Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[Moore2003]

Hello everyone on this forum,

First of all, let me thany you all for your advices. It is educational for newbies like me. I have one question for you all. I am kind a guy who like to lick and suck pussies but after reading all this safe sex reports I am wondering whether is it safe thing to do in Thailand. I am planing to visit to Pattaya in early of next year for first time, I would really appreciate your inputs.

Thanks

[1Ball]

I have to agree with FD and RCA on this one. The fun part, for me at least is looking for Miss Right Now. The actual act, I have found, is becoming more and more mechanical impersonal, and dull. I used to DFK, and DATY, but no more. So it pretty much boils down to BJ, slide on the raincoat, and start pumping. After 90 minutes or so of banging away, I feel like turning on CNN.
So, what to do about it ?

[Firedick]

Has anyone experience this "bored of pay money sex syndrome" in Thailand?? and your son started not to react to these hookers anymore??

Absolutely. On this last trip. If I wasn't hang'n with fellow ISG mongers like 1ball and Traveler (and was it Taz Marine?), I was bored outta my head. Spent more nights in my room with good take out food and bad TV than bar hopping.

I will go back to BNK for dental work, but for mongering, it's time for me to find some new places.

FD

[RCA Knight]

Thanks for all the advices on erectile disfunction. I tried the masterbation method. And I discovered that I can get up almost all the times by hand job myself and achieve ejaculation. And also I forgot to mention in last post that I can always get erect from some to full extend when sex with several of my steady non-pro girls that I do not use condom with.

I will check out my blood pressure and blood analysis to make sure. I am 182cm and always in range 68-71 kilos, quite thin. I start to wonder if I am just too bored of having sex with all these Thai hookers with all the condoms and no kissing and without any emotional excitement for all these years.

Has anyone experience this "bored of pay money sex syndrome" in Thailand??
and your son started not to react to these hookers anymore??

[PosterLion]

RCA,

Being that I am a certified lunatic that has lost his certification documents, maybe I can help you in diagnosing your problem.

Go out and buy yourself some porn or dig some old porn out of your closet. Once you've got the new or old porn in hand, take a gander at it while Spanking-Your-Monkey (masturbating) with the other hand. If you can spank your way to a fully erect orgasm then your erection problem is psychological.

The moral of the story can be stated thusly: an orgasm in hand is better than none in the bush, but at the same time (at least for most of us), the one in the bush can be gotten once all else is forgotten.

poster

P.S. I advise you to heed the advice given by others and get your blood checked. Not only can a blood analysis diagnose diabeties, it can identify liver problems, HIV, and a plethora of other physical problems.

And on a side note, many times after hearing the Doc say, "All system are operating at spec", many people stop having the symptons they thought they were having in the first place. Or put another way, being aware of (factual) reality goes a long way toward dispelling rumors, myths, ghosts, and many other nonexistent supernatural anomalies.

[The Traveler]

Slim72,

if you are worried that your condom might break then use some lubricant.
Friction is the dead off every condom, so put some lubricant on your best part and lots of it on the condom. That way the condom won't break even if you fuck for hours (already tested )

[Kilmarnock]

Hi guys,

I have a couple of questions:

Using a condom and assuming it doesn't brake, am I 100% safe of getting HIV and other diseases?

I'm also thinking of situations like when I am actually removing the condom, my hands will of course touch the condom and whatever tiny trace of blood might be on it, and I might touch a part of my body where I might have a small wound or scratch. Would this be enough to be in the risk zone?

Does anybody know what the statistics say about a guy getting HIV from a girl during normal intercourse? I've heard that it is very low chance of getting HIV as a guy just thru normal intercourse.

I'm going to thailand soon and I have been reading on this forum for quite a while now, and as I'm single and traveling alone I'm up for all kinds of adventures by night - except if it includes the slightest chance of getting infected.

I might be paranoid and too concered about my health - true or not I always get infected by all kinds of viruses - if someone at work is sick, I probably will get the same thing he/she has a couple of days later. That is - my immune system is probably not very good!

As you can guess I have very little experience with prostitutes, mainly because of these concerns.

Slim

Mate,

I do not think you are being paranoid. The risks are there. Anyone who plays the P4P game would be kidding himself if he did not acknowledge the risks.

If you are concerned, there are plenty of places where you can get an oily massage and HJ only.

Condoms? I have had them break. It happens, and can be damned scary.

Odds getting HIV when a condom does not break? Slim, but still possible.

One last option is the Thai Red Cross Anonymous Clinic just off Lumpini park and Soi Sarasin. HIV tests there with results in 20 minutes. You could bring a girl there if someting were to go wrong, or even before. At least you would know that she is HIV - (assuming this is the case). But of course the incubation period is 90 days, so you would only know her HIV history up until the 90 days you brought her there with you.

[Slim72]

Hi guys,

I have a couple of questions:

Using a condom and assuming it doesn't brake, am I 100% safe of getting HIV and other diseases?

I'm also thinking of situations like when I am actually removing the condom, my hands will of course touch the condom and whatever tiny trace of blood might be on it, and I might touch a part of my body where I might have a small wound or scratch. Would this be enough to be in the risk zone?

Does anybody know what the statistics say about a guy getting HIV from a girl during normal intercourse? I've heard that it is very low chance of getting HIV as a guy just thru normal intercourse.

I'm going to thailand soon and I have been reading on this forum for quite a while now, and as I'm single and traveling alone I'm up for all kinds of adventures by night - except if it includes the slightest chance of getting infected.

I might be paranoid and too concered about my health - true or not I always get infected by all kinds of viruses - if someone at work is sick, I probably will get the same thing he/she has a couple of days later. That is - my immune system is probably not very good!

As you can guess I have very little experience with prostitutes, mainly because of these concerns.

Slim

[Dinghy]

RCA - and if you are a bit overweight and thirsty all the time, it is also a possible sign of diabetes (mostly the thirst - the weight is the precursor).

One of the main issues with diabetes is the deterioration of blood vessels to the legs and eyes and many undiagnosed diabetics die from resultant circulatory heart problems.

You aren't describing having libido problems - just physical "issues". A blood test is quick and cheap. GO TALK TO A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL If you are in Thailand, the test won't cost more than maybe 400B and probably not that much

[Duniawala]

RCA

You should get checked up fast. It could be a side effect of diabetes also.

Good luck

[Firedick]

You are correct that impotence can be a sign of cardiac problems. Afterall, Viagra's famous affect was an accidental discovery while testing as a heart med. A check up might be good for your piece of mind, which might also help your "son".

"Ditto" on the good luck.

FD

[Horatio]

I heard erectile disfunction or impotence is the signal for heart disease. I am still in mid 30's, but I have so much erection problems in recent years. Now I can only get up 50% or less of the times. Or sometimes I will get erection but by the time I insert it into a woman it shrinks again. I do not have any psychological problem or any stress problem. I still get horny all the time but my son doesn't perform all the time. Is this a possible indication of heart disease?

This seems like an odd place to ask for information on this subject. If you are worried why dont you see your doctor? I would think it would be worth the money to find out.

How can you really determine that you do not have psychological problems? You could be loony as a toon and the loonieness masks the awareness that you are loony.

Best of luck to you and your son.
Horatio

[RCA Knight]

I heard erectile disfunction or impotence is the signal for heart disease. I am still in mid 30's, but I have so much erection problems in recent years. Now I can only get up 50% or less of the times. Or sometimes I will get erection but by the time I insert it into a woman it shrinks again. I do not have any psychological problem or any stress problem. I still get horny all the time but my son doesn't perform all the time. Is this a possible indication of heart disease?

[Sajer Guy]

For as much talk that gogo girls are safer than SWs or beerbar girls I am not especially inpressed with their desire to use condoms. My friend had three instances and I had one on the last trip where the gogo girls didn't plan to use condoms. We insisted on it, but there are plenty of guys who don't have that self-control and would go in anyway. The blood tests of the gogo girls would hopefully pick up an HIV case, but after weeks or months have elapsed. Who knows how many more guys she would bareback with.

Sajer

[MarcoStraight]

I know several ex-hookers who learnt the hard way- the very hard way.

That's another reason avoiding madness.I Never , ever hit something without protection since very long time.