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[Goferring]

- In the other 6 bars in which I asked, the barfine was 4000. None of the previous method, in which you gave half as a barfine, and the other half was a tip (the old days).

Thanks for this. I'd heard that all-in costs had grown to an insane 7 or 8 k so are girls expecting extra on top of the 4 k you mentioned?

As you say, previously it was half before leaving then the remaining half in the morning. I haven't seen anywhere that full prepayment leads to good service levels.

Did you have an issue with any girls wanting to do a ST runner? Way back when, Sabang was notorious for literally having to force the girls to leave at 4 pm.

I have many many great memories of Sabang and several of its girls. I fell deeply in lust with several of them over the years. Hopefully, there are still diamonds in the rough but I fear the happy nature of the town has passed.

Cheers. G.

[Radical Guy]

After much research and after the depression to find nothing, on the island of Leyte I found a 19-year-old girl of rare beauty. We chatted for a whole afternoon. She lives in a small town in the center of the island. We will meet in the next few days and she will come with me for as many days as we want. I fell in love with her. I am old and she is 19, how can I not fall in love at first sight? She is incredibly sweet. But she asked me to go and meet her parents before taking her with me. This is a new experience for me. Honestly, I will give her lots of gifts and give her money to help her in school, but I don't think our relationship will last a long time for various reasons.

Can anyone tell me how to behave with parents? Is it an important commitment for me? Should I go?

Thanks for the info.

I would never spend the night at parents' house, but I have met a couple of sets of parents on occasion. The gifts I brought each were a bottle of scotch for dad, and a set of new hand towels for mom. Didn't cost me much, but I was treated like a rock star. And afterwards, my lady fucked me silly to show appreciation.

RG.

[Nice Guy 99]

After much research and after the depression to find nothing, on the island of Leyte I found a 19-year-old girl of rare beauty. We chatted for a whole afternoon. She lives in a small town in the center of the island. We will meet in the next few days and she will come with me for as many days as we want. I fell in love with her. I am old and she is 19, how can I not fall in love at first sight? She is incredibly sweet. But she asked me to go and meet her parents before taking her with me. This is a new experience for me. Honestly, I will give her lots of gifts and give her money to help her in school, but I don't think our relationship will last a long time for various reasons.

Can anyone tell me how to behave with parents? Is it an important commitment for me? Should I go?

Thanks for the info.

1. I am old and she is 19, how can I not fall in love at first sight? She is incredibly sweet.

- Go for it. Life is short. Set a monetary limit on how much you are willing to spend BEFORE you meet her in person and STICK to it.

2. Can anyone tell me how to behave with parents?

- Be polite and respectful. Don't maul her in front of her parents. Don't make any monetary commitments.

3. Is it an important commitment for me?

- Yes, you show respect by meeting the parents. This is not really a love thing, the parents realize that a cute daughter having sex with porinor is a money maker for the whole family. Again don't make monetary commitments.

4. Should I go?

- Yes. Think with the big head and remember the points above. If you need to walk away, do so. There are many fish in the sea. But again. Life is short.

[GreenBud]

- 2 or 3 new bars. 3 bars from previous days were closed. So I counted 9 open girlie bars.

- Talent wasn't that good. A few decent ones, but not that many. Most bars were not packed with girls. It was low season, with the pandemic just ending. I think there will be a competition to see which girlie bar becomes the "it" bar which will have the majority of the cuter girls, with the Koreans coming in early and barfining them all. The bars open at 6 pm. It was funny seeing the Koreans come in, then most of the girls will gather around them, and then they look at them for a few minutes, and then they leave without barfining and buying any drinks. This happened in EVERY bar I was in. I guess many of them left without barfining because IMO, the girls weren't that good, and they were quickly hopping to the other bars to get the girl of their choice.

- I liked Cragen. Old bar with new name; I think it was called Hammer something. The bar upstairs was closed. It has a live band. It has pool tables in the back. They had a few girls, but no stage. Girls were marginal. Was told the barfine was 4500 and 4000.

- In the other 6 bars in which I asked, the barfine was 4000. None of the previous method, in which you gave half as a barfine, and the other half was a tip (the old days).

- Previously the "best it" bar, IMO, was Venus (before it moved), now called Midnight. I think the best bar will either be Midnight or Club Erotica. Erotica is a new bar on the West side of Girlie Alley. They have a funny ladyboy show starting at 9 pm, which seems to be popular.

- They finally installed an ATM in Girlie Alley. Not sure why it took all that time, since they charge a 250 fee.

- They had brown-outs every day.

- They got rid of the pier in Sabang. They're currently building a concrete boardwalk; they're getting rid of most of the beach, which was poor anyways.

- They got rid of Muelle pier. Now the ferrys arrive at Bolatero pier. It is a third of the ways to White Beach from the old Muelle Pier. No jeepneys between Muelle and White Beach. You have to take a trike to Sabang. The trikes in the front will ask for 250. In the middle of the line, they will accept 200. At the end, they will grudgingly accept 150. From Sabang back to Bolatero, price is 250. Don't think the trike mafia will accept less.

[AsianPursuits]

After much research and after the depression to find nothing, on the island of Leyte I found a 19-year-old girl of rare beauty. We chatted for a whole afternoon. She lives in a small town in the center of the island. We will meet in the next few days and she will come with me for as many days as we want. I fell in love with her. I am old and she is 19, how can I not fall in love at first sight? She is incredibly sweet. But she asked me to go and meet her parents before taking her with me. This is a new experience for me. Honestly, I will give her lots of gifts and give her money to help her in school, but I don't think our relationship will last a long time for various reasons.

Can anyone tell me how to behave with parents? Is it an important commitment for me? Should I go?

Thanks for the info.

Personally I'm not a fan of this. You have never met her and you will be investing 3-4 days plus travel plus hardship for a fling that you will most likely break off when you have time to contemplate.

I do know that we have to work harder to uncover the gems but this one sounds like you are overpaying for poverty pussy.

How about looking to your current methods and strategies instead of throwing further money after a bad position. Maybe Leyte is not for you.

P.S.: I did meet a 21 Leyte student in Mania. In that case I was called to the 2 aunties house and interviewed before I could take her out the first night. My investment was about 10 minutes and after which she came with me for the weekend. This is why I think the strategy as proposed is out of proportion to potential reward.

[Goferring]

Sorry, I may have mis read Jones's initial report. My reply stands if the family are in the province and he intends to travel there for a few days.

If they are in town, just skip the overnight comments.

[Goferring]

Can anyone tell me how to behave with parents? Is it an important commitment for me? Should I go?

Thanks for the info.

4) Gifts and money. Other gents please weigh in here. From a central island province, they might be dirt poor. Lavishing gifts on her might feel good to you, but they might not be of great importance to the family or girl; cash might be more important to them than your gifts.

4. 2 I'd agree that cash is king but some in-kind makes a good first impression. Girlie will know what type of rum dad drinks. A cash top up early on also provides a solution for all the sick uncles, lame buffalo etc that will pop up with you are there.

5. Agree wholeheartedly with girlie that it will be great to visit mom and dad. However make it clear to her that you are on a time line and both of you will have to return to town after X days. This also limits your responsibilities for the costs associated with calamities mentioned above. Expect to pay for whole family dinners etc while you are there. Costs are very low but it will be to your account.

6. It's highly likely that you will be able to have your evil way while you are there. Girlie will be keen to show her thanks. The family will all pretend that both of you are virgins but everyone knows what is going on. Expect times when everyone leaves the house and both of you are alone. This isn't an accident. People are giving her space to keep you happy.

7. Just accept whatever sleeping arrangements are provided. As WC1 said, they are likely dirt poor so options for them may be very limited. Don't be surprised if the owners of the house give up their bed for you. It may be the only dedicated bedroom in the house.

8. Don't commit to a long term relationship just to keep everyone happy. It makes her look really bad if the whole Barangay expects a wedding and you disappear a week later.

9. Expect lots of wierd things that you don't understand but just follow her lead and let her guide you through everything. Just don't commit to anything of a long term nature.

10. DO NOT FALL IN LOVE.

[WestCoast1]

After much research and after the depression to find nothing, on the island of Leyte I found a 19-year-old girl of rare beauty. We chatted for a whole afternoon. She lives in a small town in the center of the island. We will meet in the next few days and she will come with me for as many days as we want.

Great!

I fell in love with her. I am old and she is 19, how can I not fall in love at first sight?

That last part is distressing.

But she asked me to go and meet her parents before taking her with me. This is a new experience for me. Honestly, I will give her lots of gifts and give her money to help her in school, but I don't think our relationship will last a long time for various reasons.

Can anyone tell me how to behave with parents? Is it an important commitment for me? Should I go?

As you are in poon-central and not getting laid, you should take this opportunity.

1) Bring a gift for the parents (pasalubong), its expected. Ask the girl what might be an appropriate gift.

2) Be prepared for the parents (and other family, friends, neighbors) to not speak any English. The girl will translate for you when you ask her to. Be prepared to not understand the jokes they are making about you.

3) Be your respectful self. Answer any questions they might ask, and be honest.

4) Gifts and money. Other gents please weigh in here. From a central island province, they might be dirt poor. Lavishing gifts on her might feel good to you, but they might not be of great importance to the family or girl; cash might be more important to them than your gifts.

[JonesLover]

After much research and after the depression to find nothing, on the island of Leyte I found a 19-year-old girl of rare beauty. We chatted for a whole afternoon. She lives in a small town in the center of the island. We will meet in the next few days and she will come with me for as many days as we want. I fell in love with her. I am old and she is 19, how can I not fall in love at first sight? She is incredibly sweet. But she asked me to go and meet her parents before taking her with me. This is a new experience for me. Honestly, I will give her lots of gifts and give her money to help her in school, but I don't think our relationship will last a long time for various reasons.

Can anyone tell me how to behave with parents? Is it an important commitment for me? Should I go?

Thanks for the info.

[Goferring]

When your card was rejected, was there any reason given? Or the generic "Card application failed"?

"Sorry, this card isn't supported in this country".

[Dashing Don]

The flaking part. So correct. You'd have to wait until the girl actually got to the pickup landmark (ie, Petron station), THEN order a Grab to go there for pickup. THEN tell the driver what she is wearing and tell her the vehicle plate number and color. THEN hope he says yes to you not being there. Risking the p50 fee for him cancelling is small, and risking a girl not coming to me is a PITA (for me), as I'd have to start with plan Bee.

You can share with the girl the map with the real time location and trajectory of the driver plus all the drivers info and car info. Its a button in the app. Then she has all the info she needs. It works almost all the time. The only time it doesn't is if she's late to the location and the driver takes off but that's rare. Then there's a 50 peso charge.

This Grab pickup also has the effect of adding urgency to the meeting I notice. They know the car can be there in minutes. The juices start flowing. On both ends. I reckon it has made more meetings possible due to the immediacy of Grab, as opposed to her taking a cab with no money and then being worried about you being there to pay and texting you every five minutes during the ride which can take an hour. Obviously you do need to go downstairs to pay when she arrives and interestingly, that seems to be the first inkling the girl has that you're paying cash, but by then, she's at the front entrance of the hotel.

Anything that makes the process easier is good and I love the Grab 'remote pickup'.

[Dashing Don]

Its good to hear that you were able to get Grab to remotely pickup or drop off your girl. I have had zero luck during pandemic. When drivers figured out that I was not going to be in the car, they cancelled the ride and I got hit with said fees for making the attempt. Back then, the charges went to my outside-Phils credit card! However I have not re-tried recently.

The name I use on Grab is Don * a Latin sounding surname and not my real name--I'm 100% Caucasian and can be recognized as such from a mile away, however, come to think of it, over the years, several drivers have mentioned when they picked me up that they thought I would be a Filipino due to my name and were surprised that I wasn't. I never thought much of it but perhaps this is the key to the remote pickups.

Although Don * is obviously male and the pickup is a female but I have never had a problem and use Grab routinely in Manila.

[WestCoast1]

I can't. I heard rumours that it would work if the card was added while still at home but that's not the case.

When your card was rejected, was there any reason given? Or the generic "Card application failed"?

[Goferring]

Good news. Anyone been able to add an Aussie or American CC?

I can't. I heard rumours that it would work if the card was added while still at home but that's not the case.

[Goferring]

Hello friends, often I don't post why my posts don't interest many people. I even stopped to post because some time ago, someone took the piss in my contribution. Now I try again.

I take interest only for regular girls and I like to get a girlfriend experience with every girl for 10 days or more.

Two weeks ago I went to Cagayan de Oro to meet my GF. I was with her for some days only in my rented condo because she got problem with her baby in Pagadian and she had to run away.

I was always alone in that condo for other 7-8 days because it was so hard to meet girls. Girls steal your money for the fare and after they don't come.

All the girls are kind, they talk, talk an talk, bla bla bla, but they don't come. I asked the reason and all told me that very serious things have recently happened with tourists in CDO and they are afraid, terrified of approaching them. The girls were kidnapped.

So I bought a flight to Leyte island. I'm in Tacloban now. Here the girls are very nice, even more so than those of CDO. When I ask if they want to meet me, I notice them are very happy, even enthusiastic. But then they all tell that they have school, they are busy because they have to prepare for exams. Etc. Etc. Many of them are far from Tacloban even if I see this city in their profile. I have been in Tacloban for 2 days and I am always on social networks, but I'm not able to mee, even here. This is the first time this has happened to me in my whole life. Yet I have been to the Philippines several times, from Davao to CDO, Palawan, Manila, etc. Etc. I have to say one thing for sure: the goodness of the Philippines is completely over.

Can anyone give me some advice where to go and what to do?

Anyway I will never rcome back even if someone gives me the flight, I will change country. Jejejeje.

JL, sorry to hear about your negative experiences here on the board and out in the provinces. I haven't been to CDO or Lyete yet but do enjoy other provincial areas. My first visit was also a disappointment until I found out that provincial meet ups are often very different to Manila, Cebu etc.

Girls are much more reserved and image conscious as all their friends and family will find out that they are meeting an old guy. Platonic first dates and bringing a security blanket friend are much more common.

Forget about doing any ground work online before arrival. Many will make big promises but then back out due to being scared of meeting a new westerner face to face. Many provincial girls have never actually met a white guy in person before, especially one who wants to fuck her 10 minutes after meeting.

Making contact when you are in town and organising to meet today after work or school is much more effective. It also saves you wasting time on chatting to girls that can't or won't meet. Don't be afraid to chat with civilian girls in malls, markets etc and ask if they want a coffee. This gives them a chance to see your not a psycho kidnapper before meeting again.

A wingman who knows the area really helps. Research posts here and you may find someone who lives there and is willing to meet you or show you the better pick up places in town.

Don't rush things. All aspects of provincial life, including the girls, are far less point and shoot than the big cities.

Good luck. G.