
Posts: 126If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.
A lot of guys think they can go to the Philippines and meet a beautiful, loyal wife who may be much younger than them. Retired guys literally have 20 somethings throwing themselves at them. And in most cases it would be impossible to meet such a a girl in western countries; they wouldn't even give you a second glance. And in fact it is possible to find a beautiful, loyal, young wife in Ph.
But just remember: In 99% of cases the girls are poor, and their families are poor too. Which means that you, as the relatively wealthy foreigner will be the person they come to when they need help. It doesn't matter if they are a bargirl, "Normal" girl, etc. Unless they are from the Filipino elite then they are relatively poor. (And elite Pinays don't throw themselves at working class foreigners).
I just read a story from a guy married to a Pinay. He gave long, long list of all the problems her family had (Brother drowned in a shipwreck, sister got cancer, etc, etc) and he bankrolled them all, to the tune of about $150 k US.
How many of us that have been married to western women had to bail out their family members? In my case, not only was it zero, her family actually gave money to my family and for my kids education. So I was net positive.
So its not surprising the Pinay will be loyal when you are a walking ATM who will solve all the financial problems of her tribe. Just see how long she stays with you if you are broke, especially if she already got her green card or whatever.
So I'm not saying don't marry a Pinay; I'm just saying just understand what you are getting yourself into. As I said, if something looks too good to be true, it probably is.
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03-04-21 10:52 #18425
Posts: 10Be aware that you marry the entire family as well so expect continuing requests for money for the sisters college bill, mother needs an operation, father's gambling debts etc.
Many of these girls fall pregnant young and those nieces and nephews she is so fond of might act be her own children which you will only be told about after the wedding.
The Philippine passport ranks pretty low on the visa free index so expect travelling with her to be inconvenient, you may want to take a quick break at short notice and whilst you probably won't need a visa, she probably will.
You can take the girl out of the bar / village but you can't take the bar / village out of her. My wife left the Philippines over 30 years ago but still eats with her fingers given the chance, and prefers to sit on a low stool whilst eating, rather than at the table. When we visit her hometown, she will quite happily sleep in a bamboo hut and can't wait to eat her first balut (duck egg with partially developed embryo inside).
They are more into sex than the Thai girls and want to make sure you enjoy it. I hooked up with a nymphomaniac half my age on Tinder, it was like being fucked by an animal. Plenty of raw energy but I need to refine her skills a bit.
As a westerner, you can afford to be choosy. Look at higher class and younger than you would at home. You can easily find a stunner 10 years younger than you.
Whilst they are English speaking and Christian, underneath they are Asian don't forget that.
The girls have old fashioned values and make good wives if you treat them well.
Try the "LA Cafe" in Ermita if you're in Manila. Full of freelancers and no admission charge or bar fine, you simply negotiate directly with her and leave. The average standard isn't that high so be prepared to spend a while until you find one you like. The rougher and more desperate ones are close to the front door and will grab you as soon as you enter. Better quality can be found in the back or upstairs, small charge if there is a band playing.
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02-23-21 07:15 #18424
Posts: 3225Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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02-23-21 04:05 #18423
Posts: 173Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
The only way I see myself sending money is if she is expecting my baby, which in that case she can not work because she is pregnant.
Only in that case I see myself sending money to her.
Of course you got to make sure you are the father of the baby, only two ways to know for sure is with a DNA test which can be done while she is pregnant or if you had spend the whole 4 - 5 weeks since her last period together and she never slept a night without you, or spend many hours without you.
Hard to do that if you plan to meet multiple girls during your trip, but if you decide to spend your whole trip with just one girl, then it can be possible if you guys go in a 1 month island hoping vacation trip. It will be impossible for her to get pregnant with someone else in a remote island while you guys are vacationing together and spending all the time together.