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05-05-08 13:24 #318
Posts: 139Originally Posted by Bumholes1
But in saying that I know girls that are only interested in have one husband/boyfriend. It all depends on the girl I guess.
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05-05-08 12:09 #317
Posts: 3823Originally Posted by Bumholes1
I think this is less prevalent in Thailand (due to culture). So the majority of girls going to a pick up place will be looking for some financial help (and needing it). And yet these girls can be very choosy about who they go with, in many cases going empty handed because they didn't like the guys who approached.
In many cases no money was discussed with me at all. They were too shy. On the other hand they did not refuse to accept money when leaving and sometimes were surprised that I was reasonably generous. Many of these girls were very much part timers and only going out when short of money. So there are very large numbers of casual P4P girls that have regular jobs as well (or maybe between jobs) and may well be able to keep their P4P status secret. However girls will often be suspected of being some old man's 2nd wife (or 3rd).
One Thai girl I know, who has lived abroad for many years, picked up a Thai man in a BKK club, and although she wasn't expecting him to pay, was very shocked when found that he was expecting her to pay. She claimed he was lousy too.
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05-05-08 07:54 #316
Posts: 2102Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
As an interesting sidebar, the Thais had brothels attached to their temples 500 years ago. Of course, revisionist historians and cultural defenders don't like to be reminded of this.
Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
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05-05-08 07:42 #315
Posts: 403Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
It seems to be the ones who work in the farang sector, who have money, build nice homes in their villages, provide family with motorbikes etc. They are the ones who are accepted in their villages. Those that work in the Thai sector generally hide the fact, since they have nothing much to show for it, and merely eke out a basic living.
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05-05-08 07:18 #314
Posts: 1345Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
Do you think that's just a cheeky attempt to make the 'problem' look smaller than it is, or is there perhaps a distinction made in Thai society between the Farang market and the Thai market? You know...servicing tourists seen as more of a commercial enterprise, whereas women (of a certain class) servicing locals is, I don't know, an expectation? A duty? A tradition?
Actually, on that note, is there a difference in the way sex workers are treated in Thai society depending on whether they work in the Farang or Thai sectors?
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05-05-08 06:44 #313
Posts: 403Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
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05-05-08 06:26 #312
Posts: 2102Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
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05-05-08 05:51 #311
Posts: 1345Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
Interesting that the Thai Govt prefers to underestimate the size of their sex industry. (Over here, numbers are routinely OVERestimated). Thailand is considered both a source and destination country for trafficking by the US TIP report and would likely be under a lot of pressure to prove they're doing something to rectify the situation. That report is causing a lot of Asian countries to fudge numbers, deny problems and launch aggressive campaigns against the sex industry. Which, of course, only increases the risk of trafficking and other abuses occurring....but that's a whole other rant.
Was that 2,000,000 an 'at any one time' figure, or an 'over a certain period of time' figure? In case that doesn't make any sense, the estimated number of street-based sex workers in my city, over the course of a year, is around 200. But there are generally only between 5 and 10 street girls working at any one time. The transient nature of sex work can make firm numbers difficult to ascertain.
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05-05-08 05:16 #310
Posts: 403Originally Posted by Bob Down
There are 10 Thai girls in my village with either husband or boyfriend away, all sending money regularly. And every one of them has another man! As Trink would say TIT
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05-05-08 05:04 #309
Posts: 139Originally Posted by Retired Army
She even joked about finding a gig as it will be almost a year before I see her again.
There is only one girl in BKK that I trust and she is already taken, she is very much inlove with her man and is a good source of advice about all things Thai, she is even happy to introduce me to her girlfriend even if she knows I see bargirls.
Still yet to meet the girlfriend. Have seen pictures and she is kind of cute.
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05-05-08 04:20 #308
Posts: 133Mustache
Having lived in HK and Korea for about 2 years now I find that alot of Asian girls do not pluck their light mustache. This is more even true for Thai girls. I have seen some of the most beautiful girls (not ladyboys) with a light upper lip hair that is really noticeable from their profile. Both young and older gals are sporting it like it was in style. Even a good Thai friend of mine in HK has this mustache. I want to tell her about it but might be to offensive even for a friend to say. So what do you guys think. Remember these are not katoey but real ladies.
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05-05-08 03:47 #307
Posts: 2102Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
But, in this case I think they were originally trying to prove that prostitution wasn't nearly as pervasive or as bad as the NGOs were saying. They ended up with egg on their faces. For example, they have always stuck to the official figure of 75,000 as the number of prostitutes in Thailand. The NGOs have always maintained its around 2,000,000 and my colleague's study supported that latter figure, which alone pissed off the government. In a typical Thai move, they called the study 'faulty' and shelved it. Of course, the empirical evidence was beyond doubt. But, they simply ignored it.
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05-05-08 02:47 #306
Posts: 1345Originally Posted by terry terrier
as you said, the best new start is in a place where people don't know your background, which brings with it another set of problems. it often means starting fresh in an unfamiliar environment, with limited social support networks. it's imperative that exit strategies include additional resources for confidential peer support services, because if the girls don't feel like they can manage in the 'real world', they'll head straight back to the world they know.
the people most in need of viable employment alternatives - like the women that oth talked about, working in exploitative conditions - often have the most barriers to participation. they likely have fewer social supports, lower levels of education and may be suffering the effects of violence and trauma, like low self-esteem or social phobias. being 'low end' providers, they've probably had more contact with the police and might have criminal records. in my understanding, they're also more likely to have been servicing local men (correct me if i'm wrong) or maybe working the streets, so they'd have more risk of being recognised. these women will not survive in the real world if you just hand them a new job and leave them to their own devices.
governments and ngos never look at the big picture issues, which is why so many re-education/rehabilitation programs around the world have failed. again, it's about whether they're doing it for the welfare of sex workers, or just to reduce sex industry numbers (who cares how they cope, so long as they're gone).
ps: oth - can i ask why your colleague was commissioned to do that research? what had the govt originally hoped to establish?
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05-04-08 23:57 #305
Posts: 915Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
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05-04-08 18:07 #304
Posts: 1213To Bob Down
Originally Posted by Bob Down
Only a couple of times. Once I got caught red handed taking a girl from Thermae. The receptionst at the hotel was a friend of my GF and knew who I was even though I had no Ideas she knew my GF. First thing she did was call my GF and bust me. TGF was mad for a couple of days, then moved off the issue and has never broughjt it up since. Ever since that episode I have stuck to high end escort agencies and five star hotels to ensure something similar doesn't happen again.
My question for you is: how do you know that your Thai GF isn't doing the same thing you are?