Thread: Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand
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10-22-08 01:18 #1238
Posts: 363I did an HIV test today. Someone here in another country wrote that they knew that a girl that I knew was HIV-positive. I don't know if it's true or not, but the easiest thing was to just get tested. The last time I had the test, I did it privately and it costs about $125 and I had to wait two days to get the results. This time I went to a public facility and they gave me the OraSure test and I had my results -- negative -- in 20 minutes. It was free and there was a counselor there to talk to me after.
He said that he had done about 10,000 tests over many years and not a single heterosexual male tested positive. Then he qualified that by saying that there were some that had gotten blood transfusions or whatever, but that no male heterosexual that he had personally dealt with had tested positive without other risk factors. Of course many bisexual men claims to be heterosexual at the beginning, but apparently all of them admitted that they have had male lovers after a few minutes.
What does this mean? I find it extremely confusing. A lot of the anecdotal evidence suggests that male heterosexuals are very unlikely to come down with HIV. On the other hand, the public health people are yelling that we are at great risk. I think they are exaggerating but that doesn't mean that they are completely wrong. The problem is that we might ignore what they say because they exaggerate, and then find ourselves HIV-positive one day.
The best comment here by Seydlitz was the one where he said that said that we should concentrate on the potential impact rather than the likelihood. Still, the whole thing is very confusing and very frustrating.
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10-17-08 11:38 #1237
Posts: 395Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
Koch's postulates are:
The microorganism must be found in abundance in all organisms suffering from the disease, but not in healthy organisms.
The microorganism must be isolated from a diseased organism and grown in pure culture.
The cultured microorganism should cause disease when introduced into a healthy organism.
The microorganism must be reisolated from the inoculated, diseased experimental host and identified as being identical to the original specific causative agent.
The web is full of controversy about this. Asymptomatic carriers are supposedly common feature for several infectious diseases, but in the case of HIV, there seems to be a very high proportion of asymptomatic carriers, i.e. people who are diagnosed as AIDS patients, but that show no sign of HIV infection. And of course, there are huge numbers of healthy carriers, i.e. people who have HIV but are not developing AIDS.
The bottom line is that the HIV tests are questionable, and that being tested positive does nto necessarily mean much. Over the years, some tests have been shown to react to many other things than HIV, such as malaria and a host of other tropical diseases or pregnancy.
Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
More to the point, promiscuous sexual behaviours, especially p4p, are inherently dangerous. One should focus on the seriousness of the consequences of an incident rather than the probability of an incident.
Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
Frankly, as a male, I can see why unprotected sex is so attractive, to the point of being ready to engage into risky behaviours, because the risk/reward balance is so close, but I cannot see why men find women willing to accommodate that. They are much more at risk than us, and for them there is not even the bonus of better sex experience through the absence of rubber…
The bottom line is that you should surf the web. You will see that the entire HIV/AIDS thing is way more complex and controversial than most people suppose.
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10-17-08 01:34 #1236
Posts: 2473Originally Posted by PinkPearl
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10-15-08 09:39 #1235
Posts: 678Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
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10-15-08 05:25 #1234
Posts: 363I just discovered this thread, which is fascinating. I see that a few of the most knowledgeable posters have not been "active" here for several months, but I nevertheless hope a few people with specialized knowledge can help with some answers.
There seems to be tremendous confusion. I called 3-4 hotlines, including the gay HIV hotline and the counselors in all of them knew very little. Within 5 minutes, I saw they had no idea. The guy at the gay hotline said it was equally dangerous to be the "top" or the "bottom" of a gay sex couple or to have vaginal or anal sex, but could cite no sources. They definitely want to scare you but seem to have very little knowledge, which of course does not mean that we should not be scared, but I would like to know the facts as much as it is possible.
It seems that a heterosexual man who sero-converts positive is likely to first catch something else and then HIV. it could actually be in the same sex act--you could catch chlamydia, for example, and the irritation int he urethra could then give HIV an opening.
It seems very strange that so few famous people have caught HIV. Charlie Sheen, Wilt Chamberlain, etc... the list of heterosexual males with HIV is rather short. In the porn world, there have only been a few "outbreaks" and none since Darren James. Some say that it is not a coincidence that James caught HIV in another country--that HIV in the USA is harder to spread heterosexually than HIV (or a certain sub-strain of it) in certain other countries, such as Thailand. But remember----please do not fight---I just want comments that can help me understand the actual situation, preferably with some sort of citation to the medical literature (I am not a doctor but I can read).
Here are my questions/comments. I do not want to start any fighting---I am strictly looking for useful information----primarily from people with medical/biological training.
1. It seems the PCR test for HIV is generally accurate 12 days after potential exposure and maybe as soon as 72 hours. I see that someone has gotten that test for $160 in California. why is it so hard to find a place to do that test? Admittedly, it would be expensive but many of us would be willing to spend the money for a medium term gfe and maybe even for a 1 night stand. Of course you would have to quarantine her for 12 days or take some chance but it is a lot better than the Eliza test with a 6-12 week window, which makes it virtually useless. Yet the PCR test is not available in mos places and so you cannot use what could be an effecive method of screening partners which would allow you to have sex without a condom without worrying (too much) about HIV. Am I correct?
2. There is Orasure, which allows you to test saliva in 20 minutes. Why is it impossible to get this thing? apparently, the authorities are afraid people will freak out if they get a positive result, which could be a false positive, and might kill themselves. But it would seem that the public interest in giving people some tool to reduce their risk would override this concern. Of course, the 6-12 week window makes this test of limited value, but it would still be of considerable use oin many situations. Yet it is unavailable. Am I correct?
3. There is a much higher risk in Thailand than the Philippines because there is more of a certain type of sub-type of HIV in Thailand. True or false?
4. If you do not know the HIV status of a girl, it does not matter if you sleep with her every night or switch girls because either way if you are not using a condom you could be exposing yourself to HIV. 15 sex acts with 1 girl of unknown status is the same risk as 15 sex acts with 15 girls of unknown risk. True or untrue?
5. Wearing a condom on the end of your penis would reduce HIV risk a real lot because the virus almost always enters the male's body through the urithra. True or false?
I am mostly interested in the first 3 questions. Thank you!
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10-14-08 11:13 #1233
Posts: 141I didn't pick up Herpes on my last visit (most likely in Pattaya or BKK).. but seemed to have picked up a strain of HPV which has manifested in small warts around the pubic area. (About 2 months later) And for the record I do use condo's.. though obviously they don't cover the whole area.
Some tips: do no shave or irritate the area which spreads it.
One doc put me onto Aldara, which is expensive ($100 a pop) and did nothing.. don't recommend. I'm now trying out Condyline which is apparently quite effective, though more abrasive.
Originally Posted by Brasco
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10-14-08 08:18 #1232
Posts: 1749Originally Posted by Lover Boy #2
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10-14-08 08:08 #1231
Posts: 1749Originally Posted by PinkPearl
In addition to the latex glove example above, this is another proof that the feeling with the condom on can be just as good as going bareback.
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10-14-08 06:25 #1230
Posts: 678Originally Posted by PinkPearl
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10-13-08 09:01 #1229
Posts: 1749Originally Posted by Vito Corleone
Tip #1. Try putting a few drops of lube on the inside head of the condom.
Tip #2. The condom adds width which can make it tighter inside the lady, and consequently actually improve the sensation.
Tip #3. Getting a genital massage, whether from her tongue mouth or hands, for an hour before condom intercourse, will result in the feeling being just as good or better than w/o a condom.
But I suppose #3 illustrates a key problem with most of you wankers, that you cannot last more than 5 minutes, and would have already cum before the sex began.
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10-13-08 07:53 #1228
Posts: 678Originally Posted by Mangofan
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10-13-08 00:02 #1227
Posts: 4050Originally Posted by Mangofan
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10-12-08 23:55 #1226
Posts: 2473Originally Posted by PinkPearl
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10-12-08 13:45 #1225
Posts: 306Negative. Both of us. This week has been a complete mindfuck thinking I was positive. But luckily both of our tests were negative. This has scared me enough that I've decided to take a break from mongering....permanently. It's been a great couple of years, but just not worth it taking the kinds of risks that come from this lifestyle. Thanks again for your comments, everyone.
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10-12-08 09:02 #1224
Posts: 1749Those who think a condom lessens the pleasure of a BJ or FS are just ignorant as to techniques that make it as good or better than going BB. Not to mention the psychological effects of worrying about getting or giving a present during the act.
Condoms. To Serve and Protect.