Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[Lucifer786]

What std scares you?

HIV, Syphilis & Hepatitis. Etc. Well, I haven't done any of these but just curious what precautions I must follow. And is it a good idea to ask the smooci girls or any other girls for a latest test report. I'm clueless.

[EihTooms]

https://www.union-bulletin.com/news/...1e1923ed8.html

Yes, that is great news. But I wonder why there is no mention of subtypes of HIV in Asia, no mention of trials for the vaccine anywhere in Asia, only in North and South America, Europe and sub-Saharan Africa. Of course, they do mention the trials will focus on men who have sex with men. Still, the absence of a mention of Asia as a target for any trials of the vaccine is curious.

On top of that, there are different HIV subtypes in different parts of the world. (Subtype B is common in North America and Europe, for example, while subtype C is found in southern and eastern Africa.) An effective vaccine must be based on components drawn from a mosaic of HIV variants in order to work against many strains.

[MongerForSex]

Hi Guys,

I'm sure many of you have done this or know way better. I'm a newbie visiting Thailand for the first time. I'm planning to have a massage or two, and at least one smooci experience to get my shyness and fear out of it. But STDs are what concerns me and I have never done any. So a bit of advise would be great.

What std scares you?

[CzarNicholas]

https://www.union-bulletin.com/news/...1e1923ed8.html

[Lucifer786]

Hi Guys,

I'm sure many of you have done this or know way better. I'm a newbie visiting Thailand for the first time. I'm planning to have a massage or two, and at least one smooci experience to get my shyness and fear out of it. But STDs are what concerns me and I have never done any. So a bit of advise would be great.

[Member #4698]

You guys make it sound complicated. I am a simple man. For me, sex with a girl is better than masturbation. If nothing is available I will masturbate to relieve myself, but if sexy Asian girls are within 30 miles (48 KM) of where I am and available, I will go out and get one. Thus I have never masterbated when traveling in Asia, never needed to or wanted to, and doubt I would start to if / when I move here.

If anything, I should probably take a sex BREAK once in a while when I am in LOS. 555. Last trip I took at least 1 girl every day for 72 days straight. I think I was ready for a couple of nights alone on a quiet beach to recharge my batteries, but as long as I was still in BKK, Pattaya, or MNL, I went out every night, sometimes twice a night, and found what I was looking for even if I wasn't really looking. I love Asia. Miss it bad. I really appreciate BKK, Pat, MNL, & CGK, ect when I am "stuck inside of Mobile with the Memphis blues again." - Dylan

[EihTooms]

ET,

You always report the difficulties to cum from certain activities, for you.

I am slightly similar in that dick is not very sensitive and cumming is not always easy.

I believe alcohol is an anti sex measure for me, numbing the dick somewhat (great for guys that are too sensitive).

Very frequent masturbation is also not great for the sensitivity of the dick in my experience. If I give up masturbation for considerable time, or only occasional, and no hard wanking, my normal sex is improved because dick is more sensitive than before.

Sure masturbation won't kill me, but I think I am better off without it, other than maybe the odd one when no sex is available for long periods. If real sex is available, then wanking should not be a priority except for guys that pop too fast.

Just my personal opinions. Yeh I have some pretty porn (not overly ugly stuff), for when I get desperate. Watching extend BJs, ass fucking, DP and splooge does not turn me on. I can fast forward that stuff or choose more arty porn. I might be weird.

Syzygies, I have adopted a certain lifestyle change since retiring in Thailand beyond the obvious ones regarding culture and environment. I decided to avoid many of the tempting pitfalls of the kind of lazy if not sedentary life I see other retirees drift into all too easily.

Small things like not having food delivered to my apartment, get off my butt and pick it up myself if I want to eat in my room. Don't ride if it can be walked. Don't buy a motorized vehicle, walk and/or deal with public transportation, which usually requires a bit of walking anyway. Stairs instead of escalators/elevators unless it is more than 3 flights up. That sort of thing. I don't insist on it when I am with others, of course.

And, yes, I apply the same principle to sexual relief. It isn't that I have had so much satisfying sex flying at me from all directions since I moved here 6+ years ago that I have not had time to masturbate. It is that I refuse to give in to the temptation to take care of it so quickly and easily, alone in my room.

Like having to get up off my butt and walk somewhere to get a slice of pizza rather than own an oven and gather all the ingredients to bake my own pizza in my apartment.

Similarly, I think it is better all around for me to go out and find a partner for the night, make the effort, play the game, do the dance, have sex with a female even if she is not always going to be the perfect match. It isn't always a perfect slice of pizza either.

[MickeyDuck1208]

One of my practices too!

If I am feeling very horny and hard, and haven't had sex in last couple of days. I prefer to masturbate first, before going to spas or BJ shops, as it helps me last longer.

[Syzygies]

5. Masturbation is almost certainly good for your sex life.

ET,

You always report the difficulties to cum from certain activities, for you.

I am slightly similar in that dick is not very sensitive and cumming is not always easy.

I believe alcohol is an anti sex measure for me, numbing the dick somewhat (great for guys that are too sensitive).

Very frequent masturbation is also not great for the sensitivity of the dick in my experience. If I give up masturbation for considerable time, or only occasional, and no hard wanking, my normal sex is improved because dick is more sensitive than before.

Sure masturbation won't kill me, but I think I am better off without it, other than maybe the odd one when no sex is available for long periods. If real sex is available, then wanking should not be a priority except for guys that pop too fast.

Just my personal opinions. Yeh I have some pretty porn (not overly ugly stuff), for when I get desperate. Watching extend BJs, ass fucking, DP and splooge does not turn me on. I can fast forward that stuff or choose more arty porn. I might be weird.

[MongerForSex]

I just want to say loool. Stress and fear kill people.

https://www.iamat.org/country/brazil...ted-infections

[Gargano19]

It's a tactile reality, sex when your dick is not wrapped in latex or polyurethane is more enjoyable for both partners. What woman prefers licking or sucking rubber to a length of smooth candy stick skin, even more so when she feels that same candy stick filling her up and pumping her sweet spots?

Most of us get that so why condoms. It's simple. Because there is a risk of contracting a STD. Some accept there is risk and however small choose to take that risk, other prefer to deny there is any risk using unreliable and often fake science.

When I hear "I've been barebacking all my life and never caught anything" I love to use the example of my dad who smoked a pipe all his life and lived without any issues to be 99. So what, smoking is not healthy and neither is BBFS.

Well said. Someone doing bareback is his own personal choice, but saying that it's completely safe is naive. It's not.

[Gargano19]

Masturbation is as good as vaginal sex, but better to have vaginal sex for better pleasure. If you are in a sex prison (USA, Canada and fucking Europe except for Germany). Routine masturbation is very good and will boost your immune system. Regular masturbation is very healthy. Masturbation did not ruin my life. I love to masturbate before hving sex. Every morning and when I come back from work I masturbate. Every night I get ready for party and sex.

If I am feeling very horny and hard, and haven't had sex in last couple of days. I prefer to masturbate first, before going to spas or BJ shops, as it helps me last longer.

[Turgid]

Masturbation is as good as vaginal sex, but better to have vaginal sex for better pleasure. If you are in a sex prison (USA, Canada and fucking Europe except for Germany). Routine masturbation is very good and will boost your immune system. Regular masturbation is very healthy. Masturbation did not ruin my life. I love to masturbate before hving sex. Every morning and when I come back from work I masturbate. Every night I get ready for party and sex.

Does masturbation carry the same benefits for women? If so then American women must be very healthy as they do so much more than Asian women and often claim that they don't need a man.

[MongerForSex]

They don't say "masturbation is unhealthy". In fact, they state quite clearly that
5. Masturbation is almost certainly good for your sex life.

Their message is simply that masturbation is not as risk-free as some might think.

They also state that, 1. Masturbation doesn't have the health benefits that sex does.

That is good news for me since I have not "wanked" in the 6+ years I have lived in Thailand despite having sex to completion several times per week. Oh, except for those occasional times when a scammer girl assures me her blowjob will be fully CIM but instead pulls away, stops even so much as using her hand that crucial moment just as my cum is about to travel up the length of my cock and then I have to "wank" myself off to the finish just to avoid severe pain. So I guess it comes down to that I have not "intentionally" wanked in the 6+ years I have lived here.

Masturbation is as good as vaginal sex, but better to have vaginal sex for better pleasure. If you are in a sex prison (USA, Canada and fucking Europe except for Germany). Routine masturbation is very good and will boost your immune system. Regular masturbation is very healthy. Masturbation did not ruin my life. I love to masturbate before hving sex. Every morning and when I come back from work I masturbate. Every night I get ready for party and sex.

[EihTooms]

Those experts don't know anything, masturbation is very healthy. I have been masturbating for decades and my prostate and male organs work very well. Sex and masturbation are two healthy things. I stopped reading scientific data because it has never been accurate. Most of these experts that do statistics don't know what they are talking about. Anyway, keep having sex and masturbating to keep your male organs healthy and stay away from Dr Google, scientific data and catholicism. Life is too good to think about small details.

They don't say "masturbation is unhealthy". In fact, they state quite clearly that
5. Masturbation is almost certainly good for your sex life.

Their message is simply that masturbation is not as risk-free as some might think.

They also state that, 1. Masturbation doesn't have the health benefits that sex does.

That is good news for me since I have not "wanked" in the 6+ years I have lived in Thailand despite having sex to completion several times per week. Oh, except for those occasional times when a scammer girl assures me her blowjob will be fully CIM but instead pulls away, stops even so much as using her hand that crucial moment just as my cum is about to travel up the length of my cock and then I have to "wank" myself off to the finish just to avoid severe pain. So I guess it comes down to that I have not "intentionally" wanked in the 6+ years I have lived here.