Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[Banana Boi]

How many guys on here are actually going to be truthful and say they caught some sort of disease from BBFS or BB anal?

[Detwing1]

In my experience, it is just as likely that cute dental assistant who shared so much fabulous chemistry with me on our first dinner date after meeting her in the dental office that we were locked at the nether region bareback in her living room before we kicked off our shoes had that much chemistry or more with 5 other dental patients earlier in the week. Meanwhile, the Soi 4 street girl who agrees to BBFSCIP before I even finish the question might have agreed to it with me only because she has observed and singled me out in the area as a pretty good candidate for long term repeat income and otherwise says no to it.

100% spot on.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

A 90% success rate in getting BBFSCIP is easy to achieve if, as you do and as I do, we essentially screen the candidates for their likelihood of agreeing to it with us before we commit to taking them. I would not see that as bragging.

However, Horse Trader said, "if someone says they banged 90% of the girls in Pattaya and each one was bareback, I would consider that bragging and that post is a nuisance."

And that isn't the same thing as what we claim.

Like you, I also have never caught any disease, bug or virus from sex in all my mongering years which by now number roughly 45+ with easily 2000+ different bareback sex partners. Not bragging. It should have been more. LOL.

I did have one easily treatable case of trichamoniasis in my pre mongering years at about age 21. From a sweet regular girlfriend I met in college. Not a prostitute.

I really can't say I diligently avoided girls who "openly and easily give it away. " Honestly, I'm not even sure what that is supposed to look and sound like.

In my experience, it is just as likely that cute dental assistant who shared so much fabulous chemistry with me on our first dinner date after meeting her in the dental office that we were locked at the nether region bareback in her living room before we kicked off our shoes had that much chemistry or more with 5 other dental patients earlier in the week. Meanwhile, the Soi 4 street girl who agrees to BBFSCIP before I even finish the question might have agreed to it with me only because she has observed and singled me out in the area as a pretty good candidate for long term repeat income and otherwise says no to it.

Also, I am sure I have had bareback sex with hundreds of women, pro and non pro, who go bareback with every man they date or customer they session with as well as hundreds who are nit picky selective about it. Yet my 45+ year record of bareback mongering without a bug still stands. So I can't say it is because I am so brilliant about choosing well. Lucky, maybe. Brilliant, no.

IMO, 45 years blemish free is not just luck, there is clearly a bit of thought, brilliance even there, in selection.

[EihTooms]

Hmmmm.

But.

BUt.

BUT.

90% of the girls I bang are BB.

I rarely don't do BB, as I don't choose to bang the ones that won't.

Am I bragging in saying that?

I don't think so, as I'm not alone in that success rate.

Be I banging arounf my known traps in Rawai, or when traveling in say Bangkok or Hua Hin.

How do I get so much BB?.

A 90% success rate in getting BBFSCIP is easy to achieve if, as you do and as I do, we essentially screen the candidates for their likelihood of agreeing to it with us before we commit to taking them. I would not see that as bragging.

However, Horse Trader said, "if someone says they banged 90% of the girls in Pattaya and each one was bareback, I would consider that bragging and that post is a nuisance."

And that isn't the same thing as what we claim.

Like you, I also have never caught any disease, bug or virus from sex in all my mongering years which by now number roughly 45+ with easily 2000+ different bareback sex partners. Not bragging. It should have been more. LOL.

I did have one easily treatable case of trichamoniasis in my pre mongering years at about age 21. From a sweet regular girlfriend I met in college. Not a prostitute.

I really can't say I diligently avoided girls who "openly and easily give it away. " Honestly, I'm not even sure what that is supposed to look and sound like.

In my experience, it is just as likely that cute dental assistant who shared so much fabulous chemistry with me on our first dinner date after meeting her in the dental office that we were locked at the nether region bareback in her living room before we kicked off our shoes had that much chemistry or more with 5 other dental patients earlier in the week. Meanwhile, the Soi 4 street girl who agrees to BBFSCIP before I even finish the question might have agreed to it with me only because she has observed and singled me out in the area as a pretty good candidate for long term repeat income and otherwise says no to it.

Also, I am sure I have had bareback sex with hundreds of women, pro and non pro, who go bareback with every man they date or customer they session with as well as hundreds who are nit picky selective about it. Yet my 45+ year record of bareback mongering without a bug still stands. So I can't say it is because I am so brilliant about choosing well. Lucky, maybe. Brilliant, no.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

I shouldn't bother but ok, It never fails to amaze me how much traction nonsense posts get on the forum from seemingly otherwise smart members. You got to know when you're being played. Yes BB is readily available hereabouts but only if you put the time and effort in but no way is it standard practice on the part of the girls. Secondly this guy cares about his health but only goes BB most of the time. Enough said.

Hehehe GG.

The nonsense post IMO was the earlier one that I replied to about bragging.

Was I playing you?

Well actually no, not at all.

You said "you need to put the time and effort in. " and I partially agree with you on that.

It is correct, but just as often, you can put in the time or the effort.

I have used the effort, more like the understanding, knowledge and approach, and achieved it in a single first session,.

Whilst other times, when I have the time, I ave deliberately let it come slowly, progressing to it over a few sessions.

And I can assure you I do care about my health, and still practice BB very very very often.

I have lived in Thailand, and mongered consistently for 7 years now, having done so before that as a frequent visitor for five or so years.

My friends, who follow my activities from outside Thailand call me Houdini, as I've never (yet) caught anything.

I go BB as its actually more natural, with more sensation to both parties involved, and hence generates more involvement, more passion, more GFE if you want to say that.

I guess I'm different to a lot of the mongers on here who are consistently sprouting on about "bad" Thai working women.

I guess the ones they choose and find are, because that's how they are also perceived by the good ones, as bad, and hence also to be avoided.

The "ladydrink" discussion on spending or not spending is a key point in this.

It differentiates to the working girls easily the monger who just wants to fuck, to use them as a receptacle.

And for sure the bad working girls use ladydrinks against you, if you let them do so.

But it's a game, it's always been a game, but it is one were both parties can win.

You have to know the odds, play the game, take the risks, learn from your losses, know when to cut and run, and when to go all in for the prize.

Enough replied.

Happy mongering, or as I call it punting.

P.S. My Phuket thread is quiet, so I have time to bother you big boys here with my "wisdom".

[GerryGa]

Could you clarify? Are you saying that you pick girls who don't look like they would BB, but then convince them to do BB?

I shouldn't bother but ok, It never fails to amaze me how much traction nonsense posts get on the forum from seemingly otherwise smart members. You got to know when you're being played. Yes BB is readily available hereabouts but only if you put the time and effort in but no way is it standard practice on the part of the girls. Secondly this guy cares about his health but only goes BB most of the time. Enough said.

[Tvataham274]

Hmmmm.

But.

BUt.

BUT.

90% of the girls I bang are BB.

I rarely don't do BB, as I don't choose to bang the ones that won't.

Am I bragging in saying that?

I don't think so, as I'm not alone in that success rate.

Be I banging arounf my known traps in Rawai, or when traveling in say Bangkok or Hua Hin.

How do I get so much BB?

By knowing how to pick those that will, those that might, and those that won't but did anyway.

BTW.

I very very very rarely pick those that I know will go BB.

Especially avoiding those that openly and easily give it away.

I value my health too much for that.

Could you clarify? Are you saying that you pick girls who don't look like they would BB, but then convince them to do BB?

[ThaiGoodTimes]

I see no problem if someone posts they did bareback or covered, the problem is bragging. For example, if someone says they banged 90% of the girls in Pattaya and each one was bareback, I would consider that bragging and that post is a nuisance. On the other hand, if such a post stays online, the veterans will immediately realize that it is BS and know that other posts from that particular member are likely to also be BS.

Long ago I directly benefited from such posts, when I did my first mongering visit to Bangkok and experienced only CBJ and CFS my first 2 sessions. I posted what happened and other members flagged that BBBJ is usually available all over Thailand. Of course, I know that now and suspected it at the time, but I benefited directly from that discussion.

Hmmmm.

But.

BUt.

BUT.

90% of the girls I bang are BB.

I rarely don't do BB, as I don't choose to bang the ones that won't.

Am I bragging in saying that?

I don't think so, as I'm not alone in that success rate.

Be I banging arounf my known traps in Rawai, or when traveling in say Bangkok or Hua Hin.

How do I get so much BB?

By knowing how to pick those that will, those that might, and those that won't but did anyway.

BTW.

I very very very rarely pick those that I know will go BB.

Especially avoiding those that openly and easily give it away.

I value my health too much for that.

[EihTooms]

Again, I think it's a good policy to not talk about it either way. Folks that use condoms don't want to constantly read about those who don't in every post or report they put up. In turn, those that don't would rather not hear any preaching about condoms.

I think "preaching" on this website can only apply to posts denigrating or shaming others for not engaging in what they personally deem to be safe sex practices. Wearing condoms ranking high on that list. Perhaps for everything as some punters and many providers certainly argue, right?

Bearing in mind a notable percentage of people in the world consider anything other than strict monogamy and definitely P4 P as "unsafe sex. " Which, if we followed what they think is a good policy this website would not exist at all.

There are posters on the Pattaya Reports forum right now promoting and supporting the idea that "you don't want to kiss" working girls, presumably on the basis that there is something unsafe or disgusting about it and not on the basis that it risks both of you being swept off your feet in love because of it.

Where would "preaching" about supposedly safe sex end on a website like this?

Which is why the Policies & Guidelines here go to great lengths on the issue of "bragging about safe sex practices" as a violation but has virtually nothing to say about mentioning any sexual behavior that is legal.

Moreover, they even go on to explain why my or anyone else's comments or reports about getting bareback sex does not prevent anyone opposed to it from continuing to wear a condom for anything and everything with everyone everytime, avoid DFK, BBBJ or, for that matter, to avoid P4 P altogether if that is what you deem to be safe.

[HorseTrader]

Again, I think it's a good policy to not talk about it either way. Folks that use condoms don't want to constantly read about those who don't in every post or report they put up. In turn, those that don't would rather not hear any preaching about condoms.

I see no problem if someone posts they did bareback or covered, the problem is bragging. For example, if someone says they banged 90% of the girls in Pattaya and each one was bareback, I would consider that bragging and that post is a nuisance. On the other hand, if such a post stays online, the veterans will immediately realize that it is BS and know that other posts from that particular member are likely to also be BS.

Long ago I directly benefited from such posts, when I did my first mongering visit to Bangkok and experienced only CBJ and CFS my first 2 sessions. I posted what happened and other members flagged that BBBJ is usually available all over Thailand. Of course, I know that now and suspected it at the time, but I benefited directly from that discussion.

[Goatscrot]

Only one of those types of bragging are cited as violations of this website's Policies & Guidelines.

And it is understandable why, imo.

If a poster responds to a question about what the service is like at Such-and-Such Happy Ending PSE Shop, is he "bragging" to reply that it's great, he gets rimming, anal, cum on face, everything he wants with every girl in that shop every time?

Or is he merely replying by relating his experience there?

Similar to gilolo's reply to a poster's question.

The Policies & Guidelines here go to great lengths and into great detail about what is different about bragging about engaging in safe sex practices, denigrating others who don't and why doing so is futile anyway. I don't think any other issue is dealt with so thoroughly.

On the other hand, again, I have yet to locate the Policy or Guideline here prohibiting the mention of getting BBFSCIP or any other sex act deemed unsafe by anyone else, particularly as a reply to a specific question about it rather than as a field report dedicated solely to where to get that, uncovered anal sex or, under some circumstances, DFK, COF, Rimming, etc.

Again, I think it's a good policy to not talk about it either way. Folks that use condoms don't want to constantly read about those who don't in every post or report they put up. In turn, those that don't would rather not hear any preaching about condoms.

[EihTooms]

I think it's a good policy. Shouldn't be bragging about either or.

Only one of those types of bragging are cited as violations of this website's Policies & Guidelines.

And it is understandable why, imo.

If a poster responds to a question about what the service is like at Such-and-Such Happy Ending PSE Shop, is he "bragging" to reply that it's great, he gets rimming, anal, cum on face, everything he wants with every girl in that shop every time?

Or is he merely replying by relating his experience there?

Similar to gilolo's reply to a poster's question.

The Policies & Guidelines here go to great lengths and into great detail about what is different about bragging about engaging in safe sex practices, denigrating others who don't and why doing so is futile anyway. I don't think any other issue is dealt with so thoroughly.

On the other hand, again, I have yet to locate the Policy or Guideline here prohibiting the mention of getting BBFSCIP or any other sex act deemed unsafe by anyone else, particularly as a reply to a specific question about it rather than as a field report dedicated solely to where to get that, uncovered anal sex or, under some circumstances, DFK, COF, Rimming, etc.

[Goatscrot]

I wouldn't want to violate that Policy or Guideline either. But, honestly, I can't find an entry in the Policies & Guidelines section prohibiting or even addressing the acts of inquiring about or bragging about avoiding safe sex practices.

I do see an entry prohibiting bragging about engaging in safe sex practices and quite a bit about not denigrating others for not engaging in safe sex practices though.

Do I just keep missing it in the Policies & Guidelines section? Can you please quote the exact passage where the former Guideline is mentioned rather than the latter?

Thanks much.

I think it's a good policy. Shouldn't be bragging about either or.

[EihTooms]

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I wouldn't want to violate that Policy or Guideline either. But, honestly, I can't find an entry in the Policies & Guidelines section prohibiting or even addressing the acts of inquiring about or bragging about avoiding safe sex practices.

I do see an entry prohibiting bragging about engaging in safe sex practices and quite a bit about not denigrating others for not engaging in safe sex practices though.

Do I just keep missing it in the Policies & Guidelines section? Can you please quote the exact passage where the former Guideline is mentioned rather than the latter?

Thanks much.

[HorseTrader]

I imagine factors such as age, existing health conditions, whether you're married, etc. Will affect your appetite for risk.

One of the biggest factors is if you can maintain a boner and finish using a condom. For many, it’s no condom or no sex.