Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[MarcoStraight]

It's common for thailand mongers having herpes , most of the time the outbreaks are on the right buttock , any confirmation ?

[PinkPearl]

What about genital herpes? This is something incurable, and condoms do not protect from this. It is also difficult to tell if a woman is having it. Does anyon know if this is a common disease in thai?

Cover your body in cling wrap and you will be fine.

Works for DATY as well.

[The Traveler]

Well, I'm a paranoid person, did DATY on a girl.

Should I be worried about HIV?

Bal541,

no need to be paranoid, but there is a (reduced) risk (compared to unprotected intercourse) of getting HIV via DATY.

The saliva isn't a good environment for the HIV virus due to it's ph value. On the other hand you may have microscopic injuries at your gum, allowing the virus to pass into your blood stream. Bottom line is, avoid unnecessary risks, better safe than sorry.

If I would be you, I wouldn't be too concerned but would test 3 months after the incident for peace of mind. In the meantime practice safe sex with your partner and avoid DATY with a P4P in the future.

[Member #3409]

So everyone who mongers in Thailand pretty much has genital herpes?

I wouldn't go that far but it is a very common thing. The thing is it sits dormant in the spine and only comes out when there is a trigger of some sort. Common ones are stress, excess sun lights. I read somewhere that over 75% of the US population has herpes simplex (cold sores) and about 20-25% have genital herpes. It is not curable.

[Brasco]

So everyone who mongers in Thailand pretty much has genital herpes?

Well, you must be aware that bargirls in Pattaya for example, have every night sex with at least one guy, thats the way how they make money on living, so there is pretty big possibility you can catch something from oral sex, or something even worse if the condom breaks.

[Ayanthi]

It is a comon disease, I have cought it in Samui from some of the girls I slept with although I never went without a condom, what surpriced me the most was that they don't mind much about safe sex, would have been so easy to sleep with them without a condom. I also heard that lot of bar girls there are infected with gonorrhoea as they get infected from oral sex, which is always without a condom.

So everyone who mongers in Thailand pretty much has genital herpes?

[Brasco]

What about genital herpes? This is something incurable, and condoms do not protect from this. It is also difficult to tell if a woman is having it. Does anyon know if this is a common disease in thai?

It is a comon disease, I have cought it in Samui from some of the girls I slept with although I never went without a condom, what surpriced me the most was that they don't mind much about safe sex, would have been so easy to sleep with them without a condom. I also heard that lot of bar girls there are infected with gonorrhoea as they get infected from oral sex, which is always without a condom.

[Brasco]

What about genital herpes? This is something incurable, and condoms do not protect from this. It is also difficult to tell if a woman is having it. Does anyon know if this is a common disease in thai?

It is a common disease and although I never went without a condom I have cought it from some girl during my vacations in Samui. What surpriced me the most was that noone of the girls I was with didnt mind about safe sex, it would have been so easy to have sex without a condom.

So compared to the other deseases genital herpes is just nothing to worry about if you sleep with a bar girl, many of them are infected.

[Ayanthi]

What about genital herpes? This is something incurable, and condoms do not protect from this. It is also difficult to tell if a woman is having it. Does anyon know if this is a common disease in thai?

[PinkPearl]

I must assume (from very limited data) that a BBBJ (receiving oral) is more risky than giving oral, since I got Chlamydia from a BBBJ once.

From what I have read it is generally more STD risky for the lady giving a BBBJ than the guy recieving a BBBJ. Likewise for BBFS the lady is more in danger. And I would guess that performing DATY is more risky than getting a BBBJ.

BTW I have had dozens of BBBJs from various SWs and never caught anything but teeth marks. But I do not practice BBFS or DATY and have ceased from getting BBBJs due to the potential consequences.

[M P Lurker]

I think with tongue deep inside...anything is possible....not trying to add to your scare, but it is unprotected and a vehicle of body fluid to new host. If she was bleeding, this would have a higher transmission factor due to certain body fluids carrying a higher viral load. An old German ***** monger once told me to resist deep tongue penetration at all costs (this was pre-HIV and the guy is still fucking according to recent reports on the Germany forum)....so it is probably a good advice. Chances are nothing will happen (over 90%)....but it is all a crapshoot when you get yourself into the body fluids at that level. Good luck......maybe get tested in a few months and then you will be confident that nothing happened.

Its not really about what is "possible", as all of life is a crap-shoot.
Its more about statistical odds.
There is little if any data about people catching HIV from DATY.
So statistically it is either non-existent or so unlikely as to not be worth worrying about. I mean being struck by lightning is a more significant worry.

By mouth is an easy way to catch some viruses, e.g. the flu, and bacteria, but fortunately HIV is not one of them.
I have never caught anything from DATY to my knowledge despite deep tonguing.
I must assume (from very limited data) that a BBBJ (receiving oral) is more risky than giving oral, since I got Chlamydia from a BBBJ once.
DFK is very risky as plentiful colds and flu viruses are caught easily.

[Lover Boy #2]

Tongue was deep inside, didn't drink anything.

I think with tongue deep inside...anything is possible....not trying to add to your scare, but it is unprotected and a vehicle of body fluid to new host. If she was bleeding, this would have a higher transmission factor due to certain body fluids carrying a higher viral load. An old German ***** monger once told me to resist deep tongue penetration at all costs (this was pre-HIV and the guy is still fucking according to recent reports on the Germany forum)....so it is probably a good advice. Chances are nothing will happen (over 90%)....but it is all a crapshoot when you get yourself into the body fluids at that level. Good luck......maybe get tested in a few months and then you will be confident that nothing happened.

[Bal541]

In terms of DATY, the risky part is micro abrasions in your mouth getting infected vaginal fluid into it right?

I had always assumed that not brushing your teeth before was enough, that the mouth is a hostile place for germs/viruses.

[Bal541]

Did you stick your tongue deep inside her and drink her juice...or did you just briefly tickle her clit with your tongue? Did you notice if she was shooting her fluid (squirt) into your mouth....or did you just lick her lips briefly and avoid entry of body fluids? I have more questions after you answer these.

Tongue was deep inside, didn't drink anything.

[Lama Di Bali]

Jeez, get a life you guys. Why the endless debate? If you got something wrong with your dick, don't waste energy on where or from who or why you got it. Get it seen to immediately.

If not, then our esteemed moderator Jackson might have to start a new forum titled Dickless Sex. Or Orgasms for Amputees.

Any illness or condition you get while having sex is, broadly speaking, a sexually transmitted disease. Some STDs are ONLY transmitted in the course of sexual activity and that's what the doctors consider an STD.

A host of other things MAY be transmitted. Ask the bloke who got gonorrhea in his eye from rubbing it with his finger after putting it in some pussy. Or the person who got fungal infection in his nose from SATY. Sniffing at the Y.

And now to STI. Sexually Transmitted Injury.

I had a very enthusiastic HJ from my current girl friend a few days ago. She had a ring on one of her fingers which scratched the skin on the bobbly bit just below the head of my dick (I guess technically, for all you technically minded pedants, I mean the scar tissue from my circumcision.)

It swelled up real good and was quite painful. To add insult to injury (sexually transmitted injury, that is) I also got a condition quaintly described as "cock strain" by my family doctor when I had it for the first time as a teenager. (Young and dumb and full of come.)

This manifests itself in the feeling that my dick had been through a wringer.

The treatment? Ointment on the swollen bobbly bit. Abstinence for the cock strain.

I'm happy to report that both conditions have been cured.