Manila

[Expat American]

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And if she is not with you for money, and you still want to dated other girls you can have an open relationship (which I have experienced it before for almost 20 years back in Canada and in Philippines or the other countries I travel), that way there are not lies and no one getting hurt!

It took me a long time to learn this. Now I am married to a lovely Singaporean girl, 20 years my junior who works in top Tech company, not with me for money, treats me like a king and understands that I will always have the desire to fuck strange pussy. Its the first time I have a partner I can be 100% honest with and its awesome. No hiding or cheating. I make my side trips to Phils or Thailand etc every few months and its all cool. Of course I have no desire to have a relationship with any Filipina or Thai girl and I also have no qualms paying for sex to keep it uncomplicated. I've tried the dating scene and while its supremely easy to fuck for free, it always ends messy with me having to ghost them in the end. You don't pay for sex, you pay to avoid felling guilty later.

[Steve Nash]

Kind of reminds me of a situation I was in back in March. During the lockdown years I met someone on MeetMe / Skout whom I chatted up with. The usual, drop a gift online, etc. Well I finally made it down to Manila in March of this year, and after finding more fun with new women, I let some of the online ones slip by. Basically I got tired of being asked to "give" and get nothing but some half-assed conversations on promises to meet. This one lady, at first knowing I was there began the usual "are you not seeing other people and why do you give them gifts, etc" when I asked how if she was so dirt poor she was sitting in a nice computer chair that costs a nice peso. She said it was a gift from one of her Gifter online. So I asked if it's ok for you to receive gifts from others and I'm not supposed to be jealous or worry, then why is it not fair for me to see and give to whomever I want? That Logic bomb probably didn't sit too well with her, but then she decided to want to see me and I shut it down.

If you are in the position of not being able to take a "me" moment in trying to get down to see someone, then it's probably not worth it. You are their investment and they don't want anyone scooping up their money / opportunity, and I say if I were you just move on to the next one. Don't get caught up in their petty games.

I 100% agree, that's why I never dated girls in Philippines who asked me for money, I always let them know in the middle of our conversation (in person or videocall) or in my dating profile that I don't like escorts, goldiggers or women asking for money.

But I do agree, if you are meeting girls and you are paying them for sex (or giving them gifts before you meet them which is kind of a payment), they have NO RIGHT to tell you what to do and who you meet next. That should be common sense!

And if she is not with you for money, and you still want to dated other girls you can have an open relationship (which I have experienced it before for almost 20 years back in Canada and in Philippines or the other countries I travel), that way there are not lies and no one getting hurt!

[Tkg2015]

Hey everyone,

I am planning first trip this year and at this point looking for some hotel advice. Travelling with a buddy for what will be about a 7 week trip starting in Manila. Plan to stay there for about a week and then over to a beach spot (Boracay, Palawan, or Puerto Galera) for a few days and probably over to Cebu for several days. From the Philippines we plan to go to Vietnam possibly Cambodia and last to Thailand for about 3-4 weeks. For hotels we are wanting something decent for the first few nights in Makati to settle in and get over the jetlag (coming from Canada) We have checked with several hotels about their guest policy and it seems the majority are replying that guests need to leave by 10 pm including City Grand which is at the top of our list. That one gets mentioned quite a bit on here, has this been the experience that guests have to leave by 10 pm?

[CreateNinnov8]

H All,

Just back from a 7 Day Fuckation. It was very memorable. Had total of 7 P $$usy in & days with 18 Cums.

Stayed in Makati. Had so much fun.

Now catching up with work, will post daywise reports with pics soon.

[Drbombay]

So a rich white guy marries or partners with an uneducated province girl, supports her entire village and still can't spend a night on his own in Manila without jumping through hoops for the aforementioned village girl? Why not just marry a white woman in your home country if you want to give up your balls. LOL LOL.

Kind of reminds me of a situation I was in back in March. During the lockdown years I met someone on MeetMe / Skout whom I chatted up with. The usual, drop a gift online, etc. Well I finally made it down to Manila in March of this year, and after finding more fun with new women, I let some of the online ones slip by. Basically I got tired of being asked to "give" and get nothing but some half-assed conversations on promises to meet. This one lady, at first knowing I was there began the usual "are you not seeing other people and why do you give them gifts, etc" when I asked how if she was so dirt poor she was sitting in a nice computer chair that costs a nice peso. She said it was a gift from one of her Gifter online. So I asked if it's ok for you to receive gifts from others and I'm not supposed to be jealous or worry, then why is it not fair for me to see and give to whomever I want? That Logic bomb probably didn't sit too well with her, but then she decided to want to see me and I shut it down.

If you are in the position of not being able to take a "me" moment in trying to get down to see someone, then it's probably not worth it. You are their investment and they don't want anyone scooping up their money / opportunity, and I say if I were you just move on to the next one. Don't get caught up in their petty games.

[Dg8787]

Gad-freakin-damn I am glad I am I don't have a wife or girlfriend and I'm free and can't be blackmailed. But good for you bro, balancing chaos and working the system.

Me too!

My rotation of regular girls know and understand that I need a variety of new ones. I don't lie nor do I hide it. Some have asked me in the past if I am fucking others and I reply I will give you an answer if you can handle it. Some don't want to know and others don't care if I do or can live with it. After telling them I am, I just smile and say "I was born this way". Most will reply "yeah, I know".

At that point I enlist them for their friends!

[Steve Nash]

Gad-freakin-damn I am glad I am I don't have a wife or girlfriend and I'm free and can't be blackmailed. But good for you bro, balancing chaos and working the system.

Yeah you got to work the system, specially if she ends up being your wife. It is worth it!

If she is just a girl you barely know is not worth it, BUT in my case we know eachother for more than 3 years and we lived together for 14 months. She is the real deal: hardworker, independent, intelligent, NEVER asked me for money and the age gap is less than 14 years, and I haven't even talk about her looks, let's just say I'm very picky in looks and she passes with flying colors, anyways the big kicker for me was two things: One, that we have a baby together and I don't see myself not being in my daughter's life, and two, and more important that after living with my wife for 14 months during COVID (yeah we finally got married) I realized that she is the woman I see myself waking up every morning. Yeah if anybody calls me corny, I don't care! Because I'm very happy with my decision.

[FuriousGeorge]

Gad-freakin-damn I am glad I am I don't have a wife or girlfriend and I'm free and can't be blackmailed. But good for you bro, balancing chaos and working the system.

"Yeah, try to sleep in the airport", she hug me and said: "That's why I love you, you sacrifice sleeping in the airport to be here".

[Steve Nash]

So a rich white guy marries or partners with an uneducated province girl, supports her entire village and still can't spend a night on his own in Manila without jumping through hoops for the aforementioned village girl? Why not just marry a white woman in your home country if you want to give up your balls. LOL LOL.

Yes I agree, if you are rich and you are white (well you can be from any color: yellow, green, orange, doesn't matter), and your wife or partner is an uneducated province girl (which doesn't matter she can be educated or uneducated, either way), and you support her entire village (that one I agree, you give up your balls if you are supporting her entire village), about giving up your balls to a white woman well that's just been a pussy! Why would you marry a women (white or yellow or green or orange, doesn't matter) and give up your balls, that's just been a loser! No man should give up their balls to no one, it doesn't matter if she is white, hot and educated!

The reason you might lied about spending a night in Manila is because maybe you need to be urgent on her province and you need to arrived there ASAP, there is no time for stopover in another city or anything, but since the cheapest ticket available (you are not rich BTW) is a ticket with a stop in Manila for 7 hours, you say: "fuck it! I won't stay in Manila for 7 hours without changing oil", so you decide to arrive early (I save like $80 CAD by arriving in Manila instead of her province), then spend the night (cost me like $40 the hotel) and then flight to her province the next day (cost me like $70 the flight), in total I ended up spending like $30 extra for a night of sex (well that doesn't include the date, but the date was cheap like 1 K), and BTW for the girl I didn't pay her anything, just met her in the mall we talk for abit there, then to my hotel for afew drinks (couldn't close the deal there yet), then we went to the disco drink some more and finally back in the hotel she finally give-in (she had a huge ass, I'm a sucker of booty, real booty not fake booty), so we had sex before we pass out then sleep for 3 hours and then second round when we woke up at 6 am, I almost miss my 9 am flight but no worries I made it and by 11 am I was with my living partner, she asked me you look like you haven't sleep, I said to her: "Yeah, try to sleep in the airport", she hug me and said: "That's why I love you, you sacrifice sleeping in the airport to be here".

[Expat American]

I have done that once before, it works if you have a living partner or wife waiting for you in the province, you can just tell her that you will arrive late in Manila (but of course arrive early) and you had to wait for your next flight 9-10 hours at the airport (tell her you didn't have load since you just arrived in the country, so she won't call you). If all this works you can easily have 1 free night in Manila without her ever finding out!

Oh shit I'm giving away all my secrets here.

So a rich white guy marries or partners with an uneducated province girl, supports her entire village and still can't spend a night on his own in Manila without jumping through hoops for the aforementioned village girl? Why not just marry a white woman in your home country if you want to give up your balls. LOL LOL.

[Flak3]

I checked Philippine Airlines website. It says unless the ticket says stopover one cannot leave the airport on layover. I do not think immigration will stop you if you show the filled questionnaire on the app. If they ask no need to say you are on a layover. Just say few days stay. On the way back immigration do not ask any questions.

All 5 guys filled out the questionnaire and uploaded the vax info. They were all stopped at immigration and sent to the transfer area / transit lounge. One guy didn't even say he was staying for a few hours, when they scanned his passport, it pulled up his departure flight 12 hours later and he was detained. From what I could tell, this was a new rule for COVID. So if you really want to exit, contact the airline and immigration ahead of time. Otherwise risk being detained or worse when you try to exit the country.

[Sammon]

In Singapore I have cleared immigration for an hour to send off a friend BUT only one entry / exit per calendar day. Similar in HK for a day of work visits.

For my trip to Manila I can't think of any reason why I cannot clear immigration for a few hours. I arrive, I enter with the standard questions. Why are you here?, how long you stay? To that last question I just say "one day".

I already will have my outbound boarding pass so when I return to airport I'll just go directly to security and depart.

Cannot wait.

I checked Philippine Airlines website. It says unless the ticket says stopover one cannot leave the airport on layover. I do not think immigration will stop you if you show the filled questionnaire on the app. If they ask no need to say you are on a layover. Just say few days stay. On the way back immigration do not ask any questions.

I have booked a flight to Jakarta next year via Manila because it was the cheapest. Toronto to Manila-layover of 10 hours then to Jakarta. Coming back will stay in Philippines for a couple of weeks. It will be horrible to spend 10 hours at the airport. Manila airport does not have day rooms or hotels connected to rest.

[Steve Nash]

Last month I saw 4 or 5 guys with long layovers try to leave the airport. One guy even had a reservation at a hotel. They were all told that if they were staying for less than 24 hours for a connecting flight, they needed to apply ahead of time for an exception from immigration and needed a letter from the airline to leave the airport. They argued with immigration for hours but none of them were allowed to leave. So unless they changed the rule in the last few weeks, have fun sleeping in the airport.

I think that only applies for flights coming from abroad, because I took a flight back on April from Negros to Palawan with 8 hours stop in Manila, I was able to leave the airport party with my girl for 5 hours (it was a night layover) then I don't remember how I ended up in Palawan because I got so drunk that I blackout (I mix beer with hard liquor) my girl took good care of me even thought she said I embarrass her in the airport, that was the drunkest I ever got in the last 3-4 years!

If I was those guys and I wanted to hook up (since he said he book a hotel room) I will buy an International flight to Manila and stay 1 night there and then flight the next day to whatever province he was going.

I have done that once before, it works if you have a living partner or wife waiting for you in the province, you can just tell her that you will arrive late in Manila (but of course arrive early) and you had to wait for your next flight 9-10 hours at the airport (tell her you didn't have load since you just arrived in the country, so she won't call you). If all this works you can easily have 1 free night in Manila without her ever finding out!

Oh shit I'm giving away all my secrets here.

[AsianPursuits]

I think even if you have a connecting flight to another foreign destination you can still leave the airport and come back as long as you fill out the forms required to enter. I guess if you tell the immigration that you are just staying for a few hours they may not let you in asking to wait in the airport for the next flight. In Singapore I have gone to town during 10 hours layover and came back. Do not know if Philippine immigration is any different.

In Singapore I have cleared immigration for an hour to send off a friend BUT only one entry / exit per calendar day. Similar in HK for a day of work visits.

For my trip to Manila I can't think of any reason why I cannot clear immigration for a few hours. I arrive, I enter with the standard questions. Why are you here?, how long you stay? To that last question I just say "one day".

I already will have my outbound boarding pass so when I return to airport I'll just go directly to security and depart.

Cannot wait.

[Sammon]

Apology, I might not have been clear enough. Its not clear if you will have any domestic travel. Travel from the US to Manila is international. But your outbound trip from Manila, is that domestic? Are you flying from Manila to Cebu / Surigao / other (domestic)? That might require you to go thru arrivals Immigration at NAIA, then transit to your MNL-Cebu domestic flight (possibly a taxi ride to a different terminal). Once thru Immigration, you could depart the airport for your short-time, then return to the airport for your domestic flight to Cebu.

If your outbound trip from Manila is to a foreign country, then you will probably not pass thru arrivals Immigration; you would probably just head to your International flight gate, and you might not be able to depart the airport.

If you purchased your tickets online, you might already have received instructions on whether you are transiting (internationally only) or arriving (domestic flight), and how to collect your luggage. Alternately you can contact any travel agent in the US and give them your flight info, and they can tell you if you will be able to depart the airport and return. Or alternately, contact your airline in advance and ask them. Other gents weigh in.

I think even if you have a connecting flight to another foreign destination you can still leave the airport and come back as long as you fill out the forms required to enter. I guess if you tell the immigration that you are just staying for a few hours they may not let you in asking to wait in the airport for the next flight. In Singapore I have gone to town during 10 hours layover and came back. Do not know if Philippine immigration is any different.