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[Econo Tech]

Re post.

Anybody have any info on Baguio?

Going to be here for a project.

Other than KTVs, anything worthwhile?

[Bato56]

Back in my days, you contact security guards and they have list of hookups with college girls. I don't if this is still the same now a days. I might try this when I return next month.

Let me know cause, I'll visiting PI this coming December.

[X Man]

Although this has been a good discussion, I would like to gently remind members that the *other areas* thread is meant for reports about other areas in Philippines that do not already have a dedicated thread.

I am one who respectfully disagrees Sam (although I understand your experience, I also have lengthy experience here).

I told the Gentleman to wait until 3 weeks out and then get a 1 month membership and go online and start searching.

That allows an extra week of access when he is actually on the ground.

Anything more than 2 to 3 weeks is meaningless to these women.

Their clocks work on yesterday, now and tomorrow.

If you tell them you're coming soon they see that as another way of saying "maybe I will visit; maybe not".

The best position is to be able to say I am here now.

[Mbsl65]

I think this app is more effective than those paid sites to hook up and this is free. I found this app and had several responses but too late since I was leaving for the airport. I downloaded the app late in my stay. But I will try again since I will be making another trip to Cebu next month and do some major mongering for 4 days. I will send update upon return.

If you like P4 P, WeChat is very good and also Tinder has lots of P4 P girls.

[Explorer1004]

Sam gives a lot of good pointers in his post but I would caution any newbies or guys who aren't very savvy about filipino society and customs to be a bit cautious about the "give out your number to random pretty girls" tip.

I recall the case from Cebu some years ago now where the random girl told her mother about this foreigner who had given her his phone number in the mall. The father plus law enforcement set up a sting to lure the clueless foreigner to a Shakey's Restaurant where they nailed him on some trumped-up charge because she was in school / college uniform.

Remember some of these very young girls can pass for much older when they apply the make-up in the way that pinays do. Some girls also have jealous boyfriends too and they might think that passing on your number to the boyfriend would be a fun thing to do and might create a worthwhile scene to video when the confrontation occurs.

So. Make sure you have had some connection and interaction with the girl and try to judge her potential BEFORE you start handing out your number mindlessly. You never know where it might end up.

Back in my days, you contact security guards and they have list of hookups with college girls. I don't if this is still the same now a days. I might try this when I return next month.

[Explorer1004]

I think this app is more effective than those paid sites to hook up and this is free. I found this app and had several responses but too late since I was leaving for the airport. I downloaded the app late in my stay. But I will try again since I will be making another trip to Cebu next month and do some major mongering for 4 days. I will send update upon return.

[Red Kilt]

Others disagree but I think you're making a big mistake by not getting online now. You get a break when you buy 3 months anyway. You really all that busy?

I am one who respectfully disagrees Sam (although I understand your experience, I also have lengthy experience here).

I told the Gentleman to wait until 3 weeks out and then get a 1 month membership and go online and start searching.

That allows an extra week of access when he is actually on the ground.

Anything more than 2 to 3 weeks is meaningless to these women.

Their clocks work on yesterday, now and tomorrow.

If you tell them you're coming soon they see that as another way of saying "maybe I will visit; maybe not".

The best position is to be able to say I am here now.

[Sam 14]

Anyway, thanks for all the advice. I will probably lie low now until I actually go, when I may need more advice.

Happy hunting to all!

Others disagree but I think you're making a big mistake by not getting online now. You get a break when you buy 3 months anyway. You really all that busy?

[Gentleman Travel]

Again, thanks to everyone for all the good advice! Very helpful.

I have been on Pinalove for a week now and find it marginally useful. I am still a free member, so my usage is restricted, plus I look like a cheap bastard to any ambitious girl, but I will probably play this site a little bit, and will have to decide whether to pony up for a real membership. I also joined FilipinoCupid (again, still free at this stage) and it is much more productive. I have well over 100 girls messaging me, but of course I cannot read any of their messages without paying. Half the messages are obviously no good (too old, wrong location) but the other half might be possible. But I am still 2 months away from coming, so much too early to work on qualifying prospects. I knew this, but wanted to get a feel for the web-sites. Now I need to shut down my profile and be patient until I am closer to my travel time. But nice to know FC will present many reasonable prospects. Plus it is easy to see now what some of you are saying about identifying the pros.

I am reluctant to get into this without a viable plan to have daily pussy available somehow. I was never cut out to be a monk. Yet I agree that bringing a girl from Manila or something is a long shot. What can they do while I am working? I don't think I will be so bold as to hand out my number to random cuties, that does sound risky. But I have picked up "normal" girls before in malls and street corners and am prepared to try that here. But I think my best bet is to ID some girls in nearby cities (yes, measuring in time, not miles) and try to get them to visit. They run less risk of exposure in another town.

But equally I don't think fishing for college girls in an "urban legend". Of course all these things are variable depending on cultural norms and degree of anonymity, but I have had a lot of success fucking needy college girls in many cultures, including home in North America. I would always pick a city with a healthy female student population as a "target rich" environment over any other strategy. Unless one wants to rely on obvious red light or P4 P districts. I prefer the semi-pro or amateur markets.

Anyway, thanks for all the advice. I will probably lie low now until I actually go, when I may need more advice.

Happy hunting to all!

[Red Kilt]

Just for fun, hand your number to any cutie you like. Don't be shy but don't be obnoxious about it either. I mean don't chase her and freak her out. Or hand it to her friend and ask her to give it to the one you like. She will probably text but it's unlikely you will ever see her again.
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Oh, and one last thing. As you play the hand-out-your-number game, try to get their name. Say "can I get your name please, just in case you text?"

Sam gives a lot of good pointers in his post but I would caution any newbies or guys who aren't very savvy about filipino society and customs to be a bit cautious about the "give out your number to random pretty girls" tip.

I recall the case from Cebu some years ago now where the random girl told her mother about this foreigner who had given her his phone number in the mall. The father plus law enforcement set up a sting to lure the clueless foreigner to a Shakey's Restaurant where they nailed him on some trumped-up charge because she was in school / college uniform.

Remember some of these very young girls can pass for much older when they apply the make-up in the way that pinays do. Some girls also have jealous boyfriends too and they might think that passing on your number to the boyfriend would be a fun thing to do and might create a worthwhile scene to video when the confrontation occurs.

So. Make sure you have had some connection and interaction with the girl and try to judge her potential BEFORE you start handing out your number mindlessly. You never know where it might end up.

[Khekada]

Thnks friend for these valuable information. Really helpful to any one trying to connect through dating sites or looking for regular girls.

Regards,

Khekada.

Great advise below. Sorry if some of this is redundant, I wrote this before I saw what RK, WC and LIH wrote. But I'll just repeat that regular Filipinas are basically hard to get (pakipot). That they are going to drop their panties for tuition money, or to get out of their desperate situation is a myth. I would say at least 95% would be appalled by the thought. (In theory, anyway). And I agree, most girls in that town will be very shy to be seen with you one-on-one.

Regarding tricycle drivers, some will say they can find you a hot girl. But I would expect them to bring some thing that I wouldn't touch, that the locals get for 200 pesos. He will of course tell you it's 1500. But remember, Filipinos don't like sex tourists, and prostitution is illegal. Taking advantage of young girls is a high crime. Don't do it. If they ask to borrow money, don't try to exploit them. I would advise against bringing any undue attention to yourself. Lay low, as the others wrote.

I used to try and avoid them bringing friends for the first meet, for the reasons mentioned. But I changed that for a couple reasons. One, the kind of girl I like probably will not come alone. If you insist she comes alone, she may either make some excuse, vanish at the time she should be getting ready, or simply stop texting all together. Second, you might like her friend better. Or her friend might be the one to give her the blessing to meet you alone next time..

[D Cups]

This is great advice, Sam. I'm doing a lot of this but seeing your comments is great reminder.

Great advise below..

[Sam 14]

Great advise below. Sorry if some of this is redundant, I wrote this before I saw what RK, WC and LIH wrote. But I'll just repeat that regular Filipinas are basically hard to get (pakipot). That they are going to drop their panties for tuition money, or to get out of their desperate situation is a myth. I would say at least 95% would be appalled by the thought. (In theory, anyway). And I agree, most girls in that town will be very shy to be seen with you one-on-one.

Regarding tricycle drivers, some will say they can find you a hot girl. But I would expect them to bring some thing that I wouldn't touch, that the locals get for 200 pesos. He will of course tell you it's 1500. But remember, Filipinos don't like sex tourists, and prostitution is illegal. Taking advantage of young girls is a high crime. Don't do it. If they ask to borrow money, don't try to exploit them. I would advise against bringing any undue attention to yourself. Lay low, as the others wrote.

I used to try and avoid them bringing friends for the first meet, for the reasons mentioned. But I changed that for a couple reasons. One, the kind of girl I like probably will not come alone. If you insist she comes alone, she may either make some excuse, vanish at the time she should be getting ready, or simply stop texting all together. Second, you might like her friend better. Or her friend might be the one to give her the blessing to meet you alone next time.

Just for fun, hand your number to any cutie you like. Don't be shy but don't be obnoxious about it either. I mean don't chase her and freak her out. Or hand it to her friend and ask her to give it to the one you like. She will probably text but it's unlikely you will ever see her again. Her dream might be to marry a man just like you. But the fact of the matter is she will probably be terrified to meet you again while you're in town. As soon as you leave and are out of striking distance, that's a different story. But for now, she'll likely think you're a sex maniac or she's scared to speak English (nose bleed). If you do happen to be looking for something other than fast sex, you might be able to convince her to get to know each other. Or if she does trust you enough to meet you, she might end up being the sex maniak. But don't bullshit anyone just to get pussy, there are other ways.

Allowing her to bring a friend can help. Don't waste too much time texting because that's their national sport and is likely all she really wants to do anyway. Get to your point before too long and just say, are you hungry? Let's eat. I get away without wasting a lot of money by doing the following:

Think of an amount that you would like to spend. Let's say it's 200 pesos or 300 or 500 for the first meet. If they show up, sit down somewhere that's not too annoying, where you can talk. Even if it's a little restaurant in the mall, you don't have to order anything. Just look at the menu for awhile and look each other over and talk. Leave 20 p on the table when you go. You may be the one to do all the talking because they are shy to talk. Don't tell them you hate the Christmas music playing, or she might get totally shocked and think you are not Christian, hate Christmas, and are an evil baby killer. As they're looking over the menu, say "I have 300 to spends for this meet. It's your money, you can spend it however you want. If you want to buy a sugar mango shake for 90 pesos, that's up to you. Or you can buy whatever you want later. " I would put at least 100 each in their pocket just for showing up, plus cover their transportation. If you guys dig each other, next time she won't be so shy and you can probably shag. That's one way to get a higher quality girl.


If I was going to pay for only one site, it would be Filipino Cupid. I just did an advanced search for Tuguegarao and came up with quite a few matches in my basic criteria. You might have to lower your standards until you get established. Use the city name and zero mile radius. And make sure all the boxes are checked "any". Remember, they don't know their height or weight. I don't bother with tying to live chat. It's OK to be vague about your intentions. Just make it clear that you want to meet in person, not just chat mate. You might have better results if you say you don't expect anything from them. If you do expect sex, your choices will probably go from 300 down to about 6. If she calls you darling or dear, you're probably going to shag. Unless she's actually a gay boy. .

Expect to text more than you ever thought possible in your life. Don't expect to be able to ring them up and have a normal phone conversation. And expect all kinds of absurd excuses, non-replies, no-shows, etc.

Just last, I learned a long time ago to not go out of my way. I will just say "meet me at the mall at 4 o'clock tomorrow please. Don't worry, I'll pay your transportation. " When she says she doesn't have money for transportation, just say "borrow please, I'll pay you back if you arrive. " If she doesn't show up, it doesn't matter because you expected it, and you wanted to go to the mall at 4 o'clock anyway. Regarding load: If you feel really lucky, you can load everyone's phone. 30 pesos gets a 2 day unli text promo. If you don't like the idea of loading someone's phone that you'll probably never see, you can say "borrow load please. I'll pay you back if we meet. "

I hope that helps. It wasn't meant to be negative, just a little preview of what to expect. Just keep a good attitude. Don't get mad when they flake, please. Remember, you will probably be the first foreigner they had any experience with. So don't make them bummed they met you, that word will spread and fuck things up for the next guy. Make them happy they met you even if you're disappointed. Always make sure its a win win. She may not be ready now but in 2 years she might wake up and say this is the day! And you might get a text. You can keep your sim active when you are away by loading it once every 2 months. You can do that from anywhere in the world via a remit site.

Oh, and one last thing. As you play the hand-out-your-number game, try to get their name. Say "can I get your name please, just in case you text?" Then make notes in your phone. Name, age, what she looks like, where you met, what you talked about, etc. Maybe try to get a selfie with her on your first meet. Then when you add her contact, you can copy and paste your notes along with a pic. Save all your conversations for future reference. Because when she texts, she will probably just write "low remember me?" And usually they have multiple SIMs.

[Free2]

Also, where would be a good place to go on the weekends in northern Luzon? Any great beach resorts? Looking both to get out of my small town and identify an attractive mini-vacation that would appeal to a girl.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

GT.

Pagudpud is good. Fly to Laoag city. Hannah's is probably the best resort there. Nice white beach. Perfect for BYOG vacation.

[Red Kilt]

Red Kilt, is there a decent hotel I should be trying to stay in? My host is proposing to put me up in a "guest house" which may or may not be very private!

By the way, I have just joined Pinalove, and find the pickings very slim for Cagayan. Not even sure if it means the province I am in or Cagayan de Oro, which is a totally different and distant place.

But also, when I search for Cagayan, I get a handful of profiles (like under a dozen) but then a bunch more appear on the carousel at the top of the page. Not always Cagayan, but certainly dozens from there that do not show up in my search. What gives?

There are a lot more hotels in Tuguegarao now but none of them are large scale with lots of guests milling around the lobby.

I always stayed in what is called a "guest house" or sometimes it's called a "pension" . In most other places this would be a euphemism for "very cheap or hostel-like", but in provincia towns like Tuguegarao it doesn't mean anything. My pension was comfortable and clean but, as I said in my earlier post, everybody could see anyone arriving and departing so they are raely private in the way that you want them.

Re Pinalove. It is notorious for girls putting their place of origin as the closest big city. Cagayan covers a very large area so if ever you chat with a girl the first question should be "where do you live?" The girls on the top banner are those who are not online or who have not been online for a while (usually).

In the Philippines we measure distances by time and not kilometers. Tuguegarao is anywhere between 12 - 16 hours from Manila depending on whether you travel by bus or car in the middle of the night or during the day (longer). There are lots of roadworks too which can hold you up for 20 to 30 minutes at a stoppage. It's a no-brainer that you should fly there.

I wouldn't take anyone with me to Tuguegarao as there is nothing for her to do if you have to work. I would suggest you go alone, assume there will be no mongering and just act normally; smile and chat to everyone and you just never know what will happen. That has been my MO in the province and it has often worked out unexpectedly.