Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[Tiger 888]

...getting a Gohonorrea from Blow Job : very hard ...

I did some time ago. Easier to cure in my case though, and I luckily didn't pass it on to anyone.

[Lama Di Bali]

IMHO,

getting a Gohonorrea from Blow Job : very hard .
getting Clamydida from BJ : almost impossible.
getting syphilis from BJ : almost impossible.
getting HIV from BJ : almost impossible.
getting Herpes HSV from BJ : very easy.

Let the girl gargle with some Listerint before the job, sometime it did help.

If the girl got warts on her hand It's possible to get warts on penis having an handjob as well...

You can have your humble opinion.

In the humble opinion of the foremost venereologist working in Berlin, it is commonplace for the gonorrhea bacteria to live in the throat if the girl has given a blow job to a man who has the disease.

He says he sees it all the time in gay men.

It does not live in the mouth, it colonises the throat, so all the listerine in the world is not going to make a rat's ass of a difference.

The blow job I got was the ONLY unprotected sex I had and I have long ago given up the notion that I can get it from toilet seats.

[MarcoStraight]

IMHO,

getting a Gohonorrea from Blow Job : very hard .
getting Clamydida from BJ : almost impossible.
getting syphilis from BJ : almost impossible.
getting HIV from BJ : almost impossible.
getting Herpes HSV from BJ : very easy.

Let the girl gargle with some Listerint before the job, sometime it did help.

If the girl got warts on her hand It's possible to get warts on penis having an handjob as well...

[Lover Boy #2]

If you are positive as to how you contracted this, I would hope that you have contacted the establishment so that they can get the girl some medical attention and see that she does not give this to another person.

I know because I got it.

I did an Eden Club double act. One of the girls (the one my choice chose as her partner) looked a bit pale and sick but I didn't think too much about it.

We fucked every which way, and each time both of them put a new condom on me. I'm 100% sure none broke.

The sick looking one gave me the blow job of my life -- and a strain of gonnorhea which I gave to my long-time girl friend in Germany (not impressed), and which the doctors at Berlin's most prestigious hospital Charite, could not cure.

In the end I had to go to a doctor who specialised in gay men's diseases and I had a series of shots in the ass at daily intervals.

The doc explained that the gonnococal germ can live in the mucous membranes of the throat.

You've been warned.

[Lama Di Bali]

I know because I got it.

I did an Eden Club double act. One of the girls (the one my choice chose as her partner) looked a bit pale and sick but I didn't think too much about it.

We fucked every which way, and each time both of them put a new condom on me. I'm 100% sure none broke.

The sick looking one gave me the blow job of my life -- and a strain of gonnorhea which I gave to my long-time girl friend in Germany (not impressed), and which the doctors at Berlin's most prestigious hospital Charite, could not cure.

In the end I had to go to a doctor who specialised in gay men's diseases and I had a series of shots in the ass at daily intervals.

The doc explained that the gonnococal germ can live in the mucous membranes of the throat.

You've been warned.

[Dan7373]

I haven't done oral sex on a thai girl yet - I hesitate because I'm affraid of getting an STD like herpes or ghonorea....

I never do oral on Thai women. Because I'm afraid of STD's. Some STD's like Syphilis, Herpes, HPV (causes warts and cancer), and HIV can lie dormant for years after you get an infection. But eventually they can cause some serious health problems for you.

Just because someone has done a lot of unprotected oral sex on Thai women and feels ok now, doesn't necessarily mean that he will be ok in the future.

I used to like doing oral on women. But to avoid possible infections, I've learned to enjoy masturbating women with my well-lubricated hand instead.

It's the woman's excitement and orgasm that matters to me. And I've found that making a woman orgasm with my hand is even better and easier than with my mouth. My hand is a lot stronger than my tongue. And my fine-movement control over my fingers is a lot better than it is over my tongue. I can stimulate the woman in many more ways with my fingers than I can with my tongue.

If you are going to do unportected oral sex on Thai women despite the dangers. Then I suggest that you rinse your mouth with mouthwash immediately afterwards. Mouthwash is designed to kill bacteria. And it may kill some viruses too. It won't give you 100% safety. But it will probably decrease your chances of getting an infection.

[Animby]

the HIV test kit, FDA indeed approved a rapid HIV test kit which gives results in as little as 20 minutes.

Beware also this is an antibody test, so it only gives reliable results after 12 weeks or more after HIV infection.

I believe I mentioned I used this test (rapid latex agglutination) when I ran a clinic in Angola. To the best of my knowledge it has not been approved for home use. Since agglutination tests can be very subjective, I doubt it will be in it’s current form.

As to your comment about 12 weeks. Yes. And No. Antibodies to the HIV virus can take even longer than 3 months to respond. Usually, we recommend a negative test be confirmed six months later.

The problem with that, of course, is that people who exhibit the type of risky behavior that brought them to the clinic in the first place are unlikely to remain celibate during the ensuing six months.

[Higgins T]

...But sure as hell, it can be that the first time you try it yourself you get it. Life can be a ***** and with sex there's always a minimal risk you're catching something even if you are careful.

McJohn You're absolutely right! I was asking, because I am married (happily!) and I have some stopovers in Bangkok each year. P4P is just a short adventure there for me, just a thrill. I am happy with my whife and wouldn't want to loose or hurt her - so she should never ever find out (!!!). Bringing home a std would be very hard to explain and would infect her too. I would never want that. So I "eat" at home and only have protected sex the few times when I am in Bangkok

[McJohn]

I completely agree with Animby that there is no "morning after" pill for HIV. There's a antiretroviral postexposure prophylaxis but this is neither guaranteed to work nor without side effect. Here's what wikipedia says on the subject:

In the case of HIV infection, post-exposure prophylaxis is a course of antiretroviral drugs which is thought to reduce the risk of seroconversion after events with high risk of exposure to HIV (e.g. unprotected anal or vaginal sex, needlestick injuries, or sharing needles). To be effective, it must be started as soon as possible after exposure and ideally within an hour [1]. The treatment for HIV lasts four weeks [2].

While there is compelling data to suggest that PEP after HIV exposure is extremely effective, there have been cases where it has failed. The regimen can be very demanding and have unpleasant side effects including malaise, fatigue, diarrhoea, headaches, nausea and vomiting [3].

According to one Australian study, two thirds of people taking PEP experienced mild to moderate side effects and one quarter of people taking PEP experienced severe side effects.

Regarding the HIV test kit, FDA indeed approved a rapid HIV test kit which gives results in as little as 20 minutes. Here's a link providing the information:

http://www.fda.gov/bbs/topics/NEWS/2002/NEW00852.html

I don't think it's endorsed as an over-the-counter self-test kit, though. So, I'm not sure what you get if you order from one of these dubious internet firms selling home self-test kit. Beware also this is an antibody test, so it only gives reliable results after 12 weeks or more after HIV infection.

[McJohn]

I got chlamydia once. Most likely from a BBBJ. Very unpleasant but relatively easily dealt with.

I've done DATY on >100 girls over the years and never got anything as far as I can tell. But sure as hell, it can be that the first time you try it yourself you get it. Life can be a ***** and with sex there's always a minimal risk you're catching something even if you are careful.

For me, paid sex without DATY, without a BBBJ and without kissing just doesn't do it (I always cover up for intercourse, though). But you're not gonna get this without a price, i.e. taking some small risk.

[Higgins T]

I haven't done oral sex on a thai girl yet - I hesitate because I'm affraid of getting an STD like herpes or ghonorea. On the other hand, it would be very nice :-) !!! Have any of you guys ever gotten an STD thru oral/DATY ? I not looking for any official statistics (everything in life can kill you...), rather your experiences and fist hand advice.

Thanks

[Abse2]

Safe sex at its best!!(Awesome pics)


taken from D.K lee(china) section.

[Animby]

While I was waiting at a sexual health clinic a few months back, I read one of the wall posters regarding a new anti-HIV 'morning after' medicine.

Sorry. I've left Egypt and am happily ensconced in the LOS. The little brown lovelies leave little time for reading the forum.

There is no "morning after" pill for HIV. It's that simple. Post known exposure, there is a recommended four WEEK treatment with up to four various antiretroviral drugs.

Those drugs are very expensive, have many nasty side-effects and, as we all know, have very little ability to "cure" an HIV infection. Taken early and appropriately, they do offer a fair chance of avoiding infection after exposure.

I think condoms are a lot less expensive, easier on the body and more effective.

BTW, someone mentioned a home test kit for HIV. Sorry. There are NONE that are approved for this purpose (and I just did a quick MedLine search to make sure my knowledge was not outdated). There are some companies who offer home collections systems but these must then be sent off to a laboratory for analysis.

I used to work in central Africa and we had access to a latex protein agglutination test that gave results in 10-12 hours. Problem was it had a very high rate of false negatives. In other words, it missed a lot of infections.

And, as has already been mentioned, the best test in the world may miss an infection that is only a few days or even weeks old.

Hey, I don't like 'em, either but, please, use a condom!

[Rubber Nursey]

Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (HIV PEP)

There's heaps of info online if you're interested. The main thing is that it's certainly not a simple 'morning after medicine'. It's a month or more of at least two antiretroviral drugs...ie. the drugs they give HIV/AIDS patients. You'd want to be pretty damn sure the person you had sex with was HIV positive before you put yourself through all that!

While I was waiting at a sexual health clinic a few months back, I read one of the wall posters regarding a new anti-HIV 'morning after' medicine.

It said that if you'd had unsafe sex within the previous 48 hours, and were worried you'd exposed yourself to HIV, there's a new medication that will prevent HIV from developing (80% success rate if caught within 48 hours). How they measured this in clinical trials, I don't know.

Maybe Animby or another medical professional can provide more info on this new technology.

[Johnson994]

I must say I am pretty open to anything, but those are the nastiest set of [CodeWord140] flaps I have ever seen. I like the lips high and tight, not dragging on the floor.
Disgusting.
She could feed a family of 4 with those things flapping in the breeze. No wonder you fucked her ass.
http://internationalsexguide.info/fo...chmentid=70889

I like them pussy lips big. The bigger the better.