Manila

[Red Kilt]

I usually respond with "Yes, as long as it does contain requests for cash for any purpose" - that stumps some and others don't ask or stop chatting.

I agree WR.

That's my MO too. It's a crazy habit that all filipinos always ask first if they can ask you a question, and it's not always about money.

The last time this happened I said "Yes as long as you don't ask me for money" and she laughed and said "Oh No I just wondered if you'd mind if I asked what is your job?

Too polite for words.

[Wicked Roger]

The money request usually starts with this question: "Can I ask you a question?

"No." It blows their minds. Boom! Shut down. I suppose they're so accustomed to some fella answering "Sure, what is it?" that they have no other rhetorical skills to get what they want.

I usually respond with "Yes, as long as it does contain requests for cash for any purpose" - that stumps some and others don't ask or stop chatting.

[Hutsori]

Yeah this is a good observation and something I haven't thought on for a while. A great reminder. Be aware mostly the pinays are answering or texting "how are you", "have you eaten already", "did you have lunch" as in short nonsense texts. If the msg contains more than 10 words better start pay attention as a problem aka hidden moneyrequest is on the rise.

The money request usually starts with this question: "Can I ask you a question?

"No." It blows their minds. Boom! Shut down. I suppose they're so accustomed to some fella answering "Sure, what is it?" that they have no other rhetorical skills to get what they want.

[Member #4558]

BTW, this is based on legitimate research on the online communication. Generally when people are lying, they will use many more words than which they usually do or need to.


ME (Wide smile) : "Block".

P.S.; I admire that she asks and that online westerns can be her source of income, it's just not what I'm seeking online.

Yeah this is a good observation and something I haven't thought on for a while. A great reminder. Be aware mostly the pinays are answering or texting "how are you", "have you eaten already", "did you have lunch" as in short nonsense texts. If the msg contains more than 10 words better start pay attention as a problem aka hidden moneyrequest is on the rise.

[WestCoast1]

Good story, well done. Must try craiglist myself next time.

W-W-by: The story from Ceegee you quoted was from page 64, almost 2 years ago. You really *do* RTTF!

[WazWallaby]

Found myself alone in a hotel in Pasay recently, so of course I hit up Badoo and starting inviting girls over. A few flakey responses, one early 20-something with great tits stopped responding, then found myself an early 30-something cutie who was close by and agreed to come over. She turned out to be a real sweetie, I caught her on her day off work and ended up spending the day with her. Money never discussed or asked for, although she had no problem adding extra items to my shopping basket in the various shops we went to. For example, I was in 7 Eleven buying water as there is never enough in the hotel room, and she proceeded to add a half dozen chocolate bars and other bits and pieces to my basket. Cost was inconsequential, I put it down to some kind of cultural difference that I did not understand.

She kept talking about wanting to drive, which eventually I understood to be her riding me. No problem dear, just suck me for awhile first then you can drive all you like. Seems she could only cum when driving, although she had no idea what her G spot was when I asked. Perhaps some future education is required. Slipped her 2500 for taxi money on the way out.

Next morning feeling like a change and wanting to try something new, I called over a very pregnant girl from CL. Said she was carrying the baby of some guy in the USA who does not know she is pregnant. Massive titties which oiled up nicely and 8 months pregnant, I was channeling Westy and his pregnant girls from the picture gallery while pounding her from behind. Decided to finish in her mouth for the visual effects and then sent her on her way with some cash for her efforts before she could start having contractions in my room!

Good story, well done. Must try craiglist myself next time.

[Amanut]

Hi all,

I will be heading to Manila next month.

Can someone tell me how far Makati is from EDSA? Also where exactly is EDSA?

I will most probably stay at Makati as I stayed there for a couple of nights the one and only other time I went, and it seemed OK.

Where are good places in Makati to look for girls, both BGs and regular girls?

For BGs, what's the average prices these days?

There was a couple of places I went to last time. One was LA Cafe which I believe is still there, and the other was not far, maybe 5-10 minutes walk. Any idea what this second place I'm thinking of is?
Thanks,
Stevie.

This guy requested similar information in a different city. He received some good advice. Shoot him a PM and I am sure he will fill you in.

Hello mongers,

I am regular to Bangkok and Pattaya but this is my first time being to Philippines. Much appreciated if anyone can give me some advice and guidance of where I can get best girls in Angeles.

Thanks in advance for the information.

[StevieW]

Hi all,

I will be heading to Manila next month.

Can someone tell me how far Makati is from EDSA? Also where exactly is EDSA?

I will most probably stay at Makati as I stayed there for a couple of nights the one and only other time I went, and it seemed OK.

Where are good places in Makati to look for girls, both BGs and regular girls?

For BGs, what's the average prices these days?

There was a couple of places I went to last time. One was LA Cafe which I believe is still there, and the other was not far, maybe 5-10 minutes walk. Any idea what this second place I'm thinking of is?

Thanks,

Stevie.

[CallSign Papa]

Understand that at the start there may exist a mismatch of expectations.

BGs excluded, this could not be more true. I can't count the number of girls (20-25) who've stepped through my door as shy, demure and angelic, and have left (after 2-3 visits) as my own personal porn star.

The very best feeling I get is when a girl who has previously been conservative drops me a whatsapp to say "hey next time we're together can we try <insert deviance here>". Takes patience and consideration, but it really is it's own reward.

[Hutsori]

I plan on trying on in at least four decades next trip. I want to see if the 40+ are wilder for lack of attention.

Usual caveats about sweeping generalisations and each person is an individual with her own hang ups and turn ons. IME the wildest ones are those aged 25 - 35. They've been the ones most confident about expressing their sexual desires, be it filming oozing creampies, role play, BDSM, erotic asphyxiation, breast slapping, clit pinching, double penetration, verbal abuse, whatever. A few have been forthright from the start, but most others it's an evolution. There are many reasons why, from confidence gained through past sexual experience to exposure to porn that normalises that what would have been inconceivable. I think the older ones are a bit more conservative than their younger sisters (or daughters); they certainly weren't exposed to porn at a young age.

I have not come across an older woman who has been sexually dormant for years and who on the first go completely lets loose with reckless abandon full-on freak. It's a two step process. Firstly, get her to adjust her perceptions and expectations; there's no need for her to sit idly by waiting for her dream man to fall from the sky. Once she accepts reality and decides that having a fubu arrangement is OK, then the second step is to make it a comfortable situation where she'll express what she wants. At the start it may be something as vanilla (from our perception) as fucking in the shower, but for her this is significant milestone because she's allowed herself to express a sexual desire. A lot of women have an enormous hang up of being judged, so don't be dismissive or disappointed. It's OK for her to baby step it to establish trust and build her own confidence.

Understand that at the start there may exist a mismatch of expectations. You want a woman who's ready to dial it up to an 11, say be letting you fuck her ass whilst you choke her, but she's at a 2. Trust me, she'll dial it up if you're affirmative and supportive. Remember what feminism teaches us: women exist to please men. Haha. Kidding aside, there is a bit a truth here. If a fubu is comfortable and content, she's eager to please you.

[BrainDrain]

They certainly are eager and hungry and are often starved of both attention and affection.

IME this is true but they want psychological attention and tend to be clingy.

The younger ones will love sex, most often be in the state of 'readiness' and can move on.

Was dating a lady last year who told me she was 34. That was fine with me, as I had also knocked about 10 years off my real age.

Recently I've been upping by ten years my age to 64 "wow you look good for 64, you must really look after yourself Sir", yes thank you.

[FreebieFan]

I plan on trying on in at least four decades next trip. I want to see if the 40+ are wilder for lack of attention.

They certainly are eager and hungry and are often starved of both attention and affection.

Was dating a lady last year who told me she was 34. That was fine with me, as I had also knocked about 10 years off my real age.

Dating was fine and there was lots of fun, and good times all round, and then one day, we took a trip together to Vietnam.

And that meant we both got to see each others passports. I noted that the lady ID been dating for 6 months wasnt in fact 34, but was 42. I looked at her, passport page, back to her and she just smiled.

She in turn looked at mine, did the math, made big eyes, smiled, I smiled and we never mentioned our respective ages any more.

[George03]

'Mature' defined as what? My nan? 50? 32?

A lot of older ones at G Point and of course LA Cafe. If you're willing to work the dating sites, plenty of girls age 35+ who are usually ignored in favor to those 18-24. Some of the best fucks I've had are those in their late 30's and 40's who are tired of a lonely life and realise that an LTR is unlikely. They decide they might as well enjoy what's left of their good looks before hitting the wall. Keep in mind the Philippines is a conservative country and the stigma of being a dirty woman worries them. Hang ups exist, so the key is to reframe their perception. Be re-assuring that you're discreet, non-judgmental (this is the big one), and that they ought to enjoy life rather than wait around for their pensions and the grim reaper.

I plan on trying on in at least four decades next trip. I want to see if the 40+ are wilder for lack of attention.

[BrainDrain]

I even asked her if she was 100% girl and she was very offended. By my use of the app, reading the profiles, many of the real girls are also pissed and fed up on guys asking if they are trans all the time.

I'm in the habit now of always asking the question. The answers are in the answers, although not in the content.

SO my question is always "Are you a ladyboy?

Ladyboy answers include.

Yes.

Why do you ask that?

You offend me!

Why do all men ask that?

Just love me for what I am.

Real women answer:

No.

So any answer to "Are you a ladyboy?" regardless of the content which needs to include any qualification or justification usually indicates a ladyboy.

BTW, this is based on legitimate research on the online communication. Generally when people are lying, they will use many more words than which they usually do or need to.

Would appreciate feedback on how this works for others.

Another example goes like this:

ME: How are you?

Her: I'm good.

ME / Her / Me / Her: more tedious one line banter over a few hours or days or weeks.

Her: Oh, I have a small problem.

Me (starting to smile): Oh?

Her: Yes my mum needs medicines, my baby has no food, my grandma is now in hospital but my allowance from my father hasn't arrived yet. I don't know what to do. I need to pay school tuition tomorrow as well as send money to my cousin who just had a car accident. I really need your help to buy books for my brother as he is hoping to go abroad this year. I want to apply my passport but need requirements. Now my employer tells me no work today. Can you loan me P5,000? I will repay you as soon as I get job, allowance and grandmas inheritance.

ME (Wide smile) : "Block".

P.S.; I admire that she asks and that online westerns can be her source of income, it's just not what I'm seeking online.

[CallSign Papa]

The app should really have a third gender option for people seeking alternate genders.

I don't think that would solve the problem, a good percentage of the LBs in Manila seem intent on wilfully deceiving, but to what end I couldn't tell you. What do they think is going to happen if you actually got them in a room, that you suddenly decide a dick is better than a pussy?

I've had one experience in this area last year. Was chatting to a girl on my FB account who in photos looked pretty legit, we communicated for about two weeks before I arrived (but only in passing). We then met for coffee in Poblacion and when "she" walked in I immediately knew it was a dude. As I'd already ordered a coffee we had a very cordial chat during which I mentioned very plainly that the TS option wasn't for me, girls only. Whilst I was severely pissed off by the wasted time, it made no sense to get angry or be in anyway antagonistic given that I'm a stranger in a strange land and need unnecessary hassle like I need a third nipple.