Manila

[Shikamaru1993]

The girls jumping on bed with a person met from dating site, knowing well after that they would be ignored or forgotten. They doing that just for money, it's that simple. A girl doing pretty good job never been starving for money nor for sex. Money they earn and Philippine is a free country to have sex by their choice. Real good looking professionals don't need dating site.

Ok. But then why are they jumping in bed with me multiple times without any money? They pay for their own grab to come to my apartment. Offer to split the bill. And I met them on a dating app. I understand what you are saying but my experience is different from what you are saying.

[Transporter]

The food is pretty good.

[Transporter]

On another note, if you have enough company, this is a good place to go and enjoy.

[Mua Tur]

And also one thing I forgot to mention is that I did not pay them for sex. The only thing I pay for is their Starbucks coffee.

The girls jumping on bed with a person met from dating site, knowing well after that they would be ignored or forgotten. They doing that just for money, it's that simple. A girl doing pretty good job never been starving for money nor for sex. Money they earn and Philippine is a free country to have sex by their choice. Real good looking professionals don't need dating site.

[Mua Tur]

It's pretty difficult to fake it since I actually talk about work with them. Talking about work and career aspirations is a nice conversation starter for a date generally. And I doubt a hooker from a bar can talk about corporate compliance tasks she's currently working on in the Netherlands HQ of ING bank.

Still I am doubt on it. Smart girls aware about what they talking.

When a girl became 18, a very popular Debut party arranged in Philippines, . Boys above 18 are invited and they make lap dance with the girl one by one with music. It's an open invitation for the boys, declaring became she is an adult and to be chased. So every lookers are eyed by the boys and real professionals are not out of that.

[Shikamaru1993]

How you got to sure they are telling true. Generally pros telling lie to raise their price.

And also one thing I forgot to mention is that I did not pay them for sex. The only thing I pay for is their Starbucks coffee.

[Shikamaru1993]

How you got to sure they are telling true. Generally pros telling lie to raise their price.

It's pretty difficult to fake it since I actually talk about work with them. Talking about work and career aspirations is a nice conversation starter for a date generally. And I doubt a hooker from a bar can talk about corporate compliance tasks she's currently working on in the Netherlands HQ of ING bank.

[Mua Tur]

Umm I disagree. Like I said on Bumble, and sometimes on Tinder there were really pretty and professional women. Example would be one girl who's a lawyer and works for ING bank. One girl worked for PnG. Another one was a CFA and worked as a financial advisor. All of them attractive and under 30.

Of course they are a minority but still they exist. And I am an average looking Indian guy. A white guy will have even more success than me.

How you got to sure they are telling true. Generally pros telling lie to raise their price.

[Shikamaru1993]

The real fact is professional, good looking, educated girls don't need any dating app. There are plenty boys around them chasing after. Mostly already taken or to be taken.

Umm I disagree. Like I said on Bumble, and sometimes on Tinder there were really pretty and professional women. Example would be one girl who's a lawyer and works for ING bank. One girl worked for PnG. Another one was a CFA and worked as a financial advisor. All of them attractive and under 30.

Of course they are a minority but still they exist. And I am an average looking Indian guy. A white guy will have even more success than me.

[Mua Tur]

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Online is a viable or preferred option for many guys, not just the socially anxious:
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Those that like some element of 'the thrill of the chase'.
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Enjoy. G.

Dating site stands with 'the thrill of the chase'.

So this is a review and report for introverts specifically about how to get laid without going to clubs using specifically dating Apps.

About Me: I am a 29 years old Indian. I lived in Philippines permanently back in 2017-18 but then moved out. And this year I went again for 20 days. I stayed in Pasig for the first few days and then in BGC.
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To summarize, I am not saying dating apps are better than mongering in clubs. For both hookers or normal girls. I do think talking to women in person is a lot better. But there might be people like me who are not comfortable with that. So, in that case dating apps provide a nice alternative.

Usually, I would take the girls out for a coffee date. If the vibe matched, I would ask them to come back to my apartment. Some women might not go with you the on the first date. Especially professional women but on the 2nd date sex is usually guaranteed. But you need to have a nice personality for a 2nd date to happen.

Multiple times you mentioned professional, uneducated, ugly etc elements for the dating site girls. The real fact is professional, good looking, educated girls don't need any dating app. There are plenty boys around them chasing after. Mostly already taken or to be taken. There are two types of girls are available in dating apps, 1. The girls are in need of money and ready to jump in bed immediately. 2. The girls not good looking enough or lost their prime time. Might be uneducated too. The boys around them ignoring or considering them granted.

It's true Some are holding their pride and ready to go in next date.

Happy Hunting.

[Transporter]

Hi guys!

I am a world traveler that is soon to be in the PI. First time there. I have read WestCoasts reports for a decade. Will be in Manilla for one day, and north of Angeles for 2 weeks. Looking for advice to have the best possible experience. I am new to Asia, so any advice is greatly appreciated.

If you want to play in manila, how much time and where? And how north of AC? Tarlac? Baguio? Norte?

[WestCoast1]

Province girl comes to the big smoke and gives Westy a heapin' helpin' of small-town hospitality. Poor Westy.

Reach out. Grab ahold of something you believe in. Don't let go.

[ElBurroEsta]

Hi guys!

I am a world traveler that is soon to be in the PI. First time there. I have read WestCoasts reports for a decade. Will be in Manilla for one day, and north of Angeles for 2 weeks. Looking for advice to have the best possible experience. I am new to Asia, so any advice is greatly appreciated.

[Goferring]

To summarize, I am not saying dating apps are better than mongering in clubs. For both hookers or normal girls. I do think talking to women in person is a lot better. But there might be people like me who are not comfortable with that. So, in that case dating apps provide a nice alternative.

Thanks for the report. A good summary of the options. I'd add Filipino Cupid to the list as well. At any point in time, it probably has the most girls actually online. Typically there is a range from those that will see anyone who will pay the price of admission thru to those seeking true dates.

Online is a viable or preferred option for many guys, not just the socially anxious:

Those seeking better quality girls than found in most bars: educated, employed, able to hold a conversation etc.

Those that like some element of 'the thrill of the chase'.

Old-timers who have been to so many bars over the decades that the thought of watching yet another bored girl aimlessly shuffle around a pole induces nausea.

Non drinkers.

Too old to tolerate doof-doof music all night.

As usual, each to their own.

Enjoy. G.

[Shikamaru1993]

So this is a review and report for introverts specifically about how to get laid without going to clubs using specifically dating Apps.

About Me: I am a 29 years old Indian. I lived in Philippines permanently back in 2017-18 but then moved out. And this year I went again for 20 days. I stayed in Pasig for the first few days and then in BGC.

My Preferences: I am an introvert and I don't like going to clubs or bars or crowded places etc. Which is why I use dating apps. Also, in dating apps I prefer city professional women around 30 years old instead of young 20 year old virgins.

Tinder.

Most number of girls. Easiest to use. A good combination of different types of girls. Has both young school girls and older professional women. I did not run into any women asking for money on this. A lot of ladyboys. Bought Tinder platinum. Is useful to some extent.

Bumble.

Best app for my taste. Less number of women but most of them are professionals and working good jobs. Like doctors and executives in multinationals. Paid version is okay. Their Spotlight feature showed good results.

Badoo.

Difficult to use. Most women are un-educated province girls. Average English. But of course, simple province girls also come with their advantages. Also open to money. Willing to spend a whole day with you for food and 1 k extra. Paid version of the app not really worth it.

OkCupid.

Worst app. Difficult to use. Average quality of girls. Bought paid version. Would not recommend it.

PinaLove.

Did not buy the paid version. And pretty useless without premium features.

DateinAsia.

Pretty meh. Very low quality girls. Both ugly and uneducated.

To summarize, I am not saying dating apps are better than mongering in clubs. For both hookers or normal girls. I do think talking to women in person is a lot better. But there might be people like me who are not comfortable with that. So, in that case dating apps provide a nice alternative.

Usually, I would take the girls out for a coffee date. If the vibe matched, I would ask them to come back to my apartment. Some women might not go with you the on the first date. Especially professional women but on the 2nd date sex is usually guaranteed. But you need to have a nice personality for a 2nd date to happen.