Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[Goatscrot]

Look I've been bare backing for over 50 years, right. Never had a problem never expect to. Covered sex is useless vanilla sex for pussies, we lads know what real sex is right and how to get it right. Sure, the fear mongers will tell you it's risky, a danger to your health but so what, its minimal and I'm willing to take that risk, as its my god given right. So what if I might be asymptomatic with say gonorrhea or chlamydia and pass on the infection. Some of us get tested regular some of us don't, no big deal. Some of us have had vasectomies most of us haven't. So what if a girl gets pregnant, she should know better right. Some of us concentrate on the "off the bus" newbies, easy pickings for an experienced dude, a few tequilas, some good times pussy play, get them all hot and bothered, all lust and heat and she can't stop herself. It's natural right. You know she loves it bareback and will be back again the next day for more. With some you got to put in more time but that's part of the fun, right, the chase, right. So what's the big hullaballoo, I'm having a good time, that's all that matters right.

Certainly hoping this is sarcasm.

[Goatscrot]

To start, I will say that I have never had BB anal sex. Everyone has to make their own decisions, but for that to happen, it would have to be with someone that I had a reasonable expectation of exclusivity and extensive prior preparation. So not likely to happen in the P4 P world.

As far as BB vaginal sex, I will admit that I have had three cases in about 5+ decades of active sex, the first was at age 19 and was with the second working lady I was ever with. The last time was more than ten years ago. One case of the clap, and two cases of the non-specific type. I don't have a checklist, however am pretty fastidious about pre and post hygiene protocols. As age has increased the lack of sensitivity when using a cover is more pronounced, which I will admit is a factor in my decision process. I have also adjusted my expectations and try to be more holistic when it comes to the actual act of sex. As silly as it sounds, I do make a special effort to take in the sight of a younger, lithe, lady moving in rhythm with me, the curves of her body, the feeling of her skin, the way it feels to hold her ass in my hands if we are in doggy or her hips if it is cowgirl. All the sounds and surroundings if they are special all add to the very pleasant memories that last much longer than the "money shot". Twenty years ago, these things would be a passing notion most times as I went to search for the next opportunity.

I do not plan to eliminate BB from my repertoire, but will continue to make "informed" decisions. Is it a risk, certainly, but one I accept if I wish to participate in this activity.

Only my opinion.

Sky.

Pushing 60's here. Can't say my sensitivity had decreased, but I drink minimally, don't smoke, eat healthy, and have been a regular with exercise, both strength and cardio, since the early 90's. And believe me, it makes a difference.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

To start, I will say that I have never had BB anal sex. Everyone has to make their own decisions, but for that to happen, it would have to be with someone that I had a reasonable expectation of exclusivity and extensive prior preparation. So not likely to happen in the P4 P world.

As far as BB vaginal sex, I will admit that I have had three cases in about 5+ decades of active sex, the first was at age 19 and was with the second working lady I was ever with. The last time was more than ten years ago. One case of the clap, and two cases of the non-specific type. I don't have a checklist, however am pretty fastidious about pre and post hygiene protocols. As age has increased the lack of sensitivity when using a cover is more pronounced, which I will admit is a factor in my decision process. I have also adjusted my expectations and try to be more holistic when it comes to the actual act of sex. As silly as it sounds, I do make a special effort to take in the sight of a younger, lithe, lady moving in rhythm with me, the curves of her body, the feeling of her skin, the way it feels to hold her ass in my hands if we are in doggy or her hips if it is cowgirl. All the sounds and surroundings if they are special all add to the very pleasant memories that last much longer than the "money shot". Twenty years ago, these things would be a passing notion most times as I went to search for the next opportunity.

I do not plan to eliminate BB from my repertoire, but will continue to make "informed" decisions. Is it a risk, certainly, but one I accept if I wish to participate in this activity.

Only my opinion.

Sky.

Your position enunciated above on this is understandable given your reasoning explained.

Enjoy your punting.

For me, also being an older man, it is not at all about the money shot, far far far from it.

The chase, the seduction, the journey as it unfolds, the pleasure given, and the look of it in her eyes, her sounds, her voice, and her actions.

Her wanting to be totally, naturally there with me, that is what I look for and savor when found and fully experienced.

That is my addiction, not the fucking.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

Look I've been bare backing for over 50 years, right. Never had a problem never expect to. Covered sex is useless vanilla sex for pussies, we lads know what real sex is right and how to get it right. Sure, the fear mongers will tell you it's risky, a danger to your health but so what, its minimal and I'm willing to take that risk, as its my god given right. So what if I might be asymptomatic with say gonorrhea or chlamydia and pass on the infection. Some of us get tested regular some of us don't, no big deal. Some of us have had vasectomies most of us haven't. So what if a girl gets pregnant, she should know better right. Some of us concentrate on the "off the bus" newbies, easy pickings for an experienced dude, a few tequilas, some good times pussy play, get them all hot and bothered, all lust and heat and she can't stop herself. It's natural right. You know she loves it bareback and will be back again the next day for more. With some you got to put in more time but that's part of the fun, right, the chase, right. So what's the big hullaballoo, I'm having a good time, that's all that matters right.

So your point is exactly what GG?

Or are you just playing us to up your post count?

Where do you actually stand on the question of bareback or not?

Because the above commentary from you just sounds like a rehash of my, and others, posted validation of our thinking and positions.

So, if you're just here to be anonymously argumentative, a troll per se, please move along and go play elsewhere.

[Coolie High]

Look I've been bare backing for over 50 years, right. Never had a problem never expect to. Covered sex is useless vanilla sex for pussies, we lads know what real sex is right and how to get it right. Sure, the fear mongers will tell you it's risky, a danger to your health but so what, its minimal and I'm willing to take that risk, as its my god given right. So what if I might be asymptomatic with say gonorrhea or chlamydia and pass on the infection. Some of us get tested regular some of us don't, no big deal. Some of us have had vasectomies most of us haven't. So what if a girl gets pregnant, she should know better right. Some of us concentrate on the "off the bus" newbies, easy pickings for an experienced dude, a few tequilas, some good times pussy play, get them all hot and bothered, all lust and heat and she can't stop herself. It's natural right. You know she loves it bareback and will be back again the next day for more. With some you got to put in more time but that's part of the fun, right, the chase, right. So what's the big hullaballoo, I'm having a good time, that's all that matters right.

Wait you're kidding right. Did you just come on here and actually write for ALL the world to see that you could careless if you pass on STDs to other people. Are you NUTS? Thats absolutely F $$#ING disgusting. Anyone who has that mentality is a certified douchebag and are adding on to the pile of shit the world is already in. I don't like condoms like everybody else but do your part and man up and take care of your health and stop spreading dieases.

Have a good time but don't be collasal prick that only cares about his nut, disregarding getting females pregnant while literally being a walking vineral diease 🤮 Don't be that guy!!

[Amnesia]

How many guys on here are actually going to be truthful and say they caught some sort of disease from BBFS or BB anal?

I had plenty STI, including a very nasty one, which, together with a couple of HIV scares, made me largely stop the bareback. I probably fucked bareback whenever I could since I had sex for the first time 25 years ago, including pros and non-pros, in Thailand and in several other countries, including some high-risk encounters (if pros aren't high-risk enough). I always felt anxious when my cock started to leak; I never went for HIV tests until I had to, and then I panicked and was certain that the test must come back positive.

I had a nasty STI a couple of years ago which wouldn't go away but also wouldn't show up on any test, including PCR. At that point you start googling and learn about Mycoplasma Genitalium and Prostatitis (good luck if it's both). I had a hospital here order a new antibiotic from France for me but still have some urinary symptoms as my bladder often doesn't seem to fully empty when I drink a lot. It also caused me loss of libido and erection issues, which could all point towards prostatitis (whether bacterial or non-bacterial who knows). Due to all the antibiotics I took during that time, I got some weeks of diarrhea which made me believe I have HIV (luckily until today I'm negative).

I tried to stop the bareback but had relapses. I tried to at least limit it to non-pros but those seem to cause even more STI these days I feel (I actually only sometimes fuck pros when I'm lazy and prefer non-pros over it, so I had a lot of them over the years). Since that scary STI episode I think I had three STI out of ten bareback fucks, and one wasn't even PIV but just a blowjob. All of them were regular girls I met through dating apps.

I love bareback sex; condoms are a big turnoff for me. But the STI scares just became too much for me and I'm somewhat glad that I'm able to control my urge better now and stopped the bareback sex. Fortunately I love licking pussy, so I usually frequent massage and Kapoo places and enjoy a handjob with the girl sitting on my face.

[GerryGa]

Look I've been bare backing for over 50 years, right. Never had a problem never expect to. Covered sex is useless vanilla sex for pussies, we lads know what real sex is right and how to get it right. Sure, the fear mongers will tell you it's risky, a danger to your health but so what, its minimal and I'm willing to take that risk, as its my god given right. So what if I might be asymptomatic with say gonorrhea or chlamydia and pass on the infection. Some of us get tested regular some of us don't, no big deal. Some of us have had vasectomies most of us haven't. So what if a girl gets pregnant, she should know better right. Some of us concentrate on the "off the bus" newbies, easy pickings for an experienced dude, a few tequilas, some good times pussy play, get them all hot and bothered, all lust and heat and she can't stop herself. It's natural right. You know she loves it bareback and will be back again the next day for more. With some you got to put in more time but that's part of the fun, right, the chase, right. So what's the big hullaballoo, I'm having a good time, that's all that matters right.

[Sky Ryder]

Probably very few indeed. I'm a condom guy but have on rare occasions over my decades of mongering, not wrapped, and considering the number of times I've contracted something from a slip up, I'd say it's very unlikely that folks who BB all the time can avoid getting an STI on occasion.

I'm also amazed that older folks, I'm no spring chicken myself, are willing to risk getting an sti, because as you get older the chances of it affecting your prostate are much greater. Any infection or irritation in the urinary tract once you're over 50 can present a problem. While I still engage in BBBJ, the main event is always wrapped.

To start, I will say that I have never had BB anal sex. Everyone has to make their own decisions, but for that to happen, it would have to be with someone that I had a reasonable expectation of exclusivity and extensive prior preparation. So not likely to happen in the P4 P world.

As far as BB vaginal sex, I will admit that I have had three cases in about 5+ decades of active sex, the first was at age 19 and was with the second working lady I was ever with. The last time was more than ten years ago. One case of the clap, and two cases of the non-specific type. I don't have a checklist, however am pretty fastidious about pre and post hygiene protocols. As age has increased the lack of sensitivity when using a cover is more pronounced, which I will admit is a factor in my decision process. I have also adjusted my expectations and try to be more holistic when it comes to the actual act of sex. As silly as it sounds, I do make a special effort to take in the sight of a younger, lithe, lady moving in rhythm with me, the curves of her body, the feeling of her skin, the way it feels to hold her ass in my hands if we are in doggy or her hips if it is cowgirl. All the sounds and surroundings if they are special all add to the very pleasant memories that last much longer than the "money shot". Twenty years ago, these things would be a passing notion most times as I went to search for the next opportunity.

I do not plan to eliminate BB from my repertoire, but will continue to make "informed" decisions. Is it a risk, certainly, but one I accept if I wish to participate in this activity.

Only my opinion.

Sky.

[Falcon 95]

Like you, I also have never caught any disease, bug or virus from sex in all my mongering years which by now number roughly 45+ with easily 2000+ different bareback sex partners. Not bragging. It should have been more. LOL.

What you say is statistically impossible. It has nothing to do with luck, like you claim.

[EihTooms]

Probably very few indeed. I'm a condom guy but have on rare occasions over my decades of mongering, not wrapped, and considering the number of times I've contracted something from a slip up, I'd say it's very unlikely that folks who BB all the time can avoid getting an STI on occasion.

I'm also amazed that older folks, I'm no spring chicken myself, are willing to risk getting an sti, because as you get older the chances of it affecting your prostate are much greater. Any infection or irritation in the urinary tract once you're over 50 can present a problem. While I still engage in BBBJ, the main event is always wrapped.

I envy you for being able to feel pleasurable sensation enough to keep it up and achieve an orgasm while wearing a condom. I have only managed to do that once since I first had sex at 19. I think it was when I was 21 or 22, don't really remember the year.

That includes trying a dozen different condoms with all the recommended lubes inside, outside and all around them over the years. My most recent test run with a condom was 2-3 years ago with a top-rated and highly recommended lamb skin condom that was touted to be as close to bareback as possible because it is so natural, thin and porous. Consequently, it only protected against pregnancy, probably not necessary for me having gotten a vasectomy, and did nothing to prevent STI / STDs. Said so right on the package. But at least it was a condom.

Still a no go for me. The damage done to my half erect dick from all that accordian squeeze action on it after she finished her cowgirl ride was bad enough to keep me out of action for 5 days while it healed.

I am 70 years old now.

I think the likelihood of someone revealing they got an STI / STD here is fairly high considering we are essentially anonymous except among the few of us who have met in person or have communicated elsewhere.

I think it is even more likely that pro condom crusaders would capitalize on the anonimity to make up a scary story about getting a horrible dose of something as a "for the greater good" tactic.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

Probably very few indeed. I'm a condom guy but have on rare occasions over my decades of mongering, not wrapped, and considering the number of times I've contracted something from a slip up, I'd say it's very unlikely that folks who BB all the time can avoid getting an STI on occasion.

I'm also amazed that older folks, I'm no spring chicken myself, are willing to risk getting an sti, because as you get older the chances of it affecting your prostate are much greater. Any infection or irritation in the urinary tract once you're over 50 can present a problem. While I still engage in BBBJ, the main event is always wrapped.

It is a lottery for sure, Goatscrot, but it is one where you can swing the odds to favour you.

No lies, no BS, in 10 years plus of BB mongering in Thailand, the only thing I have caught was scabies.

And that is passed just from body to body contact, so a condom would not have helped.

[Goatscrot]

How many guys on here are actually going to be truthful and say they caught some sort of disease from BBFS or BB anal?

Probably very few indeed. I'm a condom guy but have on rare occasions over my decades of mongering, not wrapped, and considering the number of times I've contracted something from a slip up, I'd say it's very unlikely that folks who BB all the time can avoid getting an STI on occasion.

I'm also amazed that older folks, I'm no spring chicken myself, are willing to risk getting an sti, because as you get older the chances of it affecting your prostate are much greater. Any infection or irritation in the urinary tract once you're over 50 can present a problem. While I still engage in BBBJ, the main event is always wrapped.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

Over the last couple of years it has been getting more and more difficult for me to use a condom. Now, I almost always pre-arrange for BBFSCIP and still have about 10% to 20% who refuse or squawk about it in the room. If they refuse, I send them away, usually without money. The few times that I don't pre-arrange BBFSCIP, I have about 50% success rate of getting it. The other 50% I end up with just a BBBJ or just a HJ.

Immediately after my session, I always wash thoroughly and piss. I had a nasty case of the clap in 2006 but have been fine since then.

I understand and get where you are coming at this from.

But I very very rarely prearrange or discuss BB before leaving for the room, and never discuss CIP.

I feel that doing so and getting agreement would end up with me being with the girls that would do it, and do it often and easily.

And they are not the girls that afterwards I would feel safe doing it with.

When I do discuss it, it is always in a lighthearted way after the girl that has raised using a condom later.

As I said, I want her to want to use a condom, then I want her to allow it as no condom with me, as special.

OK now, go for me, as being delusional of it being only me, LOL.

But remember, I am chasing newbies, so even if it is not just men she does it with, she hasn't got a long time in bar history of BB.

And yes, she could probably have been fucking bareback back home in the village rampantly.

Tho again, that type is not what I seek out, I seek out the quieter ones.

Most of the girls I choose are more scared about getting pregnant.

A concern I easily overcome as I had a vasectomy 35 years ago.

[MohdirFan82]

I recently contracted Chlamydia in Philippines, and even used condom with almost all my encounters.

However never had contracted STD in Thailand.

How many guys on here are actually going to be truthful and say they caught some sort of disease from BBFS or BB anal?

[HorseTrader]

90% of the girls I bang are BB.

I rarely don't do BB, as I don't choose to bang the ones that won't.

Am I bragging in saying that?

I don't think so, as I'm not alone in that success rate.

Over the last couple of years it has been getting more and more difficult for me to use a condom. Now, I almost always pre-arrange for BBFSCIP and still have about 10% to 20% who refuse or squawk about it in the room. If they refuse, I send them away, usually without money. The few times that I don't pre-arrange BBFSCIP, I have about 50% success rate of getting it. The other 50% I end up with just a BBBJ or just a HJ.

Immediately after my session, I always wash thoroughly and piss. I had a nasty case of the clap in 2006 but have been fine since then.