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[Goferring]

Wow thanks for all the help this is great info! For the men with gfs or wives do you ever get paranoid that you'll be seen on these sites? I saw my GF's friend on PL recently active and luckily I was able to block her in time.

You have received good info so I won't repeat it all but will make some additions and clarifications:

You're GF already knows what you are doing. She may be pretending otherwise but she knows. Most Asian countries have social groups far far larger than we are use to in the west and they thrive off gossip. The end result is that you will be noticed by a friend of a friend somewhere and word will get back. If you are doing something that embassies her, then all hell breaks loose. If not, then it's noted but not complained about. It's a given that guys, especially cashed up white BFs, are going to cheat so as long as she is not harmed by your roving then who cares?? Just play along.

I have known guys that have been fucking their younger sister in law, the nanny or a GF in the next town and honestly thought the GF didn't know. Obviously, they were only kidding themselves.

I regard provincial as a state of mind rather than a city's population. Girls in Cebu and metro Manila are more hardened, experienced with westerners and happier to drop around at a moment's notice. Girls outside of these often aren't and have a much more traditional outlook. They aren't difficult to woo but will likely take a date / chat or two more than asking how much for a ST.

Stay away from provincial families. You do not want to go home and meet mom, dad, grandma and all the uncles. At best, it soaks up a lot of time that could be spent fucking your new found love. At worst, you are going to be paying for endless meals for 20, medical bills, excursions to water falls etc. Just meet her. Maybe we the a security blanket friend on the first date but that's it.

EA is correct: many Mindanao girls are gorgeous and girls generally can get too much if kept all day, evey day. The answer is to factor in breaks by selecting girls who have commitments during the day or night or change them out as required.

Note that girls from different areas have very different body types so you can select as required. Mindanao girls are often tall with nice cans, Leyte and Samar girls are 80 lb spinners etc.

Malls can be used as either a hunting ground or just as a convenient meeting place. Be careful soliciting in high end malls. That can get very ugly very quickly. Do not walk around Greenbelt offering $25 blow jobs. The malls near Greenbelt can be fair game though, especially as meeting places if she doesn't want to go straight to the room.

Pre work and bookings works well for Sammon but I'm not a fan of it. Personally, I prefer to be in town and ask about meeting after work or school rather than next month. To each their own. Try both and report what works for you.

Enjoy. G.

[GDreams]

Decided to repeat a girl last night that I met on Tan Tan. 22, slim medium height, about a 7 for looks. Painfully shy. First time we met she didn't want me to see her naked. This time still shy but more relaxed. Started with DATY which at first had resistance but after a couple of minutes was spread wide and grinding her pussy in my face. Once she was wet and primed slid inside her. She has a warm wet pussy that fits like a glove. Says she has had only 3 boyfriends. For all the shyness she works her pussy around my cock, squeezing her pussy and grinding against me while I play with her clit. Finally she started to come which of course set me off and had to pull out as she didn't want CIP. Repeated after a couple of hours but this time I couldn't cum. She had to leave early. Each morning I have been horny with no action so At 5 am I woke he up and slipped inside. This time she came and then I really hammered her for about 5 minutes until I came. She left happy with 4 k which together with the other 4 k from 2 nights ago is on the way to buy herself a phone after having to borrow her cousins. Hopefully after another couple of visits the shyness will disappear and I will get a photo to show.

[GDreams]

Thinking of trying a new route to market and hunting Pinalove, Wechat, social media sites.

Thinking close to a major mall is best.

Would experienced BM suggest Robinson's? MOA? Which?

From reading the FF Greenbelt seems too upmarket and fishing there is not recommended.

Thoughts or opinions please.

NI.

I always stay in Malate near Robinsons. I find MOA crowded, large and expensive and difficult to get a ride to leave.

I have found Tan Tant to have the most responses. Pina love has been a bit of a desert for me lately. The ones you can get you don't want and the ones you want don't reply.

[TwentyTwoTwos]

Getting provincial girls does require more work. First and foremost is making sure girls will show after you send money for transportation. All girls on initial contact say they are willing to do anything you want. When it comes to nitty gritty they back off however they are not averse to receiving your money.

I have done all that. Have gotten many provincial girls very pretty and friendly. Have been duped as well few times.

How you get provincial girls is troll dating sites. Start conversation with the ones you like. Take your conversation to WhatsApp or the like. Discuss everything. If you are successful you will be in heaven. If you are not you will kick yourself in the butt. Key is to limit your loss if it fails.

Province refers here and amongst Philippinos as country side. Small cities and practically far away from Manila, Angeles city and Cebu.

Should you pickup from social media or dating sites, embrace yourself to listen to heartbreaking sad stories and all will convert into "need immediate financial assistance". And if you by any chance already have sent them money, don't feel bad, we all did our fair share of that mistake and never again.

Wow thanks for all the help this is great info! For the men with gfs or wives do you ever get paranoid that you'll be seen on these sites? I saw my GF's friend on PL recently active and luckily I was able to block her in time.

[NewImage]

Thinking of trying a new route to market and hunting Pinalove, Wechat, social media sites.

Thinking close to a major mall is best.

Would experienced BM suggest Robinson's? MOA? Which?

From reading the FF Greenbelt seems too upmarket and fishing there is not recommended.

Thoughts or opinions please.

NI.

[TwentyTwoTwos]

Getting provincial girls does require more work. First and foremost is making sure girls will show after you send money for transportation. All girls on initial contact say they are willing to do anything you want. When it comes to nitty gritty they back off however they are not averse to receiving your money.

I have done all that. Have gotten many provincial girls very pretty and friendly. Have been duped as well few times.

How you get provincial girls is troll dating sites. Start conversation with the ones you like. Take your conversation to WhatsApp or the like. Discuss everything. If you are successful you will be in heaven. If you are not you will kick yourself in the butt. Key is to limit your loss if it fails.

Dating sites and social media is your friend when it comes finding girls unless you want to pickup a hooker then it's a different story. Lots of report here about working girl district f Makati. Have a gander and you will have a diploma in no time.

Province refers here and amongst Philippinos as country side. Small cities and practically far away from Manila, Angeles city and Cebu.

Should you pickup from social media or dating sites, embrace yourself to listen to heartbreaking sad stories and all will convert into "need immediate financial assistance". And if you by any chance already have sent them money, don't feel bad, we all did our fair share of that mistake and never again.

Wow this is all great information. Thanks so much! And yes, I have been duped in the past but not by a lot and I was able to cut my losses. I've blocked those girls but I'm thinking about reestablishing contact now since I have a bit more experience and dealt with more of these pinays. Maybe they will be down to do something if they're desperate enough.

Do you guys ever get worried that you will be seen by someone you know over these dating sites? I've recently saw one of my gfs best friends on PL's recently active list and I nearly had a heart attack and blocked her. I really do like my GF and see something in the long run with her but I still want to fcuk and get it out of my system before I commit fully or ask her to be my wife. Maybe that's naive, I'll guess I'll find out for myself.

And did you guys ever end up with provincial girls who's family was strict and doesn't allow the girl to meet up with anyone?

[Expat American]

Getting provincial girls does require more work. First and foremost is making sure girls will show after you send money for transportation. All girls on initial contact say they are willing to do anything you want. When it comes to nitty gritty they back off however they are not averse to receiving your money.

I have done all that. Have gotten many provincial girls very pretty and friendly. Have been duped as well few times.

How you get provincial girls is troll dating sites. Start conversation with the ones you like. Take your conversation to WhatsApp or the like. Discuss everything. If you are successful you will be in heaven. If you are not you will kick yourself in the butt. Key is to limit your loss if it fails.

I always found the prettiest girls were in Mindanao. So one trip I took a flyer and invited a muslim girl (hijab and all) from Gen Santos to come meet me in Manila. I just booked a ticket in her name for less than $100 but never sent her any money. She did show up as promised and her hijab (and rest of her clothes) were off in the first 30 min of arrival to my hotel. But I didn't know what to do with her later. She didn't drink, or want to go to bars with me. Apart from fucking I didn't know what to do with her in the hotel room. Eventually I left her alone for a while to go to LA Cafe which she want thrilled about. So long story short, once they come you are kinda stuck with them, they will get clingy and eventually you realize you pay women to leave.

[Sammon]

When it comes to getting dates so you guys find it easier in Cebu or Manila? And when mongerers say "go to the provinces" where exactly are they talking about in these provinces?

Getting provincial girls does require more work. First and foremost is making sure girls will show after you send money for transportation. All girls on initial contact say they are willing to do anything you want. When it comes to nitty gritty they back off however they are not averse to receiving your money.

I have done all that. Have gotten many provincial girls very pretty and friendly. Have been duped as well few times.

How you get provincial girls is troll dating sites. Start conversation with the ones you like. Take your conversation to WhatsApp or the like. Discuss everything. If you are successful you will be in heaven. If you are not you will kick yourself in the butt. Key is to limit your loss if it fails.

[Zippos]

Dating sites and social media is your friend when it comes finding girls unless you want to pickup a hooker then it's a different story. Lots of report here about working girl district f Makati. Have a gander and you will have a diploma in no time.

Province refers here and amongst Philippinos as country side. Small cities and practically far away from Manila, Angeles city and Cebu.

Should you pickup from social media or dating sites, embrace yourself to listen to heartbreaking sad stories and all will convert into "need immediate financial assistance". And if you by any chance already have sent them money, don't feel bad, we all did our fair share of that mistake and never again.

When it comes to getting dates so you guys find it easier in Cebu or Manila? And when mongerers say "go to the provinces" where exactly are they talking about in these provinces?

[Aml3740]

Seriously guys. What is the point of getting into a one sided LDR with an uneducated villager who you send money to when you are not there and who control you when you are there?! You are the man with the money. The Boss. Tell her to come when you want her to come and tell her to leave when you want her to leave. What's the worst that can happen? She gets mad? So what? 150 million more of her where she came from. I am seriously amazed and saddened by the emasculation of western men.

I think there are a lot of different reasons a man may choose to be in an LDR. Choosing to be in one so you can fuck a lady is a stupid reason. Only an idiot would do that, given the open availability of women. But maybe he is in love. There are two women in the world that I care about, and both are in the Philippines. One is my wife, and the other is my partner and having my baby soon. I send my wife money every month, and my partner has her own income and asks for nothing but my time.

My advice is to think why you want to give up time with your GF to see another woman, especially if you don't get to see her often. Monger when you get back home, or go to Thailand or another place for action after you leave her in Philippines. And, I know this is a mongering forum and not a relationship forum, but I'll say this anyway. If you care about the girl and she has to go to the province for a couple of days, go with her. That should go without saying. And, if she doesn't want you to meet her family or something, that's a red flag right there.

[TwentyTwoTwos]

When it comes to getting dates so you guys find it easier in Cebu or Manila? And when mongerers say "go to the provinces" where exactly are they talking about in these provinces?

[Expat American]

Pinay tends to be very clingy. Specially if you are a westerner. It's a jackpot for them.

Arrive couple days early and just pretend you arrived the day you are supposed to meet her. Sell a BS of flight arriving early in case you want to avoid extra trip to the airport to pick her up. Stay at a different hotel compared to the one you are planning to stay with her. I also pretend to leave Philippines to go to a different country then pretend to come back. All depends on where she is coming from and how badly she needs to go home to visit her family or class. Rest assured, she would not let you stay in Manila alone while goes to province to attend class unless she is after something else rather than love.

Seriously guys. What is the point of getting into a one sided LDR with an uneducated villager who you send money to when you are not there and who control you when you are there?! You are the man with the money. The Boss. Tell her to come when you want her to come and tell her to leave when you want her to leave. What's the worst that can happen? She gets mad? So what? 150 million more of her where she came from. I am seriously amazed and saddened by the emasculation of western men.

[Goferring]

I'm pretty new to mongering and I was just wondering how do you guys get your GF and wife away for a couple days? I don't think I have too many options available to me since we are in LDR and we planned this trip for us. I was hoping she would need to go back to province for class for a couple days.

No offence but I've yet to see any benefits from having a Filipina LDR. Much easier to just turn up and do as you please. It's not as if we need to keep someone on retainer in case no one else is available.

Cheers. G.

[Aml3740]

I'm pretty new to mongering and I was just wondering how do you guys get your GF and wife away for a couple days? I don't think I have too many options available to me since we are in LDR and we planned this trip for us. I was hoping she would need to go back to province for class for a couple days.

If she is in the Philippines and is going to meet you in the city, just arrive a day before you tell her you will be there. Do the same when you leave to go home. That always worked for me.

[Zippos]

Pinay tends to be very clingy. Specially if you are a westerner. It's a jackpot for them.

Arrive couple days early and just pretend you arrived the day you are supposed to meet her. Sell a BS of flight arriving early in case you want to avoid extra trip to the airport to pick her up. Stay at a different hotel compared to the one you are planning to stay with her. I also pretend to leave Philippines to go to a different country then pretend to come back. All depends on where she is coming from and how badly she needs to go home to visit her family or class. Rest assured, she would not let you stay in Manila alone while goes to province to attend class unless she is after something else rather than love.

I'm pretty new to mongering and I was just wondering how do you guys get your GF and wife away for a couple days? I don't think I have too many options available to me since we are in LDR and we planned this trip for us. I was hoping she would need to go back to province for class for a couple days.